The Love Seat Ep. 3: Love Languages | Hanging with the Hamiltons

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  • čas přidán 8. 04. 2021
  • 5 Love Languages Quiz: www.5lovelanguages.com/quizze... wrote a book - Leap of Faith! In our book, we share everything in our lives that led up to and prepared us for Love is Blind, all the behind-the-scenes secrets not shown on the show, and how our married lives have evolved since tying the knot. You can preorder your copy of the book now! bit.ly/LeapofFaithbook​ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- We delve deep into the five love languages and give examples of how you can 'speak' each one. We also went out to hear what you had to say about love languages and answers were surprising! Finally, we chat with our favorite guest, Chantel Cohen, who shares some wisdom on how to communicate with your partner when your needs aren't being met. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Chantel's Resources: Fixer or Connector Quiz: becomeoneagain.com/fixer-or-c... For Therapy/Counseling: www.chantelcohen.com/​ CZcams: / @cwccoachingtherapyatl... Instagram: / chantelcohen

Komentáře • 165

  • @godsgrace2277
    @godsgrace2277 Před 3 lety +95

    Tears started welling up when Lauren said Cam warms the heat pad for her during that time of the month! Oh my goodness!! Yes Lord! Heat is our friend!! 🙌🏾🙏🏾🥲😭😄❤️

  • @benedicte6522
    @benedicte6522 Před 3 lety +260

    The way Lauren keeps looking at him 🤧😭 You can feel the love 🧡

    • @lorrainep1282
      @lorrainep1282 Před 3 lety +2

      I disagree. The way Lauren continues to peck Cameron when he goes in for a kiss seems distant and cold. Look at the book signing episode. That’s not the only one just the only episode I can remember.

    • @JasmineN84
      @JasmineN84 Před 3 lety +13

      @@lorrainep1282 maybe lauren is shy when it comes to kissing him on camera. Maybe she wants to save that for private

    • @lorrainep1282
      @lorrainep1282 Před 3 lety +2

      @@JasmineN84 that’s a possibility. However I’ve never seen shyness come off as cold and distant. Don’t get me wrong. I think they’re an attractive couple and I am looking forward to an episode of there double digit wedding anniversary. All I’m saying is the peck thing is noticeable. if it’s some type of insecurity I understand. The beautiful thing about insecurities is that they can help you build on your authentic self, which produces tangible growth.

    • @beatricedevarenne2621
      @beatricedevarenne2621 Před 3 lety +3

      @@lorrainep1282 people see what they want to see! Not everyone has your sharp 👀... Anyway it's not our love story son who cares!

    • @lorrainep1282
      @lorrainep1282 Před 3 lety

      @@beatricedevarenne2621 🤔

  • @kaapy1353
    @kaapy1353 Před 3 lety +145

    It’s so crazy that they met on a tv Show. They are literally amazing, both of them

  • @KekesEnergy
    @KekesEnergy Před 3 lety +163

    A mature relationship

  • @lutorres555
    @lutorres555 Před 3 lety +214

    You can really tell that they really love one another by the way they look at eachother

  • @serenity_wellness09
    @serenity_wellness09 Před 3 lety +114

    I love their series, they should have a tv show on this!!!

    • @mirab4518
      @mirab4518 Před 3 lety +9

      They really should have been consistent and really advertise it good. The series is so dopeee ✨

  • @britishmazibuko9187
    @britishmazibuko9187 Před 3 lety +43

    I think Lauren would be a perfect host on E Daily Pop. Her commentary is so funny and honest.

  • @katattacktak
    @katattacktak Před 3 lety +49

    Another thing to think about is the question "is my partner trying to show me love in a different love language than my own?" For example, your partner may be trying to show you love by giving you thoughrful gifts when all you want is for someone to clean the dishes 😅. Its good to acknowledge what they are trying to do and try to steer them in a different direction rather than saying "why dont you ever help me around the house! You dont love me!" Or whatever.

  • @madebyroenahands5847
    @madebyroenahands5847 Před 3 lety +35

    Good seeing you guys are still together. We have been married for 40 years one of our ways getting to know each other is praying together. God made us more sensitive to each other needs, when we have something important to say about our needs we don't interrupt each other while talking, last but most important "WE DON'T GO TO BED ANGRY" our 4 adult children always says " MOM and DAD is joined at the HIP. LOVE IS A COMMITMENT NOT A FEELING.

  • @MsFlipped365
    @MsFlipped365 Před 3 lety +29

    Am I the only one who needs a Lauren and Cam Lookbook? These folks are beautiful inside and out ❤️.

    • @Onyxoko
      @Onyxoko Před 3 lety +2

      I loved watching them meet each other ❣️

  • @saracastillo6117
    @saracastillo6117 Před 3 lety +10

    I’m so glad to hear your advices.
    I am 45 years old and during my whole life I have hard time showing love; because the way I have been raised (where a hug, an I love you weren’t part of my childhood ) , got sexually abused and then got into a marriage without any experience of how to love and accept love. 14 years later got divorce.
    Now I got married again and I am fighting against myself to accept that my past won’t determine my future.
    I sat with my kids and my husband and we were agreed to as a family be aware of the importance of showing love.
    From saying I love you at the end of a phone call to sit and listen about our day (no matter how tired we can be) we are doing something that could make the difference.
    Again it’s not easy, but definitely it’s posible.
    Thanks Cam and Lauren ❤️

  • @Gigi_K
    @Gigi_K Před 3 lety +53

    Find a cuter couple!! I’m not gonna wait cuz there isn’t any 😁 Love you two and love your love! 💗

  • @gabystar5493
    @gabystar5493 Před 2 lety +8

    7:32 - The way Lauren touches Cam makes him so happy... look at his huge smile! Love this video. The interviews were so professional... Great job guys!

  • @tishawill3486
    @tishawill3486 Před 2 lety +3

    Physical touch and acts of service are mine and i'm glad that Cam pointed out that Physical touch isn't JUST sex, it can be a shoulder rub, holding my hand etc! and acts of service can be the small thoughtful considerate things, if you stopped at starbucks and got my favorite drink just because, if you surprised me with a great meal just because ...it makes you feel loved.

  • @geelogee362
    @geelogee362 Před 2 lety +5

    I love this session. In the past I would think telling someone what I want is too much work.Cameron and Lauren's love for each other makes me realize love language is definitely necessary to make a relationship last.

  • @slimgirls78
    @slimgirls78 Před 3 lety +26

    Very interesting vlog, including interviews with the public was a nice touch. Lauren, you are looking stunning as usual and you both look healthy and happy :) X

  • @philonyembo1253
    @philonyembo1253 Před 3 lety +6

    Nope, their love is a true love not blind at all… match made in heaven!!! Love love love the Hamilton ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Lolamich
    @Lolamich Před 3 lety +12

    Learning your partner's love language is very important. Mine is definitely acts of service.

  • @lisasmithentodd3594
    @lisasmithentodd3594 Před 3 lety +16

    For the 100000th time, I love y’all. This episode was sooo good. Dr. Cohen so good. Love languages are so important

  • @liljahn24
    @liljahn24 Před 3 lety +19

    The love you two have is palpable!! Thanks for sharing this show with us!! 🥰 👏🏾🔥

  • @ask_why000
    @ask_why000 Před 2 lety +2

    Receiving: Acts of Service
    Giving: Words of Affirmative

  • @kamikoils9336
    @kamikoils9336 Před 2 lety +7

    This resonated so much with me. It took YEARS for us figure out the love language thing and specifically learning how to love each other in our own preferred love languages. My love languages are Acts Of Service and Words Of Affirmation, whereas my husband’s are Physical Touch and Quality Time. Although I grew up in an affectionate family where we all hug and kiss, I’ve never been a “touchy feely” kinda person and my husband is. So that was something I had to get used to and get out of my comfort zone in order to accommodate the way he likes to be loved. It makes a HUGE difference and when I finally grasped that, I quickly noticed how much better our marriage and intimacy became. It’s nothing like coming home from work to find my husband has already handled dinner and picked up around the house. Or waking up to breakfast and iced coffee from my favorite local coffee shop!
    We are almost 21 years into our marriage and I feel like it’s better than ever!

  • @CandyMarie67
    @CandyMarie67 Před 3 lety +32

    I literally LOVE seeing you guys still together and happy. 😍 You both look so amazing!!!!

  • @FullOfJoy_
    @FullOfJoy_ Před 3 lety +16

    I love the new hair do on both of you and the content is *chiefs kiss*

  • @shemngugi.590
    @shemngugi.590 Před 3 lety +5

    Hey Lauren and Cameron. I must say that after watching the series of Love is Blind, I am your No. 1. Fun. From the series you were my favorite couple. Worth to Emulate. I just love your LOVE Story.

  • @asiadunlap9768
    @asiadunlap9768 Před 3 lety +15

    Hey family! Yayyy a new episode🥰🥰🥰

  • @angelaharvey1167
    @angelaharvey1167 Před 3 lety +45

    My husband knows my love language is food!!! Both of us!!!😂😂

  • @carolinezawaira192
    @carolinezawaira192 Před 3 lety +9

    Good to see you after a long Break love from Granny Carol in Zimbabwe-Africa

  • @kimberlykyles4697
    @kimberlykyles4697 Před 3 lety +16

    Hey The Hamilton’s it’s great to see you an you look great keep vids coming 😍😍😍

  • @laurensmith4828
    @laurensmith4828 Před 3 lety +6

    I'm words of affirmation. My husband is the same! Not surprisingly, we're both writers. We praise and compliment and dote on each other frequently!
    "Willingness" was a great answer from Chantel. An ex told me "words were meaningless" and stubbornly refused to speak my love language because he didn't see the point. He said I should just learn to accept his love language from him and be happy with it. HA.

  • @jennifervillegas9058
    @jennifervillegas9058 Před 3 lety +65

    Mee watching just to support you guys still being single af 🙃

  • @lindsaydawntoreadandwrite
    @lindsaydawntoreadandwrite Před 3 lety +13

    My husband and I rely so much on love language. When we need more we always say our love tank is low or if we are good we say pur love tank is full.

  • @MyFitgirlLifestyle
    @MyFitgirlLifestyle Před 3 lety +5

    It’s so important to speak the love language of your partner so they feel loved.

  • @mrsrandolph3905
    @mrsrandolph3905 Před 3 lety +11

    My love language is when my husband does something for me just because and it doesn't have to be a holiday. It's the small things that matter

  • @lindamealingnelson975
    @lindamealingnelson975 Před 3 lety +7

    My favorite couple! Just watching you two grow has been a wonderful journey

  • @venicedaley7040
    @venicedaley7040 Před 3 lety +6

    Enjoyed entire video from beginning to end. Great job you two.

  • @benedicte6522
    @benedicte6522 Před 3 lety +12

    It’s been so long 😭😭 Great episode as always
    Keep them coming
    Love y’all ✨

  • @FrancinaB13
    @FrancinaB13 Před 3 lety +11

    Love u guy's mature content. Not raunchy and over the top with explicit filth and/or profanity!!👍.... And i think u guys should add more music/movie snippets and sound effects to go along with the content to add humor in ur videos!! 😁🙂

  • @evolutiondynasty6372
    @evolutiondynasty6372 Před 3 lety +7

    Love you guys so happy you guys are doing so good. Looking forward towards seeing more things from you guys 💕

  • @charmanedennis1013
    @charmanedennis1013 Před 3 lety +7

    Hi guys,great to see y'all,you guys are so real and I appreciate that

  • @vanettemartinez9597
    @vanettemartinez9597 Před 3 lety +1

    Man I feel like you two shared a past life and found each other again! You meld into each other!!!! I pray you always “MATTER” to one another! GODSPEED on this journey of life together!!!

  • @zehrafathimavillegas8232
    @zehrafathimavillegas8232 Před 2 lety +2

    I really admire this couple. Hope you will be given a TV show focusing about marriage relationship

  • @AuNaturale2012
    @AuNaturale2012 Před 3 lety +8

    I’m definitely a Quality timer ❤️❤️
    Also if you think someone isn’t getting your love language, don’t drop hints be direct. “my love language is....”

  • @lafaralove6992
    @lafaralove6992 Před 3 lety +6

    Love you guys, I see you're still hanging on strong and I just love your love 💕

  • @stxky10
    @stxky10 Před 3 lety +2

    this ep hits the nail on the head, thank you thank you thank you

  • @lonnienrena
    @lonnienrena Před 3 lety +1

    Truly enjoyed this episode. Love you guys !

  • @carenn4461
    @carenn4461 Před 3 lety +7

    Great content! Missed y’all!

  • @renitab664
    @renitab664 Před 3 lety +4

    Sally, Damn! You’re wearing that robe!!! 🤣🤣 Love you both! ❤️

  • @JB-io1we
    @JB-io1we Před 3 lety +4

    Love ❤️ this. Really needed with today’s relationships. Most couples are in the selfish “me” zone and don’t realize a problem until it blows up. Remember communications is key and love ❤️ language is a big part of it. Show caring and u noticed partners needs and understanding of who they are. A willingness to make the relationship work and know each other. Much love and success to u both. Love u guys!!!

  • @phumzamacanda3236
    @phumzamacanda3236 Před 2 lety +3

    I'm a sucker for romantic movies and yours is a real love story. It's so inspiring to watch. I wish all the best, all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @shervettecoleman2445
    @shervettecoleman2445 Před 3 lety +2

    My primary love language is acts of service. I completely agree. Very accurate. I love the discussion. Thanks guys.

  • @mariaramdhial6262
    @mariaramdhial6262 Před 3 lety +4

    Thanks so much Shontelle ( sorry for wrong spelling). You have such a refreshing disposition in teaching about relationships.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @mariaramdhial6262
    @mariaramdhial6262 Před 3 lety +3

    Beautiful hearts found love forever 💖💖💖. Always learning something from The Hamiltons. Willingness yesss ( delivery system)

  • @colleensmith283
    @colleensmith283 Před 3 lety +1

    Love you guys so much! Keep up the Great work and remember to pray 🙏together. God bless you both🙏

  • @user-tn6sh9xk4x
    @user-tn6sh9xk4x Před 3 lety +1

    잘 보고 있어요! 우연히 넷플릭스 보고 두분을 알게 됐는데 행복해 보여요 ~ 항상 하는 일들 잘되길 바라며 계속 좋은 소식 올려주세요

  • @tristaneflorine3694
    @tristaneflorine3694 Před rokem

    I just can't get enough of these two..

  • @lorenabrito408
    @lorenabrito408 Před 3 lety +29

    this is such a mature content, i love it 🥲❤️

  • @heidi7243
    @heidi7243 Před 3 lety +2

    This was fun and informative! Looking forward to the next installment!

  • @whitneysinspired801
    @whitneysinspired801 Před 3 lety +6

    Love you guys 🙏🏾

  • @graceidunachampong6973
    @graceidunachampong6973 Před 3 lety +3

    I am proud of you guys I believe God had planned your marriage before you met. Please continue to love each other a lot of people are ruling for you ❤

  • @biancabelltran3255
    @biancabelltran3255 Před 3 lety +4

    yayyyy I missed you both 💛.

  • @AshantiRashad
    @AshantiRashad Před 3 lety +6

    I love the content that you all have and great advice makes me believe in love again 😊

  • @BigBadYaYa
    @BigBadYaYa Před 3 lety

    They are real goals they are so genuine

  • @carolinezevallos6366
    @carolinezevallos6366 Před 3 lety +1

    I love showing someone that I love them by giving gifts but I love to recieve acts of service

  • @dianac9651
    @dianac9651 Před 3 lety +5

    ❤️ amazing video! I love you guys!

  • @tp9661
    @tp9661 Před 3 lety +1

    Love this series

  • @nonofolekbao9931
    @nonofolekbao9931 Před 3 lety +2

    I love you guys soooo much! Gosh!😭😭😭❤❤

  • @stacyjpoliticscommunityfai359

    Oh my goodness y'all are such a gorgeous couple.....I love it!

  • @radiantheartrevolution1076

    This was amazing. Bless you two.

  • @carolinepoll643
    @carolinepoll643 Před 2 lety +2

    Hello there, hello from the heart of the Pacific, the heart of Micronesia. I'm your biges fan. Thank you so much, for reminding me of the lessons that I lernd in my college days.

  • @pay4739
    @pay4739 Před 3 lety +6

    missed you guys 🥰

  • @ngalabadi8862
    @ngalabadi8862 Před 3 lety +1

    Also love the concept of the love seat, very good

  • @julietteSoul
    @julietteSoul Před 3 lety +3

    I feel your Love😘 both so adorable 🙏🏽

  • @ngalabadi8862
    @ngalabadi8862 Před 3 lety +2

    I wish you blessings and a long life together.love you!

  • @naturallydope6971
    @naturallydope6971 Před 3 lety +4

    The book is AMAZING

  • @candicewilliams3996
    @candicewilliams3996 Před 3 lety +1

    I can't believe you guy's are still together after the Netflix show.. Amazing keep up the good work 💪

  • @vanessalucas5553
    @vanessalucas5553 Před 3 lety +1

    Hello Cameron and Lauren it's a blessing seeing you both I really seeing you all 🎊🎉🎉🔥🔥🔥🔥♥️🙏🙏

  • @prudenciacardinaz-byer3488

    I love you guys so much, from the first time I saw you both in the podcast I just love you, Amber and Barnett a lot. I saw that love real love.

  • @ms.drodriguez412
    @ms.drodriguez412 Před 3 lety +1

    Great episode. This topic is so important Bc so many miss the mark on love language. 💕

  • @lystralavalas9210
    @lystralavalas9210 Před 3 lety +2

    You guys are the best.

  • @eddedream8586
    @eddedream8586 Před 3 lety +2

    Sally just threw her robes out 😂

  • @marlynmorgan3658
    @marlynmorgan3658 Před 3 lety +1

    I so love this video! ❤❤

  • @edithmoore2023
    @edithmoore2023 Před 3 lety +5

    I LOVE the way you both love each other!
    Blessings to the both of you.
    💙❤

  • @rudolthomas8126
    @rudolthomas8126 Před 3 lety +1

    Another amazing and beautiful video. Kudos

  • @VeggiesbyEos
    @VeggiesbyEos Před 3 lety +3

    My love language is acts of service and my exs was physical touch and we mainly broke up because of our difference in love languages. He was pretty lazy in terms of cleaning/running errands/getting stuff done so never really fulfilled my love language. I grew up with parents who never even kissed or held hands in front of me and I think that made physical touch just something i dont think about. It's not that i dont like physical touch with a partner, but it's certainly something I will never initiate. These are things we talked about with each other but in the end our love languages were just too different.

  • @CROSSTATT
    @CROSSTATT Před 3 lety +2

    This is an awesome romance! My love language is physical touch.

  • @hollyebacon7792
    @hollyebacon7792 Před 3 lety +2

    Love the love languages! Another thing that really helped me was learning my husbands enneagram number!! Life changing 🙌🏻

  • @raynettescoggins702
    @raynettescoggins702 Před 3 lety +1

    My favorite couple. 🧡

  • @berniceshaffer-parmeley2784

    Bishop TD Jakes; said on his CD “SacredLove Songs” that Communication is the Key, and Understanding is a Ministry. Check out his CD, “Satin Sheets Slide” is my favorite!!

  • @shirleymusubika1676
    @shirleymusubika1676 Před 3 lety +3

    Loving on u guys from Uganda!!!

  • @propheticmissionchurch2241

    Love this guys 👦

  • @willineadam9220
    @willineadam9220 Před 3 lety +2

    I love love you guys

  • @Onyxoko
    @Onyxoko Před 3 lety +1

    I just love them

  • @RDCFemmes
    @RDCFemmes Před 3 lety +12

    you should do a series with couple from reality show and they keep the relationship going.

  • @ufomechanic11
    @ufomechanic11 Před 3 lety +10

    They’re soooooo cute!!

  • @marx3670
    @marx3670 Před 3 lety +7

    God loves you🤍this is the sign you needed x

  • @nuriasilva8970
    @nuriasilva8970 Před 3 lety +4

    the way he looks at her every time

  • @mariajay983
    @mariajay983 Před 3 lety +1

    Finally is been a Minute I miss u guy’s

  • @gomo8523
    @gomo8523 Před 2 lety

    New subbiieeee....watched Love is Blind and I loved how you both connected. 🤩🤩....then I landed here....

  • @starksce1
    @starksce1 Před 5 měsíci

    I'm 73 years young and I love this couple.