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Marriage redemption after Infidelity because God was Bigger | Unrelenting Pursuit Interview
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- čas přidán 16. 01. 2023
- We had the honor and privilege to interview our friends and fellow ministry partners (Brad & Lisa Valencia). Their story will hit home to some of you who may feel like you are in a crisis currently in your relationship.
Their story is filled with pain, trauma, redemption, forgiveness, and hope.
Please find them on all social media platforms and check out their website for coaching and other resources. Tell them we said Hi, when you reach out to them.
Bio: Brad and Lisa are founders of Unrelenting Pursuit, a ministry specifically focused on using their broken story, and road to reconciliation, to bring hope to marriages. They are passionate about training and equipping marriages to succeed through Podcasting/ Marriage Coaching/ Intensives/ Speaking/and Writing. They have, and continue to see, how God is faithful to transform marriages!
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I can truly identify with w Bras n Liza. This happened to our marriage when my daughter was 11 years old, son 7 years n one on the way. Today we can testify God can restored broken marriage and we can truly says we r more in love than we 1st married. Married for 38 years now.
Praise Jesus!! Thank you for sharing
Thank you for giving us hope
Im going through this right now. I believe in God. ❤
I am going through this now. How long after your spouse left until restored? How long until your spouse told you that they wanted to reconcile and asked for forgiveness?
I saw her FORGIVENESS for him as she watched him tell his story. GOD is AWESOME!!!
Amen! Amen!
So true. 😢
Thank you for sharing! Marriages need HELP!! The enemy is DAILY breaking up families, and we need our testimonies to give others hope. Hope of what the Father can do, examples of His love for allllll of us and the POWER of the Holy Spirit in healing marriages. I work with women in healing from betrayal, which God has opened wonderful doors for me to do so, but I’d love to have an opportunity for my husband and I to share side by side what God has done in our marriage. It’s always His timing, His calling, and His story. 🥰
Thank you for being a help in the Kingdom of God around betrayal. I pray that Gods Will be done in your life and in your marriage. Amen.
I need help with betrayal so so much. These shows help me so much. I feel so alone.. my husband of 23yrs is addicted to porn and sex.. he's living with another woman right across the street from the house we raised our kids in and it's all unreal!! Been a year he's been gone. I keep having dreams he is redeemed and comes home. Is there anyway I can connect with you or someone for support?
Divorced in April, 2022. I pray for his salvation daily. A lot of damage has been done. We were a blended family (he lost his first wife and I had been single for about 12 years). He’s on the fence with God. I know nothing is impossible with God, some days are so hard. Despite some of the stress and anxiety from the relationship, I miss him and my (step) kids. I enjoy listening to anything that gives me hope. 💜🙏
Thanks for sharing this. We are praying for you guys. For his heart, mind and open eyes and ears to see himself and God the way that God sees.
Thank you again for watching these videos.
We are cheering you on.
Kevin & I are in the exact same boat. It is down to the wire. I too had a divine intervention as Lisa had to stay obedient, i too argued with God not wanting to go through it all again. But i want to be whole & obedient to Him, thus; we have taken a leap of faith n together requested the DV to be cancelled, 2 weeks to final hearing. Thank for the hope😊
Praise the LORD!! Thank you for sharing this. I pray for this restoration!! Get support as you do this. You can reach out to us for that support as well. Or find a mentor couple who loves you , loves Jesus and loves marriages to walk beside you.
This gives me hope for the reconciliation of my marriage.
Thank you so much for sharing this with us! There is hope! It’s found in giving Jesus all the control. Keep giving over to Him and let Him work. That’s when the miracles can happen. We just have to get out of the way.
Sounds just like my husband, full of insecurities and getting attention from someone who’s feeding his ego. He is still choosing a separate life unfortunately. He is not a believer. I pray for him to find God.
Beautiful and raw testimony. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you also for sharing where you are as well. I will pray also that God will rescue your husbands heart.
The transparency and rawness of Brad and Lisa. They are inspiring! Thank you God for their marriage and legacy!
My husband is at that exact place.. shutting everyone out and living with the other woman. Even filed for a divorce.. I've tried all manner of intervention but he won't budge.. praying for a miraculous turn around
Just stay in there. The tide will turn soon.
It’s sounds to me like you are a police officer. I say this because you described my husband exactly. He is an officer and before getting on the SWAT team he was a totally different person. It’s like once he became a SWAT member he had to live up to this standard and he was never good enough. But God!!! Hearing your testimony really gave me just that much more hope in knowing that no matter who’s influencing you or what your career is nobody is too far gone. God Bless you.
Amen! Thank you for sharing! And so thankful you found more hope in this. I’m praying for you and cheering you on in your marriage.
I am so thankful for them. Their story came at a time where I didn’t realize that God was placing it in my life for a reason because i was in the same place and very similar situation. We are amidst reconciliation by the grace of GOD!
Praise Jesus you are in this process of reconciling!! Thank you for sharing this great news!
This is by far the best testimony of marriage restoration I have heard. THANK YOU for your transparency. To God be the glory.
Thanks for the comment and your acknowledgment!
Ditto! ❤
I trust in God. I believe in Him. I know He works in His way. I TRUST IN YOU LORD.❤
Amen!! Amen!
This speaks to me in such a way. 16 years and 3 kids. Mistakes on both sides including an emotional affair I had 5-6 years ago which turned physical while we were separated back then for a little bit. I asked for forgiveness and came home, i looked for help and did therapy, we moved on but she never wanted or accepted help, counselling, nothing, and now blames it all on me, never forgave anything. One year ago after a big fight she came and told me she wanted the divorce the next day, saying nobody can change. Her family did nothing because they are afraid of her. I am now alone, far away from home (I moved continents to be with her), no family or friends after she got rid of the problem, me. I am heartbroken and facing the hardest decision, should I stay or should I go back as it has been a year already and no changes. 💔
She does not want God in our lives and has always rejected it, that is why I became apart from him. I am walking with the Lord now, otherwise I wouldn't be here. I pray for restoration and a change of heart in her but it seems impossible.
Dear @rockotovip6750,
I'm truly sorry to hear about the pain and heartbreak you're experiencing in your marriage. It's clear that you've been through a lot, and I understand how difficult it must be for you.
It's admirable that you've sought forgiveness, gone through therapy, and made efforts to reconcile. It's unfortunate that your wife hasn't been open to receiving help or counseling. I can only imagine how challenging it must feel for you, especially being far away from your support system.
I want to encourage you to continue relying on your faith and walking with the Lord during this difficult time. God can provide you with the wisdom, discernment, and strength you need to navigate this season of your life. Remember that change and restoration are possible, even when it seems impossible to us. Keep praying for a change of heart in your wife, and trust that God is working in ways that we may not fully understand.
In making a decision about whether to stay or go back, it's important to consider what is best for you and your children in the long run. Seek guidance from trusted friends, family, or a counselor who can provide you with objective perspectives and support.
Please know that I'm praying for you, your wife, and your marriage to experience healing and restoration according to God's plan. May God grant you the strength, wisdom, and discernment needed to make decisions that align with His will. Take care of yourself, and may you find the clarity and healing you seek.
Travis
What a powerful testimony. I couldn’t stop crying. God is indeed a God of restoration 🙏🏽. Nothing is impossible with the Living God!
Amen and thank you for sharing what you got from it. I pray healing and restoration over your relationship and your heart! ❤️🩹Thank you for your support!
I’m watching this as an unmarried follower of Christ. Glory to Christ for you all and your families and what he has gotten you all through. Continue always making these videos for the single, unmarried, and those who are in these situations.
Amen! Thanks for this encouragement and love! Praise God for you and your future. I pray Gods Will for your future.
I feel this, my husband wants a divorce after 14 years of marriage. We argued a lot but I didn’t let it get to me we used to always work on things. I found out he cheated on me and he just wants to move on. I know it’s the devil and I truly believe god can restore him and bring him back.
I pray for restoration of your heart, his heart and your marriage. I pray that Gods will be done.
He wants to leave, let him
I just love Brad and Lisa's testimony.I love their radical guardrails .Adelle & Travis ,thank You for this interview .The work You are doing is great .
Aren’t they great! We just love their transparency and willingness to help others. You are very welcome. Thanks for commenting!
I believe and trust that God will do miracles restore my marriage.
Amen! I pray healing and restoration over your marriage and heart!
Thank you for this video. Its encouraging. Separated from my wife for almost a year. Praying and believing God that He will mend our marriage. Thank you again for your ministry.
You are welcome and thank you for the acknowledgments. I’m praying for Gods Will to be done in your marriage.
Thanks a lot for this testimony. Makes me understand what my husband is going through
You are so welcome
Thank you! God is getting the glory from your testimony. You both have blessed and encouraged me. 🙏🏽
Thanks for sharing this! So thankful this encouraged you! Praise the LORD.
Awesome testimony.
God first
God is greatl.
Hallelujah to our King.
Amen!! 🙏
I really needed this video I'm actually going through the exact same thing the couple's talking about I have been so confused and lost on what should I do about my marriage it sometimes when you're going through it you feel like you're the only person this video really helped me a lot thank you again for sharing❤
Thanks for sharing this. Yes often when going through trials it can seem so lonely. And the enemy tries to make us isolate. I pray for peace over you, your thoughts and actions. I pray that Gods will be done in your heart and in your marriage. In Jesus name. Amen
You channel is a real blessing! Very powerful testimony! I am going through the process of divorce at the present time and I truly need this. Thank you
Thank you for this blessing and acknowledgment. God bless you and I pray for healing in your heart and that God’s Will be done in the name of Jesus.
Please pray for me and my husband. I just found out on 6/9/24 that my husband had an affair. My heart is broken 💔 I am grieving my marriage of 15 years.
I’m praying for both of your hearts and healing
My husband left me 11 years ago because i serve God he said he hate me and God all my children are backslidden because of him we are not divorce because God said he is a chosen instrument we suppose to be married this dec 30 years i will remain in Christ my Lord wether he come back home or not Christ is now my husband He loves me and takes care of me Glory to The Most High God
This hurts my heart. I’m praying over your heart for peace and unity in Jesus name.
God is able to restore your children back to Him and save your husband. Time is not a factor to God. He is never late.
Thanx i believe nothing is too hard for God Amen
I love you both for your testimonies. It is touching so many. Thank God for you both. God bless your family.
Thank you so much!
Amen, this so powerful 🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏❤❤❤ Thank you Jesus Christ!!! ❤❤❤
Amen!
I was mad at him at first but now I’m actually more understanding
It takes a lot to get here and I want to acknowledge you for this! Being understanding of your spouses hurtful actions takes a humble heart and a lot of empathy and wisdom. Keep leaning into that! There is healing and freedom there! ~Adelle
I love his vulnerability 😢 thank you
Isn’t it great!?
I would give anything to have my ex back after hurting him so badly. It has been 13 years and we are great friends but I have done too much damage and neither of us have god in our lives so I’m sure it is not possible. I’m so broken.
Thank you for your vulnerability and your comment. God is in the business of miracles. I can’t think of anything He can’t do.
He would want to tend to your heart ❤️. God would want the opportunity to speak life and love into you.
Seek Him. He is always there. His is a still, soft voice. It’s loving and NEVER condemning.
It’s never too late to run to Him. I’m praying for your heart and for Gods will to be done in your life and relationships. God bless you.
Beautiful Holy Spirit couple!
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All Glory to Almighty God in Christ Jesus' name through the Power of His Holy Spirit Amen.
May Almighty God continue to Bless you and your precious family and ministry in Christ Jesus' name Amen.
Amen! Amen!
My husband served me divorce papers and now shut down and won’t even talk. He’s too busy being influenced by family and friends instead of working on our marriage. We’re currently separated with no communication at all
Thank you for sharing this. That is painful to hear and I’m sure your heart is hurting. I pray peace over you and that Gods Will be done in your life and heart and in your husbands life and heart in the name of Jesus.
I wish this would work for me. My wife is not a believer and has left me and filed for divorce. My porn addiction was just one symptom out of many.
I am praying for her heart to be turned toward God, your marriage to be restored, and your relationship reconciled in Jesus name.
Repent and be baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ for the remission of your sins.
I've already done that, Gina. But thank you for assuming I haven't.
Please pray for Floyd and me
I can't wait to reach out to you!
We look forward to hearing from you!!
This is so good. ❤
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How long after reconciliation did you both start placing up boundaries/guard rails? Did you come up with the list together? How long did it take for you all to decide to move forward with the reconciliation after the phone call to your wife? Do you guys offer coaching sessions? My situation is so similar and would love some insight
Hey there… boundaries and safeguards should be agreed upon by both spouses and they are best done with a coach or therapist who knows how to do this. Schedule a time with us and we will be glad to help in your next steps: thenoblemarriage.com/marriage-coaching
@@TheNobleMarriage would it be beneficial to still schedule a coaching session even though we haven’t reconciled yet? My spouse has talked about it but also has said “when I move back home” but no talk about a date to move back home. Then after denying for months about OW I finally found out there has been OW and there was no real repentance. So not sure how to move forward to ensure best outcome for restoration
@@lizoliveira2167yes!! I think it would be an excellent next step to schedule a time with us. And if he will agree to be on the call. It’s even better. We won’t talk about boundaries or safeguards though. It’s not the right time for that. We will talk about navigating next steps in a healthy God honoring way.
@@TheNobleMarriage I think it would just be me on the call. I would really need to explain my situation to see how to navigate as sin is still blinding him
My wife who I have been with for 20 years woke up one morning and suddenly was no longer in love with me. Then she packed her stuff and moved out. I still love her just as much today as I did when we first started dating. (if not more) We have 3 kids together. Now she is asking for a divorce and I don't want one. But she is acting like the last 20 years never happened. How do I get her to fall in love with me again so that she would want to come home. I don't want a divorce.
Problem I have is she has moved into her friends house who has constantly been telling her, "You can do better" and "he's only doing this now"
I can't hardly eat or sleep. Food just has no taste anymore, Their is no warmth or joy in our home anymore since she walked out the door from me and the kids. I still love her just as much as I did when we first started our relationship, if not more.
The love I have for her is just as strong and as powerful as it ever was. So I keep praying that God will step in and ignite the fire in her heart once again so that she will want to come home.
When I see her face. Or I hear her voice. I feel excited and happy and sad and scared and hopeful and anxious all at the same time. You know real love. I've tried everything I can to get over her. And then I see our girls and fall in love with her all over again.
Man I can really hear your pain in this! I pray for strength right now and resilience as you are walking through this betrayal. It’s hard, it’s hurtful and it’s so confusing when you didn’t see it coming. We are releasing a video on the 9/12 about why our spouse falls out of love or no longer is attracted to you anymore. It’s powerful and very eye opening. We even answer the question “ how do I get my spouse to fall back in love with me”. In the meantime, I’m praying for peace to wash over you and that it will guard your heart and mind. For wisdom and discernment, that your every word is soft, gentle and loving because that’s who Jesus would want you to be. The second thing is pray. Pray that her eyes will be opened and the veil will be lifted from her eyes. Pray for God to rescue her heart and renew her love for you. These are some of the prayers we prayed. Prayer works! There is hope on the other side. Just release control over this and turn it over to Him. He will do the rest. Be patient on His timing… and let Him work.
@@TheNobleMarriage I just can't go on anymore. I'm trapped in darkness because she holds my light. Being without her by my side is like a piece of my soul has been taken away. Please God forgive me for what I am about to do. It just hurts too much.
@@dilligaff1979 I know it feels like you’ll never get through this, but you will! Don’t do something you will regret or that will have an even bigger ripple effect. You are a precious child of God. I encourage you to run to him rather than try to escape the pain. He there waiting for you! Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing just how hard this is for you. I’ve been there and remember the pain vividly. I’m covering you in prayer!
@@TheNobleMarriage Thank you.
Don’t make her, just pray like you never prayed before. Only god can change her heart. I’m going through things with my own husband, he wants a divorce and move on but I haven’t gave up, I pray and pray like I never prayed before I seen miracles and i believe god can preform miracles like yours and mine. Keep praying.
I can't agree enough with what you said about the arrogance
I understand prey and letting GOD do the work.
But when a man of GOD tells his daughter to go steady in the affair....makes me wonder.
The only thing I can think is that when you give your blessing to something.
Really what happens is GOD deals with that blessing in a different way.
Thank you for sharing this.
what is the name of the book she talks about of tatics of the enemy to leave you bitter and discouraged.
Hey. It’s The Bait of Satan by John Bevere
@@TheNobleMarriage Thank you!
Please pray for me to come closer to Jesus. I've fallen short in my marriage. I was not a Godly husband to Mt Chinese Budhust wife. We've been separated for 111 days. Pray for her salvation, and that I will be who God wants me to be for him and then her.
I feel broken inside.
Thank you, and God bless you all.
Toby
I’m praying for God to intervene in your life and bring wisdom and guidance for you. That Jesus will open your eyes to see His Truth.
The prodigal son story gets me every time. I see my entire life as a return home to God. The love he has for us is unmatched. Thank you so much for sharing this ❤
Well said!
My husband filed for annulment because of my faith in Christ where he is a Roman catholic he filed a case giving special power of attorney to his parents as they dont like me, they filed on me saying i misrepresented myself and dint tell him that im not a Roman catholic but he and his parents knew that im a believer in Christ as we dated for 1 and half year before our marriage. Its going to be 2 years in 5 months for our marriage, he filed for annulment on the 9th month after our marriage. I dont know what to do. But i thought il give a written statement as a have thought to reply in order to save my marriage. Floyd is not talking to me since 9 months now
Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing. I can’t imagine the heartache this would bring to you. I’m so sorry. I’m praying that God would strengthen you and give you peace and wisdom in this season. I pray for your husband and his heart also. That his heart would soften and open and his eyes and ears would be open to see and hear what Gods will is for him. I pray for Gods will to be done. In Jesus name amen.
What’s the name of the book that Lisa read
The Bait of Satan by John Bevere
Thank you! This was an amazing testimony. The safeguard apps that he mentioned, can you tell me what they are?
Thank you for watching! The apps we use regularly is Covenant Eyes. This app helps protect any device you put it on (we recommend all devices). Here is the link to take a look: www.covenanteyes.com WE have a code to enjoy 30 days free
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@@TheNobleMarriage thank you! I need more than just protection from porn for my husband of 27 years who recently confessed infidelity that has been going on for years. I need an app that helps with complete transparency (texts, location, websites, etc). Does this app do that? Or do you have other recommendations?
@@915sunnynot that I’m aware of. This would require a humble heart and building of trust. I’ll send a link for a video I recommend you both watch together. I’ll post it next in the comments
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@@TheNobleMarriage Thank you again so much. Do you have a link or email where I can send a private prayer request?
What’s the name of the book you read on forgiveness?
I will ask and get back with you when I find out.
Bait of Satan by John Bevere
Thank you Lord Jesus Christ for restoration in my marriage with Floyd Custodio Goes my husband in advance
The husband here is so humbled by sharing his testimony. I praise Jesus for sharing and encouraging married couple.
This blessed me and I am standing on covenant marriage in Jesus name. Only death separates the union. Any marriage secondary to covenant marriage while spouse is living is adultery says the LORD.
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Is this also for some one in relationship for ten years and to be married and then everything fell Apart. Some one get back to me.
God can redeem anything!
When u already divorce but getting back together again thats zina
Please What apps do you use to protect/block your phone/devices?
Hey great question: we recommend using Covenant Eyes. I’ve been using them since 2018 and love it. There are others you can use also. If you do choose Covenant Eyes, use promo code: THENOBLEMARRIAGE for 30days free. Either way, having software is very effective and helpful if used properly.
Would y’all pray with me for my son Michael and my daughter in law shalexus to be save and their marriage to be restored they are young in their twenties and both are seeing other people and it’s heart breaking they have a child they both grew up in church
Amen! I come into agreement with this in the name of Jesus
Do you accept prayer request?
Jim, it would be an honor. Please let us know how we can pray for you?
I have been standing for marriage restoration for 18 months - my wife walked filed for divorce and it was finalized 10/22..I believe Our God is faithful to draw her and to soften her heart and bring her to repentance for the healing of her heart and soul wounds and for her salvation....thank you. This prayer request is for Maria....
Jim, I do believe God desires restoration in marriage covenants. And I feel His priority above marriage is your and Maria’s hearts first.
I pray that God would supernaturally work in both your hearts to be whole and complete and having a vertical relationship with Him. Then I ask for His will to be done in both your lives, hearts and relationships. That forgiveness take place for each other and for yourselves, and then I pray reconciliation be done for both of you. I pray His Will be done in both your lives and that He get the glory. Romans 8:28
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
in Jesus name. Amen.
Cheering you on Jim! (Travis)
8/20/2007😔🙏
Can I send him my husband's number ?
Hello, thanks for the comment. If you are referring to wanting your husband to talk with Brad from Unrelenting Pursuit, here is their website to contact them: unrelentingpursuit.org/
@The Noble Marriage thank you I appreciate it.
Is this a joke
No.. not a joke. An authentic interview of pain, trauma, broken covenant of marriage, repentance, forgiveness and restoration of the covenant. Praise God.