The One Thing That Will Make Everyone Like You
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- čas přidán 7. 06. 2024
- Welcome to Lesson #3 of the BeeFriend Course. In this video we're going to talk about the one thing that will make everyone like you. It's a concept that is often referred to as the golden rule of friendship and it's the deciding factor as to whether or not you develop friendships with others or make enemies.
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Stacy's mistakes you should avoid:
1. Bad body language.
2. Make everything about yourself.
3. Too much negativity.
Jaime Rodriguez thank you brou
Jaime Rodriguez Thanks.
Man the title really contradicts number 2
4. Never learn how to play Fortnite
5. Crush her neighbor's garbage weekly
6. Never watch anime
7. Didn't have any K-Pop Bias
Thanks for the summary
But everyone should remember that there are people out there who just wont like you. No matter what you do, even if you’re completely innocent. So don’t waste your time trying to get them to like you.
Very true☺
Honestly, in my experience, those people eventually come around too.
Maybe , idk they change
Currently trying to swallow this pill
Yes, it's true
There is another much more important rule for all this to be achieved: Love yourself. "When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you." - Laozi
I completely agree with u btw made any friends
Not really
that aint true
For people who do none of this and have little to no friends:
It’s okay. Sometimes people just DONT CARE. But sometimes they do.
What you can do:
Always be there for people who are there for you and be yourself. They befriended you because of how you are NOT how others are. So don’t try to be just like others around you, and your friends are allowed to have other friend too.
I understand what this feeling can be like as someone who has lost friends due to my past mistakes and sometimes just for NO REASON. This is just how life is sometimes.
But it will get better, you got this. 💜
Thanks for this.. :)
what if friends just stopped talking to you without a reason even though there its not your fault, you know you didn’t do anything that hurted your friend, why is it like that?
@@complexx_scam617 Because sometimes we don't see people for who they are but for who we imagine them to be and it leads to situation you don't understand like when people you thought you could depend on always "forget about you" when in truth most of the times they don't even do it on purpose, it just comes naturally to them to forget about you and if they keep not doing anything to make an effort in the relationship too, even when you told them it's hurtful then you should stop engaging first with them and eventually if they never call you back and keep forgetting, you will just become acquaintance who knew each other at worst and see each other only when invited to the same party at best, it's sad but it's better like this and maybe it's not forever and someday they will come back thinking about you by themselves but better not count on it to be surprised and not dependent on doubtful hope.
I’m 76 years old and I remember when my wife died in 2021 many of my classmates from school sent me sympathy messages but when I was younger they didn’t seem to have any time for me except to make my life miserable.
Thanks for this bro. I will save this in my heart❤❤❤
Eating lunch alone at our school's cafeteria is the most awkward feeling that I've ever felt as a student with no friends.
Same. I literally skip lunch and just sit in the library because I don’t have friends to sit with.
Have you ever tried to just ask somebody to sit with them because even if you don’t talk at least you won’t feel awkward eating alone.
Thats the worst tbh when I have to eat in school i eat in the school bathroom, horrible
Ah that is literally traumatizing for me, like no joke. I sat alone for a year but then the other two years I sat with a teacher in school during lunch to work on work! The best advice I could give is just be a little bit more open with people. I took baby steps, very small steps and now a couple years later I no longer eat by myself in lunch. Just be yourself and you will find your group, people you didn’t even think would be your friends might turn out as your friends. Be more open, in the sense of smile more, be more friendly towards people, and if your brave enough compliment someone! These helped me over the long run. Also just revisiting these videos once in awhile help a lot too! That’s what I’m doing lol
Maybe if you see another person sitting alone you can sit with them, or if you find a small group who looks nice you can ask to sit with them
Personally I find it easy to make friends especially in school but having conversations or keeping contact with them is the hard part because usually we don’t share the same interests
tell me how to
Hi Nctzen
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@@user-ud8lf8dz9r just what the video says basically. you know, have a likable personality. I'm very popular in school though I have no friends. I can sit with anyone I want, but I decide to sit alone. As I feel lonely sitting with people. To each is own, I'm sure you'll have a eaiser time.
I have social anxiety, and its impossible for me to find friends irl
In conclusion, don't be a negative person. Be a ball of joy.
The fact that the popular girls at school called me a ball of joy and a ball of sunshine but I’ve literally never talked to them in my life 😭😭😭
Friendship is not just a word it's a feeling , all the memories that u and ur friends spent with each other . Friendship is very precious and is very important in life ✨
@@Jaball.. I get that, I've got trust issues and think I only need myself, but friendships are based on respect, justice and loyalty( which is trust and honesty) that is precious. But most people (NOT ALL, MOST) ive met, especially teenagers are the worst and suck.
I'm in this situation where a new friend joined our friend group but she hates me and says bad things about me to my friends and my friends seems to not care or not notice??HAHAHSH it hurts because i was the original friend.
@@kythe4353 you be true and loyal with her. She will get her Karma u should not do like her
Beleive on karma ...!
Yes
The person that everyone loves to be around, they have these factors.
They tend to be genuinely interested in people
They smile
They're funny
They remember and call people by their name
They are good listeners
They encourage people to talk about themselves
They talk in terms of other people’s interest
great informative content,shit load of value, keep up the good work!
Somebody read Dale Carnegie's work here
and the last thing ..they never cut connections with people(being socially active with them with no demands or needs)
And that's just tiring... U can't be yourself and engage in all that
J Bones
So true. That kind of thing is rlly rlly hard to fake and act. My only suggestion is to genuinely have that personality by not acting , but just tweaking the way you see things ☝️👍
Dale Carnegie approves.
Be the person that your dog thinks you are!!😊
De Lord Potato lol
Treat people like dogs
Alright lemme ask you how we can determine how our dogs perceive us?
An animal abuser?
My dog bit my ring finger it was almost fully separted I was rushed to the hospital.
I 100% agree & I can relate to the example you gave. I’ve always been pretty popular & friendly to everyone but I have noticed over the years that If im just passing thru or going about my business I can have a certain demeanor that can come off as intimidating at first glance. I never realized the importance it has until recently. It’s plays a big role in first impressions, meeting people, networking… I have made it a priority to actively think about and be conscious of in my day to day interactions. This has made a even greater improvement in my interactions and overall mood!!
But how to look less intimidating? Think this my problem and being negative
It’s sad for me to see all of you people in the comments struggling to make friends. I just wanna let any of you who feel abandoned or alone out there know that you are not nearly as bad as you think you are, and you are loved by me even if you don’t have anyone now. I love all of you. Please don’t feel sad, life’s tough but you can make it, please don’t give up ❤️
❤🤗
I kinda hate it when you feel betrayed because i have an app called discord and some people i go to school with they always say they wanna fight me and that we arent friends but then when we go to school its all chill and i hate tha because im very emotional and ive been heartbroken by so many people and have been laughed at by so many kids. One time these kids took a picture of me and made me look like a old ugly women i hate it so much
Thank you so much buddy...❤❤
Yea it’s bad out here
I want to remind everyone of this: even if you follow ALL the rules, even if you're perfect, kind and lovable and helpful, there still will be somebody who doesn't like you and that's okay. To avoid being desperate, love yourself always and give yourself the attention and approval you crave!
Yeah that true
Yaaa
Hm.3 years ago,one girl in my class dislikes me ao much.She was popular in class and all my friends are her friends too. I just called her everyday and greeted her and just ended the call. It was weird.😑i was soo desperate. IDK how now she is one of my best friends now🚶♀Some people do change tho
I do all of these thing yet no one likes me. I guess I’m just supposed to be alone forever 😔
@@user-cb4sg3cq9g no it's not gonna be like that it's only temporary
How painfully ironic to see that if you’re depressed and in a rough place where you need friends the most is when you’ll have the hardest time making any🙃 which leads to fueling the cycle even more
If your depressed and in a rough place, then obviously other people won't want to catch it from you, so it makes sense to not want to be friends with a depressing person.
But if you already had friends from when you weren't so depressive and draining, I've seen people stick around to support because you were there with them before
That's why you keep the negativity inside and only talk about your positive feelings
...pretty sure that's unhealthy as heck. Didn't stop me :')
I mean it makes sense that people don't want to share the burdens of complete strangers, you have to wait until you actually get closer and become friends before opening up completely, and friends are not therapists either
Same buddy same
So will no one want to be my friend because I’m depressed?
The best way to make friends is by talking to them first. They don't want to talk to other people, so you're doing the job for them when you do this. Make sure you listen to them and expand on what they are saying, don't only say things that have to do with you, like if the other person recently moved from Washington, ask them what it was like there, why they moved, and so on. The best person to start a conversation with is someone who isn't talking to many people or seems as lonely as you. If they are relatively popular it still works, it may be harder to make a long-term relationship. If you liked this comment or agreed then...
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Yes, but sometimes it's a gamble because if you talk to them first and they don't ask anything about you or try to get to know you then it's just a waste of time
Thank you! It's been a year that I have watched this I now have friends that are pretty loyal thank you!
I used to sit in my class alone and can't even get sit into groups and I eat alone I used to cry when I just think that nobody will helped me thank you
I laughed when I saw Kanye's face 😂😂😂😂
Me too
Please love the Holy Spirit :D❤️
@@Lee-qy8zs ?
Haha same
Lmao
I don't have a cheerful face and when I try to be joyful I just feel weird and not bein myself
Same!
Yeah me to people always think I look mad and then no one approaches me but that’s just my resting face
Same
Omg same, i can’t like smile unless someone actually makes me smile otherwise It feels so fake and unnatural
Same bro people say I got mean eyes and when I look in the mirror I see why they’re slanted downwards always looking mad
no matter what we do, we will always be the villain in someone’s story
be hero/heroin of your own story 😊😊😊
My goal in high school is to become friends with everyone. I don't have to be close to them, I just want to be able to talk to everyone. I enjoy having friends! Plus, I just want to be known as the person who's friendly and open minded. I want to easily become friends with people and help others that have issues/struggle to make friends!!
I swear CZcams is trying to roast me with my recommendations
LMAO
Tiktok always roasting me when i open my page it's all about share this to your friend all about best friend
With that profile pic I dont blame it BOOM GET REKTED
For legal reasons I must tell you this is a joke
😂
Lmao who’s here because social interaction doesn’t come naturally to you
Yhup
Please love the Holy Spirit :D❤️
What's up
haha same
I guess I watch this because i feel like i’m just after the wrong things after i spent a few years “improving” myself because I wanted to be “mysterious”, “cool” and above all, superior to other human beings
Ok so people who have depression Never get any friends, got it
Thanks so much man... there was this one bad habit in my personality I always knew I had but I couldn't find it ..now I DID!
I always interupt when some1 is talking about there story and start talking about mine.. I have this over talkative habit about mine .. I talk more.. litsen less
Glad I finally realised it today 😅
I have one other rule:
"You have to consider them as friends"
If you don't feel like you deserve them as friends, or simply don't think them as friends, you'll unconsciously push them away.
Thank you.
So True
True 💟💟💟🖤🖤🖤😊😊😊💖💖💖
I'm always so scared when it comes to that. I'm scared that I'll call someone my friend but they don't like me back
@@blayd2425 ohhh i had this
So basically don’t be a squidward.
Yeah... be more like Spongebob
Squidwards cool. Oh wait...
All Spongebob characters have something wrong with them
@@Kaiizerr_ or patrick
@@SquidCena Lmaoo
“as you look out not only for your own interests, but also for the interests of others”
Thank you for this wonderful video
Wanna be friends
Sure
Wow never realized how much Stacy and I are the exact same person. Now I understand a lot. I cant control to make everything about me and i always think what im going to say next even tough i shoud be listening to the speaking person. Thanks for the tips hope i could use them.
so what about stacy's mom?
Your comment is going far
that's reassuring!
What about it
@@ImprovementPill legend. If only I could sub twice.
She's all i want, and i've waiting for so long.
Make a video on introverts ... hit a like if u guys want
same bruh
Introvert??
I'm introvert, i sometimes still got anxiety, but i just found something weird how to stop that anxiety, i just start thinking about my surroundings and stop to feel about environment, i know it's weird but to me it works just start using your brain, feel that you have a brain, and think all about possible income if you do this, but not just that, predict what people will do, just think don't let your feeling got you, just think idk how to describe this again think, and feel your brain
Ha
@@partlycloudy2526 so underrated
am so grateful for modern day youtube. i’m so grateful that there are humans out there teaching other people how to be more human 😅 it just makes me feel less alone. 2011 me on would be so happy for this progress 🥰
My old friend that isn’t my friend anymore did this she doesn’t realise how mean it sounds as she is just brutally honest and says what’s on her mind
Did she have bad intentions?
I- I do this often, unintentionally :(
I always thought the reason why Stacy doesn't have lasting friendships is because of her mother who is all everyone wants
Kurostyle21 can somone explain this one pleasd
@@brazox yeah me too
There's a popular song called Stacy's Mom. So it's a joke referring to the song.
@@ImprovementPill 😂
Stacy's mom
Has got it going on
I always thought, "friendship has no rules." but, today i came to know, "its all about formality boi."
Boiiiii
Now i understand why i am alone.😂😂😂😂
I don't really abide by any rules I just talk to people you know?
I think the first step is to be happy. If you're sad then find out why and find a solution to it. If you have depression that's a different story so just take your medication until you get through it I guess
Thank you for your explanation 😊
You dont need everyone to like you, you need the right people to like you.
Just watch anime and you'll learn everything about friendship
@@madelynspam1507 I don't watch it to be popular, I watch it cause I enjoy it tf
madelyn spam stfu
Yes this definitely doesn't work
Not really •_•
Mitsuri San another zero two simp I’m getting bored of this
This mentality is the reason why depressed people feels so lonely. You should fake smile all the time, not talk about your problems and pretend that you are always happy... If you show your real emotions people abandons you...
I got transferred to new place at my work and for past 3 months felt really depressed. My boss talked to me about not being able to be a part of the team. Now I smile all the time a pretend to be super positive... I want to quit every single minute because I feel miserable and I really started to hate my work.
Yeah that sound sad
Hmm
@@allygotchannel3563 I hope your doing better and that you're happier and that you're not depressed at least at the moment I might be a year late but I hope you're doing better love
The reality is once you have people close to you, it's up to you to determine who you actually talk about your issues with. This I think is more so how to make and keep friends
I genuinely have a hard time trying to be interested in other people. I realized that I'm often selfish, think of myself a lot, which is why I'm often shy or stand off-ish because I always feel like I need to be the main character of everything for me to give a damn. Talking bout myself gives me an ego boost, but it depresses me sometimes because i realized that I don't have any genuine friends around or don't even know how to genuinely spend time with those closest to me.
I want to change this, and I'll be working on doing so.
First step is realizing the problem
Great work 🥳🥳🥳 Thank you 💜💜💜
When you get anxiety every time your friend comes near you
Omg me
my friend says i give her anxiety so now i don’t talk to her unless she comes up to me 🧍♀️
@@jrd7_ same there’s one there’s one friend that says that I’m making her uncomfortable and that word changes a lot I stop talking to people
@@richelleong1306 same, sometimes I tend to overthink that leads me to some mindset changing.
That ain’t normal 😭😭
I always find myself pretty weird and I often ask myself how I still have a lot of friends, even some friendships that are more than 14 years old (I'm 18 btw) but the thing is, I have those friends because we listen to eachother's stories and we laugh and have fun. We introduce ourselves to other friends of friends and that gives you even more friends. Even though I find myself pretty weird I always try to be fun to hang around with, I'm friendly and I care about how they feel. Friends aren't just for 1 day so you should try to keep them. If you notice you're losing a friend because you're life's are changing, accept it. Friendship can't come from one person, both people need to put time in it. I've lost one of my best friends because we grew away from eachother but I still greet him when I see him. The point is, that you shouldn't worry to much about making friends, just be nice and it will happen eventually. Even if you lose a friend there are plenty of other who also love you
great to hear your story, gotta say it rlly gave me better insight on friendship-making!!
This made my day🥲❤️
Nice comment btw
bro you just improved my life rn i will try to follow your advice and tell you the results
This is so true, almost the same thing happened to me. Thank you
no matter how nice i was to everyone
no matter how much i cared bout others instead of myself
no matter how much i complimented them
literally all my classmates all my life
nothing worked out
do we really need friends? im at the point to where i dont really care much bout friendships anymore
no matter who it is, they really dont wanna be my friend so i’d rather just focus on myself instead of others
That's right
Well when your in your 40s I realised that and I didn't like people much in life before my 40s so it is easy to really hate people
Your every step is relatable
I broke every rule, I'm gonna start changing, holy fawk, this just gave me a boost on self awareness, thank you
Same
Just be positive, and if no one likes you, well, just be positive 👍
I follow the “golden rules”, I just have a mental illness that convinces me that I’m a burden and I don’t deserve to have friends so I don’t talk to people anymore. 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
send me an email.. maybe we can be friend
Same. Except that every single friend of mine left cause I self harmed.
I have a lot of friends thinking their a burden and i can tell you it is highly possible that you aren't and even if, there is ALWAYS someone who doesn't see you as one. Stay positive and maybe try to open up and honestly tell people about that. They will understand
Dingleberg!
I suffer from Avoidant Personality Disorder and have no friends......tough. Hope you're well ♡
THIS IS THE VIDEO THAT I REALLY NEED FR
It's easy to make friends. Just act like you've been friends with the other person for a long time. My problem is that i want to be friends with authentic people. Those I'm surrounded with talk about others behind their backs and are highly judgemental.
I feel like I already do this (which is a good confidence booster!). My problem lies with consistency. I befriend someone one day and ask for their social media and the next day, I'm off to finding a new person. Repeat this cycle a couple times and you see me with a ton of acquaintances, confused as to why we're not friends yet. I realize that I have to actually text/hang out with them and talk frequently to establish a friendship (shocker!!! Lol sorry, I was sheltered). I'm still not oh so comfortable with it but I'm actively trying to have a regular hang out if I wanted to deepen a friendship.
I can relate to your problem! It's a wonder to see something I've been struggling with, get put into words. Workplaces and school helps make friendships consistent, cause you're practically seeing them every day. Though, it has been a year since you commented this, so have your problem lessened? Have you gotten more consistent with it?
I can relate!
that's still me and I know that it doesn't work. I guess I am just scared of being vulnerable or I'm scared of starting conversations without following through which I often do :v
@@sleepieste hi! I just saw your message now but here’s a little update :). It’s definitely easier for me to stay consistent with reaching out to someone and befriending them. I realized I was scared of not being the ‘perfect friend’ to someone & that they’d spend more of their time with someone else that was better when they realize all of my flaws. But now I think friendship is based on your interests or accepting & respecting the other person’s beliefs. I have a solid friend group that I talk with almost everyday and some friends I’ve met through different means that I don’t talk with as much but I care for just as much ❤️.
I just graduated college so everyone’s trying to find jobs & are starting to get busier but I noticed people appreciate it when you remember their birthday or greet them during holidays :). Now I find myself taking a mental note of who I want to maintain friendships with & continue to check up on them once every few months so I can maintain that friendship :)
(& I realized a lot of ppl are scared to make the first move so I don’t take it personally & reach out first. If they want to maintain friendship w me, they’ll reply & be open to catch up for a bit. If not, it’s no big deal at least I tried)
Sorry it’s gotten long but I hope it helped a bit!!
Stacy needed therapy and someone to listen to her for once and comlpliment her. Girlie was clearly depressed
Idk if this would actually help anyone much but my tips are:
- Compliment people more but in the nicest way possible, please don’t make it sound back-handed or weird/random 😭 Especially if you compliment the smallest changes or details about someone while talking to them it would be a great way to make someone like you more!
- Always be the first to text/talk or start the convo! You don’t always have to be but I’m sure most people would appreciate it! Because who knows maybe they feel the same as you do!
- Literally talk about anything that flows through your mind but if it’s a weird ass topic or something real sus, best to keep that to yourself or things will get akward (would be fine with certain friends or close friends)
Its true, I hate when im telling someone something about myself and they just cut me off and start to talk about themselves as if my story didn't matter. Thats why I don't do this to others because its truly a bad feeling.
See that’s the problem, I can’t make other people feel good unless the situation creates it or impress them. I can only express my views and unbiased views with honesty and most people hate that, majority of people love to hear stuff that they want to hear and not the actual fact, is wt I noticed among numerous conversations.
read the book the 48 laws of power and thank me later
Chiguer Naoufal sure will read it 👍🏼
ROVA Honestly just be yourself, stay positive and stop complaining and if people still dont like you then that's their own problem and you should move on with your life 🤷♂️
Cloudless Vision That’s what I have been doing
Maybe don't bring up depressing stuff all the time and talk about stuff they enjoy as well. Do you ever talk about the stuff that interests the other person and things they enjoy?
That's exactly how you get "friends". Friends that will let you down in hard times, friends that won't help you with your house moving, friends that are only around you when you fake happiness. Just tell people what's on your mind. Sure, don't complain about little things, but if you have a problem, talk to people! Being popular is by far not as important as your mental health.
Being aware that you're making conversations all about yourself and knowing you spread too much negativity doesn't really make you gain negative friends, you just get friendd
No matter how much generous, how much polite, how much kind you are to that person or anyone, you cant get them into your circle. Its people. You cant control them, so best advice is use your mind, find out the "real ones" and set it as your task. Dont waste your time on ones that dont seem to even like you a bit even after your tiresome act of kindness and innocence.
People want to be heard and feel valued. Thats key
Sometimes you're just not in a positive mindset but forced into a social situation. Faking it is just too draining. That's when you get judged and it creates a destructive loop and it's really not fair 😓
What ti do
1:07 Mistake #1: Bad Body Language
2:05 Mistake #2: Make Everything About Yourself
3:36 Mistake #3: Too Much Negativity
Such an awesome video, thank you so much! I’m loving this course.
I love the quote from the book “The 5 Love Languages” by Gary Chapman: “Life’s deepest meaning is not found in accomplishments, but in relationships”.
It’s so true and your course is helping me to find new relationships, thank you!
100th likes and the first reply 😂
101th like and second reply
it's so useful, thank you so much💕
As an introver person i find this video super usefull, i'll do everything you said not to do so people wont talk to me😌
Thank you, man. You helped me clear out a few things in my life. This three video was definitely educative. Looking forward for the fourth one.
Improvement pill ! I want to thank you for everything,all your videos are just everyone needs , I will Love to take all your courses . Once again thank you !
Oh no I broke the golden rule but I will try again tomorrow on getting my friend back your such a nice youtuber:)
Did u get ur friend back?
Okay I say this one thing just be yourself. People who want to be around you will be around you and the ones that don’t probably didn’t want to be around in the first place. You can try as much as you want you can’t make people do things they don’t want so stop trying to fit in and be yourself try to be happy and peaceful that’s more important than having fake friends around you.
This video has opened my eyes. I have lost 3 friends this year and all of them were caused by me doing these things.
Those are things indicative of a few deeper issues within us, so it's not enough to try to 'hide' this behavior, we have to work on ourselves and how we view the world so they can feel a naturally positive vibe instead of a forced one.
true i always fake my positvity and i hate
1:00 I absolutely destroyed this rule, explains a lot
Don't waste ur time to fit with people ,cuz real friend always accept u , no matter how u are
You are doing very good job bro... Because of u I am what I am today... U give very practical advises which I have applied throughout my last 6 months.. Keep making vids like this... Hats Off..
You guys are always spot on for what I need, and you’ve helped me a lot, thank you so much!
Thank you this helped so much man!
Thankyou for this video 🙏🙏🙏 Almost I was making the same mistakes.
This video slapped me in the face. Literally what I've been doing since my teens. This is why I have less friends.
Your main focus should be being the best version of yourself and not trying to get others to like you. People should like you for who you truly are.
THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO OMG
This is a really helpful video as I am too shy or scared to interact with a friend I wanna make. Now I’ve learnt that that’s useless.(not t he video, my attitude)
Wow. This course helps me understand the big concepts in the book “The Like Switch” much better now! Thanks.
Dude this is THE BEST channel i've found in a long time! Super helpful thank you so much 😁
it’s really awkward if you’re in the middle of a chatty group at school lunch and you’re silent.
Sometimes but I personally like sitting with a group of people silently js like observing what everyones onabt
i needed this video for the upcoming face to face class
lmao same
Improvement Pill is absolutely incredible ! Hopefully you’ll be my friend one day :)
cringe dude
This was a helpful video uploaded right when I needed it. Thanks!
so helpful , I will try to apply every rule next time
The most useful video i have ever seen
Oh damn, I broke the Golden Rule so much last year. I was really depressed and my self esteem was plummeting, and I didn't try to hide it. I didn't try to fix ot, either. At the same time, I was always talking about my own interests (I think I was looking for validation).
This actually makes me regret all of the things i have done. Thanks....you taught me something.
same☹️
Don’t try so hard to be cool or liked, it comes off as try hard & not genuine. Just be yourself, spread love and positive vibes
Felt amazing not being friends, with someone who’s always negative. Felt amazing not being with someone who brings people down. Always complaining and I try to lift him up, and give him encouragement, he’ll rub it off.
This isn't Stacy...
This is my ex-friend.
Hah
Bruh 😂 we all have a stacey
Smiling is so important, it makes you 10 times more attractive, you should always smile while meeting or seeing someone :)
this is genius. there was a time where i was at a nightclub with friends, and one new friend asked me a question that i didnt intend to discuss, but i felt like i owed her an answer for the sake of authenticity. which led to the other person trying to fix my problem, but they had a limited view of what was happening, so i felt like i had to explain the whole situation, which resulted in me dominating the conversation. and it was weird bc i didnt really want to be talking about it in the first place. now in the future, i should just give a vague, positive answer so we can change topics and talk about something that's actually fun.
Thank you! i will try these techniques on my classmates :)
And there are moments where you have to talk about your feelings and that’s the moment where you discover your real friends.
To anybody who wants to learn more lessons like these ones ,read Dale Carnegie's book "how to win friends and influence people" , it covers all that improvement pill said on this video and much more, it's pure gold.
This video was vwry helpful, I noticed that i resonated with some mistakes that she's done and now i will look after to not repeat them agayn.
So informative thanks!!
I keep on screwing things up with my friends and I don’t know how to keep a stable friendship so I think I’m going to binge watch some of these videos haha
how u doing
Jeongin as your pfp🥰
Hey ... anyone wann be friends...I know asking in social media is bit weird ..😅
@@kratos9643 do you play Minecraft?
You work so hard, I'm so proud of this business you've made!
I'm learning about these kind of videos late, but that's better than never, I suppose.
finally, someone explains social skills with maths. I was talking with a friend yesterday abt how she reads people so well and i was like (jokingly ofc) "explain it like its maths" and then this chad over here that is Improvement Pill comes over to my reccomended and does exactly that.