TikTok Teacher Goes Viral For Having Students Take Down Braids While In School
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- čas přidán 8. 05. 2024
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I don’t like his voice, I don’t like him acting like we’re the weird ones, I don’t like how he’s calling them his best friends, i don’t like blurring lines with children, I don’t like any of it.
This is the biggest red flag for me. They need to watch him.
Well said..
He's gaslighting
All of this!!!
I'm a teacher and I don't think this is appropriate. As a parent I would not want my daughter taking out her teacher's braids at school. Doesn't matter if it's a male or female teacher it's not appropriate. There are other ways to show your students you care. Why are you taking out your braids at work anyway.
Thanks for being an ethical and critical thinker. Well said. It appears that ethical sound professionals are expeditiously disappearing from view.
It's so crazy that people with children don't understand why this is wrong on several levels. Scary stuff
@@come_on_barbie_123 exactly!
I didn’t like his attitude about it, no matter how soft his voice was.
He had a speech prepared
@@candice5186 lol as if he had been called for a press conference.
The man has issues, very creepy 😳
Listen that's why I'm glad he was fired. He acted entitled af like he set the rules and owned the school, I'm glad he was sent packing
As a black male teacher, we HAVE to move different. I’m sure it was innocent, but I ain’t gettin caught up in this type of stuff at work lol
Exactly. Not losing my bag in this economy over some dry braids.
Agreed, bro I am a Black male teacher. It was poor judgment! He most likely had no ill intent. However, we live in a day and time where there are alot of predators, and unfortunately, men in certain positions such as coaches, teachers, and pastors have become the poster boys for such behavior.
So, while I understand his spirit and building relationships with children, it is important, but given the time period we are in, it was poor judgment. He found himself as a lightning rod for unnecessary backlash for anyone who was made to feel uncomfortable by any person in a position of authority.
@@tangotea7192 Not dry braids. LOL!
THISSSSSSS!!!!!!
Stop saying you’re sure it was innocent unless you are a mind reader. I don’t believe anything that comes out of his mouth. I don’t even believe he had a hair appointment.
I think it is unprofessional, not necessarily inappropriate in a sexual manner. As a former teacher, I would never allow students to touch my person or post photos of them. Taking down your hair at work is also unprofessional. Kids will volunteer for some wild/random things, but as an adult, you have to have boundaries.
Boundaries is the biggest point here...he has none...no telling wat else he's willing to cross with those young ladies...u r a teacher I don't send my kids to school hang with the "cool teacher" u can't be a teacher if you're not proactively practicing *BOUNDARIES * with your students. Also u r probably monetize off those kids... teach my child how to budget, taxtation...economics anything else other than inappropriate interaction with your students.
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Everything starts off small and than Grow legs running straight to jail.
Amen to that!
I’m a former teacher. This is so inappropriate. students should not be participating in any hygiene/grooming of their teacher for any reason. In fact, they should not touch you at all outside of an occasional friendly hug or high five. This man is weird.
Hella weird
Yup
Exactly!
If it shoudn't have been POSTED, then it shouldn't have been done in the first place. That's like saying we can sin in private but not in public.🙄
@@shiirenesims6250 that part!! 🎯
If a student can't just sit there and take out their braids in class, shouldn't you sir
Exactly
Crosses professional and ethical boundaries. Shows a immaturity level in his logic. Running risk of various violations.
As an educator, this is past unprofessional. I’m disgusted! I would never ask any of my students to do this. I love my students too. Still, I wouldn’t ever!
This man is one accusation away from catching a charge
They are saying he passes out his personal phone number and email to the kids. I’m sure this isn’t so innocent.
It’s called boundaries. This society does not understand appropriate boundaries
Between texting, painting his nails and responding to a TikTok in a odd way to a student....it's all a mess
I'm not saying he's a creep or isn't a good teacher but Not My Daughter. 😡
His lack of awareness is child like
For sure inappropriate and unprofessional. There needs to be boundaries for students
Lmao I was weak when Jami said you can play all the classical music you want I don't care
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@misslolmomo 😂😂😂😂😂 you know Jami be having us crackin up
😂😂😂😂😂 straight like that 😅😅😅😅😊
@@DKDAY26ALLDAY01 lol Jami cuts no cards 🤣 😂 😅
this right here made me subscribe 😂😂😂😂😂
That's not the type of relationship I want my child to build with their teacher. Further, I have downtime at the office but me and my coworkers can't start taking my braids down!
Starting them girls off early giving out free labor, they are there for an education.
Exactly !! If I was one of the parents I would want him to pay my daughter first and then I will do everything to make him be fired !
I died when you went from the soft voice to the firm voice. You had me thinking you were on his side, just to snatch the carpet from me 😂😂😂😂. I agree it’s inappropriate, but he should’ve taken down his hair. Everyone thinks it’s cute until it’s not.
Im hollering 🤣💀
Your classroom can be a safe space and have boundaries‼️
As a teacher, I have had students say we're best friends. I always let them know I'm not friends with children I'm grown. In all respect, there has to be clear boundaries it doesn't matter, man or woman. We're here to teach, not befriend.
Him identifying them as his best friends is problematic and takes away from this speech he gave to justify this
Mannnnn, I almost got into an argument with another CZcamsr about how this was unacceptable and she, a black woman herself, thought nothing was wrong with this!! I was beyond disgusted!
Tens of thousands of men and women on IG calling people out for projection and sexualizing a situation. I was baffled. No way so many of y'all are so dense...smh.
I remember when my 19 year old daughter was in kindergarten her Caucasian teacher was always having the kids brush her hair and I made it very clear that my daughter was not going to participate in that activity because I didn’t feel it was appropriate at all.
Let's be real these teachers not trying to be kind, they trying to be cool. They have a childish mentality as well most times trying to get they second chance at being a "cool kid" at school.
This is the most accurate view on this. This guy is a menace lol
Agreed
Facts
Bingo!!!!
I’m a director at a youth non-profit, this is highly inappropriate. We would never allow a male staff member let young girls take down their hair. You can have the best intentions but it’s about perception. The perception of possible grooming, crossing the line and more. You’re a grown man who needs to manage his time better. I wouldn’t think it was appropriate for a woman to do that at work.
This is so inappropriate. Why have these little black girls teaching them to go above and beyond for an adult male. The school needs to discipline this male. When has it become normal for teachers to blur the lines?
As a mother and as a woman all i see is a man surrounded by underage females trying to " befriend" them and the way he had a whole defensive speech prepared really bothered me..i cannot say what his intentions were but it was unprofessional..i get let your guard down vibes
It’s a set up to look and sound innocent while grooming these girls
This type of conduct is why black male educators struggle to get hired. This would never fly at PWI.
Dang Straight. White education administration's would never allow this.
I was a cool teacher but as a teacher not as a friend, kids will think you’re cool if you create boundaries and teach them it is okay to be themselves but with each other not with the teacher. The teacher is there to provide education, letting them be a kid is letting them play and be on their phones not taking out your hair! Also some kids don’t know the difference between I’m just taking hair out and omg this teacher I may have a crush on wants me to touch him. Agree Jami 100%!
Your last sentence changed my thoughts. I was on his side but you’re right he can see it as innocent but you never know if the kids are thinking otherwise that’s why it should be a boundary.
@@GrowingwithRome you never know what’s in someone’s head child or adult. Perception is everything!
There's no benefits of the doubt needed. He was strategic, but his manipulation did not cross over well with everyone. His trifling self made it a point to talk about darts and basketball as if boys were included. I see school girls with crushes and the sick part is, he took advantage of those feelings while using his platform. He knows what grooming looks like.
Yup
Also, you're a grown man and made a hair appointment knowing you had to work lol He may not be a creep, but it's still not appropriate💁🏾♀️
Why is he giving me Diddy vibes…self praising narc🤔
I didn’t even think of that because the “cool” teachers in my high school all had rumors going around about flirting or messing with students smh
My cousin had a teacher that ALL the girls loved because he was so nice. Few years later, cased up for cm...
I taught for eleven years and I can’t IMAGINE parents putting up with this type of behavior. First, he is being paid to teach, not get his hair unbraided. He is on school district time. He isn’t babysitting, he’s supposed to be instructing. If I am the principal, he’s fired.
This bothered my spirit so much I had to leave a second comment. Did he say he picked the students (all girls) that were to take his hair out? Why those girls in particular? Why’re they being “chosen?” And what environment does that create for the girls who weren’t? And the boys in the class? What statement does this make to their young impressionable minds? And how can these children be his “best friends?” What kind of society are we living in to normalize this? This is how lines get crossed and boundaries get blurred. No, this is entirely inappropriate. Give the wrong student the wrong impression and he’ll be 5 seconds away from federal time, and this would be the best evidence. Freaking weirdo😤
My favorite teacher was the most uncool teacher. 😂 He was strict and gave us teaching projects that were so difficult. He showed his care for us and passion for the subject through the way he presented himself. Encouraged me to become a teacher. Still keep in touch with him and now we laugh that I'm the uncool teacher at my school. 😅
half the ppl sayin its innocent would be ready to fight if another woman who wasnt a stylist was playin in they man head. like lets bffr. its inappropriate especially w him being attractive n them so close in age. n kids hormones b raging, look at moesha n what she did w her teacher. its not like its unheard of for security guards at schools to b sleepin w students
Good example lol because it does happen!!
Exactly
No sir! If that was one of my daughters, you would be catching a case! This is disturbing, unprofessional and inappropriate. The music is manipulative. UGH!
No child should be touching a random adult!! As a grown ass man, I don’t even want a child that’s not mine or related to me even in my personal space. Even more so in a professional setting while performing in my professional capacity. He should be fired!
I'm a mother, and I do not approve. And another thing, my child is Not Your Best Friend!
Firstly, child labor laws. These children are doing a service that he himself said is a burden. For what I assume free..
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A lot of these teachers a HUGE red flag nowadays. Why are you comfortable enough to have random young black girls groom your hair. It's like he's grooming them, while they're grooming him. it's crazy 🤦🏾♂️
BINGO
I do agree it should not have been posted on social media.
It shouldn't have been done, period. He a grown man, he can do his own hair.
It shouldn't have been done to begin with!
It should've been so we can examine things like this plus, if he had any weird plans, they were detailed! I love that he posted this
He could have just paid his braider extra for take down...I have been in education and I also do hair... even if it were a female teacher I would say same thing.
The fact that so many aren't finding a problem with this is a problem, in itself...ao many situations with kids start off harmless and as parents, its our job to take preventative measures. And you can support these kids without any of you being in each other's personal space. This should not be happening.
I would not have allowed my children to participate in taking their teacher's hair down, UNLESS my children were being paid and I was there to supervisor. But in CLASS, studying is ALL that needs to be done. That's why we got "graduates" can not read or do middle school math. They were NOT focused on schoolwork... and neither was the teacher.
Where are the boys? Why aren't the boys helping with his hair or is it only girls should be the hair laborers? Did he tip them? If not so he got free labor in the guise of teaching-student bonding? Also people on IG really believe "inappropriate" mean a sexual capacity and not just simple social cues and acceptable social behavior. Jami, you made exceptional points and trust, he will be caught in something soon.
why can't they just go to school eat lunch and come home with homework...i feel like we should jus fire everybody and start from scratch. and he really posted this...smh...
Exactly im sick of it 🤨
As a dad I would be upset she would have a problem and he would to!
He has a video of a student doing his nails. This is weird af & just a 100% hell nah!
He could've just taken them out while the kids had their free time🤔 This whole monologue sounds like one long list of excuses😂
That definitely would’ve been a better option. I just think it’s still unprofessional because it’s a classroom not a salon.
@Bree5three Yeah, he just needs to take the L and sit down somewhere smh
Wow, this man has issues, I don't want him around my kids or anybody else's
I don’t know your feelings yet but me as a mother of a 12 and 14 year old girls. I don’t approve of it but it’s their parents feelings lol
This is wildly unprofessional like sir you aint the only good teacher that loves his students. Boundaries protect the kids and the teachers cause realistically this kind of interaction between hormonal tweens and teens and their teacher in not appropriate cause letting them get this close to him blurs the lines cause teens can get delulu at that age and crush on their teacher and unnecessary rumors can be brought up and can harm his reputation no matter how innocent this was
My thoughts exactly! Why would you put yourself in that position as a teacher for folks to speculate. The optics look bad sir.
Sir, do you remember the movies/series, Fear, Crush, The Boy Next Door, Law and Order: SVU...Let's NOT do this, sir.
It’s a fawk no for me. Those baby girls probably have a crush on that man, I was a high school girl so I know. I might not start off w bad intentions but we don’t know hisss intentions as a grown man and that’s how lines get blurred. These kids can’t read get out his scalp! It’s inappropriate and a mess.
Stop tryna be the cool teacher, stop tryna be friends with students, innocent or not it’s inappropriate and unprofessional. I would be mortified if my son OR daughter came home talkin about “I took out mr/mrs braids today” excuse me what? And stop posting everything online for a damn moment
When I was in highschool my math teacher cross the line with a student and the day after we graduated they got married.
Wow! Are they still together?
I don’t agree at all. Male or female. Boundaries are necessary in every relationship. I’m glad they feel safe around him as he should make them feel safe, but there are other ways to display that bond. Also as you stated, this can easily put him in a sticky situation and this video definitely won’t help him should that happen. I’m glad you clocked the classical music&clover valley Keith Lee voice he tried to put on. Also I don’t like him posting this with theirs faces in it or at all for that matter.
One thing I find to be weird is when I was in school I never knew what my teachers did outside of school. I never knew if they had hair appointments, vacation here or there or whatever. I’m concerned why is he telling them about a hair appointment.
Grooming always starts innocent as a teacher he should know that. That's the freaking point. I'm a woman I don't need anyone 2 take down my hair 4 me.
I had a high school spanish teacher who use to always refer to female students in his class as he phrased it "My girls" and we being young thought nothing of it until later that same school year he got caught up with allegations of messing with a female classmate of ours.She didn't come to school for a week or two and we never seen or heard from dude again.
So this guy here not fooling nobody except lost ones and I understand us black folks wanna protect our image especially when we in job positions but this guy the wrong one to support he deserves any consequences from his actions cuz the way he talks,the way he tryna shame ppl who question his motives are signs that he's a hazard to children
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It seems like poor time management on the teachers part. You having to be interviewed and having a hair appointment after work shouldn’t mean that you task students to take your hair out and the way he is phrasing it is like it’s a “reward “for the students for good behaviour, like what type is ish is this? And you took other students from other classes to help, why did the other teachers agree? This some fuck shit in my Jamie voice ⁉️
He can pay the stylist to take the braids out. I do believe he should have received a warning, and only fired if this was the second time they had to address boundaries with students. Using timeframe as an excuse, I remember when I had to pay the braider to take out my micro’s and braid my hair into micro’s in the same day. So his excuse was poor. Yes, he can absolutely be the cool teacher yet understand that allowing his students to groom him can make it easier for him to “groom” them.
For the future protection of those girls, he needs to be explaining and reinforcing boundaries, not softening them and teaching them to trust grown “friends “.
Oh HELL NO!!!!!! I have a 6 year old daughter. We live overseas and you don’t see this shit in our schools. This man crosses ethical boundaries. No, no, no! Where’s HR or risk management😂😂😂
His problem is he called his students friends. They're not your friends. Friends are from your peer group. Your students are not in your peer group. You hold a sense of authority over them so they can never be your friends.
As an aspiring teacher, this is inappropriate and unprofessional. These new teachers are so caught up with recording that he recorded himself out of a job. Nothing sexually about it but it's a lack of boundaries between teacher and student.
Another type of symbiotic relationship is parasitism. Also as a former biology teacher there is no such thing as down time. The curriculum leaves no space for all of this free time.
As a mother of daughters (young adults now--won't he do it lol!) and a former high school teacher who had the "cool" classroom, I do agree. This was way too comfortable for teacher/student rapport. Why give anyone reason to question your intentions as an educator?
With all that’s happened in the schools as of late, that wasn’t the move 🤷🏾♀️ He may just be the greatest teacher ever, but its simply about boundaries.
Exactly you said it all!!
So, he had these girls take down his hair during downtime time they earned for doing well in class because it would have taken him too long to do it?! Got it
This teacher is beyond inappropiate. And when he talks about the young girls doing hair and nails and running a little side hustle etc. These are middle school girls! Why aren’t they focused more on their academics. Only in the black commmunity, black girls have to grow up fast, groom to do this. I seen it and couldn’t escape it. Those charter schools are getting a bad rep.
Well said thank you 😊
I’m all for him being an amazing teacher but lines were blurred here. Why’s this even out there? Was this on social media? Why? He’s the teacher, there is a power dynamic here. This is entirely unacceptable and inappropriate. His talking, the music playing and them grooming him in a classroom is manipulative. I would NOT want my child taking their teacher’s hair out..FOR ANY REASON!
This was too much
I do see ur point Jamie, innocent or not boundaries are necessary. It just hard for me to care bought this story. I don’t care to c him on my screen
I agree with you 💯Jami gurl! Stay blessed!
Yeah he’s a young attractive male teacher. Intentions aside this was inappropriate. 😢
Seen this dude's livestreams on TikTok, he has very little control of his students. He's an odd one for sure.
As the father of a teenage daughter I would have a problem with her taking out a grown man's braids.
On the same topic, but looking from another angle... Why can't bm keep themselves OUT of questionable situations in 2024?? What's going on to where bm are consistently being found in compromising positions??
They’re very mentally off and idk where that’s coming from 😬
Inappropriate. Why wasn't he helping if it was about the time crunch. He specifically picked those children... Why?
It was the manicures and massages too. Like be ffr
Jami I knew you would see this the same way I did!
Anyone justifying this should look back to when they were kids. A lot of us knew a teacher who crossed lines and was inappropriate with young ladies. And think about the moment you asked yourself how did they get away with it. Now look at all the adults saying they see nothing wrong with this. They see nothing wrong with him texting kids. They see nothing wrong with him being "besties" with the kids.
I don’t find it inappropriate but why did it need to be recorded.
Avoid the appearance of impropriety…how it looks, given the relationship between the teacher and the student, is what should matter in this case.
Male or female this inappropriate idc how you want to slice it. This is far too intimate of a thing. It a slippery slope for all parties involved.
I agree Jami!
It’s inappropriate, there’s a time and place for everything and that ain’t it. I can’t take my braids out at work either. Teachers should be wise enough to use discernment, he’s not displaying that and it seems like an ego thing where he wants to be liked a little too much by his students.
I think what he was doing is a huge liability on many levels even if there isn’t ill intent.
Why am I just getting a notification for this today😵💫
He’s also wearing a shirt with the school logo so now the school of where these children attend is available to the general public along with their faces. Irresponsible and reckless of him. No self awareness of him. And why are they texting his phone. That’s weird.
Umm, sorry, as a mom of two, I would have preferred if it had not been filmed and not taken place in the classroom and I hope parental consent was given. Sorry, I would have preferred he skipped the appointment or paid an adult or student to do this, not during school. People may disagree, but I don't care for the term "Cool Teacher" . I feel teachers can be great ,respectable & relatable without crossing lines. To me, lines have been crossed, and it can be very tricky. BOTTOM LINE ITS NOT A COSMOLOGY CLASS. SORRY NOT SORRY I do not agree. IMHO
Though i dont think he means any harm, I think its unprofessional. Also, i dont think he should post students faces on social media.
"they see me as a big brother or a gather figure " grooming 💀