Ben Affleck Monologue - Saturday Night Live
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After Ben Affleck learns there won't be any other members of the Five Timers Club on hand to celebrate, he explains his Oscar acceptance speech about marriage with help from his wife, Jennifer Garner.
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this is so weird watching post divorce
their papers were never signed and I hope they will not go through with it.
Lenka Tal yeah, they signed.
I agree sooo cringey ...just watched this as he is news again with jlo etc ...how flaky he seems ugh
Ben really loves his Jennifers. But I think Gardner was better for him.
Yeah it funny to see them go from being a happy couple to getting a a divorce years later
Favourite couple. I love how she said "I love you, have fun with the show" to him 4:10
Great memories Ben and Jenn Garner. God bless you no matter what happen now.
She's such a sweetheart... Wish they are still together
that marriage speech reminds me of Gone Girl
lol
I just watch it. It seems to resemble the status of their marriage that time. It normal for him to hook up with other. Did he have relationship with the girl in real life? Now with this show, shokus is jusf around. How she felt that time? What an ugly thick skin.
Why do you say that “that marriage speech reminds you of Gone girl?
what do you mean
In his speech at the award ceremony where he won best picture for Argo, Ben said their marriage had been hard work for the past 10 years. She became teary-eyed, and the audience burst into laughter, so he said there was no one he would rather do the hard work with just to make her happy 😂
Ben is a lot of work… literally.
Jen was so in love with him, but it looks like he never got over JLo and here we are in 2023 with Bennifer 2.0.
Which is currently falling apart since your post and all signs indicate that Ben regrets Benifer 2 and regrets losing Jen Garner.
Here we are in 2024 with the Bennifer 2.0 divorce 😂 Ben made the right choice by having kids with this Jennifer 🤌🏻
Ang the result of bennifer is failed
She's a pure soul.lucky ben afflect
Lmao this is hysterical. Marriage is hard period but yeah it was odd when he said that I’m his speech. I guess it’s telling in retrospect
Jen always with her sweet smile.
Sigh... They were a beautiful couple.
He is lucky to have an ex-wife who cares for him so much. Iam here in 2021
He lost big when he lost Jennifer Garner. She's such a sweetheart.
And I think he completely realizes that now. I’ve heard him allude to it many times since the divorce.
@@kimberlybellefontaine1215 It's still worth being said.
Wouldn't know if she's actually a sweetheart but she's so put-together and respectable, he looked like a total mess without her lol
@@hollywoodshopaholic I feel like she served a mom role with him. He’s kind of lost regardless. He just needs to grow up.
@@hollywoodshopaholic She stood by him during rehab and helped him get help post divorce. I think she’s a good human being.
And jennifer garner is still a massive blessing on Ben's life.
He was really lucky.
was
Amen to that❤️❤️❤️
Lol!!!
How do you know? have you dated her?
It is such a shame that they broke up.
+Radek Seky it is
+Radek Seky Jennifer... Who?
+Radek Seky Jennifer... Who?
Garner
sameen shaw and all women are gold diggers, dont forget this
0:48 on the top right corner is that Kylie Jenner lol
Lol
A battle for control with these two. The writing was on the wall.
That's such an interesting observation. 😆👍🏾 JLo said Ben always wore the pants in their relationship.
Yes I can definitely see that. They’re both super charismatic and have similar vibes. I don’t think that they’re compatible. Jlo looks like she would be the boss and the one in control, but JLo just wants to be loved and to love, she’s way more easy going than Gardner. I think Ben and Jlo balance each other out. Plus, Jlo is so in love with Affleck and respects and adores him. You can see that Gardner did not view him that way but was exhausted with him.
@@meltemo.4139 well, to be fair, he seems very exhausting
@@Maya-ig9kx Ben Affleck was unhappy in his marriage to Jennifer Garner and it showed in this monologue and a man in love doesn't embarrass and humiliate their spouse for years like Ben Affleck chose to. I understand that people didn't like hearing that Ben Affleck only stayed with Jennifer Garner because of their kids in 2021 but it was obvious to me years ago that Ben Affleck was unhappy in his marriage to Jennifer Garner and that many people overlooked that until 2021.
@@meltemo.4139 I think that Jennifer Lopez really loves and respects Ben Affleck and they both have successful careers and support each other without jealousy or resentment. Jennifer Garner's career never recovered after "Elektra" didn't do well at the box office and she didn't seem to want to work much after she got pregnant the first time. After a very short time everything became all about Ben Affleck and I think that it didn't really help that Ben Affleck did the bear minimum as a husband.
They were a nice couple. Beautiful souls Garner. God bless you and ur new family.
They were a beautiful couple ❤️... Its really sad that they broke up
Jennifer Garner did do all the work in the marriage! Supporting you, putting her Career on hold,raising the three kids, putting up with all your gambling and drinking !
Just to be publicly embarrassed by him and his "real love".
@@B-ch6uk yep.
Looks can be deceiving. Did you watch Gone Girl? Garner was like Amy, America's Sweetheart, but a devil in disguise. She manipulated Ben by getting pregnant while still married to Scott Foley. Or do you think that he was trying to get another man's wife intentionally pregnant? This was no accident but not by Ben but Garner. She wanted him at any cost.
@@leahmiller37 ughhh than he shouldn't be messing with a married women than...takes 2
@@lunaForever2020 He sure shouldn't have been messing with a married woman!!! I bet he has regretted that since forever now!!! He respects her as the mother of his children but that's where it ends. That's bc he resented how she conned him into marrying her even though it all played into the damage control campaign for his involvement with Jennifer Lopez. But Garner was pretending to be his shoulder to cry on over the loss and fiasco made over Lopez on the DL. She seduced him and he caved. She shouldn't have been having sex with anyone but her husband, Scott Foley. In fact, she cheated on him with her Alias co-star, Michael Vartan and then Ben Affleck. So it's easy to see what her game was about!!! She wanted an A-list husband to take care of her bc she wasn't trying to make movies after the kids got older.
I love the way they love each other
Lindos recuerdos de 💌 amor ellos todavía se aman no se pueden olvidar de todo lo hermoso que vivieron
my favourite couple of all times!!
Yanki Doma Awkward now they're splitting!
Honest Tech and I couldn't be more heartbroken than I already am! :(
@@nolibranocrime5814 Are you still heartbroken 6 years later?
@@hopper6094 ngl I kinda like jlo & ben together too 😆
I prefer Ben and Jennifer Lopez together
Seeing this, I think they belong together. Ben is a fool for divorcing Garner and leaving his lovely family.
Disagree there Ben is not a fool because of the children he did try several times to save the marriage it doesn’t work why stay in a marriage you’re not happy nope it’s time to get out
Real life gone girl situation 😂😂
omg; they were amazing
It kind of sends me chills down the spine coz I can't see Ben actually happy after Gone Girl.
Man that movie really fucked me up!
I just saw Gone Girl, like today. It messed me up so bad that I actually think this was an indirect way for him to express himself in his marriage. Even in the movie they say “it’s work”. J Garner is America’s Sweetheart after all. Scaryyyy but I’m going to stick with my gut here. Thank goodness he’s free now and clearly much happier.
@@user-ll1xl1wv5w totally agree with you thank god he is not with jgarner anymore
this reminds me of Gone girl. Wondering what he is whispering to her..
I just saw Gone Girl today and I came to this video to see what people are talking about. Not only do I think you are right, I’m so glad he’s out of his marriage.
@@user-ll1xl1wv5w why?
I like the Ben Affleck real thing. The air agrees and that as they say is that. The AIR is in your favor. This is NICE. Happy Holidays Affleck Family, BAKoller
Lovely couple Ben and Jenn Garner. God bless 2 both of u.
Beautiful moments, God bless you, it's a shame to see them separately
Still the best Electra ever!!!
How can you use great,fabulous and Kanye West in the same sentence?
George Tarantino Kanye West isn't great or fabulous.
Zac Winter I know,thats why Im asking.
I was pointing out that it's a valid sentence with those words in it XD
Zac Winter
It's been 5 years and seeing no one object the comment makes me feel we all agree on something
the way he kiss her is so ._.
She's a ray of sunshine
Batman Batman Batman!
screw you all you "batman" fanboys. I'm a huge Batman fan and Ben Affleck makes a good Batman!
wolvie041007 YES!!! :D
Amy Dante i am in love with your eyes
wolvie041007 empty like my soul
Amy Dante they are beautiful
wolvie041007 thank you ^^
Lovely couple so sad divorce but still co parenting with their 3 childrens. God bless Ben Jenn Garner Affleck 3childrens. Stay safe and healthy.
Jen made my day. Love her.
4:11 wonder what he whispers in her ear...
Do not watch Gone Girl.
"I'm in love with J Lo"
Everyone's sad about the divorce, I'm just mad that they didn't do a 5 Timer's thing for him. SNL you suck for that.
It was such a cute couple
3:57 lol the look on the dude's face
yeah very interesting body language.
daredevil and elektra....
💜😍 some Ben time
Jennifer ❤!
I'm here for the comments.
a couple who can fake a fight.....
Love Jen!
They're obviously made for each other
The character of Gone Girl reminds me Jennifer G, someone who would act the opposite to their reality
What!!she IS sweet
Good luck w your own ben
Doing a bit talking about how great the marriage is while showing underlying tension, hmmmm, perhaps not that smart
Currently the divorce seems to have been postponed, this speech sums up why. I don't think they will go through with it.
Oop
Sike
Uh oh
Wow the comments on here have aged so well
This is the most awkward "Saturday Night Live" monologue that somehow got more awkward and uncomfortable as it went along.
I think it was planned that way
@@B-ch6uk No, this monologue had nothing that was remotely funny or entertaining, it was just completely awkward. A better monologue was the one Ben did when Gwyneth Paltrow came up on stage with him. I wasn't surprised that Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner got divorced after watching this monologue.
@@amusicfan25a21 It wasn't funny or entertaining but I think it was meant to be awkward. If that makes any sense.
@@B-ch6uk It was not one of "Saturday Night Live's better monologues or episodes and I will leave it that.
@@amusicfan25a21 you mean she IS akward ?!
This is the last monologue for Ben Affleck and I will have to wait until his movie star to get an opening.
They were really nice couple. Sad it didn't workout. Now I'm glad ben is doing really good now. And also happy for bennifer 2021.
I'm not happy with Ben and jlo because their family doesn't get along with each other
They got divorced less than two years later
2018.
My FAVORITE BATMAN ever!!
Who here thinks Jennifer Garner should host SNL?
At what point did he become involved with the blond producer on this show? It was before he split with Jennifer Garner, I believe. Some people just need constant drama, and I think Ben might be one of those people. Hopefully being with JLo will be enough to last him a lifetime, because I really hope they can make it this time.
So sweet :)
I love that I love you
AWKWARD
"His marriage" yeah.
Ben your a beacon of hope among trying hopeful gents and ladies.....👨👩👧👦👨👩👧👦👨👩👧👦👨👩👧👦👩👦👦👨👦👦👩👧👦👨👧👦💫Thank you Ben.
I'am F*CKING Matt Damon!
Oof why is this so sweaty? Ben went into full Nick Duhne mode.🎉
If you read the letter in Kevin Smiths secret stash book his biggest regret is not thanking Kevin Smith for the 2nd time that letter made me cry
What do you mean by that? And which was?
B A T M A N
Ben Affleck & Matt Damon ---> best bromance
Bill Hader, by the way would be a great Joker on the Afflecks Batman movies??? :)
Why do I love them together?
Goddamit, why did they get a divorce?!
Brandon Mumek The nanny so I heard
Cause it wasn’t working out for them and the Nanny thing was actually after they divorced
They divorced because of his alcoholism, cheating, and gambling. He cheated in 2013 with Lindsay Shookis, a producer on SNL. At the time he and Garner were still married. After they separated in 2015, he had a fling with the nanny.
@@albasalvat9101 According to what I heard, the nanny was the last straw that broke the camel's back. So it happened before the divorce. He was never happy with Garner. He became very resentful when he realized that she had manipulated him into their marriage. She pretended to be his shoulder to cry on after his breakup with J-Lo on the DL bc she was married. She seduced him. Then he looks around and she is pregnant while still married to Scott Foley or do you think he was trying to get another man's wife intentionally pregnant? NO!!! He didn't start doing all the drinking, gambling, and cheating until he married her. He wanted out of the marriage and refused to pretend he was happy with Garner. Now, there's no problem since they divorced! Watch Gone Girl to see how it is so telling about their marriage. Ben was not happy bc she just wasn't his type and he couldn't get over being tricked into a relationship. Would you trust a woman if she conned you into a relationship? This was no accident, she planned it but it didn't hold up bc he truly loved J-Lo.
@@leahmiller37 Yes you are correct---the nanny fling was when they were separated, but still legally married. He also cheated on Garner in 2013 when he started an affair with Lindsay Shookus, a Saturday Night Live producer. I read somewhere that Garner traveled to New York to confront Shookus about the affair--she found out about it by checking Ben's cel. phone--and Shookus did not back down when Garner asked her to end things with Ben. That affair lasted several years, but was an on again/off again situation since Shookus lived in New York and Ben was in California. Talk about messy. Ben married Garner because she got pregnant while they were dating. She was 3 months pregnant when she married Ben. Garner flirted with Ben while he was still engaged to Jennifer Lopez and she was still married to Scott Foley so she is no goody two shoes as the media always portray her. I also read that Garner and Affleck were going to divorce the year before their son Samuel was born, but postponed that move cause now there was a baby on the way. As we all know a baby can't fix long standing marital problems in a relationship. So glad Ben is now so happy to be back with Jennifer Lopez!!! Hope they get married and find a house for all of their combined kids.
Wait he didn’t even get the jacket
un-be-liev-a-ble!
💔💔💔
Dang
God I love him
Janice Griffin and Harry Hernandez hosting SNL and Tedtv
He's so handsome he has a choice of beautiful intelligent wohen.
Wdym?!
Ben... is a great actor...
Yeah he pretended he was a Husband for 10 years 🙄
@@LA-gh3mi he didn’t pretend to in his marriage he did try several times to save his marriage because of the children but it didn’t work
Ben how u can lose this miracle!1111111111
Another woman who loves Ben is Sandra Bullock
ガーナーさんとベンさんが最高素敵夫妻に学びたいってよい気持ちですけど二人別れないように死ぬまで仲良くほしいと思います。
Well, he is an actor.
KatharAtlantean
WTF does that suppose to mean?
Love Ben
BATMAN!!!!!!!!
Best Batman Ever.
#Batfleck
AGREED!
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Nah, that would be Michael Keaton.
Well he is with Jennifer
He changed so much after the divorce. He's more serious now.
Well let's see if this "JLo Effect" changes his personality back.
He was so handsome and happy here. Now? hmmm
@@B-ch6uk excuse me back then with garner he had a tumultuous marriage now everything is going good thanks to the lord
@@rosemarieramirez3460 You have to admit he was happier and more handsome when he was with Garner. Look at that clip.
@@B-ch6uk nope Ben was not happy with jgarner
That was awkward. They seem to have a control problem between them. They don’t balance each other well. They’re both super charismatic and have similar vibes. I don’t think that they’re compatible, hence the divorce. Jlo looks like she would be the boss and the one in control, but JLo just wants to be loved and to love, she’s way more easy going than Gardner. I think Ben and Jlo balance each other out. Plus, Jlo is so in love with Affleck and respects and adores him. You can see that Gardner did not view him that way but was exhausted with him.
Lets wait if ben will become alcoholic again then Jlo will be their it would be media buzz still JG stick with ben though the worst time of his life lets wait and see if JLo could stick with ben for another 10-15years as what JG did👍🏻
@@rielalonzo6152 Have you ever thought that maybe his drinking/gambling re-started bc he was miserable in his marriage to begin with? he tried to stick it out for his kids not for her. He didn’t have that drinking problem while he was with Jlo back in the day, he’s always loved Jlo and now that he’s back with his TRUE LOVE he’s not going to seek out to alcohol. He’s happy now so instead of hoping that things go downhill for him why not wish the best for him?
@@NormaLilia24 i wish his the best but its not like Jlo and ben would last either jlo history of many many many man makes us believe they are the one look at Arod. 😁 And Ben affleck started being asshole since gweneth time and to j lo and to garner to nanny to ana de ramas and and now back to jlo again what makes you think this will make a difference. Jlo newly broken up with arod after 4yrs of being together like most of the time on social media like they seem to be the end game with all the engagement fuss with all their social media circus and now thisss???what makes ou think that they are the end game???they both seriously needed help and time to heal not to rush up things and to all the pda like they prove something of love and lust that is for dying papparazi/media purpose only🤣🤣🤣 then after a year or 2-3yrs they seen with other couple again??as i said i will believed this circus if they will last more that 10yrs🤣🤣🤣if not i just watch and eat popcorn and see if this "so called true love" between them would last the test of time👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻and if your a real fan of JLo how many time you supported her so called perfect lovelife since the time for Mark anthony✌️
@@rielalonzo6152 Garner is on her fourth men since her first wedding. Keep shaming Jlo.
@@rielalonzo6152 the only one who doesnt stick is ben. he is weak. when his movie with jlo didnt go well he decided to ended their engagement and walk away. jlo was alone facing all the criticism, judgement and humiliation, ben wasnt there for her. he never stood for her at the time that jlo needed someone. instead ben blamed jlo on his career failure. what a f@#$king gentleman he was right? lol now karma on him. garner divorced him and he became miserable. all the women dumped him. hes desperately needed someone on his life. thats why he reached out to jlo. now all the blame he did in the past he ate them all.
She’s a good woman
they were a real hot Cople 😊
so sad he chose the nanny smh
He looks more relaxed, laid-back and comfortable with Jennifer Garner. With is current more tense and uncomfortable.
their chemistry tho 🙃
Nonexistent? Awkward? Unhappy? Uncomfortable? Yeah, I noticed it too.
MsBahbii I'm Bennifer, I love Ben and JLo but I hate it when people say Ben was weird and unhappy with Jennifer Garner. It's not true! They were a beautiful couple and will always have an eternal bond: their 3 children.
@@francyl29 That is just my opinion of what I observed. Marriages are complex because relationships are complex. It's not always pretty. I think Ben tried to make it work with Garner but I believe the way they started doomed their relationship. They didn't start from a place of honesty and integrity. So that flawed beginning set the stage for the way their relationship would play out. It happens to a lot of couples, unfortunately. I think it would be better if people would refrain from trying to manipulate their partners to satisfy their immediate need for gratification. I believe that would make for much healthier, long-lasting relationships that could endure and withstand the natural up-and-down cycles of life.
@@francyl29 He was! From jump wasn't that into Garner and it was obvious. J.Lo has nothing to do with it.
@@lareina9071 I agree, Ben Affleck cares for Jennifer Garner but he just didn't see her as the love of his life and I wasn't surprised that Ben Affleck and Jennifer got divorced after seeing his awkward thank you to Jennifer Garner after "Argo" won the Oscar for Best Picture. This monologue was awkward too.
He blew it big time losing her......"you're a lot of work" ,that pretty much says it all......
Whens he going to play springsteen
When Ben said I love you she did not respond they look more like siblings no passion whatsoever 😒
what are you talking about? in a recent interview he regretted divorcing her, even wanting to get back with her, She refused, Love is growth. Stop getting caught up with public affections and a 3 minute video clip. She is one of the main reasons why he is alive today.
It was because she knew he doesn't love her and it was just a lie, he was only acting for the audience.