Questions You Would NEVER Ask On A First Date | Honest Dating |
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- čas přidán 2. 06. 2024
- In our brand new series we're getting daters to skip by the small talk and go straight to the deal breaking questions.
How many sexual partners have you had?
Why did your last relationship break up?
Who did you vote for in the last election?
Questions you would never ask on a first date, but why waste time? This is Honest Dating.
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Him: "If she has a job, I'd expect her to offer to pay"
Her: "Soo you don't believe in looking after women??"
Him: "Huh😳 "
That doesn't mean paying for absolutely everything at all times just because you happen to be male.
@@disarmsox some ladies may take that as being chauvanistic??
@@johnnyroadcrew3841 I've had that for leaving a door open for a woman. Now I just slam the door in their face;)
@@disarmsox exactly. I still prefer to be a gentleman and retain some manners despite the feminist stance. I said to one of my female work collegues the other day - Forgive me, i'm not trying to be chauvanistic but may I carry that heavy item for you?" There was no rebuke!! She was struggling.
@@disarmsox ahahahah yeah i wouldn’t call her a feminist though, she clearly sees men and women as unequal but I think the man is a feminist
“Equal, but still the head of the household…. “. wow. Sometimes I think I’m lost
Being the "head of the household" doesn't make you more valuable. Roles are different, but everyone is equally loved in the eyes of God
@@tomjesty3992 shut up
This lady is just deluded. Living in the 50s, but as a feminist
You can be equal partners with someone while they have a more authoritative role. You are equally as valuable as your boss and workers below you, you just have different responsibilities.
@@tomjesty3992 I see what she did there, she wants all the benefits of equality but when it comes to the wallet the man is the head of the household hahaha
Seems like a nice genuine lad definitely the best one of the two....
@mike okisitçiNa that was just an observation and a quite easy one to be honest....
Seemed like a bit of a beta, but otherwise seemed rather chill.
I get that he didnt wanna argue with a labour supporter... anything u say is like water off a ducks back.
“I don’t like talking about politics”
Proceeds to force him into a conversation about politics🤦🏽♀️
A date isn't smalltalk, and if you don't have enough courage to own your views, maybe you should change them.
@@weareallbornmad410 that's ridiculous, he didn't want to talk about politics because she would get angrier and louder while he sat their defending his view silently and she'd attack his morals, she went straight for the rich get richer argument but in any country where people at the top continue to get richer then the quality of life for the working class also increases over time. What would she prefer to tax the rich so they leave and stop employing people?
@@kelvinb16 Yeah exactly I see where she is coming from but her points seemed to stem from party stereotypes rather than being factual
@@kelvinb16 Well, he could have said so. He had zero points to offer, even bad ones like yours. And she had every right to both ask for his views and challenge them. I don't see how you expect to form a relationship without discussing that.
@@weareallbornmad410 you know that it's edited and condensed down, you don't know what they said
His parents should be proud of how they raised him.
Yeah, 20 sexual partners at such a young age. What a stellar man.
especially when they learn there will never be grandkids in their life time
He's a typical neutered no testosterone new-age English guy.
@@pneron2032 Omg! This guys from Europe needs to check their testosterone. Oh Gosh!
@@aak1992 😂😂
Girl let him finish a sentence!😩🤦🏽♀️
Smh it’s terrible
the guy was so genuine and seemed easy to talk to
He sounds soo nice, respectful and down to earth. I could tell that he didnt said no to not make her ashamed or something else. I would date him ❤❤
You read me very well that’s why I said yes at the end
@@yugguy123 is that you in the video??
also i knoooow right!!! i knew it too
@@yugguy123 if it is you, your next girlfriend will be a luck one.
People nowadays dont care about other feelings. It happened the same thing with me, since than politics its a no no. Futebol is a nicer topic 😂😂
I doubt that’s him, the guy in the video said “my name is guy” @0:37
The dude is cool as hell. The woman…..just had different views
Thank you for the 69 likes. Nice 😂
@mike okisitçi i dont get the issue with someone having a political opinion on a which party they choose.. People seem to think that labour is this magical party that will fix all the issues and take money from the rich to give to the poor, like some Robin hood shit.. IIRC they were the ones who brought in the zero hour contracts, they have a history of crippling the economy, when they increase benefits that money comes from tax payers, which believe it or not, stings the poor just as much as the rich.
Tories have some backward way of thinking, but which party doesnt.
Like the guy said, tories have managed to dish out the vaccines insanely fast, yet dont get praised, only picked up on the few mistakes made while handling a pandemic.
I get peoples views on both sides, but this whole " Hate the person because they vote tory " is more toxic then any views a political party could ever have.
@@surething2378 Its not hating, she just wouldn't want to date a guy who has those views but wouldn't want to talk about it. Political views speaks a lot about a person.
@@taahthe7th664 it really upsets me that she acts as if people can only be 100% on one political side. Instantly "you voted tory, so you agree with everthing johnson does?"
What a bullshit. Some people are somewhere in the middle and maybe agree with one party a tiny bit more that the other. So you vote for whom you agree with 51% instead of the 49%. No one said he hates labour.
She instantly jumps on that and tries to bully him on that. Thats the moment i would leave a date. As she said: i got no time for bullshit.
She has traditional views, believed in by 90% of the planet for 99% of history. He is new age post modern yada yada. It's in fashion.
She seems exhausting
I can totally understand why she’s single
Too demanding
First date bring nothing to the table not even an offer to split the bill but a guy should be happy with an L if things don’t progress. #Equalbutiamaprincess
Many women still think men are the problem 😂
@@Darrelledc112 the fact she cares about politics if a turn off. Politics don’t matter
We do too. 😆
When it comes to gender dynamics in the relationship, it should definitely be established on a case by case basis rather than assuming anything nowadays!
This
"You go first" and then says no. Nice
Anyone who does that is narcissistic af
He definitely didn't want a second date but was too scared to say no lmao
She would have told him he was wrong and he doesnt understand that he actually wants to go on a second date.
I felt sorry for him.
I’ll never understand individuals who do not think 50/50 (generally) makes sense. 😭
Especially when its clear there will be no second date.
Pickmeisha alert. 50/50 because 75-25 the moment you move in with a man because studies in Sweden show you will cook, clean, do all the work of a 1950s housewife then are expected to contribute the same income as a man and split the bills, which leads to resentment and a higher divorce rate where most divorces are intiated by women for this reason. Oh and women give birth and take care of children on top, and loose sexual attraction if the man becomes a house husband.
Biology sucks but if you fight it, you lose
@@mariaalmasani lool you spew such nonsense you will stay alone with 500 cats.
Men dont need to be stressed out by your delusion
@@iffysd9864 You red pill rage hypocrites say you don't want a feminist but hate a modern version of your grandmother 5 times harder when you see her when you find out grandfather had to give his life go to war to protect grandmother and pay the bills... that's the price of a feminine woman.
Today women aren't virgins and men aren't expected to go to war. I was, but its not as common. But we don't expect you to die in war for us either.
@@mariaalmasani bullying? 😂😂 if you are actually married please seek therapy to make sure its a happy marriage.
Your partner is not your father you only get one
It’s a no from me. They’re definitely not compatible at all. He seems so lovely and chilled out… bless him.
It seems like she wants to be a "kept" woman....She doesn't believe in taking on any financial responsibilities when she is married?? Red flag! My husband & I both took care of the financial responsibilities. She is living in a dream world. She wants someone to take care of her. Not in this day & age. Equal roles involve equal responsibilities. He is a great guy! I don't think she fits into his lifestyle. She wants a sugar-daddy. Sheesh! :(
Well said Julie 👏🏻
Any financial responsibility?? WHERE DID U GET THAT? SHE SAID DATES. They were talking about dates. And you clearly have no idea who she is.. coz she's doing very well for herself financially - he would be the sugar baby 😂😂 so try again. You're listening and comprehension skills are in the bin.
@@Laura-sg6ss Read everyone else's comments. Clearly you are out-numbered & you don't understand what was being said. Sheesh! 🤦🏻♀️
@@juliemackenzie1978??? It's about what she said in the video. It was about dating. And she is doing well financially. I'm dealing with facts not opinions. "Outnumbered" as if that means anything 😂😂😂 how miserable are you? Craving their validation, do you like people agreeing with you? Does it bring you a sense of normalcy? Do you feel good being part of the crowd or mob? You're strange. Fact, not opinions "Julie." Bye now🙂
@@Laura-sg6ss Apparently...you are the miserable one.
I’m not going to lie this guy seems like a really nice guy. Perhaps further down the line he’d be more open to discussing his views once someone has gotten to know him a bit more as a person - I can understand why he might not have wanted to get into it there and then.
Seems open-minded and polite to me.
He seems like the kind of a "nice guy" that the wife gets frustrated with, resents over time, hates then and divorces.
I’d rather ask / answer these questions than small talk tbh
Never paid for a date... wonder why you are single
I can already smell Aba and Preach reacting to this...
somebody send it them I need aba's reaction haha
I was thinking about them reacting too
They did
That would be right down their alley :)
Interesting cultural differences from people living in the same country. Both lovely. She’s just exposed to a different views and so is he
Editor has a great time putting this together. The lady is living in the 40s.
She has a sense of entitlement that sadly many women have these days
@@disarmsox sad for them lol we Gucci
There are many women who grew up in traditional households because that is their culture. Not everyone wants a 50/50 household and that's okay. Let's stop shaming ppl for their standards. Just find someone whose standards you do meet
It only becomes a problem when *paradoxical claims* are made
For instance, her strong claim that men are women are equal, but men are *inherently* the head of the household.
Like what sort of bullshit is that😂
How are they equal, if you’re assuming a power imbalance🤣
@@CraigBukenya the term head of household is not as paradoxical as you think it is. Real heads of households still revere their wives and value their thought, opinions as well as the work they do in the home. Hate to break it to you but the term itself only holds weight when it's time to do taxes as it just means you are the primary income of the household
that part!!!!
Testosterone is very low in Western Society, so you won't find a lot of men wanting those relationships. I feel bad for wives who have a day job yet end up doing a majority of the housework anyway cause the guy is unable/unwilling.
He’s so nice. He did well to put up with her even for that short amount of time.
Interview was actually 40min the cut it down to 10
It was a hard 40min
Put up??😂😂😂
@@Laura-sg6ss it's a saying which means to tolerate or endure something.
She goes to the same church as me. She brings sweets for all the parishioners every week. Usually sherberts or something lemony.
does she make the priest pay for them as well? xD
“I think men are scary” something tells me she goes for a certain typa guy lol
very interesting video really, half way through you'd say that the girl had quite conservative views of relationships/gender/marriage etc, even slightly religious, and the guy was progressive enough to talk about his views of equality in the same areas and not religious at all. I was pretty stunned when a minute later she's a staunch labour voter and he's a tory voter!
"I'm not materialistic" she says when she's never paid for a date. Lol ok
he’s a child of a man. she’s wonderful 😍
She seems almost critical despite the elevated position.
the way he said “huh” idk it’s funny 😂😂 he cute tho
Dude was chilled
"I don't go on dates because men are creepy".. "I've never paid for date". She's horrible
Forcing him into the conversation when she doesn’t know anything about politics
Good series please do more
This woman kills me she contradicted herself to much here 😂 he seems like a solid down to earth guy
So here we have an open minded easy going guy and a closed minded abrupt woman who won't let differing opinions go. Good luck finding a male echo chamber lady XD
That’s not being closed minded. She has a different opinion regarding what she wants and so does he. Two separate people wanting separate things. It’s closed minded to say “good luck finding someone”... There’s someone for everyone, she’s not your cup of tea so be it. Very contradictory.
@@lianza5859 Most people sooner or later realise their ideal partner either doesn't exist or isn't exactly what they imagined. If there's 100 people in the world who fit everyone's specific requirements, chances are they don't live anywhere near you or don't speak your language lol
I've been with my partner for coming up to 12 years now, I think it's fair to say had I not been open minded she'd have carried on with her day and we'd still be strangers. Being flexible with the things you're looking for is going to serve you much better in life. As long as you're physically attracted to them and their personality isn't incompatible with yours, that's usually all the matters.
None of this is aimed at you BTW, unless you have the same mindset. In that case, call it friendly advice =P
@@lianza5859 your tapped
@@Tribulation88 what closed minded thinking you have
It's a set up... maybe we women should neg men on our shows and cry that men are triggered.
I like sis! keep doing you! the young man can have his own opinions as well, to each his/her own.
He seems like a smart, polite, well rounded guy that's been raised right.... The fact that he doesn't want to discuss politics is him trying to stay platonic and people should not be bullied into a conversation that can turn controversial. Poor guy, she had no respect for boundaries.
She had some weird thoughts about certain topics tbh.
about all tbh
He hit the nail on the head from the start when they talked about politics or she brought it up he said that everybody's going to have their opinions and you know you can't change someone opinion necessarily so he just lets it be and keeps it moving on but she wanted to dig in and keep talking about it and that was one of her major reasons for not being with someone
Why on earth would a decent, chilled out guy want to go on another date with an entitled, demanding, opinionated and highly strung woman like her? She's the type that deserves to be stood up.
Damn😂😂😂
Agree!😂
I was just trying to be nice, looking back that’s my biggest regret saying I would go on another date lol
@@yugguy123 Can deeply understand that regret🤣But that really does just show you're a considerate individual.Who'd rather say yes to someone & save them from possible embarrassment despite them deserving a solid fucking NO👏🏽Lol.
@@mikajulius8148 you do know that isnt him right lol?
She seems to want a meal ticket and to be looked after. Sad women still feel that way
women always felt that... just today people lie
@@mariaalmasani You're delusional.
@@hank-9241 Said every feminist & pick up artist bully when they try to bully people to get their way
I feel bad for the dude, seems like a really soft, nervous guy from a privileged background but conducts himself very well and is open to discussing things and broadening his perspective on the world. The girl is obnoxious and contradicts herself every single sentence just to suit herself and is narrow minded making 0 logical sense with everything she says.
I think you summed it up perfectly
SPITTING
@@purebaldness Thanks man, hope you have a good day.
She is going to find it difficult to find a nice guy. Rigidity in her beliefs will only serve to harm her long term.
what a bad match !! run !! run my dude !!
No wonder this girl is single. Wouldn’t get past the first date. The questions wow
Equal goes both ways. So many people don't understand that.
Not dating someone on their political views and never wanting to pay for anything.
Yeh good luck with marriage
I agree with the part of not dating based on political opinions because political opinions often correlate with morals, unless they just repeat what they’ve grown up with/told and don’t actually believe on a deep level
@@Guy-dv9xw you are correct liberals have no morals
@@kingsalami80 I didn’t want to say it directly but yeah
I would date him in a heartbeat. Men who are open minded and easy to talk to are wonderful. I'm surprised he's a tory, yet she's more conservative than him 😆
Actually when it came to the political part, he became a typical tory. Can't answer questions that need facing.
Read the "Therodore Dalrymple" books
can't answer, or didn't want to?
I think we need more of these☺️
The premisse of this show seems to be "Lets watch what happens when 2 clearly incompatible people are set up!"
The way he says “HUH?” kills me hahaha
The experience over material things is EXACTLY what I've been trying to tell my friends... This is a solid bloke over all.
He answered every question the exact way i would of 🤣. I mean who wants to talk about bloody politics with someone on a date especially! That shit always ends up with a fat argument
Tiana mate, I really hope you find someone that doesn’t mind paying for you for the rest of their lives. Absolutely scandalous way to think about an “equal relationship”, honestly had to stop myself from leaving a really horrible comment. This wound me up so much.
You literally don't know this woman at all and had to 'stop yourself from leaving a really horrible comment'... Mate, log off.
This is actually ,,wow after wow
She is such a red flag 🤢
"I don't believe in religion"
*2 minutes later*
"I can't go on the second date, you have to be Christian"
😂😂🤣🤣
Interesting conversation
If the other person boy or girl expects you to pay and doesn't come prepared to pay that's a red flag. Now if the date is your idea you should pay if it's theirs they should but always be prepared
I met women who almost felt offended when I offered to pay. When I was younger, it was never a question. These days you can't be sure at all. So I am definitely with the guy on this.
He's too chill and softly spoken for her, she's too cool and pretty for him.
I love him so much and I love her relationship with god, so sweet and genuine - love from Jeddah
she was a bit too pushy by the end of the video
Her views are dumb af lol
Well they're more traditional, there's a lot of people who are leaning to the traditional side of things I think 🤷♀️
He was relieved when she said no
4:07 oh no of course mans went so posh ahah
i fw dis guy bruh "HUH" LOOOLOLOL
he was trying to be so nice by saying yes lol
I loouuvvvveeee her outfit 🧡
She's full of red flags
Maybe I am wrong but he seems to be relieved that she didn´t want another date with him.
He is a great guy 💗💯
Why would any woman want to be looked after like that? I really love the fact that feminism is evolving and women get more and more independent every day but the fact that there are women out there who wanna get treated like they live in the 60s gets me really upset
So you don't understand feminism at all then, because it's about a woman's choice, not YOUR choice for her. 🥴
@@normajeane507 I think feminism is about women getting more and more independent. This woman doesn't want to be independent, she wants her boyfriend to fully take care of her so she can never pay. That's not what we humans call independent
@@kostasskoulidas6549 Not everyone wants to be 'independent' meaning just paying their own bills lmao, that's not up to you to decide for them. If someone wants to be taken care of, and a man wants to take care, fair play to them. Think you need to log off and re-evaluate your life.
@@normajeane507 I am not saying that I should decide for her, I am just saying my opinion. Women wanted to be treated like that back in the 60s not in 2021. Instead of going forward she is making steps backwards and I am saying that's wrong for women generally cause it seperates men and women by giving them different roles in the family. "the man takes care of the woman and the woman takes care of the children". I am just saying my opinion, its the same thing for someone being racist and me saying that racism takes us back and that this man shouldn't be racist. If that was the case then you would not say "he should make his own choice" cause you would be in my side. Or you would support that the man should not be bothered cause he should make his own mind even though he is racist? 🤔
@@kostasskoulidas6549 No, women didn't want to be treated like that, they were forced to because they didn't have a CHOICE to a choose a career instead. It's about CHOICE. I don't think you have the mental capacity to grasp that.
from what I can see from this video, she wants equality, when it suits her. when its advantageous to her, then equality is good but when its not (e.g. like when it comes time to pay the bill on a date) then shes totally fine with inequality... which is honestly how i expect most women to think
I agree pay on first. Split on rest. Equality
Look at the mandem trying to be polite by saying he'd want to see her again lolz 😆😜
She is awful, yes. But I want to say: he is very decent and polite.
She basically wants a sugar dadyy..wants all the positives of equality and none of the negatives
this dude saying huh every time is cracking me up lmaoo
Lmao
Him: I’m not materialistic. I would rather take a trip with my friends and make memories than have a $500 coat
Her: yeah i wouldn’t say I’m extremely materialistic either. I would rather take a trip to Bali than have a $500 coat. It’s just the way I am.
Dying at his face 😂 he was mad cool. She was doing too much.
As soon as he said he was tory it was over lol
She poorly articulated herself, nerves perhaps. Certainly not my cup of tea.
He seemed like a genuine lad I'd love to have a beer with
We should be equal but we're not identical.
She is so gorgeous!! 🥰🥰 cute and elegant!!
00:00 all people are equal, except some are more equal than others
He was trying to be nice when he said yes
He is so cute and very nice ❤️
Am looking forward to have a caring and lovely partner.
That old ZZTop line - "She got legs, and knows how to use 'em" .. .. ..
Lol, she just proved his point about not really wanting to discuss poilitics.
She’s the typical London girl thinks the man needs to pay and women can’t pay
All she wanted to do was disagree with everything he said
Universal law 🤣
God, that’s my G lol
The brother is whipped
He dodged a bullet with that one.
THE LAW OF DEMASCUS : We are humans and We shouldn’t base our views on gender sooo speaking on that Men or Women should pay or go half and half . You shouldn’t determine someone based on them paying or not paying it’s all about character