Off The Record: Should You Let Your GF Have Guy Friends?

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Komentáře • 213

  • @jessicacastillo9186
    @jessicacastillo9186 Před rokem +113

    Kalyne and Nikki need to be a video together I feel like they would get along 😺😸

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Před rokem +16

      Nikki is going to be in upcoming videos that she has already filmed with the crew. She mentioned it on her vlog. It will be interesting to see which crew members were there when she filmed her episodes.

    • @CaliburPANDAs
      @CaliburPANDAs Před rokem +13

      Nikki gets along with anyone though

    • @it_punkkid7298
      @it_punkkid7298 Před rokem

      Omg yess I agree that should happen

    • @cynn_thor
      @cynn_thor Před rokem

      I agree. I don't think kalyne vibes well with Julia

    • @it_punkkid7298
      @it_punkkid7298 Před rokem +1

      @@cynn_thor well I think julia not been on forever so se don't know how things work

  • @kiarademoner
    @kiarademoner Před rokem +38

    So when I was starting to date my now husband I had a “bestfriend” that was a guy. My husband was super particular about him and didn’t like him at all! I used to get so upset with my husband telling him that he is my brother and he has NEVER tried to go there with me. He kept insisting that my friend liked me. Fast forward a month later when my husband asked me to be his gf and made it official I posted a picture of us on my insta. The next day my “bestfriend” called me spilling his guts and telling me that he has been in love with me for years and didn’t want to ruin it but now that he saw how serious I was getting with my now husband he had to let it out. My husband was always right. 😩😂

    • @IvanGoldBit
      @IvanGoldBit Před rokem +1

      Lol all guys want sex few guys tell you upfront and maybe half of guys wait for it just because you want to friends doesn't mean the person just wants to friends.

    • @coasterthekid8867
      @coasterthekid8867 Před 8 měsíci +2

      If he really cared about you, he would’ve just kept it to himself. He told you because he needed you to know, it’s selfish really. He had so much time to tell you, but only did once he thought he was losing you.

    • @kiarademoner
      @kiarademoner Před 8 měsíci

      @@coasterthekid8867 I felt so lied to. And kind of gross because I used to sleep in his house sometimes and felt “safe” because he never tried to do anything with me. I seriously thought he was like a brother to me. This whole time this man saw me differently and I can’t even imagine what he used to be thinking of whenever I was hanging out with him. And the thought that I used to get mad at my husband whenever he used to tell me about him smh lol

    • @SpAzZzZz_
      @SpAzZzZz_ Před 2 měsíci

      Men know how men operate

  • @cierragallarza1264
    @cierragallarza1264 Před rokem +25

    Joe's shirt kept making me laugh throughout the whole video xD The face kept getting all crumpled in the funniest ways lolll

  • @thersanothersidetome
    @thersanothersidetome Před rokem +50

    I’ve always been the boyfriend that wasn’t threatened or worried that my girl was gonna cheat because like Joe said, if she’s gonna do it, it’s better that I know rather than try to control and then create a sneaky habit. On the other end though, I have also been in situations where a female friend of mine would be touchy or just hanging out close to me when their bf was around and at that point I would act like I had superglue in my arm pits so I would not be touching them even accidentally lol.

  • @nicolepi517
    @nicolepi517 Před rokem +15

    The down payment comment took me OUT 😂

  • @thomaschristopherwhite9043

    Dude this is fun as shit! This is definitely going in the "Im gonna come back to this one once in a while" type of video.

  • @victoriaskyful
    @victoriaskyful Před rokem +10

    I wish this vid never ended LMAOO

  • @BowlofPeaSoup
    @BowlofPeaSoup Před rokem

    These past couple uploads have been the best ones in a while! Thanks guys!

  • @tinabeee7350
    @tinabeee7350 Před rokem +9

    Poor Ryan 😂

  • @putriazalia9248
    @putriazalia9248 Před rokem +7

    This needs pt. 2

  • @daisyw23
    @daisyw23 Před rokem +4

    Omg can I please get the guys’ perspectives on the difference between 1 on 1 hangout vs a date!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 Před rokem +18

    Tim makes it work. He said he has a lot of homegirls he's been friends with for years. And when he got together with Chia, they became her friends, too. One of them is even Chia's OBGYN. And another is the one Chia has him take to events because she doesn't like going out to the events the way his friend does.

    • @ivyyang7752
      @ivyyang7752 Před rokem +4

      They really need to ask Tim this question on here though

  • @ssenluong17
    @ssenluong17 Před rokem +3

    Laughed so hard in this one “dress so pretty”

  • @k.iskandar
    @k.iskandar Před rokem +21

    I mean every guy would wish for a no. But ultimately your partner should be able to be friends with whomever as you both should have that level of trust where you know your partner wouldn't do anything to jeopardise your relationship. But people do stupid things.

  • @_Maxten
    @_Maxten Před rokem +5

    i feel like if your gf is gonna have guy friends those guy friends need to be your friends too, or at least be properly acquainted and sometimes around and friendly with each other.

  • @stellahaynesworth5833
    @stellahaynesworth5833 Před rokem +3

    Joe is definitely the Alpha "If i want you I'll get you!" 😄

  • @a_mamj
    @a_mamj Před rokem +2

    20:55 that was so in sync!!! 😂😂😂

  • @jasin95
    @jasin95 Před rokem +4

    i've learned things about why social things are the way they are from this video

  • @-amosc.presley-7192
    @-amosc.presley-7192 Před rokem +6

    I think I believe that my Girlfriend, Fiancé are Wife should have guys for friends as long as I get a chance to know them also and if she allows me to have ladies as my friend a 2 for 1 agreement.

  • @BritheKop
    @BritheKop Před rokem +3

    Anthony "you know what I mean" Lee! 😁

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 Před rokem +2

    The snake 🐍 🤣 🤣🤣🤣

  • @martinc1647
    @martinc1647 Před rokem

    11:59 "Yeah she does" kills me haha

  • @djWOOF
    @djWOOF Před rokem +22

    There's a difference between when you're in college or younger and when you're a grown ass man and woman.
    I have friends that are girls and we can just say I love you to each other without it being sexual and they have their own husbands.
    And we're definitely not trying to fuck each other.
    Also my fiance has guy friends who I'm also friends with and it's totally cool.

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Před rokem +2

      Amen!!!

    • @peaceout41
      @peaceout41 Před rokem

      My friend his best friends girlfriend was around 24 at the time and the other Guy whose kink is older married women was about 27 the last time I spoke to him. He had no age range too. From 23-60. I knew him since college so about 9 years from first time I meant him in college.

  • @ASAP-Pocky
    @ASAP-Pocky Před rokem +2

    18:20 😂😂😂😂😂 joe with these sneaky ones

  • @dare98
    @dare98 Před rokem +7

    You guys are hilarious 🤣

  • @jk4115
    @jk4115 Před rokem +3

    the title of this video should've been try not to pounce on ryan challenge

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 Před rokem +75

    I'm older and the older I get I think it's fine if there's trust between two people and trust in the friends. There Def needs to be boundaries, don't disrespect the relationship the girl is in, by any means. No late night calls or rides unless it's an emergency. My daughter is in her early 30's and has ONLY guy friends and she's been that way her whole life. So my answer is yes, it's possible.

    • @sxhxlzxb
      @sxhxlzxb Před rokem +8

      Your daughter and me are alike, grew up just around boys too

    • @crossingboundaries56
      @crossingboundaries56 Před rokem

      If your daughter gave the opprotunity to fuck to anyone of her guy friends most would likely do it. Like they were saying in the video.
      Guys are kind of animals LOL

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Před rokem +6

      @@crossingboundaries56 that's why she set boundaries and if they even try it they are no longer friends, I've lived long enough on this earth to know you have a point lol

    • @MYNAMElSDAVID
      @MYNAMElSDAVID Před rokem

      Your daughter is getting passed around by a pack of dudes, buddy. They are not her friends

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Před rokem +3

      @@MYNAMElSDAVID you know what you are sick, my daughter has two beautiful children and a significant other, shame on you.

  • @Rpgotoko
    @Rpgotoko Před rokem

    Always interesting topic

  • @ku9145
    @ku9145 Před rokem +2

    No way, Stephen 'tWitch' Boss took his own life. Seen him since his SYTYCD days and he was always such a positive light. RIP

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Před rokem +1

      Damn. He always seemed so happy and smiling. 😔I feel for his wife and kids; esp. losing him in such a way and during the holidays at that. May they all receive the comfort, strength, help and healing they are gonna need.

  • @Jiisica
    @Jiisica Před rokem

    Loved this video 🤣🤣🎄

  • @o6fade800
    @o6fade800 Před rokem +3

    As a Guy I have my own boundaries. You can think another person is attractive looking and not fuck that person. To me that’s kinda plain and simple. I like to respect people in their relationship cuz I don’t want people to do things to my relationships.

  • @victorc1922
    @victorc1922 Před rokem +3

    I'm more worried about her 'gay friend' xD

  • @ivyyang7752
    @ivyyang7752 Před rokem +4

    ❤Steve not wanting to bang Anthony.
    ❤Everyone wanting to spread Ryan’s cheeks.
    ❤️Steve and Anthony singing together

  • @andrewortega7833
    @andrewortega7833 Před rokem +2

    This gona be a juicy one

  • @FiveSubj3x6
    @FiveSubj3x6 Před 11 měsíci

    "Wheather or nor I would let you"
    After this statement is the FIRST time ever I seen Joe get caught off guard lololl
    Mann! So funny lol

  • @BBoyDrkNova
    @BBoyDrkNova Před 8 měsíci

    18:50 is this why Ryan grew out his beard ? lol 😂😂

  • @FiveSubj3x6
    @FiveSubj3x6 Před 11 měsíci

    I love the way you guys end every video

  • @bfgboy2
    @bfgboy2 Před rokem +43

    Wow. The conversation on this topic was quite surprising to me. I've been a JK fan for many years now and I recall the days of Ask the Feels when the topic of platonic relationships was brought up. The crew back then had such strong opinions on the matter, and simply saw it in black & white: "platonic relationships good" end of story. If you were against it, you were just "ensecure" and "immature" about it, no concessions.
    And now while their overall opinion on the matter hasn't changed...the fact that the crew is now capable of not seeing the matter so simply as black & white, and were even capable of providing counterpoints and other perspectives is rather refreshing. It shows a level understanding, growth and experience over the years.

    • @Ecosteven
      @Ecosteven Před rokem +8

      You do realize the cast of people is completely different and maybe only joe was there back then. Lmao

  • @shhv3448
    @shhv3448 Před rokem

    I had to block someone once because they could not be my friend. I told him that I didn’t want anything with him other than friendship and he said he was okay with that. But not long after he “put me on notice” that he wanted to date me. His exact words, “I’m putting you on notice”. I was like if you want to be my friend, then be my friend, quit hitting on me. And I have told my current partner that we cannot be friends because of I was attracted to him when I was dating someone else before we got together.

  • @testing123.
    @testing123. Před rokem

    Ah i needed to hear this

  • @noahmc7804
    @noahmc7804 Před rokem

    So the one of the first parties I had/went to when I moved to FL and was at my roommates friends house for a Halloween party. It was just my ex-roommate his friend and my friend. So we played some drinking games and at one point in the night I gave my friend my phone to invite girls over here. He ended up adding one my friends that’s a girl that I never intended to get with. She was a pen pal from Snapchat. She’s in WI and he’s gone there and she come to visit. He won’t let any guy talk to her, me included. He was going to move into a house with my current roommate and another friend. He stayed in WI for awhile and I rarely hear from him. Is there an exception or was he right?

  • @rithireachthet6417
    @rithireachthet6417 Před rokem

    u guys getting 40% paycut but still laughing i guess thats a daily bonus.

  • @thatvietguyonline
    @thatvietguyonline Před rokem

    Joe is wearing a Tuấn Anh tee 😂

  • @Youknow6969able
    @Youknow6969able Před rokem +2

    You give a fuckable vibe.
    "WHATS GIVING YOU THAT?" ryan gonna go home and train just in case, these snakes are hungry 😅

  • @lionelldalguntas
    @lionelldalguntas Před rokem +3

    Kalyne talking about her to ryan.

  • @pinoyakosumagang
    @pinoyakosumagang Před rokem +1

    🔥🔥🔥episode

  • @JoshuaPark505
    @JoshuaPark505 Před rokem

    I'm dying here😂

  • @sxhxlzxb
    @sxhxlzxb Před rokem +34

    As a female with majority of male friends since my childhood it’s just a lot of explaining when it comes to dating, I always try to introduce them. Ive learnt the insecure ones are always iffy and complains ab it. My other BFs were cool w my guy friends.

    • @-amosc.presley-7192
      @-amosc.presley-7192 Před rokem +1

      You’re lucky.

    • @masst7732
      @masst7732 Před rokem +33

      It's so funny the fact that women think those men just want to be their friend. I guarantee that if you call any of your male friends and ask them "do you want to have sex", they will ALL say yes.

    • @King_Me
      @King_Me Před rokem +18

      A female with majority male friends, there’s a word for that.
      😂😂

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Před rokem +7

      @@King_Me that's not nice, my daughter has always had guy friends and I can guarantee you she's not what ever word you're trying to get at that's disrespectful.

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Před rokem +3

      @@King_Me I mean honestly, why comment at all if you don't have anything nice to say.

  • @zizzybaby3695
    @zizzybaby3695 Před rokem

    Love from Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @couchpotatoe9062
    @couchpotatoe9062 Před rokem

    13:08 that "NO" is so satisfying

  • @CaptainCJ97
    @CaptainCJ97 Před rokem

    1:18 need that as a gift

  • @BurittoSandwich
    @BurittoSandwich Před rokem

    20:51, that's how you know they're good homies

  • @pushingp5193
    @pushingp5193 Před rokem +2

    All these little guys commenting their insecurities, y’all never had female friends in highschool? Or from socializing after uni?

  • @eringutsch
    @eringutsch Před rokem +7

    I mean, I think it is possible. But I've been friends with my guy friends for years now. It's an interesting topic for sure and you guys are hilarious talking about it 🤣

  • @PengxueYG
    @PengxueYG Před 9 měsíci

    14:04 lol steve thinking about anthony lately haha

  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 Před rokem +1

    "Dominate Humbly" 😏

  • @Naing2lin
    @Naing2lin Před rokem

    the face on joes shirt looks funny

  • @mynamesjeffhardly
    @mynamesjeffhardly Před rokem

    We need to clip the gay jokes on Ryan 😆

  • @SnowLilies
    @SnowLilies Před rokem +3

    I only have 1 guy friend that I fully trust, he's younger and like a little brother to me. He's the only one my bf trusts too. Most guys pretend to be my friend and then ghost me or lash out when they realize I'm not going to give them what they want. I've stopped trying to connect, it's not worth the disappointment. It's really hard to get accepted into a female clique so I just don't have friends. It's lonely out here 👍

    • @IvanGoldBit
      @IvanGoldBit Před rokem +1

      Just because he's younger and you feel on top because of your age lol 🤣 and "you" say we are friends doesn't mean he feels the same. I've seen guys wait years for chance men and women can't be platonic friends its just a matter of time for someone to catch feelings. Trust me as random guy all guys want sex some just longer than others watch for the 🐍 and im sure you know 9:13

    • @SnowLilies
      @SnowLilies Před rokem

      @@IvanGoldBit He calls me one of his best friends, we have a mentor type relationship. Are you saying that I shouldn't trust him either? 😂

    • @IvanGoldBit
      @IvanGoldBit Před rokem

      @@SnowLilies He's your friend not mine 😏

  • @Mykeynikey22331
    @Mykeynikey22331 Před rokem

    This discourse always reminds me how blessed I am to have a man be my actual best friend 😅

  • @ourhappyplace791
    @ourhappyplace791 Před rokem +2

    😂😂😂 the whole time

  • @negiihimanshu
    @negiihimanshu Před rokem

    Ryan 🤣🤣🤣 18:50 .... This dude 🤣🤣🤣

  • @otakkuanimegeek7892
    @otakkuanimegeek7892 Před rokem

    Yes.

  • @Phillip-ino
    @Phillip-ino Před rokem

    I just have this feeling Tony is going to bring this up in the Joemalia group

  • @stinkynoodles8312
    @stinkynoodles8312 Před rokem +1

    i feel a little bit about joe because although I'm not attracted to my female friends, I do fantasize about them. But they're all clearly separated in my head because sex and relationships are two separate things to me, and I value relationships more than I value sex. I might lust after everyone, but I would never act on it. I cherish my friendships with people and I think having a deep and emotional connection to them is much better than just being deep inside them. It'd be nice, but so long as I am in control of myself, I would never fuck my friends.

  • @ruchidesai
    @ruchidesai Před 9 měsíci

    13:24 😂😂😂😂

  • @pkruez2089
    @pkruez2089 Před rokem

    Take away, "nedding the dough."

  • @SunnyB_NewPeace
    @SunnyB_NewPeace Před rokem +1

    I've never been that guy myself to be jelly of guy friends since it'd be hypocritical of me since I've always had lots of lady friends myself. I'm also polyamorous and that may be a whole nother topic on its own haha

  • @djford1999
    @djford1999 Před rokem +1

    Yo mama 😂😂

  • @CaptainCJ97
    @CaptainCJ97 Před rokem +1

    As long they don't cross the line I'm fine

  • @n1r1d15
    @n1r1d15 Před rokem +2

    19:07 to 19:22 Ryan and Kaylen talking about each other.?

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Před rokem +1

      Probably, since there are just friends. And there is no denying that they are good looking people, they just are not attracted to each other.

  • @raawger
    @raawger Před rokem +2

    e-reptile-dysfunction

  • @timmyle8741
    @timmyle8741 Před rokem

    joe i need that shirt

  • @CaliburPANDAs
    @CaliburPANDAs Před rokem +9

    Ryan and Joe should start an OnlyFans together 😍

  • @matthewchang954
    @matthewchang954 Před rokem

    I am laughing a lot

  • @AustinJones-qo8dr
    @AustinJones-qo8dr Před 9 měsíci

    I seem ready lubed 😂

  • @donnguyen2517
    @donnguyen2517 Před rokem +2

    Wish we had more perspectives on this topic. Cuz does that mean bi ppl can't have any friends at all?

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 Před 8 měsíci

    She's an adult, I can't control her. But if she does have a bunch of straight male friends, I'd find that weird & probably wouldn't take her serious. Because I don't trust guys, not her

  • @jaydenyoung4851
    @jaydenyoung4851 Před rokem +1

    If she’s known them longer then me aka childhood friends that’s calm

  • @onka3895
    @onka3895 Před rokem +10

    🤔Ryan be lookin' like a snack tho 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @matthewchang954
    @matthewchang954 Před rokem

    This a Hard No . I Agree

  • @KYCN8
    @KYCN8 Před rokem +1

    OTR is my favourite

  • @lil_rata6994
    @lil_rata6994 Před rokem +6

    Im pansexual, so this question confuses me sometimes. Like on the real, I find most people attractive in some way (physically) most of the time so ig from my pov it's just hella control and reflection. also, im poly so like in all my relationships i say from the start that i dont mind what they do during their time just when i get home its us time and it takes A LOT OF TRUST AND CONFIDENCE but still its possible if u find the right people.

  • @jessicalucia1523
    @jessicalucia1523 Před rokem +2

  • @zureai
    @zureai Před rokem

    I don’t know .. I’ve always tried to have female friends but every time they get a Bf they ghost me. I’m like “damn i thought we were homies”. Maybe I’m just young and the women in around ain’t mature enough for that

  • @abrahamzatarain547
    @abrahamzatarain547 Před rokem

    This is probably the truest jk vid that is speaking to me with a sledgehammer.

  • @jk4115
    @jk4115 Před rokem

    16:24 nick is so funny

  • @maximustitan8171
    @maximustitan8171 Před rokem

    Damn funny

  • @harristablizo6848
    @harristablizo6848 Před rokem

    Hahahahahahahahaha

  • @endlessgameone3640
    @endlessgameone3640 Před rokem +2

    It ok until shit happened

  • @IvanGoldBit
    @IvanGoldBit Před rokem +1

    This is the truth 9:14 women know they just love 💘 the attention

  • @angeliquequan4275
    @angeliquequan4275 Před rokem +1

    I’m surprised to see Joe wearing Tuan Anh’s t-shirt. He is a great performer. You guys are hilarious.

  • @shirtdirt1874
    @shirtdirt1874 Před rokem +1

    bro just let them have boyfriends too.

  • @sagathekawaiikilla
    @sagathekawaiikilla Před rokem +6

    Ryan u better b carful it’s a black leather couch back there …….

  • @peterlongac
    @peterlongac Před rokem

    I was cringing in the beginning of the video but by the end it was smooth sailing

  • @Dude-tr6kj
    @Dude-tr6kj Před rokem

    Fuckkkkkkkk no and I haven’t seen the video yet lmfao

  • @negiihimanshu
    @negiihimanshu Před rokem

    More videos like this jk please❤️❤️+ kalyne ❤️❤️

  • @CuongChanster
    @CuongChanster Před rokem

    Partners with multiple opposite sex hanging around all the time is a big red flag for me

  • @Barely___Editing
    @Barely___Editing Před rokem +5

    It’s not chill, NEXT VIDEO.

  • @heralove01
    @heralove01 Před rokem

    nick and ryan yummy