Do you have a way to combat bullying? 9-1-1 S05E05
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 14. 05. 2024
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Original: 9-1-1 Season 5
The season premiered on September 20, 2021 with "Panic" and concluded on May 16, 2022 with "Starting Over". Production of Season 5 began on July 12, 2021, and concluded on April 5, 2022.
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I love May so much, it was great seeing her grow from that struggling teenager to a confident dispatcher who dedicates her time to helping others
Same. She's grown into a brave and independent adult
Jesus Loves you He died on the cross for your sins and if you repent if your sins and confess with your mouth His is Lord and son of God you are saved. God blessđ
â@@myouniverse0613Jesus Loves you He died on the cross for your sins and if you repent if your sins and confess with your mouth His is Lord and son of God you are saved. God blessđ
What show is this from?
@@Crazyontheinsideandout uh...9-1-1? s5e05?
If you are being bullied physically as well as mentally, file charges with police, Schools do nothing. If it is adults bullying adults, stop letting them. You do not have to put up with their bs.
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Police tend to be useless when it comes to bullying as well, especially in the U.S.
U see i have a teacher, he said during a class that since we have an class that we get a grade for after school that those teachers who stop their students by threatening to kick their students out of clubs or belittle them for extra curricular things when they have a curricular activity going on that he would personally go out of his way to get said belittling to stop and this is him when he isnât tenured imagine post tenure
Facts
Nobody deserves to be bullied to the point they are in danger. You see bullying stop it.
For those of y'all wondering the girl on the phone made it and the lady that was standing next to may was being rude to her and trying to make her hand over the call but then may told the girl about her attempt but thankfully the EMS found the girl in time and she made it
Thank you!
What show is this?
@@user-ei2cu2qy3m 911 it's in season 3 I believe
It's not being rude, the woman said that she understood the girl, which is not a suitable thing to say to someone about to commit sui.cde. It's called policy
@@esmeraldassi2773 obviously you haven't watched that episode. The entire episode the older lady was being rude to May and taking over her calls and not letting her do her job at all. May was trying to keep the girl on the phone longer so that way she knew the paramedics had found her and talking about her own experience kept her on the phone longer
the thing thats always helped me keep going is someone telling me once "tomorrow might be better, but youll never find out unless you make it there"
I'm glad it helped you get better
I'm happy to hear one more day helped you. I have a story that might help. Well I hope it does. In 2013 I had a positive biopsy. Two weeks later I lost my close cousin. In 2014 I gave birth to my son to a man who made my pregnancy awful in many ways. Then 2015 came and it didn't start or end well. I had a huge fight with my mom New years day! Then at the end of the year I got into an auto accident that changed my life forever. In 2016 my kids where taken from me because my injuries where to much. It's 2024 and I hate my life but I know one thing for sure. If I didn't move forward I would have never known any of that would happen. I found out I can fight for my kids back and I'm trying to make a CZcams channel to help others like me. It's not been easy but I don't want easy! I want worth it and that's what moves me forward! I know you didn't need my life story. MAYBE just maybe it will help knowing I'm sitting next to you in the darkness.
Iâm grateful youâre here today
same here.
I tell it myself, not letting my hopes die, I will be healthy once again, and so it is worth it to endure the pain...
Even though I don't know if the doctors will ever find a treatment for me đ
But better/less painful days will come again đ
Can't die yet đ
Yesterday marked 10 years since my failed attempt.. I was 15 at the time. No one found me. Somehow I woke up after the pills failed to do what I had, at the time, hoped they would do.. I remember being more sick than Iâve ever been in my entire life yet no one ever noticed. Many times since then I have wished it had worked, but Iâm here to be a witness that life can in fact be beautiful. We donât need to please anyone but ourselves. We are not responsible for otherâs reactions to our decisions and how we live our lives. The right people will find us. If you ever believe that no one cares, I do. I care. Please live your life to the fullest and show the world what an amazing light you have to shine đ
The world is a dark disgusting and selfish place, but there is a Light in that darkness that saved you whether you know or acknowledge it or not, and that was the love of God. I donât know if youâve had problems with church or religion, but as you said, those are other people actions and choices, but the love of God is selfLESS, sending and doing all that He possibly could by sending His Son Jesus(Yahusha Hebrew Name). I donât know your pain, but He does. He was hated, rejected, killed of a cross, beaten and whipped before that for you. Satan hates you because he knows God made you and has a plan and purpose for you, Gid wants a relationship with you, but thatâs for you to choose. †I love you, He says. If you want, I recommend you look up, the Fatherâs Love Letter. May Our Father in Heaven, Yah(Hebrew Name), give you FULL healing and restoration to your heart, mind, body, and soul â€
Psalm 139, John 3:14-17, and the book of 1 John â€
The world is dark, disgusting, unloving, and so selfish. But there was a Light in that darkness that saved you and many others. And that Light is the Love of God. Iâm not sure of what youâve gone through, if youâve had problems with the church or religion. People have done wrong things and have maybe damaged your view of God. But it doesnât change the fact that God loves you and saved you then an will keep on saving and sparing you til you turn to see. For He is so loving and selfLESS, that He did ALL that He possibly give so that He could save you and make a way for you to once again know Him, if thatâs what you choose. People are people, we are susceptible to doing wrong things and actions, that may have hurt you, but there is a Healer that wants to heal you, that wants the best for you, that has a purpose, plan, and gifts for you specifically. He is the very one who delivered you as a baby. He was there since the beginning and will always be there, patiently waiting to see if youâll see His love and come into His loving arms again. He will respect your choices, like a loving Father, but choices will still have consequences, good or bad, thatâs up to you. He has a life for you if you will choose it. †I recommend looking up; The Fatherâs Love Letter.
May Heavenly Father Yahuah(Hebrew Name for the Father), give you full healing and restoration to your mind, heart, body, and soul!
Psalm 139, John 3:14-17, and the book of 1 John †Have a blessed day
Am happy you are here today đ†more love . God bless you đ
I'm glad you made it â€
Happy that you are okay. â€
I feel this. I was bullied when I was 16 and it got bad. I almost got expelled from school. Even when it was discovered who started the bullying (which spread school wide) it still continued. Since Iâd get home before my parents, I spent days staring at pain pills and a knifeâŠ.weighing which would be quicker. I didnât do it but those were some dark days for me.
I'm glad you made it through.
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Im am so sorry you had to ho throught this i hope you are doing better just so you know theres always someone waiting for you
I wasn't bullied but I did find out my husband was sleeping with a minor it got bad to me too I cut myself. The only reason I stopped was cuz of my kids I'm a step mom but I love them like they're my own
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suicide doesn't take away the pain. it passes it onto someone else
And when you're tired of life, you don't give a shitđ
And when you're tired of life, you don't give a shitđ
And when you're tired of life, you don't give a shitđ
@@Gumisbiggunabsolutely true. When you are in that state you are not thinking of anything else. You are valuable though. If you have ever felt that way I am sorry and please please talk to someone. They would much rather help you than see you dead
That's not what goes through someone's head when they're in the process. I've been there done it but never once did thought that's you're saying ran through my head. Don't talk like you know the feeling if you've never been that spot
Now years later after i failed my two attempts and things are much more better, i realised that i didn't want to die, i just wanted the pain to stop and to feel like i am not a burden
I'm sorry you went through that, hope you're doing better now.
Me seeing this is a sign that things will get betterâŠ
It is đ«
Hey, stick around to find out, okay? đ€
Things will get better! â€ïžâđ©č
Yes it will đ sending love and virtual hugs đ€
I feel you, maybe it'll get better..
God, the 'sorry im calling 911' hits me where it hurts
This is just a reminder for all of you. You are NOT your academics! You are NOT the sports you play! You are NOT a hobby that you like! You are NOT your job or career! You ARE a person with a unique personality!
You ARE like nobody else! You ARE you and only you and who you choose to be! You ARE someone with flaws that you or anybody else may pick at but you ALSO have amazing attributes that not everyone sees.
You may be kind, silly, or athletic but you might also be mean or serious and that's ok. You can always choose who you are and choose to be better and choose what you believe and that's what you are not anything else defines you except how you choose to act, or feel, or how you portray the world to yourself.
This only got 1 like man what the heck. Ur a smart person all of that wise stuff is true i stand by u mate
Thank you
@@amandamcquillan4741 Iâm glad you saw this. Youâre so welcome.
@@SomeoneToT4lkT0 I have written the comment out into my notebook. I need to remind myself that it's not only in Christ Jesus that I have worth, but also in myself and your words remind me of this.
I would like your permission to share them with others.
@@amandamcquillan4741 Of course! This isnât just for one person. A really big part of this comment was so that so many would see it and be reminded. Iâm so glad you feel itâs important to share this with more people.
Iâm a 911 operator. And Iâve talked to callers like this. Iâve told them that I tried to kill myself. When they say that Iâm just saying that to make them feel better I tell them what my plan was. And how my ex boyfriend (whoâs one of my best friends to this day) talked to me âŠhow he didnât talk me out of it but (I was driving around) told me to come over and we would talk and if I still felt the same way he wouldnât stop me âŠ. We arenât supposed to share our lives with them âŠbut sometimes itâs necessary. To be a human being that shows compassion instead of a nameless and faceless voice
As someone who attemptwd suicide last month by attempting to OD on my prescription of Fluoxetine, it wasnt until the day after, while I was throwing up and couldnt stand or anything, that the guilt began weighing down on me. The day after that, I went to school and apologized to my friends. The next day, my parents started to argue and I brought up how I attempted, and I discovered that they truly did care.
I'm glad you were able to make it through that rough patch
I'm on fluoxetine as well - there's something ironic about trying to kill yourself with antidepressants, huh? Ive had some rough patches where I thought about making a cough syrup and fluoxetine smoothie and hoping the resulting serotonin syndrome would be enough. I'm sorry you've had to go through that â€
Iâm so glad you realized that you have people who care about you. Even when we might not think it, we will always have someone who cares.â€
Sorry, kid. Life treats us all like a punching bag. Every one in a while, you're going to get knocked down. Stay up while you can, the views better and you might even pay a few hits back.
Hey, you can get through this. Some days it wonât seem like it, but you are stronger than you know. I was in your position 10 years ago. It does get better, it really does. And if you still feel like itâs the end, please please please talk to someone, anyone. And maybe your doctor about trying a different ssri as fluoxetine is not the only one out there and doesnât work enough for everyone. I wish you well, good luck.
911 lady literally told her how to do it omg
You don't think 99% of people already know that overdosing will kill you? It's not new nor specific information.
What⊠she obviously already had the pills sheâs a teenager not an idiot
No she didn't? I mean even at my first attempt at 11 I knew taking an overdose would kill me. Well, I didn't exactly know, that the pills I was taking and the amount I was taking would do me literally no harm, but you know, the intention counts.
There aren't many pills of which the loose "a handful" will give you instructions what will kill you. Especially pain killers. I don't know what they have in the US, but with all painkillers that are on the market here, when you're an adult, a handful won't kill you.
Iâm guessing you never made a 911 call or heard one. Pretty sure they ask those questions and more. To help. They need to know almost everything to know what to send to you. Lie a bomb squad for bombs, police for an intruder, if there guns near, if there something deadly like a snake, or etc.
Plus if the ambulance arrives and finds her unconscious they will have to waste time trying to think what she took. Cause sometimes the bottles of things someone took isnât always left near them.
This is her job. She doing it. Plus it shows the empty bottle so it clear she already took some before she even called.
For those who didn't notice the title its 911 series 5 episode 5
Tyy was looking for thiss
Thank you sooooo much
There will always be bullying. Someone will always think they are better than someone else
Jesus Loves you He died on the cross for your sins and if you repent if your sins and confess with your mouth His is Lord and son of God you are saved. God blessđ
Bullying rates in schools in the U.S. have dropped dramatically from where they were a generation ago. Are you sure about that?
â@@MDreamerIsBi Do you have any proof like website result or another bullying's data of degrading?
I think whether it has degraded, but *bullying will always happen we just don't find out schools which happen bullying inside*
Cause basically, people want to be better or to look stronger than anybody else so they become bullies. That's the point
This one really hits me... This is so real đ
Things wont get any better if you take your life. Your life wont be better.
Well nothing can get better if it doesn't exist
The movie is called 911
Not a movie its a TV show
Oh sorry I didnât know that it was a showđą
what season and episoide
Nâ@@Lord_Scotty_God season 5 episode 5đ
@@Tips4eva thank u
I'm deaf, bline in one eye, have no sense of smell, have learning disabilities and tons of mental health issues. I was bullied all Thu out elementary - high school years. And when my dad died when I was 15 it all just became to much for me cuz he was the one who stood up for me and protected me and loved me the most. I tried ending my life 3 times I've the first 3 years after his death cuz I didn't wanna live being treated that way without him there to protect me. My mom found me each time and would bring me to my therapist to talk about it. I eventually got use to the pain of not having my dad around and it got easier to live with and then I graduated and moved on with my life and became an adult and got my first few jobs and eventually moved out and got a boyfriend and now I'm almost 30 and I'm glad I didn't go Thu with my plans when I was younger
This was beautiful and inspiring thank you for sharing this †Iâm young and I often feel like things will not get better thank you for sharing your story and how strong you are
How did you type this then and know what the video was about?đ
@@GospelOfChristForAll7777thereâs literally captions and they said they were only blind it one eye đ
you are so brave, thank you for sharing your experience đ€
@@GospelOfChristForAll7777are you slow
For anyone watching......things do get better. I know I sound just like everyone else. But I almost did it. And I promise you, adult life is a lot more fun when you yourself controls it. You just have to be out on your own before you realize all the possibilities you really have at life. People telling you that you won't go anywhere. People and family causing you distress. None of them matter. Because when you're out on your own, you find people who care about you. I have a loving boyfriend and best friend now, and the struggle was worth it to get to them.
Calmly waiting for paragraph guy...
Everyone deserves encouraging words. Even if nothing is going wrong for them. But especially if they are having trouble finding the will to live.
Though it is the darkest now, tomorrow might have a brighter light than today. Go forth and find your torch to ward off the nightmares that haunt you.
Well said.
This hit me hard.
I get rlly depressed from school and feeling stupid and feeling worthless and mad w myself and feeling ugly but iâll be too scared to even do it especially when i have family and being scared of the afterlife. And iâm scared to even make myself bleed so thankfully i havenât.
Hold your head high, to urself. Its hard to get out of this, but the thing i think is missing is we did not learn or have learnt that how to live for our own self like people in wilderness, they knew that how much their life mattered, we often are not able to recognise that we want to live the heck out of it. from every situation we want to survive. Im addicted and my finals are ckming im just almost tearing up but somehow i dont want to study. It is like i forgot the grudge to win, to feel good. Il just so used to feeling pathetic. When i experince a slight flavor of achievement i think myself greatly overrated and not a result of my small efforts. I wasnt like this always, ones i used be a bright student, than ive lost so many times, every day i destroyed myself my drive, i have believed i cant get out. I dont know what you are going through but dont give up believe in urself in the end we have no one except god. If you feel like it please tell me your story. May God bless you
"You won't know if you die today."
Shit, that's a new line I never heard, and it'll be on my mind because I'm actively suicidal. I'm glad I stumbled across this
And itâs the truest thing ever. Thereâs always something better to come, even if it doesnât feel like it now. I hope things get better for you. đ
"Im not telling you things will get better but you wont know if you died today"
To anyone who reads this, things will come out alright. You are worthy, you matter, & you are not a burden. You're going to make it and I'm so proud you've made it this far. âš God bless all ê°àŠâà»ê±
bullies are a symptom of the adults in our society who treat others cruelly. kids see that and think its ok, think thats how the world works. we need to start showing both kids AND adults that we dont accept bullying or any intolerance in our society. exclude mean people, dont give them what they want, fight back, stand up for yourself and others, and dont ever let adults or kids treat u badly!! (btw this isnt to say its the victims fault bc its EVERYONE in society who needs to step up and treat bullies badly. and victims arent to blame if they dont stand up for themselves bc theyre literally being psychologically tortured and that can scare people into silence
Ive felt this but also I've been effectived by suicide.
My friend took his life. He said in the note he felt alone and that no one would care that he's gone, his funeral was packed out the door to the point that some people sat in the isle at his parents request. He was 18 for 1 week before he ended it all. I still miss him all the time, all his friends miss him. His best friend since childhood found out he was going to be a dad days after the funeral and now almost 5 years on both his sons have the middle name David in honor of him.
This episode đąđą
This dispatcher is awesome! Connecting with her is the best way to get her to break out of the âspellâ of depression. Seriously it feels like a spell is taking over sometimes.
I always used to tell myself to live longer than the people who hate me.
Because of that logic, i watched as the family who hated me became lonelier while i found people who cared.
School: "we have a zero bullying tolerance"
Me: cap đ§ąđ§ąđ§ąđ§ą
RIP Sammy Teuschđ
Yeah I got known as bipolar when i tried to do it (one time) đlucky me now im on meds i was in a toxic place so they listened to my granny and not me
I'm glad you're still here đ
@miraculousladybug713 ehhh I guess. I'm in a worse environment and I'm suicidal all the time now. But thanks
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@@miraculousladybug713 I guess
@@myamarshall17you're a trooper
Unfortunately I was a victim of SA at school. I told the teacher. They did nothing. I told the police. They did nothing due to no evidence. Years later I got the evidence and told the police again. They said âhe said sorry. Nothing we can do
That should never have happened to you. Stay strong. đđ€
@@ScreenGemsTalks This was going back years ago (about ten). I am not going to lie, it's been hard but I'm okay. Thank you.
i went through something similar. i am so, so sorry. i see you. i hope that one day we are able to heal â€
The last sentence is the reason why I am alive today
I get this not feeling good enough itâs the most common cause of me having thoughts of self harm but I always talk myself out of doing it
Whats the show called?
911
Either 911 or 911 lone-star on Hulu. I can never remember which is which.
@@meeps_alotl7880911 this isnât lone star lol
My family, or anyone really, rarely tell me I'm appreciated. I usually do what I'm asked, and sometimes I even volunteer to do something I don't want to do. But sometimes it feels like they don't appreciate me.
Your doing amazing đ«¶đŒ
May you be blessed, do only as much as you can. And do appreciate yourself daily. People are too unhappy with themselves to appreciate others who do so much for them, so they dont appreciate what others do. Just stop doing and going out of the way. Instead, do self care, take care of your health and mind.
@@huzar7336 Thanks for the advice.
Holy fuck. That line hit hard.
"Im not saying itll get better, but youll never know unless you get there".
Chills
I live in Indiana. A 10 year old boy just killed himself over bullying. 10 years old. His life hadnât even started yet. When are we going to start doing better? Something has to change. Idk if it starts with the parents, or the schools or what but enough is enough
I've attempted twice before. I was close to a third, but I snapped myself out of it. I never thought I'd make it to 21. I'm 25 now.
I have a stable career. Family drama has calmed down. I have a car and have been places. I got good friends. I'm independent. Still occasionally think I'm a failure and useless, but that's what the therapy is for. It got better. It's ups and downs, but it's getting better. I'm getting better.
And you can too. It's not too late. It's not the end. Find help. Insist. Challenge resistance. Fight back. Find your own peace and happiness, and screw anybody who tries to get in your way. They'll be jealous of your success as they should be. If you end it all now, you'll never know if the future gets better. If you get better. You'll never have the chance.
Seize the chance now. Only you can change your life.
This just shows how bad bullying is. Itâs not fucking okay, itâs not funny, itâs not cool, itâs not a joke.
When i was about 9 i tryed multiple attempts because of my father, wont go into it right now, but, i understand the pain
"I am not enough" sameđ
Yes I do because I became the best defense against the bullies in my school cause my Dad was in the service and he taught me how to defend myself and to protect my future family like my kids so when I helped my Dad mow the grass for the five Judges where I lived when I was younger they all gave me the permission to defend the other kids in my school that were getting bullied and they also issued me a card and they contacted the board of Education and the principal and told them that I was going to take care of the bullies and I was issued a card and I also was given a nickname the Bully Terminater
Nice fic
Good job đ
This is literally illegal, the government isn't just gonna give you "a card" that dismisses you from legal action
What is this movie called?
9-1-1
It's not a move it's a TV series called 9-1-1.
I got close many times when i was 14 and 15 then in 2022 was the closest i ever got. I would have done it if someone hadnt interrupted me. 2 years later im in a totally different place. Life can still be hard, but i dont wake up disappointed that i didnt die in my sleep anymore. My advice? Find any excuse you can part two of bridgerton. Feeding your dog in the morning. Seeing your neice grow to graduate. You never got to finish reading that book. Anything that makes you think "maybe i shouldnt today"
Iâm 14 right now and about 2 months ago was when I was at my lowest it was the closest I have ever gotten to self harm
I get this was spliced, probably for copyright issues. But it still doesn't give the full effect without the scenes of May's current bully next to her trying to take the call from her to fully tell the whole story.
Her anxiety đđđđđđ
Bullying basically ruined me my life it destroyed me.
Anxiety and depression started because if it and i had many suicidal thoughts and attempts
When she said her grades aren't good enough that Hit hard
Finally the channel put the show, season, and episode đđ you are an angel đ
Tw i guess?
I used to be bullied, had some traumatic experiences as a child and my family was... special. when my mother found out that I was hurting myself, she just said: Better do it right and kill yourself. Afterwards she joked with my sisters about how I could do it.
I hated myself because I thought it must be my fault if so many people were bad to me (thankfully there were exceptions, few but good friends).
The only thing that stopped me from ending everything was that no way was "good enough." I didn't want anyone to be traumatized by the sight and I didn't want any paramedics to have to experience that. My salvation was that I hated myself and always thought of others first. Today I am grateful for that, because I have wonderful children, a great husband and together we are building a wonderful life, it was worth persevering.
I am soooo sorry your mother told you that but I probably would of wanted to kill myself then or just run awayđ
It wouldn't be so bad if someone called you names here and there but it never stops with name calling. It always escalates further and it can turn into absolute mental torture.
It can turn from mental torture to physical.
But the majority of bullying is mental.
The things people tell you about bullies and how they're cowards and in bad situations where they're trying to not deal with the hurt, doesn't work when you're in the midst of being bullied. It sounds like the adults in Charlie brown.
I almost ended up here. It's a miracle that i never actually tried as a teenager
What's bad is that you think that people don't bully once you're out of school.
I've been bullied just as much as an adult as i was as a child.
It takes a LOT to overcome that hurt and get to the point where you stop caring and where it doesn't hurt.
It took me about 10 years to get to that point. The time between i first got bullied and where i stopped caring were hell
But it is possible to overcome it. Sometimes it takes therapy, sometimes it takes getting out of your comfort zone.
But it is absolutely possible
Its so acary when your this age how things so small and insignificant feel SO BIG and world ending and the feelings are just so strong but when you make it past that and build a beautiful life you start to realize those things never really mattered and as time goes on you cant even remember some of those "worst days of your life" anymore because theyre filled with better happier memories
This reminds me of the girl who took her life after her parents flipped out for getting an A-...
She sadly took her own life after doing everything her parents wanted.
You know what happened to the parents??
A week before my birthday I remember waking up (about 4 months ago), sicker than ever, the night before I had tried to overdose on Tylenol and somehow I pulled through, my kidneys hurt so bad I couldn't walk and I was vomiting all morning. Today I am so lucky to be here and the experiences I've had have helped me pull through.
I'm past caring about myself at this point. I'm only still around because of my loved ones.
The people you love will love you too, because you're worth it. Loving yourself will be a brave beginning.
I was severely bullied when I was in school, my whole life. Itâs made me suicidal, too. I never went through with it though. And if I didnât have my three children I probably wouldâve already done it by now. My kids saved my life. My life is still so hard and I constantly feel like Iâm a terrible mother and that itâll never get better but I keep pushing because my babies need me, they rely on me and I love them more than I could ever love myself. Thatâs why they deserve the best life I wish I had growing up.
I know I'm supposed to feel for that other dispatcher in the end... but I still hate her guts 100%
She gets murdered in a later episode by the paramedic Jonah
The one who briefly appeared when the dispatcher in the blue shirt was telling the girl that she also attempted?
I had a friend that was being bullied approximately 3 years ago. I'm currently in my 3rd year of high school. The bullying got bad to the point where she had the urge to hurt herself in school. I never knew until she was hospitalized and put in extensive care with a therapist. She always wore long sleeves, and she often was hurt by the bullies as well. At a certain point, she had apparently just asked them to just kill her instead. They finally heard her after she went on a ranting spree, and they fled. A teacher eventually found her in the janitors closet where they would always bully her. What the teacher saw was about one-two empty pill containers and large amounts of blood, not enough to die from blood loss, but a lot. The police were called, and that's basically the end of it. Mainly, what I want to say, is the if you suffering, please tell someone. I can tell you right now, that you aren't the only one out there in pain. There's always someone there for you, even if it's not a parent. It doesn't have to be an adult, it can just be a friend, or a stranger, it doesn't matter. There are kind people in the world. Please don't drown yourself in the pain, and please tell someone. My friend suffered severally, and I couldn't see her for a full 7 months, and even the following school year, she wasn't in class much. I'm still worried sick for her to this day. There ARE people who worry for you, even if you don't think there are. Even if you've never talked to them, maybe just a quick "please help", it can move people. You're never alone, so please ask for help! It's never too late to ask, and you're never a bother.
I too really donât wanna die but my constant thought is to die
Because no one really cares what I am going through
All of them want me to deal with it
But I canât take it anymore
I am not able to die or live anymore
No one cares or love me because I am not good enough
Nothing I do is good enough for them
I am done with this life
I quit
Donât kill your self or do self harm I know it doesnât feel like it but you can find people that care you can be loved you deserve love and to be appreciated to feel like you are enough if you ever need someone to talk to Iâm a good listener
Don't quit, I'm not gonna tell you that things will get better forever, I'm telling you that you'll be okay at the end of the day. And it might not seem like it right now, but this phase, no matter how long it's lasted for you, it's not permanent, you will be okay at the end of the dayâ€ïž Need to talk? I'm here
I remember when my older brother was in 6th grade, he got bulled by one guy and his friends. My Mom tried to talk with his teachers about it but they didn't really do anything. So one day, my brother provoked the bully, and he got hit in the head. My brother got a black eye but it gave my mother reason to involve the police. So she arranged that the police came in on school hour to take the bully out of class. After that he learned his lesson, apologized to my brother. My Mom then stopped the invitation and the bully and my brother actually became civil with each other.
As far as I know he never bulled anyone again. By now he is a very nice guy
Part 2 please
Tv show is called 9-1-1 and this is season 5 episode 5
Claudette is on a call when May gets a call from a teenager who says she knows she is being recorded. Her name is Lisa Barker, giving the names of people who voted against her. She admits her parents are at work. May learns Lisa is planning on hurting herself. There is an almost empty bottle of pills beside her, there are kitchen knives. She cries about how her entire team hates her. She was never good enough for her parents and everyone are bullies to her. She feels she shouldnât have called and that May doesnât really care and that she is probably wishing she got a different call.
May insists that she is there for her, saying she knows how she feels. Claudette says she is making this call about her and being dismissive about her feelings but May blurts out that when she was 14 she took a bottle of pills but her mother found her and saved her. Lisa drops the phone but within a minute the fire department arrives and finds her in the bathroom, as May knew exactly where she was. Claudette looks at her, confessing that she knows she rides her pretty hard but it is because she can see that May has the potential to be great. May says thanks as Claudette tells her she isnât great yet!
Show?
You know I tried to attempt. I was being bullied every single day from seventh to eighth grade and tried sliting my throat and wrists. My brother, my three year younger brother, found me trying to cut my wrists. He cried and hugged me and said never do that again. Please. I can't think of what life would be like if you weren't in my life. That made me get help and now i'm in therepy. Never try to attempt. You'll never know what life has to offer. Take care of yourselves. Please
Best way is to learn to respond and defend yourself.If u have an adult taking care of u always when u become the adult it will be hard to protect yourself.It's not bad to open up but it's better to open up and learn to stand up for urself rather than always have someone
Sad to say, bullying will probably never be eradicated, it's a loop. When someone gets bullied, they turn bitter and angry at the perpetrator, that grows into a burning hatred at anything and anyone, and the cycle continues...
That girls a good actress and her lines are pretty perfect too!
I feel this. When i was in high school, there were people tried to bully meâŠ
I bullied them back. 1000% times đ until they canât even look at my face after thatâŠ
I hate when strangers say i care bish u dont know međ
doesnt mean they cant care for another human being, ngl i wouldnt for you
you can care about strangers, it's called empathy
Strangers can care. Which is why many times people share their feelings with strangers and that too comfortably. Sometimes it is people that you donât know that can show the most sympathy to you. And sometimes thats all a broken person needs to avoid taking that step.
I got rid of depression after 6 years and when I tell strangers I care about them it's because I've been through some of what they've been through.
And when I come across people like you I stay distant from them as much as possible. Learn to behave buddy you won't be happy if you act like this
doesnât mean they donât care? not everyone in the world is a assholeđđ€·đŸââïž.
That's a damn good dispatcher! â€
Omg i cried so much because....
I almost did the same thing 1 year ago because i was bullied 24/7 and i js hated my lifeđ
But now today and hopefully longer i know that there is people i can talk to and people who understands me...not all the time but always sometimeđâ€
When you are being bullied alot of times you lose your will to fight back an adults bullying other adults if you report it they can make it seem like your making it up believe me I know I've been bullied since I was in kindergarten even to this day I get bullied...I just learned to find a few people who do believe in me to give me the strength to fight back
I had attempted suicide before, cut my arm till it was bleeding bad, my parents still dont know and i was about to stab myself. Gladly my friend called and he didnt know what i was doing, we talked and i passed out, the next morning i felt better but still not enough because everyone hated me and i was ignored by my parents. It hurts more than you think, physically and mentally đ
Thank you for leaving the episode and season in the title i really want to watch it đ
I love may she wanted to be just like her mom but in a different way
I was diagnosed with chronic depression cycling with major depression around 9. Attempted at 14. Attempted again in my 20s. I still have thoughts today.
For me, it's just something I'll always carry. I'm not well off but I'm comfortable enough to live day to day, I have a loving partner, but I hate this world. Escapism is all I really have. Momentary distractions from all the reasons I have to leave.
I may not have experienced many of the traumas that motivate most suicides, but I understand the need for release better than anyone I know. So no, I won't stop someone who's going to attempt it. I certainly won't have them locked up against their will as I view it as an unethical extending of their suffering. But I am an ear to listen, and a shoulder to cry on. I've even protected people from possible consequences of a failed attempt. I showed up, made sure anything they took wasn't going to continue to worsen their physical health, made sure they took a shower and got some food into them. When I eventually left, they had an adult friend around for support. No one knows but me and whomever else they've been willing to tell. No ambulance, no cps, nothing.
If you truly want to die, I firmly believe it's your choice and I'll make no move to stop you. But if you need to talk it out, I'll do what I can to help you help yourself.
If you feel like a burden unloading your problems, remember the people willing to listen don't see it that way. You're still the one carrying the bulk of the load, they're just helping shift the weight around to make it easier to carry, or giving you a moment to breathe, or holding the door for you when your arms are full.
I donât think I have been ok for a while now my brother used to call me fat he still says like you should go touch grass or when are you going to be healthy last summer when I started starving myself he said good you donât deserve to eat he says some of this stuff in a joking manner but it still hurts when I told him about this and how it made me full he said deal with it I love him and hate him at the same time
@@Hp_percyJackson_twilightFan I encourage you to be proactive in your health. Whatever your weight, starving yourself isn't the answer. Any doctor worth their salt would be concerned about that.
From the sounds of your brother, he's just an emotional abuser. You're an easy target for him, one that apparently doesn't fight back. It's surprisingly easy to cut people like that out of your life, even if they're family. Blood doesn't demand your blind loyalty, if he's an issue, be rid of him and move on.
If you do want to lose weight or get healthier, you've got to do it because you want to be that way. Not because some jackass thinks you should be different. Consider seeing your doctor and getting a recommendation for someone who can help you with a meal plan and workout regimen that suits you.
@@voshadxgathic my brother is the only one that knows about this I probably will never tell my parents I have kept so much stuff from them itâs hard to tell them anything since like what if I tell them something I donât want them to know also saying that I need help is kinda hard and with my brother he dose have some sweet moments but they only happen once in a blue moon his last one was in early November Iâll remember that night for the rest of my life and I donât fight back because I know he will win no matter what I only have 2 things against him my flexibility and that fact that I have better grades I donât think itâs gonna be easy for me to cut him out since my parents think this is just him being a teenager and maybe it is which is why Iâm giving him till I go off to college instead of when I have enough money for an apartment and the fact that with everything that he has done to me I still love him
@@Hp_percyJackson_twilightFan You know those stories about men beating the living shit out of their wives, and you can't wrap your head around why she stays with him, and worse still she genuinely believes he loves her? That's what he's doing. Once in a blue moon he shows his twisted version of love, enough to keep her hopeful and dependent on him for feelings of acceptance. Then he goes right back to beating her. And she takes it all, waiting for the day the "good side" of him shows up again. The truth is, there is no good side, just the occasional carrot instead of the daily stick. He's doing the same thing to you, even if it hasn't gotten physical yet. (I'm assuming.)
You don't need him. Other people are capable of showing you as much, if not more love than he has. He's the one dependent on you, that's why he's beating you down, treating you like shit, convincing you that no one else could give you what you need, so you won't leave. I'm sure by now he's sabotaging any friend groups you may have, pushing outside influences on you away. Isolating you.
Unfortunately in most of these cases, there's not much an outsider can do for the abused as long as they keep choosing to remain with their abuser. Unfortunately, most cases end in the abused person's death. I'm not saying that getting out of the cycle of abuse is easy, but if you stay in it, there's a high chance things go very badly for you.
I know how unlikely it is that you'll even listen to me. You'll think back to those blue moons and the rose-tinted glasses go right back on, convincing you that the abuse is love. But it's not. It's a lie, further disguised by the notion that families always love each other and should be loyal.
You've probably heard "blood is thicker than water" to suggest nothing is stronger than blood bonds, but the full version is "the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb." Meaning, the bonds of the family you choose will always be stronger than the family you were born into. You owe no more loyalty to them than what you choose to give them.
There are ways out of the darkness and the abuse, and it's not always going to be easy. When you finally have someone that really loves you, for a long time you'll be waiting for that other shoe to drop, waiting to find out how it's conditional love that you'll have to step into line for. You'll probably drive yourself a little crazy waiting for it until you finally realize there is no other shoe, they really do just love you. You may even try to push them away, feeling you don't deserve it. It'll take even longer to realize that you're worthy of that kind of love. You can find that love for yourself, you will be deserving of it, and there won't be so much as a drop of abuse attached to it.
It doesn't have to come with strings attached. You're worthy of love and you're worth loving. Don't forget that.
@@voshadxgathic I donât think he will ever get physical but if it doesnât get better I will leave and if he dose get physical I will leave as soon as I can and he doesnât really talk to my main friends thankfully so I still have friends is it bad I still have hope once he gets older he will snap out of it and thx for talking about this with me i find it hard to talk about this kind of stuff with my real life friends
The idea I always stuck to was that I'll die one day either way, may as well stick around in the meantime!
My heart breaks in 1000 pieces for those who are bullied. I am NOT saying we were perfect, we had bullying too... But for the most part, my generation would just get in a fist fight and get it out of our systems and taught the bullies to , well, you get the gist. Kids now? I hurt with what y'all deal with
This hits way too close to home-
Tried in my bathroom
But in the enf I was yelled at for even trying
I know she was jsut frustrated, single parents always are but in the end she got the message
I have so many scars as reminders
But I'm free now and happy I stepped back enough to see the bigger picture
Sometimes it happens to me deeply that i think everyone hates me...or at least don't like me...
This is me in real life
Suicide is really escaping hell on earth to the actual hell. đą
Season and episode pls?
Itâs in the title.
I was sitting in class when I got a call no one wants to get from my twin, he was apologizing to me .....luckily help got to him in time and he's still here today and the best damn uncle in the fucking world
We'll hear is what I do when I get bullied umm ignore,listen to someone else,look at them and say nothing like that's what I'd do and always works đđ my bully was so awkwarded out đđ
Bullying cannot harm me, but my family does. All of my family's violence, expectations, and accusations haunt me when I am awake, as well as in my nightmares. So I took some sleeping pills to get away from what was happening at the moment. I lay down and reflected on what it would be like to possess my own life. Then I grabbed my bike and rode to the hospital, where I received treatment. Now, I'm a happier person.
***I'm not a bad one guys
Not smoke Not drink Not a lier Not a thife
I'm just a girl who live in a big Thai-Chinese family, they never be happy with a girl in the family đźâđš Keep fighting guys đ€
Damn that shit atcaully hits hard for once
Great, but don't give her ideas. "I took a handful of my mother's pain pills", that's something you shouldn't say in this kind of situations, because that person vulnerable and could potentially try that.
Sadly i get bullied online, constantly every day, i really feel what this girl is feeling as its smth that i feel all the time, nothing anyone can do abt it though, atleast irl you can find help, online you cant
What series is this
What film is this??? Is it on netflix?
My autistic ass being bullied at 28 by coworkers..... I tried too, I needed the money but I wanted to die every morning
Every morning, I also feel like giving up, but buddy, there are still many places I want to go. I hope you do too.
God bless everyone here who has or is still struggling. Remember, the value of your life isn't based on the bad days or your mistakes or "failures". Your life is precious simply because you live it, because life was given to to you and is used by you and because you can give and inspire life for others.
Never forget, the vaule of your life (even yours specifically) was enough for Christ to lay down His in exchange. I love you, and I'm rooting for yaâ€â€â€
what show is this?
Please read the first comment that I posted and you will know