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- This week QT and Maya give YOU Valentines advice based on viewer submissions! Also they talk about QT winning the Superbowl, how tired they are as the Streamer Awards loom, getting gifts from their boyfriends, and more!
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0:00 intro / we are tired
1:09 QT ( Travis Kelce ) won the Superbowl
4:11 Maya hated the Superbowl
9:55 QT thinks Usher is mid
15:33 QT’s camping trip
16:35 Maya can’t have kids because they’re too cringe
17:32 Ice Spice at the Superbowl
19:03 Kanye and his wife
21:17 Valentine's Day gifts from the boyfriends
23:39 Maya is coming to the Streamer Awards!
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25:39 Viewers ask us for Valentines Advice:
26:14 how do I move on from crush of two years?
35:06 how do I talk to women if they scare me?
40:59 husband of three years isn’t giving any gifts
48:39 - How do I stop being afraid of men?
50:58 - what would make you feel comfortable with open marriage?
54:42 - Outro / final advice
56:48 bonus episode preview - "secret rizz" / End Credits - Zábava
I’m going to write a card for my husband telling him, “I would never cheat on you starting now,” thanks for the advice QT ❤
Shoutout the yard
yard yoke
46:45 Honestly I would love a rock especially if it's a recurring gift once a month once a year or special occasion it could symbolize milestones in your relationship literally
"This rock shows how many miles we've walked together. I found it .5 miles away because we don't walk that often."
“How do I talk to women if they scare me” - if you feel like this, I always say it’s really good to ground yourself and realize that this person you’re nervous to approach is just a human like you, with their own thoughts and anxieties- just like you have. I feel that when we see someone as super attractive, or admirable, we put them on a pedestal higher than yourself, and in your mind this de-humanises them to some extent, but removing that and not letting yourself get carried away has been something that’s really helped me in different situations.
Or just take Ecstasy
nah just pretend ur gay
The "Women's Suffrage" clip was the hardest I've laughed since becoming homeless a month ago. I needed that, thank you.
I hope everything works out for you. You'll get back on your feet soon, you got this ❤️
@@stonehowl Thanks, I made it out and got housing :)
I am with Maya on the rock friend gifts, that is really cute. Super low effort yet meaningful.
Getting suspicious that you guys are birds >_>
(This is a joke, it's actually a cute idea just a little strange)
QT, that "Script" plan to cold start a convo is honestly the best way I have ever heard to approach that situation. No prying, no pre-gaming. Just being normal, genuine and sincerely forward without being creepy.
‘If you can get inside a car, a man can get inside of you’ QT what?? 😂
I love that QT addressed and brought up the fact that people can have 2 different sets of love languages for their romantic partner (and can be different for friends). Giving/receiving! I'm similar to QT wherein one of my giving love languages is gift giving and my receiving is quality time and words of affirmation
QT's way of writing in journals to move on from her crushes is basically the plot of the To All the Boys movies
As a guy, this made me realize how low the bar is for us 🙃 it’s funny but it’s also really sad lmao
18:02 her little jig was so cute lmao
Actually Maya, talking to women like they’re normal is the BEST advice.
37:10 trying to script social situation is also very common with autism! Trying to figure out how other people behave and practicing mimicking that to appear more “normal” is called masking.
(Thought that isn’t necessarily what QT is doing, not trying to be too presumptuous, also she’s talked about wondering if she has autism in the past!)
@39:00
Talk to a woman at a parking lot? That's the worst place to introduce yourself to someone 😅 they're either getting into their car to leave and you're holding them up in a closed- tight environment OR they're getting out and walking into the store which means you barely saw them and are being a creep ✋️don't approach woman in a parking lot men, not the best way 😢
True 😂 not the parking lot
That's why you don't listen to the fish when they try to teach you how to fish.
@@ftw4twcs I guess this is a joke. As the rest of their advice was good imo
I get what Maya said about football being frustrating. You just want them to score but they keep getting hit so you never get the satisfaction. That being said her reasoning was really funny it was basically "get good".
Once you understand how it works, it’s even more frustrating
I don't really watch football either but I think whenever they keep crashing into each other, the idea is that some of the guys on the line are going to create a gap for the guy with the ball to run through. That gap isn't always properly created so they crash into each other. No matter what side of the field you want to run down, you need to have space and the guys on the line are supposed to try to create that space for you if you have the ball. Sometimes the other team can see what kind of space you want to create and they make a play to try to stop you. That's why they so often seem like they just crash into each other. One team has a plan and the other team's plan is to stop them.
Also to limit the chance of an interception happening
As someone who doesn't really watch either, this sounds the most correct. I'm still learning the game and I'm like 32 lol. That being said, it is a frustrating sport to watch. I get the game clock, plays, and time-outs, but good god sometimes it takes 15 minutes just to get through 2 minutes of play. I'm a hockey guy and that sport is really fast paced so to come over to football, it can be frustrating.
It's also because they're so fast. Even the linemen who are huge have insane reaction time and a gap that a running back sees for like a fraction of a second can be immediately closed in the fraction of a second it takes for them to reach the line of scrimmage by one of the linemen.
the other part of it is kinda mental, i.e. "we're stronger than y'all are, we can go through these reps longer than y'all" etc. and by the time it's the 4th quarter the hope is that you've worn down the opponent to the point where that gap DOES stay open an extra half-second or whatever so the runner can burst through the line
I have no idea why but this episode mayas hair looked AMAZING 🤩 i could not stop looking at it. Also qt had some great advice definitely doing the gift every month one. Love the pod and I hope yall do it for as long as you can.
that one dude in the 1st advice question could be asexual or aromantic! both are valid!!
Yeah Maya saying to look for someone else after a few months got me doubting myself lol. I mentally can't date someone I'm not really good friends with. I've dated 2 people ever and they were both good friends for like 1 or 2 years before we dated.
@@DeathClawz ah yeah Demisexual, the person asking the question sounded like they were demi and the person that they were asking about sounded aromantic. or maybe I was reading too much into that and they both just needed to be better at communicating.
either way, no one needs to have everything (or anything) figured out at 20. I thought "go to graduate school and meet new people" was reasonable advice for moving on.
IT'S WINE ABOUT IT WEDNESDAY!!!! 3 days from STREAMER AWARDSSSSSSSS. Audio listeners, anyone else excited for Saturday?!?!
Whine About It Thursdays for all the southern hemisphere girlies!
I just wanted to weigh in a bit on the "husband wants open relationship" part. While I would never be able to be in an open relationship personally, I do feel that if there is to be an open relationship, that is something that is determined either when the relationship starts or shortly after it has started. If a husband of 2 years wants/suggests one, I'm sorry to say, but that man probably doesn't wanna be with you anymore but still want you as an 'option', and if you were to get with someone he would have issues with it.
Anecdotal, but yeah my ex asked about opening up and I found out a few days later that she'd been cheating on me for awhile and was trying to bring them in.
46:45 Weighing in: I would not melt. I would find it cute and nice but also be a little stressed out to find a place for it to live in order to adequately showcase my affection towards my partner’s consideration of me.
My ex girlfriend got me a rock that she painted I love you on - and that was the most special gift I ever got.
Slowly turning into the "Maya comforts QT" podcast, with really funny topics.
The gift thing. It's not even about giving valuable stuff. It's about reminders/tokens of proof that you thought about her (enough to get her a gift). Some people might hear giving gifts an have some sort of gold digger alarm go off. If they care about the value of it it might have point otherwise just try any small token of appreciation/thought.
yeah I'd be thrilled if someone brought me a nice rock.
it doesn't even need a smiley face if it was already a great rock.
The ones running into each other are the offensive and defensive lineman. It’s part of the play, but I know exactly what Maya means. The running backs will go right up the middle through the pile instead of going outside. I’m sure there’s strategy behind it but it does look dumb when you don’t understand football.
And Usher is amazing! A legend!! Been a fan since “Nice and Slow!” 🔥
The basic strategy behind the inside handoff rush is that the offensive lineman block, creating a gap for the runningback to get through. This play is usually "safer" than other plays and will often result in getting a few yards with results of no yards and a lot of yards both being relatively rare. This is because the rb is running straight forward and never back or to the side, which is necessary for most plays, but at the same time is directly engaging with the are with the most defenders
QT calling usher mid actually made me cover my mouth I was like "ohhh hell nooo..."
For those that don’t know why the football players “just run straight into each other”. The truth is that’s not literally what’s happening. The men on the line, when their team has the ball are actually trying to PUSH the other team either left or right. Each play has a specific plan for which gap between players the runner will run through, and it’s his teams job to create enough space for him. If they don’t create enough space, it’s because the person they’re pushing is stronger- and that’s when plays fail, and ultimately ends up showing which team is stronger overall and which is weaker.
If my husband brought home a smiley face rock, I would name it and make it my pet, and let it live on my desk where I can always see it. Maya, you are not alone. ❤
For the second question, i think about Stavros Halkis' advice. Your goal when youre anxious and worried about talking with a woman is just getting rejections. Dont worry about landing a date, or a hook up, or even getting/giving out a number. Just get a rejection, eventually you'll be desensitized to rejection, and you can just focus on being yourself. The hardest thing is overcoming the fesr of rejection
i would LOVE the rock as a gift. i want a smooth rock friend to hold and put in my pocket - "a pebble that we picked up last july, down deep inside my pocket..." taylor swift likes rocks too!
4:18 "You have a bad attitude and a bad ass"
QT is one of those friends that will go for that joke that would either strengthen the relationship or break it lol
Qt saying that usher grabing alicia keys is okay, was crazzyyy HAHAH
Listening to this on my walk home in the dark so I feel less scared! Thanks maya and qt for keeping me comfy during my dark walk home
About the first relationship advice question. The guy might be aromantic which is not feeling romantic attraction, in that case not having romantic feelings for anyone. I think I'm on the aromantic spectrum since I've never felt romantic attraction or crushes growing up. That might change after dating more but idk.
It's also important to note that even if you are aromantic that doesn't mean that you don't want to have a relationship with anyone, I'm not aromantic so please do correct me if I'm incorrect about something but they can very well still feel a longing and want for a relationship with someone, that closeness is something most humans want in some capacity. Either way anything is valid as long as it's what you want
@torrix4593 You're right. Wanting a relationship is an individual's choice. Could be connected to other aspects of course.
Personally speaking, I still want a relationship, but not having felt romantic or sexual feelings for anyone ever feels tough.
I love that the party went good for qt!!! though I hope she had some fun as well aside from cooking, cleaning and taking care of everyone !
also what maya said about them running into eachother instead of somewhere else (I think), it’s bc of their plays ! every defense and offense have their own planned plays that they follow lol
usher WAS wilding OUTTT.. I didn’t even know he just got married but after learning that..😭😭😭 props to her husband for being so secure
Maya is the weird one for not having a little jig. Everyone's gotta have a little jig. Mine is like QTs, except I add an extra finger dance from pointed up, to retracted, to horizontal, retracted, repeat
When someone asks me if I dance:
"Uh, yeah, of course" ✊☝️✊👈✊☝️✊👉
Yeah I don't dance lol
I JUST STARTED PLAYING INFINITE CRAFT AS THE POD STARTED AND I MADE WINE AFTER CHANTING WINE ABOUT IT, WINE ABOUT IT
I normally wouldn't comment anything till after watching the vid, if I comment at all, but that first second of QT was really funny. Keep it up my dudes.
I think Maya would probably prefer watching rugby than football, there is more movement of the ball and less stoppages
I did that exact same thing qt talked about the journals, I think it's healthy to get out the feelings!
I forgot today was wednesday!!!! Wine about it! 🎶
GREAT EPISODE! HAD ME GIGGLIN
36:25 you’re gonna have to teach me some haven lineups because girl you are radiant
Amazing podcast.
As someone who recently moved to the US, the more I listen to this and other similar podcasts, the more I realize that the bar for men to be a good bf is so low. Everything QT and Maya talk about here (especially when it comes to gift giving) seems more like common human decency/respect than something you do for your SO.
I hope everyone had a good Valentine's day :) Please do not settle for men who make you unhappy.
My gf would absolutely melt if I gave her a rock with a face painted on it, every time we go on a hike she hides fist sized rocks in my bag as a gift.
Superbowl segment and takes from Maya MIND NUMBING as expected ily girls ❤
I don't understand dudes that get annoyed explaining football. I love explaining it, genuinely one of my favorite things. I think those guys just don't know ball and being asked about it upsets them.
Happy valentine this is the best gift today. Me and my friend were at work during the Super Bowl and put the tv on Nickelodeon’s showing of the game. It was the exact same game and everything except commentated by SpongeBob and Patrick and made to look like it was in bikini bottom that made it much more entertaining and the fact we had other people watching that version of the game
What QT described reminds me of limerence which is common with OCD (specifically ROCD) and ive had it from time to time. it can be really hard to get over it, even when its just a crush
the rock with a smiley face would make me melt yes
Thank you, i actually needed this
48:48 I laughed when a QT said this, and then laughed more when Maya had no reaction and was just like, “That’s right.”
Yessss perfect timing 🙏
Maya gives me such hippie druid vibe and i love her for it ❤😊
maya’s jodi merch 🥹
Good talk
New Wine about it! yes!!!
when maya said the things about football being boring i got sad for some reason but then she said she likes watching basketball and it made me happy cuz basketball is goated 😺😺😺😺
god damnit, so i did try the script for talking to a girl. but she couldnt find me on socials cause i am not actually called Bill .. thanks for the advice anyways! ;p
11:37 Great sequence lol
55:41 Nice "The Yard" reference, QT :D
I have run the rock once and it was insane. She actually teared up.
Highly recommend if you have time Sul & beans across the street from the wiltern for Korean shaved ice
I love you guys
QT using Mykonos as an alibi got me howling 😂
Confessions Usher is such a classic album. no skippable tracks.
My only way to talk to women is the non-scripted random conversation that happens mostly because we happen to be at the same place at the same time. Just like I talk to dudes, or whoever.
30:20 Good one Mayo
As someone from kc that game was tense as hell. Super close as well boring is crazy.
maya what hoodie are you rocking it looks comfy
I have to rewatch the advice segment of this pod the next time that I am in a relationship
The Kelce ambush on Reid was ridiculous. There was zero respect for the coach there. On our sports radio (Boston), they mentioned that if Kelce did that to Belichick, Kelce would have been benched and probably wouldn't be playing in any games. That's how you lose respect from your leadership and your locker room.
Do we know what he was yelling about? I didn't watch but I assume not, unless someone said afterwards, since you only hear them if there's an interviewer.
streamer awards SOOOON
Maya, I wish I could have been there to answer your football questions. Your complaints about football are valid.
7:09 so cuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuute
Hello...... darkness my old friend. I've come to watch wine about it again.
I would love a rock without a smiley face too, i used to collect rocks when i was young
Can confirm the rock thing works wonders haha
46:55 I’m with maya. I’ve got a shelf of rocks
“tell your husband we hate him” 😭😭😭
People if you don’t know what to say in a letter, look up a cute fact about something they like, like their favorite animal or a place they want to visit and write it down and say that it made you thought they would like it. That would make me kick my feet like a schoolgirl and it’s a simple way to fill up a little space in a card if you truly can’t think of much touchy feely stuff (but you do have to still include a compliment or two and tell them you’re glad they’re in your life or something)
The running into the other team thing is because they're hoping their teammates in front of them will move the other guys out of the way so they can run past them. It just kind of doesn't work that often.
I agree with Maya on the rock thing it's cute
18:00 QTTTTT im dead
Jason is the best Kelce, next to Momma and Papa Kelce of course - I hope to see him play one more season - Go Birds 🦅
Maya that’s the running back. The players in the middle try to push eachother out of the way for the running back.
dear god the episode just dropped idk if i my question made it to the podcast but thank you my twitter can go private again 😭😭😭
i only put it on public yesterday bc i wanted to ask a question and my boyfriend's homies found my profile and have seen everything IM SO EMBARRASSED 😭😭😭 PLS PLS I HOPE I MADE IT TO THE PODDDDDD
Lmao
i'm with Maya for the rock i would giggle and melt if i got a rock friend
12:36 this whole part has me cackling maya is aubrey fr
QT taught us to smoke, Ludwig taught us to pack TF UP
note for all men: if u see an attractive woman in the parking lot and u want to say hi or wtv DO NOT FOLLOW HER😭! I’ve seen so many videos of women talking about men following them to their car to ask for their number or introduce themselves or whatever without I guess realizing how scary it must seem as the girl and it’s crazy😭😭😭
putting yourself out there is always good! there’s just a time and place and especially place😭
yes, rock would work
QT looked good gawd damn
I love rocks ❤
I think Maya's advice for talking to women if you are scared was great. Its important to think of women as normal people, It's helpful advice for a lot of phobias. When you start to see something you are irrationally afraid of as normal its not so scary anymore, just like how normalizing bugs or reptiles to people who are afraid of them can be helpful.
I feel like you shouldn't approach people from the opposite sex with all of the expectations of rizzing them up and trying to start a relationship. Just treat them like a human being and try to get to know them and then you can decide if you are even interested.
i love maya so much. she is my number one favorite streamer but she does have a bad attitude 😭😂
I'm on Maya's side, I'd LOVE a smiley face rock every month
If someone gave me a rock like a cute little penguin id cherish it forever
I’d be happy with a cute rock, but I relate to Maya’s love of nature so I might be biased
QT in 3 weeks has said Megan Thee Stallion wasn't actually calling out Nicki in her diss track, gave Viva Las Vegas to Sinatra, and called Usher, one of the greatest entertainers of all time, mid. I love it.