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WEEKLY VLOG: BACK IN HOUSTON, CHICAGO TRIP, FIRST DATE??, VULNERABLE RANT + more | THE DESSY RAY WAY

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  • čas přidán 31. 07. 2024
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    What's good Ray gangggggg :)
    Welcome back to another video diary LOL. WHEWWWWW GIRL we get into some TEA in this one! Also, not us back on road AGAIN!?? y'all who let me be like this foreal... lmao. I NEED TO SIT DOWN!! Anyways, you guys get to meet my family, explore Chicago with us, unbox some exciting PR with me, get tea on these men Chile (lollll), and watch me cry again like a big fat baby 😂 2+ hours of chaos as you would expect! I hope you love it Ray gang :)
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    00:00 Intro
    00:46 Welcome to Chi Town + Brother Time
    04:08 Family Dinner - True Food Kitchen
    07:08 Good morning GRWM
    17:42 Tour Chicago with Us!
    19:51 Family Dinner 2 - Doc B's
    21:50 Family Breakfast - STAX
    27:19 Scary Adventures
    34:31 My First Time! - Kong Dog
    42:18 Back in HTX!
    01:00:45 First Hangout??! + I'M SICK + Electric Disaster
    01:18:10 Nike Unboxing + Haul + Workout
    01:27:05 I'm Fragile Baby
    01:53:47 Hidden In Plain Sight
    02:12:46 Outro

Komentáře • 152

  • @cajkali
    @cajkali Před 11 měsíci +3

    Love this video and definitely a message for me in “being hidden in plain sight” & faithfully waiting on Gods’ perfect timing 💕💕💕Thanks for this confirmation ❤️

  • @cocowithlove1
    @cocowithlove1 Před 11 měsíci

    Giiirl!
    First off: hello! Thank you for your videos.
    Secondly: THAT RANT IN THE CAR… spoke to me 100%. Exactly how I feel. About always being the lesson and not the prize. The things that keep not happening and just the overall feelings you expressed I completely identify with so your works on encouragement you dropped was gold and right on time so thank you ❤.
    I appreciate your transparency and Godly word to talk through those feelings.
    Have a wonderful rest of your week!

  • @NikkiYourTallBestie
    @NikkiYourTallBestie Před 10 měsíci +1

    Love, love, love the transparency. I can totally relate in so many ways. I will also take with me and share the quote, "Because of your faith...it will happen"! Thank you for ALL of this!! XoXo Nikki 💋

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Amen amen amen!!! Thanks for watching love 🥰

  • @forever_adriennetherealtor
    @forever_adriennetherealtor Před 11 měsíci

    That’s last part of the video!! Omg I needed to hear that. Girl I love the car chats!!!!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci

      🥹 I love that you love the car chats because they are my favorite part of the vlogs!

  • @Kivannamarie
    @Kivannamarie Před 11 měsíci +1

    crazy how much i relate to what you’re experiencing. the hidden in plain sight mindset is something i’ll keep with me for the rest of my life. thank you for this 🤍 & your name is so beautiful.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci

      of course sis. I'm so happy it resonated! God bless you 💕

  • @along58
    @along58 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Lol! Your mom is the cutest!! She better know she's drippin!!

  • @alisonepp
    @alisonepp Před 11 měsíci +3

    omgggggg your mom i'm crying she is so precious!!!!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci

      The cutest 🥹🤍

    • @MsDody509
      @MsDody509 Před 11 měsíci +1

      "I am drippin" literally had me crying 😂😂 I love it.

  • @indviduality
    @indviduality Před 11 měsíci

    First of all, the way you've been speaking to me especially towards the 2nd half when you got into self worth and growth and God?? Girl you had my eyes and ears all in. I so needed to hear that and just...receive that. Thank you, for real. Thank you. Your genuine energy is felt through my screen every time I watch. Keep growing and glowing girl, I see you.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci

      you are so kind. thank you for sharing that with me 🥰🫶🏾

  • @Elite_Khris99
    @Elite_Khris99 Před 11 měsíci

    Love seeing you with your family! I love that youre the same no matter who youre with. Its giving 1000% authenticity and I love that. Keep being you love ❤️

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci +1

      such a huge compliment 🥹💕 thank you for that!!

  • @beingbreezyy
    @beingbreezyy Před 11 měsíci

    GIRL!!! This vlog came out at the right time. I needed to hear the hidden in plain sight segment. God really speaks through you! Keep it coming please 💕💕💕

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci +1

      ahhh what a compliment! thank you love 💕 so happy I could help.

  • @tiffanymarie2367
    @tiffanymarie2367 Před 11 měsíci +11

    You and your brother fine looking people 😍...

  • @sorennastewart
    @sorennastewart Před 11 měsíci +3

    1:35:11 it’s meeeeeee ☺️💕 love you girlllll

  • @noemydiosdado24
    @noemydiosdado24 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Loved the God chat towards the end! He is soooo good! Loved the vlog sis, glad you’re back!❤

  • @culturedj3498
    @culturedj3498 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I said to you once before “We are happy to have you in Houston” now, I’m saying to you “You are a great addition to Houston & You make us proud to have you”
    It was nice seeing your family as well, makes us know you a little better and they should be proud of you as I’m sure they are.
    Thank you for choosing Houston as your new home, cause you rep for us very well.
    God Bless!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Wow, thank you! 🥹🤍 I appreciate that very much!!

  • @dandreawinters1429
    @dandreawinters1429 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Sisssss I’ve been missing you. I saw your video pop up lastnight and I was like oh yessss Ms.Chatty Cathy herself is backkkk. Lol no but fr I love your vlogs. And as I’ve said before on one of your other videos, you incorporating god on every one of your videos is truly what keeps me coming back. Keep trusting him and stay in alignment with his will for you and everything will be okay. We all have those doubting moments but prayer is powerful. Love you sis 🫶🏾

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci +1

      hahaha Chatty Cathy!! yessss. love you so more sis. amen! 💕

  • @forever_adriennetherealtor
    @forever_adriennetherealtor Před 11 měsíci

    My favorite!!!! Yesss!!! Great vlog as always!!

  • @meunocianortaye
    @meunocianortaye Před 10 měsíci

    I done watched this vlog twice everytime you get on the part about GOD I burst into tears! I can’t wait to come to houston & we have lunch i’m speaking into existence❤❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 10 měsíci

      Let’s actually make this happen sis 🥹🤍

  • @collegegrad2955
    @collegegrad2955 Před 11 měsíci

    Period!!!! I love seeing you and the fam!!!

  • @jeanellreynolds7291
    @jeanellreynolds7291 Před 11 měsíci +2

    You have wonderful family and yes, family time is so important. That sucks about your food going bad. Nike sent you some cute stuff. ❤ Awww congratulations Renna on being the 10k winner. I needed that prayer/message. 🙏🏽 Girl God was speaking to you. 🙌🏽 God is so good. Thank you Jesus 😢

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci

      thank you for watching love :) God is great! amen 💕

  • @genxlady
    @genxlady Před 11 měsíci +1

    @Dessy! your vlogs are a reality movie! I love your content!

  • @wayNAY87
    @wayNAY87 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Idk why I really enjoy your vlogs, even when you are just talking or doing a lot. Just good vibes.

  • @jbevph9409
    @jbevph9409 Před 11 měsíci

    You are an inspiration. There will be trying times. But God will always be there look;at that light shine from the interaction between you and your brother and family. Blessings on blessings. Oh that green piece from Nike was so gorgeous, you know I ordered that immediately. ❤

  • @wayNAY87
    @wayNAY87 Před 11 měsíci +2

    The talk around the 1:40:00 mark gave me chills. God bless you for being used even when you feel down.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci +1

      💕💕 thank you love. so happy it resonated

  • @wayNAY87
    @wayNAY87 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I am crying at the chipotle chat - the mixing “if you have a good chipotle employee…” hahahaahaha

  • @nicolegarv2475
    @nicolegarv2475 Před 10 měsíci

    Brother and sister relationship was so sweet to see.

  • @nyeshaeubanks1931
    @nyeshaeubanks1931 Před 11 měsíci

    You came to my city! Hope to catch you next time 🥰 Loyal to the RayGang, been here since 7k!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci

      aaayyyyeee 🥰💕 yes ma'am! I love Chi town and will definitely be back

  • @ulyssiatillis2764
    @ulyssiatillis2764 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Lmaoo not mama saying show me, she is too freaking cute. That’s right mama rep Houston 😍🤣

  • @madear112
    @madear112 Před 11 měsíci

    Another great video. I love your "rants"! 😂

  • @sorennastewart
    @sorennastewart Před 11 měsíci

    I’ve been ready for thisssss ❤ #notificationsquad

  • @fayeosseni6310
    @fayeosseni6310 Před 11 měsíci

    Sis you made me cry towards the end because we know its not your fault!!! You are the best and hopefully I get to be apart of the link up ❤❤❤❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci

      thank you so much for being so understanding 🥹🫶🏾

  • @Princess8595
    @Princess8595 Před 11 měsíci

    I definitely felt the lesson vs reward chit chat. I been feeling like that a lot. I don’t know about anyone else but I’m here for you talking about your spiritual journey and the revelations you have 💛
    P.s I’m sad about Costa Rica too 🥺

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci +1

      awww great because it's some of my favorite content to talk about lately!
      PS - we'll find something else to do sis, don't worry!

  • @laclairelcyy007
    @laclairelcyy007 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Sleep can wait per usual, Des posted lol 😅

  • @sweetmimi444
    @sweetmimi444 Před 11 měsíci +1

    1:44:44 whew so relatable!!!
    Sidebar: when u cry I want to beat up everyone ugh 🥺

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci +1

      🥹🥹 I love that I can be vulnerable around y’all!!

  • @myway73100
    @myway73100 Před 11 měsíci +4

    You have a nice looking family. So I see it’s in the genes ❤

  • @domdom27939
    @domdom27939 Před 11 měsíci

    Suits and the Lincon lawyer series is sooo good omfg

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci

      waitttt I keep hearing Lincoln Lawyer is bomb too! Should I start that one also? 😂

  • @MelloneeKecia
    @MelloneeKecia Před 11 měsíci

    Welcome to my hometown I hope you enjoy yourself while your here in Chicago and great vlog as always 👍🏾👏🏾🤗❤️

  • @AlwayzOneHunnit
    @AlwayzOneHunnit Před 11 měsíci

    Always here to show love and support. I enjoy your content, thanks for sharing. ❤❤❤

  • @neetsdomination
    @neetsdomination Před 11 měsíci

    So this is how you do us huh! Giiiirrrrllllll!!!!! We missed you! ❤

  • @Toyamarsh.
    @Toyamarsh. Před 11 měsíci

    mom was waiting like girl get my outfit lool love African moms

  • @MariaGuzman-qd3po
    @MariaGuzman-qd3po Před 11 měsíci

    Yes 🙌 you’re looking amazing.

  • @EnnizeO
    @EnnizeO Před 11 měsíci

    I’m glad you enjoyed my city!! 🫶🏾

  • @jackiejack4497
    @jackiejack4497 Před 11 měsíci

    That’s the male version of you 😮
    When mom said “you not showing me”
    I was cracking up 😂

  • @lolamaven3971
    @lolamaven3971 Před 11 měsíci

    Friendly dates are always fun & low pressure. & the chipotle rant took me out 😂 girl bye

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa Před 11 měsíci +1

    Good morning Des happy Thursday morning and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

  • @Girlthat
    @Girlthat Před 11 měsíci

    I was so quick. Nearly hit my jaw 😂😂😂

  • @wayNAY87
    @wayNAY87 Před 11 měsíci +1

    “You’re hidden in plain sight.” Chills. I’m happy for you.

  • @shakirajonuae
    @shakirajonuae Před 11 měsíci

    Okay I know I commented hours ago but I am slowly finishing up this video, and SIS ‼️ why is it that literally all this week I’ve felt so much excessive worrying and letting thoughts that are not my own dwell in my mind to trick me to believe that I am not worthy of Gods sacrifices !!!! 🥺 Like when I tell you I got teary eyed with you I totally feel you and sometimes I still struggle with it. Trusting God is not always easy and of coarse not always our initial thought because of the circumstances that happens in that current moment. I think this was divine timing and it reminds me that I’m not the only one and that Gods grace is abundant STILL and he sees and hears us STILL ! We just have to draw near him and just talk to him even in the mist of our emotions cause that’s what he wants

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci

      AMEN AMEN AMENNNNN SIS! we got this 💕💕

  • @regrich8795
    @regrich8795 Před 11 měsíci +1

    You went back to my hometown Chicago i haven't been back in a while it's a beautiful city. Dallas is my home now it's different but bigger and better experiences 🙂

    • @regrich8795
      @regrich8795 Před 11 měsíci

      Hyatt on King Drive or on Wacker Drive both are nice 👍🏽

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci +1

      I love Chicago!!

    • @regrich8795
      @regrich8795 Před 11 měsíci

      @@TheDessyRayWay yes indeed sis!!!

  • @ediesmiles1
    @ediesmiles1 Před 11 měsíci

    Great Video 🦾 Your video just came next; but I knew I had subbed you around the Pandemic; CZcams plays too much with the notifications 😳 So glad I saw this one; God Bless you👑

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 10 měsíci

      Ahhhh idk why they do me like that but I’m happy you found it! 🤍🤍

  • @jorgedelgado9465
    @jorgedelgado9465 Před 11 měsíci

    Queen 😍

  • @era.nelson5050
    @era.nelson5050 Před 11 měsíci

    Love the Nike sets

  • @nk7925
    @nk7925 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hey Dessi xx where’s your white crop vest in the thumbnail from? And what size x

  • @sherrytaylor3042
    @sherrytaylor3042 Před 9 měsíci

    I love this video😊Young Lady😊I am much older 😊You are correct about the group trip😊Please keep it small or solo🖤Keep enjoying life👍Sherry Chicago 🖤

  • @cocowithlove1
    @cocowithlove1 Před 11 měsíci

    Sorry I’m back with another comment as I finish the video lol. GIRL! The password with God is gold! I’ve always been so like how come I can never hear God speak to me, why doesn’t he speak to me. And now boom! Def going to try the password with God and practice hearing him. ❤ Thank you for that tip!!

  • @jaliyahabroad
    @jaliyahabroad Před 11 měsíci +1

    Our flights always on time??? Idk about that😭😭 I’m a flight attendant for them
    & I also don’t really care for Midway airport either😂

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci +1

      LMAOOOO thank you for tapping in sis! Now tell me…how can I get another 50,000 points for this mishap? 🤣

  • @wayNAY87
    @wayNAY87 Před 11 měsíci

    LOL at the chipotle chat hahahaha

  • @PetagayeHenry
    @PetagayeHenry Před 11 měsíci

    Right now suits is one of the most popular in the social Media content creator world

  • @tiffanymarie2367
    @tiffanymarie2367 Před 11 měsíci +1

    The braids still looks great, very boho

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci

      Aww thank you 😊 I was getting self conscious lol

  • @beauty4er2111
    @beauty4er2111 Před 11 měsíci

    This vlog made me feel so much closer to you! Glad you had a great time with family

  • @Dauphne
    @Dauphne Před 11 měsíci

    Hey des. Good to see your video.

  • @Burneeka23
    @Burneeka23 Před 11 měsíci

    Not a stretch at all. I watch things and hear God all of the time!!!

  • @sorennastewart
    @sorennastewart Před 11 měsíci

    5:02 I know that’s right 😂 drip too hard ❤️💧

  • @shakirajonuae
    @shakirajonuae Před 11 měsíci

    Late to the party but I’m here :)

  • @ediesmiles1
    @ediesmiles1 Před 11 měsíci

    That is deep😇 Yeah, just know that Father God got you!

  • @brendarobinson76
    @brendarobinson76 Před 11 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @krystaltaylor1336
    @krystaltaylor1336 Před 11 měsíci

    No, you’re not Trippin. That was God speaking to you. Absolutely! Thank you for your testimony, I needed to hear it today.
    I’ll remember, I am hidden in plain sight. ❤

  • @PetagayeHenry
    @PetagayeHenry Před 11 měsíci

    Yes I've seen lifetime fitness one is by my house. Want to check it out once I get a Job

  • @pamelalige6656
    @pamelalige6656 Před 11 měsíci

    Enjoyed this video. Baby girl, I am a 59 year old lady. I am not one to always post but that doesn’t mean you are not in my prayers. I am here to remind you, FAITH. God gives us free will and the devil will never stop to test your faith. I am praying for you, your family and that you set boundaries- This applies to ALL people in your life. Continue to have that time with your family. We as humans are blessed by the most high Father, son and the holy ghost (GOD) gives grace and mercy. Mental health 🙌🏾 we all must protect ourselves. 🙏🏾

  • @era.nelson5050
    @era.nelson5050 Před 11 měsíci

    You here in my city ❤

  • @fayeosseni6310
    @fayeosseni6310 Před 11 měsíci

    Also big sis you went on a date 👀👀👀🫣

  • @HotSixty
    @HotSixty Před měsícem

    👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

  • @sammydagoat5766
    @sammydagoat5766 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Another Great Vlog
    Stay Safe
    Loving The Hair
    You Always Beautiful

  • @tiffanymarie2367
    @tiffanymarie2367 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Yeah midway small🤦🏾‍♀️nothing but coffee and doughnuts. O'Hare

    • @regrich8795
      @regrich8795 Před 11 měsíci

      I agree they gotta do better they need an Einstein Bagels at least.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci

      Lmao they need to step it up!!

  • @PetagayeHenry
    @PetagayeHenry Před 11 měsíci

    Your mom was definitely for htown

  • @DrLena_
    @DrLena_ Před 11 měsíci

    It’s the whole segment on Chipotle for me…and not me running to Chipotle on my lunch break 🤭🥹

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci

      Hahahaha I can’t believe y’all watched 😂🤍 some real ones!!

  • @ieshacampbell8427
    @ieshacampbell8427 Před 11 měsíci

    You’re in your healing state ❤️‍🩹. I am as well! You made a statement “why am I always the lesson for other ppl” girl that hit home but what I’m learning is obedience, which means this is what your put on Earth for is to be a blessing to others and help them achieve higher vibrations and to trigger their inner demons to change. When God forces you to walk away from them know that your job is done. Know that your faith and obedience will always prevail. We have to learn patience and trust that in Devine timing you will be rewarded. God is Love, so continue to grow in Him❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 11 měsíci +1

      WHEW such a beautiful word. thank you for that sis 💕

  • @Be4Clarity
    @Be4Clarity Před 11 měsíci

    “I feel like I am always the lesson and not the reward” wow 🥹 never heard it put that way but I know exactly what you mean. May you soon meet the reason why God did not allow YOU to settle. What has helped me is knowing that He wants the best for you and anything He allows to happen in your life is because He knows you are capable. Love you deep for always letting God flow through you in your honesty & transparency 💕💕