The Shocking Incident That Ended This Cop's Career
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 29. 05. 2021
- Ex police officer Ben Pearson explains the reason why he retired early from the police force, and discusses his experiences with PTSD.
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Thanks for the experience of being on the pod, absolute pleasure talking to you boys x
you the man ben!
Brave guy
Ben- amazing bro :) Please read a book called "The body keeps the score"- it's an amazing book on trauma. Also, IMO you are not broken or damaged and healing is possible. Have faith brother. All the best x
Thin Blue Line, always
massive respect for you and all police. Commented on something of yours before. Big respect
Thank God they didn't play the theme song at the start of this clip, seriously good move guys
Thought that too. Classy move on their part!
Theyâve done it before when itâs serious this isnât the first time
Fair play, it's nice to see content creators read the mood and care what they publish.
They should change it anyway. Itâs annoying as hell đ
Yh they did it with Roman Kemp with the mental health one
Honestly we donât realise what people go through and theyâre still selfless, incredible person and a credit to his family đđ»đđ»đđ»
100%
It takes incredible will to open up about things like this, massive respect to Ben Pearson.
PTSD is one of the scariest illnesses, no word of a lie. Respect tp Ben and police officers like him.
Jackâs validation message after what Ben shared is excellent and the progression he has shown as an interviewer and a wholesome podcaster is great. The fact this has gone from a âCZcams drama showâ to a podcast that shares impact and life lessons like this is amazing. Class đđ»đđ»
Absolutely fantastic comment. Summed Jackâs recent progression up perfectly
Alex leaving was the best thing that couldâve happened
Nah not really
I think Police Officers on the whole are incredibly kind people facing huge and intolerable pressures. Ben you are a wonderful person
True Hero.
They arenât just a uniform. Theyâre human just like the rest of us.
Maybe when they're not beating up protestors and arresting minorities for breathing mate
@@CheeseyMilkshakes 99.9% of UK Cops are genuine hard working and honest people. There are bad apples. Nobody can deny that. But you get that in all walks of life.
UK police are held to some of the highest standards in the world in regards to use of force and being accountable for their actions.
@@keelanoconnell3393 A bad apple ruins the bunch, and itâs not just a few bad apples. Black people are nine times more likely to be stopped and searched than white people? Thatâs not just down to a few corrupt officers. The entire institution is massively racist, and fuck this guy for being a part of that and embracing the thin blue line garbage.
@@CheeseyMilkshakes shut up
@@CheeseyMilkshakes wtf are you on about you absolute melt I can bet you majority of police have done way more for society than you ever will haha
Thank you so much to Ben for opening up, we hope that this video may help someone out there who may be struggling with a similar issue.
Visit Ben's CZcams channel to hear more of his stories from his time working as a police officer - link in description!
What a legend
Legend
How do i watch the full episode please?
@@ianporter-nelson35 Spotify
@@pigmonkey4924 I can only find the audio on Spotify not video
The happy hour lads showing the world how you're ment to treat mental health. Never be afraid of opening up to anyone because luckily 90% of strangers will probably find the time for you because they're going through things too. We're all in this together even if all our problems are our own, but opening up is healthy for everyone involved.
Bullshit. I live in âsupported livingâ and the staff get freaked out big time when I opened up
Very true! Strongest thing you can do is open up and talk đ
@@kake_dnb1422 I'm not sure what "supported living" is but if the people who are supposed to be supporting you aren't able to do so, you need to seek out support from other sources. I promise there are people who want to listen and want to help with whatever you're struggling with. It's not always the easiest thing to find the right people to talk to (I know I had a bad experience with a therapist in college - she was used to kids who were homesick or nervous about making friends and I showed up with PTSD and a boatload of trauma which she was totally unexperienced with...) but there are people out there who are more than willing to provide the help you need. I wish I could give more specific suggestions but unfortunately that's difficult without knowing more about where you are or what you need... PLEASE don't give up because the people you tried to talk to weren't able to help. Seriously. I know how hard it is to seek help, but you deserve to get that support.
*meant
Police get a lot of stick these days but they go through an awful lot behind the scenes.
Itâs because they have a huge responsibility, so when a police officer does something bad it makes people feel very unsafe. Also a lot of it is influenced by America, whoâs police system is significantly worse than ours
Deservedly so, the police is a massively racist organisation full of power tripping scumbags. Imagine thinking an organisation which arrests people for smoking a joint, stop and search black people 9 times more than white people and ignore rape victims is a good thing.
@@CheeseyMilkshakes you chat shit about the police yet when you are in trouble youâll turn straight to themđ
@@bailey8715 Maybe, and then theyâll ignore me and do fuck all about it. All the police are good for is arresting non violent drug offenders and ignoring rape victims.
@@CheeseyMilkshakes u don't know anything at all do u
Did not expect to cry when i clicked on this video
Makes you think how hard being a police officer is yet we don't treat them well enough.
Thatâs just not true lmao. Inner city police have it hard but some police have it so so easy.
@@rThe07555 care to explain at all? or just make ignorant and pointless comments
@@James-rc6qq for example a town in wales will have a local officer who may never have to ever arrest anyone. Also police officers choose their job its to be expected.
Yes it's so hard locking the entire country in their house at the threat of prison. So hard doing the work of the 1 percent. Was very hard for the SS as well, people just did not treat them well enough.
@@rThe07555 they turn up to hundreds of road accidents where most fatalities happen
This man's a legend đđŒ
Wish the mic was a little lower, this man deserves to be seen clearly when telling such a immensely hard but compelling story of his life.
BEAUTIFUL STRONG SOUL, THANK YOU FOR BEING SO OPEN AND BRAVE! MUCH LOVE!
PTSD, depression and anxiety are no joke đđđ
The true problem is when people claim to have these to grab attention, this overshadows the people who truly have these disorders and people can not tell if they are bing real or not.
@@jayb848 I tend to leave the judging to God.
jay b absolutely 100 fucking percent. But I think alot of the reason people do this is because they feel alone and want to feel cared for, where the only way they think people will take them seriously is to pretend. Obviously there are the serious repercussions of cheapening such serious issues, but I think the need for attention is itself something which needs validation and is worth trying to help
@@jayb848 honestly as someone whoâs suffered from depression & anxiety for 10 years, Iâve never seen anybody âclaim to have theseâ. Iâve seen real people with real emotions who all deal with their problem in different ways.
This man is so brave, absolute legend.
My dad was a policeman for 30 years. I always knew he had difficult days, but I never thought about what he was having to face every day until I saw this video. Thank you for sharing.
@Calisthenic Day Trader I suppose we could all be muscle bound, cool youtubers who post mildly inflammatory comments on other people's comments 6 months after they post them, but some people just make poor decisions I guess.
@Calisthenic Day Trader Wow, such empathy....
Ben Pearson may have retired from the police but he is still saving lives. This is what a true warrior looks like.
I was recently diagnosed with PTSD so this really did resonate with me, hes an incredibly brave man. The hardest thing with mental health conditions it getting that first conversation out of you and letting people know that you are in fact not okay but once you do things honestly start to get better slowly but surely. Its okay to not be okay.
This is amazing, since the first lockdown I've developed a form of depression and its been difficult opening my mouth to speak to people. The bravery of this man to come on a podcast and talk about all of his past trauma in detail is astounding. Thank you for talking about what not many people would
Stay strong Matt! There's life in you yet bro, it will get better â€
@@jeremyhanson701 thank you mate it means a lot â€
Yo bro, the lockdowns have been a challenge for everyone, some get hit harder than others. Donât let this stupid virus and these restrictions get the best of ya. Any chance you have to go out with someone, do. Try find pleasure even in the smaller things. Be strong and keep fighting
Hope your all good Matt. Lockdown wasn't good for anyone. I heard the girl I really liked got married off to some guy in her family. That really got to me in lockdown as I was stuck in my room most of the time due to university classes getting cancelled. In the hospital I work in now there was a increase in mental health patients. Best thing to do is work on yourself and improve your self worth
Stay strong man
Ever since I watched Ben telling this story on his channel, I have gained an immense amount of respect for the police now. Since then, I've approached Police when I seen them outside a shop and had a chat with them just to ask them how they're doing, personally & mentally. They've seen shit that no one should ever really have to see, and I just wanted to let them know I appreciate the things they put themselve through for the sake of others.. I could see how much they also appreciated being asked about how they are doing.
what an inspiration ben is. as a young man who suffers from mental health issues itâs encouraging to see a man speak out about his struggles
The way Jaack and co dealt with this specific podcast was fantastic, hats off to you both. Ben is a true hero, his mental health story and journey shows such strength and character!
I want to see this guy more he is so inspiring
Hes got his own Channel, Ben Pearson its called :)
Heâs amazing. Iâm from Bradford and he would be patrolling my area and a few times Iâve been told off by him đđ
@@ellie99729 class đ
Absolute legend Ben Pearson . You helped me know that I have to unpack my back pack a bit. And now 6 months self harm free. Thank you xxxxx
Mad respect and gratitude for him to share that experience. Itâs really important that more people realise what police officers, paramedics and other emergency services witness and deal with. More support is needed, PTSD is heartbreakingly common with these guys and more needs to be done. But in the meantime as these peopleâs loved ones, friends and neighbours - we need to keep checking in with these people, offer to listen, remind them of their worth, respect their boundaries and be patient, support them and create safe non judgemental place. â„ïž
Iâve seen a few of your comments and you seem like a very positive and kind person, hope your having a good day.
@@jackservais9194 wow what a lovely thing to say đ„ș I really hope you have a nice day , and from the sounds of it youâre the type of person who is always lifting up others, but make sure to lift yourself up too x
@@Jay90210 thank you so much :)
Bless him, brave guy.
I have a 2 year old and you had me in tears with that story, so to of been in your shoes and see that I can't imagine the mental torture. More brave to talk about the effects its left on you and I hope this helps more people see they can be helped.
Coppers and paramedics go through some real horror. Thanks for telling your story mate.
I just want to give this guy a hug đ„
I feel for this man... and Iâm happy this is being talked about, ptsd/trauma in men. So brave of him to talk about this! Much love to himâ€ïž
Ben still doing an amazing job of working through the trauma, so brave, so compassionate, such a role model.
I feel for this dude so much. So much respect to him. People donât realise the strain and trauma some officers carry.
I lived directly around the corner from this incident and remember how much it effected me and I didnt see anything. What a hero this guy is.
I remember when this happened also and every single time I drive down that road, even now, I think of that poor little lad, every time, so lord knows how it plays on the minds of those involved. Heartbreaking
This is why I passionately hate people who target the Police and bully them. Yes, not all Police are nice but no one is in any walk of life. These people day in, day out do their upmost to keep us safe and pay the price eventually. All my love and respect goes out to you Ben. I wish to be a Police Officer in the future and am inspired by youâ€ïž
You passionately hate people who fear the police because the police do kill people. Racial profiling causes disdain between minorities and police. The police arenât perfect and a lot of them arenât great people.
Am absolutely hooked on Ben channel. Hes so captivating when he talks.
You are so amazing mate big respect đŽó §ó ąó ·ó Źó łó żđȘ
best video you've put out jack, raising awareness. He's defintly not alone
Massive respect to Ben for sharing his story and thoughts!
I came across Ben when he uploaded the video about that incident and I cried for ages. Would honestly say he possibly saved me from doing something stupid. He helped me unload some of the weight of my backpack and he is an absolute inspiration
This man deserves so much respect, so blessed to hear this story , this man is so beautiful, and for jack to take it in well done mate , we love u â€ïž
Utg
Thank you for sharing thisđđŒđđŒ
Thankyou itâs the strongest thing you can do Iâve seen my dad cry and heâs a man I wouldnât have thought would have cried in front of me and itâs so important that everyone talks if they feel anxious or depressed
Respect all our officers out there for putting themselves on the front line to protect us! đ
How can you have the heart to dislike this. I could not care less about how you feel about jack, you need to grow up and respect this man. This is truly amazing, the fact this man has been through this and has expressed this so publicly is something that is nothing short of a miracle. RESPECT THIS MAN, HELP THIS MAN, SUPPORT THIS MAN, LOVE THIS MAN.
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@@alfxemxrtin4596 I can't see dislikes anymore you won't be able to see them soon either
@@mightymouse5029 You are part of the test group
@@Timmymantwo yeah it's bullshit!
Thanks for sharing Ben
Serious Hour with Happy Hour. It was an absolute pleasure to listen to PC Pearson speak on his experiences. Thank you for producing this episode.
Ben is one of the most amazing people to watch and listen too on CZcams. So much respect for him and by telling his story is helping so many more people. Keep up the great work đ
Total respect to you, Ben, for telling your story and having the courage to show your vulnerability and wear it with pride. Youâre an ambassador for PTSD awareness. As a paramedic of over 25 years experience I can say (with conviction) that not you, I, or any trauma surgeon that I have ever met could have made the outcome any different. Itâs just a horrible tragedy. But when you have this condition all rationality goes out of the window. I wish you a healthy retirement from law enforcement and continued success with your channel. Thank you for your service and commitment and to you and everyone reading this- Merry Christmas and a safe and prosperous 2024. â€
People like Ben, that will help anybody out before tending to their own struggles, I have so much respect for. This was an awesome podcast to listen to
Mad WHAT A LEGEND so many on the frontline and we donât even realise
You donât know what other people are going through never judgeđ€â€ïžđ€đ
Wow. Brave bloke. Bravo, keep pounding out the message
My mother was very similar she survived but is disabled now this really hit me I was only 17 at the time Iâm 22 and I still suffer with ptsd from it đ .
Thanks for highlighting such a emotional story.
Well done on talking about it . Legend
Thank you for doing what youâre doing. This is absolutely crazy. I always knew who he was, I never ever expected such horrible news. Heâs such a strong character. We love you, our mateđ
What a legend, thank you Ben for all your work đđ
I think this needs to be shared more. Everyone should watch this.
I salute you. For being open. And it takes a bigger man to weep. It's not health to keep things in.
This is a diamond of a conversation. Amazing podcast, significant topics that we all forget, hearing this really makes you appreciate our public services. We all have moments of trauma but for a police officer they have to commit to trauma on the daily. These people are the bedrock of our values and sustain the security, safety and reassurance and trust of the public. A true eye opener! Keep up the goods!
Absolute hero, keep going for everyone else you got this bro đđŒ
To recognise you need help shows great strength of character.
Thanks Ben for your service and here's hoping it gets easier as your life moves on
Just listened to the full pod and itâs amazing!!!
Wow I canât believe Iâve only just seen this.... thank you for sharing. This is so powerful â€ïž x
What an incredible person credits to him and his family thank you for the unselfish acts you do!!!!
Sending you a big hug Ben xxxx You are such a lovely guy and you will help so many people with your honesty in this video. I love your channel xxxx
You're a very courageous man God bless you đđđ your channel is great...glad I found it x
Massive respect to Ben for sharing all his storys what a guy watch his videos all the time he's great
I was hooked on this podcast! Very well done guys đ
I'm in tears listening to this i lost my uncle last year to cancer my great garandads dog died(put down) to cancer my great grandad to covid 19 newmonina as well 93or 94 years old . starting my GCSE in my year (10) getting help for my struggles and i dont hide it it makes feel better. Talking to people at my school
What a lovely dude. Keep on keeping on Ben, youâve got this mate
I've said it before on your own chanel Ben. I truly believe that you will be the officer that breaks down the barriers between police and society. You share stories in such a way that you are able to connect with the audience and they are gripped by what you say. I genuinely hope success in your new pathway. I can relate to everything you say and I do my best to offer support to my colleagues having developed anxiety myself in the same role you were in. I wouldn't wish it on my enemies and can pick up on others suffering it even before they do.
Simply put you are a beautiful person Ben! You get me every time I hear you! Keep strong
honestly ben is one of the most down to earth blokes ever, absolutely love watching his videos
I never comment on CZcams but this is exceptional, what a truly moving story, I'm in tears. My heart goes out to you Ben, I hope you manage to deal with the burden you live with â€
Just everything about this is a touch of class. I really respect this đđ
Ben⊠Iâm so so sorry for you loss, this definitely brought tears to my eyes bless you man, hope you live the rest of your life the best you can do.. respect manâ€ïžđ€ŠđŒââïž
Great u got him on! His channel is great!
Ben , you are just one amazing and brilliant man , it will get better, I have been through it and in tim with the correct people around you and support and gradually letting yourself off the hook it will come right . Brilliant mate
Incredible story, really sad, sending him love and support
Happy Hour... This however was great and important. Thank you guys!
Thank you for your service and all the other officers.Yes men can cry there is no shame.đđ»đč
Very inspirational Ben Pearson đ I'm dont know a lot about mental health but I hope you feel better overtime
This is one of those podcasts IL remember probably forever unreal stories unreal guy,well done to you guys for getting such an amazing guest
I donât listen to you religiously. But every now and again a podcast catches my eye. You may be seen as a comical interviewer, but you have reached levels, with normal human beings, that seasoned, respected journalists, interviewers will never reach. đđđđđ keep doing what your doing. But always, remember who you are. đđđđđ
That's how i lost my mum too (she had stomach ulcers and they raptured) and she ended up on life support within a week or so, very fast to get to that stage tbh. Me and my family were absolutely crushed by the news. Hardly even got to say a proper goodbye đą as quick as that nd we still recon it was due to the operation she had on her heart a month before her sudden collapse and death đ I'll never get over it either unfortunately.
Honestly crazy to see how much it affects people feel bad that he's just doing a job and carries that stuff around, stay strong đȘ
I watch this blokes CZcams channel. What a human being with a fascinating story. However sad some of it is, its doing something positive by sharing. Thank you for your service Ben and thanks to the lads for bringing him on.
I fell three times in three days and every time someone came and stopped it happening, my back pack was overwhelming đ. I survived and now have a little girl , be strong and talk đȘ
What an amazing guy. Iâve subscribed to Bens channel. Keep up the good work!
Mental health is a killer and I've been at that point where my head was so full I couldn't see a way of getting through to the next day and that was when I knew I had to get help.... A year of therapy and I feel like a weight has been lifted!.... I'm now at the same point as Ben in that I'll openly talk to anybody about my past and how I felt and I tell people that no matter how hard life can be the most powerful thing you can do is talk!
Thanks for Ben, for different things, I have complex PTSD due to childhood and domestic abuse, I was also abducted by a peado at around 5 years old, I have back flashes and I think I'll always try and remember the policewoman that tried to help and question me, unfortunately I was to young to be of any help as such, I found out as I got older that he had abused his family members. Raising awareness is something we should do more. Thanks for speaking out Ben. The mh system here for me has been terrible and has added to my mh problems, so now I'm sat here with severe anxiety, agoraphobia, depression, probably cptsd, social phobia, generalised anxiety and OCD, I need to be rediagnosed but my GPs are a bit pants tbh. I also have fibromyalgia. I'm truly grateful to those that speak out about their own experiences.
Ben you are amazing thank you for sharing your emotions you really are a great guy ...
Biggest respect Ben if I ever pass you and notice you would love to shake your hand legend wish you a brilliant future you deserve it
I know I've said it before, but I'll say it again. Ben you are an inspiration
. You are helping to fight the stigma of mental health. Its OK not to be OK. I know your feeling of the backpack with a recent loss and going back to work. And because of you, you have helped me get through it
Thank you for your service Ben. Keep talking and telling your stories and hopefully one day you can sit down and take off that backpack.
That was a tough listen, with kids I can't imagine how he felt when he seen that kid
Ben your stories have helped me get diagnosed with cptsd
How the actual fuck have 8 people fucking disliked this video. I would genuinely like to talk to one of those people and try and find what is wrong in their head.