Why You Don't Fit in and get 0 B*tches

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  • čas přidán 22. 02. 2023
  • White boy get em
    Main Channel - / @gerbertjohnson
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  • @jonasbarrick9246
    @jonasbarrick9246 Před rokem +3776

    You have to respect gerby for threatening the security of the country in the first 5 seconds where most CZcamsrs wouldn’t even say a lil cuss word.

  • @mumflrpumble9107
    @mumflrpumble9107 Před rokem +2296

    Gerby getting us out the hood and into the padded cell

    • @pineappleflow2876
      @pineappleflow2876 Před rokem +122

      Fighting our inner demons, grinding 24/7

    • @mumflrpumble9107
      @mumflrpumble9107 Před rokem +1

      @@pineappleflow2876 Yeah I'm fighting demons.
      D
      E
      Minorities
      O
      N
      S

    • @ghostboyavo8128
      @ghostboyavo8128 Před rokem +9

      📲😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹

    • @ElectrostatiCrow
      @ElectrostatiCrow Před rokem +31

      The voices in my head never stop but grind never stops as well.

    • @thnxm8
      @thnxm8 Před rokem +19

      out of the hood and into the pod

  • @kenandrieling5885
    @kenandrieling5885 Před rokem +1600

    I spent 20 years in the same social circle and realized that they were not really my friends. I was not meeting any girls that I wanted to make my girlfriend in that social circle either. I'm 42 and own my own construction business, but I'm extremely lonely. I would rather be lonely than be surrounded by losers though. Im pretty much invisible in this world.

    • @kenandrieling5885
      @kenandrieling5885 Před rokem +225

      @@HFNloser That's not cool. Hope you are not serious

    • @RizZRizZ-
      @RizZRizZ- Před rokem +76

      @@kenandrieling5885 if you buy me an AMG 63S 4-door coupe I’ll be your friend forever
      I will take you to parties
      I’ll be your wingman lol

    • @kenandrieling5885
      @kenandrieling5885 Před rokem

      @@RizZRizZ- M 3s are way cooler

    • @pewtercamaro
      @pewtercamaro Před rokem +25

      @@kenandrieling5885 if he is what’s it matter? I’m 39 and wish my attempt would have worked at 19…

    • @RizZRizZ-
      @RizZRizZ- Před rokem +14

      @@kenandrieling5885 not the new ones with gigantic grills
      And they’re not really comparable

  • @afterhourscinema782
    @afterhourscinema782 Před 4 měsíci +36

    "If you had a wedding, who would be there??"
    Holy shit, when you put it that way, I realize just how alone I am.

  • @captainanus8131
    @captainanus8131 Před rokem +845

    “If you had a wedding who would be there”
    That’s not a nugget. That is a mountain sized blackpill

    • @markomark9587
      @markomark9587 Před rokem +110

      Yup, Its over dude.

    • @yeatdagoat173
      @yeatdagoat173 Před rokem

      That's what made me to stop being a bitch

    • @brandoniskewlig
      @brandoniskewlig Před rokem +70

      ​@@markomark9587what are we supposed to do? Accept were fucked and can never live a traditional live and kill ourselves so we dont have to wrestle with that thought anymore or bother the few people we do go around with our loserness?

    • @jhinthevirtuoso4886
      @jhinthevirtuoso4886 Před rokem +104

      @@brandoniskewligwe should end industrial society.

    • @nuclearpugg
      @nuclearpugg Před rokem

      Who wants to unironically get married nowadays with the laws so rigged against men? So many successful men turned into losers by marriage I will never understand it

  • @iiCounted-op5jx
    @iiCounted-op5jx Před rokem +222

    "Why You Don't Fit in and get 0 B*tches"
    literally only 1 minute ago and already in my recommended, youtube is trying to tell me something 💀

    • @Iamwhatyoumademe
      @Iamwhatyoumademe Před rokem +1

      @@HFNloser where's dbdr

    • @gamescentrel2951
      @gamescentrel2951 Před rokem

      ai is real

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx Před rokem

      @@HFNloser wait ur talking about that blackpill channel right??

    • @marianna380
      @marianna380 Před rokem

      harsh...

    • @ponternal
      @ponternal Před rokem +1

      60 percent of zoomer males are single compared to 30 percent of zoomer girls. It's simple statistics why the algorithm knew you.

  • @robertjamestaylor9261
    @robertjamestaylor9261 Před rokem +161

    About 12 years ago I wrote a short post on well known online forum asking "why I can't get a girlfriend, I'm not even that ugly or socially awkward", and someone responded with "You probably are both". Turns out he was right.

    • @michaeldurden
      @michaeldurden Před rokem +3

      did something change since then

    • @robertjamestaylor9261
      @robertjamestaylor9261 Před rokem +33

      ​@@michaeldurden yes, nowadays I'm considering plastic surgery very unironically

    • @michaeldurden
      @michaeldurden Před rokem +8

      @@robertjamestaylor9261 I actually meant ur social situation but go you I guess

    • @robertjamestaylor9261
      @robertjamestaylor9261 Před rokem +20

      @@michaeldurden not really man, looks, personality traits and social life are all interconnected, if you're not a normie you will have a hard time no matter where you go, though I must admit it got somewhat easier since I put on some muscle

    • @Ganbre14
      @Ganbre14 Před rokem +5

      By the looks of it and the response im going to guess maybe It was reddit people there are either very "fake positive" or very fucking brutal when giving responses lol

  • @ilovetruthserum
    @ilovetruthserum Před rokem +465

    I can tell you're hurting right now Gerby. Stay strong brother.

    • @TheLastOutlaw289
      @TheLastOutlaw289 Před 5 měsíci +8

      He looks like he’s about to just collapse in every video. Idk how the guy can cope with whatever he’s dealing with it’s amazing.

    • @1810jeff
      @1810jeff Před 4 měsíci +8

      I think it's because he realized that hook ups aren't happiness and neither is serial monogamy. Meaning the path to fulfilling the third level of the hierarchy of needs is marriage and a family which is almost non existent in this generation even for people that are smarter, better looking and richer than us.

    • @TheLastOutlaw289
      @TheLastOutlaw289 Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@1810jeff become a monk? Is that de new wae?

    • @1810jeff
      @1810jeff Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@TheLastOutlaw289 Don't know, I mean somethings gotta give right? This cannot continue without something breaking, at least that's what I hope.

    • @TheLastOutlaw289
      @TheLastOutlaw289 Před 4 měsíci

      @@1810jeff the situation right now looks like some kind of genetic bottleneck….artificial maybe but a bottleneck nonetheless….i saw a video the other day and some black chick was saying how only 40% of men got to reproduce long ago and this is true for most species if not worse?? Why was I never taught this in school not even on tv or popular internet sites like CZcams….40%!!!!! That’s astonishing….i swear the only thing I fear is getting old and not having atleast one kid to look after me or have my back whe I can’t move like I want too…if it wasn’t for that I wouldn’t even care about women or having kids that much….if I do have a kid I’m black pilling the shit out of him/her and letting them know exactly why I had them…but I need to make sure I have a foundation to make them flourish first I won’t let me kid suffer in this sick matrix 😂

  • @justmarkiis
    @justmarkiis Před rokem +156

    “If you had a wedding, who would be there?”
    That hit me like a truck. Earned a sub.

    • @jessiemadrid9543
      @jessiemadrid9543 Před rokem +2

      Same, subbed after this video myself

    • @rael954
      @rael954 Před rokem +7

      Yeah IKR ! Made me realise I gotta stop waiting for the girls and should instead search for more friends at first.
      I mean I already got some but they all are alone as well. It is easy to make friends but difficult to form real GROUPS.

    • @KiKfilms
      @KiKfilms Před rokem +1

      If I had a wedding, a LOT of people would like to go. The problem is there first has to be the girl that wants to marry me, and thats the only person that would be absent xd

    • @clipkut4979
      @clipkut4979 Před 8 měsíci

      @@KiKfilms Then you need to have the money for the wedding (and the divorce 🤣)

  • @pod9363
    @pod9363 Před rokem +515

    Its so wild to me how I'm like the first guy in my family to really just be 99% alone. I don't think it's a flaw tho. Every time I get a little curious with people around me who have bigger social lives i just get reminded of why I don't socialize.
    People who talk over you, don't listen, have 4 kids with 4 different parents, addicted to sex or chemicals, its a real shitshow of a social selection out there and just trying to fit in seems way more costly than just being by yourself. It'll change one day when those who hate the fake shit reach a critical mass.

    • @lonely_dolphin8923
      @lonely_dolphin8923 Před rokem +2

      What's the 1%?

    • @Satanic-Dan
      @Satanic-Dan Před rokem +10

      It is a flaw cuz that means our genetics aren’t good enough. Although it takes luck to find other Incels who struggle. I’m lucky to have a few people in real life who are in the same predicament as me and we enjoy our shit life together.

    • @videoartistMC
      @videoartistMC Před rokem +1

      lol u sound awful to be around. you say u have no social life and simultaneously judge the struggles and dismiss all those around you. wake up dude

    • @lonely_dolphin8923
      @lonely_dolphin8923 Před rokem +41

      @@videoartistMC Do you really believe our society is so good and just that it's impossible for one to be surrounded by assholes? If yes, then how is it he became "awful to be around" if he's surrounded by nothing but positive influences?

    • @pod9363
      @pod9363 Před rokem

      ​@@lonely_dolphin8923 just 1 or 2 ppl I know from online

  • @Powerlifting45619
    @Powerlifting45619 Před rokem +932

    Gerb, I've been really enjoying your videos. I'm a millennial, but I feel the same struggles that I see gen Z going through. I'm 6'2, built like a greek statue, and pretty funny - I'm still alone. It's really hard to make friends. If you're friendless like me, when you DO get a girl, she becomes a main component of your life. Unfortunately, women hate being the center of a man's life. You begin to rely on her too much for fulfillment, and that turns her off eventually. I agree with the bit about parasocial relationships, as I ironically write this comment. Keep making videos, you're a smart guy.

    • @pod9363
      @pod9363 Před rokem +160

      Agreed about the girl thing. As soon as she sees you're using her as ur own personal heroin needle she wants to gtfo as quick as possible.

    • @lonely_dolphin8923
      @lonely_dolphin8923 Před rokem +77

      Anyone who doesn't think their partner should be a main component of their life likely isn't worth being with anyway.

    • @thrpotatoasfgfejfidieiidkr7071
      @thrpotatoasfgfejfidieiidkr7071 Před rokem +135

      ​@@lonely_dolphin8923 I think what they mean is that girls (especially when a relationship is new) want to know that there is more to a guy than just the fact he is dating her, that he has other hobbies, friends etc that he cares a lot about too.

    • @Satanic-Dan
      @Satanic-Dan Před rokem +32

      Sorry to say, not denying you’re any of these things but if something is lacking in terms of physicality, whether it’s height, face, or body, then you’re missing something. You need everything and quite literally to succeed with women and in society nowadays.

    • @nakki889
      @nakki889 Před rokem +48

      I know plenty of men who basically vanish after they meet their girlfriend so its not like she wants to be with his friends anyway.

  • @pancakes_go2940
    @pancakes_go2940 Před rokem +324

    Gerby when is the label gon' hit you up?

  • @lukeaustin1671
    @lukeaustin1671 Před rokem +37

    Man clicked on wrong download button ☠️

  • @victorstroganov8135
    @victorstroganov8135 Před rokem +41

    My guy wanted some free vbux 😂

  • @abccba9763
    @abccba9763 Před rokem +414

    I was similar to you Gerby, skinny weak and shy and when I had my glow up I became tall, good looking, in shape etc.
    I definitely feel better about myself but not necessarily happier. When I was younger, people didn’t take me serious because I was skinny and shy however I was somehow able to connect more with people and life was just a happier place. Now it feels like every dude I see on the street looks at me angry or as competition. The better looking I got, the lonelier I became. At this point I don’t even care about having a girlfriend, I rather just have a few very close friends, a brotherhood. But it seems like everyone already has got that except for me.

    • @casperTM
      @casperTM Před rokem +50

      bars

    • @rayshafi2855
      @rayshafi2855 Před rokem +30

      you'll be fine brother dw stop worrying and stressing about it and it'll come to you naturally, just work on yourself and become the type of person that people would wanna surround themselve w, spread positivity n love❤

    • @GuestingGameplays
      @GuestingGameplays Před rokem +2

      @Luka Tim yup, Im prob not only from a different country but continent (South America) and completely relate to this, the jealousy ruins relationships and reputations... I was about to say that in general its harder to find real ones nowadays, but rather people are more trivial and most importantly put a lot of value on the materials and not on the companies and connection in which is what truly is of value, if I could put it in a simpler way. So meeting with others that seek to attain and improve the things that cannot be seen as was stated by Miyamoto Musashi will probably relate a lot, I was thinking maybe doing a sport that you personally enjoy in a social circle may help a lot with that, but still its true that if we dont have attitude we make by far colleagues kind of, and if we pursue it in a desperate way things only go down... so to chill and keeping our heads up is important, and its to understand that all that is part of life, I understood both of them arent bad, alone or accompanied, both has its utilities but I indeed also need more experience, and we shouldnt rush. Indeed we shouldnt rush anything.

    • @saturnringer267
      @saturnringer267 Před rokem +29

      This hits a little too close to home for me. Recently, I’ve glowed up (worked out regularly, mewing, better hairstyle and outfits) and I’ve noticed that it’s even harder to make friends now. I’m more confident now but it kinda sucks not being able to connect to anyone other than my family. Good luck on your journey tho

    • @Cbd_7ohm
      @Cbd_7ohm Před rokem

      You're delusional. Stop thinking only about yourself and look at reality. You aren't the only lonely person, especially guys.

  • @R3DD3LUX
    @R3DD3LUX Před rokem +342

    just ended my 5 year relationship and still feel like a loser , a loser trying to improve but still a loser.
    Thank you for your videos , they cheer me up and motivate me

    • @mumflrpumble9107
      @mumflrpumble9107 Před rokem +9

      I wish you well in your journey out of this brother

    • @nicolasbolas2247
      @nicolasbolas2247 Před rokem +2

      Every move forward is a step in the right direction

    • @jaipeavy5638
      @jaipeavy5638 Před rokem +5

      What is your definition of a winner?

    • @lonely_dolphin8923
      @lonely_dolphin8923 Před rokem +1

      @@jaipeavy5638 One who wins of course. In this context, they win friends, family, and community.

    • @R3DD3LUX
      @R3DD3LUX Před rokem +26

      @@jaipeavy5638 i tell ya what isn't a winner , staying inside your bedroom all day hating on yourself and your life aint it chief
      but slowly we change things and improve

  • @Rei_geDo
    @Rei_geDo Před rokem +28

    WAKE UP
    WAKE UP
    WAKE UP
    WAKE UP
    WAKE UP
    WAKE UP
    WAKE UP
    WAKE UP
    WAKE UP
    WAKE UP

    • @ZyzzBrahh.
      @ZyzzBrahh. Před 2 měsíci

      wake up

    • @Jeff-gov
      @Jeff-gov Před měsícem

      it's da first of da month so cash your cheques and get uuuuuuuup

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster Před rokem +459

    A lot of guys overthink social interactions. It's not that hard once u get into the flow, and that comes with putting urself out there/approaching girls u like. U won't click with everyone u talk to, and a lot of girls will reject u for a bunch of different reasons, but that's ok. U gotta find the ones u vibe with, and fk the rest.

    • @mafumofu986
      @mafumofu986 Před rokem +203

      I have autism, there is no flow, no clicking, no vibing, just pain and agony

    • @filipDim
      @filipDim Před rokem +11

      Same with my adhd

    • @filipDim
      @filipDim Před rokem +46

      My adhd makes me overthink, have no flow or whatever else, just anxiety. Meditation helped a little but not really. Losing weight and changing my looks helped but not much. Although its getting better since I discovered faith. And eventually i hope i will beat this with gods help.

    • @mainao3443
      @mainao3443 Před rokem +4

      ​@FilipD try and be humble and grateful, that helps with anxiety, their a kid in a middle east or some shit actually going through hell that's probably giving him real anxiety

    • @filipDim
      @filipDim Před rokem +17

      @@mainao3443 Thinking of people who live worse than me doesn't help(gratefulness does), because i feel like im being forced to live inside my head. I wish i could just enlighten myself when i think of africa or middle east. Prayer (not just for myself) together with contemplating and gratefulness started to help me.

  • @industrynugget
    @industrynugget Před rokem +16

    boi just wanted free software

  • @night_og3515
    @night_og3515 Před rokem +29

    The main channel got hacked 💀

  • @coordsportgmbh5728
    @coordsportgmbh5728 Před rokem +75

    Gerby talking about a demonic entity...me checking his subscribers number.

  • @chingler802
    @chingler802 Před rokem +25

    sold his main channel for 10k i respect the hustle

  • @0xdeadbeef131
    @0xdeadbeef131 Před rokem +16

    main channel got hacked, over for gerbstar

  • @robzan87
    @robzan87 Před rokem +67

    It would be interesting to study what percentage of people become (painfully) aware of the social hierarchy games. It certainly happens to many intelligent guys who struggle with mental health. But there's plenty of people, some with lower IQ, that keep playing the social games and enjoying social gatherings while being mostly unaware of the dynamics that are happening.

    • @KmansRants
      @KmansRants Před rokem +7

      I thought I was the only one who noticed this

    • @akaroth7542
      @akaroth7542 Před rokem +1

      Check out Thinking Ape on CZcams. He hits on a lot of this. He's very black pilled though, in case you want to avoid it.

    • @lelele1408
      @lelele1408 Před rokem +21

      This is one of the best comments i have seen on yt so far, because it reflects what i have been thinking for YEARS. It may sound arrogant but it's especially intelligent people that tend to analyze situations, that have this struggle. In every social situation i start to loose myself in thoughts about the social hierarchy in the given moment, i think about who would look up to who, pay attention to the body language and confidence, and thereby constructing the hierarchy. The consecuence is that it becomes impossible to just be in the moment amd have fun, i guess ignorance is bliss lol

    • @iCookCrystalMeth
      @iCookCrystalMeth Před rokem

      tards got it good what can i say

    • @aaronbryan5095
      @aaronbryan5095 Před 2 měsíci

      The ones that aren't aware of the social hierarchy games belong in the NPC category

  • @frodoz5185
    @frodoz5185 Před rokem +23

    RUSSIAN TECH SUPPORT TOOK HIS MAIN CHANNEL

  • @hussainsdomain
    @hussainsdomain Před rokem +15

    GOGURET THEY HAVE YER CHANNEL

  • @williambates6060
    @williambates6060 Před rokem +11

    Yeah main channel hacked if you try to leave comment it gets deleted if anybody wondering whats with all the weird spotify crack hack shit

  • @0xdeadbeef131
    @0xdeadbeef131 Před rokem +11

    OH NO THE BOT COMMENTS ARE FLOODING IN NOW

  • @probablybrian5460
    @probablybrian5460 Před rokem +64

    What a wonderful channel, I sure hope if he has a main channel no nefarious activities take place

  • @HB2012
    @HB2012 Před rokem +39

    If this guy got hacked cause he was tempted by some mommy milkers i swear…

  • @airpodsrust
    @airpodsrust Před rokem +12

    OH NO THEY GOT GERBERTS MAIN CHANNEL

  • @someperson9999
    @someperson9999 Před rokem +18

    A lot of depressed people in this comment section.
    Suicide hotline changed to 988, you can call or text them. No sense committing to a permanent outcome for a temporary problem. Death is not the answer or solace you're looking for. Embrace kindness and self respect. And remember that there are millions of people just like you. You're not alone.

  • @andrenick5086
    @andrenick5086 Před rokem +153

    Bro Gerby you make a difference. I gotta say as a 23 y/o guy back in college. Looking for opportunity in clubs, classes, and activity on campus is where friends come from. Secondly being comfortable while alone is important and making yourself laugh. Not everyone will like you, or be a long lasting friend so it’s important for guys straight out of HS to drop that expectation

    • @brandoniskewlig
      @brandoniskewlig Před rokem +12

      It's so much harder as a hs dropout im 20 and haven't been in school in a couple years now and its so hard to naturally find people lol.

    • @WorldKeepsSpinnin
      @WorldKeepsSpinnin Před rokem +2

      @@brandoniskewlig fr maybe we go to sports clubs or some shit idk but work and all that, i feel like theres nothing for us tbh. There needs to be more shit to get people together

    • @smak387
      @smak387 Před rokem +3

      ​@@brandoniskewlig you need to develop real interests: hiking, drones, fishing, an author, snowboarding whatever. Then pay money to attend events. You will meet lots of people you like.

    • @uncomfortabletruths7990
      @uncomfortabletruths7990 Před rokem

      @@brandoniskewlig did you get your GED? I would just say get that and than focus on making friends cause people will judge you on that

  • @industrynugget
    @industrynugget Před rokem +10

    that moment when gerbert johnson clicks on a sketchy sponsorship link in his e-mail and loses access to all of his social media accounts

  • @cvspvr
    @cvspvr Před rokem +24

    dude, your main channel got hacked

  • @mjdagoat5440
    @mjdagoat5440 Před rokem +13

    Bro got hacked 💀

  • @lilbroomstick7914
    @lilbroomstick7914 Před rokem +189

    Man I wish you talked more about the dude who wrote to you trying to make friends making active effort to talk to people, and how he found harder time getting numbers and deeper connections than the dude who said nothing to nobody

    • @sembridie6275
      @sembridie6275 Před rokem +62

      The simple solution is to make active effort when meeting new people, and when this is not reciprocated you stop doing it. If someone does reciprocate you stayed real to yourself and did not act like some cool sigma who does not talk, which could potentionally lead to deep connection. Stay real, don't act like someone you are not because this won't benefit you in the long run

    • @videoartistMC
      @videoartistMC Před rokem +19

      i think that guy just missed massive context in the situation. if the guy who got asked for his number really wasnt saying much then noone would have asked to chill again. either the writer is socially inept, or missed something that happened before he came, or while he was there. or maybe they just knew each other before

    • @jackhawk8997
      @jackhawk8997 Před rokem

      ​@@sembridie6275This is the equivalent of "Just be yourself" advice. You cannot just be yourself, most of society isn't made up of very understanding people who they themselves have various reasons why they wouldn't trust anyone who isn't a familiar caricature they trust, and some do this with very good reason.

    • @eichkater6928
      @eichkater6928 Před rokem

      @@videoartistMC this guy and many others do not realize that humans are interacting with small slot machines that sit inside their pockets.
      20-30 years ago, you competed with the high, buzzing feeling of getting new pussy, going to a vacation or meeting strangers at festivals, having success in your career.
      Now, you compete with a dopamine surge from facebook, only fans, tinder, hinge, bumble, snapchat, instagram, chads, random hook ups.
      So, in a societal way huge proportions of our nowadays population is simply desensitized to basic things in life.
      Your brain doesnt light up meeting strangers or even girls.
      In other words, to others as a " normal " friend - seeking guy your just lame. Thats also the reason why more people become alone and atomized.
      There is no connection anymore, besides artificial ones induced by social media and smartphones.
      You'd need billions of people getting rid of their smartphones to become fully conscious and relatable to each other again.

    • @videoartistMC
      @videoartistMC Před rokem

      @@eichkater6928 dude take accountability. you speak in such an extremist way because you are online, so you only see the online activities. there are a lot of people who arent consumed by social media, but because of your confirmation bias looking online for answers you dont realize it.

  • @brandonsolanes9217
    @brandonsolanes9217 Před rokem +14

    Did ur last account get hacked

  • @le-marques-noir5912
    @le-marques-noir5912 Před rokem +7

    Jacob Rothschild hit Gerberts main acc

  • @xeee___8196
    @xeee___8196 Před rokem +197

    I appreciate your take on this. Half a year ago I escaped depression. I started working out, I started my online business which makes me money until now. But theres still a few hours a day I need a rest, a bit of thinking, I feel so alone, my phone so dry, Im starting to lose my purpose. After some time I started to read Bible which helped me, I found escape in God, good word gave me hope. But theres still a void. Maybe I didnt kill all my feelings yet

    • @fm1668
      @fm1668 Před rokem +31

      Bible will change your life man it’s crazy

    • @dougm3162
      @dougm3162 Před rokem +33

      Dude big respect. I’m kinda in the same boat. I feel very alone often, but I feel God is the only person that understands me. I can’t explain myself to anyone else but him. Also, being thankful daily for the things I have washes my mind and day of negative thoughts. Praying is life man..

    • @youroldman8129
      @youroldman8129 Před rokem +6

      Pick up some other books too (sci-fi/fantasy novels such as R.A. Salvatore's stuff on Drizzt, various books from the Warhammer 40k setting (Gaunt's Ghosts, Ciaphas Kain, ect.), and japanese light novels (especially Overlord) keep me in fine company. After my friends from high-school and I stopped doing things together, I realized that other than family I mostly just need people for networking.

    • @TRsurenda213
      @TRsurenda213 Před rokem +9

      Or maybe it's cause the Bible makes it clear how important it is for us to have connections with other people.

    • @rayshafi2855
      @rayshafi2855 Před rokem +2

      you'll be okay man trust❤you're doing amazing brother keep your head up and live a day at a time

  • @tallspartan117
    @tallspartan117 Před rokem +14

    Bro your main channel just got hacked multiple scam videos have been uploaded to it

  • @msnubootysux
    @msnubootysux Před rokem +79

    We in dis bitch😭 let’s go big Gerbie 🌸

    • @chrisdadrilla
      @chrisdadrilla Před rokem +4

      YESSIR. 🗿🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @jackhawk8997
      @jackhawk8997 Před rokem

      Why does your username read like "Msunu booty sux" 💀

    • @baL88537
      @baL88537 Před rokem +3

      Kinda sus emoji

    • @s0ne01
      @s0ne01 Před rokem

      ​@@baL88537 indeed

  • @marcodimario73
    @marcodimario73 Před rokem +21

    Bro you’re main channel got hacked!!

    • @nexsus7453
      @nexsus7453 Před rokem +6

      Wtf happened

    • @marcodimario73
      @marcodimario73 Před rokem +11

      And the hacker is hiding every comment

    • @23373
      @23373 Před rokem +6

      ​@@marcodimario73 truly a bitch move

  • @kage9426
    @kage9426 Před rokem +9

    how to get back hack channel 2013 (100%)

  • @0xdeadbeef131
    @0xdeadbeef131 Před rokem +13

    free my twink gerby

  • @jameswilliams6002
    @jameswilliams6002 Před rokem +10

    I've given up on women my new goal is to just play clash royale until I hit league 10

  • @solem810
    @solem810 Před rokem +51

    yeah wow, the line about filling the empty void of my lack/active avoidance of socializing and instead isolating myself under the pretense that this is better for me and my "self improvment" with just noise from social media. so i still have the reprocussions of procrastinating on what i need to do, with my brain thinking i get lots of attention, with like you said the parasocial side of things. its really opened my eyes in a way but i dont really know what to do about it. Like ive dug myself a hole with my social circle as they have all progressed with out me. and now it really feels lonely. and with all the time ive had to myself ive filled it with something that is completly worthless while not actually progressing in the things that matter.

    • @CommandoMaster
      @CommandoMaster Před rokem +6

      I think like u, a lot of guys overthink social interactions. It's not that hard once u get into the flow, and that comes with putting urself out there/approaching girls u like. U won't click with everyone u talk to, and a lot of girls will reject u for a bunch of different reasons, but that's ok. U gotta find the ones u vibe with, and fk the rest.

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx Před rokem +1

      I've been isolated for 3 years straight and now I have no friends at 17, it's hopeless for me

    • @iamnotoforiginald9206
      @iamnotoforiginald9206 Před rokem

      @@iiCounted-op5jx You're young enough for there to still be hope

  • @StarlaneX
    @StarlaneX Před rokem +99

    What an informative, classy yet humorous content creator! I sure do hope his main channel isn't ran by a russian hacker that gives out false downloads to cracked softwares.

    • @abc9591
      @abc9591 Před rokem +2

      I thought he would’ve addressed that by now😂

    • @Monsizr
      @Monsizr Před rokem

      what does this mean

  • @Mark-xw5yt
    @Mark-xw5yt Před rokem +12

    Hey gerby werby. I really want Spotify premium but I can't afford it. Do you know any ways in which I might be able to get a cracked version for free?
    Thanks in advance 🙏

  • @fivr.
    @fivr. Před rokem +23

    bro downloaded the free robux hack

    • @fivr.
      @fivr. Před rokem

      @@lambda653 fire

    • @fivr.
      @fivr. Před rokem

      @@lambda653 the emojis are fire asl bro. you use them by knowing the ancient scripts

  • @Otani_Garage
    @Otani_Garage Před rokem +58

    One thing I’ve been trying lately is actually reaching out to people when I think of them. Social media has this weird way of making it possible to display your life to other people and yet people feel weird about actually sending a DM or starting a real conversation. From your videos, I’ve thought a lot about the friends I haven’t talked to in a few years and by reaching out I realized a lot of them are in the same position as myself. Working a lot, and drifting away from friends they had years before. So take a chance and reignite a connection, it might be worth it

  • @JayIennn
    @JayIennn Před rokem +41

    Gerbert gonna make it out the trenches one day

  • @y__o__h__i
    @y__o__h__i Před rokem +11

    Bro really got hacked for free software rip

  • @Satanic-Dan
    @Satanic-Dan Před rokem +16

    Because we aren’t the lucky few percent of men who prosper especially with the social media era.

    • @ArgonNoble
      @ArgonNoble Před rokem +9

      You can’t cry yourself to death

    • @Satanic-Dan
      @Satanic-Dan Před rokem +2

      @@ArgonNoble if you take some hardcore fentanyl and lace it with heroine you sure as hell can 😅

  • @shady31357
    @shady31357 Před rokem +16

    Did your other channel get hacked?

  • @dogman683
    @dogman683 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Gerby is a respectable black man fighting for his brothers.

  • @aeitis7719
    @aeitis7719 Před rokem +12

    Bro your main channel got hacked dawg 💀💀💀💀💀

  • @itsThunderrlol
    @itsThunderrlol Před rokem +15

    yo gerb your main channel got hacked

  • @dino4447
    @dino4447 Před rokem +24

    Landed on a watchlist in the first 7 seconds. Classic Gerby.

  • @nolanbrewermusic
    @nolanbrewermusic Před rokem +14

    Bro I think your main channel got hacked 😭

  • @rip02
    @rip02 Před rokem +15

    bro got ransacked by Sanjeep Patel

  • @griffenalexander5597
    @griffenalexander5597 Před rokem +18

    Getting a vibe that someone else is overthinking a social interaction is really off putting - I think that hits the nail on the head Mr. Johnson

  • @stevenobrien7686
    @stevenobrien7686 Před rokem +34

    Gerby always makes my day when he uploads. Funny, goofy ahh jokes, self aware assessment of life, and wisdom on how to navigate the modern day. Good stuff always.

  • @wstyn
    @wstyn Před rokem +11

    rip the main channel 😭

  • @TDTheMachiavellian
    @TDTheMachiavellian Před rokem +22

    GERBBYYYY HOW'D YOU LET YOURSELF GET HACKED 😭😭😭

  • @abnerwhitewaterduck6723
    @abnerwhitewaterduck6723 Před 11 měsíci +8

    Fitting in is a sign of weekness.

  • @Hidz88
    @Hidz88 Před rokem +21

    Rip gerby main got taken by Pakistani government 😔😔😔

  • @sushitrash-dj9vq
    @sushitrash-dj9vq Před rokem +13

    yo check your main

  • @brandnew3225
    @brandnew3225 Před rokem +10

    Keep this channel secure

  • @abccba9763
    @abccba9763 Před rokem +23

    It’s crazy how much we can relate to Gerby, yet we are all lonely. What if the dude you saw on the bus and never talk to also watches Gerby videos and is in this comment section.

  • @joshuasimpson4021
    @joshuasimpson4021 Před rokem +10

    Baby gerbie gon make it out the hood with this one 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @prozacpeople
    @prozacpeople Před 2 měsíci +3

    Oh my...i've just swallowed the black pill...bad Gerby!

  • @FallWinterSpringSummer777

    Your main got hacked

  • @jime2568
    @jime2568 Před rokem +14

    Gerbert's raps never fail us...

  • @BennyOcean
    @BennyOcean Před rokem +151

    10:47 "I can fill my mind with noise, listen to podcasts all the time... oh wow it's almost like I'm talking to new people!" Can relate, big time.
    As far as weddings, here's a radical thought: don't have one. My brother got married at the courthouse and that was it. Some people want a big wedding and a party, other people want a marriage. There was a study that showed an inverse relationship between the amount spent on the wedding and the success of the marriage. If a couple is spending $10,000 or more on a wedding, that's money that should be going toward something more important, like the down payment on a house.
    We don't have infinite money to spend and housing is more expensive than ever. Same for expensive diamond rings and crazy honeymoons. Decide if you want the big parade sold to you by Hollywood and the whole capitalist marketing establishment, or do you want a successful marriage, because those two desires are in conflict with each other.

    • @mumflrpumble9107
      @mumflrpumble9107 Před rokem +18

      It's not that, bro, it's the concept of joining in union with a women when you yourself aren't whole. By that I mean without a fully fleshed social network you as a social creature are incomplete

    • @gabron21
      @gabron21 Před rokem +6

      Agree with the no wedding(or very minimalistic wedding).

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd Před rokem +4

      Honeymoon is literally the best thing among all those options to spend on. Two one-year RTW tickets is about $10k.

    • @DutchWestFilms
      @DutchWestFilms Před rokem +15

      My sister cut a lot of costs at her wedding, and it was a lot of fun; No brides mades or grooms men, no rehearsal dinner, photographer was a media student building his portfolio, reception at a friend's backyard, no bachelor party or wedding shower. They did have lobster, with some of the $ they saved. They're still married 8 years later.

    • @lonely_dolphin8923
      @lonely_dolphin8923 Před rokem

      @@mumflrpumble9107 Joining with a partner and potentially their family and friends would flesh out ones social network no?

  • @pch3611
    @pch3611 Před rokem +10

    Bros main got hacked

  • @IVORYSULTRA
    @IVORYSULTRA Před 3 měsíci +2

    As an extrovert, the only thing I can really say to someone who struggles with socializing, just realize everyone gets rejected. Even the most neurotypical people ever do. The most “perfect” person. Keeping this in mind, what you can realize is that it’s okay to get rejected and when you succeed that it makes it so much more valuable. I understand that’s not exactly the most perfect response, and being young is really hard even through your college years. But being social when you’re not the best looking or didn’t 100% grow up with everyone liking you, you have to learn to not give a fuck much more than those people. And most importantly, be grateful for what you have. 1 good friend is better than 10 fugazzi ass ones. This is coming from someone who people were genuinely scared of me until my senior year. I always had friends, but a lot of people didn’t like me and sorta shit on me/bullied me all because of some bullshit lol. I felt super ostracized, and I kinda had to start small to become acquaintances with people who weren’t my immediate friends. But I think it’s possible for pretty much everyone, but not a necessity to live a happy life.

  • @bdbreak
    @bdbreak Před rokem +5

    we gettin out the room with these bars ‼️🔥🔥

  • @quandontaviousjinglebotomd1069

    bro been hacked

  • @materialmann2568
    @materialmann2568 Před rokem +13

    did ur main get hacked?

  • @KurokamiNajimi
    @KurokamiNajimi Před rokem +14

    Some people have an issue(s) that can be fixed but I think what not many want to acknowledge is that sometimes people simply don’t find anyone relatable. You can have the best social skills in the world, social skills aren’t tricks to improve chemistry with people. Nor is it really that complex. There’s only so many ways you can approach an interaction

  • @MarkMightBeBetter
    @MarkMightBeBetter Před rokem +10

    Gerbs my nigga, why were you hacked
    😭😭😭😭😭

  • @daveran_1135
    @daveran_1135 Před rokem +5

    gerbert my beloved wake up

  • @secluda
    @secluda Před rokem +1

    This is the most relatable content I've ever seen ngl

  • @TriaMilia
    @TriaMilia Před rokem +9

    My man, you got hacked ngl

  • @HB2012
    @HB2012 Před rokem +9

    Gerbis, can you hear us?

  • @howie15
    @howie15 Před rokem +9

    An unexpected banger, I thought I would have to wait longer. I appreciate you Gerbert, you always find a way to deliver quality content 👍. All the best bro

  • @palakbeats
    @palakbeats Před rokem +9

    Gerby’s beat selection is immaculate

  • @Joerogainelovesballs
    @Joerogainelovesballs Před rokem +7

    Gerb your main channel has been hacked

  • @reformedstoic1581
    @reformedstoic1581 Před rokem +5

    LMAO. Dude I really don't want to like your opening freestyles....but they keep getting funnier and funnier. Honestly you are better than you think. Keep up the good work.

  • @bitcoinzoomer9994
    @bitcoinzoomer9994 Před rokem +11

    Gerbert's main channel has been hacked, DO NOT CLICK ON ANY LINKS!

  • @azazel166
    @azazel166 Před 6 měsíci +8

    The universe doesn't owe you sex, kid.

    • @kingspore5000
      @kingspore5000 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Unless you're woman

    • @freschenhond
      @freschenhond Před 3 dny

      Sex is the goal of all lifeforms on this earth. You're right that it doesn't owe you sex, but it's the purpose of life, and I understand why some men are getting frustrated that they don't get girlfriends.

  • @KeithAdam
    @KeithAdam Před rokem +1

    8:38 being the initiator… so relatable

  • @AV4Life
    @AV4Life Před rokem +10

    Honestly bro I have similar situations at work and it doesn’t bother me. Not everybody in the world has to like you and see you as this ultra-high level confident-funny and charismatic enigma. Some will really like you, a lot will be neutral, and some will actively dislike you. It’s ok, that’s life.

  • @0xdeadbeef131
    @0xdeadbeef131 Před rokem +6

    MAN WAKE UUUUPP
    GERB
    DO SUMN

  • @kalki-13
    @kalki-13 Před rokem +2

    Body fat percentage on point. 💯 Pretty boy maxxed. 🔒🥇🏄‍♂️

  • @king-manu2758
    @king-manu2758 Před rokem +1

    Your channel is invaluable as a window to the thoughts and life experience of young men nowadays.

  • @JohnSummerford
    @JohnSummerford Před rokem +12

    I think your main channel got hacked bro

  • @omarmemon1700
    @omarmemon1700 Před rokem +8

    prayin fo gerbathalomew 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @hisham5702
    @hisham5702 Před rokem +2

    I could listen to him talk for days.