too close to home | DAHMER [1x3] (REACTION)

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  • @icha6od
    @icha6od Před rokem +919

    Dahmer himself said that he was, in fact, “born this way”. But what I appreciate about this show is how it shows the absolute perfect storm of inherited mental illness, abandonment, isolation, loneliness, repressed sexuality, family dysfunction and alcoholism that, while maybe not having “made” Dahmer, certainly contributed to his psyche.

    • @arminarlert1953
      @arminarlert1953 Před rokem +67

      Damn right he might be born that way, perhaps but certainly his origin surely contributed more of what he had become.

    • @i_yasuke_i1542
      @i_yasuke_i1542 Před rokem

      Well said…there are ppl that are born with a mental disease/disorder similar to Dahmer’s but if the ppl around you notice that and treat you with love and compassion some of them can contain themselves

    • @Johan590
      @Johan590 Před rokem

      @biibiib buubuub I don't

    • @TheAdamChaney
      @TheAdamChaney Před rokem +29

      @biibiib buubuub Don’t worry about that guy. He’s calling Dahmer “the goat” saying he should’ve been freed and that we’re all just soft. Just an attention seeker.

    • @Johan590
      @Johan590 Před rokem

      @@TheAdamChaney no I'm serious you are soft

  • @LadyGinga1
    @LadyGinga1 Před rokem +745

    The brother did in fact change his name and phased out of the public light and no one knows his new name or what he’s up to … good for him

    • @delusionalblews
      @delusionalblews Před rokem +123

      I’d do the same thjng

    • @Averagedrummer00pt
      @Averagedrummer00pt Před rokem +61

      Unless he is doing the same things and no one knows👀

    • @buzzardbeatniks
      @buzzardbeatniks Před rokem +96

      I assume walking through life with the name Dahmer would be similar to having the name Hitler. Even if you weren't closely related the reactions would get old real fast.

    • @marcusparks9771
      @marcusparks9771 Před rokem +11

      @@Averagedrummer00pt 😳

    • @marcusparks9771
      @marcusparks9771 Před rokem +2

      @@buzzardbeatniks my parents are good friends with a couple whose last name is Dahmer.

  • @ryanzone3126
    @ryanzone3126 Před rokem +295

    The amount of times the justice system does Jeff a favour so not to "ruin his life" is sickening...

    • @phanatic215
      @phanatic215 Před rokem +27

      The show does a good job of highlighting the complete negligence of officials that kept giving Dahmer the benefit of a second chance.

    • @nappyk96
      @nappyk96 Před rokem

      It's insane the type of shit you could get away with back in the day with the power of white privilege.

    • @isabelvalentine
      @isabelvalentine Před rokem +6

      Goes to show why no one should be considered above reproach. It can open the way for continued and even worse horros

    • @altairtodescatto
      @altairtodescatto Před rokem +4

      I got it, but imagine fucking every one up because a guy sliped up in the past. Tis is just an extreme exemple, but you got draw a line between total control and slack on the police side. Both ways can end in a dahmer situation.

    • @michaelterrell2108
      @michaelterrell2108 Před rokem

      Can’t qwhite put my finger on it.

  • @paijmarshall7263
    @paijmarshall7263 Před rokem +259

    Jeffreys brother did change his name & the last known thing of him was he graduated from college in Cincinnati,ohio in 1991 & as of 2004 he was married with two kids. Lionel (Jefferys dad) is still alive & lives in Ohio. He actually helped with this show
    Love your reactions!!!.

    • @kxanz_
      @kxanz_ Před rokem +8

      down in ohio, swag like ohio

    • @weepingwillows21
      @weepingwillows21 Před rokem +12

      I was actually wondering about Lionel. I did read that Joyce died back in 2000.

    • @lanzi_xo
      @lanzi_xo Před rokem +11

      How do you know Lionel helped out with the show? I tried looking into that but didn't see anything about it. I did, however, see that he might sue Netflix for "glamorizing" the victims' murders. So if he helped with the show, that's super confusing to me. I don't think the show glamorizes anything, it just sheds light on what happened imo.

    • @earlgreymilktae
      @earlgreymilktae Před rokem +3

      actually I dont think Netflix contacted Lionel about this show?

    • @pink994
      @pink994 Před rokem +1

      Did the dad get paid ?

  • @mikemullen472
    @mikemullen472 Před rokem +252

    The scary thing is is that dahmers side of the stories are all we'll ever know.

    • @prodigalbrock
      @prodigalbrock Před rokem +71

      But they're backed up by officers confirming all these things. Jeffrey hated what he was in every way possible. He admitted everything in detail so I actually believe his accounts

    • @mikemullen472
      @mikemullen472 Před rokem +8

      @@prodigalbrock I think I do too

    • @alex_n215
      @alex_n215 Před rokem +17

      @@prodigalbrock I wouldn’t trust his account completely. That Dean Hughes guy we saw in the series was found dead in his apartment in 1991 and Jeffrey said he didn’t kill him. It’s still a cold case today.
      He also claimed that he killed Tony the night he met him yet Tony’s friends and family say he knew Jeff for a long time.
      Also read up on what he did while he was in the military according to other comrades of his, a lot was left out of the series and he didn’t admit to everything.

    • @beepy409
      @beepy409 Před rokem +13

      @@alex_n215 I don't really think he did anything to Dean personally. It doesn't fit the way Jeff killed at all. It's a low income community with lots of shady folks around, coincidences do occur But yea his account isn't entirely trustworthy I agree there.

    • @henrikmarkus5046
      @henrikmarkus5046 Před 7 měsíci

      he even wanted the death penalty
      @@prodigalbrock

  • @kernaishaxoxo
    @kernaishaxoxo Před rokem +166

    I also think he was always going to do it. He had a lot of the signs of a psychopath (soon to be serial killer) but what kills me on Jeffrey’s part (who I hate because he targeted so many POC knowing society at that time did not care about them whatsoever) is that you’ll see there were several times he actually asked for help or began to plead that something was wrong and he felt it but he got shut down at every turn. So by the time he was full blown sociopathic killer he had shut himself down.
    This could’ve been stopped at so many different points, it’s heartbreaking.
    Loving the reaction and discussions

    • @blackcatbrewz
      @blackcatbrewz Před rokem +39

      But Dahmer wasn’t a psychopath. They tested him for this and he failed the test. He actually had severe borderline personality disorder

    • @kernaishaxoxo
      @kernaishaxoxo Před rokem +9

      @@blackcatbrewz that’s interesting. I had always thought he was psychopathic because the animal killing and the sadistic compulsions! Thanks!

    • @blackcatbrewz
      @blackcatbrewz Před rokem +36

      @@kernaishaxoxo youre welcome! Yeah he was tested for that and failed. I also don’t think he was actually a sadist. He also did seem to possess empathy because he drugged and then strangled his victims so they couldn’t feel anything. He was diagnosed for BPD and I think also schizophrenia and lots of people think he was autistic too

    • @nappyk96
      @nappyk96 Před rokem +7

      It's up to the individual whether they want to believe him or not obviously but I just wanna point out the real life Jeffery Dahmer said he didn't care about the race of the victim it was always about looks for him.

    • @nappyk96
      @nappyk96 Před rokem +11

      Also the scene like what you mentioned that really got me (and really the only time I actually empathized with his situation during this) was the Dinner scene in I believe episode 4.
      When he's with his dad and his stepmom and is seemingly trying to confess to the Steven Hicks murder and the feelings he'd been having and his dad just shuts him down (I think because he thinks Jeff is about to tell him he's gay) with the idea of going to Ohio State god I really hope that scene was fabricated for the sake of making it more dramatic cause if not that's so fucking depressing to think there were so many times so early on people could of stopped this and didn't.

  • @lpspurplesmurf23
    @lpspurplesmurf23 Před rokem +79

    They did in fact find Steven's remains behind Jeff's house, if only the cops had arrested him back in 78:(

    • @yoda9256
      @yoda9256 Před rokem +22

      they found his remains bc he told them where they were at after he was arrested… otherwise they never would’ve known.

    • @Smiley0.1
      @Smiley0.1 Před rokem

      @@yoda9256 jeez, so was the way Steven Hicks was killed just how people speculate he was killed? Because it happened so long after Jeff's arrest.

    • @yoda9256
      @yoda9256 Před rokem +2

      @@Smiley0.1 jeffrey told them how he killed Hicks. it’s not speculated, it’s assumed that Jeffrey was telling the truth.

    • @Smiley0.1
      @Smiley0.1 Před rokem +3

      @@yoda9256 true, but I mean like we only have Dahmer's word on it, no solid proof because it happened so long ago.
      But he doesn't seem the type to lie so meh.

  • @isabelvalentine
    @isabelvalentine Před rokem +234

    I'm no expert but I was raised by parents who grew up in this era and this is a VERY ACCURATE depiction of what life and culture was like in the 50's and 60's, from making fun of mental illness, toxic masculinity to hush it up and dont talk about it mentality" and educational dissections 🤷‍♀️😬

    • @lauramac90
      @lauramac90 Před rokem +6

      Explains my papa so much ❤️

    • @Johnnybomb1
      @Johnnybomb1 Před rokem +6

      @Wicker 2 For the worse too.

    • @samanthaparmley1386
      @samanthaparmley1386 Před rokem +11

      But this was the 70s, 80s, and early 90s

    • @nappyk96
      @nappyk96 Před rokem +7

      It still blow's my mind as someone who grew up in the 2000's and 2010's that there was ever a time that they'd just let teenagers buy all the alcohol they want no questions asked.

    • @isabelvalentine
      @isabelvalentine Před rokem +1

      Yep 18 was legal age in the states until the mid 80s I think

  • @ahmedzone1233
    @ahmedzone1233 Před rokem +89

    I can't wait for you guys to see episode 6 so emotional 😭

  • @chica8630
    @chica8630 Před rokem +55

    You guys make the awkward scenes so much better 😂

  • @martymcyourflysdown6872
    @martymcyourflysdown6872 Před rokem +87

    Dahmer really was like the serial killer version of Napoleon Dynamite. I binge watched this whole show in 2 days and it was phenomenal, The guy who plays Dahmer deserves an Oscar and the production team did an amazing job at setting the tone and recreating it almost perfectly. I have to rate this show 10/10.

    • @dylankennedy6020
      @dylankennedy6020 Před rokem +12

      Check out AHS Cult. Evan Peters is such a good actor

    • @joy2850
      @joy2850 Před rokem +7

      @@dylankennedy6020 any AHS with Evan Peters is good tbh

  • @Just_Plain_SteveENT
    @Just_Plain_SteveENT Před rokem +14

    Dahmer is definitely an imperfect storm of nature and nurture. Plus. He could have been caught multiple times. Some speculate that he had supernatural guardian "angels" that prevented him from being caught. My personal opinion... he got away with so much due to the police department's relationship with the community. If this happened in this generation, he would have been arrested sooner and many lives would have been saved.. It is really heart breaking on the what if's.

    • @hollie5099
      @hollie5099 Před rokem

      He moved to a predominantly black neighbourhood because he knew as a white guy there was less chance of him getting caught.

  • @Subjectivity13
    @Subjectivity13 Před rokem +21

    4:40 I think one of these guys made the comic book "My Friend Dahmer" about various stories from when they went to high school together. Apparently there was another even angrier mentally ill guy at that high school at the time, but as far as anyone knows, he never killed anyone. It was a pretty good comic, but didn't have a continuous story to it. Just a series of random scenes from all the times they interacted with him, saw him drinking around school, and times he creeped them out. 16:00 Yes, that absolutely happened. Most serial killers almost get caught several times, and only continue getting away with murder because the police are stupid or lazy, and usually don't care about the gay men or sex workers who are their victims.

  • @prometheussilver
    @prometheussilver Před rokem +32

    I finally finished the show and I need more therapy after everything

  • @krystiesherry2975
    @krystiesherry2975 Před rokem +23

    The cops did a horrible job time after time after time

    • @americanskeptic138
      @americanskeptic138 Před rokem

      Their awful track record is why I don't blindly "bAcK tHe BluE"...
      Most government workers and middle management are lazy and inept. I generalize because that's the general experience. The ones who do well are the exemptions to the rule.
      Most cases are "solved" by snitches, sloppy perpetrators making obvious missteps or evidence unearthed decades later.
      The only thing that they're good for are writing traffic citations and history reports.

  • @BenMosesGames
    @BenMosesGames Před rokem +9

    I’m surprised no one outed the little brothers new name if he changed it,… like he went to grade school and probably college with Dahmer as a last name,… people must know the little brother from his childhood

  • @mlove8158
    @mlove8158 Před rokem +7

    I was thinking this ain’t real too but remember this was the 70/80’s he could literally get away with it

  • @repo2355
    @repo2355 Před rokem +23

    Really enjoying your reactions! Excited for the next one! Glad I found your channel👍

  • @weepingwillows21
    @weepingwillows21 Před rokem +6

    It's pretty well documented from what I've seen so far. Now, I'm a late 80's baby. Grew up in the 90s. When Tracy got out, I was only 3, so I'm just now learning the story. It's so eerie how similar Evan sounds to Dahmer. It's so exact. He's nailed it.

  • @BintyMcFrazzles
    @BintyMcFrazzles Před rokem +10

    Whilst I don't feel sorry for Dahmer as such, he's very self-aware, he knows what he's doing and how wrong it all is and tries to reach out, but he's either ignored or pushed away.

  • @roomie1120
    @roomie1120 Před rokem +27

    It said there is no evidence that the hernia surgery would have primarily caused his violent tendencies. However I believe very strongly the hernia stunted his emotional development from age 4. Think about it, he shows as having the social mentality of a child, all his one sided responses. Much like his parents, it's not 100% the reason, but it is a puzzle piece for sure.

    • @BRIDGECO1
      @BRIDGECO1  Před rokem +11

      I just finished editing episode 5 and Bridgette brought up how much of a child he was acting like to his grandma. You might be right!

    • @shemari0129
      @shemari0129 Před rokem +3

      I have a friend who told me that after a surgery, to remove tonsils I think, her young cousin became stunted. He didn't become a murderer, but he seemed to stop maturing emotionally and intellectually.

  • @chinasamue
    @chinasamue Před rokem +14

    That scene he get pulled over by the cops is real! It’s not made up! He did encounter the cops that night and had the perfect excuse to get away. 😔

  • @TheAdamChaney
    @TheAdamChaney Před rokem +26

    Loving these reactions. I think of all the serial killers I’ve heard of and watched documentaries on, Dahmer is the one that disturbed me the most. I had nightmares about him when I was younger. 😬

    • @Johan590
      @Johan590 Před rokem

      lol ur just soft

    • @gloomeshroome6367
      @gloomeshroome6367 Před rokem +3

      Imma have nightmares after the fish gut scene and how he liked cutting open the pig we gotta cut them open in science and we’ve only ever opened hearts now I’m gonna feel ashamed for thinking science is cool

    • @aaronatkinson177
      @aaronatkinson177 Před dnem

      I personally found him the most interesting on a straight physiological level 🤔 😳

  • @ClutchtheGod
    @ClutchtheGod Před rokem +4

    This is definitely a chilling series, it goes in depth with the victims story and it’s just sad, it gets more sick, keep up the great reactions!

  • @juliasugarbaker9032
    @juliasugarbaker9032 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I had to dissect a frog in 7th grade. We were split into teams of 4 and luckily I didn’t have to cut it myself. Afterward the teacher made one person from each group take the frogs home and boil them and bring back the skeleton the next day. She then assigned each group a historical figure and the lucky ones not chosen to boil the frog were asked to make a costume for the frog skeleton. Somehow, I got through the whole assignment only having to make a top hat for the Abraham Lincoln frog skeleton. As if all of that wasn’t already bad enough, those frog skeletons sat in the trophy case in the hallway for the rest of the year.

    • @tb5461
      @tb5461 Před 6 měsíci

      I sometimes felt the educative system in my country is pure shit in front of american education, but read this things... i dont know what to thing actually

    • @juliasugarbaker9032
      @juliasugarbaker9032 Před 6 měsíci

      @@tb5461 😂 This was not normal. My teacher for that class was very strange, and possibly a psychopath.

    • @tb5461
      @tb5461 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@juliasugarbaker9032 there's phsyco teachers around the world i think

  • @DailyDoseOfRandomLogic
    @DailyDoseOfRandomLogic Před rokem +7

    Keep it coming..love you guys.

  • @robertjohnson3128
    @robertjohnson3128 Před rokem +6

    His dad said he used to have dreams and fantasies about killing people when he was young

  • @savannahhoosier5276
    @savannahhoosier5276 Před rokem +62

    I'm a horror/true crime fanatic and I found this series to be super creepy and disturbing.

  • @yossyxo
    @yossyxo Před rokem +8

    I love your reactions ❤

  • @velvetrooster5569
    @velvetrooster5569 Před rokem +4

    The Truth Is Out There… with e X-Files music. I was laughing so hard.

  • @peanutbutterbruv
    @peanutbutterbruv Před rokem +4

    Dennis Neilson was similar killer operating in London in the 1980s. David Tennant starred in a drama about the investigation called Des. I'd love to see you review it.

  • @rln3325
    @rln3325 Před rokem +6

    I'm enjoying your reactions. keep it comming.

  • @dajuanyaburton7442
    @dajuanyaburton7442 Před rokem +8

    I have actually dissected a pig but it wasnt until college. In high school we did a worm a shark and a frog. I am not a murderous being but I did really enjoy being in the lab doing all of those things. I see some people who said they were required to do the assignment. In my experience there was always some people who didn’t want to do it and they were always able to sit out !

    • @tb5461
      @tb5461 Před 6 měsíci

      Wait... shark?

    • @dajuanyaburton7442
      @dajuanyaburton7442 Před 6 měsíci

      Hunny, that is a smell you will never forget. The hallways smelled like it for dayssssss. It was a tiny baby shark lol.

  • @idefkatp
    @idefkatp Před rokem +2

    yea yall should keep going

  • @guscarlson7021
    @guscarlson7021 Před rokem +4

    A beautiful flower can spring up out of a garbage heap, but occasionally, it vomits up a monster.

  • @jerryandbeau
    @jerryandbeau Před rokem

    I went to the US (Louisiana) in 1998 as an exchange student. They also made us dissect frogs in science class. It was quite an experience because we didn’t have that back in my high school in my home country. My American lab partner was just like the girl in this series. She didn’t wanna do it and I ended up doing it all by myself😅

  • @coolnormalandwelladjusted

    They still do dissections in school. I did a frog, worm, clam, squid, and rat. But this was in a zoology class so that’s probably why we did so many.

    • @alfonsokabob4910
      @alfonsokabob4910 Před rokem

      In grade school we did worms, frogs, and starfish. There was a virtual option tho

  • @carriesmith742
    @carriesmith742 Před 8 měsíci

    I was on a serial killer kick when this came out so I was burned out and couldn't watch it at the time, but I recently saw a Hollywood Round Table with Tom Hanks, Robert DeNiro, Jamie Fox, Evan Peters, Shaia LeBouf and Adam Sandler. Evan Peters went into great detail about his preparation for the role. after that and learning that he won an Emmy for it, I had to watch it. I dissected a frog in 5th, 7th and 9th grade. We also did a crayfish and earthworm.

  • @Anths_art
    @Anths_art Před rokem

    3:34 LMFAOO ME TOOOO except i live with my parents so i made a mad dash to lock my door the second i realized what Jeff was doin

  • @debbiedig-awan4373
    @debbiedig-awan4373 Před 9 měsíci +1

    This is crazy that actually it's blowing my

  • @charchits_os
    @charchits_os Před rokem +2

    I really feel very bad for Jeff, of all the serial killers, he is by far the most interesting and inspiring. I would have loved to stay with him for some time.

    • @aaronatkinson177
      @aaronatkinson177 Před dnem

      I understand him that doesn't excuse what he did but I still understood him

  • @kayleighegerton
    @kayleighegerton Před rokem +2

    I watched this whole series and I had a migraine after it...honestly, beautifully done and evan peters nailed the role but it's a deep, intense watch, and it's hard at times, I cried a few times through it x

  • @rexperez6996
    @rexperez6996 Před rokem +1

    16:47 lmao the way she looked at him

  • @cathycat4989
    @cathycat4989 Před rokem +4

    The thing is, now that we do know what signs to look for, there have been steps taken to prevent serial killers from developing. Given, lower income communities have less access, and the results are often high functioning individuals who abuse in other ways or just alienate everyone over time. The big signs for serial killers in early childhood include trauma to the head or surgery where something went wrong (brain damage due to anesthesia). There's bed wetting into the teen years, but also setting fires (not like building camp fires, but lighting up a field or burning a beloved plant or something) and of course, torturing animals. Now, when it comes to animals, it can be complicated. Lots of kids grow up fishing, myself included, and don't kill anything but fish. It's really the socially unacceptable animal violence that is the indication, knowing society would frown at something, but doing it anyway. Also, interest in anatomy or even taxidermy can be a healthy hobby for kids, but it needs to be emphasized that respect for life is vital. Teaching a kid that yeah, bodies and anatomy are cool and they can ask questions is important, as well as teaching empathy.
    High functioning sociopaths generally know what will get them arrested, so attempt to avoid those behaviors. The reason you don't hear about the one's who start to show serial killer signs but don't go on to be one, is simply that successes like that don't make the news. Yay, we diverted a future killer by making him a dentist. Huzzah. Let's look at something depressing now.
    Speaking of depressing, thanks for this episode. Liked your reactions and I hope that you continue this series

    • @yoda9256
      @yoda9256 Před rokem +2

      dahmer wasn’t a sociopath or a psychopath

    • @cathycat4989
      @cathycat4989 Před rokem +1

      @@yoda9256 that may be true. I was using the terms more loosely to describe lack of empathy or displays of aberrant behavior. I've heard it said that the better description for Dahmer would have been antisocial personality disorder. The fact is, many of the traits of APD overlap with sociopathy.
      Thanks for posting that out. Rather than going back and editing my comment I will let this mistake remain so that others may learn from it.
      Thanks, dude.

  • @Wandafully_Wanda
    @Wandafully_Wanda Před rokem +1

    I also had to do frog disection in Biology, in 8th grade. But we could team up, my partner did the frog stuff, I wrote the paper.

  • @krishnaclips108
    @krishnaclips108 Před rokem +11

    powerful and disturbing series

  • @angelalurtz3638
    @angelalurtz3638 Před rokem +13

    I dissected a fetal pig in high school, just like them. definitely couldn't take it home though, we had to study from our diagrams lol. my mom dissected a cat and did actually sneak it home to study, but she's not a killer 😆

    • @peanutbutterbruv
      @peanutbutterbruv Před rokem +6

      I dunno... if I were a police offer I'd be looking into mama Lurtz 😉

    • @TeganRhodes
      @TeganRhodes Před rokem

      We got to dissect a cat in the 90s. Not a regular science class, specifically Anatomy & Physiology, mostly Srs, a few Jrs in the classroom. If we found fetal kittens or any internal parasite we were to carefully remove them for preservation. That’s how the Biology lab got a lot of its specimens (in addition to farm kids bringing in their weird finds, like a two faced lamb)

    • @prod.hollwhouse
      @prod.hollwhouse Před rokem

      He stole the fetal pig from class after school he said so In an interview

  • @suthius85
    @suthius85 Před rokem +2

    Yeah we dissected frogs AND baby pigs in Biology (circa late 90s/early 2000s)

    • @kentk2215
      @kentk2215 Před rokem +1

      In 80s, I dissected frog in 8th grade, fetal pigs in Biology I (10th) and adult cats in Biology II (11th).

  • @mattlawrence1932
    @mattlawrence1932 Před rokem +3

    His father said to just think of the fish as a woman because he knew Jeff liked men & he didn't want him to be a homosexual, he had enough problems with his marriage already & his job being extremely stressful that he just wanted his son to be as normal as possible & wanted him to like girls like normal men & just want Jeff to be normal & live a normal life but he still loved & supported his son even after he discovered that his teenage son only liked men because he loved him & wanted him to be happy regardless & obviously he didn't expect the news of insanity that he learned about his son in 1991 when Jeff got caught but he still loved him & still tried to still be a loving father even after Jeff went to prison!!!!! His father was a very strong man & obviously got a real raw deal thanks to his wife & obviously his son Jeff💯 it's kind of sad when u think about it because most ppl only thing about the killer or the victims or the victims families or even the police & media but nobody really cares about or gives any sympathy to the killers own family that still actually loved the evil monster of a person!!!! It's a colossal mindfuck of a situation to be in not just because u feel guilt for your son becoming a monster & ended up the way he did or guilt for the victims he brutally Murdered and the guilt towards they're families because it was they're son that ruined so many lives but also because they get blamed for it & they get constantly harassed daily for the evil deeds that they're son did & they get used by the media & worst of all , they know that they're son will always haunt them because of what he has done!!!!!

  • @donovanmckinley2844
    @donovanmckinley2844 Před rokem

    Lmaooo bruh that's crazy at 3:11 man's hit his vape at the same moment as me. To top it I got the same one 😂😂

  • @dawidekosrs896
    @dawidekosrs896 Před rokem +5

    Jeff always left his brother alone. Thing about him he knows what he does is wrong. But he does it because of an overriding desire. This is something he wanted his brother to see nothing of.

  • @guscarlson7021
    @guscarlson7021 Před rokem +4

    "The Deliberate Stranger" Mark Harmon as Ted Bundy. Unforgettable.

  • @lanzi_xo
    @lanzi_xo Před rokem

    OMG when he flushed the remains, I wonder how that effected the water system and if any ne got sick after that in that area. 🤢

  • @jesse23chndlr
    @jesse23chndlr Před rokem +4

    since I don't have netflix I was wondering if they go in his military story as well because just adds to his really screwed up story

    • @arminarlert1953
      @arminarlert1953 Před rokem +6

      Yep. Where he drugged and abuse his classmates and eventually discharged cos of drinking . Most of his life were tackled as well as the victims POV.

  • @alishaharper5860
    @alishaharper5860 Před 10 měsíci

    We had to dissect a frog in 8th grade which I refused to do. I actually have a video yearbook that shows kids jabbing a frog in class. Super weird. Now it’s done on the computer I think.

  • @KristinaEspinoza
    @KristinaEspinoza Před rokem +4

    So uhm...I had to dissect a pregnant cat at my high school (my group's cat was the only one who was pregnant). I'm beginning to feel like we were the only ones who did this since I haven't met anyone else with a similar experience. The teacher even took out the fetus and I remember just gagging.
    Update: Found out it's common in medical schools - however, they usually keep the male and female cats separate to avoid pregnancies. I have a faint memory of my teacher telling us our cat had "a very special surprise" when we found out it had a baby.

  • @MrCzerillo
    @MrCzerillo Před rokem

    I can't speak for where he lived, but drunk driving wasn't even illegal in Florida until 1986.

  • @rumham7466
    @rumham7466 Před rokem +2

    Yea in 5th grade they made us dissect frogs. This was back in 1991 or 1992. Even as a child I knew it was wrong for me. I remember being uncomfortable about it. And I said I didn’t want to do it. They told me I had to. Which is fcked up. I remember just half assing it and not really doing much. Kinda messed up to try and force kids to do that.

  • @belbibolbo
    @belbibolbo Před rokem +3

    i personally feel like if jeffery got the help, god forbid , the 70’s-80’s (even now sadly) where mental help wasn’t where it needed to be. if system didn’t fail him and the system didn’t fail the victims , they would all be alive and probably living their lives well . Rest in Peace to the victims and i hope the victims families are at peace (even tho this show came out)

  • @greenerin5062
    @greenerin5062 Před rokem +1

    I lived 5 blocks from Dahmer's grandmother's house for 10 years. I didn't know that until watching this series. Yikes man.

  • @eddiejames4236
    @eddiejames4236 Před rokem +1

    Even peters terrifies me

  • @persephonessong
    @persephonessong Před rokem +3

    He named his little brother and he changed that name really quick heck I would have too omg it's just scary 😨

  • @MunkeeFWRrng
    @MunkeeFWRrng Před rokem +6

    This brings up the nature vs. nurture argument. I personally believe he wasn’t born into becoming this, not entirely at least. I believe his horrible upbringing and lack of access to mental health care is what ultimately made him into the monster he became. He had the pre deposition, but lets be frank so do a lot of other people yet they don’t act upon it. At the end of the day, he is entirely responsible for his own actions. I do, however believe it’s part of the explanation of how he became what he was. Not an excuse, but an explanation. I can’t help but to wonder if his childhood had been different and he had help that maybe those 17 young men would still be alive.

    • @JerseyBoy489
      @JerseyBoy489 Před rokem

      Yea totally normal to eat people. Makes perfect sense 😂😂

    • @yoda9256
      @yoda9256 Před rokem +4

      @@JerseyBoy489 where did he even say it was “normal”

    • @JerseyBoy489
      @JerseyBoy489 Před rokem

      @@yoda9256 He implied it. Do you grow learning how to eat people?

    • @yoda9256
      @yoda9256 Před rokem +5

      @@JerseyBoy489 no one does. dahmer acknowledged this himself….

    • @JerseyBoy489
      @JerseyBoy489 Před rokem

      @@yoda9256 exactly So nurture argument doesn't make sense

  • @shj00x
    @shj00x Před rokem

    we dissected frogs and pigs in high school and that was 2013 2015 lol

  • @mrcardenas2947
    @mrcardenas2947 Před rokem

    Omg episode 6 broke me.

  • @hlockeyLFC7
    @hlockeyLFC7 Před 10 měsíci +1

    What I think is yes the show explains very well that his father did mention things to him as a child that creep up later and he was diagnosed with different psychological conditions but there was true evil inside him. When you hear about the things he did in prison to just pass the time to entertain himself, the last guy to nearly be his victim he literally told him he would eat his heart, imagine what he told to the other victims, he didn’t have to do this. The way in which he went out and lied to his victims to get them to his flat and how he could manipulate the people around him was just vile. We’ve all had times where feel alone, abandoned by the people who should never do it but it happens. It’s also so bizarre how much he messed up all the chances he had in his life, it’s almost pathetic how incompetent he was. School, university, army, jobs. It’s almost like all he cared about was getting drunk and acting out his compulsions which a lot of people do his compulsions were just to an vile extreme. It’s like even up to his first victim you could sympathise with this lonely child who was so lonely he lashed out and did this awful thing but everything after that he should have grown the hell up and bared his pain and done something positive about it. He loved what he did, he was a very disturbed selfish man.

  • @77Creation
    @77Creation Před rokem +5

    Had that cop done his damn job and busted a drunk driver, 16 lives could have been saved.

    • @hbk314
      @hbk314 Před rokem +1

      Sadly that was the time they lived in. OWI wasn't enforced at anywhere close to the level that it is today.

    • @wraithje
      @wraithje Před 4 měsíci

      i dont think small areas a young man drunkenly taking a midnight drive would get in much trouble anyway.. now or then.. depending what kind of cops aswell ofc@@hbk314

  • @xcarnage3936
    @xcarnage3936 Před rokem +1

    "you never once let me helped you with your projects that you do with your father".-mrs Dahmer. First off, you're the one that complained about how the dad never spent time with Jeff, and now you're pissed cause they didn't include you? Second, you wouldn't have want to be part of something like that anyway. This woman was straight up bat shit crazy

  • @elroye1373
    @elroye1373 Před rokem +1

    ik this is off topic but y'all should check out bullet train, really entertaining flick js came out on digital

  • @mscurvy
    @mscurvy Před rokem +15

    She was having issues before she got pregnant so I don’t buy post partum depression.

  • @alesilva8909
    @alesilva8909 Před rokem +4

    Is real. Yep

  • @m1k3l1f3
    @m1k3l1f3 Před rokem +1

    just saw episode 6 tonight. guys, it really is a gut punch. Be ready because I was not.
    not saying that episodes 4 and 5 arent good, they are.

  • @gabrialdelossantos4429

    The final trailer for Halloween Ends is out

  • @Truth_Seeker96
    @Truth_Seeker96 Před rokem

    4:25 lmfao 😂😂😂😂

  • @Antriksh.G
    @Antriksh.G Před rokem +1

    Children's are the reflection of their parents and Jeffery is the perfect example of this

    • @Keke_Poutri
      @Keke_Poutri Před rokem +1

      Joyce (Jeffrey's mom) = Irrational emotional unstable
      Lionel (Jeffrey's dad) = Has liking towards the science of animals' organs (and teached it to his son), that's already weird enough
      Environment = Neglection and emotional trauma from a broken home, bullying.
      Jeffrey was a mix of broken mess from all of those things.

  • @tarikaracanoglu
    @tarikaracanoglu Před rokem +1

    The brother did in fact change his name but ı gues he is now 40 and 50 years old he has two kids

  • @cielkate
    @cielkate Před rokem

    Watching the Dahmer series is eerie and intense at the same time makes me sick watching every scene but I had to stay strong for it

  • @SpyvsPie
    @SpyvsPie Před rokem +1

    8:11 i was laughing so hard

  • @dinkdonk
    @dinkdonk Před rokem

    Also your commentary makes me fucking laugh so hard. I’m pissing myself.

  • @lex_C_88
    @lex_C_88 Před 7 měsíci

    He killed another kid but they didn't mention him till the end with the total victims

  • @NickMcGrew1999
    @NickMcGrew1999 Před rokem

    I dissected a cow heart in 7th grade

  • @The_KlaVra
    @The_KlaVra Před rokem +7

    Episode 6 is where you are going to yell at the screen...

  • @daveking7079
    @daveking7079 Před rokem +7

    Dahmer is the best show of the year

    • @billybobtexas
      @billybobtexas Před rokem

      I think you are right. Can’t stop thinking about it, discussing with friends who are my True Crime buds. Its so well done and leaves you just numb. As horrible as this portrayal is.. when you hear what he was doing with the bodies. It makes it infinitely worse than what is shown. Beyond horrific. Horror movies are not as depraved as Dahmer was in real life.

    • @daveking7079
      @daveking7079 Před rokem +1

      @@billybobtexas Evan Peters did an AMAZING job as Dahmer

    • @billybobtexas
      @billybobtexas Před rokem

      @@daveking7079 100%

    • @reynaldolorenzo8409
      @reynaldolorenzo8409 Před rokem

      It’s not even top 10 of the year and you think it’s the best one😂😂😂
      Better Call Saul, The Boys, Barry, House of Dragons, Severance, Ozark, Sandman, The Dropout, Peacemaker, Rick and Morty, Reacher, Peaky Blinders, The Bear, Atlanta, etc…>Dahmer

  • @dawidekosrs896
    @dawidekosrs896 Před rokem

    What’s funny, is that his dad equal to him was as much of a delusional one, he just was earlier than that. Crazy how technology changes things.

  • @Servo1616
    @Servo1616 Před rokem +3

    One thing that bothers me: These shows/movies always seem to portray Steven Hicks as a bro stereotype douche teenager. His family and friends make it sound like he was quite the opposite. Like he was really kind spirited and accepting. I always envision him being a lot nicer to Jeff and that being why Jeff didn't want him to leave.

  • @abnersancgez1168
    @abnersancgez1168 Před rokem +1

    Danger is not a monster just a person that suffer to much in life and we ca not said we understand him nobody can just you know others serial killers

  • @billybobtexas
    @billybobtexas Před rokem +6

    The dad said he had thoughts. But never acted on them. Similar to Jeffery, getting a girl and controlling her. Etc.

  • @Sharkman42
    @Sharkman42 Před rokem

    7:57 and 8:14 I reacted the exact same way

  • @Joseph__420
    @Joseph__420 Před rokem +2

    Episode 6 will break you guys … just be ready

  • @ConfidencePT
    @ConfidencePT Před rokem +7

    I saw a series of Tiktok videos from a young woman who studied criminology in Milwaukee and got to see the actual crime scene details and photos. She said he used to hang the bodies on a butcher's hook in his bathroom and slit them from genitals to chin. This is something that has never been detailed in any show on him that I'm aware of?

    • @mafestroja
      @mafestroja Před rokem +8

      that sounds like Ed gein

    • @blackcatbrewz
      @blackcatbrewz Před rokem +3

      That isn’t something Dahmer did

    • @blackcatbrewz
      @blackcatbrewz Před rokem +2

      @Sir Christofer Braxton right? It’s so annoying lol like wtf 🤣 maybe it has never been mentioned on any record because it is not true 😭😭😭 but they don’t even stop to think about that before they regurgitate the fake stuff they consume

    • @ConfidencePT
      @ConfidencePT Před rokem

      Apparently he did.

    • @blackcatbrewz
      @blackcatbrewz Před rokem +6

      @@ConfidencePT no he did not. Ed Gein did that. Dahmer did not. This is all documented. Just because some chick on tiktok told you so doesn’t mean she is right.

  • @anthony310h
    @anthony310h Před rokem +1

    So he’s Dexter or the other way around

  • @urbanink246
    @urbanink246 Před rokem +1

    She has the same reaction as me, I turned away from the episode a lot lol.

  • @jolinkarlsson8569
    @jolinkarlsson8569 Před rokem

    Dennis Nilsen but they call him the brittish Jeffrey Dahmer because they were pretty similar but not on everything and he was scottish but it took place in England moved there in the 70’s there’s a doc about him on Netflix too it’s Called memories of murder the Dennis Nilsen tapes there’s also a mini series about him Called Des and that was the nickname he went by if you’re gonna watch it i recomend to watch the tapes first before Des. Anyway thanks for the reactions i’ve watched the whole series

  • @Abcdefghijklmnopqrstubwxyz123

    I think we have the same vape lol Elf Bar, Strawberry Mango?

  • @DuckoOrder66
    @DuckoOrder66 Před rokem +1

    Need these more rapid please and thank you

  • @anthonycrider8334
    @anthonycrider8334 Před rokem +1

    The most messed up thing about it was when he was done drilling holes in the victim's heads and putting acid in them he'd take the body into the bathroom and hang it up with one of those deer hooks and open them up

    • @blackcatbrewz
      @blackcatbrewz Před rokem +9

      He didn’t hang them up on hooks. Idk where y’all are getting that info. That was Ed Gein who did that

    • @ClutchtheGod
      @ClutchtheGod Před rokem +4

      That was Ed gein’s thing, dahmer never did that 🤣

  • @leesagar8651
    @leesagar8651 Před rokem

    The show is great but it's also disturbing knowing that it was all real... Jeff's first victim, Steven Hicks. May they all rest in peace.

  • @riakim7953
    @riakim7953 Před rokem +5

    Thank you guys so much for not engaging in romanticizing him. I am a bit more apathetic side about this guy because.. I myself had a schizoaffective period in my life and there are so many people out there who are mentally in a much worse place yet did not kill and still have no intention of killing. Physical punishments at home, being different. I was heartbroken when there were comments like “I actually felt sorry for his death” and “I actually thought he was hot and bummed it was not more gruesome”. I’m like this show is only a part of it, imagine “the gruesome” was ‘only’ a part of this serial incident. No. I hold no sympathy. I had to stop at ep 4 and go on google to read the most cold, objective, facts only. What people really should take away from this is the victims’ tears and that only.

  • @camerontarantino5425
    @camerontarantino5425 Před rokem

    I dissected a pig in Biology

  • @kentk2215
    @kentk2215 Před rokem +1

    Juck em, if they can’t take a foke!