Viral Woman Whose Husband Took Everything Is Now Living Her Best Life
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- čas přidán 27. 09. 2022
- Porsche Moore went viral on TikTok after uploading a video of her husband’s abrupt departure from their apartment where he left her with nothing. The video was viewed over 6 million times and even caused Porsche to take a break from social media after ending the 18-year relationship. Porsche and the friend who encouraged her to post the video, Erica Sims, join us in-studio with an incredible update.
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Man's rejection is God's protection l have no problem letting a person go.
Ugh I wish I could let go that easily. It’s hard though.
YESSSSSS
Rejection is God protection so true
Listen it’s hard to see it at first but the end is so sweet
This‼️💯
Wise words from my Cuban grandmother.. “Every woman should have a secret emergency account that you deposit into routinely. Even if it’s $20, you put it away.”, I’m glad that I listened. One day domestic violence showed its face for the first time in my marital home. Within TWO days I had a house rented and my kids and I moved. Gracias Abuela!
Very good you had that safety net... your grandma taught you well
@@thegoldenbowl5217 Not that she was teaching me to be shady lol.
Yes she was teaching you to prepare yourself for an emergency situation... if everyone was taught this this video wouldn’t even be a thing... I’m so glad you were prepared 😀👍
Abuela is a wise woman🙏🙏🙏
@the goldenbowl Every woman in a relationship should have a separate account in your name. I had the same experience where I my ex closed out out the joint account unknown to me. We had an account separately for the mortgage on the house. Unknown to him I had my own Separate account . Women wake up. I love u doesn't always mean I won't steal from you.
He called her and asked her to take him back, she said, NO! She's dating. She's living her best life. I am so proud of her.
I bet he realized the grass wasn’t greener! It’s just dirty to do that to someone..especially someone you should love & respect!
He's stronger than an athlete with no deodorant thinking she'd consider re-introducing his poison back in her life. What a wad.
In the eyes of God, she's married until one of them dies, point blank period!
The nerve he has!!!
@@psychedforlife7176 Really? It's his wife, why wouldn't he acknowledge his error and try to make amends? Marriage is a irrevocable covenant.
My ex-husband did this to me. He physically assaulted me the week prior and I told him I wanted a divorce. When he saw I had been looking for places to live he moved out with all of our household furniture including 2 dining room sets and couches. I came home from work with our then 2 year old to an empty house. He took me through a nasty divorce and I walked away with no support. Met my soulmate 2 years later after healing and letting God take control. Fast forward 8 years and I've married my soulmate, bought a house, luxury cars, family vacations - all debt free. Ex-husband still has the furniture, is struggling and miserable. Don't play with God's children. 🙌🏽
❤
😂😂😂🙌🙌🙌👌👑👑👑😍😍😍
Good for u
Nicole Miles, did you report the assault to the police? Did you have an attorney to represent you during the division proceedings? I found it hard to believe you did not get child support, even if you didn’t receive spousal support.
@williewhite169 of course a man would say this. It does happen especially if he is broke.
My husband did the same thing but he didn't take physical things. He starved himself so he would lose weight and tell people he did because I was abusing him while he was the one abusing me emotionally and financially, he refused to work so I would be the one taking care of everything on a teacher salary and he wasted my savings then cheated and brought his side chick in my own house. I left, moved to another country and rebuilt myself up. We are survivors.
Yes u r ….you are your own happiness …loving yourself is the greatest gift in life ..
Yesss you should write a book💜
So sad
Wow!!
This happens a lot. You are so right. We are all survivors
My girlfriends husband left her for a woman he met online. They were married for over 20 years. Her career has soared since. Her kids are doing well and in college. She is now married to a man who is good to her and for her. Her ex married and divorced the other woman. His leaving ended up being a blessing.
Fact!!
Blessing in disguise
AMEN AMEN, SISTER, SOOOOO #WONDERFUL 🙏🙏🙏
Im truly happy for your friend!!!
It normally works out that way sometimes those individuals are blessing blockers
The husband was definitely a narcissist. He discarded her but when she healed herself and got all this positive attention (that is well deserved), that's why he wanted to come back. The other girl (because I'm sure there was one) probably threw him away too. I can't stress how proud I am of this woman for getting out of a toxic situation. It's all up from here, girl!
Yep! A spouse should uplift you & pour into you, not bring you down!
They all do, don't take them back, because they want to destroy you.
@@cyankirkpatrick5194
That is the goal of narcissists....they are emotional vampires.
Yup!
this!
Everyone is speaking on the lady in pink and she deserves it, but can we give the friend her flowers as well because her support was special ❤️
Exactly-it's like giving a singer their props but forgetting those behind the scenes especially the musicians♥️
She is a true sister and friend
I agree!!! I said the same thing!! I would have liked to see the friend receive the blessing as well!!!!
Wow, that's a friend. May GOD continue to bless them both. Nothing like having your girl who has your back.
I’m sure they’re going together on holiday. She would be selfish to leave her behind😒
My husband did the samething to me went home to an empty apartment even took the carpet and vacuum lol. I was heart broken didn't know what to do we had a 8 yr old that I had to explain the empty apartment to and why dad doesn't live here anymore. Once I stopped crying I went back to school became a RN got my own car my own place i now travel and got my peace of mind. Waiting on my divorce to be finalized and thank God he left because I wasn't happy. Thank God for where I am today.
God is good
God will replaced your heavy burden without you announcing it. For some people, they are better off without their current significant other
Damn the carpet?
@@rockandfashion7207 okkkkkk the freaking carpet😳
Women stay in spaces that are not joyful out of loyalty but know the sentiment is not returned.
Love you more...
My husband of 20 years left me for a married woman he met on his commuter train. He took everything we owned. I left that marriage with the clothes on my back only. I told my divorce lawyer the details, he told me it was the worst case of financial abuse he had ever heard of. It’s a lesson you never forget. Fast forward 3 years, I’ve never been happier. Life is beautiful and I can’t believe I stayed with that loser for so long. When they dump us for another, they are doing us a big favor❤️
How did he do that legally? or was it illegally?
Period
You gotta love it when the trash takes itself out! So glad you've survived and found your peace! God bless you!❤️🙏🏾❤️
@@chocolatecosmos1424 well shit! it was 20 years ago why are you so defensive about her story?
@@melaninmoxiellc963
In 2014 I was 3 months pregnant with a 1 year old fleeing an abusive marriage. My family had to come get us out of Alabama from Michigan. When threats didn't work my ex-husband immediately drained the banking account, and we started over with nothing. From there I got back in education, became a Principal, and started a business. My daughters are happy and healthy, and as a family we are helping other people. Tests like these become your greatest testimony. God bless you all! We're on the top and going higher.
Amen and amen. I am inspired and gonna check out SOLO Mom LLC! Back in education and happy to teach children forever! Well done, Principal Hero! ❤️
Proud of you!😊
Solo mom, the state of In the state Alabama identifies as an “equitable distribution state.” It was illegal for your ex husband to take all of the money out of your account and anything else the two of you acquired during your marriage. Obviously you did not get an attorney. The state of Alabama recognizes adultery and abandons of the marriage for at least 12 months as grounds go a fault-based divorce in Alabama. Therefore, you should have sued your then husband for at the least abandonment of and marriage and any children born in the marriage. You made yourself a victim.
This happened to me. Leaving me with 4 children. I came back from a family dinner. I had such a great time. I drove an hour to get my beautiful home looking forward to seeing my husband. I walked in my beautiful home was empty. Even took the family TV and game system. I was so heartbroken. Someone said to me what did you do. What how dare you? I loved him and our family. I thought I did what I what he needed. Sometimes people have their own things they are dealing with and don't communicate that. Sometimes we think things are good and then we find that's not the case at all. It was a journey but now I'm even better than I was before. My children and I are thriving. I now have my own business, car and home and still loving life.
Amen!
Sounds like you’re justifying his actions?
That’s selfish asf & immature.
They always use that as an excuse!
Meme, all the signs were there you just totally ignored them because your wanted to give the appearance that you had this wonderful life and great marriage. What you didn’t state is that your husband left your family for another woman. Absolutely no woman is cheated on by a husband without the woman knowing by instinct or intuition. Why did you not immediately get an attorney and sued him for abandonment and taking most of the martial property. Hopefully you at least got child support!!!!!!’
The reason people asked her what she did is because it's frightening to think something like this can happen without reason. If she did something, then they will be safe as long they don't do that thing.
She was a soft spoken, submissive wife and still got played. That's a scary thought for people who believe that there is magic formula for making another person happy. The truth is we don't have any control over our partners no matter what we do.
All true
So true and this as hit home
You are spot on! People keep asking what she did, because they don't want to believe that a man could be so mean and heartless towards a woman without a justifiable reason. People don't like the ugly truth that some people are just bad people and they don't need a reason to mistreat someone... because it means it can happen to anyone including THEM!
100%
PIN this! 📌
He only reached out because the world saw what he really was. Sad. I'm HAPPY she's doing well. ☺️
That is the absolute truth, he's saw that the world saw who he is.
I bet he never imagined she would be on Tamaron Hall. I bet he's somewhere eating sand.
It’s giving narcissistic on his part
I believe him he reached out because he truly realised there was no one better out there. A case of the grass is always greener on the other side.
My ex told me that he was going to find a younger woman blah blah blah. Months later he tried to get back with me. I asked him what happened to the young woman he went looking for. He was full of regret because he said realised I was the one. Sadly for him I had moved on.
@@msg4141 That's the internet nowadays hyping them up.. They are deluded making statements like "Men age like fine wine" "Men's worth only goes up with age" "Men reach their peak when they get older". As a young woman I'd like to tell them it's simply not true. We don't want your old ass rich or poor
I’m so glad she never took him back
Oh this is so emotional to me right now 😩😥 my husband did the same thing to me 6 years ago. But now I'm happy to be financially free and currently growing a solid retirement plan. It takes a positive and consistency to learn new things, unlearn the old habits ms Important to get a mentor/coach to lead you all the way. It's great to start young too!
Hello I'm 43 working on my retirement fund too. What do you think is the best target for retirement?
@@eiraantoinette6793 personally I think 1m is the goal to overcome inflation and having them in an inv estment p ortfolio is a perfect plan. I'm half way to my goal 😊
@Laticia Cordova yeah. Fees and commissions are factors to look at in search for financial advisers. There’s financial experts out there who do not look at their fees but the impact and intrinsic value they bring along to you no matter how little you want to start. I’m glad I had one guide me start my financial journey
I'm trying to read books about finance, budgeting and saving. Looking at having a good financial advisor. Can you recommend?
@@gracedaniels6172 I work with Rachel Blanc, her services are cost effective and very efficient. I recommend her to anyone, anytime any day. she's really great You can do your own due diligence
This is beyond hurtful. I know what it's like to come home and see the closets emptied after 32 years and 10 months. It's amazing how I thought I was the only one in the boat without an oar. This encouraged me on so many levels. 'Still, We Rise.'
OOOH NO 32 YEARS
I'm glad you are a survivor, 32 years is a long time. I know that fool is smiling miserable. The only way I would date someone who has been in a 32 year marriage is if the spouse is deceased. He is going to always miss the little things that you did for him. Hos mistress will never get it
@stayonthevine You are AMAZING 🦾🫶🏿
My husband did this years ago. I went to work and when I came home everything was gone, including the coffee pot. When he showed back up days later everything had been replaced and he was mad because he didn’t expect that. I’m so happy for this young lady and I wish her the best.
I’m sorry what?! This is so sick that men are doing this to their women supposed to be their WIFE. 🤦🏾♀️
It weird how people want you to suffer. When you pick yourself up they are upset 😡 you leaving you would think they would be happy But that's not enough there souls are tormented
Im sorry, the coffee pot🤣😂 my god
@@idontdohumans5950 imagine they expect us to suffer when they leave us
Lol he mad cause you could do it without him, boy bye.
So glad she survived and didn't harm herself. Her hair is just GORGEOUS!! Those sisterlocs are 🔥!! Wishing her nothing but the best.
🥰❤
Yes, she is gorgeous! She will have men falling at her feet in Greece.
Wow, what a beautiful ending for such a beautiful woman. God bless her!
My husband walked out after 40 years of marriage and 7 months later married his 60 year old high school sweetheart. It's now been 10 years and I'm retired, former military, still single, own my own home and vehicle and still living a great life. I'll be 70 in October but I'm really ok and deeply blessed for my journey. Our 2 adult daughters are educated, independent and excellent women.
I'm glad to see that this beautiful young lady is moving forward with her life. God is truly able!
@@maryspain3668 I'm also glad to see you made it through that difficult time. May The Most High continue to pour out his blessing over you and your "babies." (Your adult daughters). 🙂🙂They will always be your babies!! By the way, happy early birthday to you!! ❤️❤️
I’d neva harm myself over a clown
Girl, you have no idea how many people you have inspired! Congratulations! Evolving!
Amen
When she told Tam that she was dating…Tam almost jumped out of her skin!! If your village isn’t this happy for you, you don’t need ‘em!! Thanking God that my village acts a fool for me and supports me just like this!! ❤️❤️❤️
He showed her who he was...I'm glad she believed him
Congrats young sis
O.k. Maya!😉 I see you!👀👏🏽
THIS❤️
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Maya! One of my favorite quotes ever.
I wish he would've showed her before marriage.
@@booklover_78 he probably did, sometimes we overlook red flags
Her husband is the king of fools. She is beautiful and has such a light inside of her. I hope she continues to flourish.
😂🤣
Well said
Hit the nail on the head. I too was once married to a Prince of fools.
😂😂😂😂
Yes she is and yes he is.
My husband of 16 years did the exact same thing with the help of his MOTHER.. and brother..he has since moved into another woman's apartment and served me divorce papers on our anniversary. I am BETTER than I gave ever been! The blessings that have come since still blows my mind! Good bye and good riddance..
"I was there to remind her of her plans, our plan" what an amazing friend.
The comeback is always greater than the setback. He'll reap what he's sown if he hasn't already. His rejection was indeed God's protection. I'm happy that she's moving on and I pray that she has continued blessings.
Baby you ain't never lied! It's like God blesses you for finally getting what he has for you.
Yes. This is so great sisters supporting sisters. This is so beautiful.
He sure will! When he least expects it! But he gonna need her and hopefully she blocks his number! He realized the grass wasn’t so green on other side.
You better believe he is reaping what he sewed and more. Some people are simply straight evil.
Yess
As much as I was hurting for her from that video. That was the best thing he could have ever done for her. Look at her now. I’m so proud of her.
YES TINA, HIM LEAVING WAS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE 🙌🤷♀️🙌
Sometimes we hurt so deep, nit even realizing that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Been there & done that.
Man’s rejection is the Lord’s protection🙏🏾
Girl you blessed 🙌🏽 🙏🏽 he's scum wokless and a nobody wat he done was unforgivable but God is Good and he will get you through this no doubt and the help of your Freinds and Family you are a beautiful human being who will love again by the grace if God 😍💞 as for him God will deal with him as he sees fit so keep on living your best life and know that you are LOVED 💯💪🏾💪🏾🥰
For real. You don't blindside someone you love. That was such an unloving thing to do.
sometimes the best thing a person can do for you is show you who they really are. i hope she's thriving 🖤
Indeed
Amen!! 🎯🎯
My husband of twenty years left after I helped him through the struggles of getting a liver transplant
I’m proud of you girl and your journey is definitely helping me through mine
I have my good days and bad but I know there’s nothing I could’ve done differently
The issue isn't with you, it's with him. May you be blessed with the love of your life.
Sending you 🤗❤
I hope it rejects.
Talking about low down and dirty. May he not have one moments peace.
I pray that you don’t let this pull you down , he’s trash & will need you again blessings to you Queen
This woman has such a beautiful and gentle spirit. She's truly resilient and courageous.
u can tell that she is a sweetheart
She is such a shining light😊
Ty for ur story❤️
You don't know her . A lot of people are a different animal behind closed doors
@@BbBb-hw5pq EXACTLY! I also believe that asking; “What did you do? What happened? What did HE do that is a contributing factor?” are valid questions. Perhaps the timing was off with THE questions, but overall there are two sides to every story. With that being said, it IS quite possible that he did what he did simply because he’s an A’HOLE with no moral compass. Considering he wants to get back with her, I think it’s safe to say that he was likely the cause of whatever transpired during their marriage. Save for his life being in danger, I think he handled it in one of the most horrible ways possible. I wish her all the happiness she can find!
When Tam said "there's always someone that's going to love you", I felt that in my soul.
Same here I don't know when as I just turned 65 this month, but I would love 2 be loved n give love n return, but hopefully it will happen 4 me
Me tooooo 🥺🥺
Right
She will meet the man God has prepared for her.
Amen🙏🏼
Oh Tamron! I am currently going thru this! My husband of 12 year’s partners of 17 years woke one morning and decided I was a broke B$;:! filed a restraining order and put me and my son out without anything! I work from home as well. 4 months without my daily comforts. Couch surfing at the age of 52 has made me feel worthless! This made me cry hard but gave me hope. Thank you for sharing😢
I am literally here now. Starting my life over from scratch from a toxic abusive marriage. Left everything living with my sister and sometimes I feel like giving up but this is sooooooo encouraging
Don't give up. Just take it a day at a time, it gets easier with time. I've been there and the peace of mind I experience now is beyond words. Well worth the the struggle.
Isn't it crazy how you're applauded when you left everything from a toxic situation but when a man chooses to do the same he's hated? Someone explain that
I literally contemplated suicide. I knew what I was going to do, but then my daughter texted to tell me how much she loved me & they would see me when they got home. I thought how their life would be further ruined if they came home & found me lifeless. I got on my knees & asked God to help me! I will NEVER forget how my ex-husband treated me nor or children especially when we needed him the most. I did so much for this man when he had absolutely nothing. It's all good though.
@@traceygarner7764 Sis I understand. When my husband cheated on me while I was very sick going into my second trimester, I told the Lord to just take me. I was so exhausted w/everything. But God! I thank God that He ignores our sick requests and blesses us. My son is now 23. Oh and when he cheated on me the second time (very much in my face), I divorced him and realize how sweet God has been to me. Hold on. This too shall pass. Blessings ❤️
Never give up on yourself sis
The same thing happened to the children and I in 1997...by now divorce husband emptied the our house even turned off all the amenities, took all the food and the list goes on and on...To God be the glory, the now grown children and I have beyond what we all lost. I earned my Doctorate, and all three children have 1-2 degree...and the blessings continues...
But God! Thank you Jesus!
Isn’t God great 😊!
Wow!!! An amazing story I imagine!!
My goodness! Even took the food from his children's mouth 🤮🤬
God is so good!
This just happened to me. My ex took nearly everything but the engagement ring. I’m only 1 1/2 months into the break up but I already feel so much better. I’m a way better mother for my children. He is texting he wants me back but only because things must of didn’t work out with the woman he left his family for. But I am a firm believer in this story. Remember Ciara ditched future and found Russell ❤. Love yourself ladies..
When you don't want them anymore the will take everything from you including the child (ren) Thank God my Son is old enough to know who did what but the crooked illegal system wanted to see who had the most money & he thinks he won but God is watching & he is going to expose them All
That's right Queen!🙌🏽
Glad you're doing okay! ❤️❤️❤️
Girl don't take that BAN back lol. Once they show you who they are, believe him. But do thank him for leaving and making room for the right man in your life.
That's great story but Russel Wilson is a one in a million person. Most millionaires with no kids not going take care of someone elses's kids. And most people aren't millionaires.
During the pandemic I asked my husband to leave. It was just too much , he contributed nothing. Our child is now 16, during this time he went to Brazil fathered a child, had multiple women, I was confined to my room, told me how fat and ugly I was, verbally and mentally abused our child and has called his child once since the day I asked him to leave. My child now has to get psychological and Psychiatric therapy after ending up in the hospital for 4 months.
Her story made me so emotional, but it also reminds me there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I really don't want to be bitter.
What's even more unbelievable is those that ask her "What did you do"
obviously they didn't get the memo
on being dumped, I'm glad this broken hearted woman had the sense to not hand her heart to him a
second time.
Yes, so many people do go back.
I was married for 24 years, mine did the same. But the peace I received when he left was the best thing. When I met my husband he was a parking attendant on a bike. I had the car. I helped him and supported him in everything he did, he became a firefighter and I was told to put family first and be a home maker. Happiness comes when you realize and accept the fact when you are with a man that makes you cry on a regular basis, abuses you in a variety of ways and leaves for his midlife crisis, you need to jump for joy. I am renewed and even though he took the retirement money he does not have the peace that I have. Karma is real! You cannot mistreat others and think it will work out right for you.
Peace and happiness to all who married monsters. ❤
Ma'am I love your story. I hope God fully restores you to your best and abundant life. May God show you the same kindness you showed that mean man for 24 years.
I never been happier than single. never doing that again
That is so true, when Karma hits them, they have no peace or happiness. I did find peace when i left him.
Your scenarios is called Barbara the builder.
Never accept a man with nothing at the table. It’s a tactic that some men use to get ahead and leave you for the next until he reaches his goal of success by means of supporting woman. Don’t fall for it ladies!
It is a blessings to you my dear, for him to get out of your life
I think Tamron Hall is one of the classiest people on television today
🙂
Great
I agree with u 100 plus
100%!!!
Yes!
Something similar happened to me. My ex spouse stole our martial home and sold it. A home that I added rooms to, paid the mortgage on, and did the upkeep. I left him after 16 years of verbal, mental, emotional, and financial abuse. I now have a beautiful home and I’m getting married to a wonderful man this April. And my ex, he is now homeless and living out his car.
This is far more common than you think it is. I hope anyone who went through this understands that you will make it through
I went through the same thing. I dated my ex husband for 4 yrs and was married for 1 1/2 yrs. He told me he never wanted any of this and I had to move out of our house, because my name was not on it. Moved back in with my mother broken, in between marketing jobs. I had to seek the Lord, take responsibility for my part, started all the way over with my teen son. After doing to work I finally got my own place and got to live on my own for the 1st time in my life with my son, my career in marketing took off and I was promoted in a year. I decided to start dating which I never did. It was okay to say no after meeting guys knowing that they were not my person. I finally ended up meeting my now husband. I moved a few states over with my son and now I'm a housewife. I exercise 4 to 5 times a week, clean, cook which I love to do, make my husband lunch and his partner because he owns his own business, Etc. I'm still trying to balance being a housewife, because this is all new for me. I clearly see how God can turn something so ugly into something so beautiful. If God be for you who can be against you. May the Lord bless this woman and when the time is right and she wants it I pray she finds a real man who will love and cherish her the way God commanded a real man to do. In the mist of every storm God is still good 🥲
I like your statement " a real man".
@@lisamontique6872 amen
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Wonderful story. I am so glad that you ended up with a happy life. You clearly deserved it.
Amen
“Weeping May endure for a night,but Joy comes in the morning “
Exactly...her ex husband is now joyful
Amen!
I remember seeing the viral video but didn’t recognize her at the time. I am just realizing that this beautiful soul actually went to Jr. High School with me. She was extremely talented and outspoken so to see her have her spirit broken so maliciously is heart wrenching. But, it’s great to see that in time God always restores what we lose. Her internal joy is so evident. She is glowing.
🙏⚘💜⚘🙏
I'm so happy she's doing well and has a good support network. He only reached out because of the backlash. I'm glad she stayed strong and believed who he showed her he was. The sky is the limit for her.
I love how non-messy this interview was. In a time where views thrive based on drama and mess
Tamron is a class act!!!
So true… I was thinking the same way and you can see she Seems very polite.
And ratings.... the host will really go for the juggler, just for ratings. Often leaving the guest very distraught and broken.
Amen.
Me too. You know some other chick would have taken him out with a quickness!
I'm so happy she found her happiness back. I'm so happy she had a good support system and best friend. The nerve for him to want her back after he wiped her clean. The grass wasn't greener on the other side sir.
No, people who recognize her in their lives and her truth shattered his image and he thoroughly embarrassed. Him getting her back is all about ego, that's it that's all he didn't love her or he would have never ever in his life thought of doing anything that could jeopardize losing her love or her period.
That part
@@tamiekaaugusta4058 he absolutely reached out for ego. He ain’t fooling nobody. Ain’t no telling what he would have done to her if she took him back.
The grass is never greener on the other side, you are looking at it from a different perspective.
He didn't/doesn't want her back, he just doesn't want her happy because he's a poop who will never be happy!!!
Tamron Hall is just so beautiful. I don't just mean visually, but her energy and personality is so endearing and warm. She's definitely meant to be doing this show because her sensitivity is welcomed, especially in circumstances like these where she shows her humanity. Beautiful!
I'm reading the comments baffled at how often this happens 😳
Same!!!
The audacity to want her back!!!! Im happy for her finding her strength!!
He didn't want her back. He probably ended up homeless & needed a place to stay. Whatever he may have been doing when he left her no longer were so he decided that he would return to the "weaker" one.
@@LouisianaLadii exactly!
That got the wife things she probably.done played him so now he trying to get the wife back she ain't going these men better stop playing most women are strong they usually sorry like egals fly high and get some while they end up with some woman that ain't thinking about them for real that what happened to my first husband now old with some broke a,z women but not me that's called karma
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@@LouisianaLadii 💯
She has such a sweet and genuine spirit. Most of the time it's the women like her that get treated the worst. I'm glad she now knows her worth. Praise God!
YUP! Then these morons complain about "modern women" snd how they dont give a dam about these men todsy6
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Yes good women get treated worst
True
Agreed
This happens all the time. Happened to me! Therapy was a must and saved me from searching for answers that I would never receive.
I went through something similar. Was married for 8 years, together for 11 years. He moved out without acknowledging me; practically discarding me. When we were married, I would have given him a kidney if he needed one. Before separating, he was accusing me of things I wasn’t doing. This experience taught me so much and I had to pull myself up. Going through it was hell, but It’s crazy how today, I can barely remember what happened. I am so healed past this that telling the story is not embarrassing to me anymore. I never think about my ex. My life has improved considerably. There is indeed a light at the end of the tunnel. Anyone who is going through this or has gone through this, I hope you lay your burdens at the feet of Jesus. Some day, this will be a distant memory; one you will be grateful for because of how much you would have grown despite the adversity.
I remember this lady. Glad she’s doing well❤ and away from that apparent narcissist.
Exactly!
@@tootiesmom6314 His loss. Her outfit,eyeglasses and hair are a whole vibe💕.
@@dyoung2739 I couldn't stop looking at her glasses! They are vibing by themselves lol
Amen
@@everythingkaye Ikr? I buy my eyeglasses online and her eyeglasses reminded me of some I’ve seen on the Zeelool website.
I hate to say this but I've noticed in the black community when black women speak their truth about the awful things that we've endured in relationships, it's often met with a high level of skepticism and "what did you do?" responses. I'm glad she's living her best life now. I remember her story. It was so sad.
I don’t think this is applicable to only black women… I this happens across multiple ethnicities, Read the comments
@@leslee7586 Yeah, Lessa. It's just really an issue in my community. Just speaking because she's AA and so am I. It's definitely a pattern I've seen.
Exactly, and it's like we have to suffer to prove our worth and loyalty. I'm over it!!!
Honestly sometimes “what did you do” is warranted. We have to be honest with ourselves bc what happens is we continue to get in to bad relationship bc we don’t own our short comings to be whole for the next relationship.
Butterfly Jones, I agree. There has to be responsibility and accountability. All the woman who were in hostile and abusive relationships saw the signs before they married the abuser or got into the relationship. Generally woman get into bad or abusive relationships and stay in these relationships because of bad choices and then play the victim. Male and female abusers prey on individuals with no self esteem, are depleted emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically, lack self worth, and seek validation from the wrong people. Most if not all of the abused and abandoned women in the comments most likely came from single mother homes or homes where the father was present but absent emotionally and the father never validated these women when the women were little girls. As a result these girls grew up to be women who sought validation from men and self worth from men.
I understand how she feels, her story made me cry. I went through something similar and with therapy I’m still healing. That was in 2013 and I didnt have trust in any man and haven’t been in a relationship since. Now I’m at peace and I’m finally ready to love again. I’m so happy she’s healing, blessing to her on her new journey.
It breaks my heart that something like this has happened to so many. Just know you all are inspirations. Keep on keeping in and being the Queens that you are. 💗💗💗
Wow Tamron showed her so much kindness and empathy ❤
Amen
And she gave her that$500 food tour!
Tamron lost her sister to domestic violence. She has a big heart but especially for women who are being abused. Abuse is not just physical. He financially and emotionally abused her.
She did. That was very professional, I really liked and enjoyed the kid gloves she used.
Tamron is the BEST. I hope to meet her one day
I'm glad she's living her life and is happy 🙂
Me to
As well
She’s right, if you can survive loosing a loving mother, you can survive what a no good man does to you and the ugly things people say!
The same thing happened to me. Sometimes those of us who do everything for our men, end up being taken for granted. They always want more, more, more. When we cannot, or will not do more, they will eventually leave anyway. Two things helped me rebuild my life. 1) remember "God has called you to Peace", and 2) "Living Well is the Best Revenge!" After I recovered and rebuilt my ex asked if we could try again. NOT!
Shout out to Erica for being a great friend!Blessing to you both💜
I hope she took Erica on that tour with her..Erica needs to be rewarded and blessed for being a GOOD FRIEND...
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@@audiannichealing I don't know about best girlfriends who sometimes want to be same-sex lesbians. Women also can be very disappointing especially when they cannot control their friends, so be cautious with the Ericas' I know about these types and they are not by your side for nothing, but to have same-sex experiences. Please do not trust anyone.
She doesn’t like Ships 😂. I invited her and she was like, “ I’ll pass”! My new beau is coming.
I love that she move on. She deserves to glow.
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nah them tears still in her throat
@@danieldannydan1573 tears of joy this time
@@gazagxrlx2974 you still workin through your shit?!
I'm reading all these posts on people who went through similar stories and I want you all to know that you are loved, you are amazing, you are worthy of all the happiness and security inside.
So happy for her, she's so cute and adorable, you go girl and a word for her besty. Thank you for being there for your girl. Bless you.
My Ex Husband did something similar to me he kicked me out of our material home knowing I gave up my house for him,I'm currently living in my mom guess room this the first time I've ever been homeless. I cut off social media and in therapy because I know how powerful I am for a person to go to the extreme to break me means I'm more then a conquer. Thank God For Good Friends who never let me forget that myself love was taken but hidden by a fool🙏❤️
You deserve half of everything. Get a good lawyer sister.
The above comment plus pray and fast for direction 🗣
I am so sorry this happened to you. You ARE powerful and he cannot break you. Like the comment said, get a lawyer to protect your rights. Sending you love and light. 💛
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤
Praying with you
My ex-husband moved out on me took everything while I was at work. Years down the line he now lives a jobless life in a ghetto in Africa and am living my best life in usa 🇺🇸 😂
😁😁😁
Wow
Karma paid him a visit
Woohoo 🎉🎉 u go gurlie 🌹 God Don't like ugly for sure. Do u gurlie 🌹👍🏆❤️.
OH 😣 NO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I went through something similar. I’m in the process of a divorce and when I went home to my family to feel safe for 2 weeks and I came back home to see he moved taking items that didn’t belong to him and throwing away personal items I can never get back. My story was that I decided not to keep financially taking care of him and his son. I pray I’m released before 2023 and not have to pay him alimony! Go figure!!! Good luck sis!!!
Good luck to you, and I hope you don't have to keep supporting that bum too. It's always nice when the garbage takes itself out.
Just enjoyed listening to this beautiful soul overcoming such a depressing hurdles. Keep climbing my girl!!! You deserve the best.
When Porsha said she remembered that she survived the death of her mother, she knows she can survive anything. I felt that deep in my soul. I lost my Mom in Feb'2017 and my Dad in Jan.2018. God carried me through all of it.. I am glad to see Porsha doing well and healing!❤🥰
I’m sorry for your loss
May he continue to carry you and be a fence❤
Yessss
Yessss I felt that as well. I loss my mom Nov.2016 it was only God! Sorry for you the loss of your parents. ❤️🙏🏼
Im truly sorry for your extreme loss, my mom recently passed and its very hard because, my sister and i took care of her for a few months before so i often call that my blessing, i didnt care to work because i wanted to make sure my mom was carefully taken care of, this pain just never goes away. May God strengthen you each day because thats a load to bear.😥🙏❤🙌
My husband did the EXACT SAME THING except I was deployed in Iraq. I "came home" to NOTHING
No car, house, no personal possessions, and no husband.
He even took my entire deployment paycheck.
I was completely blindsided & absolutely DEVASTATED!!!!!
I still wake up in tears.
Omg he took your personal things too?
Whether or not you believe in a higher power please know that there is one and that they have your back. Don’t give up on your self. Gather all the strength and love for yourself that you can and begin the process of creating a new life and a new you. There may be a lot of challenges ahead but I promise you are more than capable of over coming them. As a personal testimony I can tell you that there’s nothing any person ever took from me or ways in which I was taken advantage of that has not been restored to me greater than I could have ever imagined. Just keep going,push yourself daily to find the silver lining in all things- because there are blessings even in what appear to be our darkest hours. You’ve got this!!
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May God heal your heart and restore everything back to you so that your new life will even be better in Jesus Name
So sorry @Jamie miller
I was there. It was a great pain and lost. I grieved for a year.i finally got up, dust off myself, dried my tear and strived toward my real destiny. I went back to college and now I can dance with flair. I am blessed!
Who in their right mind would leave such an amazingly, loving, considerate, kind , beautiful, lady ? A confused, selfish, controlling, wicked moron. I am so happy she’s found love again and moved on with her life.
The BEST part is her ex husband sees how amazing she's doing now!!!! Look at her now!!! I'm so happy for her!!!!!
I don’t think she would really care. She has moved on. She rebuilt her life for herself not to show him what she could do. She emotionally has built her own strength and did this all herself
Remember the man left to be happy so he's still happy and probably happier because she's happy see men don't think like women
I can promise you men don't think like that - that is your projection only
@@pipedreamism1 Doubt he's happier. She just said he tried getting her back & she rejected him 😕
@@eddunn3021 My projection only?? 153 people agreed with me since I posted this comment. Alot of people agree with what I said. YOU just don't, & that's OK!!
My girlfriend experienced this situation approximately 4 years ago. Her husband (now ex)--walked away after 16 years of marriage, then, ultimately married the woman he was "supposedly" cheating on her with! I encouraged her many times. She turned 64 years old this month, and is hoping to retire from her job sooner--than later.
64 she still young
I went through the same thing at the age of 60. 67 now and retired. Only with the help of Jesus. Single and enjoying my life.
Congratulations to her for picking herself up. Job well done
@@sharonmalone592 Amen!
My dad did my mom dirty and life had been hard for both my mom and I the last 35 years. She's 64 now and has a loving caring 45 year old boyfriend and boy did Stella get her groove back on that one. I'm super happy even if he is my age. My mom deserves happiness, no matter at what time in life it is and who it is bringing it
It's one thing to end a relationship, it's another to end it in such a way to intentionally hurt or punish the other person. That I will never understand.
It's sad. She didn't have to go through that. And she's a beautiful woman. And thanks her friend Erica for helping her.
Listen to what she just said, “He made his statement loud and clear and I heard it this time.” That’s a very telling statement about their marriage! It means she knew that there was issues in the marriage that she knew about, and didn’t take it seriously! The way he took everything was wrong without leaving anything for her! Sometimes as women we ignore the signals in our relationships that are serious! The way you treat people will come back to you and sometimes with a swiftness! He definitely got it in return! I hope she finds happiness!
Yup! 23 years she was with that man. He probably left or ghosted or broke up with her several times before and she always gave him a second, third, fourth, or fifth chance. This time, he was ruthless. But I think the kicker for her, was the embarrassment of it all.
Many women tend think once we get that r in g, we got the man/woman, and that marriage is forever. Clearly it's not. After 18 years of waiting for a ring, he did the ultimate betrayal. Glad she is better and happier
@@snicholson8884 Right!
i agree. Thats why people were asking what was her part in the situation. I dont think they were blaming her, but people figured that more had to be to the story. Cause nobody leaves like that without warning sign’s beforehand.
@@jasminegreene8159 Exactly!
I agree, shoot I’m still wondering what she did cause she didn’t acknowledge anything! No one up and leaves like that for no reason even if it’s a selfish one!
My husband did the same thing to me. Left me with 12 dollars, no job, cut off the lights, water, cable, Internet, brought his other women to court with him, got 4 lawyers, trying to put me out the house we own together, which was brought with mostly my money, my own sister was his go to for information about what I was doing. All this happened suddenly, I never saw it coming. Oh. But GOD, carried me through. I am still not 100% myself, but getting better, it's been two and a half years, I have been in Counseling, I have a lovely place to live, a good paying job, but still not dating, and having a problem with love and giving my heart or mind to anyone. Just doing ME.
Love you my lady! Take care of you!
Just know you are deserving of love. Keep shining! 🙏🏽
Praying for your continued strength and encouragement
Same thing happened to me it's hard
@@lovenotes5299 You will be fine. Blessings to you 🙏
Not him saying he wants to reconcile after that. Wow. I'm so happy she is shining bright and living life!
Watching from Athens GR ,
YOU GO GIRL! Ladies,if you dare to do the work,the past stays in the past and it doesnt poison your present. Your journey towards Self Love,Self Respect and a New Life
totally worths all the struggles you may go through along the way. Bravo a 1.000 times👏🏽🌸
Btw Porshe i would love to give you,if you want to,any tips you may need to get to know this city like a local 🙌🏽
I thought I was alone!! My ex did this to our family on Christmas Day!! I had to hold it together in front of my child but I was furious and devasted all at once. But now, It was a blessing in disguise. I thank God he left and my life has been amazing. Not easy but I have a priceless gift....PEACE OF MIND!!
Wow. So glad to hear you are doing well 🙏🏾
Girl, you are a strong strong lady. Your happiness and peace comes from you not from without. Believe in yourself and above all, God. Stay stronger, stay blessed!
Erica, thank you so so much. You are a friend indeed. God bless you!
I’m with you. I thought I was the only one. When I see these stories and these strong women bouncing back. It makes me feel so good. I had to remember who I was before I married him. It was not easy. This peace of mind is such a blessing.
Amen!
"When someone gets ready to walk out of your life....LET THEM GO!!!!" (T.D. Jakes) "Sometimes the breakup is the blessing". (Madea) Life is too short to be unhappy in any situation. I'm glad she shared her story. Karma is real, and he will get his down the road. She was smart enough not to take him back when he contacted her a year later.
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Indeed 2 it all
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@Rosea 4me exactly 💯. Just like Judge Toler says, do not let a man tell you twice that he don't want you.
Karma is a fallacy and a hope that something bad will happen to those who did you a favor. Don't waste time hoping for Karma. Move on for the best life.
I'm really proud of her!!!! She believed in herself. God will continue blessing her. She is an inspiration to all women.
Sometimes it's just best when someone like this leaves. Yes he was trying to send a message, but he probably wasn't the bread winner. Most times it's for the best. She dodged a bullet. This is why u don't let your man take away your identity. She changed who she was for him. Never lose yourself for a relationship.
I am so glad that Tamron didn't spend time shaming the bad ex husband. It shows how mature she is in dealing with issues
He should be shamed for his despicable degeneracy. An absolute lowlife. However, I am glad the focus was on the beautiful young woman’s journey and growth. Thank god she’s been able to overcome 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
I cringe when I hear the word “bad.” She married him, so he obviously had good qualities to her at the time. As much as it is insensitive to ask “what did she do” the question on everyone’s mind is “why”…What was so bad about the marriage that he left without a word. She said after he left she finally “heard him.” Tells me they were fighting prior to all of this over something and he voiced several times that she didn’t understand or hear him.
Yes ..she focused on the young woman's victories not on the ex and her " loses."
@@AkireMaru It really isn’t the fact that he left though, it’s the way he did it. No conversation, no warning and took most of her things leaving her with almost nothing. No one deserves that. Especially not someone who you claim to love. What he did was heartless and he could have never really cared for her in the way he claimed to. Just my thoughts.
@@daidretanisha3710 Hi Agree with you 💯. Like who does that? But I'm glad, that God is blessing her!
When people leave...let them go! She outgrew him.
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My best friends hasband walked out on her. I'm now really on board to keep her safe and get over the grief. She is really broken heart. I hope she gets over it soon. I can't wait to see her happy again
I am so happy for her! She is glowing and she deserves all the love. I wish her well!!!
Yes ma'am! I raised 3 by myself. No mom no dad no siblings. My kid's are grown and God did it
No you did it.
YOU did it
God always has our back 🙏
@@liliannyambane513 that's amazing. God just destroyed people's homes and livelihood in Florida. What happened? Oh yeah, of course you have some scripture to justify God's evil.
I agree with the comments above. YOU did it, by God's grace and the strength He gave you
Yes, when someone show who they are to you believe them. He shut off your internet, which you need for your business or job. He didn't care if you can work to pay your bills. When he took everything out of the apartment. He telling you to sink or swim.
Exactly! If a person shows you they don't care about your livelihood, they're showing you they DEFINITELY don't care about you!
He told her to sink and tied bricks on her ankle|s.
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You’re so right, everyone needs an Erica friend in their life. I know I sure do.
So happy for her that she had her best friend to lean on, while she went through.
So happy she’s ok and living her best life.
Hope she enjoyed her trip !
Thank you Erica for being a real friend.
I hope that Gods blesses me with such a friend like Erica, one day.
Happy 2023 to everyone as it approaches !!!
This young lady's friend Erika, has been a wonderful friend and helper. Thanks for being that special friend sweet ❤️
Ladies please keep your heads up, no one else can define you.
Amen
That hit
Not even family
I'm so proud of her. She moved on with her dignity, and showed him with her actions that No means No. I have nothing but respect for this courageous beautiful 👑 Queen. Loving your self will cause you to move on.
best thing a person can do is live their best life 🙂
Yes.
@@chocolatecosmos1424 Because the bulk of people do not communicate with their significant others. She left for a work related trip and he took THAT time to clean out their home without a word. Then he tried to get back with her saying, in essence, it was all a joke. It can be explained to you, but no one can understand it for you.
This was so inspiring and beautiful to see freedom on her face and voice! Hallelujah ❤
So happy her friend was there for her and that she is doing great now...❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Let me tell yall something. Let's not overlook that her friend is a REAL friend! True friends are hard to come by.
She is beautiful and I'm glad she rediscovered herself. Karma came back around quick!
Amen but she forgot God number 1
What if that was her karma? I still want to know what would
Have triggered such an act. Not to justify anyone or anything but I’m
Just saying. Who was she in Vegas with? I just think if the shoe was on the other foot. There would
Have been cheers 🥂 (blue Cantrell) 🤷🏾♀️
@@medusaslocoasisathome9142 what if he was just wrong
@@books6000 I’m evil because I understand that there is always more to a social media story? Is there mental health involved? All I’m saying there’s more, doesn’t justify anything but there’s more. Understand that the story is always told by the story teller, from their prospective.
@@medusaslocoasisathome9142 Everyone is allowed to have their opinion. But, one thing is for certain, two things for sure, before you decide to spit in someone's face, you BETTER MAKE DAMN SURE that that is your FINAL answer! He doesn't get to make a U-turn after such a betrayal. I believe the fact that he is willing to go back, invalidates the theory you're attempting to put forth - imo. I understand there are THREE sides to every story. But, it's also important to look at what's in front of you. In general, Men do not forgive nearly half as much as women do. If she did him wrong (based on your theory) and he felt the need to do what he did, he should not want to go back - ever! Why? Because what she did would've been so horrible, that it would've justified his actions, correct? It means he did what he did because he had PROOF that she is a liar, a cheat, an adulterer, manipulative, deceitful, etc... WHO would want to KNOWINGLY reconcile with someone like that? I'm not buying it. He jumped ship, thinking he had someone better than her (or, that he would be better off alone) and it backfired, imo. He had a better life with her and now realizes it - again, imo. He doesn't deserve to ever have ounce of her attention, again.
Lesson learnt : Be RESOURCEFUL. Someone can take your life's savings, but a year later, you'll have that and more! Your assest is actually your resourcefulness & resilience.
That's why her husband wanted her back. He didn't totally rob her.
Thank you so much for this comment!!!! It should be taught in church and school!! This is amazing…life changing advice!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
18 years with someone and they can do this to you . . . I’m so sorry.