You May Think The Narcissist Is Surviving Without You

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  • You May Think The Narcissist Is Surviving Without You
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Komentáře • 345

  • @xabisogxoyiya8022
    @xabisogxoyiya8022 Před 8 měsíci +106

    It cracks me up. People want to be seen as good people without being good people 😂 Talk about delusional

    • @kellykajander3115
      @kellykajander3115 Před 8 měsíci

      oh gosh ya...get A load of this🤔....THIS NARC I KNEW claimed the reason he had 'so many friends(we all know these friends r Better describesd as "targets" so many in so many towns was becuz he was CROWNED BY GOD 2 SAVE THESE DRUGGIES AND LOST LONEY OLD MOMS TRAPPED AT HOME..OLD LADIES AND RICH OLD SINGLE DUDES....HE PLAYED WHATEVER CARD WAS NEEDED ON FACEBOOK HE SHOPS 4 FRESH EASY MEAT..THE GAY GUY CARD THE BIG SPENDER...THE DO GOODER CRISTIAN..OH GOSH!! EVEN THE "IM YOUR ACTING ATTOURNEY CARD"...THE SOVERIEGN CITIZEN ANGLE

    • @bklynk
      @bklynk Před 7 měsíci +3

      OMG...that is so true.

  • @4riversgd
    @4riversgd Před 8 měsíci +216

    The key is not to care if the Narc is surviving without you. Yes, a Narc's victim must have coined the phrase 'no good deed goes unpunished' lol. Move on and enjoy your life 🙂

    • @fainitesbarley2245
      @fainitesbarley2245 Před 8 měsíci

      Yup. They are not real people. They are functioning in a different world. Start running and don’t look back.

    • @user-dn1pj3db2k
      @user-dn1pj3db2k Před 8 měsíci +3

      I have to get beyond that because I still feel bad for him because he’s living wallowing in victimhood. He can’t drive he had a stroke. He passes out he he just doesn’t have the means to get his life together, and I was always the one that took care of most everything, I’ve never met anybody like him ever well he’s one of a kind and I just have to separate myself from that as my kids told me we are now divorced. It’s been eight years but I’ve kept in contact with him over the time off and on and at times I’ve had to go no contact because he wants to get back together with me but he wants someone to take care of him he and make decisions for him and make doctors appointments and do everything for him. He just doesn’t do anythingfor himself, he just wallows

    • @emilyashley4820
      @emilyashley4820 Před 8 měsíci

      @@user-dn1pj3db2k Maybe you are too close to the situation to see that he is manipulating you. We can't believe what a narcissist says. There's a good book called, Who's pulling your strings?"by Harriet B Braiker, Ph.D that describes manipulative tactics.

    • @atdz3609
      @atdz3609 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Amen Survivors

    • @classybootz6142
      @classybootz6142 Před 8 měsíci +4

      I believe all the vampire movies were about Narcs. If you think about it. There’s a hierarchical vampire and flying monkeys. I.e other vampires. The high ranking vampire seduces a woman, but when she sees the high ranking vampire for what he is, she falls out of the trans and is able to kill him. That is exactly how I defeated mine. And once you take the high ranking vampire down, you essentially destroy the flying monkeys too.~ Energy Vampires

  • @Melissa-HoneyBee
    @Melissa-HoneyBee Před 8 měsíci +100

    Even though you free the Narcissist. The Narcissist doesn't want freed. It becomes a challenge to them. Stay strong, and refuse to let them back in your life.

    • @Samuelle09
      @Samuelle09 Před 7 měsíci +6

      As far as I'm concerned, they're deceased to me once I leave lol

  • @EyesFromAbove73
    @EyesFromAbove73 Před 8 měsíci +17

    Putting god first will help you heal even faster

  • @Seanus32
    @Seanus32 Před 7 měsíci +19

    I really couldn't care less. Anyone who harms another wilfully and over a sustained period is not worthy of attention IMHO.

  • @scottnovotny4452
    @scottnovotny4452 Před 8 měsíci +67

    I left a Covert Narcissist because of the rage and she still managed to get into my head at the end. Next thing you know I'm talking to a VA therapist because I was suicidal. They are master manipulators and they just don't care. Thank God for family, friends and therapy or I wouldn't be here. I'm still in the early healing stage .

    • @LeonBonta
      @LeonBonta Před 7 měsíci +2

      I went through it I kicked her out their. Garbage best move on ,she lives with her old mother 😂in Gilroy California

    • @traceybiles2061
      @traceybiles2061 Před měsícem

      They are crazy makers...but tell others you wer the problem.yet they do not disclose they did to you and how they tortured and tormented you mentally!!

  • @jimfolkers8463
    @jimfolkers8463 Před 8 měsíci +70

    Dave, you look like you're ready to go to war with the narcissist, like Rambo! 😅 hope you're having a blessed day, thank you for the video 🙏

  • @mandyg943
    @mandyg943 Před 8 měsíci +65

    My ex narcissist found his nirvana when he found a job in the funeral industry. It was like a supply buffet! And he feasted to his own demise, his womanising earning him the nickname “Elvis”. His mask was publicly ripped from his face when his boss exposed him and fired him. For all the pain he put me through this was a privileged front row seat.

    • @CosmicGlowUP
      @CosmicGlowUP Před 8 měsíci +3

      Yassss🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @chipsteve
      @chipsteve Před 8 měsíci +4

      Wedding Crashers was a documentary I guess. Grief being an aphrodisiac etc

    • @VoxLesPaul
      @VoxLesPaul Před 8 měsíci +3

      Please explain how a job in the funeral industry translated to a "supply buffet".

    • @caronyardley8834
      @caronyardley8834 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@VoxLesPaulcan only assume necrophilia

    • @Anne-go9ol
      @Anne-go9ol Před 8 měsíci +7

      ​@@VoxLesPaulI think playing the understanding caring saviour of grieving people. It's easy to manipulate people who are already hurt

  • @julianterris
    @julianterris Před 8 měsíci +61

    Yes, narcissists love to set you up! As you rightly say, Dave, they often co-opt the new supply who is (often) a narcissist too. Just remember: churches are a hotbed for narcissism too. 💟

    • @jillcallan
      @jillcallan Před 8 měsíci +3

      @ Dave. And our community...
      . I thought 2 narcs can't work together? Because they can't draw supply off each other since narcs don't have their own supply?
      Or can they??

    • @MrFredsAdventures
      @MrFredsAdventures Před 8 měsíci +8

      @@jillcallan Yes they can work together. Many times swingers are two narcs.

    • @vooptech2793
      @vooptech2793 Před 8 měsíci +6

      ​@@jillcallanI know a narc that has a toxic on again off again relationship with another narc. They go through a cycle of doing toxic stuff to one another and sending eachother into meltdown then ignoring eachother for a couple weeks then love bombing eachother back into it.

    • @jillcallan
      @jillcallan Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@MrFredsAdventures interesting!! Thank you!

    • @jillcallan
      @jillcallan Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@vooptech2793 wow! That sounds like a fun time! Lol

  • @toniacompton1091
    @toniacompton1091 Před 8 měsíci +14

    My ex narcissist is NOT coming back.
    He is NOT aloud. God will NOT allow it.
    I know now what I was dealing with.

  • @leonnacovey8979
    @leonnacovey8979 Před 8 měsíci +26

    The last time my ex narc contacted me was in September. Now remember i have a protective order against him. He is also blocked, so he called private number. He told me that i belong to him and that in another year he would be allowed to legally see me. Ummm i don't think so devil. They are relentless. This all while he has a new supply living with him. He went behind my back when i was with him as well. Yuck! Thanks Dave!

    • @debbierockz1
      @debbierockz1 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Sounds like the ex narc I was seeing ..after I found out he was living with the new supply,like they just moved in together he texted me the next morning saying he always love me and missed me 🤮.. then said I needed therapy lol 😂 what ??? Yes he said I need meds and help ..these narcs want you doped up to put up with their crap ! And make themselves the victim to like THEY were abused poor me .poor me..their very sick people!

  • @randybrinkman-do4xf
    @randybrinkman-do4xf Před 8 měsíci +19

    They have one mode of operation , excuse , justify , blame , manipulate , when meeting a narcissist you are meeting a deception that appears as a person , discarding actually means the deception has failed , and that means non existence, so when they act as though you no longer exist , it's all projection! Once you figure them out , it ends them , they never developed into a person ! God Bless !

  • @cajuncrackerranch7990
    @cajuncrackerranch7990 Před 8 měsíci +68

    Thank you 🙏 Dave!
    The Cluster B is the Devil in disguise.
    Your soul is what they are after.
    Nothing more, nothing less!
    Only the purest body, mind, soul, and spirit will survive, but it will be a life without a Cluster B.
    Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️

    • @mickcrovo5238
      @mickcrovo5238 Před 8 měsíci +6

      I was married to one (BPD) for 15 years. After that I was seduced by two NPD's. You are so right. I feel lucky to be alive. Never again.

    • @cajuncrackerranch7990
      @cajuncrackerranch7990 Před 8 měsíci

      @@mickcrovo5238 my condolences to the old you and Congratulations to the new you. 20 years of marriage unknowingly for me. She hid behind a very well constructed mask until year 10 of having a nervous breakdown… then all her past came rushing in like a 1,000 ft wave. She collapsed from her own inner shame and guilt and destroyed everything including the lives of our four children. God has a reason for everything; honor Him, respect Him and learn to do the same for self. Some people cannot be reached or saved. When her clinical diagnosis was determined and announced by professionals, I knew nothing about the Cluster B, but I sure do now. The most excruciatingly painful rollercoaster I have ever ridden in my life but, I am free, I am alive, and I am at peace. Learn the lesson and Armor up brother! You got this.

    • @shirlspark_stardust
      @shirlspark_stardust Před 8 měsíci +2

      True

    • @kerstitekko2257
      @kerstitekko2257 Před 7 měsíci +1

      I have thought it but not be articulate it. Have to stay away to Thrive!

    • @aliraelei3313
      @aliraelei3313 Před 7 měsíci +1

      They can't have mu soul, I gave it to Jesus Amen

  • @robinchilds7492
    @robinchilds7492 Před 7 měsíci +9

    He bought an insurance policy and asked for my personal information. He said I was the beneficiary. Later I started thinking, that policy was on me not him. When I asked him about it he told me there was no policy and I was crazy. A couple months later he mentioned the policy. I told him there was no policy and he was crazy. It left him speechless.

  • @debbierockz1
    @debbierockz1 Před 8 měsíci +27

    I truly believe narcissist’s are demons in human form ..the last I heard from the one I was seeing he’s living on disability in a very bad neighborhood no car and his new supply looks terrible a ex meth head ..smh karma ! Still shocks me how fast he moved this very terrible looking woman in though ! I mean I’m no Beauty queen but WOW he really down graded from me 😳

    • @debbierockz1
      @debbierockz1 Před 8 měsíci +6

      He was texting me he loved me and wanted to spend his life with me 3 days before moving in with some strange looking woman ..wow

    • @blairjones1086
      @blairjones1086 Před 7 měsíci +8

      ​@@debbierockz1same he was proposing in the middle of me actively leaving him...he acted like nothing had happened it was so weird. Kept saying he loved me so much he only wanted me to TRULY love basically saying the same crap to different people all the time. It's mind numbing and became quite boring and predictable.

    • @JezreelHosea
      @JezreelHosea Před 7 měsíci

      Yes yes yes, narcissist are real modern prostitutes on demon time using the family model to use individuals who value “family” and use your money, time , everything

  • @mariahernadez9702
    @mariahernadez9702 Před 8 měsíci +21

    Yeah, my Ex-Narc literally told me that I made everything about me & that I never let him talk, this shocked me because when I met him he was quiet & reserved, he showed his true colors to me after I awoke & began holding him accountable to his abusive behavior & accusations of me cheating on him! 😢 I had to shut all contact with him to protect myself ❤. All you’re saying I believe I experienced.

  • @robinchilds7492
    @robinchilds7492 Před 7 měsíci +9

    I'm an empath . I was in a 4 year relationship with a covert narcissist . I refused to marry him or even move in with him. He couldn't control and gaslight me . He eventually admitted the relationship wasn't going to work. I calmly walked away and went no contact. I knew he was cheating but I only saw him on weekends. I even cut back on the time I spent with him.

    • @lobsterbisque7567
      @lobsterbisque7567 Před 7 měsíci +4

      @robinchilds7492 Good on You, Robin! I pray that You will go no contact with Your ex as I did with my narc ex GF after 4mos together. Thank The Lord for opening my eyes to her manipulation & demonic behavior. I ghosted her around last Christmas, and life has slowly gotten better over the last yr since. I pray the Lord will continue to protect You as You continue to distance Yourself away from him.

  • @mickcrovo5238
    @mickcrovo5238 Před 8 měsíci +27

    It's easy to get down on yourself for allowing yourself to be taken in by the narcissist. Don't do that. They are experts at manipulation. You didn't stand a chance.
    On the other hand, it's also easy not to blame yourself for some of the things that you did that were--let's face it--"against that which is good" in your pursuit of the narcissist. It's hard for me to admit this but in my case, she was married when the love-bombing began and I eventually put my values aside and sold out to the flesh. After the discard, I awoke from the spell. I went with my friend who also had just been discarded and we waited for two hours to go to confession. Some of you don't want to hear this but you have to face your own demons too. Ask for help and you shall receive.

  • @a6a34007
    @a6a34007 Před 7 měsíci +17

    Thank you for recording this video and enlightening me Dave! I am an empath and a compassionate person. I had helped this narcissist's life improve! That's what the narcissist did to me, triangulated with a third person, provoked me and then recorded me getting angry. This narcissist brought out the absolute worst in me. I have never acted like this in my life. It all makes so much sense now. I have gone no contact and blocked the narcissist's number forever.

  • @kiddytube3915
    @kiddytube3915 Před 8 měsíci +8

    Channeling that inner Naruto 😂

  • @alysiahite7086
    @alysiahite7086 Před 8 měsíci +12

    I left my exhusband Narcissistic because he was gonna kill me. And then i found out that he had a girlfriend two months after i left and who she was. I called her and saved her from him. I don't agree with allot people on the thing that we shouldn't warn the new supply. I wish someone would of warned me about him 32 years ago. I am going to be celebrating 6 Christmas' without him. 🎉🎉

    • @alysiahite7086
      @alysiahite7086 Před 8 měsíci

      So i spoiled his next supply and no one wants this 68 year narcissistic pervert. I will never let him back in. I keep this devil out.

    • @bad.chickie66
      @bad.chickie66 Před 26 dny

      If you stayed for 32 years it sounds more like a personal problem wtf grow up and take some accountability 😂😂😂

  • @JasonD81
    @JasonD81 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Every narcissist I’ve ever met were awful to waitresses and waiters
    I used to apologize to them after wards
    And explain that you can’t treat people like that

  • @mamiesews123
    @mamiesews123 Před 8 měsíci +8

    I was thinking that they have an addiction to evil doings. Once you're a target..they can't let go.however you said it better..they are parasites.invisible parasite sucking the life out of you😢❤❤

  • @treelover1050
    @treelover1050 Před 8 měsíci +9

    I DON'T CARE IF HE IS SURVIVING. I AM LONG GONE FROM THAT MESS.
    DAVE THAT WAS A GREAT COFFEE POUR TODAY.

  • @bridgettebianca2318
    @bridgettebianca2318 Před 8 měsíci +26

    When you go silent, door slam, give them nothing; they go away… like a Rat who gets no cheese💯

  • @Marieb3fur724
    @Marieb3fur724 Před 8 měsíci +10

    Indeed, Those “Golden Children” ARE EXTREMELY DANGEROUS and CRUEL!!! They emit a very Venomous attitude, especially toward their Target(s), and other people in general. They are NOT normal humans.
    They are “Cancerous” to our society!
    Thank you, David, for your straightforward, peaceful message. Your timely message helped Me to honestly examine the progress during my No-Contact/Recovery Journey.

  • @sinsin999
    @sinsin999 Před 8 měsíci +9

    Sneaky Snakes keep me out of the Triangle 🐍🔺️

  • @user-sz9pz2bt4f
    @user-sz9pz2bt4f Před 7 měsíci +7

    My ex narcissist was notorious for being the happy extrovert, while we were out and about in groups of people, but I was not allowed to be happy or extroverted, or he would immediately become jealous. He even got jealous on a trip to Israel and accused two guys of looking at me and started a fight with them. It was so embarrassing. That was the last straw for me. At that point, I knew he’d never change, and eventually ended the relationship.

  • @lisamooney6297
    @lisamooney6297 Před 8 měsíci +8

    I've found the best thing to do is smile and keep walking. This way they can't have you as an audience member to their show. They no longer matter. They are always looking for attention and a reaction.

  • @tracysprenger8622
    @tracysprenger8622 Před 8 měsíci +9

    Mine would open his wallet in front of me and flick bills in the bill fold area in his fingers and say look at this money....such a weird thing to do. I knew he was broke, he didn't even work. He got money advances from the bank because he inherited a house he was trying to sell.

  • @michaelmorgan7893
    @michaelmorgan7893 Před 8 měsíci +34

    What amazes me, Dave, as you had said: ... "After the first few fights, you are out of the spotlight, etc (fall out of favor)" of course I paraphrase.
    But sometimes, I fall in love with these narcissists, and there is no " fight" per se... They are just tired of me, like a dog or cat that's bored with a new toy. They don't see any more potential in me, than solving a local needs at the time: money, comfort, or my expertise at helping them with electrical or plumbing issue, otherwise I've outlived my usefulness in their eyes.
    And being disabled since birth, socially awkward from years of trauma, and charisma challenged, I will continue to be a target for all these kinds of people, because I do not attract anyone seeking a " credible" or " viable" life partner.
    For me it's a win/win, now that I realize this, because instead of seeing my living single as some kind of death sentence, I now see it as time I can get closer to God and learn of Him.
    Because at the end of the day, the ONLY relationship that matters is the one with God.

    • @PlugNPlay-gh4dq
      @PlugNPlay-gh4dq Před 8 měsíci +9

      Sending virtual hugs because nobody deserves that. May the Lord heal every hurt that they put on you and lead you to the one He has kept for you. In Jesus's name, Amen

    • @plusone8015
      @plusone8015 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@PlugNPlay-gh4dqAmen 🙏

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Před 8 měsíci +10

    Dave whether the narcissist is surviving isn't my concern at all I'm out of the situationship forever there is no going back ever now that I know the door is slammed shut and bolted now that I know about the narc what he is thanks be to God and my Lord Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit saving me 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @michellebucci3748
    @michellebucci3748 Před 7 měsíci +4

    We need to have a meeting for narcissist survivors. Just like aa and na

  • @user-tp8ze7nn8o
    @user-tp8ze7nn8o Před 8 měsíci +8

    My bf took me to CA to meet his family for thanksgiving. I watched him flip a switch and yell at me for a comment I made about his mom. It freaked me out and I tried to leave and he tried to stop me so I called the police. He assumed I called them to tell them how awful and abusive he was which I didn’t at all I just wanted to leave. the next day i tried to reason with him and make nice and he punished me by informing me that he would not be allowing me to ride back I'm the rental car for the 13hr ride home and that he wouldn't be helping me get home. he stranded me at his brothers house. when i got home he would not give me back my car and house keys which i had left inside his house before we left. i tried many times to de escalate the situation and talk to him but each time i wad met with anger and rage. i lost out on over $1000 and was heartbroken. do you think only a narcissist is capable of this? its hard for me to belive a non narcissist would be capable of this.

    • @agatachristian9925
      @agatachristian9925 Před 8 měsíci +6

      It sounds horrible... I'm sorry you experienced this. It definitely sounds cruel, controlling and he lacks empathy.

  • @richardmaropoulos9827
    @richardmaropoulos9827 Před 8 měsíci +7

    You look like Rambo today, I'm glad to be one of your new regulars 👍

  • @MrBogeyman00
    @MrBogeyman00 Před 8 měsíci +11

    Hi Dave. Christmas is coming. Is it possible for you to do a video on Empaths that escaped their Narcissists and will be alone at Christmas?

  • @sylqestasylqesta1827
    @sylqestasylqesta1827 Před 8 měsíci +21

    Thanks Dave! Keep showing up and shining out the light of TRUTH!

  • @bigtreecombatacademy2927
    @bigtreecombatacademy2927 Před 8 měsíci +17

    My ex seemed to have moved on but she will circle back at some point like she has in the past
    They can’t help themselves and I will never take her back

  • @jodiburnett6211
    @jodiburnett6211 Před 8 měsíci +18

    Watch out for the Holiday Love Bomb Marathon.
    They use nostalgia against everyone in their path.
    Thank you!

  • @marcelacasas2187
    @marcelacasas2187 Před 8 měsíci +4

    I was ivolved with a Narcissist for almost four years. It was a relationship from hell. He snapped easily and would abandon me for days after a quartel He cheated on me was see her for a year. He was indesisive , hot n cold. Pathalogical liar and a phony. I dispise him and wish I never met him . We are broken up. The new supply is in for a surprise. He is a drug addict and health issues and I accepted him. How stupid I was to accept him in my life. Glad he is gone. His name is Robert.

  • @michelezeug1012
    @michelezeug1012 Před 8 měsíci +4

    You need to discern genuine kindeness. They can be nice to you & others but then they flip with underhanded contempt.

    • @treelover1050
      @treelover1050 Před 7 měsíci +2

      YES. THEN AFTER WE SEE WHAT THEY REALLY ARE, I FEEL NOTHING BUT CONTEMPT FOR THEM.

  • @mellyb3560
    @mellyb3560 Před 8 měsíci +5

    They won’t come back after a while if you stand your ground with a no contact. My ex kept trying to talk to me, and so I finally just left the so-called mutual friend circle. Once in a while, unsolicited, I hear through the grapevine that they are miserable and constantly fighting, and he treats her like crap. Most of the time I don’t even think about them, and don’t care, but when someone brings it up. All I can do is hope that she comes to her senses for the sake of her and her children.

  • @frankiepezzolla
    @frankiepezzolla Před 8 měsíci +18

    love your content brother, keep up the Lords work!

  • @aliraelei3313
    @aliraelei3313 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Hebrews 4:12
    King James Version
    12 For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.

  • @ellencaroline2065
    @ellencaroline2065 Před 8 měsíci +2

    That coffee poor😂🩰☕✨

  • @annc3102
    @annc3102 Před 8 měsíci +5

    My ex narc wanted me o call him after the woman he got involved with, when we were together died. It had been over 40 years since the split from him. I could feel something urging me to call him, but knowing he has ties to those in the dark arts that hate me with a passion (all narcissists), I resisted that urge, reminding myself that he never made me happy and he just wants to hurt me some more. Now I know it was all about supply, that man must of been desparate because he hates me with a passion too

  • @ThomasBowen
    @ThomasBowen Před 7 měsíci +2

    I wasn’t never good enough- walking with him while he’s scoping out for new suppliers, very humiliating, as he denied my observation. He was eww from that moment on…

  • @user-ho6rr9bz8k
    @user-ho6rr9bz8k Před 8 měsíci +12

    Dave my name is Jeff and I have wrote in to you been hoping to get a chance to tell my story 33 years with a narcissist it was hell. God gave me the strength to I don't know a whole lot about trying to get to you on these other social media websites and I'm scared to leave my phone number or email when I just would love to let you hear my story is bad but God he did it and I thank God I'm 60 years old starting I thank God for you and others out here just trying to get the word out people don't believe things like this goes on in America looking forward to talking to you soon I'm in North Carolina

  • @cazza7034
    @cazza7034 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Blessings ❤ from London uk 🙏 I’m so happy I found you Dave.

  • @Shalom.4.4.
    @Shalom.4.4. Před 8 měsíci +13

    I appreciate you Dave. Telling people where they really find freedom, truth, transparency, pure honesty and love, in the arms of Christ! That’s the only place we need to be. He’s the only one that could ever heal us, and not just heal us, but restore us so we can be who we were always meant to be. A humble servant in the kingdom of God!

  • @loveandhappiness8178
    @loveandhappiness8178 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Dave you should do a Folgers commercial. Love your videos

  • @TCpointsof
    @TCpointsof Před 7 měsíci +1

    Omg lol moldy pizza and dog poop so true! The narc hid plates in his dresser full of food! 🤣 you are so right 💯

  • @ashleyfowler1776
    @ashleyfowler1776 Před 8 měsíci +17

    I feel like I’ve found a gold mine with your channel. There’s a ton of people toting narc stuff. You’re channel is changing eternity. I’ve commented before that my Mom has NPD and I’m still ruminating over horrible things she’s said to me from years ago until weeks ago. What to do ? You provide spiritual ointment that only comes through Jesus Christ . Thanks

  • @amyt7378
    @amyt7378 Před 8 měsíci +2

    WOW you hit everything exactly on point!!!

  • @maryambrose8466
    @maryambrose8466 Před 2 měsíci

    Great word. Much needed

  • @lauralambert7233
    @lauralambert7233 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Bless you Dave. So true! 🥺

  • @amyt7378
    @amyt7378 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Oh my gosh I love this video!! So real and historical with the costume 😂❤ “survivor” 😂

  • @Kim-wt2gl
    @Kim-wt2gl Před 8 měsíci +7

    Hi Dave, just want to say that your videos have been most helpful. Thank you.

  • @1stwastheword893
    @1stwastheword893 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I'm so thankful for you ♡

  • @truthfix-zi7yq
    @truthfix-zi7yq Před 8 měsíci +1

    That is very ture dave I'm glad u are here I am thinking it but can't put it into words

  • @Sunny74-
    @Sunny74- Před 8 měsíci +2

    Ahh pouring my tea now 🙏🏽❤️😊

  • @GaryPotocki82
    @GaryPotocki82 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank you for your continued work happy holidays Dave God bless 🙏

  • @tinaclever2286
    @tinaclever2286 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Yes ur soo right & I hope they better than me so after 10 yrs. Being manipulated & torched they can have him I tried & he 70 so good luck 2 him & all the supply & I noticed he likes supply way younger bcuz more easier to be manipulated...

  • @user-yy8nx8qq9y
    @user-yy8nx8qq9y Před 8 měsíci +3

    Great Info. It's like hearing my self. Thank you so much for telling it. like it is

  • @pixelnazgul
    @pixelnazgul Před 8 měsíci +3

    They never regret loosing you, despite everything they said

  • @delphinathomas8262
    @delphinathomas8262 Před 8 měsíci +4

    He said he'd rather be in prison than to be without me.. of course it's a LIE!!!😅

  • @kaja231
    @kaja231 Před 8 měsíci +1

    It is helping, thank you👍🙂

  • @loveandhappiness8178
    @loveandhappiness8178 Před 8 měsíci +4

    He said your picture is still on my Facebook page. I said you have 5 different pages

  • @tamerastone4732
    @tamerastone4732 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Preach it, brother!!! Amen!!!!

  • @heathermixson1265
    @heathermixson1265 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Excellent teaching! Thanks so much, Dave😊

  • @LethalWeapon73
    @LethalWeapon73 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Glad I came across your channel again. Was one of the first I subscribe to about narcissists. Have hot soup vs tea 😂

  • @nancylasavath5992
    @nancylasavath5992 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Hi Dave, thanks for another great video, love your hair style 👍❤️

  • @kimvannote5024
    @kimvannote5024 Před 8 měsíci +2

    The bridge is burned Dave. He replaced me with a woman that replicates his mother. She's short, has the exact same shaped nose. He really has a crush on his mother, and no one compares to her. So now, he can actually be with his mother, in every way, so to speak, if you know what I mean. He's Blocked for good. May GOD'S Will, not mine be done. Amen.

  • @isabelleallemand6063
    @isabelleallemand6063 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Hahaha you mimic them so well Dave ,thank you again for the humor to bear with these gross creatures.

  • @jillcallan
    @jillcallan Před 8 měsíci +2

    Rambo is in the house! Lol. I love the look Dave.
    Rambo meets Heavy Metal guitarist.

  • @songbird8404
    @songbird8404 Před 8 měsíci +5

    I haven’t watched your content since I left my narc 4 years ago (thanks to u) You’ve CHANGED! 🤗

  • @dnotesdnotes8245
    @dnotesdnotes8245 Před 2 měsíci

    I new to you and i am super grateful … for you !!!!! I was reffered to you by a new associate … she is one of us … and a believer as well

  • @bellchrish6579
    @bellchrish6579 Před 8 dny

    Dave! I love you! You are so true in all your words!!!

  • @AuthorLHollingsworth
    @AuthorLHollingsworth Před 8 měsíci +6

    Thank you for all of your help over the years. God, is good 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Andrea-ht2sz
    @Andrea-ht2sz Před 7 měsíci +3

    The best advice or truth I have ever heard about why we empaths end up in relation w narcissists is because I was told, You don't pick them they pick you !!! Smartest most profound eye opening statement I've yet to hear. It's true so true. We empaths tend to see the world through our innate sense of goodness and the incapacity to believe that others have the capacity to even think in such a manner never mind act it out. We don't have that capacity and don't believe that others do either. We can't even comprehend the thought of doing what a narcissist already has planned and this is why we never chose them, they always choose us, remember never make excuses or feel insignificant for your deep gift of empathy. Be grateful. The narcissist wasn't capable of appreciation for all your rare characteristics that the majority don't naturally possess. Even through the pain holding on to my unique nuisances and deep sense of empathy is what keeps me strong. They wanted you because they could never be you. Love your channel love your content, your the man !
    !

  • @JRStar21
    @JRStar21 Před měsícem

    Thank the most high for your channel its given me so much insight on what i was once refusing to accept. I tried to see good in everyone but I now see that just isn't the case with some people. God bless you

  • @undepressing
    @undepressing Před 8 měsíci +2

    happy weekend dave!

  • @susanneamdouni
    @susanneamdouni Před 8 měsíci +3

    It makes me laugh and smile everytime he starts the video that damn coffee or tea ☕️ sound you kind of expect it now, it is brilliant pattern interrupt to get people coming back for more..

    • @Narcologyunscripted
      @Narcologyunscripted  Před 8 měsíci +4

      Uh oh, you're onto me:)

    • @susanneamdouni
      @susanneamdouni Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@Narcologyunscripted internet marketers we know all about nlp but it is done with good intentions! You make me laugh a lot the way use analogies to paint the picture of what they up to with trickery ❤️

    • @susanneamdouni
      @susanneamdouni Před 8 měsíci

      @@Narcologyunscripted it is when this Is learnt by highly narcissistic people that it becomes an issue like the elites of this world for a good example..

  • @DarkMetaOFFICIAL
    @DarkMetaOFFICIAL Před 8 měsíci +6

    Wow brother, hello! strange when things just keep lining up. i thought my own situation was finally coming to it's ending after 12 years as i have been telling you. but no.
    my ex has escalated her remote passive communications, editing, adding words to her profile, as she knows it is in my app history and i will see it. she can also see mine. we are in a large community. it's hard to avoid people in public groups sometimes. people also come to me asking if it's me that she's saying all this nasty stuff about. Now i am being called a Narcissist by random people who don't know me or even know how to use these terminologies. but it has no effect on me any more. and they hate it.
    she adds one more thing at a time, which i talk about in my own public profile, dispelling her attempted smear campaign. people have been coming to me saying she's spreading rumors and lies that i also stalked her for a year. i kept proof after a while. because she hoovers. then lies. she has done this before.
    she wrote now, the most hurtful weapons, with the cherry on top saying she found her diamond, her twin flame, she's so in love, found the one she's been looking for. (i used to be that only person). all the others were nobodies, (meaning me). just to really rub it in, really wanting to hurt me with these words. she wrote "taken" now, and the date was the actual day after i told her i was done. Wow. either she had the new supply ready, for the exact moment, to the day, or it is fabricated to hurt me. it is all she has left. and i have payed ZERO attention to her. i think she sees now, i am not coming back. and i wrote how i am studying Narcissistic Personality Disorder, which i have left on my profile. she won't dare come back now, and the flying monkies are just making a legend of my name. nothing new. but now, i am so strong, they can't hurt me anymore!
    it's fine. god and good is on my side. and truth. we are real empathics. and so glad to have you buddy. and chat. our love keeps us protected and strong.
    everything she does, are the things you describe, verbatim. she can't hurt me any more! we are eternal beings. our light guides us. hope you're well. ✨💜

  • @user-ve6cg9fc9x
    @user-ve6cg9fc9x Před 6 měsíci

    Just amazing channel,spot on,,,,could Liston for hrs and still stay amazed at the knowledge that can be found on a single one channel,,,

  • @Snow-wz6eu
    @Snow-wz6eu Před 2 měsíci

    'What is this? This exist?' made me laugh...Thank you.🙏

  • @getrawwithtammy9407
    @getrawwithtammy9407 Před 8 měsíci +6

    I love this channel.... i love god.... this is one of the only channels that preaches the word of god

  • @DianaJones-tt5im
    @DianaJones-tt5im Před 8 měsíci +5

    Thank you for this video. My narcissist became disabled, which will affect how he looks and ability to get money. I left him alone and he had an accident. I came back told him I loved him and a week to the day He posted a woman who is 10 years older than me, looks nothing like the other women he's friends with in FB. He received different remarks on this pic basically congratulating him for finding a 'mark' and he's on that bs. I called him out on it and he was trianglating me with this woman, love bombing me and asking me for pics. I believe if she doesn't help him like he wants he will kick her to the curb like its nothing. He also got mad when he found my ex was trying to get me back. Doesn't matter if the woman drives a benz and I drive a honda if all she wants to do is date and not help she will find out soon

  • @AbnerChamate
    @AbnerChamate Před 7 měsíci +5

    Hi Dave. I have been active listening people about this toxic behavior and I have a better understanding. But you can spend a lifetime trying youir best recognizing virtues and mistakes in yourself and others, and you will never know what are you getting into. The risk is everywhere, inside and outside of you. Talking about this things without experiencing is impossible. Everyone life is a lot of gamble, failures and happy moments. I do avoid people that are instant red flags, like drug addicts and mean to others, but when a covert is there you dont spot things obviously. You start paranoia about everyone and everything once you are hurt deeply, and you sabotage yourself, your job, grattitude to others and your own self integrity if not externally, in your head. Loneliness can be overwhelming but I have decided to be calm and enjoy what I do and God is everywhere all the time. Thanks for your video. I hope this helps.

  • @athenagriego4561
    @athenagriego4561 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Yes ! It is helping me so much that I saved this. So many of you have these videos, and I save them to refer back to them. Little by little, I've been taking everyone's advice and gaining my power back. I still live with my ex for financial reasons. He is EVERYTHING you ALL talk about. And now that I REALLY know who is and what he's about I actually feel free. Now, I keep to myself unless the grandkids come over. Other then that I stay to myself. I don't hang with any of his people anymore cause they are ALL like him and he trashed and bashed me to ALL of his people. It's the women in his life not the men.I actually knew he was a narc but I didn't know to what extent. The only difference between him and my other ex is this guy that I live with didn't almost kill me. This guy doesn't put hands on me. Anyway thank you. Please keep helping us get through this.

  • @justynadominiak7631
    @justynadominiak7631 Před 8 měsíci +3

    GOD BLESS YOU...💖...

  • @carmencruz5290
    @carmencruz5290 Před 2 měsíci

    The recording is so true!

  • @coffeegirl6854
    @coffeegirl6854 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Dave. Off topic but i dig that headband 😊

  • @Shut-up-Shelly
    @Shut-up-Shelly Před 8 měsíci +9

    Great messages Dave it is true we need to go to the throne and ask for forgiveness and ask him to forgive our enemies and ask for deliverance from all evil. Cover yourself in the blood of Jesus every day and break all curses and chains of anything evil you have ever come across or touched! Oh and tell the devil to SHUT UP and GO TO THE PIT in Jesus Mighty Name!! Blessings to all survivors!! ❤

  • @user-sz3mb7tp6d
    @user-sz3mb7tp6d Před 8 měsíci +2

    🙏🙏🙏Yes I believe you and his time is UP, and they time is UP one by one here on earth in this presence World and I don't feel sorry for them 🙏🙏🙏 God and my angels always been by my side since day one ❤🙌🙏

  • @iamblessed9760
    @iamblessed9760 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Everybody's working for the weekend 😂
    Sorry the head band look reminds me of "Loverboy".
    Hope you're having a good weekend Dave ?

  • @lorabor8967
    @lorabor8967 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Interesting theory of Natalie wood and robert wagner being narcisstic and triangulation but at least Natalie saw a therapist for years. About what? We will never know.

  • @nicolelouiselucas3996
    @nicolelouiselucas3996 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I love your bandana you look so cool! 😎😍 and amazing video you speak a 100% truth 🙏🌟🙏

  • @tamerastone4732
    @tamerastone4732 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Very powerful ending!!!!

  • @Imnotyourdoormat
    @Imnotyourdoormat Před 8 měsíci +9

    3-Months...90-Days. Thats all they could last after being "Cod-Locked" in No-Contact. Then it was "Amazing Grace" being sung over my ex-fiance's casket. Stroked out dead at 32...

    • @janm9610
      @janm9610 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Gosh, I'm sorry....rough

    • @thenostalgicvegan9523
      @thenostalgicvegan9523 Před 8 měsíci +1

      What caused the death?

    • @LethalWeapon73
      @LethalWeapon73 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Dang

    • @Imnotyourdoormat
      @Imnotyourdoormat Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@thenostalgicvegan9523...stroke. A brain aneurysm. The Family still had me as Pallbearer tho, they knew I treated their loved 1 with honor and care the entire relationship...Dave would probably say I knew that about Charlotte years ago, he's pretty attentive to his people.

    • @thenostalgicvegan9523
      @thenostalgicvegan9523 Před 7 měsíci

      @charlottequillen732 What caused the death?