Relationship Advice For Total Package Women (Avoid Being Alone & Attract Great Men Now)

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
  • Are you a total package woman who struggles with dating? Gorgeous, smart, fun, spontaneous, classy but don't have a great man by your side...then listen to these four tips for how to attract a great man into your life by Dr. Alduan Tartt
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Komentáře • 50

  • @karenmcgee1869
    @karenmcgee1869 Před 8 lety +31

    Love it. Definitely don't want "Social Work Love." I want someone to celebrate me, not tolerate me. As I would do the same for him. More importantly, I do want someone who has submitted his life to GOD, and it shows. Someone who has dealt with his past hurts and pains so he can love me from a pure place. Look forward to GOD bringing me to my Boaz!

    • @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473
      @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 Před rokem

      Don’t forget you do the inner work too that’s why it’s so many single black women it’s always what he need to do and not looking in the mirror..I am black woman and black women can be mean and nasty And never take accountability either Praying your spouse found you and you BOTH are healthy individuals Blessings 🙏🏿❤️

  • @RoseVarela-fl2kz
    @RoseVarela-fl2kz Před 8 lety +13

    Lol when he said were not in Zumba class 😂😂😂it's a great video thanks for the advice

  • @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
    @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect Před 10 lety +15

    I've been positioning, but they all just stare and don't say anything (especially the ones that I have any remote interest in) ....it frustrates me and I feel like I should not have to approach first.

    • @jahsilent1
      @jahsilent1 Před 8 lety +6

      doesnt hurt to say hey...... some men are shy

    • @nousnous4361
      @nousnous4361 Před 8 lety +11

      I have the exact problem. Men stare at me almost everyday but I get asked out about once a year by men I'm not interested in. Plus I'm naturally smiley so I don't think I look unapproachable. I don't want to do the asking because I want a man to be man enough to ask me and I think that sets the tone of a possible future relationship

    • @jahsilent1
      @jahsilent1 Před 8 lety +2

      Nous Nous understand i guess i am one of thoese men who might not say a word, in some cases, u have to understand women can be mean in the way they reply to a person they are uninterested in..... and you just never know, and i find mean with lower class alot of time are the ones who doesn't care about rejection so they approach everyone

  • @dovetales3
    @dovetales3 Před 5 lety +6

    YASSS INDEED!!! Everything I needed to hear for 2019!!!!!! Thank you!

  • @vol.9543
    @vol.9543 Před 8 lety +10

    She's gonna look real obvious at the golf range and sporting event!

  • @MegaLadylove2012
    @MegaLadylove2012 Před 8 lety +2

    Yes! Lord knows I'm ready to meet my king. Dated an Engineer in college, never worked out. Fine. But being away from the academic setting, really leave you feeling stranded since you have no idea certain type of men, I'm interested in, hang out. Yes. Please tell me where do high rank men go. I'm live in MN :).

  • @angeliquep8391
    @angeliquep8391 Před 6 lety +4

    Yes... I've had my share of good and bad men however I learned what the problem was and NOW I have prepared for battle 💯💯💯✔✔👊👊😍😍😍🤩🤩👊👊👊

  • @larad100
    @larad100 Před 2 lety +2

    It’s true I’m going to start going to those kinda events

  • @shirleyholloway5403
    @shirleyholloway5403 Před 7 lety +3

    Really like that especially social work love. That is all I have ever had, its time for real love...I am preparing me.

  • @wanstar1771
    @wanstar1771 Před 2 lety +2

    Very informative! Thank you Dr. Tartt 🙏🏽💙🎯

  • @GoddezsIesha
    @GoddezsIesha Před 3 lety +2

    Still valid today.

  • @chacha710
    @chacha710 Před 5 lety +2

    Best advice I've ever heard. Thank you Dr.

  • @carrie2marie
    @carrie2marie Před 4 lety +1

    Omg I love this !!!!

  • @focusedwon4005
    @focusedwon4005 Před 6 lety +1

    Nice advice this is so appreciated on many levels. I was told my walk speaks confidence. Yet some may view it as arrogance.

  • @reesespeaceful
    @reesespeaceful Před 13 lety +1

    Hey Dr Tartt! You hit it out the ball park with this video! Great advice! God Bless ya! :)

  • @shellyatkins2490
    @shellyatkins2490 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you the bate and switch game is over.

  • @lwhite474
    @lwhite474 Před 9 lety +2

    Social work love first time hearing this line lol love the advice definitely taking notes tha ks so much

  • @Mallyumansky
    @Mallyumansky Před 13 lety +1

    Good points in the video doctor keep the info coming maybe you need to write a column on match.com with some of your great tips!

  • @crrj611
    @crrj611 Před 7 lety +2

    This was so good! Thank You!! #socialworklove lol.

  • @deboramelton146
    @deboramelton146 Před 5 lety +1

    so awesome!

  • @B-GURL88
    @B-GURL88 Před 13 lety +1

    WOW!!! GREAT ADVICE....THANKS DOC...U ROCK.....THIS IS JUST WHAT I NEEDED.

  • @someoneimportant8439
    @someoneimportant8439 Před 6 lety +2

    Yo Doc,
    While we're on the topic of criteria I just want to put my specific relationship goal out there: Be married to a healthy, faithful, lifelong spouse who serves in the Lord's Recovery (It does not have to be a very outward showy service. It could be service through consistently attending prayer meetings, tithing to BfA, persuading others to get the Holy Bible Recovery Version, or adding members to the church.), has a minimum of a Bachelor's degree, and generates enough income to support a whole family for years.
    Then over time it became more specific, including the following criteria: Pray-read the Recovery Version with me. Read life-studies with me. Receive grace with me. (He has to be open to learning what/who grace actually is.) Attend church with me. ( It doesn't have to be a predictable, religious routine--just once or twice a month.) Unconditionally help me. Keep each other from fornicating. Form a foundational unit for building New Jerusalem with me.
    I don't care if he's black, white, Hispanic, Samoan, Chinese, Japanese, Mexican, Afghanistanian, or from the North Pole. Just meet the deets. God will provide, and He's still working on me.
    Helpful video.

  • @Gigilovehugs
    @Gigilovehugs Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you I will start doing this

  • @royalescorpio
    @royalescorpio Před 13 lety +1

    This is sooo true!!!! It sure was easier in undergrad :)

  • @Annjenkins806
    @Annjenkins806 Před 6 lety +1

    true..Thats true..Taiking care wifey duties!😌certain kind of brand..

  • @myhicks
    @myhicks Před 13 lety

    This might be your best vlog yet. Great job and thank you!

  • @ogunmolaTemitope
    @ogunmolaTemitope Před 8 lety

    Very great video Alduan Tartt! Thanks.

  • @candacechambers2003
    @candacechambers2003 Před 12 lety +1

    Great advice : )

  • @TheToltec
    @TheToltec Před 10 lety +1

    Great Video

  • @ogunmolaTemitope
    @ogunmolaTemitope Před 8 lety

    Very great video Dr! Thanks.

  • @cl4ssyb67
    @cl4ssyb67 Před 13 lety

    Thank u,Great advice......I have been down that road with men.

  • @michelleray9143
    @michelleray9143 Před 8 lety +2

    Yes

  • @yolandatwatson
    @yolandatwatson Před 10 lety

    I love your vids gonna try and watch them all LOL!

  • @rgonzalez1296
    @rgonzalez1296 Před 8 lety +1

    Wonderful video!

  • @bellefemmekenisha
    @bellefemmekenisha Před 10 lety

    wonderful video! thank u

  • @gladysharris7449
    @gladysharris7449 Před 7 lety +1

    I attract good men I just were not on the same matter! Men can be a better husband as God is loving caring and forgiving perhaps

  • @edricprim7983
    @edricprim7983 Před 10 lety +1

    Very true

  • @babbygirlhaden6991
    @babbygirlhaden6991 Před 6 lety

    Networking 'Great Ideas!

  • @wadora4523
    @wadora4523 Před 9 lety

    social work love!!!🙊

  • @TotallyAwwwesome
    @TotallyAwwwesome Před 6 lety +2

    Social work love lol

  • @oohno1000
    @oohno1000 Před 3 lety +1

    I am a wife

  • @larad100
    @larad100 Před 2 lety +1

    Mate

  • @nellykaziga490
    @nellykaziga490 Před 8 lety

    how can you attract a great guy and be free? my people were not happy with me through there actions?

  • @Annjenkins806
    @Annjenkins806 Před 6 lety +1

    National sale net work mixtures!! Ummmmmm...