29 y.o man who’s father was never a father figure and virtually abandoned us in our 20s. I’m in tears. Stumbling upon your videos in like stumbling upon speeches from the father I never had. You’re explaining things I know intuitively to be right in ways I could never articulate to myself. Trent, thank you.
Awe sweet. That's wise on your part too. Life robs us of solid parenting, all too often, but to know enough to find it elsewhere and seek to make up for that lack, good for you.
@@redpillfreedom6692 He's at least able to think for himself. You're part of a pernicious idealogy, going by your username and using terms like simp for every person, even an honourable man. Trent is contributing what we need most in society. strong male figures, he has a family, he has children, which we need a lot more than toxic gurus spouting nihilism and bitterness.
I said it on a video regarding Andrew Tate and I'll say it here too. The first thing that comes to my mind everytime I hear these conversations is 2nd Timothy 3:5 " having a form of godliness but denying the power thereof". People rail on or against things that would be considered traditional religious values and want to cherry-pick what fits for them meanwhile denying the power of God and the validity of His word.
@@deusvult8340 There's no more Christian women on the west, by the most recent stats only about 5% of woman in the US will marry virgin or only having their future spouse as her first partner. So men are in no way obliged to conform to Christian traditions or pattern of behaviors, they don't have a counterpart in this mission anymore.
I remember following Pearl for a little while because I was like, finally, someone who recognizes women's responsibility! But then I realized she wasn't interested in inspiring us to be better, just putting women down constantly and excusing bad behavior in men.
@@Mashfan6507 It is not only that but also giving the message to the men that it is ok to give into their biological disposition and like the guy in this video said it is harming men, these kind of message where you normalize misbehavior by guys. It is bad for men or woman. I do not want certain subset of woman undermine all the men but at the same time I do not want the young male to take away the message that woman suck and stay away from them.
@@noorzanayasmin7806 I agree that men should control themselves, but young men should learn that women suck and they should avoid them. Women do nothing but ruin our lives, it makes zero sense to be with them.
For a Catholic, Pearl has some of the worst anti-Catholic takes and whether she knows it or not, she pushes young men towards Islam because it's more "based" and in line with her Red Pill buddies. Also Pearl is 26, owns her own business, and is unmarried with no children. So she falls well short of the standards she imposes on other women. At least walk the walk.
In response to your second paragraph, she has never counted herself out from the criticism she has for women. She believes she has been part of the problem
And yet she still works and surrounds herself with Red Pill guys who have no interest in promoting chastity or settling down. She just follows Andrew Tate's lead because she know she can make money off of it.@@theolite360
The fact that she's unmarried and 26 is a weak argument, IMO. It's REALLY hard to find a good husband. Like, really hard. I became Catholic at 26 (had a sinful life before that, too) and actively hunted for two years to find one, and I know just how blessed I am that I did. And I was able to do that with the aid of God AND the simple fact that my now-husband and I both knew precisely what we were looking for in a partner. It's gotta be so much harder for someone with such a flawed understanding of religion, etc. As far as I know, Davis gets that she's complicit in the current system and doesn't try to present any "rules for me and not for thee" attitude. I have plenty of criticisms of her, but that's not one of them.
I don't disagree that it's hard to find a good husband but by supporting the Red Pill sphere (at least implicitly if not explicitly) she's only contributing to the problem. As I said, the Red Pill guys have no interest in promoting chastity or marriage.@@stefanielozinski
@@stefanielozinskiif it’s hard to find a good husband she shouldn’t be telling women to get married since it’s hard. Pearl is a pick me who still hasn’t gotten picked because she’s ugly. She needs to pick and chose her struggles. U can’t be ugly and a pick me that never gets picked
@alainamolnar2199 I would agree for the most part. In some cases the popular view is so warped that holding reasonable views can be seen as “embarrassing”. For me, the idea of Church’s views “evolving” to fit the times is gross. In a significant way they’re kowtowing to ad hoc Enlightenment-era ideas of “rights” which were heavily informed by Christianity in the first place.
@@flatearthtrads3048 George Orwell once said something to the effect that if one were to oppose the modern understanding of cosmology, a large majority of people would ridicule that person, while not having the ability to competently explain why his ideas were ridiculous. I’m not a NASA fanboy, but still go by modern cosmological concepts as a placeholder.
It's been really heartening to see you engaging in the cultural landscape that we young people find ourselves facing every day in the online world. Keep up the great work as always!
Trent as always you're right on the money. I'm a Catholic woman, I love traditional values and gender roles, but I am tired of hearing this harmful rhetoric from people like Pearl. Thanks for addressing this!
We are losing the culture war because of weak men like Trent.. where is his videos about the harm of feminism? Attacking non Catholics for not being Catholic is essentially self sabotage.. Pearl is doing more in the culture war than most, but all high and mighty, weak men try to impose their beliefs on her..this is a self defeating strategy.. im Catholic because of the strength I see when I seen real Catholics, not this weak I'm better than you attitude..
@@uncle_Samssubjects Weak, or just logical and consistent to the Catholic faith. He actually believes what the church teaches. He also deals fairly, reasonably, and gives the benefit of doubt to others. You want simple ape like idiots who never listen to their opponents and never critique anyone remotely close to them. We need intelligent, nuanced, and adamant men not self centered idiots.
@@uncle_Samssubjectspearl is doing more harm than anything else in the culture war right now. Trent is right on this, the fact that you believe him to be weak for holding a higher standard than a woman who is so desperate for male attention that she is basically telling men what they want to hear, is very telling about your own weakness. She doesn't speak for all women, and she certainly doesn't speak for me.
@@uncle_SamssubjectsHow is Pearl helping? 😂 She’s a hypocrite. I don’t see her married and she has no children…All I see is a woman saying all the things her audience wants to hear getting money and attention from it. I suspect she would call any other woman doing the same a “thot” or an attention whore…
It’s crazy to me that our society is so far removed from Christian morality that people will defend marital infidelity and believe they have the moral high ground Edit: To be more specific, replace “marital infidelity” with “men who cheat.” Pearl may oppose infidelity, but the point I intended to make was in regard to her defense of men who are unfaithful in their relationships
Human society has always done a lot of mental gymnastics to defend sin. Look at the US from its founding until the 1860s with slavery. There is nothing new underneath the sun, I’m afraid.
Pearl does not defend infidelity in the slightest. She agrees that it's bad but says only that it's not necessarily the end of the marriage. Even God says this; look at Hosea. Pearl also regularly points out that she deals in probabilities, not possibilities. Which is to say that she talks about what happens in the overwhelming majority of cases, NOT -- say again, NOT -- the exceptions. To the point on fidelity, she says most women are overlooking at least 80% of men and the data from dating apps -- where most people are meeting these days -- sure seems to show this. This means that 80-90% of eligible women are chasing 10-20% of eligible men. This means this select group of men has many, many options. So sinful human nature generally and male sexual nature in particular being what they are, if you pick one of these guys, you may well get the exception. But chances are -- again Pearl's focus is not on the exceptions but the most likely scenario -- you've thrown your lot in with a man who will cheat. Pearl is VERY VERY MUCH in favor of keeping families together, and that includes through a crisis like infidelity. It is possible for a marriage to survive cheating and all efforts to keep it together should be made. If Hosea could go and redeem Gomer -- and Jesus could redeem his skanky bride -- it's the least a wife or husband can do. But under NO circumstances has Pearl EVER defended marital infidelity.
@@davidplummer2619 "Pearl does not defend infidelity in the slightest..." 3:17 "I feel that we should just let these men cheat in peace" What would you call this?
As a guy who is over 6 ft tall, I feel insulted that she assumes I am more likely to commit adultery and commit other acts of unfaithfulness than men who are shorter than me.
The data might show this to be "true" but her take is wrong. Women like taller men, taller men are more likely to be "successful" when it comes to cheating. I personally don't think this means that short men don't want to or don't try.
@@rumblebeast08I'm interested to look up the statistics on women liking taller men because for some reason that's not a physical trait I've ever been interested in. I'm also curious how they got the true data on infidelity in men according to height 🧐
When Lila Rose was on the whatever podcast, the Andrew tate-esque guy who was there was pretty much saying he should be able to do everything that pearl is mentioning without any ramifications. But rather than put him down for what he was saying, Lila harkened to his higher calling, that he was capable of commiting himself to one woman if he would exercise self control and discipline. That seems to be what Pearl is missing, the understanding that men are called to something greater by God, something beyond the biological calling.
Where is this proof that your sky daddy exists? If you want more men signing up to this so-called "higher calling", you need to give them incentive to do so.
That woman is a professional grifter. She's done her research and found her target audience: disenfranchised young men desperate for approval of women, but unwilling to bend the knee to the current trend of feminism. So she comes right in with the right product, herself, the cute and kinda hot "girl next door" that totally gets said group of men and encourages to accept who they are just as they are. Is the "ya go gurl" for frustrated men.
I see the word “grifter” thrown around way too much these days but I do believe she is one if I’ve ever seen it. And it bothers me because she is actively making society worse through her content and getting rich from it. Imagine how much good she could actually be doing if she had a balanced take. All she does is make hurt men hate women. The exact same way feminists hate men.
Me: I am praying and hoping to have the patience Trent has in dealing with people he disagrees with. Pearly fan: You are a horrible person Fan 2: (Pearly’s) Truth hurts! Folks, DO NOT get your philosophy from a grifter like Pearly!😅
@@extract8058 Right, the message is the message and its true men are behind 8 ball as far as marriage - divorces law's go - ( and i have news for you catholics are not immune to divorce) the largest growing sector are women/ wives divorcing their husbands after 20 -25 yr marriage - kids are out of the house - it's me time. Like Pearl said "Don't believe me go to family law court ( divorce) for week or a couple days".
The results of feminism have been profoundly destructive; however, Pearl is irrationally over-correcting in her response to it because she maintains weak moral standards. She wants women to be more sympathetic to men's struggles, but in doing so she justifies too many dysfunctional behaviors of men.
A major issue is that feminism has been gutted from so much of its original intent (which was political, economic, and social equality between the sexes). Feminism today has been hijacked by the same things that have taken over other institutions (leftism, corporatism, transgenderism, etc)
I don't she justifies bad behavior by men, she doesn't really say much about it one way or the other. I would prefer that she would point out how silly it is for men to complain about body counts when most of these same men never refuse an opportunity to help drive those counts up. However, she sees herself as an advocate for men and looks at the last 50 years of daytime television and then media and culture generally getting more and more Jezebelish and misandristic and so her focus is to be a counterweight to all that, which means she is not going to spend much time on bad male behaviors and attitudes because we've had many decades of that, real and imagined. The bottom line is she makes good points about how destructive feminism modern woman groupthink (really groupfeel) not only is but for the most part always was, and she does it in a unique disarming way -- with a smile and without having to yell or be rancorous. We ignore these points at our peril.
Pearl is like "I need to make my weak male feel like he has a slave and then trash other women so he doesn't ever leave cause who else will put up with his cheating" 🤡🤮
@@Ajas0810Concerning men: wealth, occupation, looks/physique, disagreeability, a willingness to say no. Concerning women: looks, youth, agreeability, maybe housewifeliness. None of these are superficial features to consider.
@@lordfarquaad8601 much of the time when somebody refers to a “high value” person they refer to money and looks and from what I can gather this is what pearl is doing.
Ya this is basically the catholic perspective on the issue. Despite the lies against the church, the catholic church is hands down the most reasonable and morally sound institution to ever exist. That's because it belongs to Jesus and its his church.
I do way more of the infant care and housework. But I think it's crazy that there are fathers who don't ever do things like changing diapers or putting the baby down for naps. Those are crucial day to day bonding things. A dad who cares for his infant is a dad who is forming a strong bond with his baby from the start. A good godly man should be forming a strong connection with his children, and sometimes that means doing a few boring or gross tasks that mom usually does. I do way more of the baby tasks, but my husband does know how to do most of the things I do and can step in when needed or when he just wants to spend more time with our daughter.
My husband never changed, fed, or bathed either of our sons. He also has never done the laundry or dishes. Why? Because he works hard all day. We have a strict division of labour. I have never worked outside of our house, and he has never worked in it. I realise that many people cannot afford to do this, but it worked well for us. He never felt as though Mummy was forcing chores upon him, and I was able to actually raise my children.
@Charlotte_Martel I get someone who works outside the house not doing housework if that's what works for them. I do most of the housework. But I still think it's unfortunate how many men miss out on everyday opportunities to care for their children and bond with them through that care for them.
@@owlintrenchcoat Please don't mistake me; my husband is an excellent father. He bonded with our boys the way most fathers do: through sport, hikes, reading, and play. He just never did any of the muck work because he faced enough stress at the office.
All of those things - diapers, naps etc - are the norm in my family. Without the influence of any religion. One does not have to believe in any "god" to behave like a good person and parent. It should come naturally. Animals know how to look after their offspring without reading books about it, or getting inspiration from a "god."
My problem with Pearl, Brian of Whatever, F&F, etc... is nothing they say leads to the inspiration to be a better man. They are just the inverse of the modern feminists. The end result is 2 sets of single people blaming each other as to why he or she is single and unhappy.
@@scroogemcduckismyspiritanimal They may be interested in relationships, but it seems like an increasing number have unwittingly priced themselves out of the market.
@@johnnotrealname8168No, now with the manosphere there is an increase in men who don’t want to get in a relationship. They watch these podcasts that say there are few or no good women, they will divorce you and take your kids etc. Many of these podcasts are portraying the false notion that marriage has no benifits to men, it can even be harmful. And the men falsely believe it.
I never saw the appeal of Pearl. If I wanted to learn how to be more of a "man" or more "manly", why would I go to a woman? Plus her takes on religion are... something. I'm not even sure what to say to those. Thanks for doing this Trent.
I don’t necessarily think that’s true. I think a virtuous woman will have a good understanding of what a man ought to be. Pearl definitely isn’t that, mind you, so I agree that her opinion is garbage.
Thank you for addressing this topic Trent. It seems to me that these "red pill" personalities push a false image of strong masculinity. It's an excuse to be weak, rather than encouragement to pursue virtue. Sadly, it's a message that is appealing to insecure young men, or men who resent women because of negative experiences they've had.
As opposed to signing a bad state contract that takes away all power and authority you have over everything in your life. That's totally masculine right there.
@@simeonwaiaIt’s been turned into a state contract. How are you supposed to marry someone if almost everyone is unvirtuous and unrepentant? Almost every Christian I meet has turned to Christ because their lives sucked, not because they had a genuine thirst for God. They pathologize their sin “dad didn’t love me enough” “I was bullied” “I was an alcoholic” to remove culpability. It wasn’t like this, it couldn’t of been like this, either wise no one would have gotten married.
@@aidanmurray7319 For a Christian, a marriage is a covenant between 3 parties, God, a man and a woman. The "state contract" thing is a secular idea. As for why people become Christians, I'll quote St. Augustine: "Lord, you have made us for Yourself, and our hearts are restless until they find rest in you".
Yes. And these red pill groups do not hold men accountable for their own poor mate selection process. A lot of men have rejected good women to pursue women that aren't good for them. Look at what happened to Johnny Depp. He left a stable, loving woman to be with Amber Heard. Thinking he was getting the upgrade. And then when that blew up we were all supposed to feel sorry for him. If he had stayed with the previous woman none of that would have happened. No accountability.
Naturally, anyone who has a family of their own has to come to the realization at some point that some things in life are worth preserving and protecting. Which in and of itself isn’t a reason to vote red but it’s enough to make you question the long term sustainability of voting for the blue side. At least that’s what it did for me.
As a Cathoilic I can say that IF Pearl is "Catholic" it is in name and not in practice. Jesus told us we will know them by their fruits and any "Catholic" that tries to tell me adultery and chemical contraception is acceptable is utterly mistaken or gravely culpable.
@@dewilew2137how can a Christian think it’s reasonable to murder a child of God in the womb? That doesn’t even make sense. A Christian would believe that the child was sent by God.
I'm actually impressed that men are calling out this toxic "anti-feminism" garbage. These people who support that don't realize that they're acting like the same people they oppose. It's embarrassing and laughable to say the least.
St. Thomas Aquinas’ treatment of Muhammad and Islam cuts right to the heart of the redpill community’s fascination with Islam: "He (Mohammed) seduced the people by promises of carnal pleasure to which the concupiscence of the flesh urges us. His teaching also contained precepts that were in conformity with his promises, and he gave free rein to carnal pleasure. In all this, as is not unexpected; he was obeyed by carnal men. As for proofs of the truth of his doctrine, he brought forward only such as could be grasped by the natural ability of anyone with a very modest wisdom. Indeed, the truths that he taught he mingled with many fables and with doctrines of the greatest falsity.” To me, this should be the critique of the manosphere. Not that they're "too anti-modern", but in fact they're _too_ modern, by forgoing the spiritual.
This whole war against men, women and family reminds me of the message of Fatima. I sense a huge push of Izlamic idea within Christian society, especially in 🇺🇸 and 🇬🇧, i feel that a new kind of religion is coming, that is..after being struck by communism, we are now facing Izlamism, but she will crush satan's ugly head 🦶🐲 anyway so no worries 🤗 St Joseph also has an interesting personality, the way that he did not question the special status of the Blessed mother Mary, their marriage, gender roles etc 👍. St. Joseph terror of demons pray for us ❤🔥🙏😇✝️👨👩👧👦🕊🌎 Best quote from St. Joseph; "......................... " 😊🙏
@@paccawacca4069 The comparison between red pill and Islam is not simply the pursuit of sexual pleasure. It's the pursuit of material wealth overall, sexuality being a focal point but not the entirety of the worldview. The comparison would be "Islam tells you that if you act in accordance to it, you will obtain gains that satisfy the flesh". It's the same spirit that animates 21st century Red Pill community.
Trent, I am just coming back to being a practicing Catholic over this summer '23 . I was born a Catholic but that is about it. I do remember I loved being an altar server. Long story short, you are one of my favorite Catholic content creators. Keep up the great work, and thank you for doing what you do, I have learned so much.
@@damianperez7736 Literally never, though? Like, if the wife is bed-ridden with the flu or a broken leg, she should still do all the cooking and cleaning?
Long term, the wife doing all the domestic work, despite what men perceive as menial, will wear a woman down physically plus the emotional stress she carries on behalf her family, that emotional stress will affect her physically as well. Men are to love their wives as Christ loves the church, so what do Catholic men think that means? When you, the church cannot carry your burden, Christ bears not only His own cross, but yours as well. As men, you know you have more strength and stamina than women, it is physical abuse to relay all domestic work on her. If you want to love your wife like Christ, be Christ-like, the hunk of the burden falls on the husbands to help his wife carry her cross, do not flog her while shes carrying the cross, insulting her with gender role rhetorics @damianperez7736. Listen to Fr. Dave Nix on women submission. Men demand submission, but they don't know how to love their wives as Christ loves the church
This woman basically took all the mainstream redpill talking points and monetized it as a good looking woman fighting for men. Your basic grifter on the internet.
The men sign up for the draft argument really only makes sense during the 60s-70s. All the wars in the last 30 years did not initiate the draft even when they probably should have.
@@PhillipCummingsUSA Registration of the draft is still a thing and on the books, it is only because it is so politically untenable that it has not been initiated. For example in 1979 or 1980, James Earl Carter Jr. re-introduced registration despite his you know pardons. That may be why the liberals fled his camp. This is a naïve position (The only reason a draft has not been used is either high-readiness or poor will.).
Yup, really don't like when people run around doing this. I'm a protestant and dislike when other protestants make the same sort of statement the above poster did about Catholics. We're both Christians.
My father in law is a retired Independent Baptist preacher who affirms a conservative view of gender roles. My mother in law is a cancer survivor with rheumatoid arthritis. My father in law does almost all of household chores. I'm so grateful for him, my husband, and the many other gentle, gracious, and godly men in my sons' lives.
Literally the plot of the Hunger Games finale "the only solution to past discrimination is present discrimination." Even movies in our culture point to how this is wrong.
Thank you! I saw some of her stuff and was disgusted when I heard her condoning adultery. Adultery is abuse. Even though you can’t see bruises, the devastation and pain is there. We wouldn’t tell a domestic violence victim to put up with abuse because the poor man can’t control himself.
Similar story here. When she started talking about how, if a wife gains too much weight after marriage, and you can't really blame the man for trying to have sex with other women. I had to actually listen to her take a second time to see if that was really her point... And it was.
@@adamrad2220 she’s just pointing out what every married woman does when her husband gains weight though. Like you’re only offended by it because she’s saying it about men, not because it’s adultery
@@Mashfan6507 nah, they don’t. Speaking as a man who has been married for years and has definitely gained weight over that time. Your physical attractiveness is not the driving force behind infidelity, unless you married the most shallow and vacuous person in history. What can cause infidelity is a breakdown in your ability to emotionally connect with each other. That’s what leads to distance in the relationship. Marriage in reality is very different than the stereotypes and ideals that you’ve been fed from the internet and from bitter single grifters who think they’re somehow in a position to speak in authority on marriage despite having never experienced it.
@@harrygarris6921 be careful, man, be really careful. Don’t trust anything she says if you’ve gained weight because she’s gonna cheat sooner or later. Well, all women under the age of 60 or so is shallow and vacuous. Ok, well how about married people that tell me not to get married and all the horror stories I hear from married men? Do they have no authority? Marriage is one of the worst mistakes a man can make and I can’t understand why any man would do it in this day and age when you could be happy instead.
Gee, Trent… you are describing my Dad to a T. He was that workhorse both at work and at home. He was a humble Christian man who loved his wife and children.
I wasn’t familiar with her work so thank you for this. It’s sad that we as a society have placed men and women in conflict like this when there should be harmony in our complementary natures as God designed. Hopefully we get back to that!
@@juliannacodde8633 women that didn't pass feminist laws kept a decisive silence because they thought it wouldn't affect them. They liked the money from work, the freedom to be dirty, the contraceptives against church teaching. Women as a whole supported feminism.
Yes I agree, and there are clues for true and right worhsip. John 6. Luke 24: 13-15, 1 Corinthians 11: 23-32, Rev 2:16,17, Rev 4, 5, 7, 10, and just about the whole book of Rev ... the Mass as given by the Apostles to the deciples and on down through history. Read the Church fathers and how they worshipped.
@clay8546 yes this is true. If you know that the Church is the Church Jesus left and you deny it, then this is apostasy and the consequence of that is rejection of God and Jesus which is a loss of salvation. But can you regain salvation of course through contrition and repentance. Nothing crazy about this. We cant sya YOU ARE GOING TO HELL because catholics dont have the authority to place someone in hell, but we can warn you are placing yourself in danger of going to hell.
Nailed it Trent! Always wondered why not all of what Pearl said didn't sound right. The "tyranny of low standards" argument is super convincing. Two sides of the same coin (toxic feminism vs. toxic anti-feminism).
Tradcons silence on divorce and custody laws are exactly what leads men to Red Pill in the first place. There isn't a single talking point from people like Trent that we haven't already heard a million times and rebutted.
@@redpillfreedom6692 It doesn't work to fix problems by taking drastic steps. Furthermore, a large portion of the content in red pills is biased and frequently inaccurate; it only appears true because the issues it raises are real, despite the fact that the solutions it provides are inadequate. Personally, I would like hearing a Christian man who has a standard for morality and values address these topics.
18:15 can't remember who said it but "the issue with the war of the sexes is there is simply too much fraternizing with the enemy." is a great and applicable quote here. Regarding women suffrage, I'm generally skeptical of suffrage/democracy in general (let alone women's suffrage, men's suffrage, etc;). I simply haven't seen any evidence that the general population has any political authority worth considering.
*BASED AND REDPILLED!* The suffrage issue is simply, no-one, it is mostly useless and ineffective. A better suffrage system is heads of households, usually men but women if they are widows, although in today's age that would benefit the left.
I'm glad someone wrote this with respect to Pearl's stance on female sufferage. It's true that everything went downhill with women voting, as they tend to lean towards socialism, favouring security over justice and personal responsability. My response to this is that I don't think ANYONE should be voting for a country's political leaders. Democracy is a system that undermines long term thinking and fosters all sorts of vices.
@@christopherfleming7505 I am leaning more and more in that direction. It seems like democracy inevitably leads to extreme individualism, which results in a rejection of good tradition and authority in favor of whatever ideas are popular at the moment. At the very least I think only allowing families to vote as a unit would be a great improvement.
My main issue with women’s suffrage is that the movement was spearheaded by a few key women and the MAJORITY of other women didn’t want it. Those women were content with the family unit and were (rightfully) worried getting all those rights at once without some type of block or tradeoff would make things bad for everyone. The Suffragettes didn’t listen to those women, and thus the vote was extended to pretty much everyone. Personally, I agree with the Founders’ idea that land owning individuals or those with property stakes should be the majority of voters, with maybe a few key exceptions. At least something that ties people into the policies they vote for rather than people voting for just their own self interests and not thinking long term about their choices.
@@LykaLo he basically said the same line that loser Hillary said about “women being the real victims of war” when men are the ones fighting it. It just goes to show that society never respects anything men do. And it’s sad that Trent doesn’t even respect himself. I’m sure he’s afraid of gaining weight too cuz he knows his wife will leave him if he does.
@@gunsgalore7571 well, I’m not exactly a manly man either. Idk how to shoot or hunt and I’m not handy. Also I can’t afford to move anywhere, I’m stuck in the science denying, bigoted northeast full of left wing demokkkrats. I wish I could move to a state like Texas where people believe in science and actually care about people who work for their money, unlike up here
The challenge with her and other grifters is that they often possess nuggets of truth, which are taken to absurdity. No one who believes in the sanctity of marriage and faithfulness would ever characterize a man’s adultery as a ‘hand shake.’ Not the children and women who have been victimized by it. Not even by the men who deeply regret that ‘hand shake’ which has cost them their families and the trust of their own children. It’s not a victimless crime. Obviously, she knows this. Had she pointed out the differences in motives between both sexes cheating, she might have been on to something. She is also completely off in assuming women in general have some deep-seeded instinct to be with men over 6 feet. Lots of us are a bit under that height or other conventional markers of male attractiveness and it hasn’t presented any serious obstacles in finding the women we wish to marry. As a happily married man, I can assure you that it’s condescending and poisonous for a woman to plant seeds of doubt in men’s heads like this. (This gal says women are actually attracted to confidence, and cheating is confidence, etc.) when in reality, you should trust the tastes of your wife when stated to you. There’s more danger in the poison that is mixed with truth than pure poison.
Thanks for this! I'm a mom of 4 boys who holds them to a high moral standard. I want them to be real men, that is, saints. Now I am chronically ill to the point I am unable to do any housework. Thank God that my husband and sons are picking up the slack. I think it's a great experience for the boys to learn how to be servants. My husband is one of those older dads you talked about, who is constantly serving the family. He didn't change a lot of diapers, but when I needed help, he was always there.
Most of the "redpill" nonsense is role-playing online. I doubt they're like that in real life. So many have been found to be phonies. May God Bless you and your family, Connie
She may have insight that saves ur sons from the preponderance of how a plethora of women operate. I suppose ur not advocating fo equal rights between men and women such as women being required to register for the drafr?
You're absolutely correct about Pearl and some others in the "anti-feminist" space. But Feminism is embraced by far, far more people both inside and outside of the church. It does way more damage to the church and the world. Not saying that means it's bad to address the "anti-feminist" side, just that it would be nice to see some videos addressing the feminist side as well.
The feminism mentioned is not really feminism. It's Marxism pitting sex against sex. Maddie Brinkerhoff, Alice Paul, Susan B Anthony had a more perfect vision of authentic feminity. Yet the Church and her Holy Daughters, and her Mother. . .whose birthday is today. . .show us an even more perfect picture to be women. In turn, these women then encourage us to be more perfect men. And we then can encourage ourselves to be perfect as our Heavenly Father.
Great video as usual! I know I keep asking this but I really really hope you do a video on Nick Fuentes. He is really warping the minds of young men to believe in a completely warped Catholicism. He is buddies with Pearl as well and endorses most of these views of hers He recently reposted a fan of his who acts as a guide for many of the young fans: “It is simply a fact that if most Catholics were presented with quotes about Judaism, women, race, and sexuality from Saints, Church Fathers, Doctors of the Church and Nick Fuentes, 99.9% of them wouldn’t be able to pick out all of the Nick quotes with reliable consistency” He tells teen boys and young men that Catholicism is fully compatible with blaming Jews and blacks for our problems, “race realism”, supporting segregation, supporting a “holy war” against Jews, that marital rape is allowed, that older men should pursue girls younger than 18, and a lot more truly terrible things.
I love your point about not keeping score over who does what I’m the house. That is only going to breed arguments and bitterness. In the vocation of marriage, we both need to mutually give of our selves without thought of what is “fair.”
It’s too bad women don’t see it that way. Men are the only ones that keep marriages together because they’re the victims. Women get all the benefits and men get none.
Pearl needs to see this response by Trent. My first instinct was to be angry at her but then I realized that somebody who has such terribly degrading opinions when it comes to her own gender must be badly broken deep inside. Please, get this to her, somehow. And let’s pray for her.
I was born in 1960, when women's role in society was very traditional. My dad enjoyed taking care of me and my brother. He changed diapers, fed us, played with us and put us to bed. To this day, he still helps my mom in the kitchen. He load the dishwasher, dries dishes and takes out the trash. It seems to me that if a partner in a marriage sees something that needs to be done, they should just do it. There isn't "women's work" and "men's work."
@@Mashfan6507imagine if the roles were reversed and women said that about modern men. People like you would be sending rape and death threats but no, it's okay if you do it. I suggest you actually look into biblical masculinity and not get these takes from these manosphere cultists.
"traditional". You mean to say that women had a modicum of morals, deceny, and reciprocation. Women were able to work throughout the 20th century. No one forced women to do anything. Women need to stop b!tching.
As an Orthodox Christian, this is refreshing to see. Just like the left/right dichotomy, the pendulum always swings too far in the opposite direction in the culture wars. The red-pill "manosphere" stuff is often just as ungodly and anti-Christian as feminism. I will say, I do think universal suffrage was a mistake. I'm a monarchist at heart, but in a republic or a democracy, the vote should be restricted to one vote per family.
She is a grifter who found a lane to make money from by being an edge lord. Kind of like Candace Owens "on steroids". It's not necessary, in my opinion, to look into her any deeper than that.
@@greengandalf9116 If women REALLY desire equal rights, then they shouldn't be too surprised when they're complemented with equal lefts. Just sayin'. Sometimes staying in one's lane and appreciating what they have is the better part of gratitude and valor.
Absolutely. I am seeing the same happen in the whole “racism” debate. Many who are tired of anti-white sentiment in media are over-correcting with outright hatred of nonwhites.
I died when you said traditional men would tell her to be quiet. hahaha! Humor aside, very well done Trent! I always appreciate your eloquence and well formed arguments. :)
I wouldn't call her "in the red pill space"... Red pill is "you wake up in reality"... blue pill is "you go back to fantasy land". She's in a different "fantasy land" but still a fantasy land. it's blue pill of a different shade.
Red pill is here to stay, especially as long as Christians remain silent on divorce and child custody laws. Because otherwise men have no where else to go.
8:23 Megha, who has other hits such as "if a man cries at his wedding, he's homosexual" or "if a man goes to therapy, he's homosexual" In a way these women are like the SJWs of years past.
@@gxhcbchchvfhbxsddvp96trgI think frequent confession would rightfully put the therapy-industrial complex out of business (or, at minimum, a significant decrease to the bottom line which is deserved) Reading Fulton Sheen's "Peace of Soul" right now where this is a central theme.
@@newglof9558 they could adapt to take a constructive place where the priest shouldn't be, like details on child development or new data on intimate marriage life. When I see psychologists using Mindfulness or psychiatrists numbing people with drugs, I imagine it could work if they included the unavoidable truth of Jesus and the soul.
Pearl is just a troll that puts out outrage bait. It’s all about clicks. Otherwise, she would have serious people like Lila Rose on her show. But she’s not serious at all
“ When we speak of complementarity between man and woman in this context, let us not confuse that term with the simplistic idea that all the roles and relations of the two sexes are fixed in a single, static pattern. Complementarity will take many forms as each man and woman brings his or her distinctive contributions to their marriage and to the formation of their children -- his or her personal richness, personal charisma.” - Pope Francis, opening address to a Colloquium on the “Complementarity of Man and Woman in Marriage” put together by the CDF in 2014.
@@r.m5883 yeah, that’s the only thing I disagree with her on. However women are far more promiscuous than men and never get called out on it. Women cheat because they’re shallow, men cheat because they’re at the end of their rope and women always withhold sex in marriage. Not saying cheating is good for either sex, but women def withhold sex in marriage as a means of control.
@@Mashfan6507 just explained how in my original comment. She hold men to such a low standard, that of children. She doesn't think they can control themselves and be mature adults.
@@reverendcoffinsotherson5807 I see. While I do agree that’s a way to interpret it, I think she’s also seeing the subtext of the fact it takes a LOT for a man to cheat while a woman will cheat at the drop of a hat.
I would never expect something from my wife that I would not be willing to do myself. As Trent said there are task that men or women maybe better equipped for however better equipped does not mean solely responsible. Both men and women should always strive to make their partners life easier however they can. It is this reasonable distribution of tasks and mutual assistance in those tasks that makes a happy and healthy relationship.
I speak for myself only when I say this, but I think one of the biggest qualities inside masculinity is a dedication to principles and a spirit of rising up and sacrificing to meet challenges/goals. Red pillers never encourage men to be principled unless it makes them money or get them laid, or serve them personally on some level, so Ill never believe they have mens interests at heart when they give their uneducated advice. When Pearl and Fresh and Fit and all those clowns start telling men that whining about women manipulating men is just taking the same road, then maybe Ill give them a nod, but something tells me thatll never happen.
Roman Catechism of the Council of Trent The Duties of Married People The more easily to preserve the holy state (of marriage) from dissensions, the duties of husband and wife as inculcated by St. Paul and by the Prince of the Apostles must be explained. Duties Of A Husband It is the duty of the husband to treat his wife generously and honourably. It should not be forgotten that Eve was called by Adam his companion. The woman, he says, whom thou gavest me as a companion. Hence it was, according to the opinion of some of the holy Fathers, that she was formed not from the feet but from the side of man; as, on the other hand, she was not formed from his head, in order to give her to understand that it was not hers to command but to obey her husband. The husband should also be constantly occupied in some honest pursuit with a view to provide necessaries for the support of his family and to avoid idleness, the root of almost every vice. He is also to keep all his family in order, to correct their morals, and see that they faithfully discharge their duties. Duties Of A Wife On the other hand, the duties of a wife are thus summed up by the Prince of the Apostles: Let wives be subject to their husbands. that if any believe not the word, they may be won without the word by the conversation of the wives, considering your chaste conversation with fear. Let not their adorning be the outward plaiting of the hair, or the wearing of gold, or the putting on of apparel: but the hidden man of the heart in the incorruptibility of a quiet and meek spirit, which is rich in the sight of God. For after this manner heretofore the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him Lord. To train their children in the practice of virtue and to pay particular attention to their domestic concerns should also be especial objects of their attention. The wife should love to remain at home, unless compelled by necessity to go out; and she should never presume to leave home without her husband's consent. Again, and in this the conjugal union chiefly consists, let wives never forget that next to God they are to love their husbands, to esteem them above all others, yielding to them in all things not inconsistent with Christian piety, a willing and ready obedience. Ben Sira 26:1-3,16-19,24 [1]HAPPY is the husband of a good wife: for the number of his years is double. [2]A virtuous woman rejoiceth her husband: and shall fulfil the years of his life in peace. [3]A good wife is a good portion, she shall be given in the portion of them that fear God, to a man for his good deeds. [16]The grace of a diligent woman shall delight her husband, and shall fat his bones. [17]Her discipline is the gift of God. [18]Such is a wise and silent woman, and there is nothing so much worth as a well instructed soul. [19]A holy and shamefaced woman is grace upon grace. [24]As everlasting foundations upon a solid rock, so the commandments of God In the heart of a holy woman. 1 Timothy 2:9-14 [9]In like manner, women also in decent apparel: adorning themselves with modesty and sobriety, not with plaited hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly attire: [10]But, as it becometh women professing godliness, with good works. [11]Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. [12]But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to use authority over the man: but to be in silence. [13]Adam was first formed; then Eve. [14]And Adam was not seduced; but the woman, being seduced, was in the transgression. 1 Timothy 3:4-5,11 [4]One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all chastity. [5]But if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God? [11]The women in like manner: chaste, not slanderers, but sober, faithful in all things. 1 Corinthians 11:3,7-9 [3]But I would have you know that the head of every man is Christ: and the head of the woman is the man: and the head of Christ is God. [7]The man indeed ought not to cover his head: because he is the image and glory of God. But the woman is the glory of the man. [8]For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man. [9]For the man was not created for the woman: but the woman for the man. Titus 2:3-5,9 [3]The aged women, in like manner, in holy attire, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teaching well: [4]That they may teach the young women to be wise, to love their husbands, to love their children. [5]To be discreet, chaste, sober, having a care of the house, gentle, obedient to their husbands: that the word of God be not blasphemed. [9]Exhort servants to be obedient to their masters: in all things pleasing, not gainsaying: 1 Peter 3:1-7 [1]In like manner also, let wives be subject to their husbands: that, if any believe not the word, they may be won without the word, by the conversation of the wives, [2]Considering your chaste conversation with fear. [3]Whose adorning, let it not be the outward plaiting of the hair, or the wearing of gold, or the putting on of apparel: [4]But the hidden man of the heart, in the incorruptibility of a quiet and a meek spirit which is rich in the sight of God. [5]For after this manner heretofore, the holy women also who trusted in God adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands: [6]As Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters you are, doing well and not fearing any disturbance. [7]Ye husbands, likewise dwelling with them according to knowledge, giving honour to the female as to the weaker vessel and as to the co-heirs of the grace of life: that your prayers be not hindered. Ephesians 5:22-24,33 [22]Let women be subject to their husbands, as to the Lord: [23]Because the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church. He is the saviour of his body. [24]Therefore as the church is subject to Christ: so also let the wives be to their husbands in all things. [33]Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular love for his wife as himself: And let the wife fear her husband. Colossians 3:18-21 [18]Wives, be subject to your husbands, as it behoveth in the Lord. [19]Husbands, love your wives and be not bitter towards them. [20]Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing to the Lord. [21]Fathers, provoke not your children to indignation, lest they be discouraged.
Trent, with all due respect, if you think “it shouldn’t be that hard for her to find a traditional guy to marry” you are simply living in an alternate universe. Traditional Catholics finding someone compatible in modern American society is nothing short of a miracle. Do not discount how blessed you are.
I go to a Catholic Church full of couples who did it the traditional way, from Boomers to Gen-Zers. At the end of Mass, we ask about any “milestones,” and every week you get, “We are celebrating 35 years of marriage,” “We are celebrating 5 years of marriage,” and some college couple that says, “We just got engaged!” In fact, the friend group I had from HS, there isn’t a single divorce. And about 1/2 of us had parents that divorced when we were kids. You can find traditional guys and girls if you look for potential spouses in the same places previous generations did, through family connections, religious organizations, and church.
AMEN!!! When it comes to this at least Trent is a blue pill simp. He's a male feminist/beta provider. See my above comment. He has no idea what he's saying. I agree that that many red pill creators encourage sin, but that does not mean they're wrong about the inherent differences between male and female nature.
I’m glad you made this video trent. I feel like there’s a somewhat strong tendency for Christian personalities to jump onboard with this kind of internet crowd, and it was good to see you push back against it in your usual gracious way
Spouses do and assist each other in the housework because they love one another. I feel pity for someone who sees domestic life as this exchange of commodities.
I hold men to a high standard! Thank you Trent for getting into this. Men are supposed to be leaders then they need to lead in morality and self control as well!
@@WilT2594 not really. Marriage is for children and the spouses have legitimate interests from each other. If you want to give alms, your point applies. For marriage is not only non Christian but irrational. Same as loving a work mate or associate.
@@abramwarpness6053 the main reason we associate to work is to sustain ourselves and our loved ones. We can still be good to work mates but if you take out the interest we won't associate. Same for marriage. We marry to make life bearable, have children and hopefully make the world better and expect to get the favor back if we're sick and old. Take out physical attraction, children and intimacy and marriage does not occur. Children play separately for a good reason. We find more in common with the same sex except for companionship and children.
I’m tired of todays culture seeing men who can sleep around as masculine and a man who is chaste or loyal as not. My father was never in my life, and he had other children with 2 other women. I’ve meet and been in contact with my half siblings and he wasn’t in their lives either. I never thought to myself “I want to be like him when I’m older.”
As a Catholic woman I’ve always grappled with my place in society and felt that I was being pulled in every direction by both religious and secular forces questioning my dignity, where my worth lies, if I even have any, and feeling the silent rage of having to accept inferiority. Hearing Catholic men like Trent Horn and Michael Knowles push back against some one like Pearl and her ideas has helped heal something in me that is so deeply rooted and damaging and detrimental to my self image. Never in a million years did I imagine men, much less Catholic men, being such a voice of reason and a truly masculine source of protection in how they’ve stood up for women in these conversations. Aside from Pearl’s nonsense, this is all so refreshing.
Catholic men more likely to have more sense of reason and true masculinity than their Protestant brothers. I was a Prot before so I see the difference. Prot men are the toxic anti feminism who fall prey to RedPill content. Catholic men not only have high regards and venerance towards the Blessed Mother, but they also highly venerate female saints such as St. Joan, St. Catherine of Siena, St. Catherine of Alexandria... so with that said, they have higher regards for women than secular and other religious men. There are some Catholic men who swallow up the RedPill, but these are the weak Catholics who tend to fall away from the faith and become Protestant, or they may have just converted to Catholicism and still shaking off the old Prot mindset of women being inferior.
I’m SO glad you made this video.. I found her vids a while ago, and I couldn’t help but feel convicted that what she was doing on the opposite end of the spectrum was equally wrong/damaging. She promotes a certain coldness that isn’t Christ-like.. she doesn’t promote unity among women and men, she promotes the endless cycle of pointing fingers and ascribing responsibility. I think her videos are a result of deeeep frustration with modern cultural problems, that are very real. But I think her response to those issues is not a Christian, hope-filled response that strives for compassion and understanding and reconciliation. it’s a really sad response. The response of a harsh, hopeless person who has been jaded by the world.. This doesn’t promote love. If you watch her videos, I encourage you to listen for the voice of the Holy Spirit.. one of wisdom and peace. If it’s not there, stop listening.
I'm catholic and a feminist, when i say feminist, I mean traditional feminism, I don't support whatever modern nonsense is being preached. I believe women should have the choice to do what they want in their lives as long as they aren't going against God's plan for us. Proverbs 31 which a lot of men like to quote saying, We want a proverbs 31 woman well that woman also worked. so it is God's plan for woman to work but naturally if they have kids they have to be their first priority. I would say read the Bible in its entirety to understand God's plan for all of us. It would make everyone's lives much more simpler and peaceful.
I honestly think Pearl is just trolling us, the more stupid things she says the more views she gets. She hast to be doing it just for the money and views and it seems to be working pretty well for her. This is the only logical reason I can think of why she says stuff like that.
Yeah I think you may be right about that. I noticed when she first became popular she was definitely anti -feminism but she didn't seem quite so crazy. Now, she constantly refers to women as being worthless fat w****s and other outrageous claims. I think she's trying to stay relevant. She's also the opposite of what she claims women should be. She's single, she spends all of her time on social media, runs her own business, she isn't a virgin, etc. What right does she have to make claims about how women should be when she is none of the things she claims a woman should be? I certainly wouldnt take advice from Caitlyn Jenner on how to be a good man, so why take advice from Pearl on how to be a good woman?
That's very simple and dismissive. You can troll while also having these believes. I don't agree with Pearl on everything, but same as stoicism and redpill blah blah, they get some things right in regards to diagnostics, but the prescriptions are wrong a lot of the time and no different than perpetuating hedonism. Yes, her theology is... bad. No different than lots of Catholics but she needs to be guided back. The fact that she recently started to say she is Catholic is a step forward, since previously the past few years she was iffy on it and had no idea on even the difference between Catholics and Prots or I think she was possibly even atheist. But fortunately she has been talking with Rachel, her husband Andrew and Timothy Gordon, there was a show she did with all of them on talking about the history of feminism while also calling out the deficiency of "redpillers". Hey, there are men and women that are looking for structure, even to the point of husband and wife having specific tasks in the household. If the guys wants to be the sole bread winner and the wife wants to cook and get him food at outings etc, that's not wrong either. IF it works for them, that's good. Way better and healthier and more Christian like than the current state of things.
@alfredocornelio4329 I agree with much of what you wrote above. I personally think that Pearl is a net negative because she makes those who genuinely disagree with feminism look like lunatics with some of her statements. That is why so many have asked Pearl to have on a woman like Lila Rose, Allie Beth Stuckey, or Lauren Chen on her show. Someone who is thoughtful and NOT bombastic for its sake. But she refuses to do that because that's not the goal of her show. As for Rachel Wilson, I agree with you. I will not criticize her and her husband's marital roles as they define them if it works for them.
Where's the call to CHASTITY? If you're not (heterosexually) married to your "significant other," it's NOT CHEATING. You are committing the MORTAL SIN of either fornication or adultery. True marriage, between ONE Man and ONE wife is the only place where sex is to occur in God's Kingdom.
I encourage young men and women to ignore this woman. Garbage In Garbage Out. All men and women are children of God and are equally capable of moral and physical self-discipline. For Christian men and women Christ holds us to a higher standard, we may not always meet it but we must continue striving for that goal, that is the journey/struggle of sanctification of our soul, building up our treasure in heaven not on earth.
How can a family unit thrive if the man is cheating? How can a family unit thrive if the man isn’t required to even be there for their children? How can she say that she cares for the family unit but then tell men not to get married? How can a man have many children with many women, be a family man, if he’s not there for all his children?
Thank you Trent for talking about this. We need more well known and knowledgeable catholic men to talk about this. Especially those who are married :-). Great job
The other day I watched a video of Mohammed Hijab talking about marriage and he said he does keep a record of things his wife "messed up/failed to do" or instances she "disrespected him" and said if she reaches a certain amount of slip ups he will divorce her. Not to mention the now infamous podcast he did where he said it is 100% Islamic to lie to your spouse and get a secret second/third/fourth wife without your first wife knowing. Beautiful religion 🙏🏻
You frame Hijab's story in a negative manner simply because you live in a feminist society with its assumptions meanwhile Hijab and Co can somehow manage to have intact families and filled up mosques whereas your churches are emptying every week and the disenfranchised young are seeing the objectively better results of Islamic teachings and practices of marriage and want that for themselves. Instead of standing in judgement perhaps look into Islam because the time of folks like trent talking down to us and not with us and engaging with our problems is over and we have options.
@@jameswitt108 Sure if you have a cult that marries off young women, allows men to have four wives and you can legally be killed if you leave said cult, it's only natural you guys are growing in numbers 🤷🏼♀️ The west in general is getting more and more irreligious. Also I base my worth as a woman and marriage off of Sacred Scripture, so it's not because I "live in a feminist society" that I find Hijab's behavior disgusting and immoral. Also, how would you know what society I live in?
I like Pearl's videos to a point. Her message is that women need to be held accountable, which I think is reasonable. However, she gives a pass to guys because of some social Darwinism point of view. Men still have a moral code, just like women. Infidelity is horrible, as anyone who is or has been married to a serial cheater can attest. Pearl is not the only CZcamsr who has this perspective, the Fresh & Fit channel is actually worse.
It seems like she says these things because she believes it's what men want to hear. I feel like she has extremely low self-esteem, and has probably had a difficult time getting a boyfriend throughout her life.
I’m not listening to someone which such low self worth and is single herself. Why are you teaching me about what men want but you don’t have a successful relationship/marriage yourself.
Pushing back against good women? Kind of sick of so called Christians cherry picking just to judge and look more moderate. Keep that plastic Christian nonsense to yourself.
This bizarre. I’ve never heard of this lady and glad I haven’t. The the most dangerous part is men will hear this stuff and use it as justification against their wives for their bad behavior. She has grains of truth, sure, but at the end of the day we all make the choice. Being a man means rising to the occasion by going against your base desires and putting your wife and family first. You don’t need to be a door mat to do this. You can be a manly leader and still be a virtuous person. Ex St Joseph. So selfless he doesn’t speak a word in the gospels. I don’t listen to Andrew Tate (like literally ever) but I did see a short of his a long time ago. Some other CZcamsr got some heat for agreeing with the statement which is how I saw it. He basically said that men who do things (like cheat, have multiple partners, treat women badly etc) do it because they have women who allow it and expect it. This lady seems to be the perfect example of a woman who allows (and even expects) men to be the worst version of themselves and will likely create more bad men by essentially encouraging this behavior. Truly shameful to see.
It is not pearl it is the women who cheat with men and others who do nothing about it. I do not excuse men cheating either, it is disgusting and I would not mind laws against it.
You could feel the genuine, love, care, and respect he has for his wife. That guy was a shining example of true masculinity, and that's the kind of man we should be trying to emulate as an example for our sons to strive to be, and the kind of man our daughters ought to seek.
I do label myself as anti-feminist in the secular view of the term for a variety of reasons, but I can never get to the extreme position that people like Pearl or “red pill on verge of black pilled” crowds espouse. Men and women are complimentary beings that have their roles and places, but should not put the other down. Was just listening to a guy on my podcast who was talking about his relationship with his wife. They have 4 kids, two under the age of 2, and the wife stays home while he works. While he is the head of the household, he would never demean his wife and doesn’t mind doing a few chores (washing dishes is actually his favorite activity) and being with the kids. In fact, being around his kids is the most fulfilling part of his life and he’s excited for the day the youngest (6 month old) starts calling him ‘dada’ and runs to hug him when he gets home like the others currently do. He loves and respects his wife and she loves and respects him, and they work together in providing a stable home for their children. Men and women need to work together, and society or at least the local communities need to reinforce respect and accountability for both groups. That means being faithful to one’s spouse, respecting the other as a fellow member of God’s family, and appreciate all the little and major things people do for others.
Great points, Trent. There are some basic elements of biology that predispose the sexes to certain proclivities but moral individuals can and must show the moral backbone to overcome these. For the record, the Old Testament even excuses some of these (like the books of Kings and Chronicles excusing the many wives and concubines of David and Solomon) but all of these, even the ones like tolerating divorce that Moses wrote, were corrected by Christ in the New Testament.
It would devastate me if my husband would cheat. We have become one, so it would in no way be "a small thing" to tear us apart. Someone said it's like throwing a grenade into your family and I agree. If she ever experienced the kind of relationship where your partner really becomes your other half, she wouldn't think this way.
Thank you so much for this! We need content like this to cancel out the redpill toxicity... I am constantly shocked by my generation.. prayers for virtuous and charitable men like you! And prayers for Pearl and other woman who contribute to all that toxicity
You have no idea how bad it is. Society is truly on the fast track to destruction. The death of Christendom and the sexual revolution have put the final nails into the coffin that was the nuclear family. The separation of the unative and procreative aspects of the sexual embrace has yielded rotten fruit. I guess that is what happens when you deny God His rightful place of primacy in your life and in your family. Why should 80% of men participate in a society where the only value they bring is as a replaceable cog in the machine. They are seen *at best* as a last resort by women after they spent their youth chasing the top 10%. No wonder guys are increasingly checking out. It is to the point where the Church needs to ask the Holy Spirit for help in formulating a new encyclical regarding dating and courtship in the modern social media era. I think that document must drive home the absolute necessity of chastity before marriage. Additionally, It must engage with the biological imperative to hold out for a better option that women feel when exposed to a seemingly limitless opportunity to be used by top 10% of men on social media and apps. It may also need to deal with divorce with an understanding of "no fault" and modern family court practices. Outside of the Church we as a society need to fight the economic barriers that make young men so seemingly "worthless". They are not seen as viable marriage material until their 30's or later. Fostering male mentorship opportunities is something that we can do both in the Church and in secular environments as well.
Amazing job Trent. This red pill movement has it's ungodly parts just like feminism. I'm sick of seeing complete adherence to it just like I'm sick of seeing complete adherence to feminism. Also I usually never say this, but I truthfully believe there is grifting involved here too.
Pearl is just a grifter, making the most vapid points in the loudest way so that we don't forget who she is. I admire her tenacity and dogged determination in pursuance of her goal to achieve financial success. I'll give her that.
She confuses equality with sameness as most people do. We are only equal in dignity and worth. Other than that we are not equal. God made women & men complimentary and when United raise a family for the good of the spouses and the future of society.
29 y.o man who’s father was never a father figure and virtually abandoned us in our 20s. I’m in tears. Stumbling upon your videos in like stumbling upon speeches from the father I never had. You’re explaining things I know intuitively to be right in ways I could never articulate to myself.
Trent, thank you.
Awe sweet. That's wise on your part too. Life robs us of solid parenting, all too often, but to know enough to find it elsewhere and seek to make up for that lack, good for you.
A simp who shields women from accountability is your father figure?
@@redpillfreedom6692 He's at least able to think for himself. You're part of a pernicious idealogy, going by your username and using terms like simp for every person, even an honourable man. Trent is contributing what we need most in society. strong male figures, he has a family, he has children, which we need a lot more than toxic gurus spouting nihilism and bitterness.
We're all gonna make it bra
I said it on a video regarding Andrew Tate and I'll say it here too. The first thing that comes to my mind everytime I hear these conversations is 2nd Timothy 3:5 " having a form of godliness but denying the power thereof".
People rail on or against things that would be considered traditional religious values and want to cherry-pick what fits for them meanwhile denying the power of God and the validity of His word.
1 timothy 2:12 "I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet."
Weak Christians trying to convert people with a simp version of Christianity will fail, men will reject it
Yes, intelligence, but not wisdom.. She and Tate are extremely intelligent but they do not know God. They just observe nature and humankind.
@@NealBromfieldMost red pills will divorce that verse from it’s Christian context and try to apply that in a secular one
@@deusvult8340 There's no more Christian women on the west, by the most recent stats only about 5% of woman in the US will marry virgin or only having their future spouse as her first partner. So men are in no way obliged to conform to Christian traditions or pattern of behaviors, they don't have a counterpart in this mission anymore.
I remember following Pearl for a little while because I was like, finally, someone who recognizes women's responsibility! But then I realized she wasn't interested in inspiring us to be better, just putting women down constantly and excusing bad behavior in men.
I hope she sees this and moderates her message. But then that's not going to make her money.
You live by the same sword that you die from. If you become obsessed with one topic then you miss the mark of seeing the whole picture.
So she was doing to women what men experience every day in society. Men are always being put down and women’s bad behavior is always excused.
@@Mashfan6507 It is not only that but also giving the message to the men that it is ok to give into their biological disposition and like the guy in this video said it is harming men, these kind of message where you normalize misbehavior by guys. It is bad for men or woman. I do not want certain subset of woman undermine all the men but at the same time I do not want the young male to take away the message that woman suck and stay away from them.
@@noorzanayasmin7806 I agree that men should control themselves, but young men should learn that women suck and they should avoid them. Women do nothing but ruin our lives, it makes zero sense to be with them.
For a Catholic, Pearl has some of the worst anti-Catholic takes and whether she knows it or not, she pushes young men towards Islam because it's more "based" and in line with her Red Pill buddies.
Also Pearl is 26, owns her own business, and is unmarried with no children. So she falls well short of the standards she imposes on other women. At least walk the walk.
In response to your second paragraph, she has never counted herself out from the criticism she has for women. She believes she has been part of the problem
And yet she still works and surrounds herself with Red Pill guys who have no interest in promoting chastity or settling down. She just follows Andrew Tate's lead because she know she can make money off of it.@@theolite360
The fact that she's unmarried and 26 is a weak argument, IMO. It's REALLY hard to find a good husband. Like, really hard. I became Catholic at 26 (had a sinful life before that, too) and actively hunted for two years to find one, and I know just how blessed I am that I did. And I was able to do that with the aid of God AND the simple fact that my now-husband and I both knew precisely what we were looking for in a partner.
It's gotta be so much harder for someone with such a flawed understanding of religion, etc. As far as I know, Davis gets that she's complicit in the current system and doesn't try to present any "rules for me and not for thee" attitude. I have plenty of criticisms of her, but that's not one of them.
I don't disagree that it's hard to find a good husband but by supporting the Red Pill sphere (at least implicitly if not explicitly) she's only contributing to the problem. As I said, the Red Pill guys have no interest in promoting chastity or marriage.@@stefanielozinski
@@stefanielozinskiif it’s hard to find a good husband she shouldn’t be telling women to get married since it’s hard. Pearl is a pick me who still hasn’t gotten picked because she’s ugly. She needs to pick and chose her struggles. U can’t be ugly and a pick me that never gets picked
When Trent said “as Catholics we should not endorse unnecessarily embarrassing views” I laughed out loud 😂😂
@alainamolnar2199
I would agree for the most part. In some cases the popular view is so warped that holding reasonable views can be seen as “embarrassing”. For me, the idea of Church’s views “evolving” to fit the times is gross. In a significant way they’re kowtowing to ad hoc Enlightenment-era ideas of “rights” which were heavily informed by Christianity in the first place.
like flat earth?
@@flatearthtrads3048
George Orwell once said something to the effect that if one were to oppose the modern understanding of cosmology, a large majority of people would ridicule that person, while not having the ability to competently explain why his ideas were ridiculous.
I’m not a NASA fanboy, but still go by modern cosmological concepts as a placeholder.
Why?
@@Rachel-wz8kw Gooood question
It's been really heartening to see you engaging in the cultural landscape that we young people find ourselves facing every day in the online world. Keep up the great work as always!
Weak Christians trying to convert people with a simp version of Christianity will fail, men will reject it
Trent as always you're right on the money. I'm a Catholic woman, I love traditional values and gender roles, but I am tired of hearing this harmful rhetoric from people like Pearl. Thanks for addressing this!
We are losing the culture war because of weak men like Trent.. where is his videos about the harm of feminism? Attacking non Catholics for not being Catholic is essentially self sabotage.. Pearl is doing more in the culture war than most, but all high and mighty, weak men try to impose their beliefs on her..this is a self defeating strategy.. im Catholic because of the strength I see when I seen real Catholics, not this weak I'm better than you attitude..
@@uncle_SamssubjectsWhat are you talong about? They way you speak sounds like a redpiller not a catholic.
@@uncle_Samssubjects Weak, or just logical and consistent to the Catholic faith. He actually believes what the church teaches. He also deals fairly, reasonably, and gives the benefit of doubt to others. You want simple ape like idiots who never listen to their opponents and never critique anyone remotely close to them.
We need intelligent, nuanced, and adamant men not self centered idiots.
@@uncle_Samssubjectspearl is doing more harm than anything else in the culture war right now. Trent is right on this, the fact that you believe him to be weak for holding a higher standard than a woman who is so desperate for male attention that she is basically telling men what they want to hear, is very telling about your own weakness. She doesn't speak for all women, and she certainly doesn't speak for me.
@@uncle_SamssubjectsHow is Pearl helping? 😂 She’s a hypocrite. I don’t see her married and she has no children…All I see is a woman saying all the things her audience wants to hear getting money and attention from it. I suspect she would call any other woman doing the same a “thot” or an attention whore…
It’s crazy to me that our society is so far removed from Christian morality that people will defend marital infidelity and believe they have the moral high ground
Edit: To be more specific, replace “marital infidelity” with “men who cheat.” Pearl may oppose infidelity, but the point I intended to make was in regard to her defense of men who are unfaithful in their relationships
Human society has always done a lot of mental gymnastics to defend sin. Look at the US from its founding until the 1860s with slavery. There is nothing new underneath the sun, I’m afraid.
That's inaccurate, ur doing what protestants do to catholics.
Pearl does not defend infidelity in the slightest. She agrees that it's bad but says only that it's not necessarily the end of the marriage. Even God says this; look at Hosea.
Pearl also regularly points out that she deals in probabilities, not possibilities. Which is to say that she talks about what happens in the overwhelming majority of cases, NOT -- say again, NOT -- the exceptions.
To the point on fidelity, she says most women are overlooking at least 80% of men and the data from dating apps -- where most people are meeting these days -- sure seems to show this.
This means that 80-90% of eligible women are chasing 10-20% of eligible men. This means this select group of men has many, many options.
So sinful human nature generally and male sexual nature in particular being what they are, if you pick one of these guys, you may well get the exception. But chances are -- again Pearl's focus is not on the exceptions but the most likely scenario -- you've thrown your lot in with a man who will cheat.
Pearl is VERY VERY MUCH in favor of keeping families together, and that includes through a crisis like infidelity. It is possible for a marriage to survive cheating and all efforts to keep it together should be made. If Hosea could go and redeem Gomer -- and Jesus could redeem his skanky bride -- it's the least a wife or husband can do.
But under NO circumstances has Pearl EVER defended marital infidelity.
@@davidplummer2619 "Pearl does not defend infidelity in the slightest..."
3:17 "I feel that we should just let these men cheat in peace"
What would you call this?
@@zacharyo.484 feelings aren't facts, if people are that insensed with what she says, they border on the woke.
As a guy who is over 6 ft tall, I feel insulted that she assumes I am more likely to commit adultery and commit other acts of unfaithfulness than men who are shorter than me.
You are more likely, there is nothing to be insulted about. Doesn't mean you will.
The data might show this to be "true" but her take is wrong. Women like taller men, taller men are more likely to be "successful" when it comes to cheating. I personally don't think this means that short men don't want to or don't try.
Feeling insulted has nothing necessaril6 to do with reason.
@@rumblebeast08I'm interested to look up the statistics on women liking taller men because for some reason that's not a physical trait I've ever been interested in. I'm also curious how they got the true data on infidelity in men according to height 🧐
That's because she is a highly insecure person
When Lila Rose was on the whatever podcast, the Andrew tate-esque guy who was there was pretty much saying he should be able to do everything that pearl is mentioning without any ramifications. But rather than put him down for what he was saying, Lila harkened to his higher calling, that he was capable of commiting himself to one woman if he would exercise self control and discipline. That seems to be what Pearl is missing, the understanding that men are called to something greater by God, something beyond the biological calling.
@@ExcuseMeBut_Because killing the innocent is wrong.
Where is this proof that your sky daddy exists?
If you want more men signing up to this so-called "higher calling", you need to give them incentive to do so.
That woman is a professional grifter.
She's done her research and found her target audience: disenfranchised young men desperate for approval of women, but unwilling to bend the knee to the current trend of feminism. So she comes right in with the right product, herself, the cute and kinda hot "girl next door" that totally gets said group of men and encourages to accept who they are just as they are.
Is the "ya go gurl" for frustrated men.
"Pick Me Pearl" with the "I'm not like other girls" grift.
I agree with you.
I see the word “grifter” thrown around way too much these days but I do believe she is one if I’ve ever seen it. And it bothers me because she is actively making society worse through her content and getting rich from it. Imagine how much good she could actually be doing if she had a balanced take. All she does is make hurt men hate women. The exact same way feminists hate men.
Agreed with everything besides the Cute and kinda hot part. She belongs on the Minnesota Vikings O Line
Weak Christians trying to convert people with a simp version of Christianity will fail, men will reject it
Trent's patience is on a level I can only hope and pray to get to... I can barely listen to Pearly without wanting to throw my phone away.
What an awful personal problem you have, since Pearly has great takes.
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Truth hurts
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Me: I am praying and hoping to have the patience Trent has in dealing with people he disagrees with.
Pearly fan: You are a horrible person
Fan 2: (Pearly’s) Truth hurts!
Folks, DO NOT get your philosophy from a grifter like Pearly!😅
Pearl's "women dont think but just use feelings and emotions " is kind of paradoxical since she is a woman , its similar to the liar paradox
But if a man says it it's still true. Therefore it doesn't matter who says it. Facts are facts.
@@extract8058 Right, the message is the message and its true men are behind 8 ball as far as marriage - divorces law's go - ( and i have news for you catholics are not immune to divorce) the largest growing sector are women/ wives divorcing their husbands after 20 -25 yr marriage - kids are out of the house - it's me time. Like Pearl said "Don't believe me go to family law court ( divorce) for week or a couple days".
@@extract8058but it’s not true it’s just a made up thing
Also people treat men's anger as not an emotional, when anger is an emotion lacking control and reason and SO MANY MEN have anger issues.
@@extract8058 except it’s not true.
The results of feminism have been profoundly destructive; however, Pearl is irrationally over-correcting in her response to it because she maintains weak moral standards. She wants women to be more sympathetic to men's struggles, but in doing so she justifies too many dysfunctional behaviors of men.
A major issue is that feminism has been gutted from so much of its original intent (which was political, economic, and social equality between the sexes). Feminism today has been hijacked by the same things that have taken over other institutions (leftism, corporatism, transgenderism, etc)
Agreed 💯
Never would I think people would justify cheating in plain sight like this. Are we even using our brains at this point?
This is actually one of the best critiques I’ve seen on the subject
I don't she justifies bad behavior by men, she doesn't really say much about it one way or the other. I would prefer that she would point out how silly it is for men to complain about body counts when most of these same men never refuse an opportunity to help drive those counts up.
However, she sees herself as an advocate for men and looks at the last 50 years of daytime television and then media and culture generally getting more and more Jezebelish and misandristic and so her focus is to be a counterweight to all that, which means she is not going to spend much time on bad male behaviors and attitudes because we've had many decades of that, real and imagined.
The bottom line is she makes good points about how destructive feminism modern woman groupthink (really groupfeel) not only is but for the most part always was, and she does it in a unique disarming way -- with a smile and without having to yell or be rancorous. We ignore these points at our peril.
Pearl is like "I need to make my weak male feel like he has a slave and then trash other women so he doesn't ever leave cause who else will put up with his cheating" 🤡🤮
I get annoyed when I hear people refer to “high value men” or “ high value women”. As a catholic everybody is of high value.
High value to God? Awesome. Not what people are talking about when they use "high-value man/woman."
@@lordfarquaad8601 then what are they talking about? Their money? Looks?
@@Ajas0810Concerning men: wealth, occupation, looks/physique, disagreeability, a willingness to say no. Concerning women: looks, youth, agreeability, maybe housewifeliness. None of these are superficial features to consider.
@@lordfarquaad8601 much of the time when somebody refers to a “high value” person they refer to money and looks and from what I can gather this is what pearl is doing.
@@Ajas0810 What I would mean is honesty, morality, integrity, caring.
As a protestant, this video was really good. I think that this is a really cool channel.
Ya this is basically the catholic perspective on the issue. Despite the lies against the church, the catholic church is hands down the most reasonable and morally sound institution to ever exist. That's because it belongs to Jesus and its his church.
@@anonjohn7571 highly debatable
I do way more of the infant care and housework. But I think it's crazy that there are fathers who don't ever do things like changing diapers or putting the baby down for naps. Those are crucial day to day bonding things. A dad who cares for his infant is a dad who is forming a strong bond with his baby from the start. A good godly man should be forming a strong connection with his children, and sometimes that means doing a few boring or gross tasks that mom usually does. I do way more of the baby tasks, but my husband does know how to do most of the things I do and can step in when needed or when he just wants to spend more time with our daughter.
My husband never changed, fed, or bathed either of our sons. He also has never done the laundry or dishes. Why? Because he works hard all day. We have a strict division of labour. I have never worked outside of our house, and he has never worked in it. I realise that many people cannot afford to do this, but it worked well for us. He never felt as though Mummy was forcing chores upon him, and I was able to actually raise my children.
@Charlotte_Martel I get someone who works outside the house not doing housework if that's what works for them. I do most of the housework. But I still think it's unfortunate how many men miss out on everyday opportunities to care for their children and bond with them through that care for them.
@@owlintrenchcoat Please don't mistake me; my husband is an excellent father. He bonded with our boys the way most fathers do: through sport, hikes, reading, and play. He just never did any of the muck work because he faced enough stress at the office.
All of those things - diapers, naps etc - are the norm in my family. Without the influence of any religion. One does not have to believe in any "god" to behave like a good person and parent. It should come naturally. Animals know how to look after their offspring without reading books about it, or getting inspiration from a "god."
@@MsFionaxxx Good for you.
My problem with Pearl, Brian of Whatever, F&F, etc... is nothing they say leads to the inspiration to be a better man. They are just the inverse of the modern feminists. The end result is 2 sets of single people blaming each other as to why he or she is single and unhappy.
Women are the ones who do not want into relationships though. So they do get the blame (On the whole.).
@@johnnotrealname8168since when do women not want relationships?
Ah, the old "just as bad as them". They're not. It's just "self improvement" is not the theme of their channel.
@@scroogemcduckismyspiritanimal They may be interested in relationships, but it seems like an increasing number have unwittingly priced themselves out of the market.
@@johnnotrealname8168No, now with the manosphere there is an increase in men who don’t want to get in a relationship. They watch these podcasts that say there are few or no good women, they will divorce you and take your kids etc. Many of these podcasts are portraying the false notion that marriage has no benifits to men, it can even be harmful. And the men falsely believe it.
I never saw the appeal of Pearl. If I wanted to learn how to be more of a "man" or more "manly", why would I go to a woman?
Plus her takes on religion are... something. I'm not even sure what to say to those.
Thanks for doing this Trent.
She aims to awaken women.
I don’t necessarily think that’s true. I think a virtuous woman will have a good understanding of what a man ought to be. Pearl definitely isn’t that, mind you, so I agree that her opinion is garbage.
@@gxhcbchchvfhbxsddvp96trgawaken them to what?
A woman supporting the manosphere was an underfilled niche. Her being a woman is the whole point, it gives credibility to the takes.
@@piface3016seems like a grift to me
Also, I'm laughing so hard at her whiteboard about "why women shouldn't vote" just having a bunch of stick figures on it.
Yes! Why does she even have that?
She is right though, women’s suffrage was a HUGE mistake
@@halleylujah247 who cares, she’s 100% correct
@@Mashfan6507Why?
Women shouldn't be allowed to vote. The 19th Amendment was the worst Amendment ever created.
Thank you for addressing this topic Trent. It seems to me that these "red pill" personalities push a false image of strong masculinity. It's an excuse to be weak, rather than encouragement to pursue virtue. Sadly, it's a message that is appealing to insecure young men, or men who resent women because of negative experiences they've had.
As opposed to signing a bad state contract that takes away all power and authority you have over everything in your life. That's totally masculine right there.
@@redpillfreedom6692 Marriage isn't a state contract. Go talk that trash with your secular friends.
@@simeonwaiaIt’s been turned into a state contract. How are you supposed to marry someone if almost everyone is unvirtuous and unrepentant? Almost every Christian I meet has turned to Christ because their lives sucked, not because they had a genuine thirst for God. They pathologize their sin “dad didn’t love me enough” “I was bullied” “I was an alcoholic” to remove culpability. It wasn’t like this, it couldn’t of been like this, either wise no one would have gotten married.
@@aidanmurray7319 For a Christian, a marriage is a covenant between 3 parties, God, a man and a woman. The "state contract" thing is a secular idea.
As for why people become Christians, I'll quote St. Augustine:
"Lord, you have made us for Yourself, and our hearts are restless until they find rest in you".
Yes. And these red pill groups do not hold men accountable for their own poor mate selection process. A lot of men have rejected good women to pursue women that aren't good for them. Look at what happened to Johnny Depp. He left a stable, loving woman to be with Amber Heard. Thinking he was getting the upgrade. And then when that blew up we were all supposed to feel sorry for him. If he had stayed with the previous woman none of that would have happened. No accountability.
It is important to note for the voting segment, it's unmarried women that vote largely Blue. Married women tend towards voting Red.
Naturally, anyone who has a family of their own has to come to the realization at some point that some things in life are worth preserving and protecting. Which in and of itself isn’t a reason to vote red but it’s enough to make you question the long term sustainability of voting for the blue side. At least that’s what it did for me.
Very good point that a lot of people miss.
That blue voting bloc is only going to get larger, less people are getting married. This country is screwed. Might as well go to Eastern Europe.
@@harrygarris6921 How many married women are already Conservative though?
Which is the larger category, excluding children and widows of course.
As a Cathoilic I can say that IF Pearl is "Catholic" it is in name and not in practice. Jesus told us we will know them by their fruits and any "Catholic" that tries to tell me adultery and chemical contraception is acceptable is utterly mistaken or gravely culpable.
She also thinks abortion is ok to a certain dehree
Don't judge and you won't be judged.
@@sidneybuckaloo the one thing she’s reasonable about, and that’s the thing you don’t agree with.
@@dewilew2137how can a Christian think it’s reasonable to murder a child of God in the womb? That doesn’t even make sense. A Christian would believe that the child was sent by God.
I'm actually impressed that men are calling out this toxic "anti-feminism" garbage. These people who support that don't realize that they're acting like the same people they oppose. It's embarrassing and laughable to say the least.
St. Thomas Aquinas’ treatment of Muhammad and Islam cuts right to the heart of the redpill community’s fascination with Islam:
"He (Mohammed) seduced the people by promises of carnal pleasure to which the concupiscence of the flesh urges us. His teaching also contained precepts that were in conformity with his promises, and he gave free rein to carnal pleasure. In all this, as is not unexpected; he was obeyed by carnal men. As for proofs of the truth of his doctrine, he brought forward only such as could be grasped by the natural ability of anyone with a very modest wisdom. Indeed, the truths that he taught he mingled with many fables and with doctrines of the greatest falsity.”
To me, this should be the critique of the manosphere. Not that they're "too anti-modern", but in fact they're _too_ modern, by forgoing the spiritual.
Completely agree. They support divorce, fornication and male cheating. I stopped there and then.
Brilliant quote and comment. God bless you.
This whole war against men, women and family reminds me of the message of Fatima.
I sense a huge push of Izlamic idea within Christian society, especially in 🇺🇸 and 🇬🇧, i feel that a new kind of religion is coming, that is..after being struck by communism, we are now facing Izlamism, but she will crush satan's ugly head 🦶🐲 anyway so no worries 🤗
St Joseph also has an interesting personality, the way that he did not question the special status of the Blessed mother Mary, their marriage, gender roles etc 👍. St. Joseph terror of demons pray for us ❤🔥🙏😇✝️👨👩👧👦🕊🌎
Best quote from St. Joseph; "......................... " 😊🙏
Sounds like a bunk.
Men aren't allowed to sleep around in Islam just because they can have multiple wives.
@@paccawacca4069 The comparison between red pill and Islam is not simply the pursuit of sexual pleasure. It's the pursuit of material wealth overall, sexuality being a focal point but not the entirety of the worldview.
The comparison would be "Islam tells you that if you act in accordance to it, you will obtain gains that satisfy the flesh". It's the same spirit that animates 21st century Red Pill community.
Trent, I am just coming back to being a practicing Catholic over this summer '23 . I was born a Catholic but that is about it. I do remember I loved being an altar server. Long story short, you are one of my favorite Catholic content creators. Keep up the great work, and thank you for doing what you do, I have learned so much.
Weak Christians trying to convert people with a simp version of Christianity will fail, men will reject it
"The bigotry of low expectations." ❤❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you for all of this.
Women have far lower expectations than men
Well said. Especially the tweets literally saying men/husbands should *never* help with household chores were beyond extreme.
It depends on context, If the wife is SAHM and the husband is the one working, I don't see a problem with that
@@damianperez7736 Literally never, though? Like, if the wife is bed-ridden with the flu or a broken leg, she should still do all the cooking and cleaning?
@@Vic2point0 Thank God I said it depends on the context
@@damianperez7736 Yes, but you made it sound like the only context was whether or not the wife was a stay-at-home mom and the husband was employed.
Long term, the wife doing all the domestic work, despite what men perceive as menial, will wear a woman down physically plus the emotional stress she carries on behalf her family, that emotional stress will affect her physically as well. Men are to love their wives as Christ loves the church, so what do Catholic men think that means? When you, the church cannot carry your burden, Christ bears not only His own cross, but yours as well. As men, you know you have more strength and stamina than women, it is physical abuse to relay all domestic work on her. If you want to love your wife like Christ, be Christ-like, the hunk of the burden falls on the husbands to help his wife carry her cross, do not flog her while shes carrying the cross, insulting her with gender role rhetorics @damianperez7736. Listen to Fr. Dave Nix on women submission. Men demand submission, but they don't know how to love their wives as Christ loves the church
This woman basically took all the mainstream redpill talking points and monetized it as a good looking woman fighting for men. Your basic grifter on the internet.
The men sign up for the draft argument really only makes sense during the 60s-70s. All the wars in the last 30 years did not initiate the draft even when they probably should have.
@@PhillipCummingsUSA Registration of the draft is still a thing and on the books, it is only because it is so politically untenable that it has not been initiated. For example in 1979 or 1980, James Earl Carter Jr. re-introduced registration despite his you know pardons. That may be why the liberals fled his camp. This is a naïve position (The only reason a draft has not been used is either high-readiness or poor will.).
She's a 5 on a good day. Simpthirst is real though.
@@PhillipCummingsUSA abolishing the 19th was a Turd Flinging Monkey argument. He was cancelled a while ago.
@@gxhcbchchvfhbxsddvp96trgand I'm sure you're a 7-10...
Thank you for helping so many atheists, Muslims and Protestants become Christians ✝️ 🙏
The catechism says that protestants and orthodox are Christians though?
@@Th3BigBoy Not sure that is what it means. Americanism is a heresy.
@@Th3BigBoyProbably just not thinking while grouping them with atheists and Muslims. It happens.
Protestants are christians. Don't be that person
Yup, really don't like when people run around doing this. I'm a protestant and dislike when other protestants make the same sort of statement the above poster did about Catholics. We're both Christians.
My father in law is a retired Independent Baptist preacher who affirms a conservative view of gender roles. My mother in law is a cancer survivor with rheumatoid arthritis. My father in law does almost all of household chores. I'm so grateful for him, my husband, and the many other gentle, gracious, and godly men in my sons' lives.
If your wife is sick and you can afford to yeah do the household chores, daughters should ideally do most of it but that depends on age.
Literally the plot of the Hunger Games finale "the only solution to past discrimination is present discrimination." Even movies in our culture point to how this is wrong.
Thank you! I saw some of her stuff and was disgusted when I heard her condoning adultery. Adultery is abuse. Even though you can’t see bruises, the devastation and pain is there. We wouldn’t tell a domestic violence victim to put up with abuse because the poor man can’t control himself.
That’s the only thing she says that’s bad though. The rest is fairly spot on
Similar story here. When she started talking about how, if a wife gains too much weight after marriage, and you can't really blame the man for trying to have sex with other women. I had to actually listen to her take a second time to see if that was really her point... And it was.
@@adamrad2220 she’s just pointing out what every married woman does when her husband gains weight though. Like you’re only offended by it because she’s saying it about men, not because it’s adultery
@@Mashfan6507 nah, they don’t. Speaking as a man who has been married for years and has definitely gained weight over that time. Your physical attractiveness is not the driving force behind infidelity, unless you married the most shallow and vacuous person in history. What can cause infidelity is a breakdown in your ability to emotionally connect with each other. That’s what leads to distance in the relationship.
Marriage in reality is very different than the stereotypes and ideals that you’ve been fed from the internet and from bitter single grifters who think they’re somehow in a position to speak in authority on marriage despite having never experienced it.
@@harrygarris6921 be careful, man, be really careful. Don’t trust anything she says if you’ve gained weight because she’s gonna cheat sooner or later. Well, all women under the age of 60 or so is shallow and vacuous.
Ok, well how about married people that tell me not to get married and all the horror stories I hear from married men? Do they have no authority? Marriage is one of the worst mistakes a man can make and I can’t understand why any man would do it in this day and age when you could be happy instead.
Gee, Trent… you are describing my Dad to a T. He was that workhorse both at work and at home. He was a humble Christian man who loved his wife and children.
Back when women were worth doing that for. Back when a wife would actually reciprocate in a relationship, unlike today.
Your comment is so beautiful and wholesome. That’s a father one can be proud of. That’s a father whose children have the utmost respect for.
I wasn’t familiar with her work so thank you for this. It’s sad that we as a society have placed men and women in conflict like this when there should be harmony in our complementary natures as God designed. Hopefully we get back to that!
Who passed unfair laws?
@@gxhcbchchvfhbxsddvp96trg I’m sorry, I’m not following your question?
@@juliannacodde8633 women that didn't pass feminist laws kept a decisive silence because they thought it wouldn't affect them. They liked the money from work, the freedom to be dirty, the contraceptives against church teaching. Women as a whole supported feminism.
@@gxhcbchchvfhbxsddvp96trgSo did the men who mattered.
As a Protestant I love this channel, we need ALL Christians to defend the core of the faith together while also finding the ‘truest’ form of worship!
According to Catholicism if you knowingly deny the one true church, you probably will go to hell
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@@clay8546that is not the Church's actual teaching. You severely misquoted and misrepresent the teaching
Yes I agree, and there are clues for true and right worhsip. John 6. Luke 24: 13-15, 1 Corinthians 11: 23-32, Rev 2:16,17, Rev 4, 5, 7, 10, and just about the whole book of Rev ... the Mass as given by the Apostles to the deciples and on down through history. Read the Church fathers and how they worshipped.
@clay8546 yes this is true. If you know that the Church is the Church Jesus left and you deny it, then this is apostasy and the consequence of that is rejection of God and Jesus which is a loss of salvation. But can you regain salvation of course through contrition and repentance. Nothing crazy about this. We cant sya YOU ARE GOING TO HELL because catholics dont have the authority to place someone in hell, but we can warn you are placing yourself in danger of going to hell.
Nailed it Trent! Always wondered why not all of what Pearl said didn't sound right. The "tyranny of low standards" argument is super convincing.
Two sides of the same coin (toxic feminism vs. toxic anti-feminism).
Feminism is definitely worse
Trent can you please go on one of these red pill shows, their young viewers need to see men like you. God bless you
Tradcons silence on divorce and custody laws are exactly what leads men to Red Pill in the first place. There isn't a single talking point from people like Trent that we haven't already heard a million times and rebutted.
@@redpillfreedom6692
It doesn't work to fix problems by taking drastic steps. Furthermore, a large portion of the content in red pills is biased and frequently inaccurate; it only appears true because the issues it raises are real, despite the fact that the solutions it provides are inadequate. Personally, I would like hearing a Christian man who has a standard for morality and values address these topics.
18:15 can't remember who said it but "the issue with the war of the sexes is there is simply too much fraternizing with the enemy." is a great and applicable quote here.
Regarding women suffrage, I'm generally skeptical of suffrage/democracy in general (let alone women's suffrage, men's suffrage, etc;). I simply haven't seen any evidence that the general population has any political authority worth considering.
*BASED AND REDPILLED!* The suffrage issue is simply, no-one, it is mostly useless and ineffective. A better suffrage system is heads of households, usually men but women if they are widows, although in today's age that would benefit the left.
I'm glad someone wrote this with respect to Pearl's stance on female sufferage. It's true that everything went downhill with women voting, as they tend to lean towards socialism, favouring security over justice and personal responsability. My response to this is that I don't think ANYONE should be voting for a country's political leaders. Democracy is a system that undermines long term thinking and fosters all sorts of vices.
@@christopherfleming7505 I am leaning more and more in that direction. It seems like democracy inevitably leads to extreme individualism, which results in a rejection of good tradition and authority in favor of whatever ideas are popular at the moment. At the very least I think only allowing families to vote as a unit would be a great improvement.
My main issue with women’s suffrage is that the movement was spearheaded by a few key women and the MAJORITY of other women didn’t want it. Those women were content with the family unit and were (rightfully) worried getting all those rights at once without some type of block or tradeoff would make things bad for everyone.
The Suffragettes didn’t listen to those women, and thus the vote was extended to pretty much everyone.
Personally, I agree with the Founders’ idea that land owning individuals or those with property stakes should be the majority of voters, with maybe a few key exceptions. At least something that ties people into the policies they vote for rather than people voting for just their own self interests and not thinking long term about their choices.
@@jendoe9436good point here
The segment about how women risk their lives in childbirth and take the risk to become widows or lose their sons is excellent!
Yeah I didn’t realize how much Trent hated men until he said that
@@Mashfan6507 Hated men? How so?
@@LykaLo he basically said the same line that loser Hillary said about “women being the real victims of war” when men are the ones fighting it. It just goes to show that society never respects anything men do. And it’s sad that Trent doesn’t even respect himself. I’m sure he’s afraid of gaining weight too cuz he knows his wife will leave him if he does.
@@LykaLo these types think men are victims in society and any uplifting words about women leads to jealousy from these pathetic men.
@@Mashfan6507um, no he's just saying that everyone suffers during Wars because they do. War is hell period.
Thank you for providing a good example of what virtuous masculinity is meant to be.
Sadly there are no women out there that appreciate true masculinity anymore
@@Mashfan6507 Move to rural Texas. There are a lot, actually.
@@gunsgalore7571 well, I’m not exactly a manly man either. Idk how to shoot or hunt and I’m not handy. Also I can’t afford to move anywhere, I’m stuck in the science denying, bigoted northeast full of left wing demokkkrats. I wish I could move to a state like Texas where people believe in science and actually care about people who work for their money, unlike up here
This guy isn't even remotely masculine.
There's no such thing as "toxic anti feminism". Trent is so off base here it's disgusting.
He is showing his liberal bias here and it's beyond cringe.
I really like how charitable you are in every different context 🙂 your videos help me a lot!
The challenge with her and other grifters is that they often possess nuggets of truth, which are taken to absurdity. No one who believes in the sanctity of marriage and faithfulness would ever characterize a man’s adultery as a ‘hand shake.’ Not the children and women who have been victimized by it. Not even by the men who deeply regret that ‘hand shake’ which has cost them their families and the trust of their own children. It’s not a victimless crime. Obviously, she knows this. Had she pointed out the differences in motives between both sexes cheating, she might have been on to something. She is also completely off in assuming women in general have some deep-seeded instinct to be with men over 6 feet. Lots of us are a bit under that height or other conventional markers of male attractiveness and it hasn’t presented any serious obstacles in finding the women we wish to marry. As a happily married man, I can assure you that it’s condescending and poisonous for a woman to plant seeds of doubt in men’s heads like this. (This gal says women are actually attracted to confidence, and cheating is confidence, etc.) when in reality, you should trust the tastes of your wife when stated to you. There’s more danger in the poison that is mixed with truth than pure poison.
Thanks for this! I'm a mom of 4 boys who holds them to a high moral standard. I want them to be real men, that is, saints. Now I am chronically ill to the point I am unable to do any housework. Thank God that my husband and sons are picking up the slack. I think it's a great experience for the boys to learn how to be servants. My husband is one of those older dads you talked about, who is constantly serving the family. He didn't change a lot of diapers, but when I needed help, he was always there.
Most of the "redpill" nonsense is role-playing online. I doubt they're like that in real life. So many have been found to be phonies. May God Bless you and your family, Connie
@@WillNelson73 thanks, Will. May God bless you as well.
Real masculinity according to Catholicism IS serving!
She may have insight that saves ur sons from the preponderance of how a plethora of women operate. I suppose ur not advocating fo equal rights between men and women such as women being required to register for the drafr?
@@captainmarvel76927 If the Church has no problem with that, then I have no problem with that.
You're absolutely correct about Pearl and some others in the "anti-feminist" space. But Feminism is embraced by far, far more people both inside and outside of the church. It does way more damage to the church and the world.
Not saying that means it's bad to address the "anti-feminist" side, just that it would be nice to see some videos addressing the feminist side as well.
The feminism mentioned is not really feminism. It's Marxism pitting sex against sex.
Maddie Brinkerhoff, Alice Paul, Susan B Anthony had a more perfect vision of authentic feminity.
Yet the Church and her Holy Daughters, and her Mother. . .whose birthday is today. . .show us an even more perfect picture to be women. In turn, these women then encourage us to be more perfect men.
And we then can encourage ourselves to be perfect as our Heavenly Father.
If you agree women should not have political authority over men, it follows directly that women should not vote.
I agree with both of those.
I think noone should vote. It also doesn't provide any political authority to vote.
@@CS-mf5un It does. It is the point. The vote is about power.
Great video as usual!
I know I keep asking this but I really really hope you do a video on Nick Fuentes. He is really warping the minds of young men to believe in a completely warped Catholicism. He is buddies with Pearl as well and endorses most of these views of hers
He recently reposted a fan of his who acts as a guide for many of the young fans:
“It is simply a fact that if most Catholics were presented with quotes about Judaism, women, race, and sexuality from Saints, Church Fathers, Doctors of the Church and Nick Fuentes, 99.9% of them wouldn’t be able to pick out all of the Nick quotes with reliable consistency”
He tells teen boys and young men that Catholicism is fully compatible with blaming Jews and blacks for our problems, “race realism”, supporting segregation, supporting a “holy war” against Jews, that marital rape is allowed, that older men should pursue girls younger than 18, and a lot more truly terrible things.
I love your point about not keeping score over who does what I’m the house. That is only going to breed arguments and bitterness. In the vocation of marriage, we both need to mutually give of our selves without thought of what is “fair.”
It’s too bad women don’t see it that way. Men are the only ones that keep marriages together because they’re the victims. Women get all the benefits and men get none.
Thank you thank you thank you. I am a woman and I cannot STAND her. She is riding the grift wave HARD.
Agreed 💯%
Pearl needs to see this response by Trent. My first instinct was to be angry at her but then I realized that somebody who has such terribly degrading opinions when it comes to her own gender must be badly broken deep inside. Please, get this to her, somehow. And let’s pray for her.
Because, she doesn't pander to women?
I highly doubt that she actually believes what she says. She's likely just a grifter who's in it for the money and fame.
@@ewrock7635 possibly, I don’t know. But I think there is some level of personal conviction too.
@ewrock7635 well yeah, the whole situation where she talked to Fuentes once and then made a whole joke song about the JQ confirmed that for me.
@@kylelangton2718 no, because she doesn’t treat men and women according to their equal dignity.
I was born in 1960, when women's role in society was very traditional. My dad enjoyed taking care of me and my brother. He changed diapers, fed us, played with us and put us to bed. To this day, he still helps my mom in the kitchen. He load the dishwasher, dries dishes and takes out the trash.
It seems to me that if a partner in a marriage sees something that needs to be done, they should just do it. There isn't "women's work" and "men's work."
@@Mashfan6507imagine if the roles were reversed and women said that about modern men. People like you would be sending rape and death threats but no, it's okay if you do it. I suggest you actually look into biblical masculinity and not get these takes from these manosphere cultists.
@@Mashfan6507 Agreed
"traditional".
You mean to say that women had a modicum of morals, deceny, and reciprocation.
Women were able to work throughout the 20th century.
No one forced women to do anything.
Women need to stop b!tching.
3:16 If he cheats, he's not a high value man
As an Orthodox Christian, this is refreshing to see. Just like the left/right dichotomy, the pendulum always swings too far in the opposite direction in the culture wars. The red-pill "manosphere" stuff is often just as ungodly and anti-Christian as feminism. I will say, I do think universal suffrage was a mistake. I'm a monarchist at heart, but in a republic or a democracy, the vote should be restricted to one vote per family.
Monarchy is the life blood of Europe
She is a grifter who found a lane to make money from by being an edge lord. Kind of like Candace Owens "on steroids".
It's not necessary, in my opinion, to look into her any deeper than that.
So women should not receive equal rights?
@@greengandalf9116 If women REALLY desire equal rights, then they shouldn't be too surprised when they're complemented with equal lefts. Just sayin'. Sometimes staying in one's lane and appreciating what they have is the better part of gratitude and valor.
Absolutely. I am seeing the same happen in the whole “racism” debate. Many who are tired of anti-white sentiment in media are over-correcting with outright hatred of nonwhites.
I died when you said traditional men would tell her to be quiet. hahaha! Humor aside, very well done Trent! I always appreciate your eloquence and well formed arguments. :)
Get married - stay faithful.
There I solved all the problems. Once again, Christian morality wins.
Going after someone in the red pill space? My man you are freaking brave.
I wouldn't call her "in the red pill space"... Red pill is "you wake up in reality"... blue pill is "you go back to fantasy land".
She's in a different "fantasy land" but still a fantasy land. it's blue pill of a different shade.
Anything that is anti-Christian should be spoken out against, no matter what side of the political aisle it comes from
Red pill is here to stay, especially as long as Christians remain silent on divorce and child custody laws. Because otherwise men have no where else to go.
Trentis is "brave" like a someone coming out as gay is "brave"
These rabid red pill followers are actually attacking him in the comments because they got so sensitive. Lol
8:23 Megha, who has other hits such as "if a man cries at his wedding, he's homosexual" or "if a man goes to therapy, he's homosexual"
In a way these women are like the SJWs of years past.
Therapy for LG tvs, Confession/spiritual director for men.
@@gxhcbchchvfhbxsddvp96trgI think frequent confession would rightfully put the therapy-industrial complex out of business (or, at minimum, a significant decrease to the bottom line which is deserved)
Reading Fulton Sheen's "Peace of Soul" right now where this is a central theme.
@@newglof9558 they could adapt to take a constructive place where the priest shouldn't be, like details on child development or new data on intimate marriage life. When I see psychologists using Mindfulness or psychiatrists numbing people with drugs, I imagine it could work if they included the unavoidable truth of Jesus and the soul.
Pearl is just a troll that puts out outrage bait. It’s all about clicks. Otherwise, she would have serious people like Lila Rose on her show. But she’s not serious at all
“ When we speak of complementarity between man and woman in this context, let us not confuse that term with the simplistic idea that all the roles and relations of the two sexes are fixed in a single, static pattern. Complementarity will take many forms as each man and woman brings his or her distinctive contributions to their marriage and to the formation of their children -- his or her personal richness, personal charisma.”
- Pope Francis, opening address to a Colloquium on the “Complementarity of Man and Woman in Marriage” put together by the CDF in 2014.
I have said this for years, Pearl is sexist and holds the bigotry of low expectations.
How is she sexist?
@@Mashfan6507holds men to lower standards as if theyre not self disciplined enough and man enough not to cheat
@@r.m5883 yeah, that’s the only thing I disagree with her on. However women are far more promiscuous than men and never get called out on it. Women cheat because they’re shallow, men cheat because they’re at the end of their rope and women always withhold sex in marriage. Not saying cheating is good for either sex, but women def withhold sex in marriage as a means of control.
@@Mashfan6507 just explained how in my original comment. She hold men to such a low standard, that of children. She doesn't think they can control themselves and be mature adults.
@@reverendcoffinsotherson5807 I see. While I do agree that’s a way to interpret it, I think she’s also seeing the subtext of the fact it takes a LOT for a man to cheat while a woman will cheat at the drop of a hat.
I would never expect something from my wife that I would not be willing to do myself. As Trent said there are task that men or women maybe better equipped for however better equipped does not mean solely responsible. Both men and women should always strive to make their partners life easier however they can. It is this reasonable distribution of tasks and mutual assistance in those tasks that makes a happy and healthy relationship.
I speak for myself only when I say this, but I think one of the biggest qualities inside masculinity is a dedication to principles and a spirit of rising up and sacrificing to meet challenges/goals. Red pillers never encourage men to be principled unless it makes them money or get them laid, or serve them personally on some level, so Ill never believe they have mens interests at heart when they give their uneducated advice.
When Pearl and Fresh and Fit and all those clowns start telling men that whining about women manipulating men is just taking the same road, then maybe Ill give them a nod, but something tells me thatll never happen.
Trent this was fantastic. God bless you
Roman Catechism of the Council of Trent
The Duties of Married People
The more easily to preserve the holy state (of marriage) from dissensions, the duties of husband and wife as inculcated by St. Paul and by the Prince of the Apostles must be explained.
Duties Of A Husband
It is the duty of the husband to treat his wife generously and honourably. It should not be forgotten that Eve was called by Adam his companion. The woman, he says, whom thou gavest me as a companion. Hence it was, according to the opinion of some of the holy Fathers, that she was formed not from the feet but from the side of man; as, on the other hand, she was not formed from his head, in order to give her to understand that it was not hers to command but to obey her husband.
The husband should also be constantly occupied in some honest pursuit with a view to provide necessaries for the support of his family and to avoid idleness, the root of almost every vice.
He is also to keep all his family in order, to correct their morals, and see that they faithfully discharge their duties.
Duties Of A Wife
On the other hand, the duties of a wife are thus summed up by the Prince of the Apostles: Let wives be subject to their husbands. that if any believe not the word, they may be won without the word by the conversation of the wives, considering your chaste conversation with fear. Let not their adorning be the outward plaiting of the hair, or the wearing of gold, or the putting on of apparel: but the hidden man of the heart in the incorruptibility of a quiet and meek spirit, which is rich in the sight of God. For after this manner heretofore the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him Lord.
To train their children in the practice of virtue and to pay particular attention to their domestic concerns should also be especial objects of their attention. The wife should love to remain at home, unless compelled by necessity to go out; and she should never presume to leave home without her husband's consent.
Again, and in this the conjugal union chiefly consists, let wives never forget that next to God they are to love their husbands, to esteem them above all others, yielding to them in all things not inconsistent with Christian piety, a willing and ready obedience.
Ben Sira 26:1-3,16-19,24
[1]HAPPY is the husband of a good wife: for the number of his years is double.
[2]A virtuous woman rejoiceth her husband: and shall fulfil the years of his life in peace.
[3]A good wife is a good portion, she shall be given in the portion of them that fear God, to a man for his good deeds.
[16]The grace of a diligent woman shall delight her husband, and shall fat his bones.
[17]Her discipline is the gift of God.
[18]Such is a wise and silent woman, and there is nothing so much worth as a well instructed soul.
[19]A holy and shamefaced woman is grace upon grace.
[24]As everlasting foundations upon a solid rock, so the commandments of God In the heart of a holy woman.
1 Timothy 2:9-14
[9]In like manner, women also in decent apparel: adorning themselves with modesty and sobriety, not with plaited hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly attire:
[10]But, as it becometh women professing godliness, with good works.
[11]Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
[12]But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to use authority over the man: but to be in silence.
[13]Adam was first formed; then Eve.
[14]And Adam was not seduced; but the woman, being seduced, was in the transgression.
1 Timothy 3:4-5,11
[4]One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all chastity.
[5]But if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?
[11]The women in like manner: chaste, not slanderers, but sober, faithful in all things.
1 Corinthians 11:3,7-9
[3]But I would have you know that the head of every man is Christ: and the head of the woman is the man: and the head of Christ is God.
[7]The man indeed ought not to cover his head: because he is the image and glory of God. But the woman is the glory of the man.
[8]For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man.
[9]For the man was not created for the woman: but the woman for the man.
Titus 2:3-5,9
[3]The aged women, in like manner, in holy attire, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teaching well:
[4]That they may teach the young women to be wise, to love their husbands, to love their children.
[5]To be discreet, chaste, sober, having a care of the house, gentle, obedient to their husbands: that the word of God be not blasphemed.
[9]Exhort servants to be obedient to their masters: in all things pleasing, not gainsaying:
1 Peter 3:1-7
[1]In like manner also, let wives be subject to their husbands: that, if any believe not the word, they may be won without the word, by the conversation of the wives,
[2]Considering your chaste conversation with fear.
[3]Whose adorning, let it not be the outward plaiting of the hair, or the wearing of gold, or the putting on of apparel:
[4]But the hidden man of the heart, in the incorruptibility of a quiet and a meek spirit which is rich in the sight of God.
[5]For after this manner heretofore, the holy women also who trusted in God adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands:
[6]As Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters you are, doing well and not fearing any disturbance.
[7]Ye husbands, likewise dwelling with them according to knowledge, giving honour to the female as to the weaker vessel and as to the co-heirs of the grace of life: that your prayers be not hindered.
Ephesians 5:22-24,33
[22]Let women be subject to their husbands, as to the Lord:
[23]Because the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church. He is the saviour of his body.
[24]Therefore as the church is subject to Christ: so also let the wives be to their husbands in all things.
[33]Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular love for his wife as himself: And let the wife fear her husband.
Colossians 3:18-21
[18]Wives, be subject to your husbands, as it behoveth in the Lord.
[19]Husbands, love your wives and be not bitter towards them.
[20]Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing to the Lord.
[21]Fathers, provoke not your children to indignation, lest they be discouraged.
Trent, with all due respect, if you think “it shouldn’t be that hard for her to find a traditional guy to marry” you are simply living in an alternate universe. Traditional Catholics finding someone compatible in modern American society is nothing short of a miracle. Do not discount how blessed you are.
Hard agree. It's so hard and I was one of the extremely blessed ones. Without the grace of God I wouldn't be happily married today IMO
Good words. Massive blind spot.
I go to a Catholic Church full of couples who did it the traditional way, from Boomers to Gen-Zers. At the end of Mass, we ask about any “milestones,” and every week you get, “We are celebrating 35 years of marriage,” “We are celebrating 5 years of marriage,” and some college couple that says, “We just got engaged!”
In fact, the friend group I had from HS, there isn’t a single divorce. And about 1/2 of us had parents that divorced when we were kids.
You can find traditional guys and girls if you look for potential spouses in the same places previous generations did, through family connections, religious organizations, and church.
AMEN!!! When it comes to this at least Trent is a blue pill simp. He's a male feminist/beta provider. See my above comment. He has no idea what he's saying. I agree that that many red pill creators encourage sin, but that does not mean they're wrong about the inherent differences between male and female nature.
@@Vaughndaleoulaw Looks at statistics of marriage rates and divorce...WoW! So easy.
I’m glad you made this video trent. I feel like there’s a somewhat strong tendency for Christian personalities to jump onboard with this kind of internet crowd, and it was good to see you push back against it in your usual gracious way
Spouses do and assist each other in the housework because they love one another. I feel pity for someone who sees domestic life as this exchange of commodities.
I hold men to a high standard! Thank you Trent for getting into this. Men are supposed to be leaders then they need to lead in morality and self control as well!
What you can ask for depends on what you can give.
@@gxhcbchchvfhbxsddvp96trgExcept that notion is completely unchristian. We're called to give what isn't deserved just like Christ did for us.
@@WilT2594 not really. Marriage is for children and the spouses have legitimate interests from each other. If you want to give alms, your point applies. For marriage is not only non Christian but irrational. Same as loving a work mate or associate.
@@gxhcbchchvfhbxsddvp96trg Could you elaborate on the last two sentences.
@@abramwarpness6053 the main reason we associate to work is to sustain ourselves and our loved ones. We can still be good to work mates but if you take out the interest we won't associate. Same for marriage. We marry to make life bearable, have children and hopefully make the world better and expect to get the favor back if we're sick and old. Take out physical attraction, children and intimacy and marriage does not occur. Children play separately for a good reason. We find more in common with the same sex except for companionship and children.
I’m tired of todays culture seeing men who can sleep around as masculine and a man who is chaste or loyal as not. My father was never in my life, and he had other children with 2 other women. I’ve meet and been in contact with my half siblings and he wasn’t in their lives either. I never thought to myself “I want to be like him when I’m older.”
As a Catholic woman I’ve always grappled with my place in society and felt that I was being pulled in every direction by both religious and secular forces questioning my dignity, where my worth lies, if I even have any, and feeling the silent rage of having to accept inferiority. Hearing Catholic men like Trent Horn and Michael Knowles push back against some one like Pearl and her ideas has helped heal something in me that is so deeply rooted and damaging and detrimental to my self image. Never in a million years did I imagine men, much less Catholic men, being such a voice of reason and a truly masculine source of protection in how they’ve stood up for women in these conversations. Aside from Pearl’s nonsense, this is all so refreshing.
Catholic men more likely to have more sense of reason and true masculinity than their Protestant brothers. I was a Prot before so I see the difference. Prot men are the toxic anti feminism who fall prey to RedPill content. Catholic men not only have high regards and venerance towards the Blessed Mother, but they also highly venerate female saints such as St. Joan, St. Catherine of Siena, St. Catherine of Alexandria... so with that said, they have higher regards for women than secular and other religious men. There are some Catholic men who swallow up the RedPill, but these are the weak Catholics who tend to fall away from the faith and become Protestant, or they may have just converted to Catholicism and still shaking off the old Prot mindset of women being inferior.
I have never heard such level-headed arguments made about this topic. It is refreshing.
I’m SO glad you made this video.. I found her vids a while ago, and I couldn’t help but feel convicted that what she was doing on the opposite end of the spectrum was equally wrong/damaging. She promotes a certain coldness that isn’t Christ-like.. she doesn’t promote unity among women and men, she promotes the endless cycle of pointing fingers and ascribing responsibility.
I think her videos are a result of deeeep frustration with modern cultural problems, that are very real. But I think her response to those issues is not a Christian, hope-filled response that strives for compassion and understanding and reconciliation. it’s a really sad response. The response of a harsh, hopeless person who has been jaded by the world..
This doesn’t promote love. If you watch her videos, I encourage you to listen for the voice of the Holy Spirit.. one of wisdom and peace.
If it’s not there, stop listening.
I'm catholic and a feminist, when i say feminist, I mean traditional feminism, I don't support whatever modern nonsense is being preached. I believe women should have the choice to do what they want in their lives as long as they aren't going against God's plan for us. Proverbs 31 which a lot of men like to quote saying, We want a proverbs 31 woman well that woman also worked. so it is God's plan for woman to work but naturally if they have kids they have to be their first priority. I would say read the Bible in its entirety to understand God's plan for all of us. It would make everyone's lives much more simpler and peaceful.
I honestly think Pearl is just trolling us, the more stupid things she says the more views she gets. She hast to be doing it just for the money and views and it seems to be working pretty well for her. This is the only logical reason I can think of why she says stuff like that.
Yeah I think you may be right about that. I noticed when she first became popular she was definitely anti -feminism but she didn't seem quite so crazy. Now, she constantly refers to women as being worthless fat w****s and other outrageous claims. I think she's trying to stay relevant. She's also the opposite of what she claims women should be. She's single, she spends all of her time on social media, runs her own business, she isn't a virgin, etc. What right does she have to make claims about how women should be when she is none of the things she claims a woman should be? I certainly wouldnt take advice from Caitlyn Jenner on how to be a good man, so why take advice from Pearl on how to be a good woman?
@@sassychimpanzee7431I don't think she's really even trying to influence women, her core audience is probably young men.
Think think you’re 100% correct. She says bombastic things to get attention and it hurts what’s she’s arguing for more than it helps
That's very simple and dismissive. You can troll while also having these believes. I don't agree with Pearl on everything, but same as stoicism and redpill blah blah, they get some things right in regards to diagnostics, but the prescriptions are wrong a lot of the time and no different than perpetuating hedonism. Yes, her theology is... bad. No different than lots of Catholics but she needs to be guided back. The fact that she recently started to say she is Catholic is a step forward, since previously the past few years she was iffy on it and had no idea on even the difference between Catholics and Prots or I think she was possibly even atheist. But fortunately she has been talking with Rachel, her husband Andrew and Timothy Gordon, there was a show she did with all of them on talking about the history of feminism while also calling out the deficiency of "redpillers". Hey, there are men and women that are looking for structure, even to the point of husband and wife having specific tasks in the household. If the guys wants to be the sole bread winner and the wife wants to cook and get him food at outings etc, that's not wrong either. IF it works for them, that's good. Way better and healthier and more Christian like than the current state of things.
@alfredocornelio4329 I agree with much of what you wrote above. I personally think that Pearl is a net negative because she makes those who genuinely disagree with feminism look like lunatics with some of her statements. That is why so many have asked Pearl to have on a woman like Lila Rose, Allie Beth Stuckey, or Lauren Chen on her show. Someone who is thoughtful and NOT bombastic for its sake. But she refuses to do that because that's not the goal of her show.
As for Rachel Wilson, I agree with you. I will not criticize her and her husband's marital roles as they define them if it works for them.
Where's the call to CHASTITY? If you're not (heterosexually) married to your "significant other," it's NOT CHEATING. You are committing the MORTAL SIN of either fornication or adultery.
True marriage, between ONE Man and ONE wife is the only place where sex is to occur in God's Kingdom.
Good golly. Thank you for commenting on this stuff. This sort of behavior is inconsistent, immoral, and scandalous to the faith. 5:18
I encourage young men and women to ignore this woman. Garbage In Garbage Out. All men and women are children of God and are equally capable of moral and physical self-discipline. For Christian men and women Christ holds us to a higher standard, we may not always meet it but we must continue striving for that goal, that is the journey/struggle of sanctification of our soul, building up our treasure in heaven not on earth.
How can a family unit thrive if the man is cheating? How can a family unit thrive if the man isn’t required to even be there for their children?
How can she say that she cares for the family unit but then tell men not to get married? How can a man have many children with many women, be a family man, if he’s not there for all his children?
Thank you Trent for talking about this. We need more well known and knowledgeable catholic men to talk about this. Especially those who are married :-). Great job
The other day I watched a video of Mohammed Hijab talking about marriage and he said he does keep a record of things his wife "messed up/failed to do" or instances she "disrespected him" and said if she reaches a certain amount of slip ups he will divorce her. Not to mention the now infamous podcast he did where he said it is 100% Islamic to lie to your spouse and get a secret second/third/fourth wife without your first wife knowing. Beautiful religion 🙏🏻
You frame Hijab's story in a negative manner simply because you live in a feminist society with its assumptions meanwhile Hijab and Co can somehow manage to have intact families and filled up mosques whereas your churches are emptying every week and the disenfranchised young are seeing the objectively better results of Islamic teachings and practices of marriage and want that for themselves. Instead of standing in judgement perhaps look into Islam because the time of folks like trent talking down to us and not with us and engaging with our problems is over and we have options.
@@jameswitt108 Sure if you have a cult that marries off young women, allows men to have four wives and you can legally be killed if you leave said cult, it's only natural you guys are growing in numbers 🤷🏼♀️ The west in general is getting more and more irreligious. Also I base my worth as a woman and marriage off of Sacred Scripture, so it's not because I "live in a feminist society" that I find Hijab's behavior disgusting and immoral. Also, how would you know what society I live in?
I like Pearl's videos to a point. Her message is that women need to be held accountable, which I think is reasonable. However, she gives a pass to guys because of some social Darwinism point of view. Men still have a moral code, just like women. Infidelity is horrible, as anyone who is or has been married to a serial cheater can attest. Pearl is not the only CZcamsr who has this perspective, the Fresh & Fit channel is actually worse.
I would love to see Trent Horn on the Fresh and Fed show.
It seems like she says these things because she believes it's what men want to hear. I feel like she has extremely low self-esteem, and has probably had a difficult time getting a boyfriend throughout her life.
I’m not listening to someone which such low self worth and is single herself. Why are you teaching me about what men want but you don’t have a successful relationship/marriage yourself.
Quality content, Trent! This is great, and good to see Christians pushing back on this.
Pushing back against good women?
Kind of sick of so called Christians cherry picking just to judge and look more moderate. Keep that plastic Christian nonsense to yourself.
This bizarre. I’ve never heard of this lady and glad I haven’t. The the most dangerous part is men will hear this stuff and use it as justification against their wives for their bad behavior. She has grains of truth, sure, but at the end of the day we all make the choice. Being a man means rising to the occasion by going against your base desires and putting your wife and family first. You don’t need to be a door mat to do this. You can be a manly leader and still be a virtuous person. Ex St Joseph. So selfless he doesn’t speak a word in the gospels.
I don’t listen to Andrew Tate (like literally ever) but I did see a short of his a long time ago. Some other CZcamsr got some heat for agreeing with the statement which is how I saw it. He basically said that men who do things (like cheat, have multiple partners, treat women badly etc) do it because they have women who allow it and expect it. This lady seems to be the perfect example of a woman who allows (and even expects) men to be the worst version of themselves and will likely create more bad men by essentially encouraging this behavior. Truly shameful to see.
It is not pearl it is the women who cheat with men and others who do nothing about it. I do not excuse men cheating either, it is disgusting and I would not mind laws against it.
Nothing conservative or traditional about being a lecher.
thank you for addressing this Trent!
When the Australian man was asked what his wife does on the weekend while he works and responded "She rests," that was based.
You could feel the genuine, love, care, and respect he has for his wife. That guy was a shining example of true masculinity, and that's the kind of man we should be trying to emulate as an example for our sons to strive to be, and the kind of man our daughters ought to seek.
Man here. XY chromosomes. Was doing dishes while listening to this episode as we prepare our house for sale.
I do label myself as anti-feminist in the secular view of the term for a variety of reasons, but I can never get to the extreme position that people like Pearl or “red pill on verge of black pilled” crowds espouse. Men and women are complimentary beings that have their roles and places, but should not put the other down.
Was just listening to a guy on my podcast who was talking about his relationship with his wife. They have 4 kids, two under the age of 2, and the wife stays home while he works. While he is the head of the household, he would never demean his wife and doesn’t mind doing a few chores (washing dishes is actually his favorite activity) and being with the kids. In fact, being around his kids is the most fulfilling part of his life and he’s excited for the day the youngest (6 month old) starts calling him ‘dada’ and runs to hug him when he gets home like the others currently do. He loves and respects his wife and she loves and respects him, and they work together in providing a stable home for their children.
Men and women need to work together, and society or at least the local communities need to reinforce respect and accountability for both groups. That means being faithful to one’s spouse, respecting the other as a fellow member of God’s family, and appreciate all the little and major things people do for others.
"Narcissist turd" 😂😂😂. Best line
Another common Trent horn W! Thanks for making this video, will definitely be sharing it with some of my friends!!
I think the issue is the younger generation being robbed of human interaction and real world experience by social media and technology.
Great points, Trent. There are some basic elements of biology that predispose the sexes to certain proclivities but moral individuals can and must show the moral backbone to overcome these.
For the record, the Old Testament even excuses some of these (like the books of Kings and Chronicles excusing the many wives and concubines of David and Solomon) but all of these, even the ones like tolerating divorce that Moses wrote, were corrected by Christ in the New Testament.
21:40 "well in that case, nobody should be allowed to vote"
As a monarchist, YES.
It would devastate me if my husband would cheat. We have become one, so it would in no way be "a small thing" to tear us apart.
Someone said it's like throwing a grenade into your family and I agree.
If she ever experienced the kind of relationship where your partner really becomes your other half, she wouldn't think this way.
I agree. Pearl is a very unhappy woman.
Thank you so much for this! We need content like this to cancel out the redpill toxicity... I am constantly shocked by my generation.. prayers for virtuous and charitable men like you! And prayers for Pearl and other woman who contribute to all that toxicity
You have no idea how bad it is. Society is truly on the fast track to destruction. The death of Christendom and the sexual revolution have put the final nails into the coffin that was the nuclear family. The separation of the unative and procreative aspects of the sexual embrace has yielded rotten fruit. I guess that is what happens when you deny God His rightful place of primacy in your life and in your family.
Why should 80% of men participate in a society where the only value they bring is as a replaceable cog in the machine. They are seen *at best* as a last resort by women after they spent their youth chasing the top 10%. No wonder guys are increasingly checking out.
It is to the point where the Church needs to ask the Holy Spirit for help in formulating a new encyclical regarding dating and courtship in the modern social media era. I think that document must drive home the absolute necessity of chastity before marriage. Additionally, It must engage with the biological imperative to hold out for a better option that women feel when exposed to a seemingly limitless opportunity to be used by top 10% of men on social media and apps. It may also need to deal with divorce with an understanding of "no fault" and modern family court practices.
Outside of the Church we as a society need to fight the economic barriers that make young men so seemingly "worthless". They are not seen as viable marriage material until their 30's or later.
Fostering male mentorship opportunities is something that we can do both in the Church and in secular environments as well.
“narcissistic turd” is my new favorite Trent Horn saying
Amazing job Trent. This red pill movement has it's ungodly parts just like feminism. I'm sick of seeing complete adherence to it just like I'm sick of seeing complete adherence to feminism. Also I usually never say this, but I truthfully believe there is grifting involved here too.
Pearl is an ungodly response to an ungodly society, I don't see any problem to what she says, specially with women suffrage
@@damianperez7736 Ok so your solution to a society that lacks God is.... more lack of God? Ok... no wonder we're doomed.
@@sydneemikumuren9812 strawman
Your perspective is nuanced and well thought out. I'm with you!
Pearl is just a grifter, making the most vapid points in the loudest way so that we don't forget who she is. I admire her tenacity and dogged determination in pursuance of her goal to achieve financial success. I'll give her that.
She confuses equality with sameness as most people do. We are only equal in dignity and worth. Other than that we are not equal. God made women & men complimentary and when United raise a family for the good of the spouses and the future of society.