7 Tips to attract the right people socially, professionally and romantically be more approachable
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- čas přidán 1. 07. 2024
- Unlock the secrets to becoming irresistibly approachable with our latest video! From mastering open body language to strategic positioning at social gatherings, we unveil 7 transformative tips that will change the way others perceive you. Plus, discover how simple cues and accessories can make you a conversation magnet. Ready to transform your social presence? Dive in now!
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In this video:
00:20 - The problem: No approachable body language
00:28 - The truth: not showcasing your availability to other people
00:31 - How you can be more approachable
00:41 - Tip #1 Have an open torso
01:05 - Tip #2 Use Croissant feet
01:17 - Tip #3 Stand where people exit getting their drink
02:05 - Tip #4 Use an eyebrow raise
02:15 - Tip #5 Wear a conversation starter
03:25 - Tip #6 Treat people like an old friend
04:04 - Tip #7 Be smile ready
04:43 - Captivate and Cues books
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Well said Vanessa. I really needed to hear this. Looking forward to new uploads from you
I wear a dragonfly necklace at work)as a tour director) and I have my guests and complete strangers come up and comment on it. I say my friend gave it to me and also share a couple random facts about dragonflies. Works great, but I never consciously thought of this as a social tactic.
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THANK YOU, Vanessa! I like these tips. They make so much sense.
Amazing! Very trueee
Hey Vanessa! Thank you 😊😊
My name is Yvonne, and I'm team Ravenclaw!
Can you add sections to your CZcams video.
I wear a useless key in my pocket that always looks like its gonna fall out and people love to approach to save the day lol create abit of mystery
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8. Take your nose off that screen and put down your cell phone, join the real world!
9. Be present! Make eye contact and hold that gaze for a second longer than you would normally do.
10. Smile ready? A slight smirk and the look away, projects confidence and intrigue. Nothing is more attractive than that!
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How to be approachable as a woman: Throw the entire concept out the window and approach people instead. There's no reason why women need to wait around and be rescued. Go after what you want.
2. So basically manspreading lol
I dont care enough to approach people...its so much work to engage...I turn it on when I have to and shut down when I get at home...I got my core people and that's all i need...so exhausting we spend so much time learning how to make connections with people instead of the quality the work they do...what you teach seems so fake
Dumb ways to think
Just make the move yourself
This video was targeting women who want to be more approachable.
Guys are horrible in that if a woman does the approaching, they go right to, "maybe she wants to get laid!" thinking.