What It’s Like To Not Love Your Body
Vložit
- čas přidán 26. 06. 2015
- Check out more awesome BuzzFeedYellow videos!
bit.ly/YTbuzzfeedyellow
MUSIC
Moving On, Sweetly, 600 Hours Sunrise
Licensed via Warner Chappell Production Music Inc.
SFX provided by freesound.org
Made by BFMP www.buzzfeed.com/videoteam
GET MORE BUZZFEED:
www.buzzfeed.com
www.buzzfeed.com/video
www.buzzfeed.com/videoteam
/ buzzfeedvideo
/ buzzfeedyellow
/ buzzfeedblue
/ buzzfeedviolet
/ buzzfeed
BUZZFEED YELLOW
Tasty short, fun, inspiring, funny, interesting videos from BuzzFeed. From hilarious social segments to amazing how-to's and DIYs, BuzzFeed Yellow will entertain, educate, spark conversation about all the little things that matter in life. Just like BuzzFeedVideo, but more yellow. - Komedie
magazines be like
1. love yourself! confidence tips.
2. easy short recipe for delicious cupcakes
3. how to lose weight fast
so accurate 😂 ty kookie
To accurate to put into words
+Jungkookie is life CAN WE TALK ABOUT OUR PROFILE PICTURES
+bts doesnt know im their wife I WAS THINKING ABOUT THE SAME THING OMFG
AHHH ARMY HI
“I love my body”
“Omg stop bragging and being so conceited”
“I hate my body”
“Omg stop begging for attention and complements”
Just love yourself you can never please anyone
@Samyuktha omg shut up nobody cares
Yeah.. That's what always happens to me😔
Your comment made me think I wish I wasn't in this rude world
Ur comment says too much to me 😭😭😭
Exactly!!
Me: *has a low self esteem and hates myself*
My family: Noo love yourself
Also my family: F A T T Y
I agree my father always calls me fat or make stern fat jokes at me because I eat so much :(
And I'm actually skinny
>:( Trying to gain weight
Relatable!!!
Honestly same
@Angela Khanal
Same here but whenever I eat my mom tells me "StOp EaTiNg eVeRyThInG YoUr gOnNa EaT tHe wHoLe hOuSe"
And when they tell you to gain weight, you can't. You just can't. You were born like that, I was born like that, I'm a stick and my family expects me to gain weight by eating which a lot of people to but that's them, that's not me I can't gain any weight so yeah xD
Coolcat McSwirly I hope everything will get better for u!!
“Girls with big arms like that kinda freak me out” ugh I hate when guys say stuff like that it makes me so irritated
I hate it when girls say they would never date short guys. At least you can change your arms. You can't change your height
I swear before this video i had never ever heard a guy say that😅
Marte López Lol Ive had guys tell me I have “manly arms” I shouldn’t allow myself to get that big as a female cause most guys don’t like it. So I reply “well I guess it’s good that I like woman then huh?” 😂
@@MeiZ125😂 i don't get why some guys feel like they can ponit out things like that, i mean, is THAT important to let a woman know if a female's arm looks like a man's? Makes no sense to me😅. My dad's side of the family used to tease me for beign "fat" when i was younger because "no guy will like me" i can tell you that statement was bs 🤣🤣🤣 now that i'm 17 they ask me "when can we meet your boyfriend?" and i'm over here like nah i'm good 😆
Marte López that’s mean that they’d do that to you, and people are just too insecure with themselves so they project that onto you
Me: I love my self
People: stop being so narcissistic
Me: I hate myself
People: no you should love yourself
Amanda Erikson so relatable on so many levels
People always say to love your bodies. But it really isn't that easy :(
R/im14andthisisdeep
@@redditor06 i give you 15 tops
Depends on where youre saying it. If you're in the mirror and just saying to yourself "I look pretty" that's confidence, but if you're saying to everyone and on a public place "I'm pretty" you'll just come off as cocky, even when you're not trying to.
I love how they included men in this, body inconfidence is usually just portrayed as a women's issue but it is really not
yeah i’m a guy and hate almost every aspect of myself 🙃
@@spiritedsora same honestly so much
@Someone Greek same here
Grace Whitehead I was going to say the same thing! People don’t realize stuff like that...
Men?
fun fact: there's probably someone out there who's looked at you and said "wow, he/she is so pretty/handsome!" Because I know I've done that so many times but since I was shy and still am shy I don't tell them because they'll prolly think I'm weird or sumn
Nobody will ever do that to me lmao
Well, I get asked out a lot, guys at my school have told me I’m cute or pretty, and I’ll just randomly be stopped and told I’m very pretty... but I don’t believe it. I think people feel bad for me so they compliment me. I wish I wasn’t this insecure but i am. I wish I could love myself.
I never even heard that words came out my parents mouth so its impossible To Make people think I'm pretty when the truth Is I look fried Chicken
@@arigreen5845 Damn ur lucky. That's never happened to me
Tae Tae is my Bae Bae Aw dude trust me some people already find it so hard to compliment someone. So people complimenting u is probably genuine. And trust me everyone has some insecurities so dw you’ll get there
When I'm at home,I feel very gorgeous and then when I go out and see other girls of my age who are in good shape and beautiful I lose my confidence at myself
People judge u whether u are slim or fat which is sad these days..
hey 1 year update I'm still struggling but since it's the virus time I dont have to go out that much so I'm kinda taking my time for self care!
Preach.
@@scam7698 yep
The presence of someone else’s beauty shouldn’t be an absence of yours 😌 love yo self
@@1ksubswithoutanyvideoschal139 thanks 💜💜
You know what you are so gorgeous n you are the best so no need to worry about judgements, they are just jealous that how can anyone be so beautiful
Sometimes I love myself.
Sometimes I hate myself.
Life is impossible.
Same
for real thoe
Well boo boo cry me a river! 😂😂😂
Im feeling 50%-50% I just wanna say that *F*CK the people who made me insecure* 😭
No, thats just life.
People saw this video and clicked on it.
Why?
Because it’s relatable.
No i just wanted to watch a video
Yea..I-i can relate very much..tbh..my relative and family..Think THAT I am TOO FAT.......well I am fat...
Idk why I but..instead of hearing those kinda words I FEEL TO DIE...
I kinda feel discouraged in everything..cuz THOSE WORDS..ARE STILL IN MY DAMN.HEAD.......😭
I don't have the "PERFECT" body..
Yes okay 😭😭😭
Not for me.. i love my body and now i feel bad
Weight Scale be like:
Bibby
Boppy
Boo
I’m here to disappoint you
I'm dead😂
@M A R I A ?
@M A R I A Ok, but why are you getting mad at me? I just laughed at Miss Kitty's comment.
@M A R I A Uhm what's that supposed to mean?
That's why I don't own one 😂
I’m just mad that one girl threw away a perfectly good scale she could have sold for like 29 bucks
I literally can’t like your comment because it has 29 likes
Edit: come on dude now it has 36 likes who did this and why
@@yoo5814 now its at 461
that's not even the point of the video
Um ok
now 888 teehee
We are taught to not love our bodies. Simple as that.
Christy the Random that’s the tea ☕️
I have learned not to love my body, just to accept it. If I focus only on my good or bad things, I get too one-sided picture of myself.
But ain't simple to do
Nahh I dont know bout you but have you seen all the love yourself posts and speech about it???
kitten :3 “not loving your body” is more of accepting your body its not hating your body i guess🤷♀️
"Girls with big arms freak me out"
Guys that say stuff like that disgust me and make me feel sorry for the women in their lives cause they don't get the respect they deserve
Ketchup & Gummy Bears I read this exactly as I said it
Ketchup & Gummy Bears *saw it
PREACH
Just because something freaks them out does not mean they don't respect women around them.
Ketchup & Gummy Bears im really tall so i often hear men and sometimes girls going all "god,what a giant,Thank god my girlfriend isnt huge.She probably never had a boyfriend"(which is true,no boy ever asked me out,they go for the short blond girls 😔)
" Girls with big arms freak me out "
" You'll have bigger things to freak out about once I punch you with these big arms "
I am proud of you dear ❤️
Savage
Yeah yr right girl
I just liked your comment and it’s at 227 kinda like the TV show, idk if u seen it before though
ngl nobody says that
When I was a teenager two of my classmates compared my body to my best friend's and said i looked like a boy (flat chested, no hips) next to her (curvy). It really is silly, but at that time it hit me hard and my body image became distorted to the point I thought people who didn't know me would mistake me for a boy. I started going to the gym in the hope of building a more feminine figure because I hated every inch of what I saw in the mirror. I started to develop anorexia, I wouldn't eat anything I liked because it would make me "fat in the wrong places" like my belly and arms. I didn't want to wear clothes that didn't cover my body. I was only 14...
Luckily I had psychological help at that time, also my mom saw something was wrong when I started losing more weight and got me out of the gym, which at that time helped because I would weight myself every single day and that would motivate me to lose even more weight.
In retrospect, I understand teenagers make comments about people's bodies because they all are insecure about their own, and that losing or gaining weight won't change the way you feel about your body because the insecurities we have are within us.
I don't hate my body anymore, I love it because it is the home of my spirit.
@@justyourlocalteasis1633 thank you for your kindness! It was a long time ago, I'm all better now about this
@@trixieagustina6163thanks for sharing ! in my head if I lost weight I'd have a tiny waist. But I'm an adult now and that's water under the bridge. I hope you find your peace with your body because I'm sure you're a beautiful strong woman, sending you lots of love ❤
Heyy!!!! In my case it's totally opposite as I have a total femme figure (curvy) but I even get bullied for that and told not to wear certain things so I started to eat less and less and now I have stopped eating bcuz I got a disease in which I throw up every time I eat, so plzz take care, good to know u are ok now. And society will judge u weather ur small, big, short, tall, black, white anything it's a big problem...
I would have been really happy if someone mistook ME for a BOY . But this is just an opinion. :)
Yo i would die to get ur kind of body tho. Ur pretty i bet and ik
this is so accurate it hurts
like I cried a little
youre beautiful💜
+katelynn martocello Thanks but I'm really not that beautiful
+Immortalkaos your beautiful I know it
Yes you really are
me too😭😭
I love how they aren’t just focusing on being too fat or something
Muscular people suffer this
Short people suffer this
Skinny people suffer this
Edit: I forgot about Tall people sorry but yes they do suffer this as well really anyone can suffer this
And tall...
@@eimearhannan6420 tall people don't suffer they r perfect .i wish I was taller and I'm 5'7
I'm Yeonjun's Wife yes they do tho
I'm Yeonjun's Wife they do especially taller women. Guys usually only like girls shorter than them so it makes things difficult for them.
@@spookpatchy why does it even matter about what some other guy think about u
I don't love my body, i straight up hate myself deeply.
God Loves You Buddy....☺️☺️
I honestly feel you. But I think you woulf be good looking
Well don’t cuz ily and u should too! If anyone tells u any differently, they’re stupid- don’t listen to them- don’t listen to the toxic people in ur life
God made us all beautiful. It doesn’t matter what anybody thinks, because all that maters is how you really feel. Apart from that, everything that is here on earth stays. We die and we don't take anything with us, only salvation. So, the most important thing is your relationship with the one who will never fail you, almighty God.
I feel the same everytime bcoz my sister is slim and im fat and she gwts proposal every day and im still a born single
"Dont compare yourself to what someone is today, compare yourself to who you were yesterday"
So, I was "thinner" yesterday, and today I am fatter
Fact
@@lovemylifeandfamily7464 pessimist.
Having body image issues is having to wear a long sleeved sweater when it’s 80 degrees outside
Stc 04 dude yes I hate my arms
I always wear a jacket too because of my arms hair (not armpits just arms) and because of my chest too so...same
this is so me. my family makes fun of me because of it hh
Why do they make fun of you?
Lol 80 degrees for me is nice weather. I live in texas😂
For all those girls with cellulite don't be insecure because you can't spell cellulite without LIT🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
inspirational.
thank u haha
Lol
I'm going to work this into every conversation I have today.
😳
🚫❌girls should support girls❌🚫
*human should support human*
PREACHHH
So true
The message is amazing but I can't take you seriously cause if your user name
@@dinogirlbegley7292
Hahah why I think it’s creative 😂👌🏼
PREEEEECHHHHHH
(hi fellow kpop stan :) )
I feel bad for not thinking that guys could have the same problem
im a guy, i get insecure too
instead i fix my problems and work for them, every single person on here complaining makes it worse for themselves and others
@@midknight5194 Women are always told to be beautiful and we have these unrealistic photoshopped standards we supposed to follow. Certain things just can't be fixed. I'm sure guys have insecurites too its just we get so much pressure at a young age to be attractive as if that the most important part of being a women. There are so many misconceptions about the female body that makes people think exersize and makeup fixes things but its simply not true. People are born that way and have a certain bone structures.
What’s it like to hate ur body
*picture of me laying on the floor and doing nothing *
End of video
Ok cool but why is this so accurate
Same
Me
all of this is true to me...except at the end...I don't get nice compliments
***** aawwwwwwww thx! 😘
Aria h thanks
same
Aisha Siddiqua I've never gotten a nice complement in my 10 years of living...😔
Hey Itz Random don't worry u have lots of time..ill give u a complement, i really like ur username.(telling the truth 4 real)
I love how it’s not just girls feeling bad about being fat, but also girls feeling bad about being muscular, boys feeling bad about being feminine, and girls feeling bad about just having an awkward body shape. Body hate is not just thinking you’re fat.
I've never loved my body,even how hard I try I always have something bad about my body,the biggest problem is my legs..
No matter how hard I try and how healthy I eat :(
Shvalero na Irena hey dear even I have big fat huge bulky thighs and legs...we are a team!❤️💕 sending loads of love and I hope u find it good that you are not the only one insecure out here I’m too and we can get better !🤭🥰😊
@@malishkasharma4518 Ty!
My problem is that my legs are short and have lots of muscels, i think they look fat... but when i wear mom jeans i feel pretty and i don't feel like need to show others what i dont want😊❤ (i'm 14)
Glad to hear that i'm not the only one that feels this way
One nice word can change somebody's whole day.
LiterateSweetCupcake x it can also save someone’s life
Chell칠 I really like your profile picture
And a mean word change their live for the worst......
Right
Yep
its sad that I'm 13 and i have self body issues. I shouldn't even know what the "perfect" body is..
Yeah i get how u feel
I’m sure you’re beautiful! 13 is around the age I started to develop body issues but as you grow up you’ll learn to love your body for what it is. You’ll get through it girl :)
Meghana Krishna Marur awww thank youu that made my day so much better you don’t understand!! thank you for that☹️💙
Nikole Marie ❤️❤️
Nikole Marie yeah same.. ive had body issues for quite a while and im only just turning thirteen which means ive had body problems at such a young age and it really destroyed my confidence and at this young of an age i shouldnt even know that “perfect body” standards even exist but i think im getting better but its always a rollercoaster sometimes i freaking love my body and sometimes i hate it more than anything and have stopped pursuing my physical dreams like becoming a dancer which is something i had wanted to be since before i can remember and truly regret then being dyspraxic, overweight and having confidence issues as well as taking so many emotional tolls with it hasnt been the best for my state of mind which is really critical for my age since ive started to prepare for gcses and choosing my career path and i need to be in top mental health but carrying all these burdens around with me and trying my best in school while maintaining a good circle of frienship and a good work ethic with a clean record and being very emotional and (i dont know if i have this yet but i have had episodes where i very much believe that i do because everything is so similar) having anxiety especially in social situations and because of my dyspraxia i cannot work in loud environments (and my class is extremely loud) so its hard for me to pay attention or focus on what im doing which is also very bad because as i said my gcses are coming up and i need to take in and revise as much as possible to get good results which is putting me under a lot of pressure and stress which makes me irritable and sensitive isnt really easy. But ive lived through it for 7 almost 8 years and i am proud of myself for being so strong but i really need support sometimes and for people to put me down for something that i cant really help during those times just crushes me and is not helping my development. Wow i went really deep
When I was younger I was a little bit thic, but now(12) I get realy tall and all that weight kind of disappeared. I am normal sized. But when I look at my friends, I just HATE when my friends are talking to me like,"I'm sooo faatt."
And you can see their bones, I know that they want to hear like
"no you are not fat".
But how they don't get it, I feel like I am a fat giant next to them. And all boys in school are idiots.
They separate girls in thicc and not thicc.
And you know they are all kids that don't know anything. If you just hear their conversations you will be disgusted.
your twelve right now you will grow more dont worry right now
I know its awful and disgusting. They used to make fun of my body hair while I was listening. I used to feel so insecure about my self when I was younger. However, now that I'm older and I look back at photos I feel so surprised that I looked that pretty but didn't realize because of those trashheads.
Me: *Eats 3 bags of chips a gains weight*
My family: Ur getting fat
Also me: *Eats only a few veggies and loses a few pounds*
Also my family: Wow ur getting bony like a skeleton
Me: 😓
Well nobody should eat 3 bags of chips, that's super unhealthy and bad for you my dear. Try to eat one bag and also some healthy foods like vegetables. This way you will be healthy, not lose or gain any weight..
just try to work out... You cant get to a healthy weight and keep it if you dont use the energy you get from food.
You need a midel point
Ya know girl i can relate and its okay eat coz we got only one life and always remember no matter what you do people can never be happy so love yourself just the way you are ...
You are lying
I've never heard anyone say: "oh nice belly fat!"
or nιce ѕpongeвoв тooтнpιcĸ arмѕ yoυve goт тнere! 😖
Ephemeral Dilection
They don't call it "toothpick arms", or at least I never heard that to a woman.
If it is a woman, the comment would more-likely be something as "Wow! How did you get them so slender?" (a compliment).
Rin Pantua it was my guy friends that said it to me lol. and yeh other girls will say to be happy of my skinny arms but idk. i feel like if someone held onto them too tightly theyd snap in half xD
*****
I don't presume you need to fret about it because guys may have differing opinions as to what they like.
Think of it as a situation where women stated what they prefer - some women like "manly" and "hot" guys while others like "cutesy" guys.
Men can like thin, curvy, ... etc women. Look at some celebrities - some are thinner (Taylor Swift) and others are thicker (Kim Kardashian) but they all have fans.
Rin Pantua actually lots of people especially girls get called toothpick arms at my school
When I saw the title I was like, "Me too, honey!"
pEpPa whaT aRe yoU dOinG iN the coMmeNt seCtIoN
Peppa I love you
But.. you're 7'1 and you're like 5 years old...
*H O W*
livi loo hoo how u know?
Sophie Joy me too
I hate everything about myself but can’t stand it when my friends hate something about themselves bc I don’t ever want them to feel what I do
Yes exactly I know how u feel same here.
Meanwhile me: *looking six months pregnant*
(W/ a food baby)
😂
lol I tried to think that my body is beautiful just the way it is but it doesn't work especially if your family keeps calling you pig
Oh, they must be using reverse psychology.
You are beautiful. I mean, there must be uglier people than you
Joel Bedulla
I hope they try to use reverse psychology. But thank you, your comment makes me feel better ^^
Joel Bedulla Disgusting comment. I mean yours.
Nagomi 和み me too they call me fat but Iam not that fat and cuz Iam the fat one in the family I just can't take it.....how the bully and stuff
Nagomi 和み I know the feeling...
There is nothing more beautiful than self-confidence.
Lunara Arzu Your profile picture haha #sehun
Lunara Arzu goddamnit sehun
And your Sehun profile picture.
Lunara Arzu Oh who we have here! Hi EXO-L ^^
But the question is, how do you get self confidence if you don't like how you look or anything?
what I hate abt society is that if you love yourself you’re called narcissistic and if you hate yourself then ppl tell u to love yourself
I can relate. I hated my body because I was nearly obese, than I pushed myself to be fit and I still hate it. Can't even look in the mirror sometimes, I still see myself fat. It's a constant struggle
sometime I feel fabulous, but sometimes, I just wanna drink myself
same!!!
Anonymous Person that comment made me tear up
yes
what
Bianca De Leon you're lucky to sometime feel fabulous...
This shows how a simple sentence can make someone’s day :)
Dima Jounblat yeah, the same way a bad phrase can get you down, a good one can lift you up 💝
Dima Jounblat yep
Dima Jounblat ikr! Whenever anyone says I'm beautiful or skinny, etc it makes my day(or when my favorite youtuber replies to me) (spoiler: my favorite youtuber did!!) Made my day 💖💖
Dima Jounblat Mhm!
Dima Jonblat aw
I always tell my friends they are beautiful and should never forget that but I hate my own appearance.
I started hating my body at a young age and that age was 8, because I was fat but I got motivated by my crush and BTS's music so I got skinnier and started loving myself more and more, I now love myself enough to say I'm pretty
Aww, that’s great! I’m I little chubby, but I don’t hate myself. I’m just fine with myself.
same
Army
I wish I could be you. I am 20 pounds overweight and I the only thing I want is to be skinny in and I’ll be getting back my confidence instantly or just to at least lose 10 pounds. Do you have any tips or anything?
Those who don't like their bodies, nobody's perfect. We all have flaws, but we also have great abilities that are inside of you. So stay confident. Remember. No one is perfect. Embrace who you are, and be happy about it.
Love yourself for who you truly are. Never lose confidence.
Lol
One can sure try if at most that.
Taylor Swift Lover thank you so much:) comments like these make me feel better about myself
Thank you, You made me feel alot better
Sometimes i hate the way I look so much that it feels like my body isn’t even mine like I feel wrong in my body
Lucy bulling i feel you
Same
Lucy bulling boi shut up y do u care my god workout if you feel a certain way stop talking about ur insecurities and do something about them
o
Literally same
It's weird how one person's compliment can instantly bring your mood up. Especially if it's someone you don't know at all
Me: Major insecurities and low self esteem abt my body
My family: you look fineeeeee!
Also my family: F A T
I hate how boys at my school define girls as flat or thick because it makes me feel like I have to meet their standards just to be liked but I realize that what other people think shouldn’t matter and what matters is what’s in your heart
Relatable. I’m reminded every single damn day that I’m not worthy of a good relationship because of my skinny body. It gets tough even when my friends don’t support me. So, I just sit in class and out on a fake smile until I get home. I’m done with body image, I’m just gonna find some new friends lmao
Yeah the girls so the same thing to me at my school I am not thick enough
Just flips a finger at the boys
Sometimes I be glad that Iam lesbian
You're smart
Society's standards of "beauty" are causing every girl or woman to feel insecure. I wish I didn't feel so insecure but it's something I can't change while there are people defending society's view of "beauty". So many girls have anorexia because of body insecurities. :-/
because it just happens to girls😒
-_-
+Tyler Prewitt It happens to both genders, but mostly females.
This is the BS I hate. Why don't you just say people? It isn't just females.
It happens to males too, dafuq
Ignore negative comments. I run three times a week, and I've regularly had people be negative or laugh. I shrug it off and keep going because I know I will have the last laugh.
Some people knock you down because they're scared you will surpass them and they will end up the bottom of the barrel, because they don't have the insentive you have to change. They're the biggest losers out there.
“Idk man, I just want some meat on those bones, ya know? need some fat before I hit that ayyyy”
“I just feel like girls that are that.... *big* are really unhealthy, and it’s just not my type. Kinda gross”
“I don’t really like muscular girls, I don’t want her getting too powerful, am I right?”
well, i don’t know, I just prefer guys that are actually smart and caring, it’s just more comfortable, you get it?
Yeah my standards for guys are so low like I just want someone who's caring and loves my insecurites. I don't care about appearances. I would just want to be treated with respect.
@@cozycorner9066 I am a 200 pounds girl. I am a boxer my height is 5'8 and I am mostly muscle but still apparently I am fat because I am not a stick like ariana grande
I am currently feeling this right now and honestly I relate so much.
I do as well...😩
yep
I appreciate you( sees your profile pic)
same here
Ari™ me too
So glad there was a guy in this video.
A gay guy even - I could fully relate.
Learning to love my chicken legs.
My torso is the toughest.
Lol I get called chicken legs too
Aashu Andrews That's one of the amazing things about BuzzFeed. They're very inclusive.
Aashu Andrews I really liked this video. I myself struggle with body image issues, so it really made me feel better.
Ikr I was like cmon please have a guy...please
i’m friends with this one girl, and every single day, we tell each other “you’re beautiful”. most of the time we scream it at each other. but little things like that can make someone’s day.
That thought just made my day😊👍
Whenever I tried to love myself
Society : let us introduce ourselves
I went to a public swimming pool with friends and everyone judged me for wearing a shirt instead of a bikini :L
same thinh happened to me but it was in a friend's party, it was my breaking point
+TheGamerGirl I'm hairy, so i used to get comments about that. I haven't been in a swimming pool in over 10 years.
+TheGamerGirl I feel u
+TheGamerGirl honestly... WEARING A SHIRT WHILE SWIMING WAS ONE OF THE BEST THINGS I'VE EVER EXPERIENCED.
I hate when that happens
Damn this is pretty accurate, I share a similar struggle except I don't feel I'm too fat or skinny, I just feel a little disproportioned if you get what I mean :/
YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL❤️
Seiko Shinohara I don't believe so :/
Same but i feel like my legs are fine but my belly is waaaay to big and i hate myself for that :/
youtube user You should never hate yourself because of the size of your stomach, my friend. Your stomach doesn't define you! You're beautiful just the way you are, so just embrace yourself and start loving yourself for all your flaws and insecurities. You're the only person that will live with yourself for your entire life, so you might as well get started on the loving yourself part :)
youtube user same here but mine is i'm chubby all around but my wrists and lower arms are so so so small that watches or bracelets would usually fall off
In life, everyone is going to have issues like this but as this story shows, you should love yourself and others not because of how they look, but who they are. be kind to those who are having a bad day and just to everyone in general. to everyone who struggles with this, (including myself) you are beautiful and loved. dont let some stranger who doesnt know the true u define u
Aw man I wish I could just hug all of these wonderful people in this video.
1:51: _"Man, I wish I was that strong."_
Story of my life.
I don't even have to watch this video coz I already know how that feels 😶
#relatable
I know how you feel too #relatable
This is actually so relatable. I'm 14 and it's honestly so sad that I have major self loving issues. People don't realize how much of childhood bullying carries on into your future. I was shamed and laughed at for being chubby and my family is also very judgmental about body image. I developed depression and could not look into a mirror for years. When I catch glimpses of myself in windows or computer screens, I am extremely revolted and have puked from my appearance. Really hope that people in the real world would compliment each other more. A simple "you are so beautiful" may be the difference between a person self-harming that night.
I read the title and was like: "I definitely know something about that."
I had my 8th grade "grad" the other day and when I was looking at all the other thin girls, I felt so insecure in my dress. So I spent half of the party crying in the bathroom too scared to come out because I thought I would be judged. It sucks to hate your own body.
Where do you live? In Canada?
***** thanks for the advice :) I will work on it
Hasibur Rahim yess
I had my 9th grade one yesterday and i kind of just sat in the back corner cause i didn't want to move from that spot so people wouldn't see me
1. i love your profile picture
2. those skinny girls probably felt insecure too. i'm pretty skinny and i will always wish i was curvier so i didn't look like a stick :/ but yeah it does suck to feel uncomfortable in yourself
3. 1. i bet you looked stunning
I’ve been struggling to love myself since a young age
One point I feel comfortable and confident
But as soon as I see another girl
I feel like it’s not good enough and try to be like them
Even now I have this issue
I understand you
I feel u girl I feel u
Your perfect just the way you are
Dont change for anyone
Be yourself
Beauty is subjective you shouldn't compare yourself to anyone
Me too
I don't get it,everyone in the video are so adorable.Why'd they be insecure of themselves?
Because they can't see it. They only see their flaws
I was at my lowest when I saw this video. Approximately 5 years ago and seeing it again now really reminds me how far I’ve come as a person :) I began loving myself and treating myself like I would want others to treat me. Remember to be kind to others but most importantly be kind and loving to yourself because self love is absolutely beautiful💕
"girls with big arms freak me out"
uhm did you see Korra? think again...
Lmfao
Omg yes 😂
Yasss
She freaks out like in a good way~ Some men just can't handle strong women
From Alok? She's my fuckin crush!
this video made me cry because I realised just how much I can relate. i hate my body and i never feel at peace anymore ...
Yeah me too 😔
I sure you look wonderful, you look so pretty in your profile picture. I hope you feel at peace soon 😀.
I am so sorry but you are amazing. Stay strong and love yourself! ❤
Me too 😭😫
Me: I love myself
My love handles: Oh really....
Fkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk these words cut deeper than any sword😥
I always find these kinds of videos annoy me more than help, but this one actually put a smile on my face with the compliments at the end :)
Thank you for this one
It sucks when you're skinny everywhere except your stomach, because it makes your stomach look even bigger
I relateeee
yeah😭
literally me
Chocolate Panda I COULD NOT RELATE MORE
Ikr I'm a FRIKEN tiny lil cereal box than my stomach is like 2 inches lol
Every time I go shopping and I try something on I could cry. Just looking in the mirror and not seeing anything beautiful hurts. I sometimes want to wear something and I don’t look good in it so I always end up buying big hoodies. My sister told me I should wear something else than hoodies but I don’t feel comfortable with other clothes.
I never told that anyone before.
Captain Wyvern you literally made my day! Thank you😘
Carla Hauser I know I feel that way too and even by myself I feel bad about myself will try too do jumping jacks or eat something healthy I know how it feels and I’m sorry you feel that way too
It’s Kylie keep your head up! We can do this :) Ik it’s hard and that we all go through this but I’m sure that one day we’ll be completely happy with ourselves. You’re surely very beautiful
Carla Hauser awe thank you so much :) I’m sure you are too!
Hun I feel the same, but in a bit of a different way. I’m personally super scrawny and underweight no matter what I do. I often see people wearing things that show off their curves, and they look amazing. But I always look like a literal 2x4. Moral of the story, people always look at you and wish they looked like you do.
Aww this is so sweet I cried a bit because im going through this type of stuff in middle school thank you so much for making this yall are beautiful just the way yall are!
Hats off to your content and the way you portrayed it. Big applause!!!!👏👏👏👏👍👍👍
I can't remember her name but the Indian girl is so gorgeous. And expressive
Her name's Michelle
Michelle Khare. She has her own CZcams channel as well.
Yessss I wish I had her muscles!!!
@@malinimurali7398 she is indian?!!
@@shivanin2537 bruh
I'm only 16 and I hate how insecure I am about myself. I look around and all I can do is compare myself to everyone else. I don't even have anything to be insecure about and I know this, I'm a size 10 ffs. but I still can't help having frequent breakdowns over my large thighs, stretch marks, small boobd and dissappearing waist line. I really want to have more confidence but I don't know how.
Sarah Robertson SAME!!! i don't like that stupid strech marks the most...because once u have them, u have them forever
Morgan Brandy hmmm interesting)
I'm only 13 and I'm really insecure too
Beauty doesn't come to everyone but one thing is certain: beauty fades. Find something you like doing (even if it's a hobby) and someone who you want to share your life with and everything else will fall into place.
About the boobs, I have none yet lol but I want small ones big ones bounce around too much
The biggest problem in society is that we're never told we're good enough. Be happy and love yourself. What you feel in your heart is a thousand times more important♥️
It’s always the fact that everyone says to always love who you are and how you look, and you try to, but whenever you see someone else that you think looks better than you, you’ll immediately compare yourself to them. It’s human nature and of course, you’ll never be perfect, but there’s always someone in the world for you that doesn’t care for any other attractive partner, only you.
Funny how the world works..
I don't love my body
I don't like mine either :(
I love my body
Same here...
I wish i could change my body... just because i know that i woyld be happier, and could do alot more things were i'm afraid of now...
+miscer confirmed What's wrong with you?!
Sometimes, I look at people who's thin and sexy. Man, why can't I be like them.
jimin's jams Love Yourself, Love Myself💜💜💜
@@elizabethporter2127 Yieuts thank you!💜
Yeah j feel the same
same
@@kayy2926 always remember BTS's message
Love yourself 💜
Every single one of those moments is relatable. No matter what size I am, I feel like something needs to be bigger or smaller. It's a never ending cycle of self hating on a body that there's LITERALLY nothing wrong with
Me: insecure
My family: OMG we love you stop being so ungratful
Also my family:
*C O W*
*S T I C K*
*E Y E B A G G I R L*
*S T U P I D*
*I D I O T*
*W O R T H L E S S*
*I W I L L S L A P Y O U I F Y O U D O N T S T O P C R Y I N G*
*C R Y B A B Y*
*B R A T*
I have depression because of my body. My family insults me more than strangers or friends... I hate my life
Denisa Katona it’s ok, I know you will get better 👍🏻❤️
Aww thank you ❤️
Gaming With DJ Ed thank you s-o much! You are such a nice person. ❤️
I feel the same way many times my family say alot of rude suff and then when I go to therapy and tell my doctor "My family is makin fun of me because I'm fat". But my doctors say that I'm not fat it is just natural things that happen teenanagers when there are growing up... but any way dont listen to your family.
Denisa Katona be brave and remember don't take it to heart also if you are feeling down watch the greatest showman
But .......but that Indian girl ( sorry don't remember name ) she's already SOO pretty
God never makes either or, He makes beautiful children.
@Armando Guzman her name is Michelle Khare
Original Name thax mate
sunlighthot really mate tha'ts mean i bet you're not perfect
MsLansones god is love, god is life
Thanks for this video.
For many years now I’ve been trying to get to a point when I can at least not hate my body. My height was sort of a breakthrough for that. I went from disliking my short stature, to accepting it and enjoying the occasional perks, and now I’m not just content with my height but I’m actually very happy with it too.
I fully believe that a persons beauty comes from who they are, how much they love themselves, and their confidence.
Hello how are you? my name is julián and I want to contact my experience, I found some recommendations that helped me lose weight and currently I have a very happy life, I found a virtual book, that is (ebook), which is called "lost weight now" and It help me too much to lose weight and lead a healthy life, if you want it was sent to you by email just write to my email and I will send it completely free, my proposal is to help people .. this is my
email: julianhelping@gmail.com
This literally made me cry.. it's just so relatable
I love you...but...
I can't love myself
YEE BOI LETS GET EDGY OVER HERE
I love you too
Chaotic evil much
To me that isn’t true...
You can’t love someone without loving yourself or...
:|
@@jessapop that is not true , I hate myself and I want to die every second I'm awake and can't kill myself because I like loving .
'It's harder loving yourself than someone else, let's agree that the standards I set are harder on myself.'
-Suga's rap in Love Yourself.
'On the days I hate being myself, on the days that I want to disappear forever, I open the door and there I was in your heart'
-Jin's part in Magic Shop.
Sorry
*MODELS ARE UNREALISTIC, TUMMIES ARE CUTE, AND PIMPLES, FRECKLES, AND BLACKHEADS ARE LIKE LITTLE POLKA DOTS FOR YOUR FACE*
That literally made my day
meg kenny what about montrous heights?Dont tell me THAT is pretty 😂 people make fun of me for my height
Alicia Bezzina well they r assholes being tall is awesome (probs speller that wrong but it’s like 4 in the morning where I live and I rely can’t concentrate😂😂🙏🏻)
models arent unrealistic . they work hard to get their bodies the way they are.
meg kenny models are not unrealistic. I hate when people only bring up bigger girls but put smaller ones down. Body shaming goes both ways. Smaller girl can struggle with their body just as much as bigger girls
I wish i had the confidence to throw away the scale.
Sometimes it feels like my worth as a human depends on the numbers on that thing.
Everyone could tell me "you look so good!" and id still think im hideous just because im heavier than i should be
My insecurities reached a level that I don't even know how much I weight now. I'm afraid that I'm gonna be too fat
I can only get compliments if I insult myself. no one actually says anything nice to me or just randomly give me compliments 😂
great video but I sorta wished there would be something bout flat chested women
and everyone says I'm lucky to have a natural thigh gap. I find it so weird and everywhere I go people ask me if I've eaten anything today. like yes I eat huge motherfucking burgers and pizzas everyday. chill
Serli Haladjian Flat chested women are of another beauty.
thin of it this way, you can run without worrying, you can wear so many tops without thinking if you will fit in them, you can sleep un your belly without it hurting, and also, seriously, don't think only about those magasines with girls with big chests. Personally, I really really thing that girls with flat chests look so cool, it's something i don't now...it looks modern to me i don't know why lol. The point is, you sure are beautifull with r without a big chest. ;)
O. Oana actually girls with small boobs often have a really hard time finding tops that fit. Nothing is made for us either. We're disproportionately built.
YouveGottaBeKittenMe Oh, I'm sorry to hear that :(. Well, at least they look nice and fit anyway heh :D
They only showed people with all their limbs, functional organs, and full neurological control of themselves.
***** Hello, I'm Super Kame Guru. And I'm the guy who's not judging you on your appearance.
oggyreidmore because they work for Buzzfeed and those are the people available..
oggyreidmore Oh god the tumblr nazi's are here- prepare for them to be opressed by everything
*****
Surely words are much cleaner than the things you must shove in your mouth.
driftracerr34 high five
I hate how relatable this is, so many people are so beautiful and should love themselves 🥺🥺
I can relate to all of this. Hating my body is a longterm issue of my depression and borderline... I lost weight and got my 'for me perfect weight' I came to work and told everyone how proud I was and a really skinny girl looked at me and said: "We'll keep talking when you arrive 50kg" and my workmates laughed about me... I hate her since this day and short after that I had my first depressive episode and it keeps going downwards...
I cant even count how many times i have cried in thoose fittingrooms
You really should
Elli Hänninen has
Your beautiful your amazing you are you
+1
Specially when I'm trying on jeans
I was told today “you don’t look 7 months pregnant just big” jee thanks...
Amby Cakes well you like food? Who can blame you? I’m sure you look fine. 😂😂❤️❤️
Amby Cakes well food happens to be a snack;)😂
Amby Cakes you’re perfect the way you are ♥️
from your profile picture I can tell you are a beautiful lady ;)
Amby Cakes congrats on the baby
All those people on that video were amazing and beautiful. For everyone suffering, you are beautiful.
I actually relate with this, hating myself everyday is tough and depressing even why you try.