WEEKLY VLOG: ISOLATION SEASON, GRWM + BEAUTY TIPS, WEDDING, CONCERT, DINNER DATE |THE DESSY RAY WAY

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  • čas přidán 31. 07. 2024
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    What's good Ray gangggggg :) and HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
    I'm so happy to be back on here. Please bear with me as this was filmed last year, but next week will start back up the 2024 vlogs! I really hope you don't mind. In this one we get up to a lot of different things! Come with me to Charlotte for my cousin's wedding, talk about my isolation period with me, go see Burna Boy perform in Houston, and go on a dinner date to a new location, plus more. Meet me in the comments!
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    00:00 CHARLOTTE WHAT'S TEA???
    07:55 GRWM & vibe
    11:41 Nigerian Wedding Day 1
    13:34 Sephora Haul
    17:37 Nigerian Wedding Day 2
    22:21 SICK AGAIN?!?!?!
    32:55 God Wants Me Single!
    39:48 Watching My Man Perform
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    52:40 GRWM for date night

Komentáře • 158

  • @TheDessyRayWay
    @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +19

    thank yall so much for the continued patience and endless support ❤ my MacBook has been through some THANGS hunny lol. I finally got her fixed and was able to get this up for yall. Last vlog of 2023, and next week will be the Christmas and new years vlog! Then we will be caught up. Love you sooo much gang! Enjoy 😘

    • @ADangerouzRendezvou23
      @ADangerouzRendezvou23 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Idk if you noticed but you give like black girl luxury SZA kinda vibes😌✨ I’m here 4 it Des👀🍿👏🏼

    • @gadinagill342
      @gadinagill342 Před 6 měsíci

      Get the Mac computer, sometimes the laptop cant handle the editing

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      @@gadinagill342next on my list of big girl purchases!!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      @@ADangerouzRendezvou23 aww I love that. Thanks 🥰🤍

  • @bowensrealestategroup
    @bowensrealestategroup Před 4 měsíci

    Your journey from wedding prep to exploring Charlotte was a whole vibe! The part where you talked about being single because God intends it resonated deeply with me.

  • @Iiayala
    @Iiayala Před 6 měsíci +1

    Pleaseeee the way I was cheesing and dancing at all the wedding portions of this video as if I was in full attendance 😂. I loveeeeee a Nigerian wedding! Now let me continue watching the remaining parts of this movie.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      Awww thanks sis 🥰🥰 some of my favorite parts!!

  • @Iownthis16
    @Iownthis16 Před 6 měsíci +1

    we missed you! you don’t know how much that segment about being single hit me. i literally was questioning my self if i was even worthy enough but I definitely believe we need to leave things up to God and he will continue to lead us in the right direction

  • @VibrantPeace
    @VibrantPeace Před 6 měsíci +2

    Your “God wants me single” segment I can relate to soooo much ! It’s like you saying out loud what I’ve been saying in my head for a while now. The devil definitely trying but he’s only pushing me closer to God. I hope you and Sky feel better and I’m looking forward to your next vlog 🤗🤗❤️❤️

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +2

      Yes yes yes!!! All those terrible thoughts and ideas are only from the devil himself. He hates how close we are all getting to God! God knows our heart 🥰🤍🤍 thanks for watching boo! See you next week

  • @ARelatableMama
    @ARelatableMama Před 6 měsíci +1

    What a beautiful and lit wedding. Wishing them a healthy happy marriage. Thanks for all of the transparency throughout the Vlog. Looking forward to more content. #keepgoing ❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      right??!! ugh watching it back I started missing it all over again lol. easily one of the best weddings I've ever been too! thanks for watching 💕

  • @janeo3882
    @janeo3882 Před 6 měsíci

    Missed you!! Welcome back girly❤

  • @monis.4382
    @monis.4382 Před 6 měsíci

    Oh, your look for date night was vibe😍😍😍 thoroughly enjoyed this vlog! Don’t be discouraged, your content is always top tier. Keep pushing! Cheers to a fruitful and productive 2024.🥂

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      Amen amen amen 🙏🏾🤍 thank you so much love!

  • @mikaylathompson4179
    @mikaylathompson4179 Před 6 měsíci

    Sooo happy you are back! Set my notifications so I won’t miss a video!!💓

  • @cali_love5977
    @cali_love5977 Před 6 měsíci

    Dessy, you’re always doing the damn thang girl. Love all your vlogs, we all jump on the struggle bus sometimes. Keep being your authentic self. That’s what really shines through on your vlogs. And can we take a moment to appreciate that purple outfit 🔥

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thank you so so much 🥹🤍🤍 that means a lot to me! I appreciate you

  • @Vicksstyless
    @Vicksstyless Před 6 měsíci

    glad your back, hope your better💕

  • @DaniellesWorld98
    @DaniellesWorld98 Před 6 měsíci

    OMGGGG Benedict !!!!!! ❤ congratulations brideeeee

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      It’s crazy how many people that watch me know her and my cousin Jeff!! Haha I love it 🥰🥰

  • @MariaGuzman-qd3po
    @MariaGuzman-qd3po Před 6 měsíci +1

    Girl I love your videos ❤

  • @modune1
    @modune1 Před 6 měsíci

    The wait is over!

  • @sweetmimi444
    @sweetmimi444 Před 6 měsíci

    Loved this vlog fr! Don’t stop creating sis!

  • @Ekiosa
    @Ekiosa Před 6 měsíci

    My African sister, I loved the wedding it was beautiful, auntie was so cute she be lit and I love it 💚 I hope you’re feeling better now! You know our parents are never on time when it comes to anything they be in their own world as if others are not on time lol… So happy for the long vlog 💚

  • @jeanellreynolds7291
    @jeanellreynolds7291 Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations to your beautiful cousin the wedding was everything. ❤

  • @lolamaven3971
    @lolamaven3971 Před 6 měsíci

    Love the content as always. ❤❤

  • @Wintersno
    @Wintersno Před 6 měsíci

    yaaaaay new vlog!!!

  • @domdom27939
    @domdom27939 Před 6 měsíci

    Yes a Mariah the scientist Stan!

  • @brownbabecc
    @brownbabecc Před 6 měsíci

    I plan to visit Charlotte soon. I can't wait ✨

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      I hope you enjoy! Make sure you go to Crave 🤍

  • @MelloneeKecia
    @MelloneeKecia Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations to your cousin 🎈🎊🎉🥂🍾🥳❤ such a beautiful ceremony 🥰❤️

  • @jadanelson1845
    @jadanelson1845 Před 6 měsíci

    LOVE YOU!!!! ❤I swear you be taking the words right out of my thoughts! Especially when you mentioned basically this being your single season.. Why is it so hard to have companionship? But God is ordering our steps and in due time! Also, lately I’ve been binge watching SWAT!!! && they’re coming out with a new season!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      GIRL I LOVE YOU!! ugh it’s so difficult in this generation, but I just know God would never leave us alone. We are meant to find our Kingdom spouse 🤍🤍

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      I need to checkout SWAT!! I’ve heard great things 👀

  • @ladikasusette
    @ladikasusette Před 6 měsíci

    Loved this vlog so much 🫶🏾

  • @monis.4382
    @monis.4382 Před 6 měsíci

    Wow, what an absolutely gorgeous wedding and bride! Congratulations to your family!🥂❤️

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      Right??! I can’t believe how great it was. Thank you!!

  • @MsSilentAssasin
    @MsSilentAssasin Před 6 měsíci

    So happy to see this beauty!! Please post your eyebrow make up. Im in love❤❤❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      I’m planning to film an updated makeup tutorial don’t worry 🥰🤍

  • @monis.4382
    @monis.4382 Před 6 měsíci

    Oh your outfit for the concert was gorg. You looked so beautiful!!!

  • @lessegomad
    @lessegomad Před 6 měsíci

    Tapped in!!!! ❤️

  • @UpAndAtEmAddie
    @UpAndAtEmAddie Před 6 měsíci +2

    Congratulations to your cousin!
    She was a beautiful bride.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      I agree my cousin in law was such a beautiful bride!! My actual cousin was the groom :)

  • @along58
    @along58 Před 6 měsíci

    Girrrrrllllll Such a small world! Your cousin's wife is one of my little sorority sister! It was wild seeing her and my other babies in your video!! And Crave has literally been my spot since 2007! So glad you got to go there!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      Ahhhhh I love me some Beni 🤍🥰 she’s such a gem. So happy that Jeff and her are together!

  • @era.nelson5050
    @era.nelson5050 Před 6 měsíci

    Beautiful wedding Your Mother is a vibe ❤❤

  • @Dauphne
    @Dauphne Před 6 měsíci

    Hey Des. Welcome Back.

  • @DesireeSacola
    @DesireeSacola Před 6 měsíci +1

    I love how you said we would get the make-up routine in short form and then proceeds to snatch our pearls with a full beat. About to add some stuff to the cart lol

  • @sheronwalker7882
    @sheronwalker7882 Před 6 měsíci

    Always enjoy your videos

  • @gadinagill342
    @gadinagill342 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Its you telling us in the last vlog thats youre going to be more consistent, then give us a vlog a whole year later😂😂😂😂😩😩 jk, we missed youuu girlll ❤️❤️❤️
    You in the car driving, is meee, cause what??? These people on the road in Texas will drive you mad😂
    Love ur videos… Cant wait for the next vlog💃🏾

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Girl the way I put my whole foot in my mouth smh!!!😒😭😭 I have to do better! I missed yall like crazyyyy as usual lol 🤍🤍🤍
      And LISTEN!! I’ve never felt real road rage until I moved here I swearrr😂😂😂

  • @lindaannoliver5627
    @lindaannoliver5627 Před 6 měsíci

    Love your outfit so freaking pretty

  • @queendlifestyle8756
    @queendlifestyle8756 Před 6 měsíci

    Yayyyy!!! We here babes!!! #raygang

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Gangggg🥰🥰 I hope you enjoy babe!

    • @queendlifestyle8756
      @queendlifestyle8756 Před 6 měsíci

      I did!!! Your true supporters will always be tuned it! Don’t let the algorithm deter you babes!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@queendlifestyle8756 🥹🤍🤍 I needed to hear this

  • @Wintersno
    @Wintersno Před 6 měsíci

    what a beautiful wedding.

  • @latoyiabesqupnext3593
    @latoyiabesqupnext3593 Před 6 měsíci

    WAIT….. what?! $198!!!! Babbbbbbbbby I KNOW you about to look GOODT in that dress! Congratulations to your cousin

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      I’m still mad about it to this day!!!😭😭

  • @Princess8595
    @Princess8595 Před 5 měsíci

    The commentaries get me every time😂😂 you definitely be over the trucks but “prison, jail time “ took me out
    I’ve been watching NCIS when it’s not watching me 😅
    Your makeup is gorgeous 🤌🏾 especially for the concert! 🥵 the makeup tips will definitely be put to use, but can we have a face routine ? 👀 I just started to use topicals for dark spot correction, the dark spots are my biggest haters

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 5 měsíci

      LMAOOOO THEM TRUCKS I CANTTTT

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 5 měsíci

      Sis I’m struggling with hyperpigmentation too! I’m just now finally starting to take care of my skin low lowww key lol

  • @neetsdomination
    @neetsdomination Před 6 měsíci

    Yyyaaaaaaaaasssssss!!!! ❤❤❤

  • @monis.4382
    @monis.4382 Před 6 měsíci

    Nothing is wrong with a little “ayyyye”😂🙌🏽

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      Hahahaha it’s my go to 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

  • @Wintersno
    @Wintersno Před 6 měsíci

    Yesssss!!! y'all she really responds lol she will see that DM and she will answer!

  • @ShayPVlogs
    @ShayPVlogs Před 6 měsíci

    Awww ! Jeff and I went to college together! He's a great guy :) So happy for them! You looked great , btw! Great vlog! I create content as well, and I felt you on ALL THAT! ❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Such a great person! :) thanks for watching babe 🤍🤍

  • @sweetmimi444
    @sweetmimi444 Před 6 měsíci

    20:52 if my wedding reception isn’t this lit I don’t want itttt!!!!!🎉

  • @regrich8795
    @regrich8795 Před 6 měsíci

    She's back!!! I'm actually thinking about either moving back home to Chicago or Charlotte in which i have family all over NC... Dallas has been rough these jobs not giving here 😏

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Charlotte wasn’t like oh wow amazing, but impressed me by how many resources there were. A lot of businesses. Very “family oriented”. Decent weather. A lot of positive things I saw! I kinda get it lol

    • @regrich8795
      @regrich8795 Před 6 měsíci

      @@TheDessyRayWay great insight thanks I’m a truck driver and just looked they pay kinda low as well 😩. I’ll have to figure it out because I do like Texas though.

  • @daintydina
    @daintydina Před 6 měsíci

    What brand and color was the contour stick?

  • @jaliyahabroad
    @jaliyahabroad Před 6 měsíci

    “Ayyyeeeee”😭😭😭

  • @mamiebigham6502
    @mamiebigham6502 Před 6 měsíci

    Oh my your makeup is gorgeous you are so beautiful thank you 💃💃💃👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @DAYB.
    @DAYB. Před 6 měsíci

    Not me guessing the overnight was only $70😂 like omg they tried it but glad it came. The weddings looked lit! Can’t wait for the next vlog🫶🏾

  • @UpAndAtEmAddie
    @UpAndAtEmAddie Před 6 měsíci

    No lie, I knew Delta’s were in the building.

  • @a6a470
    @a6a470 Před 6 měsíci

    Girl who does your lashes ?! 10/10

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you 😊 her IG is @madamwinks ! Let her know Dessy sent you 🤍

  • @sorennastewart
    @sorennastewart Před 6 měsíci

    29:08 I’m having this exact feeling about my content but I’m trying to push through it.

  • @miriamheart
    @miriamheart Před 6 měsíci

    Where is ur outfit that u wore to the concert from?? U are literally so gorgeous❤️❤️❤️

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much 🥹🤍 it’s from this French brand Maniere De Voir! I tried to link but the site is currently locked bc they are about to have a sale 👀

  • @VibrantPeace
    @VibrantPeace Před 6 měsíci

    I literally came to your page like 2 days ago and was like where is my girl and then I went on your tiktok 😂😂

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Lmaooo! I’m so happy you hopped over there too bc I’m over there daily 👀🤭

  • @brittriridley381
    @brittriridley381 Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks for your content! It's always inspiring to watch. How was The Warwick? I've been thinking of going

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thank you for watching 🥹🤍 I LOVED it! Its a very elevated experience to say the least. I had the collared green fried oysters as an appetizer and lobster ravioli as my main and when I tell you I CLEARED my plate 😭😂 whewww the drinks were also so tasty. I believe it’s black owned too which did it for me 🥰 a whole vibe! Please visit and let them know I sent you

    • @brittriridley381
      @brittriridley381 Před 6 měsíci

      @@TheDessyRayWay 🥰🥰 Thanks! I'm about to reserve a table now! 😆

  • @brendarobinson76
    @brendarobinson76 Před 6 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cassiemarie9900
    @cassiemarie9900 Před 6 měsíci

    🤩🧡

  • @winnequathomas4999
    @winnequathomas4999 Před 6 měsíci

    You made me feel like I was at the wedding 🤣

  • @JohnHausser
    @JohnHausser Před 6 měsíci

    😊

  • @ella_oppong
    @ella_oppong Před 6 měsíci

    Hey Dessy. Can you share how you get your non copyrighted songs💕

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Hey boo!! I always go on SoundCloud :) I will search something like “good days spa reverb” for example. There are so many edits out there. If I remember I’m gonna try to put it in one of my vlogs coming up!

    • @ella_oppong
      @ella_oppong Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you so much! Love your vlogs💕

  • @rosesqu6012
    @rosesqu6012 Před 6 měsíci

    What pink blush did you use for getting ready for the wedding!!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      @rarebeauty matte liquid blush in the shade Grace 🤍 my favvvv

    • @rosesqu6012
      @rosesqu6012 Před 6 měsíci

      @@TheDessyRayWay thank u!!🩷🩷

  • @Chitowndym
    @Chitowndym Před 6 měsíci

    What brand leggins set are you wearing, its cute. I need more.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      Hey boo! The black set? It’s from Lululemon

  • @dayswithamaya
    @dayswithamaya Před 6 měsíci

    You driving …is me😭

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      LMAOOOOO these folks will take you there 😭😭😭

  • @UpAndAtEmAddie
    @UpAndAtEmAddie Před 6 měsíci

    🗣️Culture!

  • @gavhenrad
    @gavhenrad Před 6 měsíci

    CLT Airport is a funny name 😅

  • @jorgedelgado9465
    @jorgedelgado9465 Před 6 měsíci

    28:36 Im disappointed in you too for making me wait this long for a vlog and then you put up a 1 hour vlog. Ummmmm no ma’am im gonna need a movie please. 2-3 hours vlog only 🤣🤣🤣😘

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      Please forgive me for I have failed you 😭😭😭

  • @latoyiabesqupnext3593
    @latoyiabesqupnext3593 Před 6 měsíci

    Ok I paused….I think it was about $140.00 to overnight the dress

  • @monis.4382
    @monis.4382 Před 6 měsíci

    You paid for the dress twice almost😩😩 I know you were sick!!

  • @TheKaRenaLee
    @TheKaRenaLee Před 3 měsíci

    Going to a burna boy concert after saying God is isolating you from men is crazy cause I heard that’s where the men be 👀 better you than me cause God know I still got work to do

  • @UpAndAtEmAddie
    @UpAndAtEmAddie Před 6 měsíci

    I was just about to hit up your IG and ask where you’ve been.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Hahaha beat you to it! 😌 happy new year!

  • @kathleenharris8824
    @kathleenharris8824 Před 6 měsíci

    I say you spent $200-300 to overnight the dress. Let me see! I am scared.😂

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay  Před 6 měsíci

      Lmaoooo $198 and I’m still mad about it 😒

  • @ulyssiatillis2764
    @ulyssiatillis2764 Před 6 měsíci

    lmaoo you are true cancer pulling your own hair like that 😂 some stuff i would do

  • @UpAndAtEmAddie
    @UpAndAtEmAddie Před 6 měsíci

    Maybe God isn’t just keeping you single. Maybe he wants to keep you focused.

  • @DaniellesWorld98
    @DaniellesWorld98 Před 6 měsíci

    Yea Charlotte has the worst hookah ever!!!!