What to Do if scholars, muftis, or preachers differ on a matter 🤔 👉🏻 Demand for proof from the Quran & Hadith, or check yourself No matter Who the preacher is, we muslims must check what we have been taught is really from the Quran or Hadith 🔍 Scholars, muftis & preachers are supposed to be our guide, but as we can see they are all differing therefore the best solution is to demand for proof ( Quran & Hadith ) from even those preachers who we trust. ( The Real Problem Is We Trust & Dont Check ) Allah did Not order us to follow any Scholar, Mufti or preacher And whatever the Messenger P.B.U.H gives you, take it, and whatever he forbids you, stay away..from it ( Quran 59:7 )
May Allah heal the broken hearts. The ones who are silent, who cannot express their pain. The ones who are tired of torment. The ones who need a break. May Allah put an end to your sadness, may He put a smile on your face. Ameen
Which imam must we follow ❓ We must respect all the Imams by following they wish The reality is all those people who claim they are following a imam have actually proved they are not following any imam by ignoring the following teaching of the imams All 4 imams made it very clear to the people by telling them if you find a saying of the Prophet P.B.U.H which contradicts what we have taught you ,then REJECT what we taught you ( This proves the target of all four imams was to direct us to the Quran & Hadith) Allah did not order us to follow a imam, Allah says whatever the Prophet gives you take it & whatever he forbids you leave it ( Quran 59:7 ) Allah did not say whatever the imam gives you take it, & Allah did not say whatever the imam forbids you stay away from it
One of the biggest reason why divorce takes place is because the couples grew up in a non-muslim society and they learned non-muslim values. So in this mind they have a they have an unrealistic image of what a marriage should be like. And when reality hits they look for a exit blaming each other.
As I prepare and work upon myself, I pray to Allah for a righteous spouse with good akhlaq but Most of all I pray to Allah to grant me SABR in that chapter of life.
I used to daydream or dream about a happy life😆with wife while in a young age, ik it sound stupid but I kinda felt it. Now I realize the responsibility so I have to wait to learn more. Thanks for advice🥰.
can you please make an episode about both parents busy and distracted by social media and their phones ...i thank you so much for this channel Greetings from Egypt
A aleikum every one. Please make dua fr me I'm undergoing a harsh situation in my marriage. I love my husband a lot. Please make dua tht Allah must grant both of us with true love which never can be separated
*Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back💔💔 again my ex is back to me with love and we are happily together I got help from a great man 💔❤️(Dr okonofaus). He can bring your ex back*
Surah Ar-Rum (30:21) And from His Signs is that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find comfort in them, and He placed between you Love and Mercy. Verily in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect. Ibn Al Qayyim: Allah has made so that a woman is tranquillity for the man, where his heart finds rest and peace with her. Allah placed sincere Love between the husband and wife, which is (al-Muwada) Love and friendship linked with Mercy. (Daa’ wa Da’wa)
May Allah help us keep our marriage and create flourishing legacies, this is why I set up a service to help youngsters prepare for marriage with pre marital coaching
I feel like most of the times, it's just that neither partners had a strong relationship before having a child. These days, true love is literally non existent. Of course, there are people who still do, but that, I believe is a minority. These marriages which don't have love after having children, probably never even had proper communication with each other, never had a strong relationship, and all the other things. Also, it happens, that, both spouses stop trying to please/impress each other after a while. They don't remain the person that they were before. They become different, they show their real colors. They pretended to be someone they are not at the beginning. My parents love each other very dearly, even after having a child (I don't have siblings). So, it depends on the strength of the relationship and of course the spouses. 💖
Women? What about the Men? I think ur asking the wrong question, u should be asking if/why the love disappears. Well, it depends on the situations. 🙄😒😬 Marriage is HARD. Not easy. TRUST ME. If u want to get married in the future, be MENTALLY prepared. There will be lotsss of CHALLENGES and RESPONSIBILITIES and SACRIFICES... 😔🤕🥵 Its EASIER to takecare of our OWNSELF.
@@lr88xx That is the definition of Love. Staying side by side no matter what sacrifices, obstacles, challenges, responsibilities, etc, a couple could face. Marriage is always hard. No real relation is easy. Everyone has to be prepared mentally for anything. Even if it's a job interview, first day of high school or marriage. True love doesn't disappear. Artificial/fake love does.
What Tasmiah S said is also TRUE. Im a mother of 3 kids, life is a BIG struggle with husband mother in law etc... Its all affecting my emotional, mental, well being. Not myself anymore. My heart, ❤️ it hurts alot... Theres no escape. I have my responsibilities. So, im just staying. Living this life~ 🤷🏻♀️ Only God knows where this life will take me. 😐
@@Comeacasa you're not missing half of your religion if you don't get married, First the hadeeth is weak, Second a none married man who doesn't commit zina is the same as a married man who doesn't commit zina. Shaikh ibn taymiya was not married, he's religion is probably better than a million of muslims this generation
Akhi this can only be said to someone that is devoted to deen and nothing from the dunya, otherwise if your someone that wakes up everyday to seek for something from this dunya(not that it’s Haram), walking down the streets, with all this fitnah and fasaad surrounding you? There is no way you can take this as an option, unless there is something hidden. Otherwise nature always kicks in
I just wanted to tell every single person, who has turned his life towards Allah ( SWT) and trying to be better - Allah (SWT) is with you ❤️
It's parent's fault and arrange marriage
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What to Do if scholars, muftis, or preachers differ on a matter 🤔 👉🏻 Demand for proof from the Quran & Hadith, or check yourself
No matter Who the preacher is, we muslims must check what we have been taught is really from the Quran or Hadith 🔍
Scholars, muftis & preachers are supposed to be our guide, but as we can see they are all differing therefore the best solution is to demand for proof ( Quran & Hadith ) from even those preachers who we trust. ( The Real Problem Is We Trust & Dont Check )
Allah did Not order us to follow any Scholar, Mufti or preacher
And whatever the Messenger P.B.U.H gives you, take it, and whatever he forbids you, stay away..from it ( Quran 59:7 )
🥰😘
May Allah heal the broken hearts. The ones who are silent, who cannot express their pain. The ones who are tired of torment. The ones who need a break. May Allah put an end to your sadness, may He put a smile on your face. Ameen
Ameen
Aameen
Ameen
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@@islamicguidness7417 contact him yourself
Marriage life is not easy, but with Allah’s help, it can be the best time ever. May Allah bless all couples and those who are seeking.
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Which imam must we follow ❓
We must respect all the Imams by following they wish
The reality is all those people who claim they are following a imam have
actually proved they are not following any imam by ignoring the following teaching of the imams
All 4 imams made it very clear to the people by telling them if you find a saying of the Prophet P.B.U.H which contradicts what we have taught you ,then REJECT what we taught you ( This proves the target of all four imams was to direct us to the Quran & Hadith)
Allah did not order us to follow a imam, Allah says whatever the Prophet gives you take it & whatever he forbids you leave it ( Quran 59:7 )
Allah did not say whatever the imam gives you take it, & Allah did not say whatever the imam forbids you stay away from it
❤❤❤🥰😘
Ameenn🤲🏾🤲🏾
Ameen
One of the biggest reason why divorce takes place is because the couples grew up in a non-muslim society and they learned non-muslim values. So in this mind they have a they have an unrealistic image of what a marriage should be like. And when reality hits they look for a exit blaming each other.
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As I prepare and work upon myself, I pray to Allah for a righteous spouse with good akhlaq but Most of all I pray to Allah to grant me SABR in that chapter of life.
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Pray for khayr sister do not pray for sabr, asking for sabr is asking for trials
Ameen
@@khadijahidd3678 and do you think you will not be tested if you even ask for Khair? Look at all the prophets who had their own tests…
@@messimess9985 I referred to the prophet's advice to a sahaba who was asking for sabr
I used to daydream or dream about a happy life😆with wife while in a young age, ik it sound stupid but I kinda felt it. Now I realize the responsibility so I have to wait to learn more. Thanks for advice🥰.
The biggest one is social media
can you please make an episode about both parents busy and distracted by social media and their phones ...i thank you so much for this channel
Greetings from Egypt
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I’m 23 and not married, I’m afraid to get married to the wrong person and having to spend the rest of my life with her
Wtsp ya caal kre
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A aleikum every one. Please make dua fr me I'm undergoing a harsh situation in my marriage. I love my husband a lot. Please make dua tht Allah must grant both of us with true love which never can be separated
*Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back💔💔 again my ex is back to me with love and we are happily together I got help from a great man 💔❤️(Dr okonofaus). He can bring your ex back*
Surah Ar-Rum (30:21)
And from His Signs is that He created for you wives from among
yourselves,
that you may find comfort in them,
and He placed between you
Love and Mercy.
Verily in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect.
Ibn Al Qayyim:
Allah has made so that a woman is tranquillity for the man,
where his heart finds rest and peace with her.
Allah placed sincere Love between the husband and wife,
which is (al-Muwada)
Love and friendship linked with Mercy.
(Daa’ wa Da’wa)
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Can you please make an episode about interference of others in marriage
May Allah continues to guide us towards goodness and abstain us from evil
I love this channel and it's amazing 💞 content
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MashaAllah thanks
May Allah make it easy… Amen
how do you know its time to leave the marriage especially when your not happy anymore and it's Ramadan and he does t want to communicate or change
Please start the series of biographies of salaf.
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JazakAllah khair
May Allah help us keep our marriage and create flourishing legacies, this is why I set up a service to help youngsters prepare for marriage with pre marital coaching
BarakAllah feekum
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@@islamicguidness7417 Barak Allah .
Is this the no. of the same guy speaking in this video??
Asalam anlaikum please pray for me because I'm going through a hard time in my marriage
I am trying to marry for 10 years but its not possible,
because all girls are rejecting because I AM NOT RICH
Better to marry who you can provide for , otherwise it can be a recipe for disaster.
@@anorthfacinggarden9045 its not possible to provide any girl in the world, because all girls are proud not possible to approach them
Subhanallah
Alhamdolillah
Lailaha il Allah , Muhammadar rasolallah
Allah ho Akbar
Peace and blessings of Allah be upon the believers
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Mashallah
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Ive got a question about this topic. Is it true that women stop loving their husbands after having kids with them?
I feel like most of the times, it's just that neither partners had a strong relationship before having a child. These days, true love is literally non existent. Of course, there are people who still do, but that, I believe is a minority. These marriages which don't have love after having children, probably never even had proper communication with each other, never had a strong relationship, and all the other things. Also, it happens, that, both spouses stop trying to please/impress each other after a while. They don't remain the person that they were before. They become different, they show their real colors. They pretended to be someone they are not at the beginning. My parents love each other very dearly, even after having a child (I don't have siblings). So, it depends on the strength of the relationship and of course the spouses. 💖
Women? What about the Men? I think ur asking the wrong question, u should be asking if/why the love disappears. Well, it depends on the situations. 🙄😒😬 Marriage is HARD. Not easy. TRUST ME. If u want to get married in the future, be MENTALLY prepared. There will be lotsss of CHALLENGES and RESPONSIBILITIES and SACRIFICES... 😔🤕🥵 Its EASIER to takecare of our OWNSELF.
@@lr88xx That is the definition of Love. Staying side by side no matter what sacrifices, obstacles, challenges, responsibilities, etc, a couple could face. Marriage is always hard. No real relation is easy. Everyone has to be prepared mentally for anything. Even if it's a job interview, first day of high school or marriage. True love doesn't disappear. Artificial/fake love does.
What Tasmiah S said is also TRUE. Im a mother of 3 kids, life is a BIG struggle with husband mother in law etc... Its all affecting my emotional, mental, well being. Not myself anymore. My heart, ❤️ it hurts alot... Theres no escape. I have my responsibilities. So, im just staying. Living this life~ 🤷🏻♀️ Only God knows where this life will take me. 😐
Its better to takecare of URSELF and UR PARENTS!
Where I get the complete .athan,
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@@islamicguidness7417 asalamu aleykum. I just need the name of the person who read athan. In the beginning of video. Please.
My Content is Good But No Views
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Dont get married
Then what with half of ur Deen??
@@Comeacasa you're not missing half of your religion if you don't get married, First the hadeeth is weak, Second a none married man who doesn't commit zina is the same as a married man who doesn't commit zina.
Shaikh ibn taymiya was not married, he's religion is probably better than a million of muslims this generation
Akhi this can only be said to someone that is devoted to deen and nothing from the dunya, otherwise if your someone that wakes up everyday to seek for something from this dunya(not that it’s Haram), walking down the streets, with all this fitnah and fasaad surrounding you? There is no way you can take this as an option, unless there is something hidden.
Otherwise nature always kicks in
@@hadji9354 Right.
Although im married, i support u. 💯