The Girls Are Back! Are They Dating? Juicy Girl Chat Pt1
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
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I’ve found a whole new level respect for fashionable stepmom… Wow
Thank you
The most peculiar thing about you is that you took up a role of a step mum,made it noble, and did it all with grace, class and elegance
i was heartbroken by a man i thought i loved, i cried for 2 whole weeks...my mom for the first time in my life, was my "girl"..she really helped me through it and assured me that, "you are a great package that just landed at the wrong address, so he didnt know what to do with you because you weren't his package in the first place." my life has never been the same😭😭💞💞 I appreciate such convos👍
i love that
Awwww!!!
I love how Cathy is has a blend of both the old school and modern mentality. I like a mum who is open enough you can talk to without it ending in a fight😂 ( most African parents)
I can vividly remember my mum telling me "Nikikupata uko na boyfriend!!! Sijui nitakufanya aje wewe! """
😂😂😂😂😂😂 must be nice having open minded parents
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When our children are dating, sit them down and ask them about sex,unwanted pregnancy, abortions, contraception and sexually transmitted disease. As mothers we tend to forget that as our daughters are dating they are also having sex, getting pregnant and doing abortions without telling you.
'Your generation does not give space to be vulnerable. '
I felt that😩😩😥
Which is true really!
Mitchelle, this lady is wise beyond her age.
I agree with Michelle on friends/relationships. My creed on friendship and vulnerability is this, I am only open up and share with people who have earned the right to hear my story because its a privilege.
I agree with you fashionable stepmum. I think this generation lucks the commitment for deep true friendships.
Everyone wants to look like they are FINE all the time.
Also people are more likely to tear you down rather than being your confidant when you speak up, making people not want to put themselves in a position of vulnerability.
I used to tell my mum about ever boyfriend i dated, she never got to meet them but she knew about them. she guided me all trough till i got my husband.
😂😂😂😂please call for parents meeting in Kenya and you be the guest speaker...
This isn't a step mom... She is a MUM...
She's super loving
You know, such a loving Mom ❤.
Michelle seems like a bright and very intelligent lady! She's also mature with her conversations. They're so lucky to have you as their step mom.
On the topic of friendship i think for us the younger generation we should come to terms with calling people aquintances and not friends.. Because there's no point of considering someone your friend or having them in your circle if you cannot be open and totally free with one another.. Just make it clear where people belong in your life and make the most of that small circle and also be a great friend
Awww I like the talk, who else is seeing like me, Mrs kariuki looking like Janet Mbugua
True.
She looks like Esther Wahome
The girls should do outfit hauls...they look so stylish. ❤️
Coco is so sweet and beautiful . I just love how she addresses her mum
I love her too
Which one is Coco?
@@faithwahomedon3158 on your left
lucy njeri thank you.
Omg!! I am commenting like crazy! So my sister lives in Kenya and they are very wealthy and I always talk to her when I go to Kenya because I feel like her kids sometimes have an issue which is similar to what you are talking about, I think if kids think that their parent's wealth, brokenness etc does not define them. I liked it when you said "but you are kids" 31.50 My kids were born here (US) and their outlook on life has helped me appreciate "authentic identity". My kids (11,19, 24) are so proud of their achievements and they know to be embarrassed about their choices not their parents. They would never call my house their house, or my cars, they will call these my parent's cars, my parents house so this way they live within their means and only indulge in lifestyles they can fund. My now married 24 year moved out when he was 22 right after he graduated from college. I was like oooh, he left our spacious home and went to live in a two-bedroom apartment with a roommate. He said he wanted to be responsible by taking care of himself.
This is the kind of relationship I'd love to have with my daughters if I'm blessed with some in the future 👌
I've got two n can't wait 🤩😍.
Am loving this conversation, Cathy is mum goals, telling the truth as it should be, you can’t go from being single to married, where are frogs????
And the concerned mum face 😂
you are closer with them than most people are with their real mums ...never had such a relationship with my mum but i have 2 close from friends and i feel they are enough
I love the talk with the girls. I wish my mum is as understanding as you. I'm 21 currently and my mum would scold me if she finds out I have a boyfriend. As weird as it may sound I don't pick calls especially from men when I'm around my mother out of fear,doesn't matter if they are friends or a boyfriend.
Keep up the good work ❤
These African mother's be similar, hold on when you reach 25, they be asking when are you getting married. The answer is, to who? Was that supposed to be an overnight relationship? Lol
Do you hun
Our generation is obsessed with perfectionism and social media pressure. This discussion was such an eye opener.
Loved the point on broken homes. It's very rampant these days and has affected our generation's life view and relationship patterns sadly. Many of us are traumatised or have put up brick walls because of what we have seen
We need part 2,3,4,5,6,7,8 I can't get enough, 😭thankyou.. Fashionable stepmum❤️
I just wonder how someone can be this good to kids that are not her own. I have been raised by a stepmum it's been reeeaallly rough. I have never sat to even have a period chat leave alone how my day was with her
My sincere apologies. May you know joy and happiness. Blended families are quite complicated.
Its so cute how they call you mum and look at you
You are so lucky to have each other
For your relationship to be this admirable i know it took sweat and tears
Val Nyamor It did... And here we are
You young ladies are very lucky/blessed to have a mom who understands you completely.....mimi wacha hiyo dating,my guardian couldn't even allow nitoke nje ya gate,askie tu kidogo hiyo siku utajua hujui😂😂😂
These girls should know that they're blessed indeed! What a cooool stepmom! I know you have ups and downs like any other family but it's wonderful to see you guys being real. Coco and Michelle you're very beautiful and I love the way you are free with yet respect your second mom. God bless your family
U got an amazing heart. I was raised by my step mom and she was /is a horrible woman. 🤔🤔🤔🤔I hated the word step mom. U are changing my attitude now.
Simply Gee my two step mums were also witches.
Pole Sana. I hope you heal.
@@preciousx2459 u and me know the struggle 😂😂😂😂
Hugs!
Sorry Glory and Precious, hugs ❤.
Relationships are expensive and if you don't have money you can't have friends...that's what I think kills our generation...
That conversation on friendship was a message to me and everyone my age... it hit home and really cut deep...
PS: your children are blessed to have you and I love that you afford them an opportunity to be open with you and confide in you...
I feel a challenge we face in the current generation is that parents now are not open enough especially about relationships. Parents feel we should not make this mistakes and we feel that they will be against everything we have or do
It's fine to have ideals, but don't overthink things. Life happens in waves, simply be ready to ride the next wave whenever it occurs, nothing really is permanent, people change, economy changes, and now, the world has changed with the covid etc... You can plan 1,2 or 10 years ahead, fine, but also live your today fully as tho it was your last day, everything else will fall into place. Genuine friendships and relationships occur naturally, just live you life. Seek to inspire and uplift humanity an anyway you can and watch-out for pride and selfishness.
I replayed the intro so I could rewatch how you guys made an entrance. Really nice, I love the sense of style you each have.
My daughters have just gotten into their twenties so I appreciated the openness in your conversation. We have a close enough relationship and what I appreciate most is that they have honest conversations with each other even in my presence.
Thanks Cathy for sharing.
This Michelle babe is so mature for her age. Refreshing.
Don't have a timeline- every girl needs this kind of girl talk.
The girls are so confident and so is the mom. They have that successful demeanor for bright futures.
This is so true. Everything. I have a circle of friends. 6 of us. Some are closer to the others but at the end of the day we trust each other
Am gonna treat my gals this way in future,because I didn't have an opportunity like this. My mom was an African woman mwenye akikuona na mwanaume ama askie uko na mwanaume even when we were in campus,hiyo siku kungekuwa na World War 4😂😂😂
Great convo!!! Just by listening to this conversation, you can tell that Mike treats his gals n wifey well. Confident, articulate, deep and strong women.
I think social media has a much bigger impact on our generation's issues than we'd like to think. Also unconscious parenting plays a huge role. Some of our parents did not teach us how to manouvre through life healthily and now we have no choice but to learn from our peers. The blind leading the blind.
Every young woman needs to plug into this conversation especially the part about friendships.
Introducing boys and friends to parents stems from the type of relationship the parents cultivate with the children. If you make the children feel comfortable enough to be open about their relationships then they will be
This was such a healthy conversation that we need to see more of between parents and their children in this generation ❤️ Loved it .
Worrying about what people think about you will get you nowhere. Be yourself and enjoy life. Love yourself that is most important thing.
This is an amazing conversation few parents can sit down and talk there kids about all these topic
A sad generation with happy pictures..the girls are blessed to have you as mother/mentor..nice content
WOMAN KNOW THYSELF....before you enter into any kind of relationship even friendships too!
What a valid point from Koko and man oh man this made me bawl so much because as a mother and daughter myself I can so relate to this. I usually don't watch videos that are longer than 12 minutes BUT yoh sooooo much wisdom in just this one video and the level of maturity and openness you and your daughters display here is way on another level I can hardly wait for Part 2 of this talk! And @Fashionable Step mum Koko has a point about deep unresolved issues and trauma listen to them when they talk about this trauma it's real, you may think it's not there or you have done everything perfect only to realize that you children experienced trauma. I'm a mother of a 23 year old daughter and she did experience a lot of trauma also because I was a child myself when I had her I didn't even know what I was doing but even if you do know what you are doing trauma is inevitable and it's a real thing it could be just something as you bought me everything I wanted but you didn't listen to me or you were not there for me.
As for the social media comparison and boyfriends and stuff if you as parents are taking your children to these places or vacations you are not going to dream for a boyfriend to do that for you because your parents already do that you know what I mean?
THANK YOU sooo much for this talk it is so imperative, I wish I had you in my corner when I raised my Princess. You are an amazing mum and so are your daughters love how open you are and your daughters are gems, love the relationship you have with them and how they are openly they are talking to you about these issues even recorded coz they look so comfortable. I wish all parents are like this, I had to become this kind of parent quickly raising a child in the west I a whole different ball game so i had no choice and it was baptism by fire let me tell you. Love loove Michelle's dress. You guys should have a mother&daughters talk show or something like that just try to listen a wee bit more not cut each other more often.
At 19:25 when fashionable step mum just smiled, alot of parents would experience that if they listened to their kids. That being that their kids are progressing and learning on their own without harsh monitoring and instruction.
i Love this mother, exactly what i tell my friends. i told my mother every single relationship i got into and two month later i tell her, oh it didn't work and i would tell her my reasons and she asks so what lesson did you pick out of this one, i tell her and then she is like great be careful next time, this overtime helped me know what is truly good and not good for me.
my friends need to watch this video.
Be as open as possible with your parents especially girls and moms.....be open it will do you good......my mom is my bff and whenever i meet someone.....and feel a certain way....i tell her...i just mention and she becomes aware and we have conversations as time goes by......it is such a burden to keep secrets
Fashionable Stepmum your level of openness is on a higher level from other mums
Don't put pressure on your girls...they have valid opinions and it's very understandable that they are reserved about being as open as you would want them to be
Awwww you are an amazing mum Kathy your girls aren’t so blessed to have an open minded mum
On relationships: some parents are not open to know whether you are dating or not
On friendships; no one is real nowadays and I think it's competition or society pressures that can even be as a result of families, mistrust starts within the family (extended) and trickles down to friendships
Wow this so nice,i miss my mom she was my best friend,rip mom
Hugs
Koko n Mitchell are so pretty!their mom too!good video! So healthy!
They look so stuning!
They're so beautiful and eloquent
Beautiful and informative.
Someone said' A woman will never be your true friend if they are not as beautiful as you are. Ladies should vet their friends and make sure they arent competing with u.
Your girls are very wise for their age. Good job mama
Fashionable step mum is so beautiful, down to earth, cool. Your smile is so beautiful. Anyone would be proud to be your step daughter. Your amazing and setting a trend for many women in Africa.
'Where are the 🐸? '
I honestly love you Cathy 😂😂😂
I look at you guys n I see me n my mum...its the best thing ever to have an open relationship with mum..
Beautiful conversations 🌼 please post more of these chats!!
Your daughters are blessed to have such a wonderful role model like you
I like how the girls are so open to talk to you.
I felt it when they girls said the problems we face in relationships nowadays especially the part when the guy you been dating cheats with a guy,how do you even get over that,we would love for a part 2
So grown up! She's so open, this Mom 😊💛
The issue about friendship , I feel like at this age and times people are in situations because the only thing being taken from that situation is ADVANTAGE. You get what I mean, like people want to be your friend because there is something they can get from you , that's why it's very important to know who you are and what are you compatible with , yes there are people who will stand up and call you out , like you fake and all but there are those who will just go with the flow and those are the people I'm worried about . Just as Koi is saying , like right now the closest friend you'd have are people youve known all your life ,the older we get ,it's soo difficult to make genuine connections with people it's soo difficult . Soo carry with you the people who have always been with me .I Looooved this conversation amazing amazing , such content is appreciated ♥️.
Wendi ochong.. Well said.. They are called opportunistic friends.. Very dangerous aiseee..
I have loads of friends ...I effortlessly make friends coz of my personality...But all of them are on different levels...I can draw a friendship 'tree'.
Me too
My mum has been my best friend since I went to campus. She knew about all my boyfriends met 2 of the my serious relationships and finally my current life partner. My dad on the other hand only met my significant other during the first introduction ceremony. Moms understand but dad it’s a whole other story and more so respect is key in this regard!
This is a great topic,you're a real mum and a mentor,i promise they girls can't go wrong because of the transparency in between you guys,keep it up!!.
One of the chat talks I would never get tired listening to.
My inspiration.❣️
Do more on teenage talks about culture and religion
Always been inspired by the energy shared amongst the Kariuki's 👏🏿
I found my other entry on my CZcams favourites. Cathy you are one superstar. Love your daughters too.
I think what you said about friendship is very crucial and that's why it's hard to maintain them. Today's friendship are tagged on what you have and if I can get something from you if you have nothing to offer then...... Drop
Tell me about it,am learning the hard way..now i don’t keep any such things,just me,myself and I
Cathy I love this session, You are such a great mom!! I enjoy these conversations with my two sons, and we talked about all details I mean all...now my oldest married his highschool sweetheart in November they are both 24 and they dated through college and graduated in 2017, 2018 they got engaged and in 2019 they were married. I was like what I am a mother-in-law but I have known her since they were 17, they were juniors in high school and they have grown together.
You are a mum..Not a stepmum 😊😊😊🥰🥰
You guys are amazing 😉 I love how openly you speak and how honest you put everything on the table @fashionable step mum respect very gd upbringing to your girls
I just love this mummy,daughter situation on here♥️
Thank you so much Lanet
It's beautiful
you shouldnt hide your vulnarability, but someone who is a true close friend should notice when you are not okay
That intro today is what I needed you guys are full of energy.... I love the content so much... Love you guys❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Oooh I dint see that... Thanks hahaha
This is such a necessary conversation. Loved this! 😊
Realest conversation. This is really awesome. Keep it up.
This was real good,can't wait for part 2.
We are all here for it!
with friendships...yes there are alot of surface ones but there are also genuine friendships.....but at times you find that everyone is really going through their own issues that you can’t burden them with yours. doesn’t mean they are less of friends.
True
So insightful,I loved it 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Loved the conversation...very educative!!
And you talking about the friendship contract just reminded me of Nene and Cynthia's contract on RHOA..lol
Great talk . you're so motherly. I feel like my own mom is talking to me😍😍😍
@19 I would drink n add some water in my dads liquor at night... even in my 30's I doubt I would be drinking in the same table with my Dad... things have really changed
If someone is in competition with you then they can't be your friend.... This promotes envy, which is so wrong. Friends should be people who are comfortable in there own space and who u don't feel u need to like who they are. We are all different and beautiful
I really love this approach of content, so kindly on part 2 address this; is it normal if you find yourself in situations where you have singular friends and not necessarily blending to become "squad" otherwise I really admire the mother-daughter relationship that you have.
🤣🤣🤣”kuliendaje uko katikati! Where are the frogs” too funny. Loved this though
So surreal😂
Quarantine ina mambo how did I get here nikwaga wera wakuruta +44 LONDON LOCKED
You have a beautiful relationship with your gals......this is how I would want to be with my children.Good job Cathy
OMG, great convo haha reminds me of when my mum asked me if I am seeing someone 😄 Beautiful girls Cate you have.
Awesome conversation...keep it up.This makes so much sense coz nowadays people go through lots of mental distress.Having open and honest conversations really helps
Waoh, I can't wait for part 2.I love this coz I'm almost in the same age group and I can relate to what they're saying
I need a mum (daughter's) podcast from you fashionable step mum...🙏🏾
Weeh you people are burning the roof , I appreciate this talk coz I am in my early twenties especially the friendship part not all the friends I had in campus are my friends right now. With time I have come to appreciate a smaller circle 3-4 friends I can confide in. And yes we cannot be vulnerable to everyone because not everyone is genuine.
This was such an educative and interactive session.Your girls are way beautiful intelligent and vulnerable in thebest way