VERTICAL LABRET | Healing Process (Day 1-7)

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 23. 05. 2019
  • THANKS FOR WATCHING!
    This is my personal experience with the vertical labret and might not be the same for you. Just make sure to be very consistent with your cleaning and be patient! let me know if you have any questions đŸŒŒ
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  • @beyoncegarrido3978
    @beyoncegarrido3978 Pƙed 3 lety +135

    I got mine done about five days ago and the only thing that I’ve dealt with so far is the bruising and chapped lips and it hasn’t bled 👍

    • @SadBeauty
      @SadBeauty Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +1

      Yesss my lip hurt the top part is white and a bubble . They gave me a hoop for mines tho

  • @marthadelgado28
    @marthadelgado28 Pƙed 4 lety +181

    I just got mine done a week ago! I also don’t like the chapped lips 😂 it looks good đŸ„°

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +11

      Awesome congrats! 😍 yeah that was definitely the worse part of the healing haha

    • @carol-annemartinalolafrase8473
      @carol-annemartinalolafrase8473 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      I got my middle labert under my bottom lip Wednesday September 2 yes the chapped lips are the worst part lol but no pain at all and I'm not crazy swollen at all so September 23 or September 30 I'm aloud to go to the pier down size then leave it be until December 2 so I'll be doing the cleaning routine until then lol

    • @vanillabubblebath
      @vanillabubblebath Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Got mine yesterday. The chapped lips suck

  • @izzyp9706
    @izzyp9706 Pƙed 4 lety +70

    I definitely hated the chapped lips afterwards. It hurt a LOT when getting it done, but I felt nothing while it healed. It did hurt when eating big foods(hamburgers mostly) cause you have to open wide. My whole bottom lip was bruised blue and I actually had to go to the hospital after getting it done. I have type 1 diabetes and my body went into shock because it wasn’t used to having a random piece of metal inside my lip lol... ended up staying the night and kind of almost died, but I’m okay! They almost made me take it out, but I kept it in. Best piercing I’ve had.

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +12

      oh my god that's so scary, sorry you had to go through that.. I didn't know this could happen, thanks for sharing your experience I'm sure this will be helpful to diabetic people watching this! It's also one of my favorite piercings I'm glad you decided to keep it, I hope it healed okay despite what happened! 💕

    • @linnellbrooks5711
      @linnellbrooks5711 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      I have this and have type 1 also

    • @gothgirl4912
      @gothgirl4912 Pƙed rokem +2

      that's insane! my piercer had a notice in the paperwork to not get this piercing if you are diabetic, have a heart condition, severely anemic etc!

    • @luciouslips26
      @luciouslips26 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

      Most professional tattoo places will have in writing asking if you are diabetic. If you talk to your Dr ahead of time and you clear it then they shouldn't be any complications. I cleared it with my Dr, since my diabetes is under control I was allowed to go through with it. Just makes the healing time longer though

    • @izzyp9706
      @izzyp9706 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

      of course I had contacted my doctor about it. They said it was fine. My body still unexpectedly went into shock and sent me into pre-dka, ive had some complications with recent body modifications as well but not as bad as the first time! @@luciouslips26

  • @emmabazan8913
    @emmabazan8913 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    Getting my done tomorrow!! So excited

  • @sleex91s
    @sleex91s Pƙed 3 lety +8

    the shop you went to looks so nice and the vibe there is reassuring

  • @jenabanana290
    @jenabanana290 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    You made me get one. Had mine today. And it is so cute. I love it. Thank you for uploading this vids. It is very helpful.

  • @jenabanana290
    @jenabanana290 Pƙed 2 lety +7

    I keep watching this video over and over. I love how detailed you are in every steps and on your healing journey. Love this! Look so cute on you. 💕

  • @alexamaria5414
    @alexamaria5414 Pƙed 3 lety +10

    Thanks for this video ❀ really helped me not freak out that I have an infection/rejection but you just said the dry kinda blue patch is normal in first days 😊

  • @christinafoyle384
    @christinafoyle384 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    thank you for this video! been thinking about it for so long but never got actual info on it from someone who has it ,thanks for making this 😋

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      I’m so glad it helped! good luck with the piercing â˜ș

  • @jennyglidewell2201
    @jennyglidewell2201 Pƙed 4 lety +8

    You have such a nice energy you can feel it through the video 💕

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety

      Thank you so much!! it means a lot 💕

  • @rowanisabella
    @rowanisabella Pƙed 2 lety +16

    Got mine done yesterday! The jewelry is a little small, like right now it's just the right size for it not to be irritating (bc of the swelling) so I just hope there won't be more swelling than that.
    Apart from that, I 100% agree that the process of getting it pierced is the only painful thing about it. It doesn't hurt at all now lol

  • @shipwreckzoo
    @shipwreckzoo Pƙed 4 lety +25

    I got mine on Saturday! I also Bruised but pretty badly. Today is Wednesday and its still yellow from bruising and the chapped lips are THE WORST!! D; Thank you for posting your experience. Nice to know I'm not the only one who bruised.

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +1

      So glad it helped! yeah the bruising was pretty bad haha good luck with the rest of the healing! 💕

  • @tahmina7222
    @tahmina7222 Pƙed 5 lety +8

    It looks so good on you!!

  • @bossbanks7719
    @bossbanks7719 Pƙed 3 lety

    Amazing video thank you! Can't wait for mine tomorrow

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety

      Ohh good luck!! I hope it went well 😍

  • @lopes4776
    @lopes4776 Pƙed 4 lety +62

    this video helped me a lot! i just got a vertical labret and its a bit off center and it bothers me so much aaaa but im getting used to it

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +4

      heey thanks for the comment! yeah I actually don't even notice that mine is off center anymore, and no one can tell either ;)

    • @yanna396
      @yanna396 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      max oh god. i was diagnosed with ocd and centering is an issue for me. will i be okay?

    • @lopes4776
      @lopes4776 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      @@yanna396 actually i got it repierced a few weeks after this comment because it was bothering me a lot that it was off center :( i dont have ocd but it was a big issue for me fnbfhdjr the good thing about piercings is that if u dont like how it is you can always take it off and repierce it! ^^

    • @tamartamar2511
      @tamartamar2511 Pƙed 3 lety

      I pierced mine today and I hate that it’s nasty symmetrical it reminds me of kid from soul eater

    • @cigarettediet1185
      @cigarettediet1185 Pƙed 3 lety

      luckily where im going to get mine again they give you a paper which explain what you shoukd and shouldnt do and the aftercare.
      already have a septum

  • @Puppylov3
    @Puppylov3 Pƙed 3 lety +10

    I just got mine done yesterday and it’s so swollen right now and it’s bleeding. I have Hemophobia and it’s just giving me so much anxiety đŸ„Č this is my cry for help. But your video made be feel better. Thank you💗

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety +2

      i’m glad to hear it helped and i hope your piercing is doing better now! 💕

  • @lunaj2675
    @lunaj2675 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    I might get mine done tomorrow and this video helped me feel less anxious about it!!

    • @briannacrowley7068
      @briannacrowley7068 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Omg yes do it! I was nervous about it for so long but I just recently got it done and I love it! It’s hard to eat food like sandwiches and stuff while it’s healing, I break off pieces off big food, and definitely use straws. But overall it’s not bad!! If you want to, I say go for it!!!

    • @lunaj2675
      @lunaj2675 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@briannacrowley7068 okay I'm definitely gonna get it. I was scared at first as I only have my septum and nose pierced on my face, as well as 5 ear piercings. i was worried that because it's on my lip it wouldn't heal but I'm not worried anymore :)

  • @curlyheadbaby
    @curlyheadbaby Pƙed 2 lety +2

    I got mine just a couple of days ago. For now there's no swelling, not too much pain, just a little bruise on the upper side. My lips are a little chapped, they feel a lot dry because of the salted water, but nothing a chapstick can't solve. No problems when sleeping, it feels just a little weird when I'm eating or brushing my teeth. My lips were anesthetized when I got it done, but I still felt pain when the needle was going out, I would say a 4/10 tho. I swear my lobe piercings hurted way more in the healing process

  • @charlotteseverin818
    @charlotteseverin818 Pƙed 4 lety +4

    So, I've been debating about whether or not I should get this piercing, and this video definitely helped.

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +1

      awesome i'm so glad! i hope the healing goes well for you :)

  • @zombiebug.7
    @zombiebug.7 Pƙed rokem +2

    thanks for posting this video! got mine pierced two days ago and have been lowkey panicking about my chapped lips, they've been cracking and bleeding a little, but no one warned me so i was worried something was wrong haha. this has made me feel much better, and i can't wait for it to go away lmao

  • @EleNa-qq2oi
    @EleNa-qq2oi Pƙed 4 lety +38

    I ve been thinking of doing this piercing for months. Your video has definitely helped me a lott and you are a great youtuber . You really talked about what people were interested in and not about what would attract views like putting a bloody thumbnail or whatever. I only have one question. Is it difficult to kiss?
    Lots of love and keep up tge good work♄♄

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +5

      Woow thank you so much for your comment i'm so happy! and that's a very good question haha kissing is actually completely fine, I don't feel the piercing at all. I've been told by some people that they can feel it but it's not bothering at all, they actually quite like it. So I highly recommend getting it, let me know if you do!! 💕💕

  • @ihavegrosspubes
    @ihavegrosspubes Pƙed rokem +4

    i got mine done yesterday and i’ve been worrying so much about it rejecting (my belly button piercing rejected :(( ) but this video was very useful on how to keep my piercing happy

  • @theNoctifloralParacosm
    @theNoctifloralParacosm Pƙed 3 lety +5

    I got mine done yesterday, it's still a bit sore but its honestly not bad at all.

  • @MirasaurusRex
    @MirasaurusRex Pƙed 2 lety +3

    I'm on day 2, and I too am noticing that it's in the middle of my lips but not in the middle of my chin. Yay asymmetry!

  • @snail927
    @snail927 Pƙed 5 lety

    You are so adorable 💜very nice video btw

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 5 lety

      ohh thank you it really means a lot! ❀❀

  • @Chloee234
    @Chloee234 Pƙed 4 lety +4

    I wanna get this done so bad!!

  • @fireflowfairy
    @fireflowfairy Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +1

    Had mine done yesterday. My piercer specifically said to just spray with saline when cleaning (2-3 times a day) and NOT to use a q-tip to clean, as the fibers from the q-tip can actually go into the hole and qause agitation.

  • @alexperkins1263
    @alexperkins1263 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

    I use burts bees too!!!! I watched your video before I got my piercing, I am on day 2 and watching again for aftercare ❀

  • @bipolarchick8011
    @bipolarchick8011 Pƙed 3 lety +14

    I'm on day three...super dry lips and a little stinging but not bad👍

  • @neenzxo9736
    @neenzxo9736 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    Got this done today and I definitely felt the needle go through damnn

  • @deathcloud7992
    @deathcloud7992 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

    I got mine done a little over a week ago. It wasn't terrible to get used to since I already have snake bites, but daaaaaayum the chapped lips!!!! I've been trying to keep them as moist as possible, but they still dry up and peel. I'm hoping this doesn't last too much longer, b/c it's def driving me INSANE!!!

  • @Moonastronaut
    @Moonastronaut Pƙed 3 lety +20

    You've got some of the best videos on vertical labret that I've seen. Thank you!
    Do you find if people ask about it a lot or people are quite accepting/don't mention it?

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety +3

      I'm glad it helped! Most people don't mention it at all actually, but the questions i get the most are "did it hurt?" and "what does kissing feel like?" :) no one has ever made a mean comment about it

  • @moxleymonroe6506
    @moxleymonroe6506 Pƙed 2 lety

    I’ve been told I look like a boy so I’m hoping this doesn’t add to that but I’m getting mine done Sunday along with my septum and I’m excited I just hope I have the face to pull it off, you definitely do you’re adorable đŸ„°

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 2 lety

      I think anyone can pull it off if they feel confident and beautiful with it! â˜ș i hope your appointment went well!!

  • @veganmember
    @veganmember Pƙed 4 lety +20

    Lovely energy and I personally truly like this piercing on you so much, can't wait for mine =)

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +3

      thanks Nina! I'm sure it's gonna look great on you, good luck!! 💕

  • @epidelicz
    @epidelicz Pƙed rokem +2

    everyone’s complaining abt chapped lips when i literally wore chapstick and it still healed normally đŸ€·â€â™€ïž

  • @meepbeep9230
    @meepbeep9230 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I got this done today and I've been watching all your videos before and after. AHH was not bad at all!

  • @ChickenStank
    @ChickenStank Pƙed 3 lety +10

    My lip is peeling around it and it’s SO ANNOYING. Also I put ice on mine like right away. I think that’s why mine didn’t get as bruised or swollen

  • @fireflowfairy
    @fireflowfairy Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +1

    Mine is also a little bit scew though. Always trust your piercer. They have done this before and know where to place it. Every time I ask them to pierce on a different spot than the initial dot I always end up regretting it

  • @Whitemoonwolf132
    @Whitemoonwolf132 Pƙed 3 lety +6

    I got this same piercing 5 days ago and the chapped lips were rly bothering me but I was able to get rid of the dead skin and I was sooooo happy XD I also rly love this piercing and agree that I think it's my fave!

  • @igniscoepi8667
    @igniscoepi8667 Pƙed 3 lety +9

    The way you said "No one will kiss me with those lips" was so darn cute hahahaha

  • @kiddwrld999
    @kiddwrld999 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    ‌‌ guys, pleaseeee dont play with the piercing or touch it with dirty fingers after getting it. it could get infected that way so if u do plan on playing with it, WASH YOUR HANDS FIRST. but i don’t recommend touching it at all, just keep cleaning it. ‌‌

  • @brittanipoliskey1811
    @brittanipoliskey1811 Pƙed 2 lety

    I got mine pierced 2 weeks ago and haven't had much issues with it and mine is just a tad off center alittle and the challenges with the vertical lip labret piercing is trying to eat or drink I drink with a straw but since I had it pierced I noticed chapped lips due to the saline solution I use 2 times a day

  • @jasminequiroga8814
    @jasminequiroga8814 Pƙed 2 lety

    i got this just today!!đŸ˜© i loveee it but i don’t have sea salt to use it

  • @jaybabypyt
    @jaybabypyt Pƙed rokem

    I got mine done 5 days ago it’s tingly but it doesn’t hurt

  • @devon8750
    @devon8750 Pƙed 2 lety

    i just got mine done on tuesday along with my septum and goddamn my septums been a hell to look after and clean while the labret is so damn simple to clean and doesnt hurt at all and it didnt even hurt when she pierced it i was like wait its done? huh? while my septum she had to redo it cus i moved so much cus it hurt SO BAD lmao but labret piercing was so easy and id recommend to anyone as a first piercing or literally any lip piercing they hurt the least out of the 4 ive had done before (the other 4 fell out💀)

  • @coralinesdoll5438
    @coralinesdoll5438 Pƙed rokem

    Got mine done 3ish weeks ago, and the wooooorst part by FAR is the chapped lipsđŸ˜©

  • @emiliebisnaire551
    @emiliebisnaire551 Pƙed 5 lety +40

    "A reusable straw!" (y) (y)

  • @danielewarrick6240
    @danielewarrick6240 Pƙed rokem

    Just got mine done today mouth is dry but I'm also a diabetic

  • @juliev3263
    @juliev3263 Pƙed 2 lety

    I GOT MINE YESTERDAY!!!!!

  • @That_trash_rat
    @That_trash_rat Pƙed 2 lety

    I just had mine done about 2 days ago I find eating a little hard but the chapped lips suck so bad but other then that it is pretty good I haven’t been able to drink normally yet tho

  • @prettyradloser1398
    @prettyradloser1398 Pƙed rokem

    it’s been a month and i still haven’t taken a bite or even drank without a stare. idk if i should take it out at this point or not

  • @theoverlyhappygoth1545
    @theoverlyhappygoth1545 Pƙed 4 lety +2

    Ayee Montreal gang

  • @prettyradloser1398
    @prettyradloser1398 Pƙed rokem

    i got mine done a month ago and it’s still bleeding constantly. i’m so nervous it’s rejecting ):

  • @legophoenix3730
    @legophoenix3730 Pƙed 2 lety

    i got mine done yesterday and i was wondering,what all did you have to change to eat?like am i forever going to have to cut up foods like sandwiches and pizza

  • @cheyennemcgregor9534
    @cheyennemcgregor9534 Pƙed rokem

    My piercier gave me a longer bar and I got I done October 28th and it's stinking into my lip and a lil discharge and still swollen a lil bit. And buried still. Is that normal

  • @kfjfjdjdj1671
    @kfjfjdjdj1671 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    Super vidéo, joli accent et tout aussi joli piercing!

  • @rebekahbarrow3157
    @rebekahbarrow3157 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    you definitely rock piercings!

  • @Ariel737
    @Ariel737 Pƙed 4 lety +5

    I just got this piercing and it’s a bit off center.. she was trying to tell me that when it heals the skin will tighten around it and straighten it out... so not sure and hope it doesn’t bother so much I have to get it repierced...

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +1

      I think she might be right! because I don't feel like my piercing is off center anymore 🧐 but maybe I got too used to it... I really don't notice it anymore so hopefully you won't either 💕

  • @maddiew9011
    @maddiew9011 Pƙed 2 lety

    Just wondering, did your piercer give you a smaller bar to use after it stopped swelling? They gave me an extra bar, smaller than the one in my lip, and said I should change my original piercing after 10 days. I'm just concerned that if I change my piercing so soon, it'll mess it up. I might just wait for it to fully heal before I use the smaller bar.

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Hi! Yes i went to my piercer 2 weeks after i got it pierced to get it changed. It went super smoothly and didnt mess up my piercing. If you go to a professional you shouldnt have to worry! dont do it yourself though

  • @jenny-se9cw
    @jenny-se9cw Pƙed rokem

    i just finished doing mine at home rn

  • @nicoledonnell25
    @nicoledonnell25 Pƙed 4 lety +6

    The ball of my piercing keeps sticking to my lip and everytime I remove it my lip bleeds again. Any tips??

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +8

      You should soften the crusts when you want to move it, so you can put a bit of warm water or saline solution to clean it. Then it shouldn't bleed! Try not to move the ball when the crusts are hard though, as the bleeding will delay the healing process. good luck! :)

  • @linnellbrooks5711
    @linnellbrooks5711 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I got mine on Saturday it’s now Wednesday I have been cleaning with my ear piercing cleaner from clears I think I might stop using that I did buy some womb wash from cvs that alr have salt water in it for cuts now my lips are dry I do use carmax sometimes also Is it normal to have white looking discharge on top of your lip piercing where the ball at ? And it sometimes get stuck and it’s dry it’s still a bit swollen and sore and my hole is small where it is place at ? I also use mouthwash I don’t have zero I have with alcohol in it I clean it with the wound wash with a q-tip every morning n night and sometimes during the day I do have type 1 diabetes should I not over clean it ?

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety +2

      Hi Linnell! You definitely shouldn't over clean it, and never put anything that has alcohol on it. The best healing method is to make your own sea salt solution with warm water (1/4 teaspoon with 250ml of water), you soak your piercing for a few minutes, then rise. You can do this morning and evening. After 2 weeks, only in the morning. A white discharge is normal during the first week, but if it's painful and swollen for a long time, then it's not normal. I don't know what's in your ear piercing solution, but i highly recommend making your own sea salt water. Sometimes over-the-counter products have added ingredients or contain too much salt, which can irritate your piercing! Having dry lips is normal though.

  • @victoria4
    @victoria4 Pƙed 3 lety +6

    I want this piercing but I graduate college in December and I’m scared I’ll be told I can’t wear it in a professional work setting :(

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety +2

      i totally feel you...i was facing the same issue but decided to have it anyway. I think it depends on what kind of work and company you’re looking for.. i was looking more for non profit jobs so they’re usually more chill about it!

  • @brittanybarber828
    @brittanybarber828 Pƙed 2 lety

    I feel like the person who did mine didn't space my holes out very well.

  • @toukakirishima9736
    @toukakirishima9736 Pƙed rokem

    Hi! I love so much your energy and your videos are so relaxing to watchđŸŒșyour vertical labret is your best piercing and your video made me wanna do it!. But I have a question ... What about kissing or oral sex? How long do I have to wait? :)

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed rokem

      Thank you so much, that's very sweet! And to answer your question, I honestly don't remember... its better to wait until it's healed, so around 2 months i think but you can ask the piercer! good luck 😌💕

  • @missmusic68
    @missmusic68 Pƙed 5 lety +1

    Ça te va trop bieeeen

  • @sayliecolato242
    @sayliecolato242 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Is it normal for around the peircing area to be itchy?

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety

      Hi! I’m not sure i remember feeling itchy during my healing days... but if you have a doubt, you should call your piercer! hopefully it’s a normal phase of the healing journey:)

  • @SadBeauty
    @SadBeauty Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

    I got mine 2 days ago and they gave a hoop for mines bc the sewlling

  • @makaylahm.4684
    @makaylahm.4684 Pƙed 2 lety

    do you know what size piercing she pierced it with? i wanna get mine done but i’m indecisive đŸ˜©đŸ˜©

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 2 lety

      Its a 16g (thickness) and i think 14mm in length!

  • @maryvonbeilstein4123
    @maryvonbeilstein4123 Pƙed rokem +1

    cool cool, I'm Chinese and Israeli :)

  • @thasakanwksorkia2234
    @thasakanwksorkia2234 Pƙed 3 lety

    Did it hurt when you removed the dead skin ?

  • @ray-ms9mq
    @ray-ms9mq Pƙed 2 lety +1

    maybe cos they gave me a small bar, it keeps sinking into my lips. i dont know if i should call the piercer since i got it last friday - eee im kinda scared

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Hey! i think you should call the piercer just to make sure, but at this stage the best would be to leave the piercing (even if the bar is too short
) if it’s still in the swelling stage

  • @theycallmehly6058
    @theycallmehly6058 Pƙed 3 lety

    I want one but i`m afraid that it will look not good on me

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety

      I was really afraid as well! so to get a better idea I would take a random photo of myself and draw 2 white dots on my lips. Or i would take a jewelry (preferably a curved barbell) and hold it in front of my lips, to get a better idea of how it would look. i hope this helps!

  • @hannahandersson3815
    @hannahandersson3815 Pƙed 2 lety

    How long was your healing bar? Or if someone else knows answer please :)

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 2 lety

      Sorry i really don’t remember! :(

  • @sadistictormentedsuccubus5481

    i jus got mine done like 2 days ago, n it rly swollen but the pain is not rly that bad is it normal tho also i think the bar is too short but i cant see my piercer atm bc of the lockdown any tips? :,)

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 2 lety

      Hey i'm sorry i missed your comment! I just noticed it. How is your piercing doing now? ? 💕

  • @jessimiauu7668
    @jessimiauu7668 Pƙed 3 lety

    I just love this piercing, but I'm so afraid of getting it.

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      I was terrified as well but I chose a good piercer who made me feel comfortable, and it went super fast. You’ll be okay đŸ„°

  • @jinksycrow3717
    @jinksycrow3717 Pƙed 2 lety

    i really want one but im scared that i'll accidentally rip it out ,, :/

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 2 lety

      Sorry for the delay in my reply đŸ™đŸ» dont worry, there’s little chance of ripping it out! Im not very careful with it and I havent had any accidents. Sometimes I will bite it by accident but nothing serious :)

  • @jadehall7627
    @jadehall7627 Pƙed 3 lety

    I just got mine done today along with both my nipples & my lip hurt so much more lol.. didn’t hurt after tho

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety

      Congrats on your new piercings!! 💕

  • @christineeleonorepoppe6745
    @christineeleonorepoppe6745 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    Uhhhh I got my vertical labret today and hell it was the most painful piercing I have🙈but I guess it's the same with tattoos it depends on the person... And it was swelling up immediately and I know what ure talking about with the position 😂😂same here... But it looks so good on u❀❀

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Ohh shit sorry to hear it was that painful!! hopefully the healing process is not too bad đŸ™đŸ» and thank you! 💕

    • @christineeleonorepoppe6745
      @christineeleonorepoppe6745 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@teawithromy Yeah I did expect it to be more painful then the septum or nostril but that was another level painđŸ€Łit seems to heal good no big issues with it just when I eat sandwiches or stuff like that it's unpleasant

    • @ScumFreezebag
      @ScumFreezebag Pƙed 2 lety

      I agree! I've had more than a dozen piercings. I had this done today and by the most painful !! Only the initial piercings though, it's been a few hours and there's no pain now.

  • @penelopecaso261
    @penelopecaso261 Pƙed 2 lety

    Is saline water good for it???

  • @heartlyb7494
    @heartlyb7494 Pƙed 2 lety

    Hi I just got mine done I’m on day 2 and like it centered but the jewelry it self it like keep turning to the right like it stayes that way I’m afraid that once it heals it be to the side â˜čdo you think it go away or it like that bc it new

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 2 lety

      Hi! I'm sorry i'm not sure how to help you... it might be the jewelry or the way it was pierced. I'd recommend checking with your piercer about this! i'm afraid if it stick to the right for too long, it will stay that way... so speak to your piercer asap! đŸ„ș

    • @heartlyb7494
      @heartlyb7494 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@teawithromy thank you so much I appreciate your help so much I will definitely contact đŸ„ș💓

  • @rosalbapistillo2405
    @rosalbapistillo2405 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    It's normal if the top ball hit the top lip ? Because I think that mine is too much behind:(

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      It shouldn’t be a problem! I asked for mine to be a little lower, but it’s okay if it touches your top lip

    • @rosalbapistillo2405
      @rosalbapistillo2405 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@teawithromy oh ok thanks 😊

  • @rukeli1619
    @rukeli1619 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    i got mine done today, and honestly it feels so annoying bc i can feel it 😭 does this feeling pass to the point where u forget it exists? or is it something you have to get used to

    • @gingergibbs3264
      @gingergibbs3264 Pƙed 2 lety

      I just got mine like 3 days ago and I don’t really feel it so I would assume you would get used to it

      I have to drink out of a straw until I learn how to properly drink without it getting in the way unless it’s a water bottle😂
      The chapped lips is honestly the worst but I’ve been using chapstick around it to help but try not to get it in the piercing

      Also I would recommend icing it before bed and sometimes during the day even if it’s not swollen because my piercer told me it could get swollen over time and I’ve seen others get swollen over time while healing

      Also if you have any advice lmkkkk because I’m not an expert and still need advice 😂😂😂

    • @satansbarn
      @satansbarn Pƙed rokem

      @rukeli got mine yesterday, the piercer said he placed it a bit too far up (it touches my upper lip and i cant really close my mouth) so i feel it all the time. hoping it goes down with the swelling, otherwise i might have to do it again. how did yours turn out?

    • @rukeli1619
      @rukeli1619 Pƙed rokem

      @@satansbarn i literally took it out on the same day, it was giving me mad sensory overload and i wasnt able to play my flute which i didnt think to consider bc it was very much an impulse piercing, i was so sad i took it out bc it was looking so hot

    • @satansbarn
      @satansbarn Pƙed rokem

      @@rukeli1619 oh man that sucks, i ended up taking it out too - but also booking an appointment to redo it since i think it could be placed better. i get how frustrating it must be having one and playing an instrument. hopefully you get to enjoy some other piercing/body mod!

  • @kendra4578
    @kendra4578 Pƙed rokem

    Heyyy I just wanted to know how you removed the dead skin??

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed rokem +1

      Heyy I usually remove it after the shower when the skin is soft, and i just use my fingers :)

    • @kendra4578
      @kendra4578 Pƙed rokem

      @@teawithromy Ohh ok thank you so muchh😊😊

  • @biancaroseannagrana283
    @biancaroseannagrana283 Pƙed 2 lety

    I can’t even use a cup lol
    I’m still
    Using straws had mine done like 2 Sundays ago lol

  • @jaelynyo1872
    @jaelynyo1872 Pƙed 2 lety

    how long did you wait to change the bar ?

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 2 lety

      2 weeks to change it to a smaller bar at the piercer, and then 3 months to change it myself!

    • @julesgraham875
      @julesgraham875 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@teawithromy mines been healed for almost 7 weeks now do you think i’d be able to change it earlier? my piercer told me anywhere from 6-8 weeks or 8-10 weeks but it doesn’t hurt at all and i can fully move it around, i just don’t wanna cause problems but it’s too big still and bothering me more the the original

  • @normalgenericlazyguy5589
    @normalgenericlazyguy5589 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Do you have to keep it in the entire time? Kinda want to hire it from my family

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      The piercing should be in during the healing process, but once you can change it, you can buy a transparent retainer (i got mine from the online store crazy factory) and cut it to make it the length of your lip piercing :) it will still be slightly visible though
 I also take it out when im at my parents and they can see the hole unfortunately
 If you choose to take it out without a retainer/transparent piercing, it can close off very quickly (faster than any of my other piercings), like after 30min i already struggle to put it back.

    • @normalgenericlazyguy5589
      @normalgenericlazyguy5589 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@teawithromy thank you for explaining

  • @he13na80
    @he13na80 Pƙed rokem

    when can I put chapstick on? my lips are super dry 😭

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed rokem

      You can put on chapstick but just avoid the pierced area!

  • @josefaowo3706
    @josefaowo3706 Pƙed 3 lety

    I'm on my day five and it's still the same:(, Below is still red, somewhat swollen around, upstairs I think I'm forming a ball, I'm afraid. :(

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Ohh i’m sorry to hear that :( everyone heals differently, hopefully it should be better in a week but make sure to clean it well, twice a day with sea salt water!

    • @josefaowo3706
      @josefaowo3706 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@teawithromyIf that's what I do, thanks for the video!, I don't know what I did wrong, this is the second time I did it and it hadn't happened to me before, Take care❀

    • @LadySpaceAndAce
      @LadySpaceAndAce Pƙed 3 lety

      Any update on how your piercing is healing? I got mine done 2 weeks ago and my lip swelling has gone down and healing pretty well.

  • @terri3786
    @terri3786 Pƙed rokem

    i pierced mine a week ago and the chapped lips were super annoying but it eventually went away.. now im just dealing w this annoying ass crust and its so annoying and idk if its normal or not but its so fucking annoying god

  • @mcvero123
    @mcvero123 Pƙed rokem +1

    You're not supposed to move it when it's dry...

  • @kayleemoss1759
    @kayleemoss1759 Pƙed 4 lety +1

    Hey how long does the swelling last

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety

      Hi! For me it took 2 weeks to go down completely, and that's when I switched to a shorter bar :)

    • @kayleemoss1759
      @kayleemoss1759 Pƙed 4 lety

      @@teawithromy aw that's great thank you again for making the video really cant wait to have it done now when the piercing shops re open as I'm in the UK x

  • @bogwitch8923
    @bogwitch8923 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I got mine almost two weeks ago now but I’m worried it’s rejecting đŸ„șđŸ˜Ș

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety

      oh no!! what makes you think that?

    • @bogwitch8923
      @bogwitch8923 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@teawithromy it seemed red and the hole seemed bigger but I went to a shop today and they said it’s doing great lol I’m just super paranoid cause it is in the middle of my face haha

    • @LooseKarma
      @LooseKarma Pƙed 3 lety

      Did you have a redish ring around the bottom ball? I'm having this same anxiety right now 😂 - 8 days in

    • @bogwitch8923
      @bogwitch8923 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@LooseKarma I actually ended up having an infection even tho I asked 3 different shops how it looked, go to an ER if you see any spreading redness or if it hurts to clean

  • @isabels5292
    @isabels5292 Pƙed 2 lety

    My mom doesn’t like mine either I just got it done đŸ€Ł

  • @imanimorey-flowers1536
    @imanimorey-flowers1536 Pƙed 4 lety +2

    Mine says with cold water.. Does it matter if its hot??

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +1

      cold water is okay but if the water is warm, it will soften the crusts around the piercing and make it easier to clean :)

    • @imanimorey-flowers1536
      @imanimorey-flowers1536 Pƙed 4 lety

      @@teawithromy also are you dipping paper towel into the salt water solution?

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +1

      @@imanimorey-flowers1536 yes i like to use a towel or cotton pads as they can take in more water!

    • @imanimorey-flowers1536
      @imanimorey-flowers1536 Pƙed 4 lety

      @@teawithromy thank you so much!! I just got mine yesterday

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety

      omg! how did it go??

  • @jordandempsey8342
    @jordandempsey8342 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Can I ask why you took your septum out??

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety +2

      i didn’t! i still have it to this day :) i think i removed it when i filmed the video because i wasnt sure whether it would look good with the vertical labret

  • @chelseasmith2603
    @chelseasmith2603 Pƙed 4 lety +7

    I have this piercing and mine was a 10/10 hahaha I didn't swell at all though

    • @marievaltinke1820
      @marievaltinke1820 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Chelsea Smith definitely 10/10, almost passed out tbh

    • @bipolarchick8011
      @bipolarchick8011 Pƙed 3 lety

      Compared to my tongue which wad a 10.. my vertical labret was about a 4 just stung.

    • @chelseasmith2603
      @chelseasmith2603 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@bipolarchick8011 yeah I have two tongue piercings they were a 10 too

  • @capsizehim6990
    @capsizehim6990 Pƙed 3 lety

    just got mine done 10 minutes ago 😭

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety

      wow! how did it go??

    • @capsizehim6990
      @capsizehim6990 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@teawithromy good!! definitely super swollen this morning but no bruising and the pain isn’t too bad!! i love my piercer he’s done all my other piercings he’s really good

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 3 lety

      @@capsizehim6990 Awesome!! im super happy for you 😍

  • @tania8879
    @tania8879 Pƙed 4 lety +12

    i wish my mom said "ok" when she didn't like something :D

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +2

      yeah i'm really grateful i have her, she's so chill about everything! but my dad is another story... he can't see me unless i take everything off 😔 how would your mom react?

    • @tania8879
      @tania8879 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      Well I told her about it yesterday and she was like : „oh no! don’t make me have a heart attack. „ But that’s okay since my dad is still mad about the nose ring I got 1,5 years ago.

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety

      ohh i see, i hope they can one day understand and accept your preferences đŸ„ș im still trying to convince my dad whenever i see him

  • @messy9453
    @messy9453 Pƙed 4 lety

    Got mine done 20 minutes ago 😅

    • @teawithromy
      @teawithromy  Pƙed 4 lety +1

      yesss!! congrats đŸ„°

    • @messy9453
      @messy9453 Pƙed 4 lety

      @@teawithromy you're right, it doesn't even swell at all 😍😍

    • @kaelee2234
      @kaelee2234 Pƙed 4 lety +1

      What was the pain level out of 10 would you say? Im most likely getting mine done in less than a month and im a bit nervous haha