Mistakes Older Guys Make Trying to Look Youthful

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  • @Jim-uq3ej
    @Jim-uq3ej Před 3 lety +552

    I'm now 77 years old and have discovered, the older I get, the less I care what other people think.

    • @larrylipshitz9430
      @larrylipshitz9430 Před 3 lety +23

      I stopped caring after 45, now 53 and still not caring!

    • @thegood9
      @thegood9 Před 3 lety +12

      Yep, this is the one thing I wished I had learned when I was 15. You be you...and don't worry about ANYONE else. That's what costs $$$ and tears, and makes people stupid.

    • @likearollingstone007
      @likearollingstone007 Před 3 lety +3

      Boom

    • @eddieg6436
      @eddieg6436 Před 3 lety +38

      While not caring about what others think is good, caring about yourself is important. It’s like your yard, do you “stop caring” and just let the dandelions take over??

    • @thegood9
      @thegood9 Před 3 lety +23

      @@eddieg6436 Subtle difference tho...i take care of myself for ME, and not for anyone else (except my wife). That's the point. People are way too narcissistic nowadays, and social media has made it infinitely worse.

  • @giacomorossi1967
    @giacomorossi1967 Před 4 lety +500

    The worst part of getting old is listening to people who says you can't do this or that because you're too old...

    • @ZalthorAndNoggin
      @ZalthorAndNoggin Před 4 lety +18

      I agree totally. A few years ago it was jeans - oldies shouldn't wear them...who says?? Take no notice. Wear what you feel you look good in and what fits your guild and body properly.

    • @bobr.6312
      @bobr.6312 Před 4 lety +4

      Oh yeah, you hit it...and I feel exactly the opposite...as you mature you gain 'license'. After you retire from a work situation that requires a dress code, formal or just simply 'understood'...To heck with it, I have gone to pull overs, shorts and casual shoes...got ride of almost all the rest...I now have to go look and see if I have anything other than a pair of 'dress sweat pants' lol.

    • @ZalthorAndNoggin
      @ZalthorAndNoggin Před 4 lety +1

      LOL! Dress Sweat Pants...I love it! I expect those are the ones you've just laundered aren't they Bob??

    • @ZalthorAndNoggin
      @ZalthorAndNoggin Před 4 lety +7

      Frankly, as long as you don't look totally ridiculous, you have the option to wear what ever you have discovered over the years suits you best. Something else to consider: when I was 40 one of the things we didn't have were easy care fabrics and fashions that looked casual and cool. Clothes were tighter and always needed ironing. Fly buttons were outlawed by Levi jeans for some stupid reason so we were stuck with zippers only; imagine that now! At 70, I make a point of always wearing what I like and look best in. I shave my face regularly, keep my own hair short because I think it suits me that way and take care of my body both with food I eat and exercise I take. I've been told in the past that jeans are a no-no for a person my age. I don't wear them much but when I do I team them with stuff that looks good and doesn't make me look stupid. Bottom line: I wear what I want and you should too when you reach my age.

    • @joenapoli8959
      @joenapoli8959 Před 3 lety +1

      Exactly !

  • @jonjones8029
    @jonjones8029 Před 3 lety +49

    I'm 41 and I look 31 because I invest into my image heavily. Clothes are important but your face and body are way more important. Take care of those and your clothes will look better and you'll have more confidence to wear cooler clothes

    • @spencermichael9016
      @spencermichael9016 Před 3 lety +5

      Being honest, you look way older.

    • @itsjefson
      @itsjefson Před 3 lety

      Jon how do you take care of it

    • @diezeled
      @diezeled Před 2 lety

      I agree, I am almost 49 and workout and cycle about 5x per week. I knew my babyface would help me when I got older and it has. Most people I meet are shocked when I tell them my age. They usually think I'm late 30 something. Keeping fit and following a good diet definetly help.

    • @gusmonster59
      @gusmonster59 Před 2 lety

      It's really sad that you are so hung up on your image. When you are working so hard on an image, you just come across as fake.

    • @johnconway8070
      @johnconway8070 Před 2 lety

      How can you be so sure you look like a 31 year old ?

  • @luis3252
    @luis3252 Před 3 lety +50

    Wearing jeans and T-shirt at my age means I feel comfortable not to look young

    • @russmode
      @russmode Před 2 lety +1

      Dickies now for me, they look more like slacks, black ones, but jean feel, still with t shirts, though never white or bright colors, grey, black, etc.

  • @petermartin9494
    @petermartin9494 Před 5 lety +290

    1. Don't eat too much.
    2. Fast sometimes.
    3. Work out.
    4. Have a healthy attitude, enjoy life.
    5. Challenge yourself sometimes.

    • @GozaFive
      @GozaFive Před 5 lety +3

      Exactly my regimen.

    • @truthof7382
      @truthof7382 Před 5 lety +2

      Very good call Peter. Fasting helps weight issues as well as is known to raise testosterone levels in us “getting older” gents.

    • @simsimma9622
      @simsimma9622 Před 5 lety +1

      @ijcn0jir3nvjn3fjcifn So true

    • @gunner678
      @gunner678 Před 5 lety

      That's spot on! Great comment.

    • @bmphil3400
      @bmphil3400 Před 5 lety

      do a few things that make you a little dangerous...... learn to box, take a little krav maga
      it will help you to gain confidence and carry yourself different. Don't run around looking like someone can knock you over with a feather or that you are an extreme pushover.......I don't mean become a roid rage barbarian..... and don't ever pick fights with anyone..... just try and portray some physical confidence.....
      Not to offend the the OP but dude you look like you can get destroyed with one punch.......and I have no idea......you could be james bond...or a jiu jitsu black belt......but it doesn't come off that way.

  • @frankcrawford416
    @frankcrawford416 Před 5 lety +156

    I am 56 and I feel very young. I know I don't look 20 but I feel 20. A good outlook keeps you young. God bless!

  • @Wolfson47
    @Wolfson47 Před 3 lety +10

    I once complained to a sales clerk in a Banana Republic store about being unable to find slacks that fit me. She was very nice, but also very direct in telling me that i needed to shop where they sold "Dad" slacks that would fit my type of body better. Embarrassing, but she was right. At 66 I was in the wrong shop.

  • @MensGroomingAdvice
    @MensGroomingAdvice Před 4 lety +10

    Great video. So many guys don’t consider using a tailor to get the best possible fit. Check your local supermarket notice board or classified adverts for someone working from home. You can make a $80 suit look like a $300 version by spending $20 for adjustments.

    • @dank.6942
      @dank.6942 Před rokem

      It's more like $80 to have a jacket tailored, but the point is the same. 👍

    • @magnus_mode
      @magnus_mode Před 11 měsíci

      nah, he's right. $20. shop around.

  • @doctorskull8197
    @doctorskull8197 Před 5 lety +537

    I’m 65. Still wear converse all stars and jeans with black leather motorcycle jacket. I still think I’m a member of the Ramones.

    • @Gee-xb7rt
      @Gee-xb7rt Před 5 lety +36

      good for you, this bourgie guy thinks he has all the rules and looks like a trash millennial hipster.

    • @juliusschwencke142
      @juliusschwencke142 Před 5 lety +31

      ...I'm 4 years off 70, from an era where rock and roll determines what I wear, not this square dude and his take on what guys need to wear. I get away with it all the time.

    • @agrameroldoctane_66
      @agrameroldoctane_66 Před 5 lety +8

      Same here, just a bit younger...

    • @carrrexx7190
      @carrrexx7190 Před 5 lety +16

      Trying to look like John Kay, end up looking like Mary Kay.

    • @juliusschwencke142
      @juliusschwencke142 Před 5 lety +4

      @@carrrexx7190 hahaha, well how does John dress these days? I need to know because it's guys like him that influenced people like me. Hendrix more than Jagger, Perry more than Tyler, Lynott more than Lemmy, and Bonamassa more than Page. Redefining sartorial relevance for the baby boomer generation has nothing to do with current male fashions, instead it is about a mindset that pays homage to an age when rock icons defined what was cool and what wasn't. I pray that the baby boomers who worshipped these icons, will never lose sight of what they and others like them achieved, and that what they currently wear will always in some way reflect their individuality and rebelliousness.

  • @ZillaFitness
    @ZillaFitness Před 5 lety +11

    I’m not ashamed to admit that I needed this. Thanks man.

  • @marvinthiessen3454
    @marvinthiessen3454 Před 4 lety +34

    At 67 I'm well past being concerned about looking "youthful". I wear Merrill outdoor shoes which go with almost anything, keep my clothing color-combo within reason, grooming standards up, and like most men around my age, I need to exercise more and eat smaller portions. I gave up drinking Scotch on a regular basis and eventually lost 30 pounds. Keep your sweet tooth in check as well. Skip some deserts completely and go easy on your favorites.

  • @BrianSmith-lj6ug
    @BrianSmith-lj6ug Před 4 lety +8

    I have hit 51 now but very slim and weigh 8 and half stone.I have been guilty of wearing football shirts and distressed jeans in the illusion of thinking i could still pass for twenty something.I have addressed it by giving all that stuff to charity and bought myself some good clothes that are right for my age.Enjoyed your video.

  • @JassminaVellucci
    @JassminaVellucci Před 5 lety +327

    There are some men that are in their 50s and 60s, that look way younger, not because of clothes they wear. But because they took care of themselves, along with some good genes. What you do to your body, when you’re young shows up, real fast. Treat your body. Mind and soul, like a Temple.

    • @tyronejefforeillyramirez7961
      @tyronejefforeillyramirez7961 Před 5 lety +4

      word!!

    • @TheCoupe06
      @TheCoupe06 Před 5 lety +7

      Spot-on, sis!...
      I'm almost 65, and can still wear the same size in slacks and shirts I wore 40 years ago. 'Not saying that mine are, but even the best of genes need maintenance and not being abused.

    • @Tony-uo4ml
      @Tony-uo4ml Před 5 lety +8

      Where can I buy good genes exactly?

    • @lowtolerancelevel3776
      @lowtolerancelevel3776 Před 5 lety +1

      @@Tony-uo4ml Haahahahaaaa! Well black don't crack, but it's not for sale.
      I'm sure everyone in society has their own perks.

    •  Před 5 lety +2

      You are right, it is all about BLUE GENES!!!

  • @mqbitsko25
    @mqbitsko25 Před 5 lety +201

    I don't wear jeans and tee shirts to try to look youthful. I wear them because that's what I've always worn.

    • @cut1986
      @cut1986 Před 3 lety +1

      Yep!

    • @wilfredprins9718
      @wilfredprins9718 Před 3 lety +9

      Why we should change the way we dress becuase we getting older?
      I used t-shirts when i was 16 20 and at 48 i still use t-shirts

    • @3cpeter
      @3cpeter Před 2 lety +7

      I would recommend that you do change the way you dress when you get older. You change the way you think, look, what you do, your friends, your job, views and 1000 things more. Why wouldn’t you mature out of your youth clothes as well?

    • @wilfredprins9718
      @wilfredprins9718 Před 2 lety +3

      @@3cpeter why change who you are?
      Becuase its what society expects you to do?

    • @jumpercable20
      @jumpercable20 Před 2 lety +3

      Same here, when I was a kid my dad said poor people wear jeans so you will wear dress pants. When I left home I wore jeans from then on for 2 reasons, 1 they were the most comfortable thing I could wear, and 2, jeans are so durable they are almost bullet proof, I don't really care what fashion says because like most things now days every thing has an agenda. I've never been the kind of person that "worries" about what people think about me and I really don't give a *hit anyway. I like my jeans to fit but being 5 ft 7, it seems that the child labor making my jeans cannot read a tape measure because my inseam length is 30 inches but when I buy jeans I can't get anything shorter than 29 inches and they are still too long. I prefer a polo shirt but most likely will wear a T-Shirt but never a white one. I've been dressing myself for 65 years and like most people I'm a person of habit. I've never had anyone tell me that I should be arrested by the fashion police. It's really very simple I don't dress to catch someone's attention, I dress for my comfort. With people covering themselves with tats and coloring their hair 5 or 6 different colors, when I was a child, I got a lot of attention from my parents so I don't really want to do something to get people to look at me. I'd prefer it if they didn't look at me. I'm 68 years old, just leave me alone and go *uck yourself. The problem today is too many people are worried about what other people think of them, me? I don't give a *uck .

  • @bobbyrebholz2183
    @bobbyrebholz2183 Před rokem +2

    The men in the comments who keep saying they don't care are just looking for validation because they gave up. There's a big difference between not caring and giving up.

  • @puppidejong2789
    @puppidejong2789 Před 3 lety +7

    He acknowledges that everyone has their own look, but there’s nothing wrong with a man knowing how to look pulled together and confident when he needs to. Knowledge is still power.

    • @InGrindWeCrust2010
      @InGrindWeCrust2010 Před 10 měsíci

      "When he needs to"!!! Yes! I just try not to let my gym/hiking/workshop clothes become my casual and work clothes, like they did when I was younger. 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @chateaubullion2560
    @chateaubullion2560 Před 5 lety +253

    I'm 66 years old and recently retired. Some things I've learned over the years, wear what you like and feel comfortable.

    • @andyfin990
      @andyfin990 Před 5 lety +11

      @@John-zv1hy when you wife's only 29 you've got to care.

    • @michaelprivate8115
      @michaelprivate8115 Před 5 lety +19

      I'm 62, been retired 3 years now, and the mistake I made was wearing what I like (jeans and tshirts) and needed to up my game. I consciously wear "nicer" clothes now to look like I care about how I look and the response from my wife and others has been great! If you're wearing sweat pants everyday you've just given up.

    • @eggbertinkabod1121
      @eggbertinkabod1121 Před 5 lety

      Yo mother

    • @eggbertinkabod1121
      @eggbertinkabod1121 Před 5 lety

      @@John-zv1hy I'M A COLORED GIRL

    • @timcornwall8523
      @timcornwall8523 Před 5 lety +1

      LIFE IS FAST AND SHORT.WEAR WHAT U WANT...REALLY.

  • @Rowlandph
    @Rowlandph Před 5 lety +425

    My Rule: Be yourself.. Forget 'youthful'..Forget 'old'..FORGET what's in or out...Classic..never goes out of style.. Wear what you like..Dress how you like. I do.

    • @lastofthefamous2542
      @lastofthefamous2542 Před 5 lety +16

      @@soulfly4076 .... exactly he's got the "hipster beard and comb over" surely by his age you should have developed your own style

    • @bh2155
      @bh2155 Před 5 lety +15

      I would never take any advice from this dude he looks like a big mess.

    • @Rowlandph
      @Rowlandph Před 5 lety +13

      @Davidson I agree!...Good point!.. I always studied what worked and didn't..from the old guys in TV and the movies...Grant, Hamilton, Wagner, sometimes Tony Franciosa, Delon, others, etc.. I started doing that as I went into my teens...and after a while it just became natural to me.. Like learning everything else. I never followed any current fads.. You can still look at any of those old guys in films or pictures..and if they were around and walked into a room...They'd ALWAYS look classy, and right. No matter what they wore..

    • @weltvonalex
      @weltvonalex Před 5 lety +4

      you mean crocks and cargo pants? :D

    • @wurthit1239
      @wurthit1239 Před 5 lety +5

      Soul Fly then my obvious question to you good sir would be..........why would you even think to click on this video then?

  • @johnfrei9057
    @johnfrei9057 Před 2 lety +1

    Your sense of style is spot on for guys who lean towards looking younger than they are but don’t want to look ridiculous.

  • @Person-mh6xq
    @Person-mh6xq Před 11 měsíci

    100% correct about "fashion sneakers!" I prefer them for guys of any age actually for casual wear.

  • @kamranahmad4592
    @kamranahmad4592 Před 5 lety +2012

    Biggest style mistake is not exercising and gaining weight

    • @arnoldspringfeld8694
      @arnoldspringfeld8694 Před 5 lety +21

      "Revolution begins in the muscles"

    • @elenikominos7404
      @elenikominos7404 Před 5 lety +49

      Yes..if you're Slim and Lucky enough to be tall..You can look Good in a Paper Bag 🤔Well maybe not..but you get what I mean 😊

    • @krane15
      @krane15 Před 5 lety +45

      Well, you could say when you're in shape you look good in just about anything you wear.

    • @patrickwilkerson8048
      @patrickwilkerson8048 Před 5 lety +26

      Loosing you third leg because of weight gain could be a serious problem in the bedroom and certainly on Valentine's night

    • @tomb4165
      @tomb4165 Před 5 lety +9

      Very true. Upon recently dieting, I am noticing that more clothes I try on in stores just fit better. Especially the form-fitting ones of today.

  • @nelson3495
    @nelson3495 Před 5 lety +137

    Wear what you feel comfortable in. Don’t live your life to conform to society.

    • @jimroot2978
      @jimroot2978 Před 3 lety +3

      Agree! most of us have done plenty of that for the first 40 yrs of our lives!

  • @mikeashton8771
    @mikeashton8771 Před 4 lety +3

    What you say makes sense and it truly works. I have changed my style to more your way of thinking and all my friends noticed. I am 68 and dress now in that smart casual look with the colours that complement each other and it makes me feel more confident when out and about. I am slowly changing my wardrobe but keeping it within the boundaries. Mike

  • @LitwinskiMentoring
    @LitwinskiMentoring Před 2 lety +18

    I love this video. I couldn’t agree more that we need to stay true to ourselves, especially that with age we become more aware of who we are and aren’t. The more valuable competent advice on how to bring out what I am and feel good about my own style. Thanks!

  • @MoSportsUSA
    @MoSportsUSA Před 5 lety +190

    I would add that being in shape enables more fashion latitude.

    • @adamgorz9679
      @adamgorz9679 Před 5 lety +2

      So true.

    • @MadDuckofAus
      @MadDuckofAus Před 4 lety +1

      I have definitely noticed that since I've put weight on I can get away with less

    • @sgt803
      @sgt803 Před 4 lety

      Not necessarily. I'm 63, very athletic & very muscular. Having the classic V taper body makes it almost impossible to buy off the rack. I usually have to tailor shirts & pants and or shop higher end stores. Clothes shopping isn't easy for my body type.

    • @pinoychio5837
      @pinoychio5837 Před 4 lety

      Ever heard of custom tailor?

    • @user-sb4fd3jt3w
      @user-sb4fd3jt3w Před 3 lety +1

      Pinoy Chio miss me with that

  • @JVonghost
    @JVonghost Před 4 lety +4

    I’ve just hit 50, and I’ve never tried to dress like anyone else other than myself. Make sure you like what you wear, it fits well, and if you feel smart and confident, you’ve got it.

  • @VancouverVortex
    @VancouverVortex Před 3 lety

    All good tips. Im 55 and not willing to be relegated to the yesteryear of clothing.So I have a stylist and a tailor as looking good is important in my career and he keeps me up to date and pushes me to try new things

  • @anthonykamm1007
    @anthonykamm1007 Před 4 lety +6

    I've realized after some time that men (in my opinion) want to look young, but are still feeling old on the inside which in turn their choice of clothing makes them a bit off especially how they carry themselves. If they dont feel it in the inside it's just not going to work. I'm almost 56 and I feel young on the inside. I also have an 8 year old son and a 10 year old daughter. I always had a youthful mentality and my taste in fashion reflects that. I research CZcams for ideas and information about enhancing myself from within and my style. Thank you for sharing.

  • @tommymarx391
    @tommymarx391 Před 5 lety +51

    Recently I made some lifestyle changes after realizing I had really let myself go over the last few years. I've also started paying attention to what guys are wearing that I think looks good and makes them look good too. I'm still learning (at fifty, LOL) to figure out the perfect combination of style and comfort, but I agree with everything in this video. I always wore New Balance and Nike athletic shoes, and when I started wearing clothes that fit me better, one of my friends at work took me aside and told me the shoes were too clunky looking and I needed to look into slimmer shoes. I took his advice and quickly learned he was right. And there are so many comfortable but fashionable casual shoes out there. Macy's sells slim dress pants that fit nicely and look nice. And my biggest change was wearing shirts that actually fit me instead of defaulting to overly baggy shirts that made me look 30 pounds bigger.
    If you're not interested in looking good, why are you watching a video like this in the first place? There is absolutely nothing wrong with wearing whatever makes you feel comfortable. Be who you are. But if you do want to look more stylish, I would definitely take this video's advice. Slimmer shoes, pants that aren't too baggy or skin tight (and honestly, I think that rule applies regardless of your age; I've never been attracted to guys who wear spandex or oversized pants), shirts that fit and look good on you without being uncomfortable (that's been more of a learning curve for me, as some of the shirts that look good on me tend to ride too high in the armpits and aren't comfortable).
    In the end, this video is aimed at guys that want to look fashionable and (yes, I'm going to say it) age-appropriate. That's not a bad thing. Don't knock the video because it wasn't aimed at you. But I will say this as a gay man, and I'm pretty sure most women would agree: I tend to notice men who dress sharp more than men who don't, regardless of what they look like. Clothes really do make the man.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  Před 5 lety +6

      Preach Tommy!

    • @johnsalazard6659
      @johnsalazard6659 Před 4 lety +3

      attitude and personality makes a man, not so much the clothes

    • @JoseMiguelLoor
      @JoseMiguelLoor Před 4 lety +7

      @@johnsalazard6659 i think is a blend of both; i agree that it is more important to be a well educated person, full of attitude and self respect instead of a well dressed one, but the truth is that people tend to treat you different when you look the part; i'm 45, workout everyday not because i want to look younger, but because i really like it, but the thing is that when you dress and look nice, people treat you better; it's not right but it is the way of the world, sadly

  • @ZubairKhan-vs8fe
    @ZubairKhan-vs8fe Před 5 lety +793

    Isn't being older than 40 a licence to have enough self confidence and strength of character to not give a f about what others think

    • @veltonmeade1057
      @veltonmeade1057 Před 5 lety +19

      Yes,,,spot on.

    • @truthof7382
      @truthof7382 Před 5 lety +40

      So why did you click the link to watch if you got it all together?

    • @ahmadtugimin9916
      @ahmadtugimin9916 Před 5 lety +7

      Truth of 73 he wants ti show confidence i guess. But deep inside ....

    • @patrickdezenzio4988
      @patrickdezenzio4988 Před 5 lety +13

      Depends on your marital status. If you are single and looking, go for it but don't complain if you aren't finding anyone. A 40+ year old bachelor wearing the latest Millennial fashion may not even get a date because the younger women are laughing at you and the older women well are laughing at you. It's like that guy who is trying so hard to cover his bald spot with a fly over. Shave it off.

    • @ernestocaamano7818
      @ernestocaamano7818 Před 5 lety +16

      You will not give a f#!k as soon as you retire. Believe me. You'll dress, eat, drink, etc the way that you want to

  • @alanwhite7912
    @alanwhite7912 Před 4 lety +1

    Good advice. No problems with your style...looking great.

  • @marieandreetrahan8236
    @marieandreetrahan8236 Před 3 lety +8

    I'm a women and I don't understand all those negative comments from men. Why did you subscribe? The guy is always on point! That's how we like our men to look like! By the way his hair cut is fabulous!

  • @jcgillin51
    @jcgillin51 Před 5 lety +68

    Working out and staying in good shape is the best way to dress.

    • @Tony-uo4ml
      @Tony-uo4ml Před 5 lety +1

      Really? You're kidding?

    • @jcgillin51
      @jcgillin51 Před 5 lety +1

      I've see men wearing cloth to tight or baggie because of their weight. Staying in shape makes cloths look better on a body no mater the stile. Look at the person on the video his shirt fits him well it's not stretched out or baggie. Just my observation.

  • @stevedebbiemoore
    @stevedebbiemoore Před 5 lety +4

    I'm 53years old and agree whole heartedly with the content. I've been telling my wife this forever but she disagrees I want to be sophisticated but she wants youthful. This is probably the only battle I will ever win, I choose style.

    • @jonclarkson5911
      @jonclarkson5911 Před 5 lety

      Just dress with class. A regular fit style suit. Nice shoes and a nice watch. And grow your hair long. That's me.

  • @EstablishedSince1971
    @EstablishedSince1971 Před 4 lety +3

    48 years old with bikers jacket, black trousers and 50s style blue suede shoes. Lesbians love me !

  • @eamonnkelly4946
    @eamonnkelly4946 Před 3 lety +11

    Wear what you feel good in , make apologies to no one. Do we have to look like our parents. I'm 63 and I'm very fond of fashion. Be happy.

  • @kevinmarkey5497
    @kevinmarkey5497 Před 5 lety +29

    I don't know how to act my age as I've never been this old before 😂😂

    • @melmill1164
      @melmill1164 Před 5 lety +3

      I am laughing so hard. Good one

  • @tomc3542
    @tomc3542 Před 5 lety +7

    I'd say just figure it out for yourself and make your own style. I'm 71 and buy stuff targeted at 18-30 year-olds all the time. I order from China when I don't see what I like/want here in the U.S. My friends who are 10-20 years younger than I compliment on my style all the time and ask where I shop. My friends 20-30 do the same. I stay pretty fit and make sure my clothes are a flattering fit to my body. I stay away from the extreme mega-destroyed or loose/baggy end of style. Really, the most important thing by far is to take care of your body. If you do that, then style comes pretty easy. And if you keep fit, then you will carry yourself with confidence and likely communicate a degree of happiness and openness that can draw people to you. (I'm 5'9", 165lbs. Losing 15 lbs over the past 10 years was a wonderful transformation, and easy - the product of re-joining the cyclist community.)

  • @MANGO-lq8ti
    @MANGO-lq8ti Před 3 lety

    You completely justify fashion & clothing...And yes, I'M GLAD THAT YOU ARE HERE👍

  • @elizabethadams3790
    @elizabethadams3790 Před rokem

    Thank you for this video!

  • @XYtotheZ
    @XYtotheZ Před 5 lety +697

    I'm 55. I don't wear clothes anymore.....at all. Problem solved.

    • @dinocarlucci2105
      @dinocarlucci2105 Před 5 lety +4

      Michael S
      Haha that would be a mighty big problem for others tho.

    • @grammarbitch4191
      @grammarbitch4191 Před 5 lety +17

      @chachi mogo I'm 55 also and I can tell you that when Michael S. and I were growing up EVERYONE was a lot less uptight about nudity. Wearing a speedo did NOT imply you were gay. Locker rooms? They're for changing, showers, steam baths, saunas, and hot tubs ... You're SUPPOSED to be naked there. Oh, and doing the 'towel dance' simply draws attention to yourself. It announces to the locker room that you have a small dick and are trying to hide it. Last thing: The guys you see in the locker room probably all own dicks themselves. Guys all know that dicks have minds of their own. Dicks grow, shrink, get hard, & get soft all on their own and they do NOT ask permission first, lol.

    • @rickb9118
      @rickb9118 Před 5 lety +1

      Makes it more fun to pull "A Cap't Morgan," in the locker room. 😂

    • @johnmqueripel2367
      @johnmqueripel2367 Před 5 lety +7

      There's a lot to be said for living somewhere warm and by the beach, clothes optional.

    • @Montrosesister12
      @Montrosesister12 Před 5 lety +1

      Michael S can come over And borrow a cup of sugar ?

  • @1066sgp
    @1066sgp Před 5 lety +10

    I just got back from Milan. Women look to the streets of Paris for fashion...for men it is Milan. He is spot on in the video when he says the fit is everything. Find yourselves a great tailor and treat them well.

    • @wolfgangk1
      @wolfgangk1 Před 5 lety

      Milano is also the fashion capital of Italy where people are expected to feed the industry with $2,000 shoes and $400 jeans and $100 regular looking t-shirts--or did you know that?

  • @CoryBurke
    @CoryBurke Před 2 lety

    Thanks for the vid... I actually like every one of the outfits that you showed you wearing and got some great ideas from that. Cheers!

  • @michaelosullivan3529
    @michaelosullivan3529 Před rokem

    John I’m 63 and have been following your channel for about a year
    Getting ready to retire I am definitely going to watch what I wear and have received compliments so guys give it a go -don’t forget you have to wear something so it might as well be a positive response rather than a negative one

  • @atonementpreset
    @atonementpreset Před 5 lety +122

    My only rule: Wear what makes me comfortable and makes me feel good. Who cares what others think. Outside of work of course. To each his/her own.

    • @luvyesmusic
      @luvyesmusic Před 5 lety +1

      Damn straight!

    • @tedwilliams765
      @tedwilliams765 Před 5 lety +4

      You are right some don't give a dam how they look,and I don't either.I care how I look,California has some of the worst dressed folks I have ever seen.

    • @krane15
      @krane15 Před 5 lety +2

      Worst rule every stated. What if somebody wants to wear a pair of shorts and flip-flops to your wedding?

    • @luvyesmusic
      @luvyesmusic Před 5 lety +6

      @@krane15 My wedding invitations specifically said to be yourself. I hang/ have hung out with royalty, Ambassadors, government folks and even an international terroist/ all kinds of characters. I am always myself. One of my old neighbors told me she didn't have anything fancy to wear to my wedding. I asked her if she read the invitation? I told her I don't care what you wear; I just want you there to share the moment with me. Foljs were comfortable and had a great time.
      Funerals, I'll dress up if I didn't really know the person. But if it was someone I knew well, I go as I am. That's the way they would have wanted it; their family, too.

    • @atonementpreset
      @atonementpreset Před 5 lety +2

      Then don't invite that person to your daughter's/son's wedding.

  • @robertjr.carducci3583
    @robertjr.carducci3583 Před 4 lety +27

    Hi... I’m Rob, and 56. Your video title caught my eye, and I watched and “liked” it. I just felt that most all the points you made, although good, may be applied to all ages. It’s just that older men should not make the fashion mistakes for which young men are forgiven due to their immaturity.

    • @julianwaugh968
      @julianwaugh968 Před 3 lety +1

      Oh god when I was a teenager I wore bell bottoms and a few years ago they came back in fashion before being replaced by ultra skinny Jean's

    • @gilbertb8078
      @gilbertb8078 Před 2 lety

      Good point.Older Gentlemen need to act their age.

  • @SteveTTTT
    @SteveTTTT Před rokem

    Great content, man! Your info is straight on!

  • @rachelmoss3793
    @rachelmoss3793 Před 4 lety

    Great video. Nicely done and great tips. Thanks

  • @sawolaja65
    @sawolaja65 Před 5 lety +41

    Just be yourself @ 54 this year, I've long ago stopped worrying about what others think regarding how dress! I wear what I want how I want!!!!!

    • @justmadeit2
      @justmadeit2 Před 5 lety +5

      I agree with you on that. 44 here, the good thing about getting a little older is you don't care as much what people think

    • @sytsebuwalda6570
      @sytsebuwalda6570 Před 5 lety +1

      Amen!!

    • @FranciscoGomez-mi6ne
      @FranciscoGomez-mi6ne Před 5 lety +2

      As long as you feel good about yourself who cares what other people say 👍👍👌

    • @valluna7530
      @valluna7530 Před 5 lety +3

      56 years here and I too agree with you! I once cared what people would think about how I would dress, but now I realized that I will never have a six pack and my body isn't going to be changing anytime soon, so if what I'm wearing makes me feel good so be it! I'm the one wearing the clothes!

    • @keinpietz7697
      @keinpietz7697 Před 5 lety

      Samuel, what's the punani situation at 54? You hitting that 20 something or rather stick with your age bracket?

  • @cj0204
    @cj0204 Před 5 lety +5

    I’m gonna be 37 next month and my wardrobe has definitely changed these last 2 years. I do believe in wearing whatever you want but at the same time I don’t wanna wear a lot of the same things I wore when I first turned 30. I do a lot of my shopping lately at J.Crew, Banana Republic, and also some Target and Marshall’s. I invest in quality pieces instead of cheaper made things. Which is why I can shop at better places now. I’ll purchase a very nice fitting shirt from one of the places above for 40 bucks instead of buying 5 shirts at Walmart for 40 bucks that don’t fit me very well. Another thing that I’ve picked up is tailoring my own clothes. That’s helped out a lot. Thanks for the video. I’m very happy to say that I don’t do any of hose things in your video. Lol!

  • @maceyandella4
    @maceyandella4 Před 2 lety

    Great video! It’s all about clothes that fit properly. That’s more than half the battle. You can always adjust color , fabric, etc but if it doesn’t fit , it doesn’t work.

  • @adamkirby2570
    @adamkirby2570 Před 3 lety

    Great video John😊 Thank you!

  • @brianhagen8244
    @brianhagen8244 Před 4 lety +16

    Want to keep from "looking old"? Proper diet, vigorous exercise, and a good attitude go a long way; a lot more than your choice of attire.

    • @rastrats
      @rastrats Před 3 lety

      Garbage. A premium business lounge suit with oxfords will do the trick.

    • @Beaneeman67
      @Beaneeman67 Před 2 lety

      No this is golden!!!

  • @TawdryTempest
    @TawdryTempest Před 5 lety +14

    Preach! Be yourselves guys, but have some pride!

  • @khalidbarkatullah6298
    @khalidbarkatullah6298 Před 4 lety

    You are spot on. I fully agree with you and your suggestions

  • @PrakashRug
    @PrakashRug Před 3 lety

    Great video. Thank you.

  • @deegee3195
    @deegee3195 Před 5 lety +4

    He’s a cool guy, like his tips, modest, relaxed and professional...

  • @donniecain4266
    @donniecain4266 Před 5 lety +3

    You are so right about the fit!! I have seen expensive suits on guys that looked bad on them because the coat sleeves were too long or the coat fit too loose!!! Tailored is in and it don't have to costs a lot!!! Thanks for the great info!

  • @christopherbarker976
    @christopherbarker976 Před 4 lety

    Hi another great video
    Thanks. Kit Barker

  • @brettsinger4924
    @brettsinger4924 Před 4 lety

    Thank you! Good points to your suggestions.

  • @laidbaqq
    @laidbaqq Před 5 lety +10

    A mistake I have noticed: Men not caring to understand how personal style can become ones uniform; and different 'uniforms' or outfits, can align the mind towards performing certain tasks or aligning with certain qualities.
    Example: Dressing up as a form of training behavior; like, chastity or mild-manners -- dressing up or dressing down such that am mindful to monitor my behavior. For example, when I am down emotionally, my style of dress demands that I maintain 'stiffness' and other self-preservative qualities when in public -- in other words I will not /look/ depressed and neither will I be mentally impacted by my unflattering image (ie not caring, sloppy, mismatched etc).

  • @mart_en
    @mart_en Před 5 lety +13

    This whole thing mainly depends on where you live .
    In Berlin, Germany for example, men dress youthful and sporty up to their fifties and it is totally ok. Men under 30 are considered as kids ( by men and women ) so the range of well dressed good looking guys on the streets goes from 30 something until 50 something ...
    If you live in the suburbs or in a provincial town however, you might already be seen as an " older " guy, when you exceed 35.
    So place is more important than age ...

    • @corannthomas
      @corannthomas Před 5 lety +1

      neumi107 ich liebe Berlin

    • @kschreihart
      @kschreihart Před 5 lety

      That is the same in the USA, if you live outside of a big city then bluejeans and flannel are always in.

  • @heliaalves9062
    @heliaalves9062 Před 4 lety +2

    I absolutely love your videos. I really enjoy your sense of style ❤️

  • @cezarmonteirodk
    @cezarmonteirodk Před 4 lety

    Thank you for inspiration and useful tips!

  • @youngworld6646
    @youngworld6646 Před 5 lety +20

    I'm guilty of the running shoes out in public, but it's only because they're comfortable and it takes pressure off my knees and back.

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  Před 5 lety +3

      Young World I totally understand! Try the Cole Haan with the Nike sole!

    • @positivevibrations6110
      @positivevibrations6110 Před 5 lety +1

      @@40OverFashion the best! I am an over fifty lady and their women's show with that sole is great. Also great for knees and back: muscle strengthening exercises which ease the pressure off stressed joints!

    • @jeffreytidwell5509
      @jeffreytidwell5509 Před 5 lety +3

      Always wear the most comfortable shoes you can find. Hurting feet usually make you tired and achy all over. I try to find the simplest looking NB shoes for everyday wear. When you have to wear steel-toed work shoes 12 hours a day, you don't care how your everyday shoes look. They just have to be clean and comfortable.

    • @dinocarlucci2105
      @dinocarlucci2105 Před 5 lety +1

      Next time before I go out I will ask all my neighbors will I look alright in this and that and when ready I will ask all of them again do I look ok.!

    • @epsilonvideo
      @epsilonvideo Před 5 lety +3

      Young World Never feel guilty for wearing comfort. Don’t fall pray of these persuasive tactics to make you buy more useless fashion.

  • @OneTalaw
    @OneTalaw Před 5 lety +10

    Agree with everything you stated! I too have seen these very same mistakes made by men trying to still dress as though they are still in their 20’s. Saying that MOST 40+ men have a few pounds that they simply cannot loose no matter how much they exercise (perhaps they work to many hours each day or have to many responsibilities in their free time). I’d like to see more options for these sort of men i.e. those who hold a little extra weight (especially around the mid section). I look forward to seeing your new video on this.

  • @asacco2698
    @asacco2698 Před rokem +5

    The mature man actually looks younger dressing his age than trying to look younger. Rationale: A guy sharply dressed his age still looks important and relevant, whereas he would just appear to be trying too hard with youthful duds, exposing his age.

  • @eugeniocorpuz8338
    @eugeniocorpuz8338 Před 3 lety +3

    Basically he says to wear classic clothes that fit well. It also helps to stay in good shape so the clothes look better.

  • @FreeLancerLondon
    @FreeLancerLondon Před 5 lety +12

    I'm 63 and I still want to look smart casual when I go out. Really good tips. Good fit for your clothes applies to any age.

  • @ocdchaos5580
    @ocdchaos5580 Před 4 lety +15

    Amazing how having great hair like this gentlemen’s, automatically makes outfits look better... lol

    • @richardjohnson3771
      @richardjohnson3771 Před 2 lety +1

      @@dat2ra I asked my old friends "Hair, strength, or pain free, which would you choose to have back?" We all said "pain free."

  • @jamiemcnay
    @jamiemcnay Před rokem

    Excellent content. Thank you.

  • @creativecheersoffashionlau7364
    @creativecheersoffashionlau7364 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Just found your channel! Being a stylist it is refreshing to see a men’s styling channel after aaallllllllll those women’s! Love your approach and advice! 👍🏻

  • @beemer1111
    @beemer1111 Před 5 lety +29

    I totally get this. At 65, I still care about how I look and dress. My cardinal rule is “good shoes” and a “good watch”, and everything else falls into place ( most of the time ). Fitness is essential, and I workout three times a week. Being somewhat fit, well dressed, along with my cardinal rule, I always feel my best out in public, and maximize my self confidence. You are never too old to look your best, and enjoy some fashion upgrades on occasion. Buy quality Vs quantity. Avoid trendy style, but stay stylish, and you will feel, and look your best, even past your prime. Do it for you, your wife, your family.

    • @bodyrocker8885
      @bodyrocker8885 Před 5 lety +1

      I’m a watch snob and have a decent collection of Swiss chronographs.... each job contract/ consulting role I’d get a tag or Bvlgari or JLC... alas, no one looks at watches anymore.... 😭😤😭😤

    • @InGrindWeCrust2010
      @InGrindWeCrust2010 Před 10 měsíci

      So true! I have a friend/instructor/mentor who is about to turn 70 and still regularly runs, cycles, and practices martial arts. He's stayed slim and lost minimal muscle tone over the years, and of course no mental acuity. He's definitely my role model, especially as I currently have a small tire around my waist and I'm trying to get back into shape.

    • @kevinchaffee9694
      @kevinchaffee9694 Před 7 měsíci

      The worst sin is the “apple on a stick effect.” Guys that wear too tight pants and have a large stomach.

  • @terrybrien3136
    @terrybrien3136 Před 4 lety +8

    I've always walked past the fashion sneaker. I never, ever knew what it was for. Thank you! I'm going to give them a go. And the Taylor idea. Thumbs up!

    • @user-sb4fd3jt3w
      @user-sb4fd3jt3w Před 3 lety

      Honestly it might be because I’m a sneaker head but I do t like those kinda of shoes, of course I don’t really care if others wear it but I never will. There are so many brands that do it and they all look the same, I think they took too much inspiration from old basketball and skate shoes (convers one star and all stars, Stan smith, puma suede, blazer low, vans) to the point were you might as well get those retros. yes they are higher quality but not at all to the $200-400 that some companies want. If you have that budget tho the aj1 low OG for resale is nice

  • @jbeebaz5194
    @jbeebaz5194 Před 4 lety

    I found your expertise advice and instructions extremely usefull and inspiring. I need more of it.
    Tnks

  • @gerardoitaliano8046
    @gerardoitaliano8046 Před rokem

    Always great content!

  • @donmckinney4091
    @donmckinney4091 Před 5 lety +4

    66 and I wear mostly Polo's and dress slacks(Dockers) wear jeans now but rarely, and workout 3-4 times a week. People swear I'm in my 50's-it tkaes work especially during the holidays but I stick with it!!

  • @VolkswagenNut1969
    @VolkswagenNut1969 Před 5 lety +5

    Excellent advice.
    It’s easy for me however.
    I still dress like I’m in my 20s because when I was in my 20s I dressed like I was in my 40s.
    Simple classic dress-casual style never changes and is ageless. :)

    • @magnus_mode
      @magnus_mode Před 11 měsíci

      classic. truly, you were ahead of your time...

  • @MarkLipka
    @MarkLipka Před 4 lety +4

    I'd like to see a video putting together a few of these looks and pricing them out for guys who don't want to break the bank.

  • @ScottBickhaus
    @ScottBickhaus Před 4 lety +5

    Great video. I’d love to see more content like this.

  • @leeanndesantana7841
    @leeanndesantana7841 Před 5 lety +10

    WEAR WHAT YOU LIKE AND FEEL COMFORTABLE.

    • @LE-xr6fb
      @LE-xr6fb Před 5 lety

      Then look in t mirror & see that what u feel & like makes for a sloppy presentation.

  • @lisax23
    @lisax23 Před 5 lety +3

    I am a woman in her 40 and loved your fashion video and advice . It was spot on

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  Před 5 lety +1

      Thank you Lisa!

    • @tbird12yt
      @tbird12yt Před 10 měsíci

      You might find women's clothing will fit you better.

  • @returningtoearthtv8836
    @returningtoearthtv8836 Před 3 lety +30

    I find this sad and exhausting. Running through this content is a theme of worshiping youthfulness, deception, and a preoccupation with what other people think of you.

  • @troyhagen587
    @troyhagen587 Před 4 lety

    Great Information and VIDEO

  • @dennisfuentesoc
    @dennisfuentesoc Před 5 lety +9

    I agree with and do most of the things you said. BUT ... I will continue to wear my looney toon, team canada, and rock and roll hall of fame t-shirts because I believe an older man is still entitled to have some fun with his clothes.
    And... I myself do not do the untucked look because I think it looks sloppy - regardless of the shirt type.

  • @TACKLEtv
    @TACKLEtv Před 5 lety +20

    Dress with confidence and the world will react accordingly

    • @gnirolnamlerf593
      @gnirolnamlerf593 Před 5 lety +1

      Joseph Malone: This is the key. Yes! When you walk down the street with a feeling that "I belong in these clothes!" you can succeed with a variety of styles regardless of age. "I belong in these clothes!" is different from "I don't give a damn how I look, so I'll wear what I feel like wearing." The latter attitude is not limited to older men, of course. If you're honest with yourself and you think you look odd now in something you looked good in before, well, you're thinking about wearing those clothes out and about now, not twenty years ago. A lot of what this guy says makes common sense. Clothes should fit.to accentuate one's strengths. But that's like saying that in a job interview you should point out your strengths and not dwell on your weaknesses. One should also not follow every trend, simply because it is popular among this or that group, just like one doesn't in music, food (there is no reason to eat arugula if you don't like arugula -- I happen to like it), films and TV. Kind of obvious, no? If you're fifty and haven't learned that yet, this video is not going to change you.

    • @jonothandoeser
      @jonothandoeser Před 5 lety

      start by dressing your dog with confidence.

  • @yeildo1492
    @yeildo1492 Před rokem +1

    Samuel Hubbard makes a damn fine shoe. Very comfy and good looking. I love this guy's advice. The Untuckit shirts are a great length. No skirts, we're men. Keep it simple and buy good shoes!

  • @shadowsandspirtswithsantos6085

    Our personal styles are not close. But I’ve learn to implement the lessons and fundamentals that this channel provides.

  • @CocoaBeachLiving
    @CocoaBeachLiving Před 4 lety +3

    I feel you my friend. Lots to learn as we get older, thanks 👍

  • @sohailqureshi759
    @sohailqureshi759 Před 5 lety +7

    Being stylish keeps you feeling young and energetic. So listen to this man seriously.

  • @grozwano
    @grozwano Před rokem

    I think your tips are absolutely right
    Cool vid

  • @Therealstizz
    @Therealstizz Před 4 lety

    Great practical tips

  • @brucecashman4871
    @brucecashman4871 Před 5 lety +21

    People should wear what they like, regardless of what others think. Life is short. Enjoy it

    • @krane15
      @krane15 Před 5 lety +2

      Why do people insists on regurgitating this assassin cliche. If you live in a society, its not just about your. Low hanging pants can be forgiven in a misguided youth, its unconscionable in a mature person. Particularly when your waist circumference is equivalent to your height. Pull your pants up, and your shirt down.

    • @kschreihart
      @kschreihart Před 5 lety +1

      @@krane15 Then conform sir it is your right.

  • @rgs6236
    @rgs6236 Před 5 lety +14

    I'm 57 this year and it has taken me the last 10 years to find my style and feel confident. When I was younger I use to follow fashion and wear clothes that betrayed my body shape etc ... Now I go for comfort and style. At 57 I wear slim fit or even skinny leg pants... who cares 😊
    I stopped wearing jeans when I became 40. I can't stand them now 😬
    I love vintage and second hand clothes.
    I guess I do have an advantage because i have a sewing machine and make my own clothes such as sweat tops from off cuts of jersey then adding vintage fabric.
    I also customise second hand clothes when I can be bothered.
    If I'm honest I think we do take fashion to seriously now a days . Fashion should to be fun and not treated as if we are going to war ...
    Wear what makes u happy is important because u can't wear it when your dead . 🙏

    • @briankeithnull194
      @briankeithnull194 Před 5 lety

      Wish I had your talent. I also like a lot of the vintage stuff good you're able to make your it alterations.

    • @user-pg5vf4yr7e
      @user-pg5vf4yr7e Před 5 lety +1

      How can skinny tight leg pants be comfortable at 57? I would not even wear those at 27.

    • @terrygordonsmith3987
      @terrygordonsmith3987 Před 5 lety +1

      I'm skeptical taking clothing advice from someone wearing that shirt

  • @jamesdavidson3259
    @jamesdavidson3259 Před 4 lety

    great stuff, thanks

  • @ehad2
    @ehad2 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I”m 75 and dress like I’m a fashionable 40-50. I will not dress ‘old’ in beige and blue. However, I agree that trendy doesn’t work. I have a beach house and slides and flip flops are okay DEPENDING on what your feet look like 😂

    • @LizzyMoreno74
      @LizzyMoreno74 Před 7 měsíci

      Lol I am trying to picture you in those flip flops

  • @theemperor1015
    @theemperor1015 Před 5 lety +143

    RULE A-Z- Maintain a good shape and you can wear ANYTHING!!

    • @MsMesem
      @MsMesem Před 5 lety +3

      Absolutely. Good shoulders and slim hips....

  • @gordonmrtn
    @gordonmrtn Před 5 lety +4

    Wear whatever you want outside work, it’s your life your comfort and your feel good factor.

  • @artdeve8979
    @artdeve8979 Před 4 lety

    Excellent information!

  • @MAINEiac06
    @MAINEiac06 Před 3 lety +11

    Let me now explain something I have learned, and heartily embraced in my 48 years. Acting your age is EXTREMELY overrated!
    I wear clothes that I think looks good and my confidence does the rest.
    But as you say, style is subjective...... I for one, wouldn't have a brown sofa. You do you! 👌

    • @alextrebek8293
      @alextrebek8293 Před 3 lety

      walt disney said, growing old is mandatory but growing up is optional

    • @40OverFashion
      @40OverFashion  Před 3 lety

      Thanks for commenting Rob!

    • @debbiewood3819
      @debbiewood3819 Před 11 měsíci

      ...I like your brown sofa....this is great info, for guys....thanks