tall girl dating advice.
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- čas přidán 27. 07. 2024
- hi there!
my name is ally and welcome to my channel. I'm a tall Asian girl who has been tall my entire life. you guys liked the video I made talking about my tall height a few months ago, so I wanted to share some of my experiences and advice in dating and love (as a tall person!) hopefully you'll either relate to some of these if you're tall, or find it to be an interesting perspective if you're not!
disclaimer:
i am not active on any dating apps currently. the dating app photos are just photos i found on google images!
also, I realized I say certain things in the video definitively, but of course they are JUST my opinion or an exaggeration. (e.g., when I say “you can’t hear heels”....obviously you can wear heels, GIRL you can do whatever you want!!! whatever floats your boat :) just saying things in this video from my personal preferences)
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thanks for watching :)
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ally
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chapters:
00:00 - intro
00:39 - heels
01:55 - dressing for dates
02:10 - online dating apps...
03:43 - cuddling??
04:19 - self-confidence
05:30 - height or identity?
06:05 - general words of advice
about me:
name: Ally
height: 5'9"
age: 24
currently: bay area
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hey friends! thanks so much for watching :)
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Embrace your height, talls! I'm a 5-foot-6 guy whose wife-to-be is a gentle, lovely nurse who stands 6-foot-4, and we couldn't be happier with one another. We can poke fun at our considerable difference in height, and we're sufficiently confident in ourselves and each other. When it comes to finding a partner, don't avoid looking upward, or downward. The love of your life might be under your nose (literally!).
Oh, and wear those heels! That's what I tell my 6-foot-4 lady - heels or flats, I'll look up to her anyway.
@@VincentPaterno-hs2fvso you're basically dating a drag queen
Tall girls looking beautiful in jeans and heels...I am damn true because I am fall in love with tall , and I am so serious about it...😢 When sort guy hug a tall girl guy feel very comfortable very secure...❤
I’m 5’9 and wouldn’t mind dating a woman taller than me. However, I have been rejected for being under 6ft or not being tall enough
i do see that happen a lot :-/
I'm 5'6 but I would immediately date you, no matter what!
hahaha thank you
Wait.. 5'8" is not tall. That is just the average in UK. My mom was 5'8". May be for far east Asians?
The most beautiful thing is to hug a tall girl who will feel safe and tender ah i love tall girls so much ❤😭
tall girls are awesome
More tall girl lookbooks please
coming right up love ❤️
This video made me feel not so alone, it’s hard to feel as cutesy as you want to be when you feel like you’re towering. Also, I’m glad you didn’t just say “wear those heels sister who gives a crap!” But I give a crap! I want to feel like a small bunny even though I am an actual giraffe!
How tall are you ?
Omg yes the “you’re so tall” it’s really annoying to me and I be like “yeah I know I am” and they be like they like it, they’ve not been with tall girls. It’s so cringy.. I ask “why does my height have to be a topic right now, do you have an issue with it?” Well I love my height. 5’7
I think you should take a look into your self esteem.. you can do and wear whatever you want and the right people will love you for you men/women included.. there are amazing people out there who you might miss out on because you're choosing to validate yourself by dating people of a certain height. I'm 5ft 11 and have dated guys between 5ft 7 and 6ft 8.. and honestly it makes zero difference.. you'll see as you get older. You're a very pretty girl I'm sure you'll meet someone lovely x
hi Nicole! thanks for this thoughtful comment. I definitely agree that height is no longer as important of a consideration as it used to be. :)
Having dated in the pre-internet era, I mostly dated people I knew or met from work or school, so height was never a surprise nor much of an issue to me. Where it was an issue happened with answering newspaper ads and trying to fulfill some preconceived wish of either party, and those "blind dates" were sometimes horrible.
oh wow! I can't imagine blind dates of that type- such limited information to go off of compared to nowadays haha
thanks for this awesome comment!
Tall girls should embrace it! I definitely love tall girls. As a 6'1" man I never dated a girl taller than me, but I dated a 5'9" girl and loved it when she wore heels and came up just a little below my height. But maybe some of us have deeply buried instincts to seek out partners with tall genes lol
hi Cole
I've also wondered about the genes aspect and I wouldn't be surprised if it were true. I think it really depends on the person too and their preferences :) and yes, tall girls should embrace it!
I'm 6'2 my ex-wife was 4'11..The height differences was a bit extreme and we did endure a lot of teasing. Tall girls never seemed interested in me..The very short girls always liked the big height difference
Oh wow that’s kind of surprising to hear!
Sounds alot like my great Grandparents on my dad's side of the family. My Great Grandfather was 6'5" with his wife, my Great Grandmother, was only 4'10". Seeing pictures of them together looked funny with the height extreme. This height extreme resulted in their kids having different height extremes as well. Their oldest son, my Grandfather, was 5'8" but had a younger brother 6'3". He also had 3 sisters, and I say had because they are all dead since they were all born before 1920. One sister was 5'10" and his other 2 sisters just made 5 feet at 5'0". Even though my parents had only a 4 inch height difference with my dad 5'10" and my mom 5'6" myself and my 2 brothers had this very different height gap that we inherited from my great grandparents. My oldest brother is 6'3" my other brother is 5'11" and I am a 5'7" man.
im 5’10.. love tall guys
Tall Asian girls are so cute
At 5’9, you must be very tall because most Asian guys are 5’4-5’8
I even know many Asian women that are 4’7-4’11
How tall r u
Nice video.
Please wear hills if you want. Don’t worry about being taller than guys. Many of them are confortable enough not to care. If anything it’s a good way to filter out.
And I understand that girls instinctively want to feel smaller than their man, but at the end of day any guy will always be stronger and heavier and bulkier than you.
Not necessarily. Many men are short AND frail nowadays.
I think more women should be willing to date guys shorter than them
Why?
i generally agree!
@@RH-td7vc because if we say “it’s just height” then you shouldn’t see anything wrong in dating shorter guys
@@sasorah6414 people are allowed to have preferences. When it comes to who I share my body with I can be as discriminatory as I please. Most men don't want a woman who towers over them and likewise most women don't want to tower over a man. Its an inversion of sexual dymorphism. Not saying there's anything morally wrong with it. No issue with other couples who are fine with it. But at the same time you cannot expect the majority of people to be into it. It's like telling men they should be OK with women having beards or women that they should be ok with a guy with bigger hips than them.
@@RH-td7vc we weren’t talking about preference. We are talking about society. We’ve made it seem abnormal for a tall lady to date a short dude and because of that some ladies might want to date a shorter man but might start feeling awkward….
Also realistically if you’re like 6ft, I don’t think it’s advisable to date someone taller just because you want your man to be taller than you… I mean think about your kids… if you went through a though time, their own might be worst….
I read comments from some people saying that tall Asian women need to date white and black men because there isn't any tall Asian men other then Yao Ming. When I walk around in the general population as 5'7" white man the only time that I feel tall around Asians is with their senior citizen aged southeast Asians living in south central Pennsylvania. But once I am around the younger generation of adult Asians, especially Korean Americans I feel about the same when it comes to height, "short", around these Asians as around the European American and African American population in the USA. Tall east Asian Americans for young adults seems just as common as with European Americans and African Americans. Seeing 6'0" plus Asian men is a dime a dozen IMO in the 2020s and elsewhere. For example czcams.com/video/fnT75eUldoU/video.html. czcams.com/video/VSr3mpm23uA/video.html
Interestingggg
I do notice taller people all around in the 2020s!
Don't care if women are taller than myself. Well I better not care, lol! Since I am a 5'7" 170 cm man. I think men that are generally above average or tall like 6'0" have a problem more so with women being taller then them then men my height.
That’s an awesome mindset
I wouldn’t mind if I date a tall girl, they’re very beautiful, even if they’re wearing heels
I've met some chinese girls that are taller than you. Of all the orientals, I think I've seen the chinese as taller on average than the rest. guys and girls must be eating good + tall genes.
Do u know Albert sung?
you need to stop your not too tall and you are fine at your height. i think you sold me out of being self conscious about being tall-ish because i relized how much empathiss you put on this subject. ur not event exstreemly tall your like, those common tall girls you see at school who are like 1/10th of all the girls at school. there are actal men and women who stuggle with being too tall or too short because the world was designed for people bettwen 5ft to 6ft or event a little outside of that. I think soceity should learn to accept poeple who are any height tho, so yay ur accptable, and lovely but being self conscious is what makes you feel bad and i think all of us should work on that. which i think was the message of this video.
How Tall are you cm
175!
@@allygong You 5’9 175.26cm
5-8 isn’t tall! 😂
i'm 5'9!!! still not superrrr tall but pretty tall on average
@@allygong 5'8 or 5'9 is definitely huge in Asia.
@@sanid9462 also in Africa. I’m 5’7 and most girls are like 5’0-5’4
Tall girls are too manly
No they aren’t
Rude they’re not
Does that mean short men are too feminine?
@@lilyhalter8443 BURN 🔥🔥🔥
@@strawb3rri642 tall girls so beatiful and attractive and am short man