Same Gender Couple on Birth Control?
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- čas přidán 10. 06. 2017
- Grace and I have been on various forms of birth control. Listen to us talk about it. Also I cry a lot in this because I'm a PMS-y baby.
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Uterus: wants baby..
Human: doesn’t get pregnant
*uterus: wants revenge*
Uterus: *DOWN COME THE BLOOD*
why is this relatable
And that’s what a period is my friend
Kokichi Kinnie uterus: with a side of ✨PAINFUL✨ cramps 😌
My heart BROKE seeing Ash so unhappy who else? but i'm glad that they felt comfortable enough to share that vulnerability with us.
OH... Mine 2 ❤️
I cried with her
Same💔
Yeah is really sucks I have a bit of the Same problem. I get panic attacks almost everyday and have to take my pill when I feel it coming. I also have to take sleeping pills at night or my paranoia won’t let me sleep. If they were ever switched by accident I’d be just like her crying and worried. Until the feelings pass.
powerful edgelord they
Your hair looks awesome when it’s fluffy!
The thing I love about Clue is that it’s, mostly, gender neutral!
Most period tracker apps are bright pink, but Clue is just white. I like that.
I love clue. It helps me so much, especially when I need a warning that I will be umm. Dying soon
Oh my God is it really that bad that it's not pink like the otjers Jesus Christ you guys are full of it
Well I mean pink is a universal color, there’s plenty of male designed apps that have pinks and purples
@@gabriellegranbois668 Pink may feel uncomfortable for some people who are non-binary, chill dude(and I'm one of them)
Turtle Draws Don’t get how a color can make you uncomfortable but ok lmao
"Oh, dysphoria, please don't come again"🎶 beautiful song ❤
Andie Hernández glad you like it! I wrote it! You can check it out on spotify or itunes if you'd like! (Shameless selfpromo 😱) it's Dysphoria by Leif de Leeuw Band
I cried when I heard that ,even though I don’t have dysphoria
When you were crying I just wanted to reach out and give you a hug
Jessica Woolcock I want to as well our poor lil baby
Jessica Woolcock same here I want to hug her so bad *hugs through screen*
Yo we got the same cover 😂
"in need of ice cream and dark chocolate human" why did u turn into me for that moment
Yes I would like to order a relationship very similar to theirs? With a side of kittens please
smexyanimebabe this the best comment i have ever sen
Same .
smexyanimebabe My first order was lost in packaging. My second try was out of stock. My third was stolen by a porch thief.
Same
Lol I've got a relationship similar to theirs. I'm Non binary and my gf calls me her they-bae
Here I'll give you a dollar Ash for being real and honest.
hehehehehe
ash: "periods dont discriminate-"
me: *beTWEEN THE SINNERS AND THE SAINTS IT TAKES AND IT TAKES AND IT TAKES BUT WE KEEP LIVIN ANYWAY-*
We rise and we fall and we break and we make our mistakes
And if there's a reason I'm still alive when everyone who loves me has died I'm willing ta...
I fucking love this chain omg
Adriana Verdejo :")
Oh mY GoD
I'm gay and i start crying in the morning Idk why but its just something that happens.
That’s life my boi and I’m sorry
Just commenting to let you know that your effort does not go unnoticed- you make really good, quality content. You can tell how much you care & put into your videos. Also, Grace is adorable & seems like an amazing partner. I felt so bad when you took the Lunesta by mistake & cried... something that has helped me many times is just to take a deep breath and ask myself in those moments if it will matter in a year from now. I know it's easier said than done, but anyways, you earned yourself a new sub :)
Ash you should get a bigger binder for the days you can't fit into your normal binder. I did and it helped a lot!
Grace's eyes are so beautiful, I can't :')
Seeing you cry made me break because you are a perfect human and deserve nothing not love and kindess
Wut?
ALL👏GENDERS👏GET👏PERIODS👏AND👏ALL👏ORIENTATIONS👏CAN👏USE👏BIRTH👏CONTROL👏
What? Please help me understand. I'm genuinely wanting to understand. Thanks :)
If you dont have a vagina you cant have a period. A period by definition is the uterus shedding its lining. So therefore, you can not have a period without a uterus, and you cant be a male with a uterus genetically.
@@penguinqueen421 you can identify as male and be afab. Gender and sex are different. So men, woman and non binary people can have periods, but they have to be afab to have them.
@@penguinqueen421 First off the period rant is bullshit to some degree. Vagina or penis it doesn't matter. That doesn't make you male or female. But you can't have a period without a fully functioning vagina. Also science doesn't say shit except there's two body types for the human species. Xx and xy. That's it. The whole female male thing is a societal construct. Also you pleb they're not hermaphrodites they're intersex. You wanna jump in learn, your fucking terms.
@@Strawberrypersonoffixial science says xx is male and xy is female. Its not a society thing its a thats the fucking way it is thing.
I cry a lot in this video (oops :P) and Grace and I talk about being on nuva ring, the pill, the depo provera shot and more!
You has an birth control experiences? Tell me, tell me!
hey ash, your videos are super inspirational and useful for someone like me that is going through transitioning and coming to fully understand myself. as a trans nonbinary human thing, i feel emotions. a lot of emotions. it's nice to know that i'm not alone. thank you, and stay safe.
The thing about crying a lot when ur on ur peiriod happens to me a lot too lol it doesn't help since I'm in school, thankyou a lot for this video it helped me in ways I don't understand but thankyou!!!
Ash Hardell I recently switched my BC to the mirena IUD (partly in fear that I would not be able to get free birth control) and it's made me so happy. I do not get periods anymore, and my chest does not get swollen (it did while I was on the pill) anymore.
Also no remembering to take it!
Also you crying made me really wish I could give you a hug ❤️
Ash Hardell I lve you poor wee gal so sad you crying today
Ash Hardell this might be a bit off topic, but I'm really really proud of you for so much. Ive been a fan of yours for a long time and how candid you are really is a great influence. Also my birth control I'm on is for PMDD, which sucks. have a lovely day and thank you for this video.
I know you thought your hair was being weird and fluffy, but I thought it looked really voluminous and lovely! What did you put in it before you blow dried?
I thought it looked good
Prathiksha Srinivasa I liked it too!!!
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I often get dysphoric when I cry, seeing you cry like that eased my anxiety about crying a bit. Thanks for sharing
2:45 *takes off Pokèmon trainer shirt*
Me: *Is wearing same shirt*
*POKÈMON SOUNDS INTENSIFY*
I love knowing that you cried (not to be rude) but it makes me feel better about my anxiety knowing that you have it too
Love your videos ash!!!!!! *hugs*
This was really beautifully shot Ash. Loved the journey you created recording it.
Meli Grant THANK YOU THERE WAS SO MUCH COLOR CORRECTION IT TOOK 2 HOURS TO EXPORT
We LOVE you guys soooooooo much!
Your relationship makes me so happy even though I'm sad and alone. It's just too beautiful to be bitter about.
the way u say "ma boobies" makes me happy ❤
👀👀👀
Eléna Kern we have the same last name
I'm really enjoying seeing you so raw (though these videos are still so well put-together) and getting to see you and Grace and your cute house (seriously so adorable) and everything!
As soon as you said it's bedtime I got a bedtime notification from my alarm.
So did I God damnit XD It scared me honestly
Every single time you cry....
It just always make me cry all the time ;-;
Very informing video, thanks Ash.
Also 3rd
I barely listen but...it wasn't so bad... it was great 👍 .
Gia S One question what does 3rd in this case
So I have to say you and grace are one of the happiest couples I've ever really seen on the internet, you guys are really inspirational. I'm sorry you need to deal with the uncomfortable society about same sex relationships. I'm glad you two are able to keep moving forward and not let it stop you from being happy!
I cry whenever I see people crying and I was literally sobbing for no reason. You are so precious and important ❤️
this was the sweetest period video i've ever seen!! A++
Ash... Your my favorite CZcamsr. I love watching your videos. Don't let your anxiety screw your mind up. if you need someone to talk to you have me or Grace - internet hugs-
cus GAYYYYYY
how relatable
ash is the most adorable human being on the planet!!!! much love
How is your bed head look so good I look like I got run over by a car when I wake up
Same
Keep a hairbrush by your bed. All the time. It helps.
I want to give Ash a hug
When Ash started crying I just want to throw hugs, love and support everywhere
Hi Ash! Thanks for using my song "Dysphoria". I'm completely in love with your video's, feels like I can relate ro pretty much all the content! Keep it up!! ❤
part of the reason I watch Ash's videos is because of all the beautiful visuals, editing, and music that's in them 💛
Im on my period and fucking emotions man I cried because you cried then I cried cause you and Grace are so cute and then I cried cause I messed up my mascara. Goddamn it.
I am a 15 year old male, I find this video really interesting. weirdly enough
i don't think that this is weird, i think that it's weird that so many people have periods but it is such a taboo to talk about.
junipa fair point
You're allowed to watch this and find it interesting
Michael that's fucced up
I love ash's videos so much. They're so real and aesthetically pleasing and honest. I love you ash and grace!
- ash starts crying -
OMG NO NOW IM CRYING ASH I LOVE YOU TOO MUCH TO SEE YOU SAD:( (not saying it's not good to cry, at all) i know the anxiety gets to people, like you and i, but we push through it. i hope you know that you can push through almost anything. stay strong. and i know, easier said than done, but i can't do much with just a digital keyboard.
love you ash
I want Grace's egg bake recipe pls! I never had one of those before.
eggs, peppers, onions, chicken sausage all mixed together (any proportion that makes you happy) in muffin tin, cooked at 350 until fluffy :)
Anna FE Think of it as either a quiche with no crust or a mini frittata. Either way it's delicious and you can add whatever you want to it too!
I love the "until fluffy" bit for some reason
I love these two humans so much. I get so happy when Ash uploads. So incredibly happy I stumbled upon Ash's channels 5-ish months ago ❤❤❤
The thumbnail was the cutest thing I have ever seen.
Your filming style is beautiful, you and Grace are beautiful! Just... agh! Thank you for making the world a little more beautiful!
OMFG GRACE I KNOW THAT FEELS with Depo! I get migraine with aura so I too, am not allowed estrogen based BC. Depo was great for my migraines but the lack if libido, the depression & weight gain was so awful. Anyways, "misery loves company" & I guess I just wanted to say I understand completely. 💚💋
By the way, you two are adorable & I hope to give you both big hugs at VidCon!
I see auras all the time but not due to headaches.. But they can give me headaches if they get too bright..
I wish you never have to cry ;^;
You don't deserve to be sadddd
Happy thoughtsssssss
you’re always so real in your videos, you’re SO relatable and i always feel like i’m just hanging out with a friend when i watch your videos 💜 i love you & grace sm!
I know it is easy for me to say this, but you gotta be one of the most productive humans ever. But anxiety is a poo bum, so big hugs. Bonus info when you were talking about NuvaRing and paused, as I tend to talk to the You Tubes, we jinxed 'hooha' which made me LOL.
Hrm... could you get a binder that is a bigger size so you can at least somewhat flatten during your swollen days without too much pain?
I was on the pill for many years and recently switched to an IUD. The good part is that I don't have to think about birth control much anymore. The bad part is my cramps came back.
I love how honest your vlogs are. It's truly refreshing and I enjoy watching, you are the best.
ash you are queen of making videos. your content is so well thought and interesting
I have clue and it is very good
tyler sage I concur
tyler sage same but since i got it i have experienced irregular periods(not because of the app obv) and lol i dont think the app is supposed to work for people with irregular periods. but it is trying.
I've considered it but I feel like it would make me more dysphoric than I already am because I'd be thinking about it? Any other trans people with period dysphoria have experience with this?
Eva G-S I understand where you're coming from. I just got off my lucky streak of not having it for a month by waking up with an unpleasant sight in my (only pair) boxers. So while it does cause dysphoria atleast it makes it so you can know to prepare yourself for the surprise visits
Eva G-S I found it quite fun to track my period and i think you should try it out. you can block the notification and just check it from time to time. I think it deals with things in a fun way as you get to check interesting stuff such as how you communicate with others that day, if you feel motivated or not etc. its like a jurnal .
I literally downloaded clue today, after my sister recommended it to me. So perfect timing Ash!
I don’t think I’ve ever seen anything more adorable and cute on CZcams. You both are so cute and happy. I love it. I just randomly came across this channel and I think I’m in love with you both
I really admire how brave you are, Ash, by being so consistently authentic. I know I've grown a lot since I discovered your channel, and it's been a huge help. Lovely video :D
I love your videos Ash, they always adress such interesting topics. thanks for making them!
Thanks :)
Your vlogs are so beautifully done. Baby girl is damned talented 🦋
Also I want a grace too. She's really fantastic. You two are goals
Awwwwww around 7 min I want to hug you so bad. I'm also on medications and they are so tricky. Your amazing thank you for sharing
I've said this on one of ur other videos but u really r so brave and strong to share ur life with us and I really admire you for being that strong. there r people including me that really appreciate and benefit from your videos and you create an amazing community that really comforts so many people including me and ahhh ily both so much💟
I cannot get over how freaking adorable you two are
like I've watched three of your videos and your already my new favorite youtuber
I thought the title said lesbian couple on child birth? Like an opinion video.
Saw this in my notifications, I'm just like "IMA LESBIAN (kinda) AND I WANT BIRTH CONTROL!!"
I get a bit overexcited sometimes... 😛
Thank you so so much for sharing this!! I would also really appreciate a video on TTC, pregnancy and birth but of course, just hope you recover from it all at your own pace. Sending good vibes to you two.
I love all of your videos, and it hurts me to see you cry. I hope you're feeling better ilysm :)
what hair products do you use? would be cool to see how you make your hair look so good :)
Note: seeing you guys kiss and snuggle makes me miss my bf so much, you guys seem so happy silly which is how my bf and I are....ldr suck... I've been on Ava 30 E (combined pill) for 8 years. I never had regular periods before but I also didn't have cramps, I went on it and had very bad cramps so my doc said to skip the sugars and have a straight period. It was awesome and I had no pms or cramps, nothing for 5 years. Then I moved to the Middle East and they didn't allow my birth control to be sold there so I went on Yasmin, and I skipped like normal, bad idea. Had ripping pain up my vagina during orgasms and random bleeding so I stopped skipping. Then I had raging pms and painful cramps... yay but it was that or nothing and the country I was living in would jail you if you had a miscarriage and were unwed... then I went home and got back on my old pills and was back to my lovely Ava 30 ed, and went to stay with my bf in Argentina for 3 months. Then I came home and decided that I should see what it's like to not take bc, as my bf and I are long distance now I don't really need it... I've had 2 periods in 6 months, a tiny little bit of pms and no cramps at all. At some point I'm going to move to Argentina and I'm not sure what bc they have over the counter, so I'm thinking about getting the implant or something more long term, I want to do it well before I move so I can see what the side affects are and deal with them before I'm in a foreign country... I'm so lucky that my first bc pill worked perfectly for me, I'm just sad that I can't get more than 6months at a time 😞
Thanks to you I discovered SkyDive and bought all their bandcamp music just now. Good stuff!
Your daily vlogs are of extraordinary quality, thank you so much how much effort you put into these. They're gorgeous and thoughtful and great.
YAS! I hate my period but I love Clue. 👌🏾
same here!
Sydney Marie Hmm I love the idea of clue and I still use it anyway but it's never worked for me because my periods are so irregular lol
it's actually the same with me, but especially for that i really like to have an app that helps me keep track of everything
@eh - Mine are irregular, too! But I love the app because now when my doc asks when my last cycle was I can just check it as opposed to going "uhhh.... let me try to remember..."
Your book is in my school library and I was like OMG I WAS WATCHING THEM YESTERDAY!
thank you for opening up this much, but also being so inclusive in talking about periods in general ! Great video and great music :)
you and grace are so cute and it's making me cry and then you crying is making me cry more and now i have a headache because i can't breathe. so basically i can't breathe because you and grace are horribly adorable
My clue app is actually right next to the CZcams app in my phone so I clicked out to check on my progress and there it was!! XD
OOOH neat :)
I just want to hug you! Only came across your channel today and I think you are amazing. I’m heterosexual and identify as a female 100%, but I think what you talk about is so valuable and enlightening.
Omg I love clue!! I have such an irregular period so clue really helps me track all of my past periods and helps me discover patterns. It’s a lifesaver
I just love every video you do, the edition is just amazing and the music aaaah!
Makes me feel in love, idk
0:14 ok but that was really cute hahaHAhA i'M qUEER
When you cried you made me cry ;-; ilysm btw
that‘s the first video I‘m watching from you- thats amazing editing 💗
Clue is SO GOOD! It's improved my life 120%. Finally demystifying PMS and understanding the cycle.
love you ash x i have never clicked so fast and it is 3 o'clock in the morning
also first !
not a girl
OH RIGHT!!! sorry, I'll edit
I didn't realise- like I said 3 o'clock my brains not functioning
I loved the puffy hair ✨
Okay so, I’ve been watching your videos for years and I would just like to tell you how I love how you edit your videos. I love how you do transitions and music slides and all that stuff. You are such a great artist. So you know, just saying, you are awesome.
You and Grace are so lovely, it's wonderful to see such a warm, caring and healthy relationship
I am listening to you and I just wanna hug you
**hug**
NIC OMG ASH JUST GAVE U A HUG!!!
Definitely getting clue now, I've wanted to get a period tracking app for a while and I'm taking this as a sign that I should finally do it
Your the most peaceful and perfect human being ever
Don't forget that your perfect just the way you are
You know a fact to you crying is actually normal if a person doesn't cry that is weird
Your such a motivational person !! I love your channel !!! ♥️
Guh, you guys make me feel soft. Thank you giving me hope that relationships actually can be something I want.
I didn't have a clue about "Clue" lol- I need this app in my LIFE! ♥♥♥
YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE TOGETHER!!!
Also, I relate! I am Bigender and my period SUCKS! Unfortunately, i do experience dysphoria when I'm on it T-T
I always click on your videos, hear you talk about the millions of things you cover in the video, and wonder how someone can explain something so amazing so eloquently in 15 minutes. Keep up the good work, Ash!
I just realized that probably makes no sense but it's almost midnight don't judge
Ash, your hair looks so good! Esp. before you washed it! Love the waves
I really really want to just hug you because I know anxiety is weird
My wife is on a low dose estrogen pill same as Grace,because if she wasn't her "monthly friend" would last for several months,making life difficult for both of us.
Thomas Liebold i was on a low dose estrogen pill that gave me a period for four months straight ahah it was AWFUL
Wow! it's amazing that the same thing would have opposite reactions,but that's the human body for you,hoping you are ok now though
Hey Ash,
Just wanted to say that it's incredible that you talked about what you go through on your period. People often talk about periods very generally, but it's good to talk about specifics.
Side note - I love Clue and use it all the time. It's so good and helpful in realising when I'm going to be the most anxious and grumpy during the month, haha. About a week before I get my period I usually get terrrrrrrible anxiety where I struggle to leave the house and for the longest time I didn't understand why. And it turns out it's alllll PMS. Whooo.
At the end I was dieing because of you and grace just being fricken adorable!
I get SUPER bloated on my period too! one time i weighed myself the day before and the day after I got my period and I was retaining three pounds of water! :O