TikTok Won't Stop Making Gen-Z Insecure
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- čas přidán 27. 01. 2024
- "Legging's Legs" is the most braindead thing I've ever heard. Got legs? You can wear leggings. Period.
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Tiktok CANNOT be 12+. there is so much inappropriate content and bullies, it’s just disgusting.
I don’t think tiktok having a higher age limit will stop young people from downloading it, I mean, youtube us a 17+ app and there’s still millions of kids on here.
Edit: CZcams is 17+ in my country. in others it may be different. Sorry for any confusion.
@@ATWTMVTVFTVSGAVLPSS13it's 17+?
@@72_rush No one who’s 18+ needs their parents to give restrictions on their phone. Also by the age of 16 any teenager would want boundaries. Some are understandable and some need to be earned. However, you as the parent need to learn and come to an understanding about them with your teen. Like…mastubation happens. It’s not something you should be controlling when they’re teenagers by not wanting them to see ph because you consider it bad. Talk to them about porn, addiction, and safe sex but that’s all you can by a certain age. Too much control will make your child not want to go to you about stuff. I know a lot of people who had parents that instead of gaining trust and understanding what’s going on chose to be controlling. These are the same people who are 21+ not having the best relationships with their parents. Saying you will lift restrictions when they move out or are 21+ is crazy. However, the real crime is the run on sentences 💀
Edit: Before anyone thinks about commenting to me I suggest you read each comment of mine. Multiple people have wrote several comments clearly choosing to ignore everything I’m saying. Don’t attempt to curse at me or claim I’m attempting to reverse trauma. These are the same people who could not have a mature conversation with me once I gave valid responses and got embarrassed because they were wrong for flip flopping my words. All of them have deleted their comments one even claiming I was gaslighting them so they can become the victim. Think before you respond to me 🤷🏾♀️
OMG no way I just met Peter Scully! He came at my house at 3am 😱
@@researchertoast in my country it is, in others I might be different.
"Leggings legs" should actually be when the leggings match your skin tone too well and from a distance it looks like you have nothing on. That's the real leggings problem lol.
🤣🤣🤣 that’s the sort of thing I thought it was at first.
LOL
I hate it when I see like a kid with leggings or tiny shorts that make me do a double-take cus I'd be so afraid they're just bottomless- I mean if they want to wear it, they totally can, I just feel confused when I see it lmao
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 right!
Based
bruh the tear stains are basically just built in eyeliner. say it like that and suddenly everyone'll love them.
I actually use them to make my eyeliner lmaoo, it's a lot easier and saves me time, + it actually looks good (I do puppy eyeliner,?? Apparently that's what it's called, basically it's just a wider wing but shorter)
that’s what i’m saying
I was looking for this comment!!!
Haha true,I actually like mine idk why maybe it’s because I look at my eyes often in the mirror
I have a similar looking scar near my eye and I use it to draw in eyeliner. I got that scar from an injury when I was a kid and it makes wearing eyeliner much easier.
As someone who does not have TikTok, I have not heard of any of these until now. 😭
Please don’t watch that show ☹️
It’s so demonic and paints satan as the good guy
@@ThyChickenWhoStares Huh? are you talking about my pfp??? 💀
Yes they r@@BitterAsCoffee
S a m e
@@ThyChickenWhoStarespeople can do whatever they want tf
As a 16 year old I’m just scared by how people at 20 are acting like they’re turning 70 next year…
Fr miss
As a 20-year-old, I agree.
exactly..
As also a 16 year old I agree
LMAO, they can't even rent a dang car for another 4 years!
Tiktok isn't safe for teens. Let alone any minor for that matter.
... or any adult.
@@shirin8609 fr
THIS IN BREAKING NEWS Hayley
said she supports Colleen ballinger and doesn't care if she gets cancelled 😮
@@ville__ Source? Stop spreading misinformation
Yall fall for rage bait too easily, smh
This is for anyone who needs to hear this.
When i was 12 - 13 years old
All I heard from my classmate was you are fat and that kept replaying on my mind everyday.
I stopped eating... I developed anorexia (i already have anemia) my skin was as pale as a ghost and i did not have enough iron or blood left in my body. My hair was falling out.
I lived like that for 4 years.
I was admitted into a hospital in June of 2023
They put me on I.V for blood transfusion and iron transfusion.
This was the most painful time of my life.
After that life scare at the hospital. I have not given two shits about what anyone has said/thought about me.
I am on earth to live my life how i want to not how other people want me to
The trip to the hospital was my wake-up call. Please make my comment your wake up call.
Much love to everyone ❤️
Be healthy, be happy and live life to the fullest. Don't sweat the small stuff
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@some_art_kid Thank you. ❤️
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17:24 SHES STUNNING?? SHE LOOKS LIKE A BEAUTIFUL ROMAN SCULPTURE BRO THE FACT THAT SHE MAKES THAT DISAPPOINTED FACE AFTER MAKES ME SO UPSET.
OMG IKRRRR
Exactly
Also with those freckles she looks like a dream
So now "chicken legs" are suddenly the IN thing? What? I used to get made fun of for my skinny legs😂 I refuse to believe that society has crumbled this much 💀
only scratching the surface..... bring in the meteor! we no longer deserve to live :P
Literally
well, people used to be bullied for having freckles, and now people are getting them tattooed on their faces. so yeah I think society is falling at an exponential rate
Same bro
nah i think it's just the fact that you can't win in these situations. the trends on social media change every 2 weeks if we're lucky
2:02 “and I have slapping hands” caught me off guard😭😭😭
I feel like some people probably have better slapping hands than other slapping hands, tho... u know? 😂
I WAS EATING JXGWHWQB
I love that line
I am your 666th like. 🙃
And I have breathing lungs
guys... my mom took away my phone away from me for a month cause she saw i was dying inside, and not even joking, i became the happiest i've been in years after getting cut off from the online world... honestly it helped me realize how unhealthy social media is...
Thank goodness she did that!
I honestly wished my mother would do that
You have an amazing mother!!!
i deleted instagram and tiktok a few months back and i dont regret it. i mean sure. my body image problems didnt go away, but theyre also not worse now...
As a 12 year old, i had tiktok but it was a bad influence and there was inappropriate content/really mean people so i deleted it in less than a week lol, stay safe on social media guys
Same as a 13 year old I have deleted tiktok as it’s making me feel to insecure and I’m way better of without it
I’m 13 and my mom has never let me have TikTok I’m glad she does not let me have it because of what I’ve heard about what’s on there
I'm so glad u deleted it 😭
I'm 33 and never had Tik Tok. Also, what's a Tik Tok? 😅
I'm glad you were able to see that and just delete it you dodged a bullet
I don’t understand why people think beauty = value. We’re too bored and creating our own problems
THIS IN BREAKING NEWS Hayley
said she supports Colleen ballinger and doesn't care if she gets cancelled 😮
True. You can be the most beautifull in the world, but have a shit personality
literally lol, I genuinely miss the "golden age" of tiktok (imo 2018-2020) when people were too scared to either download it, or admit they had an account. way less bullies, it was like a nice corner of the internet for a little while
I really wish we could find out who comes up with these "trends"
Sadly that's been a problem in our society way longer than TikTok has existed. The fact we are becoming aware of it and how dumb it is to value people only on their physical beauty is a huge progress, some seem to be fighting against this progress but at least that's not a common opinion anymore. In the past century it was commonly believed that ugly people were inherently evil.
Social media is making people disgustingly vain. There’s so much more value to a person than their looks
Its also a poison that is destroying the youth by making mental illnesses easier and easier to self diagnose and make people want to get them for attention.
Woman's and men doing this are full of utter sh+t
It's better to see your physical traits as a normal thing we don't see cats clipping their ears and tails off for some imaginary non existent beautie standards.
People have always been vain. That's why we have ancient fables telling us not to fall into that trap, of loving ourselves too much. It's not something that tik tok has created. It's definitely not something that another person does to you. Vanity is completely 100% your own doing.
Stop trying to be like others, and stop trying to make others not be themselves. Everyone is here shaming people for having "leggings legs", which is worse than people posting videos of themselves appreciating their own body, no matter what their shape is.
Mr anti bully.
“All girls have legs”
Amputee girls:👁️👄👁️
“Not everyone should be the same, that would be boring”
My little pony literally made a 2 part episode on why this would be boring and no one listened :’)
Life is so peaceful when you love yourself.
Preach it hun. Preach.
And live waaay out in the southern country where
1. No one out heres takin their baby girls to Sephora, trust me, when mama buys HER makeup at Walmart, drugstore and dollar tree.
2. Parents are either working outside the home, or keeping grass mowed, gardens growing their veggies, (taking their FAMILIES to church) and just generally living a good life. You find peace this way too 🤗
@@Montanafelines yeah, but if you don't love yourself, then life isn't peaceful
Yep.
@@pygy2020old exactly lol life in general is just better when you find peace within yourself
Can we stop using the Kardashian/Jenner clans as a whole as a "good" example of attractive appearances? When we all know none of them really have anything natural on their faces and bodies anymore?
THIS IN BREAKING NEWS Hayley
said she supports Colleen ballinger and doesn't care if she gets cancelled 😮
@@ville__ wait rlly? 💀
this ville profile is a bot, i already saw him in multiple comments sections@@O-R-I-G-I-N
@@O-R-I-G-I-Nif u believe ur stupid im sorry
You’ve kinda proved the point she was making around ‘make up’ pretty being ‘bad’. ‘Natural beauty is the only valid beauty’ is what it reads as.
Like nobody looks up to the Kardashians, they haven’t for a good while, they’re relevant because haters bring them up everywhere. Like damn leave them alone and get on with it
the “tear stain” is so pretty to me, i’ve never knew what it was called but i think if anyone has it they’re pretty, but honestly every normal human is just prettty.
If you have legs, YOU HAVE LEGGINGS LEGS!!!!
I like wearing leggings lol
AAAAND as a character designer I feel obligated to write this:
High visual weight and low visual weight don't determine whether you're pretty or not. High visual weight = more noticeable features ex. dark wavy hair, thick sharp eyebrows etc
Low visual weight = more delicate features ex. pixie blond hair and pink round lips
In fact visual weight can determine in which clothes/colours you look better but You are not an animated character, You are a human.
thank you, this explains why it actually made sense what they were saying, but why I was wondering "why does this matter lol" okay makes sense. ITS FOR CHARACTER DESIGN but does gen z not treat real life like we are characters to design? lmao ugh, thank u for this info
This!! It has nothing to do with actual weight and everything to do with contrast.
They do say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are people who can view things that most see as beautiful and only see flaws, but then find that perfect person for them and all the flaws that others see are either non existent to the person or they just love them on the person
Funny you mention the color because as an Italian I can't wear green, despite it being my favorite color, because it highlights the olive undertones, making us look like we have the plague. Just a part of life. But the beauty is everyone has options now instead of whatever was pulled off the sheep herd in the next village.
Dang instead of worrying abt myself I'm worried I've been designing my characters wrong 💀
The fact that over lining originally started as a trend to mimic the fuller lip effects that a double lip line has naturally and now they are using over lining to HIDE a double lip line is classic TikTok insanity 🤦♀️
THIS IN BREAKING NEWS Hayley
said she supports Colleen ballinger and doesn't care if she gets cancelled 😮
@@ville__dude wtf 💀
@@Mayor_Mercury lol thiss account is just everywhere spamming random shit
@@ville__ when did she say that
@@loveladydiana she didnt. This dude is just spamming 😒
high-low visual weight isnt determining how pretty you are. its about what sort of makeup and styles suit you! It's really just "does soft or bold makeup compliment your facial features?" not "if youre low visual weight you're ugly!!"
@user-xb1kv5tf3p lol theres nothing wrong with wearing clean girl makeup as a high-visual weight! if you like it then go ahead! It mainly shows a difference on low-visual weight people (me), i look really bad with the bold glamor filter because softer makeup suites me a lot better!
Genuinely, what does "clean girl" mean, I've seen it in reference to clothing too and it makes 0 sense lmao
Oooh, another expert on something made up. You can’t split people into two categories and expect them to fit everything you’ve assigned to those categories. It’s bullshit. Also, makeup is a personal preference but lets take all the personal preference out of it and only wear what some idiot told us online suits our face. Y’all need to get your heads out of your asses.
Geez so what? Obsessing about those things will only make you a weirdo 😂 fucking counting angles of your face to determine the exact amount of petrol based chemicals that go on your face for one day 😂 zoomers can only choose between narcissistic and insecure, literally no other character arc
@@MelonHere20literally no makeup makeup
As a dancer who's been taking ballet among other types of dance training for seven years, I EARNED my calves and I'm damn proud of them. even though they're always sore lol.
The fact grown adults play into these “hate my body trends” is unbelievable. We should be propping up self love and being comfortable in our own skin. Why must my young daughter constantly hear what’s unattractive? She might not be on tictok but her whole elementary school is with their phone playing it at every opportunity. Also, elementary age students with phones is my other problem.
Not role model behaviour for young people to look up to. We have the power to positively influence the youth and we should instead of displaying negative behaviour all over social media.
I agree!
Humans did the same shit during the 50’s we haven’t changed at all
That is what the original purpose of the body positivity movement had been for. To help people accept their bodies and how they are unique and beautiful. Then the fat nation attacked and took over the body positivity movement, and began to force their fat lives on everyone.
The fact grown adults play into these “hate my body trends” is unbelievable. We should be propping up self love and being comfortable in our own skin. Why must my young daughter constantly hear what’s unattractive? She might not be on tictok but her whole elementary school is with their phone playing it at every opportunity. Also, elementary age students with phones is my other problem.
So we went from wanting a thigh gap to thicc thighs to legging legs…? 💀 Also I’ve been working out and I started seeing my calves showing when I flex and I was so happy.
For me, I like little bit muscular legs, so I work out and grow some glutes, tho legging legs gonna be the trend, I won't change my body just to follow the trend, I love thicc tight, and I work for that, so let me happy with that, I hope if legging legs become a trend people around me just minding themself and leave my thick legs alone, and not making fun of it
We can't just change our body to fit certain trends, just be happy with it or improve thing that can be improved (health wise)
The thing about “trends” is that they don’t last very long. Next week it’ll be something else for these harpies to harp on. These trends are just made up because they get the most traffic on TikTok. I used to follow the trends but I stopped. I’m just doing what makes me happy I don’t care what others think. It’s usually girls judging themselves against other girls. Men don’t care 😂 😂. I have big calves for a girl because I did gymnastics for many years.
THIS IN BREAKING NEWS Hayley
said she supports Colleen ballinger and doesn't care if she gets cancelled 😮
You definitely sound like a bot. @@ville__
I love my slightly muscular calves
"When this guy try to flirt with me but he has a negative cantal view: 🤢🤮:
"When he calls me ugly but my jawline is sharper than his:🗿"
Literally NO ONE ever said that before the existence of tiktok and now I see that every day.
It reminds me of that scene on mean girls when Cady said "I used to think there was just fat and skinny but appearently there's a lot of things that can be wrong on your body"
And they started talking about split ends and big foreheads and we all thought it was stupid.
Is this the reality nowadays??
That app is a certain type of hell on earth there’s something sinister about it.
As woman in my mid fifties who is insecure about my naturally aging face I am so thankful I can't afford any of that crap! Im still beautiful and have earned every wrinkle!
Yes! Aging is a privilege 🫂
You have the right idea - wrinkles aren’t a bad thing. They’re just an indicator of a happy life, each wrinkle has a million funny stories to tell.
Haley supports Colleen ballinger v
Wrinkles are a map of our lives and emotions. They’re beautiful ♥️ wishing you well
I'm turning 41 this year and honestly hate the way my face has aged. I have so much dryness around my eyes and of course am starting to get "smile line" and other wrinkles. Nothing crazy but it's still something I'm insecure about along with a lot on the rest of my body too
In high school I was very insecure about my skinny legs because being “thick” was trendy and now I’m the beauty standard again lmao
Hayley
said she supports Colleen ballinger and doesn't care if she gets cancelled
@@ville__woah rlly? Drop vid link
@@trinity.4943it’s a bot
@@trinity.4943 it's a bot, it's a fake comment. Don't worry about it.
right like omgggg
As a 17yr who's got really prominent "tear stains" can say I didn't really like them before but tiktok made me think i was insecure about them.
Then got called out multiple times in school(before I left for college) about how red my eyes were which worsened it
I think “tear stains” look like natural eyeliner. I love em
Apparently there's something called "Girl Pretty and Boy Pretty" now...My friend told me I was girl pretty, meaning guys don't find me attractive but girls do. It litterly made me cry
Girlie trust me, your beautiful, its literally just being pretty vs being literal plastic (“boy pretty” being plastic…)
everytime i see that stuff i literally avoid it
The weirdest thing about this is, that as an artist, things like “tear stains” and philtrum are the things that people pronounce to make their characters MORE ATTRACTIVE!! Like genuinely if you have these things and are insecure, go straight to the art community they’ll love you as a muse (everyone is gorgeous regardless of if they do have these things or not)
I actually love my tear stains.
I can't believe people are so insecure about it :(
Maybe that's why my immediate reaction was "why SMALLER?" cause as an artist I love trying to draw the pronounced upper lip and others always seem to agree it looks good. Not that it being smaller is ugly or something, but what in the world decided that either one is ugly? It's so weird!
Real
@@poppyalt7427 the philtrum is the space between the bottom of the nose and the top of the upper lip, so if you're drawing fuller upper lips, you may have a preference for shorter philtrums
Tear stains usually look like a natural eyeliner, it’s so pretty. Idk why people are so insecure about the most normal things ever
Throwback to when tiktok was majority teenagers because it was JUST transitioning from Musically and everything was unserious. Wtf happened to this app bro ??
THIS IN BREAKING NEWS Hayley
said she supports Colleen ballinger and doesn't care if she gets cancelled 😮
@@ville__really?
@@ickysticky7It's a lame bot
Money happened to this app
I honestly would give my soul for TikTok to have stayed as the silly cringe app where kids did dumb little dances and my anime facial expressions forever instead of turning into the soul-sucking, completely damaging app it has.
Every time I open tiktok I see these videos and just go "Oh, so this is what we're doing now? Okay..." but I'm really realizing how ridiculous all of it is with everything being pulled together and examined like this. I've thankfully not fallen prey to any of these trends, but it's comforting to know that there are people out here questioning what the hell is going on
life would be so much better if short form content didnt exist
for real
I always believed that those "tear stains" (which I assume is skin discoloration) were just nature's eyeshadow. No idea why folks are finding even the smallest things to call "ugly".
Fr, my girlfriend has them I’m pretty sure and they are so pretty
Yes me too. I use them to make my eyeliner even lmaoo
I just hate mine because whatever makeup I put there ends up gone in a few hours and it looks weird. It took me YEARS to find an eyeliner that could stick to my “tear stains” but I’ve had no luck with eyeshadow
Bruh this is so scary. I was born in 2000 and I thought 90's and 00's skinny culture was brutal. I feel so bad for these little girls with Sephora culture and tik Tok preying on insecurities
I’m a lot older than you and I stg, if my eating disorder was active now, I’d be fucked.
So ya gotta have stick legs and and a big round bum 💀 people actually falling into this trend got low iq
Yeah it really is. As a 15 year old recovering from an ed this does not help AT ALL. Body types shouldt be trends
I'm a 2009 kid. todays trends are so scary...
I'm an 06 person, it's a good thing I deleted tiktok when I was 16 years old. People need to stop scrolling mindlessly and touch grass, or at least have hobbies ffs-
Low visual weight means that face has less prominent and "voluminous" features. High is the opposite. This info can be really useful for MUAs and just casual makeup users. Both weights are insanely pretty. But its upsetting to see this become an insecurity. Its like alc0hol, positive if used right but negative if used wrong.
also the filter thing is dumb. Visual weight is a wide topic and has to be viewed from many angles, not just one and which is extremely unreliable. Its been around for little over a year but new doesn't equal bad, trash and nonsense.
Girl what? Alcohol can never be used positively. It’s a drug that alters your brain. Not a good example.
crazy how people arent insecure unless tiktok points it out
Im so tired of TikTok slowly changing everyone into the same person. There's no point in being human if we're all the same. You should not be insecure in what makes you stand out and special and unique. And also tear stains? Oh god y'all.
THIS IS WHAT I'M SAYING!
the algos want everyone to be the same
I blame the insecurities on all of those women who have took the radical beliefs, and just started spewing it on TikTok, because TikTok won’t stop them
Because there’s so much radical feminism and radical ideologies coming from women in so many things that these 30 and four year old women are creating insecurities in teenagers by creating impossible beauty standards
And at the same time they’re blaming men because everything that these women are doing on TikTok it’s not their fault it’s because of the patriarchy and that’s a constant message. Everyone somehow believes it Cuz you look at TikTok. It is female, dominated in every wave by user base and creators.
And for some reason whenever a man says, something hateful immediately gets deleted, but if a woman said something hateful, it stays there it doesn’t get deleted you could literally see the most hateful things you want you can unreasonably have somebody channel shut down just because you don’t like them
And God forbid if you are a mess right activist going on TikTok, they will bully you off of the fucking platform by literally mass reporting your channel and you can’t do anything about it because TikTok is going to delete it because they don’t really care about protecting free speech they just want the TikTok users to self regulate themselves
What do you think it’s filled with radicals in crazy people because they’re the ones who determine what is the Contant is allowed
And if you make some content that is actually saying in talks about men’s rights, issues or how the feminist have got out of control you get your video deleted, even if you say it in a non-hateful way
But these women can literally say whatever the fuck they want about men they could literally talk out there point by point plan on how to kill her husband and nothing will happen. They won’t even get a ban let alone investigated
TikTok is a toxic pit of feminist, an angry women
Tick-tock is nothing more than angry pics filled with angry women, angry feminist, Ange, soy boy feminists I don’t even have a single shred of individuality. They’re literally a slave to the woman
Because they believe they should be
But if you have an independent thought, idea or is different, you will be bullied off the platform
If you are posting about your insecurities, instead of people, saying, you look good, or that’s not true, you shouldn’t be insecure you’ll have your comments flooded with people saying yeah you’re ugly and it’s not men saying these things it’s usually women from their main account because they’re not afraid to get banned
Yeah, there is a few brand new mail accounts that get created to bully people because there is mail to believe women on the platform but those guys get deleted so quickly that they don’t even bother creating a profile picture
Meanwhile, these women can literally bully a girl into suicide, and they still get to post videos, and nothing happens to them
Tear stains are literally called “natural eyeliner” and praised by people. And I personally think it’s pretty tbh.
I’m so glad social media was such a small part of my childhood
1:10 those amputees are feeling left out
Tiktok is making eugenics trendy, lets be real
I hadn't made it there yet, now I'm scared
@@sweariefaerie9621there's a guy, Mr anti bully on CZcams who is obsessed with looks. Basically in his eyes if youre not white and unconventionally attractive you don't deserve to love yourself. He's horrible
@fogisherenow You are insane. Metokur/misterantibully only goes after people who deserve it, this has been proven time and time again. No clue why you are inserting him into this conversation, making fun of the appearance of horrible, sick, deranged, psychotic individuals is perfectly fine and acceptable.
@@fogisherenowalso he isn't a supremacist? No clue where you got that whole bit... kinda weird. Could you please back up what you said with a bit of truth? Where exactly did he say anything that leads you to that conclusion?
@@ZeApostle he is
Let’s start a new trend, letting people live with their bodies because let’s be honest, this is ridiculous.
yep body acceptance is the way
If tik tok disappeared, the self esteem of people of all ages (but specially teenage girls) would sky rocket.
This is like a black mirror episode
I was a hyper sensitive child/teen with a present but absent narcissistic parent. If tears stained ones face mine would be a mural, lol. Doing my best to keep my Z/Alpha kid from being insecure but this world sure loves to create insecurities for the next trend in pocketing our cash.
I laughed at that clip you showed where an influencer was saying that she was mocked for getting Botox at 21 but now she’s 29 and she still doesn’t have wrinkles. Girl I didn’t get wrinkles around my eyes until my early 40s. I still don’t have forehead wrinkles and I’m in my 50s, it’s genetics babe. It has nothing to do with Botox.
And thing is every person genetics is different, in my case I have pronounced and very very visible undereye lines since I was a literal baby, what should my mom had done? Getting her toddler undereye fillers ? lmao I'm glad as 90s kid I didn't grow up with TikTok bcause seeing how current very young generations are doing anti age skincare and getting botox would have fcked me up very bad
Nah Fr my mom is in her 60’s and BARELY has any wrinkles or even acne, bumps or any of the sort. She’s never got anything done to her or even use any fancy products and skin care. One because her family was dirt poor and 2 her mom never allowed her since she always said it can and will ruin ur face. my mom listened and look at my mom now. She looks like she can be in her late 40’s - early 50’s. And same for me, my sisters, cousins and aunts. We all don’t really have any acne and wrinkles.
"I'm just genetically superior to you botox losers"
Yikes
"I have legging legs" and i have slapping hands LMAOO
And I have a talking mouth
i have a sniffing nose
and i have a seeing eye
and i have wiggling ears
and I have writing fingers
god i'm so glad i'm 30 and not 12 witnessing this. it's like you get more immune to it as you get older and come into your own. i really do feel bad for kids who have to try and love themselves in a world that makes it harder and harder. and it's difficult to just "not go on social media" bc ur friends are there and it can be hard to have a social life otherwise. hang in there youngins, try to get off social media as much as you can bc what you watch DIRECTLY influences how you feel about yourself. ❤
I’m 13 and sadly have to go through these trends I deleted TikTok Becuase it’s making me care about my looks to much and I’m only young and don’t wanna waste my time caring about my look
I am also nearly 30 and feel immune to most of this, but I worry so much about my 2 daughters, who are still tiny kids, and their future self-esteem.
The way I CACKLED when you talked about low visual weight being associated with everything negative 🤣🤣🤣 bc I fit into this "type", and it was making me very insecure... this video is gold, thank you
I blame filters and people who lie about having had surgery, causing what had now become a ridiculously unachievable beauty standered.
Is your pfp Johnnie Guilbert
@@Gerardwaycantdie Dude 🤣🤣that's her Bahahafjlk
@@aphrodieMonkey OHHHH💀💀💀
Filters + isolation= people forgot what real people look like.
I wasnt trying to make anyone feel insecure. I didn't mean that in A rude i did was ask them a question, I wasn't trying to be rude. Saying that someone looks like johnnie isn't even rude@@twistedrealitys742
I have a feeling that these trends are picking up traction because the increasing popularity of kpop and Chinese douyin beauty standards. Even the Kardashians removed their BBLs just to fit into the "skinny girl" trend. Imma tell you now, those kpop idols' bodies are not healthy, a lot of them have admitted to eating one meal a day or even starving themselves for a full week to have the bodies that they have. Like, I'm so tired that so many people are just glorifying it and not genuinely being worried 🤦🏽♀️
It's sadly not a feeling anymore, it's a fact. Fans of douyin and K-pop are annoyingly blind to the toxicity they condone. 22-inch waist on a grown woman? Shoulder blades poking out? Poreless glass skin? What's worse is that the Chinese fashion industry makes their clothes in such a way that a normal, healthy grown woman's body is sized as 2XL. I'm Asian and small myself and I'll say it; the standards are borderline inhumane.
Exactly, kpop and asian beauty standards are the main problem in all of this. I wonder why so few people are talking about this.
That's why I stopped watching kpop. It's unhealthy for everyone involved.
TikTok is banned in my country, and I’m not complaining at all after all of the videos you have posted about the stupidness and idiotic ness of it. Tysm Hayley for making our days better ❤❤❤
Istg hayley is such a awesome person, she would such a amazing friend ngl 😂
Calf reduction procedures been trending for a long time in asian countries like China, a lot of toxic trends off douyin seems to have picked traction in the West. It was just a matter of time before this one was going to be a thing
Yup… East-asianboom has effectively been normalizing these surgeries in the west it’s actually crazy how fast it is happening. It’s literally so bad that there’s no Asian plastic surgeons on CZcams effectively advertising their work and a bhnxh of people are being influenced to do this. And say anything bad about the surgeries and people will try to drag you.
Another jarring thing too is the people who are trying to change races? Tiktok has so many videos like this of young girls taking pics of idols and random Asian girls they find online and trying to manifest themselves changing races? It’s crazy. A lot of them use photos that have been edited by snow app too so they don’t even know (or Maybe don’t care) that the person they are trying to look like, doesn’t even look like that themselves IRL
THIS IN BREAKING NEWS Hayley
said she supports Colleen ballinger and doesn't care if she gets cancelled 😮
In my country opposite is happening. Btw I live in an Asian country. These trends start getting attention when it is promoted in West. We have this they are better ideology and copying West mindlessly. How weird things are going on.
@@ville__ fr? That's so disappointing if true 😬
@@qryptidNo, its a bot lol
Leg botox is where I draw the line. I've had calves that don't fit in knee-high boots and look like they could strangle a butternut squash within an inch of it's life for as long as I can remember and they're my favorite feature. I think they scare away weak men so honestly 10/10.
Lol rise up, I'm in this category too. My legs gain muscle super easily and I love it.
@@someusername4129 Same! I lived at the skating rink as a kid and my legs have always been sturdy. Never rolled an ankle a day in my life either. 😂
Me too! My mom says all the women in our family have "washer woman legs". And we're proud of our giant, muscled calves.
@@cbpd89 washer woman legs LOLOLOL
They either scare weak men away or attract the extremely forward, masochistic men. Ask me how I know 💀
Ok so with the visual weight thing, that first girl in the green shirt didn't at ALL say that having a high or low visual weight was bad. She just said if you have a higher visual weight, more intense makeup looks better than it would on someone with lower weight makeup because it will give a different impression than less intense makeup. Lots of people live doing their makeup but feel like something is just off or that it doesn't look as good as when someone else does it. Visual weight is one of these factors. If you want to take the time to improve and learn about your makeup then visual weight is something you'll probably come across and should consider. Dear peachie has amazing breakdown videos about beauty and visual weight is something they talk about a lot.
1:07 people without legs: 😭
I was literally thinking about that
@@Yourlocalsnatcher6same😭
@@Yourlocalsnatcher6SAME
For my mental well being I got rid of all those shitty apps including instagram towards the end of 2023. I can't describe the intense happiness and peace which I'm now experiencing. Now I'm healing❤️
i also did the same thing and i feel so much better!
@@annikatyler1296 Kudos❤️
Everyone seems to be living a fake life or photoshopping on insta fr .
im fairly sure that the face angle thing and the visual weight thing is actual eugenics. it reminds me of the angel vs witch face thing going around not too long ago
Yes, it's phrenology.
It basically ends with teaching that ethnic features (particularly African and 'Jewish' features you see in racist caricatures) are somehow indicative of someone being a bad or evil person.
@@yoyohayli that's the word! Another reason to avoid tiktok
THIS IN BREAKING NEWS Hayley
said she supports Colleen ballinger and doesn't care if she gets cancelled 😮
@@ville__this in @ville is a stalker
No. Is about soft and strong features.
'actually if you just live here, you can wear leggings!' **pointing at the ocean**
What's crazy to me about the "legging legs" is that I was always insecure about being super skinny and spent YEARS believing that I wasn't attractive because I wasn't curvy and now being super skinny is a trend and considered attractive overnight
As someone who is insecure of themselves at 18 , things like this make me feel happy that i’m on a completely different side of tiktok because if i saw videos like this everyday, I would just feel worse about myself than i already do
THIS IN BREAKING NEWS Hayley
said she supports Colleen ballinger and doesn't care if she gets cancelled 😮
The guy above is a bot. Please report the channel.
On another note some social media platforms have 3rd parties that link them together. If you start seeing them just ignore.
The moment you spend more time on them or start to comment the algorithm will recommend you more shitty videos.
Said by a programmer here. 😊
@@ville__Source: Trust me bro 😎
Am 14 and X2, whit each crazy thing happening there I feel luckyer and luckyer about my feed
(Idk if wrote that right I'm spanish)
The majority of people you see on social media with perfect and flawless faces use make up and filters. I have many female friends who post on social media and they look completely different in real life
The best thing I ever did for my mental health is delete TikTok. And every time you talk about the app I’m more and more grateful to past me.
Haley supports Colleen ballinger l
@@DaizyBlossomdo not listen to that account it’s just spamming fake news
@@ville__huh??
@@DaizyBlossomIt isnt true, this is a troll account
You're brilliant and refreshing. Please keep doing what you're doing!
as someone who grew up in a time where not many spoke up about toxic-unachievable-trends people were subjected to coming across these kinds of videos feels like a bandaid to an open wound that never got to even stop bleeding
i had to learn myself that how i am is how im supposed to be and not any different
that being alive is just about living and nothing else
so this is a big thank you for content creators talking about issues like this
Thank You💕
The amount of time I spent in the gym to build these tree trunk legs/calfs of mine, I’ll be DAMNED 😂😂
The only thing these trends told me is I need to work harder in my biceps and triceps 😅
I grew up insanely skinny (like 00 skinny) and I hated how I looked, complete skeleton. Now I have shape, weight, stretch marks, and cellulite (don’t even have kids 😅) and I’m IN LOVE with my new body 🥰 the gym saved my life I swear
Oh you speak my language- skinny anything?? No thank you I wanna be buffer
As you should!!!! You are HEALTHY! Congratulations on your efforts!🎉
Haley supports Colleen ballinger proof on my channel
Bot
Just keep reporting, also to op, you go guy or gal it non binary friend
Not watching TikTok that much and getting compliments from my friends are the reason why I am less insecure as someone who is chubby.
Edit: MOM IM FAMOUS!!! Thanks for the likes ❤
Edit 2: the reply section is so chaotic welp 😭😂😂😂
THIS IN BREAKING NEWS Hayley
said she supports Colleen ballinger and doesn't care if she gets cancelled 😮
@@ville__ what
@@MiiPunchyIt's fake. The bot is lying.
@MiiPunchy the fact you can't tell a difference between a human and a bot is hilarious also is that your face on your channel?😂💀 Btw I'm not replying to anymore female comments
Sounds pretty weird on what you said at the very end of your comment, mate. @ville__
15:46 ,,, so adding contrast and taking away contrast? ofc adding contrast is going to make everyone’s ‘features clearer’ literally what
Hayley just makes us all less insecure ❤
You know... After all the attacks on our self esteem we had to survive, it's especially gross that we're allowing today's kids to fall right into the self esteem shredder. We're supposed to be the adults in the room, and we are failing these kids! And in many cases, pushing them in!
Signed,
a terrified millennial
Hayley
said she supports Colleen ballinger and doesn't care if she gets cancelled 😮
Absolutely! Couldn't agree more as a Xennial!
As a gen Z, I’m with you guys!
i think the "tear stains" are pretty and cute it's like natural eyeliner
Dude i didn’t even know people are insecure about that cause THATS WHERE I ADD BROWN EYESHADOW TO SHADE BEFORE MY EYELINER 💀💀 i’ve been deliberately going out of my way to add smth on my face people are insecure about cause i think it makes my eyes look cuter- 😀 ppl are so weird on tik tok oml
@@cookieism. me too! i literally had no idea that existed until i saw this video and haven't seen it since
The aggresive love you express made me genuinely smile :)))))
This is the first video from your channel and now im probably going to watch more because GIRL your amazing
This is why I hate TikTok, and most similar social media apps (I really only use CZcams). I'm already insecure enough about my body, and this has gotten insane how people are making up more things to be insecure about. We're all different, and we're all beautiful. Let's not forget that.
Take some advice from a complete stranger, Yes I know what im about to say contradicts what Im about to say but anyways.
Why care about what random assholes think of you and your looks. Do they pay your bills? do they do your laundry? do they give you food? do they pay your rent? do they do anything for you? are they a significant other that you value their opinions? if no. then what do their opinions really matter? If they don't like you, then what ever. If they hate you. that means they are jealous of something you have that they do not, and just want to bring you down so you feel as badly as they do. Embrace your body and find ways to love yourself and improve for your sake through good hygiene, exercise, good food, and good company.
CZcams is the GOAT no cap
@@AzraelSeraphino Well yes but actually no. Let's not forget shorts exist because of tiktok (I have a love-hate relationship with shorts thanks to that)
@@amanekaze yt shorts feel less toxic than tiktok for some reason, I don't feel like snorting sand
Same. I only have youtube too
Hayley is like the big sister/mom that we desperately need
13:16 what the hell is up with people coming up with “trends every 2 to 3 business days” as Salem Tovar says
Thank you 4 this video, i think as long as there is people and girls believing such stupid things it’s going to grow on TikTok. We need to stop everything we face on tiktok And don’t provide your mind on golden plate to any one. U need to know what to believe and what is not
These insecurities start trending because one person thinks that they are better than others so they will pick something absolutely ridiculous to nitpick on , to drag others down and feel like they are the main character.
Ngl this is just **sad** as a 12 year old who is INSANELY insecure of herself having TikTok ruined the way I looked at myself and the amount of “fake” things on there (fake vents fake trauma comparing trauma etc) it’s just sad I wish it was back to just doing things like lip syncs and fidget spinners
As a 15 year old who has really struggled with my self image i really get where you are coming from. I really wish tiktok stayed how it was a few years ago. There was no new insecurities every week like there is now. also EMUUU!!
i suggest you stop using tiktok
that sounds horrible… ik tiktok is hard to quit completely if you’ve been on it for a long time but also ik a tip which is, if you ever see videos ab all these made up insecurities pls do not interact w them, dont like them comment on them or even watch them all the way thru, the algorithm will stop feeding you that awful content if you act completely uninterested in it. and pls remember that no matter how important those things seem while you’re on the app none of it will affect you ever in real life.❤
ok, 20 something here. i hope you don't mind me giving you advice. i've been 12 year old and that age is already so weird because we are going through so many changes physically and mentally,and well, hormonally too. And so, love, i recommend trying to quit tiktok and take a diary or camera or both and go around the house, around the neighbourhood and make some memories. i was an anime addict at that time and my insecurity about my figure developed from watching those unrealistic anime girls. so whatever you see, you'll want to become like that. so by detaching from tiktok, you might find some wholesome things to take inspiration from.
tbh, iwould recommend everyone to quit digital life, only use it for communication because it really takes over such aspects of your life that you struggle to get rid of it when older.
@@sayo1133 thank you so much! and im glad to say that i no longer have tiktok! and i wont do it anymore!
5:49 I was like wait more things for me to be upset about? WHYYY who even came up with that ngl bc like huh that's so radome
I’m sorry I’ve always LOVED TEAR STAINS. I DIDNT EVEN KNOW PEOPLE COULD BE INSECURE OF SUCH BEAUTY?
I'm dying right now😂😂😂😂😂
Man, staying off of social media was the best decision I ever made💀
Same I am so glad I never downloaded that app. It’s also pretty embarrassing that adults are also contributing to those insecurities it’s weird.
I had it when I was 9 but my mum made me delete it and I'm so glad
You can literally change the term “visual weight” to contrast and it makes infinitely more sense. If you’re wearing a really dark lip color alongside pale eye makeup and light clothes it might seem a bit out of place. But if you’re wearing dark clothes and have bold eye makeup, it’s a lot easier to make a darker lip fit. Skin tone and hair color will obviously play into that too, but it doesn’t mean that you can’t pull off off really bold high contrast makeup look as someone with pale skin and pale hair, or a softer/low contrast look with dark hair and dark skin.
recently found you, ive now binged 4 videos and i literally love your content!!
Low and high visual weights is a thing for *************ART**************
SO YOU KNOW WHAT SUITS YOUR CHARACTER BEST
HACK FOR NOT FEELING INSECURE: pretend someone who you hate/think is dumb is saying the little comments (like ‘oh your arms are too skinny” etc) and then be like “no they aren’t you just want to see me fail but i’m gonna wear a tank top just to piss you off 💅” (it doesn’t work all the time but it works a lot of the time). hope this helps!
Wait... This is actually really good of an idea. Thank you!! I'm gonna try this next time I'm having a hard time deflecting my thoughts :)
@@hellishangst7026 i hope it helps!
I’m 21 and I could never imagine having poison injecting literal poison in my face..
Your videos are so informative, thank you.
I just found this channel today and i love listening to you yell about stuff
Its honestly so sad. Having to worry about every feature every second
Don’t have TikTok, don’t want it. So glad you are a young person with common sense and equally glad that I’m an old Gen-X man who doesn’t give a flying fck what my body looks like or what you think of it any more. Social media is destroying our young people. Sad.
Right? As an older millennial, I was on social media when it was new and people weren’t all feeling obligated to join and participate. I deleted everything but Reddit in 2018 or so and yes, it’s wonderful not being connected to the hive mind of insanity, but it’s sad to watch people of so many demographics (but especially younger people) feel so beholden to sharing and comparing. Just live life for yourself and forget about trends and online drama!
I'm a younger Gen-Z and I agree completely! I'm honestly concerned for all my peers who let their life revolve around Snapchat and TikTok but what can you do? Their life not mine. I love who I am and ignore these "trends", craziness.
ive been binging all ur videos i love ur takes
this is eugenics for 2024
I bet TikTok will make an insecurity about the blood veins showing at some places of one’s body
that’s literally stupid but sounds like something TikTok would do
don’t give them any ideas LOL
My friend in high school circa 2003 had a tiny little spider vein into her nostril and she was so insecure about it. I have one too now and I have to be so close to the mirror to notice it. Each time I do, I think of her and hope it doesnt bother her anymore
I can totally see soneone farming for interactions gor the algorithm making tiny spider veins the next big insecurity 🙄
Tiktok is the type of app to make you insecure about how fast/slow your heart beats
I had a roommate who thought guys veins were so attractive. He could be a huge chubby chub and she’d still think he’s attractive because “he has good veins”. And no, she wasn’t a nurse
@@fogisherenow i bet the next insecurity of the week is gonna be about how many times you blink in a minute
Anyone of you struggling with insecurity with some odd facial feature, let me tell you something: When I was a fetus, I rolled over in my mother's womb in just such a way that caused the tip of my right ear to fold over. I have asymetrical ears. No one has ever noticed unless I pointed it out to them. And when I look in the mirror, I actually feel excitement when I see my ear. Becasue it makes me different. Becasue it makes me unique. Take pride in your unique facial features.
I’m so happy you take pride in your ear when many others would feel ashamed. Keep loving yourself ❤
Omg you are so right!! And thanks for the positive vibes. Probably you know it but you are plenty beautiful too
Those “tear stains” are actually smthn I find so attractive like I WISH I had them
Dude i didn’t even know people are insecure about that cause THATS WHERE I ADD BROWN EYESHADOW TO SHADE BEFORE MY EYELINER 💀💀 i’ve been deliberately going out of my way to add smth on my face people are insecure about cause i think it makes my eyes look cuter- 😀 ppl are so weird on tik too oml
I have that lol. Its dedmatitis
Tbh i would not notice tbh like tears stains don't make a difference like ain't none gonna be caring abt the end of ur eye people gotta bfr 😑
@@cookieism. PFP TWINSSSS