How important is Self-Care to Men? | Fridays with Tab and Chance
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- čas přidán 7. 12. 2023
- Let's talk about the importance of self-care. From going to the doctor to taking the time to take a bath or get a manicure and pedicure, why don't more men take the time to do these things? We talked about our experience and called in some friends to get their opinions. Let's get into it!
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I’m so proud of you all!!! You went from using your phone sitting up against a box on the dining room table to record to having a camera man! And you went from Chance not wanting to speak on any of your shows to now being an integral part of each topic!! Can’t nobody say God ain’t good!!!
Amazing!!!
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Production always had a problem....😂😂😂😂😂
Yes!!!! I was "IN THE ROOM TOO!!! " From the beginning!!! So Awesome to WITNESS How AWESOME GOD IS!!!!
Yes... I am proud of them too! Chance has come intp his own. I love their love!! ❤
“Don’t need to, I’m married to the product.” That’s a big flex Chance. I love it!
He said that. Yes.
Yesssss that was smooth… I like that!!!!
His one liners EAT
Self care activties: massage, accupunture, foot massages, getting a facial, staycations, fun activities like going to the beach or playing miniature golf
My husband takes a bath every Saturday morning while reading his bible. 🙏🏽❤
I would have kept that to myself 😅
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Why That’s his self care. He spends his self care with the Lord.
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@@shaundramiller6448 I don't she means he only has bath on Saturdays but when he does have his Saturdays baths he reads his Bible as part of his self care
When Chance get tickled...............we all start laugh'in right along with him 😂😂😂😂😂
Rev Run, from Run DMC, used to end every episode of Run’s House with some words of wisdom, while sitting in a bubble bath. Fellas may need to try a good bath every now and then. ✌🏾❤️
Mani pedis are fairly new to us. Nobody got these 20 years ago. Self care was relaxing on the front porch after a long day of work.
He said ya'll be soaking in that tub = simmering like a pot roast - - I'm dead right now. lol.
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I’m a man from the south and when I was younger my dad and my great grandmother didn’t have showers so I fell in love with baths early. Now I definitely have a shower but stilI love baths with candles, Palo Santo, candles, and smooth jazz in the dark. Quick tip take that formula and do it for your wife with a really good hot tea and thank me later.
Facts! We grew up with footed tubs and didn't have a choice like we do now. And we never could fill the tub all the way up
@@yvonnepinson6569 😂😂😂
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There's self-care and then there's wellness. Everyone defines them differently.
I almost cried when Chance said he had basketball feet and Tab said, and what is a basketball made of- leather. Tan said and that’s just what your feet look like- leather!😅😅😅😅😅
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I hollered
I was cracking up😂😂
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Spiritual Selfcare: Bible Study, a good prayer session, Sunday am worship, social event at church, 😊
I agree with you Tab that men need to take time out for self care.
How ironic, I just oiled and massaged my scalp with Donna's recipe and brushed my hair into puff balls like yours, Tab. Then, I decided two turn them into braids. I absolutely love the new products and the Black Friday $10 sale was 🔥. I ordered multiples of everything❤. Loving the new pouche packaging for the gummies and oil combo🎉
The way Chance was about to get beat DOWN for talking about Tab’s Daddy!!!😆😆I’m weak!!!
We could never afford to have manicures and many other things growing up. Never had one until a few years ago.
TAB u should've called REV RUN bc he's always in the bathtub 😂😂😂😂
😅 SWEAR! I said exactly that to my sister lol.
lol 😂
Tab about to beat you down Chance as soon as the cameras cut talking about her daddy! 😂😂😂😂
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Men deserve to take care of themselves.
More conversations like these please!!
Kev used his tub for a photo shoot for Marriage Be Hard!🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOL...."I don't need to. I'm married to the product" was hilarious to me!!!
To me, self care involves your physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, social and sexual health. It's an important part of self love. Committing to unconditional self love is powerful.
Btw. I'm a woman and I don't do baths lol. I light candles and relax just not in the tub...
Yes! I came here to talk about the different aspects of self care too! You broke it down well!
I absolutely love y’all!! This episode had me hollering. Thank you for letting our men know that SELF CARE comes in all facets. ❤
I feel like Chance don’t want to say self care = pampering yourself mentally and materialistically. I feel like men only feel good when all the things ‘ Society’ deemed for men important are fulfilled. Shoes, hairline, good job,… But men need to look in deepest depth of their soul and take care of all the things they also ACTUALLY ENJOY and enjoy it. But this takes some soul searching.
Amazing ❤ OMG me & my husband have been together since 17 year old you & chance remind me of us so much it’s crazy the interactions the conversations I have been following your journey since the beginning we are truly connected I love you guys keep inspiring & shining you’ll light to the world !!! One day I know we will have the pleasure too meet you’ll until then my sista & brother keep being actually who GOD made you & what your purpose is❤❤❤❤
I feel the same about them too. I also been with my husband since 17y/o this month makes 29 yrs and we’re also 70s babies, can relate sooo much❤
That is so funny! My dad loved baths as he got older.
This is too FUNNY! Now Tab, I’m with Chance, I ONLY take showers cuz I don’t like to sit in my dirt. 😂😂😂
God bless Percy and Troy and those who encourage a spiritual voice! It’s a necessity for me, never an obligation 🙌🏽
As a nail technician I encourage everyone to get a manicure every two weeks and a pedicure... finances permitting every 4 to 6 weeks
Growing up cost was the deterant and then we delt with bleeding fingers and toes from not cutting correctly
I enjoyed another episode of Fridays with Tab and Chance!!! I love y’all 😂🥰
My Dad the same way Tab don't be embarrassed. I think men just weren't taught to do so and didn't grow up seeing it. Most learn from the men they grew up with and around. I think many learn from their wives or significant others how to do more grooming, more than a haircut.
Most of it is also fear, not wanting to hear or know the truth
Showers is a major self care!
I LOVE EVERY EPISODE Y'ALL DO!! This one was ESPECIALLY good!! THANK GOD for y'all!! I Love Y'all!!
Love, love, love this episode! It blessed me, and I say this all the time for men, get yourself a pedis and mandís! I here for it!! Y’all are hilarious, I laughed a few times out loud😂😂😂
This was good and so on point in a house full of testosterone and taking a bathe in a bathtub is fighting words for them 🤦🏽♀️
Lol I just had my husband after all these years take a shower and I ran his bath with Epsom salts because his body hurt. He said he slept like a baby ! Even though he thought I was trying to boil him like a chicken because it’s too hot! 😅😂
Baths are encouraged for both men & women - it relaxes your body and your muscles, especially after working out. ❤❤
This was a great topic.
That oil was sooo good Chance could not stop touching his hair!😂😂
Love y'all.Its always a pleasure to tune in
Yayyyy Tab!! So proud of you and happy for you and those of us who will get to read it! 🎉
God is with you tab 🎉and chance🎉 4:08
Love this episode , this is the 2nd time I’ve watched. Thank you both.🙏🏾🙏🏾.
My pops take a bath everyday after work. My husband on tbe other hand prefers showers.
He looked at me one day and asked" you shower after a bath?" Yes indeed to rinse off the residue!😂
Thank you for this conversation.
I love you guys! Thank you for your authenticity ❤
I thought about Kev too with the bubble bath🤣🤣
Wait!!! Kev said “I’ll sit down!” I screamed!!! He said he finna sit down in the shower!!!! 😂😂😂 great show!!!
OMG!! I absolutely LOVED this episode! Especially the phone calls!!😄❤
😂😂😂😂 Tab! GIRL U ARE NOT ALONE!!! 😂😂😂😂 My husband is something else when it comes to those talons as I call them, and using all my smell good lotions and potions 😂😂😂😂 Talking about we share Whateva🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
I don’t soak in tubs either my OBGYN advised against it. I haven’t had an infection since.
Congratulations To Y’all So Proud Of Chance he has Blossomed Right Before Our Eyes and Tabitha Living Her Dream ❤❤❤❤❤❤
😂😂😂 @ 2:40 he gave the perfect response, “don’t need to, married to the product.” 😂😂😂
I love how y’all called everyone for back up lol 😂
I enjoyed this interview. I love your love! ❤
Another Great Video ❤❤❤
Great episode as always 😂😂😂 Mrs Tab stop calling out Mr Chances LEATHER FEET😢😂😂😂😂😂😂🫶🏽🫵🏽👑👑👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽
Good topic spiritual walk being needed for self care. Good job Chance 👏 👍🏾.
Congratulations tab 🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
I'm a woman, and i dont take baths either. I remember taking a bath when I had shoulder pain, and that's it... them baths are too long 😂
My husband soaks in the tub for more than 30 minutes with Epsom salt every night! I only take showers and he soaks in the tub .
❤ it’s me adding my own “hype man” stuff during the intro- good episode yall 🎉🎉
Another.........Amazing..........episode 💖✨💖✨💖✨💖
Congratulations ❤🎉
My 12 bottles of Donna's recipe is in route as we speak. 4 bottles per 3 households I purchased 😮😅😊. Can't wait to try it out.
I am here for the beat😄Love Fridays❤Beautiful couple. God is love.
AMEN!!! I used to be "IN THE ROOM!!! Hallelujah!!! Won't HE DO IT!!!!
Blessings flowing "you'll making me laugh!"
Yess i got my 5 products at 10$ thx and love the feel on my hair
🎉🎉🎉CONGRATULATIONS!!!🎉🎉🎉
Chance sounded good in the song today ❤
I agree. Chance was holding his note 😂🤣
Great conversation. Saturday last I suggested a bath to a brother and he laughed. 👁👁
That is crazy!!! My dad takes baths on a regular!!! And my parents been married for 46yrs now!!! That’s all I known that man to do!!😂😂😂
Auntie and Unc (in my head) are hilarious and too cute! I love this and yall so much. To further Chance’s point, Im a female and not a huge bath person either. I love my water hot hot but hate being sweaty while trying to relax. Then to get out of the tub, and have to shower. Nah I’m ok. So I find other ways to self care also.
Self care is not to be confused with self maintenance.
Agreed, I think those terms are interchanged alot, yes they overlap, but they are different.
I met a man with DIRTY nails 😢 when he went to the restroom prior to us ordering our food I left!!!! Idc idc idc that is a deal breaker!!! 😮
Congratulations
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that intro got me good today 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I think self care changes as the season of your life changes. I know for me as a wife and mom of 3 all 8 and under focus on the mental part of self care more than anything at this stage. Would I love to be able to do all the cute and time consuming stuff, of course! But I also understand the phase that we are in.
Chance is funnnyyy! He said yo bubble gummmm😂😂😂
😂my husband isn't to reject but now he regularly gets manicures and mani pedi He's 73!!!
lol... THE END... TAB GOT'EM!!!!
😂 I love you together.
The way I screamed when Tab said , What is a basketball made of 😂
My dad was into self care he would get manicure and pedicure ❤but my husband 🤦🏽♀️will not get a pedicure 🤷🏾♀️but needs to 😆
I definitely schedule manis for myself /pedis for me and man.
Hello Chance and Tab❤
Chance is on point with that ice bath for male athletes! That is the ONLY time my husband will take a bath!
Chance is at it again. He love to use the hair strength oil. And will NOT use a separate bottle of hair oil strengthener for himself. He loves to share LOL!!! 😃
My husband is on Chance’s side. He is team shower.
Funny thank you
When I take baths I shower first bath then shower again. Hate it but love it 🙃
Chance with the glittery lotion on the golf course 😂
Chance said Kev was like Rev Run on Run’s House 😂
I used to take baths a lot and I kept dealing with yeast infections. I stopped and so did the yeast infections. I don't know for sure if it was related, but it appeared that way to me.
If you had a bubble bath for sure. I had to stop using scented bubble baths. They definitely mess me up.
I did too, but only because of all the added bath balms, scented bubbles, and soap. A bath with nothing added stopped the irritations
I take showers as well. If I do take a bath I end with a shower.
That just shows you how differently men think..they are so different
CONGRATULATIONS 🎉🎉. dates, Jan 30- Feb 9, 2024 I'M READY
You two are so funny 😊 Lord Have Mercy ❤