AITA For Not Getting Back With My Husband After He Accused Me Of For Getting Pregnant
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- čas přidán 28. 06. 2024
- AITA For Not Getting Back With
My Husband After He Accused Me
Of Cheating For Getting Pregnant
After He Had A
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To me, it is the fact he got a girlfriend before the child was born. That shows disloyalty to the wedding vows.
Vasectomies aren't expected to be 100% effective up to a year after the procedure is done. Charles knew this since doctors need to explain patients the process and its associated risks.
However, it's not the fact he was so explosive with the whole thing. It's how he got a girlfriend while you were all by yourself struggling with a baby on the way... He's for the streets and absolutely NOT ready to be a father, dump his ass and never look back!
Not always. I think that this can just be bad luck and we could have the benefit of the doubt. He could very well just start a new relationship to get back at her for the supposed cheating. He's still an AH tho because instead of thinking more, he immediately went full ballistic mode and ruined his relationship without searching things up. Either he is very dumb or he knew about the chance of him being a father, but used the vasectomy as an excuse to get another girlfriend and create this whole scene, which I think is unlikely. Cheaters deserve no sympathy 99% of cases, so I understand where he is coming from, but on worst case scenario he is disgusting and on best case scenario he is dumb.
Stop spreading lies and misinformation! Vasectomy is the process of tying up the tubes which connect the testes to the urethra, there's quite literally a gap in the tubes so fertilization is impossible
If you know basic biology then without a sperm it's impossible to get pregnant as a mammal. If only you paid attention during class
Vasectomy take like 6-9 months to be fully 100% effective
So the people who basically spat in your face want you to go back to him and you’re listening to them?
They didn't even allow her to tell her side of the story. It speaks volumes about everyone's character... OP has no support system from her family if it ever came up to that.
You are meant to go for a few checkups after your vasectomy. There are cases of it rejoining. Unless he could prove he had 0 sperm immediately after the vasectomy, you can still get someone pregnant, its why you are told to be tested at 6month and 1 year mark to make sure its still the same
NTA
Nta. The marriage was dead at the beginning. Op is faultless but I can't blame the husband. I would have demanded DNA test but ngl, trust would be gone until I knew for certain.