Mother vs. Daughter
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- čas přidán 24. 09. 2023
- The plaintiff says the defendant is her daughter. She claims her children were put into foster care because of the plaintiff’s destructive lifestyle. She’s suing her daughter for a damaged tire, a broken window, and emotional distress. The defendant says she and her siblings were taken away from the plaintiff because she was physically abusive. She’s countersuing for emotional distress.
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The fact the tears INSTANTLY turned off when the judge said stop crying 😮😮😮😮 woah she’s a cold lying piece of work
He seen right through her fakeness
Lol most women have the ability to turn on the waterworks at will. That's pretty much standard
@@blackestknightx8881Oh no you don’t. Men are excellent at turning on the water works 😊
@@jearl3054 transsexuals and lesbians are not men
She was about to put on that performance. But JM was like miss me with that bs!!!!!
She gave up her kids basically so she could be on the streets. And she bringing her child to court to sue. Can't make this stuff up folks. 😒
I know right, it never fails...smh
She's probably doing it for tax reasons.
Right
She was a mess and still is a mess, That poor baby got a crappy mom!
Sounds like she couldn’t even get the street life right. In addition, she kept making babies!
Poor daughter looks emotionally stressed and tired poor baby.
The “I did everything for you” line shows how delusional she is
Ain’t been in her life since the age 4, but she did everything for her.? Yes, she’s completely delusional.
The ending has me in tears. The daughter finally got the chance to say it.
Tough situation to deal with. Hopefully the daughter can overcome the mother's traumatic behavior
I applaud the daughter for being able to express herself. I do hope that the daughter is able to heal and live the life she truly deserves to live!
The same!! That daughter has a long road of recovery and healing in front of her. She touched my soul so deeply!!!
The defendant needs to go and get therapy because you can physically see the exhaustion and emotional distress on her face😢 She needs to stay away from the plaintiff.
Sometimes its best off is the Cut ties off from their parents. I have few friends that cut off their Moms and never wants nothing to do with them. This daughter needs to get some Support from other folks and Cut her Mom off for good.
I knew within the first 2 minutes the mom was full of it after her immediate attempts to cry with no tears.
And after saying full blown custody like wtf😂😂😂
Poor daughter. She seemed so exhausted by her mom. Pray she sees success and happiness.❤ The mom should be ashamed and I’m glad JM got on her. Save the tears!
I can’t stand a mother that will apologize for the reaction their child had to their behavior and not address or apologize for their own behavior. She totally missed the point. I pray for this young lady.
I agree! Such a heart wrenching situation for the young lady.
Mother brother sister dog cousin… I hate when ANYONE apologizes for my reaction rather than their actions that offended or hurt me! Some people are simply incapable
It triggered me hearing that because my mom says that 😢.
They literally see no wrong in their doing and take zero accountability for their words or actions.
When you hold them accountable they claim you are just acting out of emotions and there was a misunderstanding or worse they'll tell people you're mental and that you react.... like that because it's something wrong with you so outsiders will dismiss if you ever told the TRUTH
If this wasn't my mom's behavior
@@kayamen2021One day someone will believe you, as there are many of us who have had to endure this treatment from our parents.
How can this mother sue her very own daughter considering this families horrible history. Speechless
Well, why would someone impregnate this lady??
Their history has nothing to do with the case. She didn’t have evidence anyway.
Absolutely, it does. I disagree. Mathis judgement was based off their unfortunate family history did you not watch. This was an emotional decision that he made.
@@adrianknight1406 it was but seemed to be the right one
@blackestknightx8881 I agree with both comments from you and @pineapplesplash9166. JM was disgusted by the plaintiff's abusive past history and the ongoing negative traumatic effects that the defendant was dealing with from the actions of her mother. Also, the plaintiff lacked concrete evidence to make a ruling in her favor. I pray that the defendant finds peace and gets real help with counseling to overcome that emotional drama. ⚖️
“ I did everything for you .. for you and your siblings “
That has gotta be a huge slap in the face to say to the daughter . Because girl clearly you did nothing for them 😒
Most selfish Mother ever. I'm glad the Judge went went Medea on her
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING SMH
Mental health is important. Plantiff failed her daughter but someone failed the plantiff if she had a child at 16 and running the streets. It's a cycle. They BOTH need help.
‘Mental health’ too often becomes an excuse for behavior towards harming another person and when it comes to your own children, your responsibilities do not evaporate because u have a mental health issue, she clearly is avoiding working on herself and went back to the kids as a broken adult expecting them to be her comfort blanket and punching bag at the same time
Exactly
I wonder if the plaintiff was a victim of SA. Some SA victims suffer from mental health issues. And they may be the reason why she was violent as a teenager.
@@rozirozeNope. Poor mental health is the biggest reason for abuse and poor decisions.
@@rozirozeI agree. Mental health does not excuse a person for being a shitty individual. In2010 there wasn’t a real stigma about getting help, so everything the mother is saying is an excuse. Coming back when ur kids are practically grown and treating them like garbage is messed up on so many levels.
wow, her talking about getting arrested, being a teen parent, etc made it really clear that from the VERY BEGINNING, she tried to gain the Judge’s sympathy. the kids that she abused are the ones who need it more than her! 😒
She's a professional manipulator
How you gon be a bum mother and turn around and SUE your daughter?! 🤨
She cares about her raggedy car I guess
You answered it , she's a BUM ! 😔
Plaintiff has no accountability blames everything else but herself for what happened to her kids
All she cared about her Raggedy ass Car.
Sadly, that's true. ⚖️
That’s her life is it yours don’t judge nobody live your life people can’t get ahead cause they so focused on what other people doing
Should have gone to therapy.
That's what the majority of them do.
She was a bum "mother" then want to come and sue her kid. Some of these women make me sick.
The audacity to sue her daughter for emotional distress was almost laughable
@@Nevaeh1what would you expect
I don't know why the Daughter gave her Mom another chance by move back with her from the begin with, Why didn't she just stay with her damn Father.
That was not an apology at the end, she got me heated. You can't apology about someone feeling hurt, you need to apologize for hurting them. I bet this poor girl feels so stupid because her dad probably told her not to go to live with her mom.
The mother began the case tearing up. I knew she was going to lose. JM doesn’t play with abusers. It sad when I look at the daughter I see a 5 year girl old looking for help. I’m happy JM believed her hopefully offers counseling
Exactly! Plus, I didn't even see no tears at the beginning of her case, dry crying...smh
That woman said, “I apologize that you hate me, I apologize that you think worse of me.” What type of apology is that? How is she apologizing for the way her daughter feels, rather than apologizing for what she done to make her daughter feel that way.
I feel so bad for the daughter. I’m glad you spoke what she felt instead of brushing things under the rug saying “I forgive you” when really she doesn’t. It’s so sad.
I feel for this young lady. Her mother is dangerous. Cold as ice but manipulative...trying to act like she's the victim.
That young lady needs to get far, far away from that dangerous mother. She needs to go away to college, the armed forces, some type of program that will give her the chance at a better life .
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@@jearl3054How about with her Father? We know you women hate losing
You can’t manipulate JM…and when you try…he makes you pay 😂😂😂
Hmmm. I'm only halfway into this case but I find it funny out of her own admission she didn't know the steps to take to get her kids back. But she damn sure know the steps to take on how to sue her daughter, embarrassing this poor child even further
The plaintiff clearly has a cognitive issue. Poor daughter 😢
I could tell that right away
Special needs
I hope Ashley has a support system and is doing well in life 🙏
Yeah she’s not a mother at all first your kids get taken and you can’t get them back because they said NO… then you bring the child you didn’t even raise to court to sue
Say it w me DEADBEAT mother
I would be so ashamed being a bad mom and then suing them !
Plus she was beating them up
I have no problem with a parent suing their kids as a teaching tool.
Like every so often you'll see a parent only sue because their kids aren't living or doing right.
However, I do have a HUGE problem with deadbeats suing their kids, even if they legitimately have a case.
Just take the L like your child was forced to in regards to your absence for all those years.
These deadbeats have some audacity.
@@brennenjones6658 exactly! Take the L! How dare she bring her child here after being a deadbeat mother. She is a liar wow it’s so sick!
They have ALL the audacity!!
@@sarahrean7174 right. Did she expect her child to not tell the judge THE TRUTH. She is a vile human. A narcissist ALL DAY & TOMORROW
Any parent who has abused or abandoned their children should jump through hoops anytime their children contact them, saying they want or need something to ensure they get it. That is the very least they could do given the damage they cause(d).
Love when he goes off on these crappy narcissistic parents. 9:02
I love it when Judge Mathis does this because it needs to be done!! We live in a world where this has been swept under the rug for way too long but not with him!! We love u Judge Mathis for listening and being a voice for the voiceless and enforcing righteous justice🙏🏾⚖️👨🏾⚖️💪🏾💯💯💯
That mother just reached out because their dad had the kids..that mother seems jealous of her kids..just sickening 🤦🏽♀️
The mother is probably jealous of her daughter that she got her life together (as much as she can) despite her trash mother.
Full blown custody is a new one
We see why she never got her kids back 😮😢
I thought she was going to say crackhead 😅
@@scottrogue946 they said abusive when the show started tho😹😹🤦🏾♀️
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 definitely lacks accountability
Ok we all see that the mother didn't want to take accountability for her abusive behavior towards her children.
Mathis saw right through the moms crocodile tears
If I was the Daughter, I would've just walk off the courtroom like don't give a damn and cut her Momma off. I wouldn't buy that crying bullshit and she (MOM) the one did all the wrong to her kids and Grandkids. What kind of nonsense is that, over a damn Raggedy Car.
There's absolutely NO EXCUSE for physical abuse on anyone. Humans or animals.
Emotional distress on the mothers behalf is ridiculous! She is the emotional distress!! That’s her daughter!!!!!
The mama apologized for her daughter’s feelings not her own actions 🙄😂😂😂😂
Not her saying she did everything for her but she never took care of her she’s really delusional! Then take her to court to SUE HER OWN CHILD ! Wtf
Same parent suing their kids shameful!
As someone who is the product from teenage parents from drug-infected communities…she’s not telling the complete story and escaping accountability. I was a foster child for five years and my mother fought for YEARS to get us back. She was up against wealthy and educated people…but she brought finally brought me home. My mother made a ton of mistakes along the way and still has a long way tot go.
this is a confusing post. did you not like your foster parents?
@@rondaallen7211 Does that matter? What does that have to do with what I said? I was speaking to how the mother isn’t fully accepting accountability. I chose to use a personal experience. What does that have to do with my original point of how she’s not explaining why it took so long and why she’s lying about why they didn’t give her children back.
@@Travonna14 your personal experience seems to be a mom who was irresponsible but whom you are championing. it does matter and it has everything to do with what you wrote and the way you wrote it.
@@rondaallen7211 i dont know you so it doesn't matter.
@@rondaallen7211what does him liking or not liking his foster parent have to do with anything?
When the daughter said she truly hates her….whew. Nuff said. 😢
The defendant Ashley Jelks is a beautiful girl. From young she went through very difficult times. Now with her mother she is again going through abuse. I admire Ashley for her strength.
Dry the tears plaintiff. We ALL have a sob story. Apologize for not doing better, ask for their forgiveness, forgive yourself, and sincerely, do better now.❤
This is a very sad case. The cycle of abuse is horrible. Ashley, I pray you are doing well I wish you God's richest and greatest blessings always!!!
As the mother who wasn't in her life, she should just be humble, apologetic, and hope that her daughter will forgive her. This is an example of repeated trauma; hopefully, this young lady will end the cycle with her children.
Ruining her daughter with a LIFETIME OF TRAUMA. And, the Plaintiff sues over a tire. I'm glad the daughter got some things of her chest(at the end). The Plaintiff said she apologizes that her daughter hates her and thinks badly of her, but NEVER apologized for her own actions. I pray for the Defendant and hope she finds the love she needs.
I sure hope he hit the j before this case otherwise hes going to be crabby crabby 😂
You can tell the daughter was scared her voice is cracking talking about it
Holy ghost fire!!!!! mannn when she said i gave full blown i was not expecting her to say custody 😂 thought I was going to have to ask Jesus to take the wheel lol
😂😂
I'm glad to see my mind ain't the only one that was going there. I was about to say let us pray. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The mom is crazy lying at the end too 😢
That "I hate you" at the end broke my heart, and that's not even my daughter.
So sad, prayers for them both. I hope they both get professional counseling & live better lives.
Judge 💯on this case!
Mathis with that fake laugh. I knew he wasn’t gonna be on the games with her after that laugh 😅
Dude in the back behind her in blue shirt always so chill has the best laughter in the audience had an appalled and confused look the whole time...
This young lady needs to get therapy which I thought JM would offer her. To live in such pain as she is she has to move out immediately and live her life. Scars are real whether seen or unseen 😥😥
SMH…. I’m going through the same thing with my mom and I’m 34. Some mothers shouldn’t even have that title
I just want to go give her a hug that baby looks scared and sad
JM gave it to that mother. Praying for the daughter
I would of walk off if I was the daughter at the end.. Go be great babygirl ❤
She started crying INSTANTLY!!! Geeze. Once they start doing that, just know that it’s about to be some messed up stuff they did.
Her trifling ssa!!!! I knew that judge Mathis was going to get her when he found out that she was a deadbeat mom!!!!!
She hadn’t seen her daughter in 10 years and she’s saying she did everything for her? What?? Smh I believe the daughter and the mother just thought she’d get some sympathy. Shame on you for suing your daughter!!
It's sad cases like this that help put things in perspective and understand what's truly important in life. Also, it makes you appreciate the blessings you have in your own life. This was truly a sad case and the outcome at the end even more upsetting. People need to understand the potential pitfalls and the tragic outcomes if parents don't play an active and responsible role in the upbringing of their children. Blessings to everyone in the JM community. ⚖️ ✝️
I’m glad the judge SAW THE TRUTH
I hope the daughter heals
Another woman with zero accountability for her actions.
The plaintiff: “ I’m sorry you feel this “ “I apologetic you feel this way “ “I apologize you feel worse of me” . No accountability whatsoever. Her daughter is hurt and still hurting , her mother doesn’t care about any of her kids and is still 16 mentally. I pray for the daughter and all her other children that they can find healing , love , and peace .
That daughter is beautiful. The mother needs to take accountability. Judge got on her ass.
The daughter needs to get away from her - college, navy, some type of program that will help her with a new beginning. I wish that young lady the best
@jearl3054 Exactly and maybe some therapy as she goes through life so she doesn't become angrier then she already is.
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My mother is the same way
And I feel nothing for her
People need to understand
If children can have absentee fathers and not bond
It’s the same with mothers
And I can assure you
It hurts more!!
Her daughter is traumatized
😢😢😢 I knew judge Mathis was going to go off on her... Lord have mercy. Y'all pray for that baby ❤
She needs to get away from that lady
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The more I heard the dependent talk the more it sounded like she was speaking from a hopeless place. MAY GOD BE WITH HER
i will never understand why abusers cry like they have been victimized. that was a sad case.
I would love an update on Ashley 🙏🏽💙🤞🏽
Yea she need therapy. Hopefully she stopped having kids. Great job to the father for stepping up for his children
I hope this daughter overcomes this situation with her mother but most importantly the mother needs to take accountability and start making amends cause she has definitely damaged her children
The second she didn't address the abuse allegations she lost her case.
Smh it seems like once a mother is abusive, she’s always abusive. These toxic mothers are so brutal. So brutal. It takes years to heal from that and some never do.
the way she tried to fake cry and immediately was stoned faced after he told her to stop the bs
Judge Judy where you at 😂😂😂😂
1:43 selfish. You lost your father, your mother lost her husband. And instead of getting the opportunity to grieve, she had to raise your kids. Ridiculous
What a beautiful daughter who just wants to be loved properly. ❤
I hope she gets away from that woman because she’s no mother
The mom needs some serious counseling as well as the daughter.
She should know judge Mathis doesn’t play when it comes to bad moms and kids
So horrible they both need help. Mother has childhood trauma & didn’t know how to be a mother in the midst of that had children & more and traumatized them. Feel horrible for her children
she only wanted them back because they was with the guy that didn’t want her
How does a criminal "NOT KNOW ABOUT THE COURT PROCESS" This woman just doesn't care...and, has the nerve to be up here suing the daughter she ruined.
The mother and that BAD ACTING.... SIT DOWN
I luv when judge gets fired up,he dnt play about kids
She was mad bcz the daughter got a flat tire? It can happen to anybody!!! I agree with the ruling!!! Mom & daughter needs Alots of therapy!!!!!
Had all those trick babies and now her karma is coming. This us what happens when you choose “the life “ over your children.
“ I hate that I have to wake up and look at you everyday “ 😂😂😂😂😂 it’s sad but funny
I really thought she was going to say, "I genuinely Love You " She said I hate you lol She fooled meeee
I desperately want to bless this young lady I know this is dated but she deserves it
Her mother is a narcissist. They always act like the victim, when they are the oppressor. The narcissist's past childhood of abuse and trauma, they don't fix, and they put that on their own children. The daughter needs to get her own life away from her mom. The daughter needs therapy for the trauma her mom subjected her to, so the cycle of teen pregnancy, mother daughter abuse, is not generational curses, and done away with for good. 😊
You have to walk away from blood sometimes. Yes there are millions are horrible mothers. Keep your distance from any horrible person. It's better that way.
Judge Judy "um is not a answer"
That “Mothers” tears means nothing. Why should anyone take pity?
I pray that things work out for them they need counseling and lots prayers
Thank you, Judge, for dressing down this unrepentant mother. She deserved every bit of vocalization she received from him And the daughter. So glad the daughter got the anger out of her system. She's probably the good kind of soul who's going to feel bad about how her anger came out, but she had to get it out Loud and Clear, because that mother has put her and her siblings through a living hell. Hopefully Judge Mathis and his staff will keep an eye on the daughter and the siblings and be able to follow-up closely with mental health care so that they can heal from the long, long years of mental and physical abuse and neglect that this woman foisted on these innocent children. This is another episode that left me weeping. 😰. Fk... life, aye? 💔 God bless the children - Please. 💐🙏🏽💞
The mother needs help too, but let her get her own, for she just seems too superficial and uncaring about her own blood. How sad.