What to do when you're interested in a girl | Love and Friendship | Apostle Femi Lazarus
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- čas přidán 6. 05. 2024
- What to do when you're interested in a girl | Love and Friendship | Apostle Femi Lazarus
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Lonely at the top 😂
Apostle 😂 I see what you did there. 🙏
Exactly, once you meet a lady tor the first time and yhe fisrt thing you tell her is "i want to marry you" you have spoiled everything. If she has character flaws, she will oackage herself just to marry, then in marriage you begin to sing "i see your true colours shining through 😂😂😂"
I told this to someone who came to me, the first day he met me, he said i want to marry you. He thought i was a Gen Z, even some Gen z sef dey get sense. I told him, even though i dont accept you, please dont try it with any ither lady, because she will begave herself well just to marry you.
I suggested we become friends first, eveb recommended Myles Munroes book Waiting and Dating, but he refused. He took my picture went to my Pastor to show him, my Pastor approved not knowing that i haven't accepted his proposal. When i told my Pastor, he said if i don't have peace within, i shouldn't accept it.
It turned out that the guy himself is a player and he finally ended up with one innocent lady. On the day of their wedding, i noticed that the lady wasn't smiling. I went there, gave her my gift and left.
Attention generates Affection.❤
This is so true guys shouldn't be in the haste to mention marriage
Friendship can't be underestimated
Ah This man sir you always get me thinking ah,when I listen to you so deep,simple and realistic.
Good message
Thank you sir for this
Friendship ❤
Friendship ❤❤
❤ AMEN pastor
True Friendship!❤
This is practical wisdom
Ahh, Apostle sir, sincerely. Thank you sir
Clear and powerful message. Thank God for this wisdom.
Can you please tone down the pings? I’m not trying to be condescending but it gets a bit overbearing. Good video.👍
Noted. Thanks for the feedback
Yes please.
I don't think it's much o. Just a dial
Link to the full message
Vice versa. Women do the same. Run of the man of God
May God Help us the youth
😂😂
Wetin de do ping all the time, dah. Nawao
Where can I get the full Audio or video
Please whats the title of the message?
But the said being a friend with the woman you love hurt, because you are expecting more than that 🤔
Sir. Josh.
I get your point, which is valid.
Albeit, the first thing Abraham's servant did was to study and test Rebecca for her content a.k.a. character >>> before he then talked to her, and her family, about Marraige.
He tested Rebecca by requesting for water >>> which Rebecca offered for himself and his cattle >>> a revelation of her character >>> and that, without Rebecca knowing she was being tested, and was about to be asked for in marriage >>> meaning: Rebecca was acting out her true self.
This is why friendship first is crucial >>> it let's you know people in their true, normal, state of self.
How so? Because, we humans have a natural quantum frequency that we operate on >>> meaning: we can't pretend for too long, without slipping up, and showing our true self.💡
So the Man of God was right to say: have friendship first, to know the other person, before you get serious.
So, the Man of God, Pst. Femi Lazarus, gave sound, Bible-backed wisdom.
Please full message
Love and Vows
Marry content, not looks.
This is how I met my husband 😂😂😂, I didn't even suspect it
Lol
Congratulations Ma
Hi just an inquiry was he just being a friend
Or he cared a little more than the others but you just thought he was just being a friend.
@@SaintMohair he was just a friend-
then after 3 years we became bestfriends and the rest is history...
@@RejoiceTweufiilwa congratulations 👏👏 many many 👏🎉 I've taken notes
Sir, how should someone approach a lady after God told the man that the lady is his wife
Go and establish a relationship first, after then talk to her about it
Establish some kind of friendship first, to get to know each other. If God is the one that told the man that's his wife, it will surely come to pass. Don't rush the God told me that you are my wife thing, speaking from a woman's perspective most of us now feel like that's some kind of a Christian pickup line/a straight up lie, it has a very high probability to make a girl run away if it's spoken too soon. Others start with I just want us to get to know each other but I'm not your friend(so that they don't maybe get stuck in the friendzone) but this one I think it works when there is very much clear attraction to each other
U don do make i unsubscribe now. You don come vex me
According to this preacher, the servant of Isaac was wrong in talking to Rebecca. This is one of the storytellers who are creating confusion about the simple subject of marriage.
Bruhhh!!! When would y'all stop misinterpreting...?
@@D_R_I_L_Lbut how is he misinterpreting? The preacher says you meet a girl, don’t mention your intentions of marrying her before building friendship. Building friendship can even take 1 year or two years. Do you think Isaac in the Bible and others had that time? What if while you are busy building friendship, the girl thinks you’re only there for friendship and falls for another friend who has put forward his intentions of marrying your friend?
@felixmagombo, the preacher didn't call Issac wrong, he didn't even quote Scripture, this was advice that actually applies and works, "in this time". Saying 'he' said Isaac's approach is wrong, is not only misquoting but misinterpreting him. If it applies to you, good! If not, don't defame. I mean no disrespect!
Ah… the wisdom of those age and now is not thesame… imagine the way they dress then and now… it’s easier to be to start a conversation with marriage and you won’t get to know the person until after the marriage… or play the hard roll of keeping your mouth shut and know the person as a friend, if he/she fits or can cover up the open spaces in your personal life… majority choose the easy way… so divorce rate is high
Eliezer of Damascus first prayed and then asked for water (check her characters) before mentioning marriage.
Friends don't leave 💯❣️