Big shout out to Raven, most people just let Miss Pat gloss over her trauma without explaining how she easily does that or why. Stopping her and having a discussion about it was great. First time watcher, but I’m definitely subscribing.
I do really appreciate the question. But I can’t get behind how Raven was seemingly shaming going no contact with abusive people in this generation though. Whether you go no contact (which going no contact & forgiveness is not mutually exclusive) or whether you forgive & keep contact. Either way, you are protecting yourself.
THIS‼️‼️ i read this comment after the 2nd watch… and the heaviness she talked about i feel it.. i feel myself wanting to cry and let go but the tears won’t come out.!
Her mindset can cure depression! It’s the same mindset God chose me to have as well… and people look at me like I’m crazy when I share my traumas as I laugh… but I control my narrative! Love her for this!
I actually liked that she shared these stories including asking the abuser who fathered her first kids to apologize and the awful things he said. Cause it shows that though you may never get the acknowledgment or apology you should from someone that did awful things to you; you can still move forward, grow, and gain control of your story and life. This was a great episode, she talks about a lot of dark things and stories comedically-which may make people uncomfortable, but at the end of the day as she mentions: it gives people the opportunity to relate and also talk about these things when they otherwise may not have been able to.
As someone who was molested 1000% you gotta let it go. Dont mean it didn’t happen or it was right. It means IM FREE and what you did to me doesn’t define nor control me!
Forgiveness is for you, not the abuser. Using the term "playing victim" is very close to victim blaming. You can be a victim of abuse and a survivor of abuse. Just like you can express your angry and frustration for not properly being cared for, and still live a fulfilling life after harm. Point is, don't let the harm done to you keep you stuck in time. Ms. Pat sharing her story helps her do that. Hope others find ways to get their stories out.
@@FocalPointElisa there’s one thing to have been a victim, but if you hold onto that and look at your life NOW through the eyes of the PAST…that is “playing victim” now. At least for me.
E. Lynn Harris was a ground breaking author who we lost too soon. I have read all of his books and yes you cannot put them down. His memoir is unforgettable. I love Ms. Pat
Now THAT was a interview and a word.❗️💐 I throughly enjoyed this episode and live Ms. PAT. It truly touched me and made me look into forgiving someone who truly hurt me. And I hope this episode touched you Raven, in a way that allows you to open up a little and share some of your trauma and things you've experienced. So it to, can help someone who looks up or to you in way. Great job ladies ❤🙌🏾✨️😌🫶🏾🌹
10:52 “When you cry about cards that was handed to you, you don’t ever get to flip them over to see if you’ve won.” 🗣️🗣️A WORD!!!! I love Ms. Pat! I feel like she’s definitely the rose that grew from concrete. ❤
What I love about the Ms. Pat show is the balance between heavy subjects and humor. The graveyard song, abortion, and "I hate her" episodes made me cry but then laugh at the same time. So, thank you for sharing Ms. Pat🧡💛💚❤️
I confessed to my parents and my stepdad I was molested by family… my mother got deported soon after, I had to take care of my younger sibling untill they graduated highschool last year . It’s been a rough past 10 years. But I 1000% agree. You need to let it go. Or I wouldn’t be here
I see Ms. Pat being interviewed I click. Raven interviewing her was the icing on top! I know I’m gonna get a good laugh, some wisdom, & a good conversation🥰
This amount of self awareness, healing and forgiveness is astronomical! She wouldn’t have the life and the experiences she has had if she wasn’t able to tell her story in only the way she could! I absolutely love Mrs. Pat bc that’s her testimony!
Learning your family's story (Mother, grandmother; Father, grandfather...ect.), you'll understand in full the impact of generational trauma. Ms. Pat brings the light as she shares her story of generational trauma. I hope people are digesting the reality of her words with the "Haha".
My ultimate fav episode it feels so good to breathe after hearing this woman talk. I don’t want anyone to think they can have power over me that’s all. 😢
Ms. Pat is quickly becoming one of my favorite people. I have watched all 4 seasons of her show and the last episode had me clutching my pearls. If no one knows what it means to watch a Dramedy, Ms. Pat show is a master class. I laugh and cry and learn and forgive. The way she carries herself and the stories help you heal.
I’m so happy you had Ms Pat on your show. I have so much respect for her and love her so much. Only Ms Pat can make me laugh and cry within minutes apart.
She’s teaching them a valuable lesson about being real and truly letting go and not living in the Hurt… you can’t change the past, but you can move on and change your future and make life better for yourself and those who are coming behind you.
Raven-Symoné & Miranda Hat’s off to you two, thank you for holding Ms. Pat within her trauma for those brief moments. Now I fully understand how she was able to release and move forward. I’ve watched many of Ms. Pat interviews she tells her stories but, there is always a section missing the “how to heal” part. You two have closed that gap for me. Ms. Pat, thank you for reassuring me that I am moving in the correct direction.
My niece is gay. She came and visited me and said “ aunt Jackie I got something to tell you”. Then she paused. And I thinking something was wrong said “ child spit it out”. She said “I’m gay!” I said Chile I thought something was really wrong I already knew that. She lit up in excitement and said “ For real why you didn’t tell me I was scared you would get mad!” I responded chile that doesn’t change how I love you and feel about you. It’s your choice. I was waiting on you to get comfortable and say it. I was not going to push you into anything you were not ready for. Then I hugged her. So many LGBQT+ ( forgive me if the letters are wrong) have so many people judging them. Listen It’s our job to love people and help them love themselves and their lives. I enjoyed the episode. I love that Mrs. Pat is able to tell stories, state a point, and bring laughter at the same time. You win when you are able to forgive and release the pain.
This was a great episode 🫶🏽 as always.. love u Raven & Miranda 💕 I was just watching the breakfast club and ms. Pat was on there & it was my first time seeing her, and literally minutes later, you guys uploaded this video… & it was my second time seeing her & i love her ! Definitely a new fan 🥰
Ms Pat is an absolute Gem she’s so right about forgiveness you have to release it I know it’s hard but you can’t live holding on to baggage it weighs you & your body down that’s why Ms Pat looks so beautiful she’s free ❤❤❤❤
I love Mrs. Pat and how real and raw she is. It's rare to find someone that has been through what she has been through, has made a name for herself and is still true to who she is. She's not faking it for nobody and I appreciate her for making the money but not letting the money make her. Continue to inspire others you're so amazing!!! 💐
This was amazing so many gold tokens of life to learn from ♥️ Raven is such a professional when talking and Miranda does so well to they definitely make a great duo ❤keep it up 💕♥️👏👏👏👏👏👏
This was absolutely amazing. I've been watching Ms. Pat since her very first Joe Rogan episode and she is truly truly special, and we can learn a lot from her
Wow. She’s so insightful. “If you cry about the cards you were dealt, you’ll never flip them over to see if you won”. That’s beautiful
That is so amazing! She’s dropping gems!
Beautiful Ms. Pat❤❤❤❤❤
Very powerful and shows how she wants to be in control of her trauma and not the other way around
that made me cry it was beautiful
That was the part that made me pause the video and say: thank you God for the good, bad and in-between. Thank you Raven & Miranda for this interview.
Big shout out to Raven, most people just let Miss Pat gloss over her trauma without explaining how she easily does that or why. Stopping her and having a discussion about it was great. First time watcher, but I’m definitely subscribing.
It’s so trueeeeeee
That’s so true. I can appreciate Raven for having her share that, because we never see the back story of how she copes with her trauma.
I do really appreciate the question. But I can’t get behind how Raven was seemingly shaming going no contact with abusive people in this generation though. Whether you go no contact (which going no contact & forgiveness is not mutually exclusive) or whether you forgive & keep contact. Either way, you are protecting yourself.
This made me subscribe too. Raven found her voice again.
Absolutely!! I’ve heard her tell so many stories from her life & people just laugh with her I love that Raven pointed it out.
This defently needs to be longer
I feel this way about all of their interviews ✨
I love seeing this comment on every Ms. Pat interview 🥰
Most definitely ❤
One of my favorite interviews. So natural and genuine.
These episodes are always so short and leave me wanting more😭😭
SAMEEEEE 😩🥺
Toooo short😢
This video is a masterclass in forgiveness. I am going to replay this over and over until I finally get it.
💯 I’m healed just watching it! #AMAZING
THIS‼️‼️ i read this comment after the 2nd watch… and the heaviness she talked about i feel it.. i feel myself wanting to cry and let go but the tears won’t come out.!
@@goddessgraham563it’ll come, hon. And when it does, just let it flow because that shit heals the soul in ways we may never be able to account for!
Yes it's therapeutic
Raven you did a great job directing episode 6 in season 4 of the Ms Pat Show
Raven x Ms pat is an amazing crossover
Her mindset can cure depression! It’s the same mindset God chose me to have as well… and people look at me like I’m crazy when I share my traumas as I laugh… but I control my narrative! Love her for this!
I actually liked that she shared these stories including asking the abuser who fathered her first kids to apologize and the awful things he said. Cause it shows that though you may never get the acknowledgment or apology you should from someone that did awful things to you; you can still move forward, grow, and gain control of your story and life. This was a great episode, she talks about a lot of dark things and stories comedically-which may make people uncomfortable, but at the end of the day as she mentions: it gives people the opportunity to relate and also talk about these things when they otherwise may not have been able to.
As someone who was molested 1000% you gotta let it go. Dont mean it didn’t happen or it was right. It means IM FREE and what you did to me doesn’t define nor control me!
Amen!
Can't agree
Sending love to you ❤
Preach! Fellow CSA victim and going to therapy and letting it go was absolutely freeing,
I gotta tell my sister that 😢❤
I can’t get enough of Ms pat I love how authentic she is and a great story teller
Wow she made me cry 🥹 she’s right! Forgiveness will only help you. We can’t keep playing victim if we want to move forward ❤
Forgiveness is for you, not the abuser.
Using the term "playing victim" is very close to victim blaming.
You can be a victim of abuse and a survivor of abuse.
Just like you can express your angry and frustration for not properly being cared for, and still live a fulfilling life after harm.
Point is, don't let the harm done to you keep you stuck in time. Ms. Pat sharing her story helps her do that. Hope others find ways to get their stories out.
@@FocalPointElisa there’s one thing to have been a victim, but if you hold onto that and look at your life NOW through the eyes of the PAST…that is “playing victim” now. At least for me.
This episode changed something in me ...thank u
My two most favorite ppl Raven Symone and Ms. Pat :)
E. Lynn Harris was a ground breaking author who we lost too soon. I have read all of his books and yes you cannot put them down. His memoir is unforgettable. I love Ms. Pat
I enjoyed Ms. Pat not being vulgar the whole time. She dropped some great gems in this interview.
Now THAT was a interview and a word.❗️💐 I throughly enjoyed this episode and live Ms. PAT. It truly touched me and made me look into forgiving someone who truly hurt me. And I hope this episode touched you Raven, in a way that allows you to open up a little and share some of your trauma and things you've experienced. So it to, can help someone who looks up or to you in way. Great job ladies ❤🙌🏾✨️😌🫶🏾🌹
This episode was not nearly long enough! Great job ladies!
10:52 “When you cry about cards that was handed to you, you don’t ever get to flip them over to see if you’ve won.”
🗣️🗣️A WORD!!!! I love Ms. Pat! I feel like she’s definitely the rose that grew from concrete. ❤
What I love about the Ms. Pat show is the balance between heavy subjects and humor. The graveyard song, abortion, and "I hate her" episodes made me cry but then laugh at the same time. So, thank you for sharing Ms. Pat🧡💛💚❤️
I want raven to be a permanent on the ms.pats show !
I confessed to my parents and my stepdad I was molested by family… my mother got deported soon after, I had to take care of my younger sibling untill they graduated highschool last year . It’s been a rough past 10 years. But I 1000% agree. You need to let it go. Or I wouldn’t be here
Wow.. this epispode was sad.. was funny.. was inspiring.. i went through a lot of emotions watching.. Ms Pat and Raven.. what a great Tea time🎉🎉🎉😊😊
I see Ms. Pat being interviewed I click. Raven interviewing her was the icing on top! I know I’m gonna get a good laugh, some wisdom, & a good conversation🥰
I've never clicked on this podcast faster. Ms. Pat is hilarious and so real, an actual treasure.
I hesitated, not one bit, when I saw this video’s thumbnail. I’m literally one of the biggest Ms. Pat fans 😍
This amount of self awareness, healing and forgiveness is astronomical! She wouldn’t have the life and the experiences she has had if she wasn’t able to tell her story in only the way she could! I absolutely love Mrs. Pat bc that’s her testimony!
Out of all the interviews I've seen Mrs pat on this is by far one of my favorites. She was herself and just seemed like she felt at home
She’s always herself
Mine too your right 💯
Raven saying she doesn't have the money for another microphone is unhinged 🤣🤣🤣 #wealthy
Right. She been wealthy her entire life 😂😂😂.
Learning your family's story (Mother, grandmother; Father, grandfather...ect.), you'll understand in full the impact of generational trauma.
Ms. Pat brings the light as she shares her story of generational trauma.
I hope people are digesting the reality of her words with the "Haha".
We need a part 2! This was such a great moment! ❤
How can you not love Ms. Pat? Keep shining Queen! We are all rooting for you ❤
My ultimate fav episode it feels so good to breathe after hearing this woman talk. I don’t want anyone to think they can have power over me that’s all. 😢
19:42 I am fucking dying at Miranda’s transition. Ahahahahahahahaha crying tears.
This was so insightful. I loved every minute. The unfiltered banter, addressing real life trauma, and making the best of it. It’s truly great to see
Ms. Pat is quickly becoming one of my favorite people. I have watched all 4 seasons of her show and the last episode had me clutching my pearls. If no one knows what it means to watch a Dramedy, Ms. Pat show is a master class. I laugh and cry and learn and forgive. The way she carries herself and the stories help you heal.
Wish this episode was longer. Ms Pat is so inspiring, insightful and funny all at the same time! I love that you didn’t gloss over serious topics.
Blessings to Ms. Pat. Hope she continues to bring the light forward.
Extra special episode right here!! #healing #forgiveness #freedom
I’m so happy you had Ms Pat on your show. I have so much respect for her and love her so much. Only Ms Pat can make me laugh and cry within minutes apart.
She’s teaching them a valuable lesson about being real and truly letting go and not living in the Hurt… you can’t change the past, but you can move on and change your future and make life better for yourself and those who are coming behind you.
Love the interview!!!
Raven-Symoné & Miranda
Hat’s off to you two, thank you for holding Ms. Pat within her trauma for those brief moments. Now I fully understand how she was able to release and move forward. I’ve watched many of Ms. Pat interviews she tells her stories but, there is always a section missing the “how to heal” part. You two have closed that gap for me.
Ms. Pat, thank you for reassuring me that I am moving in the correct direction.
Ms. Pat should be a honorary third host. She's amazing. A toast to you three for being so awesome. All the best 💜
Genuinely loved this interview and I mean all the interviews but Miranda 😂 she fits right in and I love it !!
Yesss she does she very seasoned I love it 🥰 and her
I am just starting the video but I know for certain this is the interview I didn't know I needed desperately!!
This is amazing interview. This is definitely going to help somebody. God bless all three of you.
Damn this is so much healing rn! Thank you!
Wish this was like an hour long. This was sooo good! Loved the convo and jokes. Ms.Pat is so inspirational! 🎉
PLEASE COME BACK ON THE PODCAST MS.PAT!❤
These episodes are literally never enough. 😩😩
This was another great one.
I cried so hard watching this. This was so beautiful and healing. This type of honesty and rawness will help many ❤
Powerful episode! ❤️
this was an amazing interview/talk.....this needed to be longer.
I love this entire video. The discussions were wonderful ❤
Definitely should have been a longer video 😂 this was such a good episode
Great video and thanks for having Ms. Pat
Omg llloooovvveee this interview. It was very insightful and beautiful
I love this Ms.Pats authenticity 🫶🏾and Ravens direction of conversation was spot on ❤️❤️👏🏾
This should’ve been longer! It’s a great episode! Love ms pat and raven
Miss Pat is amazing and I’m so happy that she is being loved! What a strong courageous woman! 🖤
Wow what an interview. Thank you for sharing Ms Pat, keep shining your light 🥰♥️🙏🏻
She’s the truth! I love anyone who can be transparent & lead by example! Love Ms.Patt 🧡
My niece is gay. She came and visited me and said “ aunt Jackie I got something to tell you”. Then she paused. And I thinking something was wrong said “ child spit it out”. She said “I’m gay!” I said Chile I thought something was really wrong I already knew that. She lit up in excitement and said “ For real why you didn’t tell me I was scared you would get mad!” I responded chile that doesn’t change how I love you and feel about you. It’s your choice. I was waiting on you to get comfortable and say it. I was not going to push you into anything you were not ready for. Then I hugged her. So many LGBQT+ ( forgive me if the letters are wrong) have so many people judging them. Listen It’s our job to love people and help them love themselves and their lives. I enjoyed the episode. I love that Mrs. Pat is able to tell stories, state a point, and bring laughter at the same time. You win when you are able to forgive and release the pain.
This is so good!!
This was a great interview 💯
I love raven so much. Listening to her feels like coming home. Raven thanks for living in your truth and for being yourself. Love you!
Beautiful. ☀️🙏🏾🌅😍 Such a wonderful conversation. And The Ms Pat Show is amazing!!
WOW! This show was amazing and Ms. Pat gave such an insightful perspective on forgiveness.
This this THIS. Wow this episode is iconic! Healing energy
This was a great episode 🫶🏽 as always.. love u Raven & Miranda 💕
I was just watching the breakfast club and ms. Pat was on there & it was my first time seeing her, and literally minutes later, you guys uploaded this video… & it was my second time seeing her & i love her ! Definitely a new fan 🥰
Great show ladies!❤
I really needed this tonight 💜
it’s like y’all…. reading my mind 😭
This was a great interview, each time I listened to Ms.Pat, I learn something, I laugh and I feel better about whatever I’m going through.
LOVED this 😂 she’s hilarious and raw!
All Ms Pat interviews are gold!
I just purchased a new home and I’m at Home Depot every week!! Love them!
This is BEAUTIFUL ❤
Ms Pat is an absolute Gem she’s so right about forgiveness you have to release it I know it’s hard but you can’t live holding on to baggage it weighs you & your body down that’s why Ms Pat looks so beautiful she’s free ❤❤❤❤
This fed my soul and watered my spirit, dreams, and aspirations ❤.
I LAUGHED FROM START TO FINISH.... GREAT SHOW!
Happy Pride 🌈 I needed this how could I have just found this podcast. And having Ms Pat was so great. I instantly fell in love with This Channel
I love Mrs. Pat and how real and raw she is. It's rare to find someone that has been through what she has been through, has made a name for herself and is still true to who she is. She's not faking it for nobody and I appreciate her for making the money but not letting the money make her. Continue to inspire others you're so amazing!!! 💐
Thank you for this. ❤🎉
She's speaking the truth, I do the same thing, I being thru the same things She's been thru. Forgiving, healing, and moving on with life
Shout out to Ms. Pat for mentioning my favorite author, E. Lynn Harris. He was an incredible storyteller and writer. ❤
One of your best eps!
I love Ms Pat! Great episode!
This episode was fire. I clicked for Ms. Pat but I will be viewing more.
This was amazing so many gold tokens of life to learn from ♥️ Raven is such a professional when talking and Miranda does so well to they definitely make a great duo ❤keep it up 💕♥️👏👏👏👏👏👏
I rarely comment on videos, but I loved this soooo much we need longer episodes if possible 💙💙
This was awesome ❤
Raven the realest for this one ❤ thank you Raven for having Ms Pat on.
This was such a good episode. Ms. Pat has really come a long way and to see her happy despite her circumstances she is bright and loving. ❤
I just started watching Ms. PAT show, and I love her!
Absolutely love Ms Pat ♥️♥️
Amazing episode
This is so good……Very insightful
❤❤❤Amazing conversation
This was absolutely amazing. I've been watching Ms. Pat since her very first Joe Rogan episode and she is truly truly special, and we can learn a lot from her