He Left...I Stood...But God

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
  • We all hope and say , "till death due us part", but what happens when the winds come, the storm grows and the water becomes a tsunami? Well, that is an even better time to trust God and depend on him in all things....
    The challenges do come and we must all be able to find the thing that keeps us bound together as one. After all we promised before God, not just the people, but God and only him is it our job to please. While yes we wait for the prodical to come home, do we also allow God in his fulness to father us along the way.
    Be encouraged..
    An UnCommon Love
    Our Restoration Ceremony:
    • The Restoration Ceremony
    More available resources and links to help your stand...
    link from the Restoration Marriage Ministries podcast where we were asked to be guests.
    rejoiceministr....
    "WOP" Woman of Purpose link (Adrienne is guest speaker)
    vimeo.com/5874...
    Also, from the prodical side, there is a series of "Restoration of a man" on the imdealingwith podcast. This is where Shon quickly and transparently goes through the process of leaving home and God returning him back to the fold.
    The links for "Restoration of a Man" series on ImDealingWith
    • "Restoration of Man" t...
    • "Restoration of a Man"...
    • Restoration of a man I...
    • "Restoration of a Man"...

Komentáře • 308

  • @katoyajenkins6116
    @katoyajenkins6116 Před 2 lety +80

    My God I feel the same way. My husband left me and our 5 children after 10 years of marriage. I continue to pray that he will return, I pray that God deals with his heart and his mind. I've been praying for restoration ever since. I sometimes struggle with wither or not I want to get back with him, but I know I'm in love with my husband and my kids miss him as do I. So no I'm not gonna let the devil steal my family and this wayward woman has to release my husband in the mighty name of Jesus. I declare and decree my husband will come home whole, healed, renewed, and the man of God that he has been called to be.

    • @leuveniapolk4928
      @leuveniapolk4928 Před 9 měsíci +5

      In Jesus name, your marriage is restored. God loves your faithfulness.

  • @stacya5292
    @stacya5292 Před 2 lety +73

    One thing I found is that it is difficult to find people even in the church that will stand with you in fighting for your marriage.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +11

      I believe there is a remnant of people who will go to God on your behalf...look right here in the chats and discussions, you are definitely not alone.🙏

    • @shelli523
      @shelli523 Před rokem +6

      Look for “Covenant Keepers”

    • @CrystalHawkins548
      @CrystalHawkins548 Před rokem +1

      True!

    • @VeronicaLegaspi-ri9nb
      @VeronicaLegaspi-ri9nb Před 19 dny +1

      True.I experienced also I felt left out by everybody.

  • @TheDevineFempress
    @TheDevineFempress Před 2 měsíci +8

    He so lucky that she stood for their marriage because she’s a beautiful woman … God bless your renewal

  • @laceyferrel8123
    @laceyferrel8123 Před rokem +42

    Love this so much!!!!! My marriage restored, ours was definitely different, my husband was at home but our marriage turned Terrible and my husband was struggling with drug use. God is good, the storm was worth it, life is better now
    THANK YOU LORD GOD!!!

  • @1kings861
    @1kings861 Před měsícem +3

    33 months today and I feel like you’re telling MY story! Not about my husband but about my personal journey and growth and how GOD has completely transformed ME! This is such a WORD! ❤

  • @tinamichelle6969
    @tinamichelle6969 Před rokem +20

    I just found your channel. I'm divorced and I have a strong belief that God is going to restore my marriage. I know I heard God tell me to talk with my husband and don't worry about the other woman

  • @beckyagrispin3375
    @beckyagrispin3375 Před 2 lety +81

    Some of your journey I can relate to, my husband left my me and our two teenage boys after 18yrs,It’s been a year and a half . My husband now lives with his gf and her kids💔 I’m trying to just continue to put God first and to remember what his word says. I have good days and I have bad days. This gives me hope❤️

    • @elietepanzo9957
      @elietepanzo9957 Před 2 lety +3

      Same here....My husband did the same.

    • @elietepanzo9957
      @elietepanzo9957 Před 2 lety +7

      If it wasn't for God....I would no how to get up in the morning. I'm a single mother with 3 young boys

    • @heatherjohnson4652
      @heatherjohnson4652 Před 2 lety +14

      She’s not a “gf” but a strange woman interfering with covenant and can be removed!Luke 17:6… anything not planted by the father WILL BE UPROOTED by the root…let every husband to his own wife! Take your authority back

    • @victoriousjemimah5169
      @victoriousjemimah5169 Před 8 měsíci

      @@heatherjohnson4652 amen amen

    • @rosiecook-askins2382
      @rosiecook-askins2382 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@heatherjohnson4652My husband did the same thing at the pressure from his mother who is the OW in our situation

  • @barbieanndalby7544
    @barbieanndalby7544 Před 11 měsíci +10

    Great testimony😇😇 Praise Jesus🙌🙌My parents marriage is restored too afger nine years and now my marriage is struggling my husband wont come home but i belelieve that the God who restored my parents marriage is the samw God will restore my marriage too forHe is the same God yesterday today and forever ❤❤ Standing in my marriage with the help of My Abba father 🙌🙌

  • @Anna_Gtz
    @Anna_Gtz Před 3 hodinami +1

    I just wanted to say thank you both for sharing your testimony.
    I was crying the whole time. Im here September 11, 2024. Standing for my marriage. Ive looked desperately for a testimony that would speak into my standing until i found yours. It lifts me up.
    I too never wanted the process. As you said its what he wanted .. but im standing on God's word.
    Plz pray family of God for us.
    God bless everyone standing for your prodigal spouse.ay the Lord strengthen you as you stand 🙏

  • @kellibrown-ui7qp
    @kellibrown-ui7qp Před 18 dny +3

    I am still praying for my marriage. I’m still praying for restoration.
    Please continue to join me in prayer for my husband, Chad to leave the other woman go back to God come back to his marriage

  • @shellyallgood
    @shellyallgood Před 2 lety +14

    Thank you so much for your testimony. I have been standing for our marriage for 5 years and standing for his full surrender to Christ for 27 years. He is running from his calling to preach. Even though there is an OW, I am standing for her salvation as well.
    What I hold true in my heart is that God is true to his promises. These past 5 years have been heart wrenching, but I have never enjoyed God more. Bless you both.

  • @baugherchrystal3958
    @baugherchrystal3958 Před 2 lety +30

    I can’t wait to hear his perspective.. what he was feeling and going through. So thankful for your obedience and HIS faithfulness!!! God is not a man that He should lie!

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you for tuning in... I did a 4 part perspective on imdealingwith channel called "Restoration of a man". Stay blessed and more to come... Be encouraged🙏

  • @wrrsmith
    @wrrsmith Před 2 lety +35

    The word “testimony” in Hebrew is 'Aydooth' which means 'do it again with the same power and authority'. God knows, I needed this. I’ve been standing for 3 years now. My husband walked out on me and our kids twice, in 2016 for 5 months, then walked out again in 2019, both times for an ow. It has been the hardest thing I’ve ever endured, but God has been walking me through this daily. It’s something when you go to God with all of the wrong that your spouse did, and God, as faithful as He is, points at you and reminds you that you weren’t perfect either, and then He starts teaching you how to be the wife that you weren’t so that now you are able to look at your spouse differently, the way that God sees them because you realize that you aren’t perfect. I appreciate that God is so faithful that He is a restorer and He uses people like you to tell your testimony to encourage people like me when we need it the most. When I hear a testimony of how faithful to His word God is, I say Lord do it again with the same power and authority. May God continue to bless you both in your marriage, and in your ministry. I look forward to hearing more of your testimony and your encouragement.

  • @my.0224
    @my.0224 Před rokem +10

    I’m single and waiting for marriage and this testimony has blessed me.

  • @saquayadenoto6058
    @saquayadenoto6058 Před 2 lety +50

    Amen 🙏🏾 and to God we give all the glory. My husband and I have been separated for 3 years and 3 months now. I’m still standing and trying to keep the faith. I just want to say thank you both for y’all testimony and may God continue to strengthen y’all union and y’all ministry. Sometimes it hard to say Lord take all the time You need but besides God, my heart is with and for my husband and the restoration of our marriage and family so I don’t have any other choice but to wait upon the Lord.

    • @glorymarieministries2381
      @glorymarieministries2381 Před 2 lety +3

      Same here 3 years. God is our strength

    • @wrrsmith
      @wrrsmith Před 2 lety +6

      Hey Saquaya, so glad to see that you are still standing. I’m still standing too, God gives me strength daily, it’s not easy but with God, it is definitely possible. I believe God and His word. I remember that our husbands left around the same time so it’s been 3 years for me as well. Stay strong, hold on because it’s coming. I’ll continue to pray for you and I ask that you pray for me too. God bless!

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +6

      This is what it i all about, a community of like minded people coming together to encourage and build up each other. The enemy would lead all to believe that they are all by themselves and as you all can see there are hundreds and even thousands going through similar issues dealing with marriage. Stay strong, keep encouraging, keep believing, trust God through it all and he shall bring it to pass.."Prove me" he says...So I say stand in all that you have and ask God to show up. Be blessed

    • @lenorareed6023
      @lenorareed6023 Před 2 lety +1

      Hi I'm So Inspired By Your Testimony... I've Been Married for 22 years..My Husband had 3 Women he was Cheating on Me with..I had no idea about how intense it was...I asked God to Reveal to me whether or not he was Cheating on Me.. and I was not prepared for what I was going to be faced with.. And 1(24) years old He had her in my House Numerous Times ... I'm Broken.. Please Please Please Respond Back To Encourage Me...

    • @dorothyanderson7656
      @dorothyanderson7656 Před 2 lety +8

      @@lenorareed6023 Stand firm and believe that the Lord knows what's best for you. Know one can tell you whether it's best for you to stay or leave but the Lord. Pray, fast, and stand firm. Don't do anything not even take one step until the Lord tells you what to do. As long as you are obedient to Him and Him only you will not only survive but you will live. I know you are hurting like nothing has ever hurt you before. Probably like you want to die. You will not die but you will live. I am praying for you. Know that you are not alone. God loves you and so do I.

  • @DrLadyMagne
    @DrLadyMagne Před 2 lety +10

    “It was worth it.” Hallelujah! Still standing!

  • @myishacooper5838
    @myishacooper5838 Před 2 lety +9

    Not Married Yet! but when it does, I'm being given tools by God!! Thank you so very Much for sharing a hurtful, vulnerable time in your lives!!!

  • @tondray4037
    @tondray4037 Před 2 lety +19

    Thank you for sharing your story. I am standing for my marriage.. it’s been hard…. Your story gives me hope and encouragement.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +1

      You are so welcome and thank you for taking the time to watch and listen. I trust this content brings value and encouragement to you in your stand.

    • @1kings861
      @1kings861 Před 28 dny

      GOD IS ABLE AND HIS TIMING IS PERFECT!!!

  • @mimibrown7920
    @mimibrown7920 Před 2 lety +23

    I find you today while a major door has been opened for me. I have been standing for 7 years. Communication is happening. I find your testimony touching. I am extremely nervous honestly with how to handle this new part of my journey but I do feel encouraged to keep trusting God and that we have made it to this point for a reason. Thank you so much.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +6

      God does not open a door you cannot walk through, hold your head up, square your shoulders back, trust God and allow him to navigate you through. We are believing for the next chapter of your journey. "Now Go" God has you

    • @becs0331
      @becs0331 Před 2 lety +9

      Mimi Brown: Praise God! I'm exactly where you are too! After standing for over 7 years, out of nowhere, my husband (ex) had started calling me nearly every day and we're now seeing each other at his recommendation for the past 6 months. Restoration is here. I know it because God told me to expect it after 7 years.... But it's scary and unnerving. I'm always leery of my husband reaching out thinking he's just going to use me like he did in the past. But I'm trusting God in this new season that He will set everything in order, protect my heart and bring my husband to repentance. He's still with the OW but seems there's trouble there. Manipulation and control. They have a 6 year old together and so i think he's only there out of obligation. I believe I'll see a miracle of how God will finally put an end to that thing. But I the meantime, my husband is opening up to me about it all and as hard as it is to hear about his life with those other family, the Lord keeps telling me to "JUST LISTEN." So I do and I continue to answer when my husband calls. God bless you sister. I'd love to hear updates on your progress/restoration. ☺

    • @mimibrown7920
      @mimibrown7920 Před 2 lety

      @@becs0331 I'm finding your message right on time lol. Update for you God is building our friendship. We were best friends for over 6 years before dating and marriage. The friendship meant the most to me during our separation and divorce. The silence killed me but God. Its weird to see all the notifications of messages from him honestly and not be met with anger and coldness. Instead I'm met with warmth, laughter, peace. We talk and see each other often. He is also remarried with a 3 year old son and 10 year old step daughter. We have a 8 year old together. I understand that feeling of being leery and for me I doubt alot lol. But I like what you said you just keep answering. No matter what we must keep answering God and answering our husbands. Any updates from you? I'm happy to hear from you. Btw watch the live stream it was awesome.

    • @becs0331
      @becs0331 Před 2 lety +2

      @@mimibrown7920 that's awesome that God is reconnecting you! It's hard that's he's married, but no denying God is in it, rebuilding your connection while he deals with the obstacles on your behalf! My ex completely gave his life to the Lord around Easter. And it wasn't any of my doing.. God was working on his heart. Since then my ex went to a healing/deliverance session at a local church and wanted me to come. He had a great breakthrough with some pain he went through years ago when he first left me. That was great! He also cries when he talks about the Lord. He is changing and its amazing. He comes to me all the time asking for godly advice about many things and recently called me a blessing and his anchor! Things are rocky with him and his sons mom but he hasn't left there yet. But God is pulling him to leave and gave someone a prophetic word for him that he needs to leave that situation. He said he knows he has to but seems to brush it under the rug until it gets bad between them again. The enemy is fighting to keep him bound there, but I know that will come to an end in due time. I'm so confident God has this and is in it 100%. We have such a great connection and have built new respect and trust. The foundation needed for a new marriage! The final breakthrough of God removing the OW is coming!! Thanks for reaching out! I'll be praying for you! God is able!! Hallelujah!

    • @tnj4ever
      @tnj4ever Před 2 lety +1

      @@becs0331 wow. Was he always an unbeliever? I'm interesting in hearing more.

  • @aidaguillen6337
    @aidaguillen6337 Před 2 lety +15

    I’m almost in tears, I hope one day I can be in the same place. Thank you so much for sharing. Of course that encouraged me. I’m doing all this on my own. No one to pray for me, juste God and me.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +5

      Much appreciate for feedback and tuning in..God is the only person you need..You are not alone however, nor will you be left to believe your the only one going through this. As you can see in the comments, there are so many both male and female trying to navigate through this process. We will continue to keep you in our prayers and help through this process. Be blessed, stay encouraged and keep believing.

    • @sapphiremoon1674
      @sapphiremoon1674 Před 2 lety +2

      I will pray for you and feel free to reach out or leave an email if you would like to have a prayer partner. I'm in the same position. Blessings and prayers for you.

    • @sharonyates4971
      @sharonyates4971 Před 2 lety

      Praying for you and your relationship Dear 💕 you not alone!

  • @ntanco
    @ntanco Před 9 měsíci +3

    Exactly! This is what I’m understanding in my standing for my marriage, the process is necessary! It’s hard unbelievable hard at times but worth it at the end! I will continue to believe my marriage is restored in Jesus name!

  • @hopefulgal
    @hopefulgal Před 2 lety +8

    This popped up on my feed out of no where, on a day when I am feeling hopeless and scared. I have been standing for over 6 years. Three of those were in my flesh, the last three with God., divorced over 4 years. I misinterpreted signs from my husband that I thought were steps towards a possible connection again. He has no interest in me or our family healing and being restored.I pray for Gods will for me….do I stay in faith that restoration of my marriage and family is Gods will….or does God want something else for me. I am working on my restoration with Jesus on a daily basis. I know I am not alone, yet I feel very alone. So alone. Maybe my marriage and family ( which is my 3 boys) won’t be intact again.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +3

      Do not give up hope trust God through it all. Regardless of what it looks like... God's got you... Trust him.. 🙏

  • @LizToro0512
    @LizToro0512 Před 2 lety +10

    Goosebumps listening to this. I love our God!!!

  • @smcdade4577
    @smcdade4577 Před 2 lety +12

    Your story of hope & restoration is incredible! Bless you both for being obedient to share your testimony to let those who believe know that The Most High is a keeper & all is not lost, no matter what we see or think!

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for tuning in..God is so good and faithful even when we are sometimes not..Continue to pray for us as we pray for all of you.

  • @colt4573
    @colt4573 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Crazy story. I’m going through it now. My wife asked for “space” 2 months ago and now started talking about leaving. I feel compelled to stand, but it’s so hard and painful.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 5 měsíci +2

      Trust God in it all, go back and remember why you choose to marry, why it was here and not someone else and think on the good things. Stay encouraged, put God first, be a living light to her and watch God work. You are not alone we are here for you and God has your back.🙏

  • @kelliesmith2903
    @kelliesmith2903 Před 4 měsíci +3

    What a blessing!!! God is good. I am so happy for you both. Currently, I am in the middle of a marital separation. What makes this story of Gods unique is, the Lord came to me in high school when I didn’t even know my husband. While someone was introducing him to me, I heard the voice of God, very clear and vivid, say “ this is your husband” It is now 28 years later and he just left a year ago. Yes it does feel like you’re all alone when you’re standing. It doesn’t seem like you have anybody to encourage you, to believe for you, to trust with you. I greatly appreciate your story. It has given me so much hope and strength in my faith walk. 4/21/24

  • @jessicafletes5109
    @jessicafletes5109 Před rokem +4

    I'm so grateful the Holy Spirit lead me to your page. I've been standing a yr for my marriage. At this point there's OW and it's hurting so bad. My husband and I talk about the fact that I want our marriage and he is sad and scared (our marriage was very volitile and toxic at times) God has been working on both of us this past yr and there's so much improvement it out communication and desire to understand each other vs. wanting the other to understand us. God has given me a gift of forgiveness and unconditional love for my husband in the midst of this. And I see where this is a journey and both parties have to allow God to work on them for the future to of the marriage. We are both believers. We have just both taken polar opposite approaches to what's going on. One day my husband told me he had been thinking about it and that he feels that since I'm doing so much better in my life in other areas now, that it must mean God is blessing me because I'm not with him. I have lots of emotions and it's nerve wracking. I KNOW God wants to restore and rebuild this covenant just as deeply as I know Jesus is my savior. I just want lifted up in prayer by people who are Brothers and Sister in Christ and have already traveled the path I'm on and have made it to the light at the end of the tunnel I'm walking toward. THANK YOU SO SO MUCH for being obedient and sharing your testimony 🧡

  • @maryobundo5554
    @maryobundo5554 Před 2 lety +8

    Praise the Most High thank you both so much Yah be the praise!!! Happen to come across ur video and this is soooo powerful for my own personal experience after my marriage fell apart due to my betrayal..Oh my I had to gooooo soooo deep within myself with the help of the Highest and our marriage is restored and it is a much healthier and wonderful marriage than before!! Praise to the Most High is so worthy to be praised!!!

  • @nikkiv4196
    @nikkiv4196 Před rokem +4

    I love y’all’s testimony!
    I am believing for my husbands return back to our home. And watching this gave me hope because I know God is wanting me to stand in faith for my marriage🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @S67872
    @S67872 Před 2 lety +4

    I feel so blessed to hear your story. I stay standing for mine. Thank you for being obedient to God.

  • @keyshiaa7543
    @keyshiaa7543 Před 2 lety +7

    Praise GOD for you both for being obedient and transparent in sharing your story. I have been standing for 7 years this October 2022. This has been one of the hardest things that I've done....however it's grown me into the Woman that GOD had destined for me to become, so I too know that this Storm is bigger than My Marriage Restoration, but but my Salvation as well as My Husband's.
    Again, I thank GOD for you all sharing your Testimony and for you WOG, for Standing 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾....May GOD continue to Heal, Restore and Bless your Marriage and Family......
    Blessings Always 🙏🏾

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety

      Thank u so much, you will be in our prayers as u stand.... 🙏 Keep the faith

  • @messagesfromgodmattersofth5690

    Adrienne and Shon I love you guys! Watching and listening to yall brings me so much hope/encouragement. My husband divorced me a few months ago....I AM A STANDER! I am praying and fasting and believing for the Lord to do for me what He has done for you. He is NOT a RESPECTOR of persons. Please would you two PRAY STAND and believe me through all of this. I most definitely NEED SOMEONE WHO understands and believes that God is able!!!!! Thank you guys again!!!🙏❤🙏
    I have shared this with aithers who in this situation.

  • @carolineomori1032
    @carolineomori1032 Před 2 lety +6

    Amen. Amen, Amen.
    I needed to hear this testimony. Amen.

  • @jama_clarke_writer
    @jama_clarke_writer Před 2 lety +3

    I needed to hear this today!!!!! Mine went through, without me being present, yesterday. I’ve been shook. I needed to hear a testimony where the divorce actually went through. I needed a story to relate to because I now feel like I’m in new territory I don’t know how to navigate. I am still standing!!!! Thanks for sharing.

  • @beewallace6944
    @beewallace6944 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you all for sharing this. It has been very encouraging as I’m standing in mine. After only a year of marriage my husband said he no longer wanted to be married. To me or to anyone. He also stated God brought him this message. God has continuously brought me different messages. Through dreams and signs. Everyone says give up. I refuse to give up until God leads me to give up.

  • @littlelady3276
    @littlelady3276 Před 2 lety +3

    I am standing sometime I feel so lonely but GOD I have been crying everyday JESUS help me. We have no communication between the two of us we have a grown daughter and grandkids..

  • @m.c.t.6938
    @m.c.t.6938 Před 2 lety +5

    I don't know how you two came on my timeline, but I am so glad you did. Hearing my story from your mouth gives me more hope. I'm still in the process, but I'm looking forward to all God has for all of us. Thank you

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +1

      Bless you so much, this is most definitely a God leading move as he directed us to do this early last year for such a time as this. We pray Gods blessing upon you and that he keeps you. Be blessed

  • @RestorationEdenMinistries

    MY GOD!!! I want to say so much about this but I will say I forced myself to continue to listen as so much resonates. What a beautiful woman of faith you are my dear Sister! Salute to you brother for humbling yourself enough to repent.

  • @Mrsbotchey
    @Mrsbotchey Před rokem +5

    PLEASE pray for me. I feel so alone. But i’am happy to find your page. 🙏🏾

  • @samueljohnson7850
    @samueljohnson7850 Před 2 lety +7

    Wow, God can do anything.your story is beautiful.

  • @niralismokes4229
    @niralismokes4229 Před 2 lety +6

    This is such an amazing testimony!!! It truly gives me hope. I’m currently in a broken marriage and conversation of separation/ divorce has been on the table. My husband has checked out mentally as well and I’m fed up with some things as well. So we are really at odds, although I’m ready to leave and call it quits, there’s this “feeling” I get in my heart that feels like I’m making the wrong decision! As of now it looks like there is no hope for restoration and reality is staring me in the face. I question God on what to do, should I leave? Should I stay? Hearing this and the journey the two of you went through gives me hope that my marriage can be restored 🙏🏽 thank you for sharing and God bless the both of you 🥰🤗🙏🏽

  • @littlelady3276
    @littlelady3276 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Trying to stay strong threw the Holidays this year, trying to keep my head up💕

  • @valeriearchibald2976
    @valeriearchibald2976 Před 2 lety +3

    I thank God so much for you all I felt the anointing and was only in tongues and had to pray.I am on my journey going on five years now and I also have a family restoration word { marriage and fam} from the Lord.I can identify and I know it is not easy.Waiting on the Lord never is.I feel very encouraged to continue to stand.Even coming across ya'll is strange, it turned up like from nowhere and I was drawn to the title.I know when God does it it is absolutely better than it was.God richly bless your family.I already sent it to my daughter because she too has a situation.I truly believe God wanted me to hear this at this time.The words that he gave me at the beginning of my journey are...Do not go by what you see.....Do not go by what you hear....Do not believe the evidence.....Believe your God.I will continue to stand.!!! Amen.

  • @carladawn8787
    @carladawn8787 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I listened to Shaun’s podcast a few years ago. I’m so happy to have discovered this video. I’ve gone through a divorce and feel in my heart it’s the biggest mistake of my life. I feel like God is calling me back to stand, but everything in my natural eye is saying no way can this be restored. I don’t have a support system around me, and I feel so lost as to what to do. This video series gives me glimmers of hope. Thank you

  • @rhondal8887
    @rhondal8887 Před rokem +3

    What a great testimony. Thanks so much for sharing. I was attempting to stand for about 1.5 yrs before I knew what "standing" was.
    But as I listened to the testimonies of those who've gone through this process I feel like I've broken all of the rules of how to stand. It was until after all of my mistakes that I found several of these ministries and I now know what I need to do. But I was clueless before this. So I recommit to my stand and relying on God to see my through. I'm constantly wondering if God will restore despite all the mistakes I've made in attempting to stand for my marriage. 😫 I pray He will have mercy on me and my family. Thanks again for sharing!!

  • @rosiecook-askins2382
    @rosiecook-askins2382 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I needed to see this today.

  • @leuveniapolk4928
    @leuveniapolk4928 Před 2 lety +3

    I appreciate your story. It encourages me as I go through this journey. This is my 2nd marriage and I'm in my late 50's. I strongly believe in marriage and I thought my husband did, however he's not truthful and he had several OWs. He is older than me plus he's a deacon...I know the ran falls on the just and unjust, so God said if I surrender to him He will fight my battles. I stand firmly on the word of God. A prophet told me to read Hosea and replace Gomer's name with my husband and my name with Hosea...so I know God will restore our marriage. To God be the glory!!!

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much for tuning in, as I am in my 50's as well, so I do understand. God has the last say in all things and his word stands on its own without our need to support it. Many take the word and spin it for their use, but the word is what it says it is and means what it means. Standing for marriage, Gods gives us a commandment but allows us free will to choose. He says "I would that you would choose life", this lets us know that he wants us to choose what is right but many don't. Stay encouraged, keep the faith and know God has your back.

  • @tjohnson4084
    @tjohnson4084 Před rokem +3

    Your testimony is such a blessing and inspiration. I’m standing.

  • @tiffanyrobertson6756
    @tiffanyrobertson6756 Před 2 lety +3

    Your testimony gives me hope! Thank you for sharing! GOD said he is not a respecter of persons, what he made happen for one he can make it happen for another. I believe GOD for it.

  • @Mrsbotchey
    @Mrsbotchey Před rokem +2

    I receive this testimony in the mighty name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen 🙏🏾

  • @stacya5292
    @stacya5292 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you so much for sharing your testimony. Your story is so similar to mine & my husband's. I know God has called me to stand for me my marriage and I know that God is going to restore, reconcile & redeem. It's not easy, but when you know it's what God has called you to do.

  • @adrianneedwards
    @adrianneedwards Před 2 lety +6

    This is such a powerful and encouraging testimony

  • @drj4266
    @drj4266 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you for your powerful testimony! May God bless your marriage and ministry beyond measure in Jesus name!!

  • @jeperapadilla6676
    @jeperapadilla6676 Před 2 lety +4

    Wow this is beautiful and so encouraging!!!

  • @pmandy5218
    @pmandy5218 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Please pray for my husband Paul to return to the Lord and to our marriage wholeheartedly in the Mighty Name of Jesus

  • @2Kelly4ful
    @2Kelly4ful Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much for the amazing restoration testimony. I am standing for my marriage and am fully confident that my husband will come home.

  • @maribelrivera300
    @maribelrivera300 Před 2 lety +2

    My ex husband did this, and now going through this with my now ex boyfriend. I am trying to heal. I have no one to pray for my Rick deliverance and salvation, not so much to be restored to me, though I'd love it, but more I want Rick to return to God.

  • @SmallHaulCouponer
    @SmallHaulCouponer Před 2 lety +4

    This is such an inspiration to listen too!! 🙏🏻💛

  • @candishall7689
    @candishall7689 Před rokem +1

    My niece introduced me to your channel when my husband left a year ago. Today the lord lead me. I will be sending an email of my story. This is inspiration. How this started off. Yall story is my story.

  • @bethanyphillips3869
    @bethanyphillips3869 Před rokem +1

    I don’t know how she did this. God had his hands over her. I don’t know if I ever could do this. So long wo one another 😢 So hurtful. I’m so happy for you both. God bless your union forever ❤

  • @peggyruatoe7831
    @peggyruatoe7831 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing. Great testimony and I'am blessed. My husband left me and our children and grandchildren during pandemic February 2021. We been married for 33 years. I'm still praying and hoping that God will restore us as a family again. I tried to call and send him messages but no response. It hurts me and I'm still crying. So I'm so grateful to hear your testimony. Thank you very much. God bless you both.

  • @lashawnbailey2717
    @lashawnbailey2717 Před 2 lety +7

    Amen I So Needed to hear your Testimony at this Time. Sometimes I Just want to Throw in the Towel but God!!

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +1

      Hang in there, trust God in spite of it all... Love unconditionally and believe he is the rewarder of them who deligently seek him.

    • @lashawnbailey2717
      @lashawnbailey2717 Před 2 lety +1

      Thank You Both So Much! Im staying in Faith!! To God Be The Glory.

  • @awhb5412
    @awhb5412 Před rokem +1

    So powerful testimony. I finished first part and I'm halfway of the second part. thank you for sharing. this is going to help many couples. the wife is extremely beautiful and strong and powerful for waiting and staying marriage no matter what. I admire her, very true example to every woman.

  • @unknow2sum543
    @unknow2sum543 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing, benefited in so many ways. May God continue to bless and guide the both of you!

  • @jd._
    @jd._ Před 2 lety +4

    God bless you both!!! Gods Word is everything we will ever need!!!! Praise God.

  • @Sunflower-kz3no
    @Sunflower-kz3no Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you both again! Beautiful story! Some of your story can relate to and it continues to give me hope. Been on this journey for awhile. 😊🙏🏾

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +1

      And "hope maketh not ashamed", keep your head up and know you are not in this by yourself. Keep standing, "gird up your loins" know God has your back as you walk out his word. Thank you for tuning in, God has more in store..

  • @michellebembry9649
    @michellebembry9649 Před 2 lety +4

    Praise God for restoration!!!

  • @santranettebillingsley529

    Thank you two for being transparent and sharing your testimony. It helps to give people like me hope. I've struggled in my marriage for years. I'm still praying, believing and trusting God for complete deliverance and healing. We're working on our relationship, just not as intensely as I feel we should be. Two of the hardest parts are the painful memories and learning to trust again. Say a prayer for us.

  • @peaceandlove8218
    @peaceandlove8218 Před 2 měsíci +1

    My wife left after 26 years. However, mine actually happen. Nevertheless, I’m believing God she’s coming back home. It has not been easy. I know there is a OM. Even though, she comes to the house everyday. I feel everything the lady is referring to!!!

  • @janellegatewood4497
    @janellegatewood4497 Před 2 lety +4

    Love this❤️
    To God be the Glory. Your testimony gives me hope for my marriage. Blessings to you both.

  • @misslady836
    @misslady836 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you so much for your transparency it has helped me greatly. Our stories are so similar but I STILL BELIEVE GOD!!!! Thank you!!! Peace & Abundant Blessings to you & your family.

  • @Aurora_2098
    @Aurora_2098 Před 2 lety +4

    Beautiful story I can completely relate,I can't wait to tell my own testimony

  • @elsabailey7764
    @elsabailey7764 Před 2 lety +2

    I can see God’s work in you both and your love for each other. All Glory to God!

  • @queenmeheux2019
    @queenmeheux2019 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you for giving a voice to so many people. God bless you.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety

      And thank you for taking the time to honor us by listening, we trust you continue getting value and encouragement from these episodes..

  • @ngunjirinjunji3243
    @ngunjirinjunji3243 Před 11 měsíci +1

    This is so encouraging. Its amazing seeing the transformation God has brought to you two. I'm standing for my marriage and i can see how God has restored me to Himself. This is confirmation that God is restoring my marriage too

  • @codycoffey9058
    @codycoffey9058 Před 2 lety +3

    I'm at the point where I'm dealing with the day to day and it's really tough to not allow anger and bitterness to spring up.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +3

      Truth truth is that bitterness, anger, envy and strife are just some of the tricks the enemy uses to keep us from progressing in a healthy, mental and spiritual way. Don't let those little things turn into mountains because some things are harder to come back from. God alone has the answers, he holds the keys and the remedy to bring harmony, community, care and cander back to your life. Let him have it, unpack your luggage at the alter of "lord you take it" and allow him to take full control. Once you've unpacked it and turned it over, never put your hands on it again. We have a tendency to touch what we gave to God because things are not moving at a speed we want them to move. Well, it is in the process of waiting and time that God also wants to deal with us.. To Make us whole and ready to receive the blessing. Stay strong, stay encouraged🙏

  • @fonda7760
    @fonda7760 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing part of your testimony! Wasn’t seeking this channel, yet, it’s Him, the Holy Spirit who guided me here and I am thankful and grateful He did!
    God bless you, your renewed, refreshed God ordained covenant! Alleluia! God bless your family in a mighty way! I truly appreciate your humble, undivided hearts! Sooo encouraging, inspirational. Your obedience to the One True Living God speaks thru you both, the transparency, oh my, how my heart was filled to tears.
    Thank you for the transparency. Thank you for your willingness to stay connected and praying for us, with us whom struggle in marriage and those of us desiring for that godly spouse. God’s Way is the righteous way. Doesn’t mean there won’t be bumps in the road to be navigated, demonic spirits and principalities in high places to be fought. However, our LORD has given us powerful tools - the whole Armor of God! Amen!

  • @littlelady3276
    @littlelady3276 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I keep everything on the low very low. My circle of friends and family is small..

  • @aelmore5670
    @aelmore5670 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing your story. May God enlarge your territory to share your story (testimony).

  • @celiastewart5465
    @celiastewart5465 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I got the same scripture Ezra 10 a year ago! My PH left 2 years ago!

  • @shelli523
    @shelli523 Před rokem +2

    Thank you God for this ministry.

  • @nicolewright3231
    @nicolewright3231 Před 2 lety +1

    I absolutely am so inspired by you guys and the awesome testimony you have shared. I was in a place where I was feeling like giving up because I had never heard of restoration after one of the spouses got remarried! Im so ENCOURAGED! God took me straight to your video because I cried out to Him just this morning to say if I was to give up on my forner spouse then He would take away all this drive to stand. His answer was this video. God is so awesome and mighty!!!!!

  • @hotrodgirl
    @hotrodgirl Před 2 lety +2

    This came up and I didn't want to listen because I'm afraid but I'm standing, my husband left for work, then two weeks later told me he was going to stay gone. He stopped telling me he loves me. Its been almost 2 months

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety

      Thank you for reaching out..sometimes the only God some will ever see is the God in you first. As you stand in Faith, God will first heal, build, encourage and show you you. Meanwhile begins working on the other party.. Trust God as we pray for your family.

  • @joseyndaba5076
    @joseyndaba5076 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Your testimony is just INCREDIBLE, I’m in complete owe!…

  • @reneegibson9015
    @reneegibson9015 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your story, it encouraged me a great deal. I am standing for my marriage for the past 7 months, I am hopeful and having faith that God will also restore my marriage in his time. 🙏🏽❤

  • @montgomeryfamilychannelemm7948

    Oh wow what a powerful powerful testimony standing your ground on the word of God I love it love it💜

  • @tracymiller319
    @tracymiller319 Před 2 lety +2

    Standing for a little over 3 years, no restoration yet but listening to the beginning part of your testimony…it is unreal the similarities with me. Numerous times listening to this video and the previous one, my eyebrows show up due to how my story is SO similar to yours! Thank you for your testimony and the hope that you have given me.

  • @werdapottersclay4040
    @werdapottersclay4040 Před 2 lety +4

    🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌Glory be to God!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @nosiphokhanyi4323
    @nosiphokhanyi4323 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow this🙌🙌🙌🙌thank youfor sharing this, am still standing for my marriage

  • @lazarusfowsta
    @lazarusfowsta Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you all so much for sharing your story. My wife just left me for another man. Idk what the future holds but it helps to know I’m not alone.

  • @KeepHealingSis
    @KeepHealingSis Před 2 lety +2

    God bless you both and your union greatly! Thank you for your transparency. You are setting captives free by the word of your testimony. 🗣🔊🙏🏾❤️‍🩹

  • @monstermaker181
    @monstermaker181 Před 3 měsíci +1

    This is a blessing to me!
    Prause Jesus!!
    Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, Please pray for the healing and restoration of my marriage. please come into agreement with me for my Chinese Buddhist wife's salvation. Her name is Tao. Please pray that God will turn her heart of stone into a heart of flesh and that she will forgive me of my past mistakes in our marriage. please pray that she will love me again and welcome me home.
    I know that the enemy is trying so hard to stop my wife from knowing Jesus. I put my wife ahead of God, and that is when the enemy slipped in.
    Pray God will make me the man he intends on me being for his glory. Please pray for us both to be a testimony of God's loving grace and mercy.
    in Christ Jesus love, thank you.
    Toby

  • @keturahkaufman9923
    @keturahkaufman9923 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm going through standing for my marriage because the Lord has called me to stand but have felt alone in most of these 10yrs....!!

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for viewing...
      God has a way of changing hearts and turning things around to where it is better than it ever was.... In all this, trust through it all..

    • @keturahkaufman9923
      @keturahkaufman9923 Před 2 lety

      @@anuncommonlove1112 choosing this narrow road is very very painful. I'm so ready to be on the other side!

  • @lisagarcia9442
    @lisagarcia9442 Před rokem +1

    Wow, I'm glad I found this. Now I kinda understand the "husband Part". I love how you speak to the fact that God had a plan for you both. My husband left last Sunday and is completely stone walling me! I texted him asking him to let me know what this was? No response. I am really confused, but running to God. I just wish it did not have to be SO painful. This month is our 36th wedding anniversary. We have 3 grown children. The last child just moved out before the New Year. Drinking has become a permanent fixture in his life. That is the only thing I don't want back. I am very grateful for your videos. I could not find anything solid from a christian perspective. You helped me! May God richly bless you marriage!

  • @sobunch4079
    @sobunch4079 Před 2 lety +2

    Just awesome testimony I am being bless thank you

  • @nevalynedwards9065
    @nevalynedwards9065 Před 2 lety +2

    Awesome 🤩 awesome 🤩 awesome 🤩

  • @miaj-m.8328
    @miaj-m.8328 Před 2 lety +3

    I salute and applaud you both for openly sharing your amazing testimony of marriage restoration. Your title is appropriate because the world has made it more “common” to choose divorce as a quick fix for unhappiness. No one will consistently be happy in any type of relationship because we are all imperfect humans who make mistakes and let one another down. I do believe that it is important to have an anchor when you face hard times and just generally in life. I put my trust in GOD and I do know that trials will always show up to test one’s faith. I am truly happy for the both of you and hope the good Lord continues to bless, keep, cover, and use you all to do HIS work. At times, we are allowed to go through to be able to help others once the process of obtaining VICTORY is complete. GOD gets the glory in the end. Based on the testimony you all are sharing, HE definitely gets the glory out of this. Keep doing what you all are doing. For those of us who need the encouragement, we thank you all very much. Take care. Be and stay blessed.

    • @anuncommonlove1112
      @anuncommonlove1112  Před 2 lety +3

      May the lord bless and richly keep you, may the God of heaven shine upon you and keep you in perfect peace. Thank you so much for the encouragement and we honor your stand and faith... Stay connected, stay standing and keep the faith. God will perform it.
      🙏

    • @miaj-m.8328
      @miaj-m.8328 Před 2 lety +3

      @@anuncommonlove1112 Amen to that! Thanks so much.

  • @tracydg7158
    @tracydg7158 Před 2 lety +5

    Please pray for John M G to open his eyes & repent

  • @shnayabrice2844
    @shnayabrice2844 Před 2 lety +4

    Your story is so hitting home. My husband left almost 1 month ago but he disconnected without communicating to me for about 1 year. I struggle to figure out should I stand or move on.

  • @millicentzindela9004
    @millicentzindela9004 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Wow 🤩 I love that !!! You cannot put a covenant ontop of a covenant