7 Things Confident People Don't Say
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In this talk, we're diving into the mindset of confident people by exploring the 7 things you won't hear them say. Understanding these phrases and why confident individuals avoid them can help you boost your own self-esteem and feel more comfortable and confident in who you are.
Instead of using these phrases, shift gears and focus on using empowering language that fosters growth, a sturdy sense of self, and resilience
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1. I canât
2. What did they mean by that?
3. What are they thinking about me?
4. That person being good at something is a threat to me.
5. Confident people have clarified their opinions about themselves
6. Iâm a failure.
7. Iâm not good enough.
Been working on myself for quite a while now and I recognise in myself the traits of confident people you mention here đ
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"I will see that if I can figure it out." Such a great alternative to "I can't"
Great topic today, thank you!
Hi Julia! Senior Shifter Chris here! I always love your confidence building information and tips and todayâs CZcams video covered some good ones!
7 Things Confident People Donât Say
I think one of the aeras that I am trying to grow in confidence in is changing the thought that other peopleâs being good or having something that I want is a threat to me. Now, to be clear, I love celebrating other peopleâs successâ and will be genuinely happy for others. But there is still back in my mind, that I canât have or do what others do. I think that thought overlaps with those other negative messages, âthat person has something I wish I can have.â and then I can think âI canâtâ and I think I canât because âI am not good enough.â So, it is actually a few of these thoughts mentioned in your video that really intertwine.
The good news now is that since being a shifter, I recognize these thoughts and I have the tools and resources to help overcome them. I can do a thought ladder to help me achieve a goal thought and I can do an ABCBO to help me act and get the desirable outcome that I want, and If I still donât get that outcome I wanted, it only means a setback, I wonât personalize it and label myself as a failure anymore.
Here are my notes:
7 Things Confident People Don't Say:
"I can't."
"What did they mean by that?"
"What are they thinking about me?"
"That people being good at something is a threat to me."
" Those people's opinion are more important than my own."
"I'm a failure."
"I'm not good enough."
Instead say or think this:
1. "I could do this if I chose to want to do it and believe I can figure it out."
2. Don't over think and try to figure out something and make up stories, you can ask the person.
3. YOU think about what you want to think about yourselves. "I think well enough about myself. Others are allowed to have their own opinions about me."
4. Every human, including ourselves, has something to offer to this world and someone else having something/success doesn't make it that we can't. Keep your eyes on your own journey. Don't compare. Look to others only as inspiration.
5. Confident people have clarified their opinions about themselves. "Who am I?" or "What do I want to think about me?"
6. We will all have failures in life, but don't personalize and label yourself as a failure. Failure is information and a learning lesson. "I have more to learn and have more things to figure out." or "Maybe this isn't the direction I really want or need to go"
7. I am worthy and valued just as I am. There is no way to "prove" good enough. When having those thoughts, think " I am feeling discouraged." or "I am feeling defeated" or "I am feeling hurt." then identify and process those emotions.
Thank you Chris! I really appreciate your summaries. I like to read them because they help solidify the concepts in my brain. You obviously put a lot of thought and effort into Julia's content in.order to apply the concepts to your own life, and in doing so, you help others! đđâ€â€
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Thanks for your notes Chris đđđ
@@jennywilliams6356 My pleasure. đ
Great reminders. Helps with re-entering when experiencing rejection of sorts. Thanks so much for this podcast.
Hi there, Jenny Ann, Shifter here. This is great, thanks Julia. "Sturdy and stable," I especially Love that đđđâ€
Used to struggle with a few of these and still struggle the other ones. I tend to compare myself to others, worry about what others think, worrying about failing at something, etc. But I noticed whenever I think these patterns, I intentionally stop and rethink my thought patterns and replace with more confident statements. For instance, if I think "what are they think about me," I remind myself "if they have a problem with what I said or do, I trust they will address it with me."
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Thank you so much for this. Yes just hearing it wonât change the way I think about myself instantly, but hearing a confident personâs way of thinking really puts mine in perspective. Because when you donât know there is other way you think your insecurities is normal.
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Great info. Thanks, from Australia đŠđș
Thank you Julia. This great information helps me and makes me feel lighter.
Thanks for this amazing video; JKC
đŻ th like ! Thank you so much for your inspiring words and ideas. I resonated with much of what you spoke of in this video. â€
Wow! Really have struggled with my self in regards to confidence. Thank you for your advice. I will try to use what you have said to try and get some confidence I have been lucking for quite some time now. Greetings from Essex â€
The only reason I ever believed I wasn't good enough is because it was suggested to me from many people. I figured out that they can't be good enough for me so I don't need to put up with them anymore.
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