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so let me get this straight...... he is unemployed, she's a musicians, he has 3 children from prior relationshipS at 28, she has no children at 30. He lives with her, she has her own place, she's put together, he can't keep it together.....and she is begging him to define the relationship! Girl, you can do better!
Hold up, he's living in her apartment, not working, no relationship title AND he's not giving her some??!! It's time to go. Off with his effing head! 😂
Erulastiel YESSSSSSSSSS..... That's wat I'm saying!!!! I was expecting it to be that HE wana fuck all day.... but dis is bullshit.... she can do WAYYYY better!!!!
Erulastiel YESSSSSSSSSS..... That's wat I'm saying!!!! I was expecting it to be that HE wana fuck all day.... but dis is bullshit.... she can do WAYYYY better!!!!!!!!!
She deserves better. She is lovely, intelligent and made a dollar decision for a nickel. Hell if I was in that situation I would honor her regularly!! May be too much!
I actually like her. I thinks she's well spoken and has her mind on track. She needs to find a man like minded. She's wasting time on him and the man she needs can't get in.
Terrence Barnes ABSOLUTELY AGREE WITH YOU... 1,000%.... I really think she's talkative... but u can tell she has a REALLY nice personality. She's jus stuck in the cycle we all get caught in as women... which is... "WHO AM I (WITHOUT A MAN)" .... And I pray that she finds the strength to pick up herself and love herself and MOVE ON!!!!
Terrence The Dowser Barnes , I agree. I see at the bottom it list their contact. If your single plz look her up. She needs a Strong Man like yourself, she's pretty and seems intelligent
Girl...you brought this man over here to "define a relationship"? If you felt the need to do that then there is no relationship. You are a convenience to him. You can do better...
Literally the same thing I said. If you had to bring him on there to define your relationship then you don't even have a relationship to begin with🤦🏾♀️
She sure is breathtaking though and quite intelligent. This is why I watch Divorce Court. As a young woman you learn so much about life and relationships.
KITTEN MAYZ OMG, YOUR SO PRETTY. I HOPE YOUR MODELING. Plz don't take it the wrong way, I've been with 1 person 21 yrs, we have an 11yr old girl and son 18. As women we should be able to say that
I got caught in the web of undefined relationship before. I was doing wife duties, and the damm ass wouldn’t even call me his girlfriend. I’m so glad I ran, and it’s partly due to judge Toler’s advice. Thank you Judge Toler, I will forever be grateful.
Damn this was a bit embarrassing. She wants him bad and he just wants her money, sex and shelter. She deserves a man who actually wants and appreciates her!
Moni Que W For real..... this one hurt my heart. Cuz she clearly deserves better. But she has to see it for herself. Everyone gets stuck in that web at least once in life. I pray she finds the strength to LOVE HERSELF!!!
I love that she is well spoken. She put her sentences together properly, and she knows what she wants. I also love the fact that she is not emotional or letting her emotions cloud her judgement rather. I am glad that there isnt any babies in the mix though.
“Never make dollar decisions for nickel reasons” I love that saying. It is sooo true. As far as these two, feels like a relationship out of convenience.
I feel Dion doesn't want a relationship. I feel what he wants is to use Shala for support because he doesn't work. He wants her to take care of him while he go out and do what he wants to do. Basically, she's his mom 👩
Actually he told her before they moved in together what he wanted. And he didn't want a relationship. She knew this before they moved in together. She's the dumb one.
La Vida Loca Wordddd...... I felt so bad for her.... like more than once.... U can tell she's hurt... but she has that strength!! I hope she has enuff strength to LEAVE for good.
How many times or ways should she be told he doesn't want her? Why has she stooped so low for this jobless and homeless guy with 3 kids? (probably with different women). One thing I learned is to never let a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you. He sees her as a friend with benefit. Why drag him onto a national TV just for a Judge to repeat what he's been telling you for 2yrs
If a man tells you he wants to not define the relationship and you want a defined relationship leave Otherwise, often times he'll keep enjoying relationship privileges without commitment This show has taught me a lot
Baby girl needs to move on. She's talking about long term and he doesn't even want to put a label on whatever it is they have. But in his defense, he's letting her know straight that's he's not ready. What she does with that info is on her
She will find someone that will want to be with her. We all go through lessons. This one is hers. I know one thing - she will appreciate the guy that comes around and treats her nice.
Don't let a man tell you repeatedly that he doesn't wanna be in a relationship with you. And don't take care of a man that doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. Period.
It's been 30 seconds in. He said FRIENDSHIP. She said she wants to define our relationship. It's a 'friendship' with sex involve. Why are you on divorce court? This is not even a before the vows.
Ladies why, when we KNOW we see a future with a guy, do we choose to settle only for the "homie/lover/friend" benefits? We need to stop playing that game, because rarely do we win at it. We seem to fear the empty bed more than we do the empty heart. Like the judge says, we have to learn how to be okay alone until our "him" comes along. Our tables should never be so empty that we are willing to allow anyone and everyone to sit down at it.
She seems like a nice, intelligent woman with a good head on her shoulders. I just don't understand why she's trying to make things work with this scrub. I hate how people cling to bad relationships. It's like they can't see past the title of being in a relationship. They'll be in any relationship just to be with someone. This was a bummer. The dude is a scrub. He's using her for a place to stay. He doesn't care anything about her and everyone but her can see that. I hope she finds some self esteem and moves on.
the guy was clear on where he stand in this relationship, so JUST BECAUSE she now wants a relationship, he has to abide to her needs? She said in the beginning that he had done a lot for her, so she felt she WANTED to do some for him, none of that makes him a scrub, quit judging.
Another episode of a person who is struggling with low esteem and not loving herself...these women are everywhere, why couldn't I find 1 of these when I was single..lol
Not only do I agree with you 100% I'd also like to add that I believe he's a down low brother. He don't even like having sex with her. He looks like a stud. Woman trying to look like a man. I don't see what the hell she sees in this lil scrubby looking punk. 🤔 He's unemployed & using her for a place to stay. She's a cute girl. She can do so much better...
So she is a compulsive chatterbox who wants to define the relationship and he is the shy, silent type who isn't quite ready to commit. He's living in HER apartment, he's a job snob, and he's not giving her nookie....and I do believe this is the first time I have ever seen a cat MAN in my life. Perhaps he should get a nice little apartment where he can live alone with his cats and she can go find a man who likes a chatty lady and they'll both be much happier.
Ladies, if you ever have to pin down a man and demand for him to define the status of your relationship - please realise that he doesn't really want you. I know. I am a man.
She had the benefits that he needed. Unfortunately, she wasn't a part of that. Ladies stop putting out before he put a ring on it or be in an actual serious relationship.
Ilove Joe's smile! I know he has probably heard a lot of these situations B4, but he always radiates and I respond to it.. He & Toler are a great team!
❤❤❤ From a black woman to another.... My view is that women sometimes get stuck in a cycle of relations and we FORGET how to love OURSELVES. And its not a good thing... nor is it "unfixable" so don't put any labels on her..... jus Pray for our sister... that she wises up, and learn to LOVE HERSELF again. And forget him.... Love has its effects on the brain... go research and u will see. She's Beautiful, she's intellectual, she's a hard worker.... (and she loves sex!!!) WHAT A COMBO!!!! You go girl!!!! Pick up your head... take the lessons.... And MOVE ON!!!!! ❤❤❤❤ #Power2MyBlackSisters #Power2AllmySisters #My2Cents
I think he likes how she treats him but he is not physically attracted to her, its hard for him to tell her that because he does not want to hurt a friend.
She wants him. He doesn't want her. She looks like a man. He acts like a woman. Girl, he. does. not. want. you. Forget about him and move on. Why even come on the show? smh
Your beautiful and smart but unfortunately you don't know your value as a woman. Why you here to define your relationship with him. You are in pain and he makes you look bad. Ladies we all know when to end a relationship but sometimes we get stuck hoping things will change and we hurt ourselves more. No one can make you happy but you. Love yourself and set yourself free. Men will chase you and they love strong and independent women. Girl RUN!!!
How can you be living together with a whole human man and not be in a serious relationship? You cant cohabit casually can you? I mean, wow! Don't you know when someone is MOOCHING off you? Ugh. I am saddened for her. get this guy to leave and find someone who doesn't see you as free accommodation
You do not attend "Divorce Court" to solidify a friendship. This man is playing you, sis, move on. Never make a person tell you they don't want to be with you more than once.
Judge Lynn Toler I think you gave them great advice especially the young lady sometimes we as women don't have time to learn who we are so therefore how can we know what we want or who we want in our lives we have to Define. Own selves not allows some other person to Define us in a relationship thank you so much for the many wise words that you give over your show I watch you everyday I go to CZcams and watch you day and night thank you you are a wise woman and you helped a lot of people
I don't understand why some women push themselves upon someone that isn't clearly wanna be with them. soon as you see he's making excuses pack your bags ladies. Its not going to get better. Find someone who want you and appreciate you.
I've known a few woman who can NOT be without a man for a day. Even if they leave a dude they have to get right into a new relationship the next day or two. People, esp. women need to learn to enjoy time with themselves and not feel they NEED a partner.
The great thing is, one day you wake up and start loving your self, your third eye is completely open and you can see/hear/feel bullshit before it settles.....Life, right?
I'm no judge. Only God can Judge. I expressed an opinion. If i had a woman like her, I would be in heaven. He just came across as Judge Lynn said as a person who took advantage of bad situation... And I personally don't have an issue with that...
At the start he said... "I am here to establish a friendship". Girl...he told you....here him well and get walking! Don't wait to be told a second time
This episode is killing me lmao!!!!! Mr. Walker is making me crack up like crazy dwl!!!!! On a serious note thou he knows what he wants and he makes it clear. She needs to have some sense and leave cause she needs a label and she's not gonna get it with him.
Judge Lynn tell numerous women numerous times " don't never let a man tell you they don't want you more then once". This is the reason why.....she wants more and he doesn't. Some women need to understand you can't make a man settle down and be them no matter how good of a woman she may be it's sad and unfortunate but true.
Nobody falls in "love" faster than a nigga who needs a place to stay!
Bloombaby99 lol
OKAY!!!!!!
Lmao! Truth
Facts!!!
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so let me get this straight...... he is unemployed, she's a musicians, he has 3 children from prior relationshipS at 28, she has no children at 30. He lives with her, she has her own place, she's put together, he can't keep it together.....and she is begging him to define the relationship! Girl, you can do better!
He reminds me of my brother. Just mooching
She asked him to move in with her. She refused to listen to the truth before they moved in together. Her fault.
@@teelovebooks2786 😂😂😂
I'm sorry this man looks transgender.
Girllll...he don't want you...he just needs a place to stay😧
Ebony Angel lmaoo 😂 facts
Amen!
Ebony Angel PREACH👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
He's hobosexual
He's a hobosexual.
Hold up, he's living in her apartment, not working, no relationship title AND he's not giving her some??!! It's time to go. Off with his effing head! 😂
Erulastiel i was dead at the opening statements . Solidify a friendship . Boy bye 👋🏽
Erulastiel
YESSSSSSSSSS.....
That's wat I'm saying!!!!
I was expecting it to be that HE wana fuck all day.... but dis is bullshit.... she can do WAYYYY better!!!!
Erulastiel
YESSSSSSSSSS.....
That's wat I'm saying!!!!
I was expecting it to be that HE wana fuck all day.... but dis is bullshit.... she can do WAYYYY better!!!!!!!!!
She deserves better. She is lovely, intelligent and made a dollar decision for a nickel. Hell if I was in that situation I would honor her regularly!! May be too much!
Faith Lioness so if he was fucking her all day it will be cool even with no job? huh...yall standards are below low
I actually like her. I thinks she's well spoken and has her mind on track. She needs to find a man like minded. She's wasting time on him and the man she needs can't get in.
Terrence Barnes
ABSOLUTELY AGREE WITH YOU...
1,000%.... I really think she's talkative... but u can tell she has a REALLY nice personality. She's jus stuck in the cycle we all get caught in as women... which is...
"WHO AM I (WITHOUT A MAN)" .... And I pray that she finds the strength to pick up herself and love herself and MOVE ON!!!!
Terrence The Dowser Barnes , I agree. I see at the bottom it list their contact. If your single plz look her up. She needs a Strong Man like yourself, she's pretty and seems intelligent
Exactly 😊
I can't believe any woman would give him the time of day. He should be grateful she's even considering him.
Verde Lane Right???! Yet she's there begging him to be with her. He should be begging HER! And she should be saying 'No! I'm flying higher than you!'.
Girl...you brought this man over here to "define a relationship"? If you felt the need to do that then there is no relationship. You are a convenience to him. You can do better...
She can do better, but she's not going anywhere...Most of these women never leave...
Britt Brat totally just gave you your 100th like 😊
Literally the same thing I said. If you had to bring him on there to define your relationship then you don't even have a relationship to begin with🤦🏾♀️
She's dumb. She refused to listen to him before they moved in together. Her fault.
She sure is breathtaking though and quite intelligent. This is why I watch Divorce Court. As a young woman you learn so much about life and relationships.
Breathtaking???
STARISE SUN 😂😂
Me too!!! So many lessons here I can't get enough of it
Exactly! I love to watch how they conduct the proceedings.
clearly he doesn't want to be with her
KITTEN MAYZ Right. He seems like a loser that's just using her for multiple things.
KITTEN MAYZ OMG, YOUR SO PRETTY. I HOPE YOUR MODELING.
Plz don't take it the wrong way, I've been with 1 person 21 yrs, we have an 11yr old girl and son 18. As women we should be able to say that
KITTEN MAYZ your gorgeous
My gaydar is on 100🚨🚨🚨
She didn't hear him say he wants to explore being more of a friend.
Judge Lynn's eyeshadow is on point
I got caught in the web of undefined relationship before. I was doing wife duties, and the damm ass wouldn’t even call me his girlfriend. I’m so glad I ran, and it’s partly due to judge Toler’s advice. Thank you Judge Toler, I will forever be grateful.
U wasn't even his girlfriend doing all that? Oh hell nah. Come on now
Damn this was a bit embarrassing. She wants him bad and he just wants her money, sex and shelter. She deserves a man who actually wants and appreciates her!
Moni Que W
For real.....
this one hurt my heart. Cuz she clearly deserves better. But she has to see it for herself. Everyone gets stuck in that web at least once in life. I pray she finds the strength to LOVE HERSELF!!!
Moni Que W she gotta decide that... I'm sure people told her that before, she'll wake up 10 years later in the same situation
Hé looks like this lesbian I know.
yo itsme 😂😭😂😭😂u couldn't be nice to say gay 😂😂😂
yo itsme lol🤣🤣
yo itsme he does look like a female he has a "pretty" face.
LOL....WAS THINKING THE SAME THING
He looks like my mom!
he used you girl we all been there charge it and move on lol 😊
+Mr. Lion come on living with someone one day he's giving her a title the next day he takes it back 😟
***** of course not everyone been there that's life live learn move on
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LoL 😆
Exactly. He gay anyway lol
she bought this poor Ethiopian child into her house because he had nowhere to go
Noooooooooo 😂
TheRedScareIsAlive I'm Frieeeeedddddddddddddd 😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
TheRedScareIsAlive 🤣🤣
TheRedScareIsAlive 😂
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Her relationship is in her head. lol
I love that she is well spoken. She put her sentences together properly, and she knows what she wants. I also love the fact that she is not emotional or letting her emotions cloud her judgement rather. I am glad that there isnt any babies in the mix though.
“Never make dollar decisions for nickel reasons” I love that saying. It is sooo true. As far as these two, feels like a relationship out of convenience.
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He is on the downlow and she is insecure.
Sean Griffin YOU SIR ONLY SPEAK THE TRUTH 👍🏾👏🏾
I knew I wasn't the only one thinking it
Sean Griffin exactly .. pets . N no sex life .. n masturbation
He's using you young lady. Move him out and move on. He's already made REAL CLEAR! Take it and move on!!!
I feel Dion doesn't want a relationship. I feel what he wants is to use Shala for support because he doesn't work. He wants her to take care of him while he go out and do what he wants to do. Basically, she's his mom 👩
Dumbass, if you watch from the beginning at 1:06, you will see it says he is unemployed.
She needs to chill..
Actually he told her before they moved in together what he wanted. And he didn't want a relationship. She knew this before they moved in together. She's the dumb one.
At least she's not sensitive because when he called her a "Prototype" that hurt my feelings. Smh, he's a sucka
La Vida Loca
Wordddd......
I felt so bad for her....
like more than once.... U can tell she's hurt... but she has that strength!! I hope she has enuff strength to LEAVE for good.
girl!!!!!! i was like wow no he didnt
How many times or ways should she be told he doesn't want her? Why has she stooped so low for this jobless and homeless guy with 3 kids? (probably with different women). One thing I learned is to never let a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you. He sees her as a friend with benefit. Why drag him onto a national TV just for a Judge to repeat what he's been telling you for 2yrs
What are the criteria for dragging a man to DC? She just want the judge to force the guy to date her
Unique Anderson: that same question bugged me. I don't know how these two are eligible to come to DC
Another desperate woman that will settle for anything
She is lying to herself.
Guys are not complicated.......................what they call you is what you are to him
He Does Not WANT YOU, Dear.....
Lmao
Female, step, kick rocks, leave, run, go away from the homosexual down low looking hungry adult male.
He looks like a small kid and she looks like his older sister
Jessica Vincent She is some horse with a beautiful. She needs to move on.
If a man tells you he wants to not define the relationship and you want a defined relationship leave
Otherwise, often times he'll keep enjoying relationship privileges without commitment
This show has taught me a lot
Baby girl needs to move on. She's talking about long term and he doesn't even want to put a label on whatever it is they have. But in his defense, he's letting her know straight that's he's not ready. What she does with that info is on her
luvmifro1003 occ
Put him out let him go
A title, ok. How about roommate with benefits.
Sloan58 😂😂😂
Can't be a roommate if you're not paying bills
So these two are in Divorce Court but their dealing with "what are we" issues...SMH
Maxim Belmont Right?!
She will find someone that will want to be with her. We all go through lessons. This one is hers. I know one thing - she will appreciate the guy that comes around and treats her nice.
Don't let a man tell you repeatedly that he doesn't wanna be in a relationship with you. And don't take care of a man that doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. Period.
It's been 30 seconds in. He said FRIENDSHIP. She said she wants to define our relationship. It's a 'friendship' with sex involve. Why are you on divorce court? This is not even a before the vows.
Ladies why, when we KNOW we see a future with a guy, do we choose to settle only for the "homie/lover/friend" benefits? We need to stop playing that game, because rarely do we win at it. We seem to fear the empty bed more than we do the empty heart. Like the judge says, we have to learn how to be okay alone until our "him" comes along. Our tables should never be so empty that we are willing to allow anyone and everyone to sit down at it.
Amen sister
JulySummers Say it again!
Amen amen amen
On DC we learn so much. Judge LT out here giving us viewers free life advice 👏🏾
From the intro these two on different paths🤦🏽♀️
RR aye Clart Right. He doesn't even claim her.
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RR aye Clart you are right
RR aye Clart Right?!
Ummm TWO years and you don't know if your in a relationship or not?! *Eye roll*If we go on two dates I need to know where this going lol
Girl roll, you're convenience to him. We've all been there, just don't stay a doormat.
Why are they on divorce court if they are friend
Unique Anderson she wants more from him than he wants to give
PREEACH 100!!!
Ya they should of been in couples court
I have one word for her ,RUN ,get as far away from him as she can
She seems like a nice, intelligent woman with a good head on her shoulders.
I just don't understand why she's trying to make things work with this scrub.
I hate how people cling to bad relationships. It's like they can't see past the title of being in a relationship.
They'll be in any relationship just to be with someone.
This was a bummer.
The dude is a scrub. He's using her for a place to stay. He doesn't care anything about her and everyone but her can see that.
I hope she finds some self esteem and moves on.
the guy was clear on where he stand in this relationship, so JUST BECAUSE she now wants a relationship, he has to abide to her needs? She said in the beginning that he had done a lot for her, so she felt she WANTED to do some for him, none of that makes him a scrub, quit judging.
Another episode of a person who is struggling with low esteem and not loving herself...these women are everywhere, why couldn't I find 1 of these when I was single..lol
Not only do I agree with you 100% I'd also like to add that I believe he's a down low brother. He don't even like having sex with her. He looks like a stud. Woman trying to look like a man. I don't see what the hell she sees in this lil scrubby looking punk. 🤔 He's unemployed & using her for a place to stay. She's a cute girl. She can do so much better...
She is scared of being alone. Period.
He isnt into her
She knew that. Sometimes we have to hear it from someone we respect before we choose to believe it.
JulySummers
So so very true......
that's where the saying came from... "A prophet has no power in his own tongue."
So she is a compulsive chatterbox who wants to define the relationship and he is the shy, silent type who isn't quite ready to commit. He's living in HER apartment, he's a job snob, and he's not giving her nookie....and I do believe this is the first time I have ever seen a cat MAN in my life. Perhaps he should get a nice little apartment where he can live alone with his cats and she can go find a man who likes a chatty lady and they'll both be much happier.
He looks like he'd make a good " Drag Queen".....
That is exactly what I was thinking
Not2old2rocit I was here thinking he's a transgender
Not2old2rocit why did I say the same thing😂🤣😂🤣
Killer cheekbones!! #TRUTHCAUSEWEALLSEEIT
@@shannonellis2559 Exactly what I thought
WAIT- they are LIVING together, being intimate and he only wants a FRIENDSHIP? Puleeeze!
She is going to waste all her pretty and child bearing years on someone that doesn't want her
"Why buy the cow when the milk is free"!!!
Ro MustLive #OnPoint!! Are you from the Caribbean, by chance?! Lol
He's down low. Gay🤷
Because the milk is not gonna be free for so long...... danmmm it!!!!!
Then you get good quality milk. You know where it is coming from!!!
He need to eat that food and stop feeding them cats his dinner !!! He needs that food
He looks like a female to me or he looks very eccentric
First woman in very long that speaks normally. Without ums, ahhs etc every fucking second.
Ladies, if you ever have to pin down a man and demand for him to define the status of your relationship - please realise that he doesn't really want you.
I know. I am a man.
A Who Dat? I agree. I once had a "boyfriend" introduce me as a good friend...I was done.
She had the benefits that he needed. Unfortunately, she wasn't a part of that. Ladies stop putting out before he put a ring on it or be in an actual serious relationship.
“Never make dollar decisions for nickel reasons....” the best line of the episode!
He's not into her!!!! Please, get it together girlllll 😂
GIRL HE DON'T WANT YOU.... HE AIN'T WORTH YOUR TIME.... Over there looking like Popeye without his spinach
LeAnn Watson kmsl hahaha
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LeAnn Watson You killed me! Lol.....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...... '...without his spinach'
he loves her but he is not into women. They would be good best friends. he is probably on the DL
He look like a trans man to me
@@bellaclark5439 He sure does
Why do I feel he's into guys too😬
Uzor D I think so too. My gaydar has picked it up since he asked in.
me too!!!! and he not even talking and im like thats sweet. if he could be out and she be open they prob have an awesome friendship.
Uzor D he is.
He has the most amazing cheekbones I've ever seen on a dude.
Dudette?
Another classic cases of the "I'm-gonna-change-him"s lol
is it me or does his voice not match his appearance lol was he a she first? im confused with what my eyes see and ears hear!?
Leah star lol! exactly
He looks like a woman trying to look like a man🤔 I think he's confused 🤦
"Never make dollar decisions for nickel reasons"... priceless!
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I got here so soon as I got the notification..Divorce Court is the bomb 💛💙💜💚❤
Stocking Anarchy
WORDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I don’t trust a man that I can physically throw across the room AND has no facial hair😩
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Beauty/ attraction is really an eye and beholder type of thing.
The End.
pretty sure his gay .... plus how many times can a man say he don't want you until you actually hear him.
Ummmm hunni he is gay!!!! Please move on....
Quintina Smith hmmm 🤔
Why can't she see THAT, omg 😲! He's GAY!
Espc they in the Atl you know how the DL get down.
I AM LEANING THAT WAY ALSO AS HIM BEING GAY
Hello!!!!
Ilove Joe's smile! I know he has probably heard a lot of these situations B4, but he always radiates and I respond to it.. He & Toler are a great team!
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From a black woman to another....
My view is that women sometimes get stuck in a cycle of relations and we FORGET how to love OURSELVES. And its not a good thing... nor is it "unfixable" so don't put any labels on her..... jus Pray for our sister... that she wises up, and learn to LOVE HERSELF again. And forget him.... Love has its effects on the brain... go research and u will see. She's Beautiful, she's intellectual, she's a hard worker.... (and she loves sex!!!)
WHAT A COMBO!!!!
You go girl!!!!
Pick up your head... take the lessons....
And MOVE ON!!!!!
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#Power2MyBlackSisters
#Power2AllmySisters
#My2Cents
He is no not attractive...
Taylor John That's what I'm saying 😂😂😂
Taylor John He's a skinny little punk. Looks like an ant or something.
Lmao
I thought that was a woman tryna be a man.. ijs
Toy Smith me too 😕😂😂
Toy Smith Me too.
Ok its not just me lol
me too...So y'all saying, he really is a male...😮😯
Vee Darko I have to agree but I'm not either
lmao!!!! he said he's here to solidify friendship
tomi enitan nuff said with that 🤦🏻♀️
Charming individuals! They just need to take the judge’s advice and get to know themselves, great episode!!
I think he likes how she treats him but he is not physically attracted to her, its hard for him to tell her that because he does not want to hurt a friend.
She wants him. He doesn't want her. She looks like a man. He acts like a woman. Girl, he. does. not. want. you. Forget about him and move on. Why even come on the show? smh
She needs to see the movie "He's not that into you".
Your beautiful and smart but unfortunately you don't know your value as a woman. Why you here to define your relationship with him. You are in pain and he makes you look bad. Ladies we all know when to end a relationship but sometimes we get stuck hoping things will change and we hurt ourselves more. No one can make you happy but you. Love yourself and set yourself free. Men will chase you and they love strong and independent women. Girl RUN!!!
she needs to invest in a brown lipliner if she's going to wear these bright pale lipsticks.
LOL, u got me looking crazy at this woman's lips🤣🤣😂😂 but ur right tho...her lips look they have no shape definition. Like they're just there 💁
I hate those ashy pink lipsticks 🤦🏽♀️. And I wish she would fix her bangs so it doesn’t keep moving with her eyelashes lol
How can you be living together with a whole human man and not be in a serious relationship? You cant cohabit casually can you? I mean, wow! Don't you know when someone is MOOCHING off you? Ugh. I am saddened for her. get this guy to leave and find someone who doesn't see you as free accommodation
I bet his ancestors are from Somalia !
She knew better. Women quit with the force and the neediness! Let a man find you!
When she said “good golly”. Lmaooooo 😂😂😂
First impression, pink lipstick? Sorry, but you played yourself on that purchase.Not every shade is your shade. lol
Deviancy Behavir 👀👀👀👀🙊😭😂😂😂
Deviancy Behavir I’m dark skinned and I AGREE she up there looking all wrong mane
Never make dollar decisions for nickel reasons....judge Toler is on it!
You there Judge. Did anybody notice that she said we will live separate for awhile? She is still trying to get him to commit.
You do not attend "Divorce Court" to solidify a friendship. This man is playing you, sis, move on. Never make a person tell you they don't want to be with you more than once.
Judge Lynn Toler I think you gave them great advice especially the young lady sometimes we as women don't have time to learn who we are so therefore how can we know what we want or who we want in our lives we have to Define. Own selves not allows some other person to Define us in a relationship thank you so much for the many wise words that you give over your show I watch you everyday I go to CZcams and watch you day and night thank you you are a wise woman and you helped a lot of people
It's amazing to see how many people base a relationship around sex!
He's gay. Boom! There it is!! She's his cover story! He's using her.
I don't understand why some women push themselves upon someone that isn't clearly wanna be with them. soon as you see he's making excuses pack your bags ladies. Its not going to get better. Find someone who want you and appreciate you.
I've known a few woman who can NOT be without a man for a day. Even if they leave a dude they have to get right into a new relationship the next day or two. People, esp. women need to learn to enjoy time with themselves and not feel they NEED a partner.
The great thing is, one day you wake up and start loving your self, your third eye is completely open and you can see/hear/feel bullshit before it settles.....Life, right?
Friends With Benefits relationship causes depression!
He has more than sugar in his tank... He has sugar in his tank...
he looks really thin (sick perhaps).
I'm not sure. I didn't see that in him.
I'm no judge. Only God can Judge. I expressed an opinion. If i had a woman like her, I would be in heaven. He just came across as Judge Lynn said as a person who took advantage of bad situation... And I personally don't have an issue with that...
Other than looking like a woman trying to be a man, he has a strong resemblance to a boa constrictor😂😂😂
caramel honey lmao lmao
I cannot with y’all in these comments 😩😩😭
caramel honey lmfao!!!!!
caramel honey i’m laughing out loud at work 😂😂😂😂🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍
Or an 🐜 ant
At the start he said... "I am here to establish a friendship".
Girl...he told you....here him well and get walking! Don't wait to be told a second time
I am going to use that one, "never make dollar decisions for nickel reasons".
Never let a man tell u more than once that he don't want u
And if he stay he will play u...
I hope this girl will take the judge advice. Because that’s exactly what she needs to do
when he she said "Go get some cats," I busted out laughing , good advice Judge
This episode is killing me lmao!!!!! Mr. Walker is making me crack up like crazy dwl!!!!! On a serious note thou he knows what he wants and he makes it clear. She needs to have some sense and leave cause she needs a label and she's not gonna get it with him.
Judge Lynn tell numerous women numerous times " don't never let a man tell you they don't want you more then once". This is the reason why.....she wants more and he doesn't. Some women need to understand you can't make a man settle down and be them no matter how good of a woman she may be it's sad and unfortunate but true.
I love judge Lynn Toler's personality! Lol😂👍
this was probably one of the funniest episodes I've seen.