Looking After Helen | Singapore's Elderly Poor

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  • čas přidán 12. 05. 2017
  • Alone for 17 years after her husband died, Helen was falling prey to dementia, loneliness and squalor in her one-room flat. Until this turned her life around.
    This is part of a special package on elderly poverty in Singapore, Myanmar, Vietnam and South Korea: www.channelnewsasia.com/news/c...

Komentáře • 146

  • @achtung1134
    @achtung1134 Před 6 lety +371

    She is an adorable old lady. Elderly people really want to just talk to someone as they get really lonely. This breaks my heart because i have grandmas and grandpas that i cannot spend a lot of time with. They are always happy whenever they get to talk to their family or just anyone in general

    • @Cys62
      @Cys62 Před 5 lety +1

      I think so too...
      And its nice there is someone there to help her.

    • @haleymartin5798
      @haleymartin5798 Před 4 lety

      Would you perhaps consider helping my grandma move back home? Even 5 dollars would help.
      Please at least share this gofundme!
      www.gofundme.com/1sjmha8gao

  • @lynnkhir2409
    @lynnkhir2409 Před 6 lety +181

    Love how she laughs!!! So cute lah you auntie!!!!

    • @NazriB
      @NazriB Před rokem

      Lies again? FOX NEWS Loo Kansas

  • @issashayne3798
    @issashayne3798 Před 6 lety +169

    Aww shes so cute!

    • @Unteroffizier
      @Unteroffizier Před 6 lety +7

      Yes. Although she has dementia but i think her positive personality is the most important factor it was never robbed from here even with her conditions. I believe a person's character plays a lot of importance in the face of an illness. There are dementia patients who are not as easy to look after and complying as her. Some will throw tantrums the whole day through and will need a caregiver 24 hours looking after them.

  • @jasminebegay2380
    @jasminebegay2380 Před 4 lety +17

    When I was working as a nursing assistant at a nursing home. You start to get to know them and what happened in their life. They just want someone to talk to to love them for them. I remember this lady that started calling me her granddaughter because I was the only one that took the time to get to know her. After I left I would still take the time to visit her twice a week and bring her things she needed. I miss you Robin 😢💔

  • @syakirah2154
    @syakirah2154 Před 6 lety +56

    I thought i was the only one who cried watching this... omgd so touching i love volunteering and doing things like this cause it teaches me not to take my parents for granted and appreciate all the good things in life 😢❤️

    • @rmpatpath3916
      @rmpatpath3916 Před 5 lety +1

      Today my son showed this video& we both cried..Old age is inevitable.. dying in loneliness is heart wrenching..czcams.com/video/gep6UGZm6h4/video.html

    • @rmpatpath3916
      @rmpatpath3916 Před 5 lety

      czcams.com/video/gep6UGZm6h4/video.html

    • @esthermeya7090
      @esthermeya7090 Před 5 lety +1

      I'm in tears

  • @bowlampar
    @bowlampar Před 6 lety +65

    She struggled n worked hard in the earlier history of Singapore's nation building , sacrifice much for her nation, may be it is time Singapore should make her later living a bit easier , nothing wrong for government to provide some safety net to these senior citizens once they retired and financial assistance with their big national financial reserve.

  • @chengyiq3066
    @chengyiq3066 Před 6 lety +68

    I cry when I watched this video. The aunt is so cute and cheerful!!

    • @ava32913
      @ava32913 Před 4 lety

      Yes , that’s what other people says , l had clicked like button

  • @karlchandran4631
    @karlchandran4631 Před 4 lety +7

    The emotional effect of watching someone deteriorate in front of your eyes is heartbreaking. She's a wonderful and spirited person. I am happy she is doing better and getting the help she needs.

    • @marcopolo1020
      @marcopolo1020 Před 4 lety +2

      Unfortunately she passed away November 2018.
      give.asia/campaign/final-journey-funeral-expenses-hj0142#/

  • @ikramalfansa5946
    @ikramalfansa5946 Před 6 lety +288

    At least they are lucky to live in SG where the gov and NGO look after the senior citizens well. Thumbs up for Singapore 👍

    • @allison2846
      @allison2846 Před 6 lety +13

      fuck off pap shill

    • @hidhirharon2120
      @hidhirharon2120 Před 6 lety +20

      Allison dont be rude

    • @gauthamarun3878
      @gauthamarun3878 Před 6 lety

      Allison Why?

    • @perionlim
      @perionlim Před 6 lety +5

      Look deeper my friend...

    • @sarahm8497
      @sarahm8497 Před 6 lety +35

      the gov does the bare minimum. social welfare is hard to come by around here. a few hundred dollars isn't going to provide anybody with even the bare necessities. if you go to food courts/ public toilets, you'll see a ton of old folks struggling through menial and low paid jobs. not to 'stay active' or because they enjoy it. because they need to eat. it's time sg as a self declared 'first world country' (nah fam we ain't) followed the example of other actually socially progressive countries.

  • @longlast88
    @longlast88 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank you to these Singaporeans for taking care of one another. Really great work you people are doing. I too hope to contribute in my way to resolving these social issues.

  • @hibiscus4me607
    @hibiscus4me607 Před 5 lety +8

    Thank you Singapore and all the volunteers and social workers for taking care of the elderly.

  • @ianb13
    @ianb13 Před 5 lety +12

    Good job, Amala! I hope there are more people like her.

  • @moragosullivan5166
    @moragosullivan5166 Před 4 lety +6

    She’s way better looked after than many in the UK. They’d never have two people taking her out.i think it’s wonderful. Xx

  • @chongyoumoicarlot9692
    @chongyoumoicarlot9692 Před 5 lety +9

    She is such a cheerful and cute lady! I wish her well!

  • @myrianvalenzuela9199
    @myrianvalenzuela9199 Před 4 lety +4

    My mother since she was young was a clean and organized woman. She never sought helped from anybody. She wants to live alone, manage herself and her money. Nobody can control her. She hates being controlled. She's now 83 yrs old and still is strong for her age and still lives by herself.

  • @irwnvelasco6508
    @irwnvelasco6508 Před 6 lety +30

    Salute to ms amala! Well deserve recognition for hardwork and humane activities.

  • @bl00dcrimson
    @bl00dcrimson Před 5 lety +3

    This lady reminds me of my late grandma.. I called her Oma.. My Oma lived together with my late uncle just few blocks away from my house. I visited her only to bring lunch sometimes, but I didn't enter her house and didn't spend much to chat and accompany her. This lady on the video, have the same cheerfulness and voice tone with my late grandma everytime she saw me. But now everything is only in the past, I have missed the oportunity to chat and cherish her, and I regret that. Hopefully everyone who still have grandparents and elders can cherish everymoment you can share with them... because the time is actually running out...

  • @ruieng5106
    @ruieng5106 Před 6 lety +17

    So heart warming, if this inspired you to help others, like the comment

  • @hula750
    @hula750 Před 3 měsíci

    This is so meaningful. Thank you for being there for the lonely elderly.

  • @nemudijalan3369
    @nemudijalan3369 Před 2 lety +4

    Dear Helen hopefully you are okay during this pandemic

  • @yamingxie3451
    @yamingxie3451 Před 6 lety +5

    Spread LOVE all over Singapore........Keep up the good work!Time to volunteer myself.Thank

  • @akemiraaretavlas6061
    @akemiraaretavlas6061 Před 6 lety +43

    this my desire to care the old people,, I use to be Entertainer,,performing in hotel,, but I feel something missing on me,, until I became a caregiver to my friends dad and their I know what I really want into my life,, caring old people doesn't matter what race it is,,I just want to care and love them as my own blood,,, I hope and pray one day I have a place for old people in my country

  • @ninemillimeters
    @ninemillimeters Před 5 lety +3

    May God bless you Auntie Helen with good health & happiness..More ppl to visit and chat with you soon! And to Ms.Amala thank you so much for taking care of the seniors you're an inspiration to me.Kudos!

  • @avayu2289
    @avayu2289 Před 5 lety +3

    Kindness is so underrated! We must harness and spread it!

  • @chengpingtheng6230
    @chengpingtheng6230 Před 3 lety +1

    Lurve Aunty Helen's happy smiling face.. ❤..Her sweet and kind nature so welcoming to anyone who comes yo visit her😊

  • @littlehamster83
    @littlehamster83 Před 5 lety +13

    I think social service can arrange daytrips to Singapore zoo, bird park, local tourists spots, some diy crafts sessions, old movies screening, go sentosa, etc. If there is no funding, please a funding channel for supports, I am very sure many pple will be excited to help out and show their supports for the campaign. Always stay home is not that good as it gets boring prolonged.

  • @catherinedennis9953
    @catherinedennis9953 Před 4 lety +2

    May lord bless u all for taking care of the old folk🇸🇬🇸🇬🇸🇬 Proud to be a Singaporean 🇸🇬🇸🇬

  • @TsubakiSato
    @TsubakiSato Před 4 lety +2

    My school showed this vid to us to appreciate elderly and our lives! Our class thought she was very cute and sweet

  • @maggiechan3415
    @maggiechan3415 Před 5 lety +2

    Thanks for being kind. .
    Appreciate very much. . 💖

  • @elenaakimoto3941
    @elenaakimoto3941 Před 6 lety +3

    Such a heartwarming video! Love it! Such an amazing lady! Super cute! Amazing!

  • @sher2942
    @sher2942 Před 3 lety +2

    It's so sad to see lonely elderly people. I feel very badly for her.

  • @ejyx1435
    @ejyx1435 Před 4 lety +5

    By our American standards that's a nice ass apartment for elderly poverty. And also that is one adorable grandma

  • @user-ww3ki3sz7b
    @user-ww3ki3sz7b Před 2 lety +1

    Thumbs up for all volunteers !

  • @blankoblanko5839
    @blankoblanko5839 Před 6 lety +7

    I love these elderly people they so cute and funny when talking

  • @mschen3938
    @mschen3938 Před 5 lety +10

    Wow, compare this to HongKong...Singapore government has a very big heart.

  • @bryangayo4292
    @bryangayo4292 Před 4 lety +6

    Breaks my heart. In the Philippines, children takes great care of their parents. I don't know how to explain it, but its in our bloods. We highly respect our elderly.
    I highly missed my grandmother who had a stroke when I was 11. We had taken great care of her until her death in age 83, just when I turned 14.
    Kudos to the Singaporean Social Services. The world should learn more from you.

  • @catherinenguyen8289
    @catherinenguyen8289 Před 6 lety +12

    We have great people in this world

  • @jemchan
    @jemchan Před 6 lety +3

    she is so joyful.

  • @aleffush
    @aleffush Před 2 lety +1

    This reminds me of my late opah, ms Ahmala ure a great human!

  • @jlcdrivewayramps7343
    @jlcdrivewayramps7343 Před 6 lety +6

    Thank you Singaporeans for caring for the elderly.

  • @tommy70786
    @tommy70786 Před 4 lety +1

    What a sweet person. May god bless her.

  • @alberttang7641
    @alberttang7641 Před 5 lety +1

    This makes me think of my late grandma. I regret that I didnt spend enough time with her until today. Please for those who still have grandparents at home, spend time with them while you still can.. May mdm helen be happy and healthy always.

  • @roserihanna5126
    @roserihanna5126 Před 5 lety +3

    I like to look after elderly ppl as a social worker in any country.

  • @begotten59
    @begotten59 Před 5 lety +2

    Heartwarming lady and the caregiver 🙏👍

  • @gopigundam8740
    @gopigundam8740 Před rokem

    Nice video 💐 thank you

  • @drshaniz
    @drshaniz Před 3 lety +1

    This aunty is the sweetest...💙

  • @keepingneoh4692
    @keepingneoh4692 Před 5 lety +2

    Sharing is caring . May God continue to watch over Madam Helen & bless the kind souls abundantly ...John

    • @haleymartin5798
      @haleymartin5798 Před 4 lety

      Would you please consider at least sharing this gofundme for my grandma?
      www.gofundme.com/1sjmha8gao
      She too was hard working, and a hero to my family, as she supported all of us until she became poor and stuck in a city she hates with raising space rent, and only 1,200 from social security to live on. I work a min wage job and help out, and am going to school to do better, but I wont be able to do more than keep her here in the city she hates for at least several years. At 79, I don't know if she can wait that long...
      She cries, because Petaluma is the only place she calls home, and ever since I was born, she said she wanted to go back, but as she ages, she looses hope, and cries and is depressed over it because she thinks there is no hope and she will die here without ever going back home...
      Please at least share, as that can do alot, and if you even gave 5 dollars, it would be appreciated more than you will ever know!

  • @lelaserruji6036
    @lelaserruji6036 Před 3 lety +1

    So sweet....granny helen..so sweet and cheerful. Thumbs up for the social worker 😊

  • @techgeniusx_
    @techgeniusx_ Před 3 lety +1

    She's very kind and cool!! Keep her safe!!

  • @muthukumaran76
    @muthukumaran76 Před 5 lety +4

    God bless you.

  • @ashlee8780
    @ashlee8780 Před 5 lety +3

    She's adorable! Everytime she sees a person putside her door, she let them in😍

    • @tranlily3001
      @tranlily3001 Před 5 lety

      Ashlee Labrador :3
      she living almond lonely in 17year after her husband is dead!!! imagine it, at old age, no kids & being slowly by healthy problems!!! the lonely is killing inside
      everytime, missing their best memories they was had in times. everytime, missing the one they love but they're all gone..!!
      that's why she is so exciting whenever she see people come to her, even it a food delivery or neighbor walking by!!
      i wonder is she have any kids, but it seems the grandma have no kids as i guest

  • @axeltech9914
    @axeltech9914 Před 6 lety +2

    Thats a really nice thing to hear from sg ,its a really nice community , good job !

  • @hibu88
    @hibu88 Před 5 lety +5

    What a beautiful cheerful personality!!
    I hope she’s doing well. Any update??

    • @marcopolo1020
      @marcopolo1020 Před 4 lety +1

      She passed away November 2018. give.asia/campaign/final-journey-funeral-expenses-hj0142#/

  • @myluckystar80
    @myluckystar80 Před 6 lety +3

    great story

  • @stinaw7337
    @stinaw7337 Před 6 lety +27

    She’s so cute❤️ wish I could spend a day with her

  • @ChefWife67
    @ChefWife67 Před 4 lety +4

    “Pants coming down old lady”...🤣🥰 How adorable is this sweet woman??

  • @marianaxsom5660
    @marianaxsom5660 Před 5 lety +2

    She is a happy grandma

  • @pllee1956
    @pllee1956 Před 3 lety

    What a beautiful lady, her singing was better than me❤️❤️🎶🎶🎤🌹💜

  • @pacificcoconut3782
    @pacificcoconut3782 Před 6 lety +6

    Such a beautiful soul!😉

  • @janetpitts7302
    @janetpitts7302 Před 4 lety

    Wonderful group! We need more of that in USA!

  • @menagerie6694
    @menagerie6694 Před 5 lety +1

    Bless her with good health, fortune, and happy life.

  • @ryfs7659
    @ryfs7659 Před 6 lety +7

    I wanna move to Singapore and be a social worker rn. I'm not kidding. I love talking to old people.

    • @hengloun9173
      @hengloun9173 Před 5 lety +2

      You are so kind-hearted
      You should go to heaven
      God bless you

    • @sofya3033
      @sofya3033 Před 5 lety +1

      Then why is ur prof pic oh yeah yeah

    • @hengloun9173
      @hengloun9173 Před 5 lety

      Ah loh
      No proof one

  • @limhocksiew8501
    @limhocksiew8501 Před 6 lety +4

    I feel so sad watching this :(

  • @rk2770
    @rk2770 Před 4 lety

    What a joy..

  • @afahmy1445
    @afahmy1445 Před 3 lety

    I'm so happy

  • @burpiemachinez
    @burpiemachinez Před 6 lety +3

    This grandma makes me sad 😢

  • @nikoji4257
    @nikoji4257 Před 5 lety +3

    Lucky to live in Singapore. Good Government.

  • @aminahhussinmansoor1754

    Beauriful 💕

  • @studygraphy2672
    @studygraphy2672 Před 5 lety +3

    she singing at the start was really cute lol i wished my grandma sang loudly too haha

  • @np1054
    @np1054 Před 5 lety +4

    She has such a cheerful soul may Lord have mercy and save her soul in Jesus name I pray Amen

  • @nur9871
    @nur9871 Před 4 lety

    I can feel her so bad...salute frm Malaysia...so cute granny...I wonder what will I'll be cos I'm less sociable...

  • @tmt7912
    @tmt7912 Před 6 lety +1

    GBU friends...

  • @better2236
    @better2236 Před 6 lety

    Aww 😍 her pretty morning song in the beginning

  • @myg8870
    @myg8870 Před 5 lety

    I miss my late grandmom.

  • @VectorizewithJun
    @VectorizewithJun Před 4 lety +2

    Everytime watching those elderlies makes me really sad. Loneliness is really a suffering for them. If you still have parents, please love them and take care of them respectfully. They didn't complain when brought us from a baby to become adult. Don't you complain when taking care of them when they're old. Love them, give them attention, don't disappoint them

  • @zaynhahaha3884
    @zaynhahaha3884 Před 3 lety

    This aunty is an angel

  • @PaigeBrown93
    @PaigeBrown93 Před 4 lety

    Arw, Love From London, UK 🤗

  • @voidnoidoid
    @voidnoidoid Před 6 lety +14

    This is so inspiring to see, does Mdm Helen have any children?

    • @sya995
      @sya995 Před 6 lety +1

      EUnicorn I don’t think so :(

  • @andreasadi591
    @andreasadi591 Před 4 lety

    Thank you Helping Joy May Wong Social Center NTUC Health

  • @theannyoonweemcroy8830

    Thank you to Amy khor plan early for future generations..

  • @mtsilvagt
    @mtsilvagt Před rokem +2

    Does anyone know if this young lady is still alive. ?

  • @jetterbang6394
    @jetterbang6394 Před 4 lety

    In someday i also would be the one who lonely in my old age...i wish to know who would take care of me...

  • @theannyoonweemcroy8830

    Thank you my heavenly father and Lord Jesus Christ blessing all the world wide leadership plan for elderly people.

  • @thaliaviotama9420
    @thaliaviotama9420 Před 6 lety

    who cut the onions here 😢

  • @RusselGodfreyDSouza
    @RusselGodfreyDSouza Před 5 lety

    #Singapore ❤️

  • @Unteroffizier
    @Unteroffizier Před 2 lety

    There are dementia cases the client very difficult and violent. I will like to know how the social service office handles those cases.

  • @gisellechavez5074
    @gisellechavez5074 Před 5 lety

    A www
    I love my grandma and grandpa

  • @iarshintasudjana4382
    @iarshintasudjana4382 Před 3 lety

    🙏🙏

  • @BeyondFocused.
    @BeyondFocused. Před 5 lety

    Where is that?

  • @mintico
    @mintico Před 5 lety

    Is that dyson fan?

  • @user-ky3yt9oz3n
    @user-ky3yt9oz3n Před 3 lety

    doing this for my english Weighted assignment.

  • @kokkeongfoo5472
    @kokkeongfoo5472 Před 5 lety

    👍👍

  • @dbbd_sg
    @dbbd_sg Před 4 lety

    Watching this in April 2020 and wondering how she is doing during this circuit breaker...

    • @marcopolo1020
      @marcopolo1020 Před 4 lety

      She passed away in November 2018 unfortunately.
      give.asia/campaign/final-journey-funeral-expenses-hj0142#/

  • @Hllee6428
    @Hllee6428 Před 27 dny

    I don’t know which is worse…..being a single care recipient. Or being a single caregiver to a super difficult care receipient.

  • @user-tb7pz3xc2o
    @user-tb7pz3xc2o Před 5 lety

    2:19 i was just learning that song in music class liek how to play it on the recorder hahaha

  • @shaiful5055
    @shaiful5055 Před 4 lety +1

    Chan mali chan... 😌 i hope she is alright,

    • @marcopolo1020
      @marcopolo1020 Před 4 lety

      Sadly Helen passed away November 2018.
      give.asia/campaign/final-journey-funeral-expenses-hj0142#/

  • @cactusy9332
    @cactusy9332 Před 5 lety

    I am surprised they know how to sing Chan Ma Li chan, Di mana dia anak kambing saya..

  • @rakyatprihatin
    @rakyatprihatin Před 5 lety +2

    I am so happy to be Malaysian. We are so lucky. On average we are living
    in luxuries. Our compound are so huge and eat whatever we want.

    • @antsmut4951
      @antsmut4951 Před 4 lety +1

      Snob to the highest level and brag at its finest. Only when God gives you sickness and you are bed ridden then you will realise your compound, luxuries and food means nothing to you then being healthy with your love ones around.

  • @juneekaka1289
    @juneekaka1289 Před 2 lety

    I wonder how shes doing rn

  • @Thomas-Bradley
    @Thomas-Bradley Před 5 lety +1

    Where are her children and grandchildren?