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I'm a victim too by my neighbour who was a teenager and i was 7 or 6 yrs...i came to know that i was abused when i was 17...i took 10 yrs to know that i was abused....the trauma is so real. I told my by(who is ex now)that i was abused but he told don't do that hereafter be loyal to me.... even bf think it was my mistake....i was just 7 yrs old ufff...
Glad to broke up with him
Absolutely It’s not your mistake. We must educate the people (both genders) from school itself by sex education. Even I was abused by my relative girl when I was so young and now I’m realising I had been abused . It hits suddenly when we are doing our normal work.
It's not your mistake. It's not easy to come out of it, I can get you. You have been brave don't get into the victim's mindset.
Sorry for what you experienced. It's not at all your fault.
@@sangaviash7910 I'm so sorry, Glad he is your Ex. Dont fall for such guy again.
I came across this video after the Kolkata Doctor rape incident. Part 2 throws valid pointers than part 1. Some of the valid points are
1. Asking the female to ignore small abuses in whatsapp, social media etc that impends bigger crime like rape and throwing voices after the incident which in first place could have been prevented. I have seen in many foreign countries where the law supports immediate assistance to any form of inappropriate behaviour/abuse be it online, physical etc with real concern and respect to the people facing it. What if India enforces such laws against any form of inappropriate behaviour without having any sort of negligence/ignorance.
2. Stalking - I cannot count the Tamil/Indian movies that fantasize coercing the girl into love/relationship by continuously stalking/pestering them. Young people who grow by seeing these things will believe the same. Movies in a way are influencing mob in a wrong way. Keerthi History also spoke about this beautifully
3. Rape free world - I can only imagine the joy and freedom that female will have when traveling in train, going to other public places without sending location to anyone. I am stunned at this point.
India has lot of restriction in common places like school, college, etc for a boy to speak with a girl. But, in other foreign countries they dont have such serious social practices. But, they have lesser rapes and harassments than India. So what did India achieve by restricting interactions in school and colleges? The duty of the school is to teach values to overcome problems like this and not to avoid the problem by stopping the interaction.
Its high time to stop normalizing abuses, accepting or tolerating the crimes, and get rid off "Its how the world is. You stay away from it" attitude.
Educate people!
Yes, i was absued. On a bus, by a doctor, by relative when i was a child. And now i am messed up in head. I also seen many absures get married. When i think of marriage i dont want a guy who absued someone or a phedophile. How to find it? And prevent myself from getting married to a phedophile or a rapist/ abuser.
பொண்ணுங்களோட மதிப்பு வலிய தெரிஞ்சவங்க பண்ண மாட்டாங்க அதுக்கு அம்மா, அக்கா, தங்கச்சிஇருக்கனும்னு அவசியமில்ல அவன் ஆம்பளையா இருக்கனும்
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Real man never hurt anyone
Someone write a book called "why some men never rape".
I definitely wanna appreciate you for coming up with a topics like this. Movies CZcams every one trying to get views by giving contents how most of the crowd want to hear or see. But ur giving really valuable content which is eye opening fr most of us. Giving different perspective to the judgemental society who hide around women to show what’s culture. Hat’s off to u girl. Definitely agree with all your perspective. I hope at least some of them would change there perspective through ur video. Being a women Am proud of you. I wanna raise my hand too I was abused numerous time in my childhood by numerous people and situations. I just couldn’t remember them but it feels like dream I felt that way now. Effect of abusing I normally walk by putting my head down. Many times men shows some sexual signs while u see them it hurts me sooo bad so I stopped making eye contact also wont look around due to that fear. Still I have such a fear.
That's a nice point. How we need to support our own community. Like school, cinema, workplace.
I changed myself after seeing something like this. Thanks. I hope everything will change! Hurray for your journey
How to raise a child who never abuses? Does open conversation alone can help? Or is there something that we miss? Is it covered in the book?
Good question.
Rape victims jailerudhu release pannum podhu sweet kuduthu welcome panra County idhu.need strong law for this issues
It’s not victim, it’s convict
Hi RJ Ananthi, It's been 10 months since this video was posted. Na ipo dan pakran 😅. Truly appreciate your efforts 👏.
Yes, I have been abused by a transgender when I was in 9th grade. Ipovum enaku Avangla patha oru bayam varum.
My Lady was also abused by her friend whom she trusted. The sad part is she doesn't know that she was being abused.
I think, educating kids and people is much more important. As you said, Shout out when you are being abused. Hoping for a different future.
Yes, I have been abused..still I feel traumatic whenever I saw that person and couldn't explain to anyone what iam going through...
And also he is one of our relatives person is the worst part😢
I know i can’t do anything but tell everyone you were abused and make sure he never comes near you again file a complaint, it can be hard you cannot live like this
You can tell this incident to your parents right..?? please tell this to them because it's not some random person abused you its someone your seeing or facing repeatedly... Even if some random person i think it's better to speak this with ur parents...
Ungaluku thairiyam vara varaikum Inga edhume maradhu🥲...
Yeah I've been too... By an old aged man when I was 6 years, it took almost 20 years to say that to my mother & cry. But I learned to defend myself from such creeps at an early age due to my aversion. Till now I have a name among my friends & collegues that I'm a man hater, just because I keep such men (who try to approach me differently than a friend) at bay. That is the main reason I questioned about double standards on men & women. I learned one important concept is that abusers are not ready to come up in a lime light so shine it on them instead of breeding them as you said ananthi.
Being abused is such a worst traumatic experience a person can face in their life. Abusing a person is such a cruel and brutal mentality a person can have.. They have to die ! .
And i don't think ur called a man hater just because u avoid those people who approach differently than a friend (and i don't think male and female friendship is a stable thing or it exists maybe really rarely on some conditions, it's a different topic) I think it's because ur a feminist. I think most feminists are irrational coz they are ignorant of male and female biological and psychological differences. And i have came across many women who identify themselves as feminists are actually incapable of accepting their mistakes and then acting on their emotions. And most have no logical counter argument and then proceeds to keep on bashing the same irrational, illogical, non factual, unscientific arguments. And feminists like to have conversations with people who have no counter productive arguments coz they can easily be won but they are not ready to argue with factual and scientific things.
I've seen ur comments on different channels so i can get why u being called as man hater(misandrist). What u r questioning is not the double standards , it's the difference between men and women, it exists.
My stand is men and women are not the same And u can now change my mind .
And also we had arguments before and u failed to prove ur point and i had similar arguments with other feminists too, most did the same thing.
@@pot8735 thanks for your concern on abuse & killing an abuser is not the wholistic solution. But I disagree that I failed to prove my point. I walked out because you still think double standards exists just because the physiological & psychological difference between male & female. I dont know your definition on feminism, but I stand firmly at the true definition of feminism- its dont compel men/women to follow some stereotypes just because of their gender, just treat them as equal human.
Its clear you wont be changing your ideology & will continue to argue. But Be sure I wont change either, I will be a proud feminist & will always fight for equality for all genders.
Peace out
@@jayalakshmijayachandran8370 u still failed to prove ur point coz "proving a point" means u should have to come back with a counter argument , walking away is not a way to prove ur point ,u have to prove ur point by argument not by walking away,I don't think double standard exists in a traditional roles. I think u didn't know what double standard actually means. So prove me how double standard exists in a traditional role. Prove me wrong I will be a feminist the next minute. Walking away is not the way to prove ur point, u have to prove by counter argument that defends ur stand.
@@jayalakshmijayachandran8370 and prove me how's that not killing a rapists is a solution. Seems u dont understand the social structure we'll enough. Prove me!?
@@pot8735its not possible to prove it to you because you are blindfolded by being traditional rather than being rational. You are not trying to understand feminism but trying to blame & convert feminists according to you. You made it clear by telling that abuser must die instead of thinking a way to control sexual abuse in a wholistic level. I'm not gonna try to convert you to a feminist its more of a internal change that one should go through. This will be my last reply to you ever, bye creep.
Yes.. I have been abused when i was 2nd or 3rd std
I immediately told my mother about it and she told my father but idk what they did... The trauma is real
It actually made me a tough person
It definitely take a toll on me
The effect is still exist and im not sure whether im over it or not
The incident is still fresh on my mind
But his face is not clear
U took me with him with my mother permission to buy me ice cream.
Bhaiya ye sab chutiyapa ha inn gandu logo ko khud hi nhi pata kahe inka man machalta ha
Mera point of view bataye toh hum toh yahi kahenge ki film hi ye sab ki jar ha films me soft porn yaha waha itna subtle tarike se dikhaya jata ha ayese ek khwaish ko ek aam admi ke dimag me plant kiya jata ha ek rapist ka dimag bana diya jata ha agar sexy ka definition films nhi samjhati toh kayse ek 5 saal ki bachi ka rape hota kaise 60 saal ki aurat ka rape hota ya kaise burkha pehne huye aurat ka rape hota films sab dekhke bass dream karte rehte ha film ko hi jindagi man lete ha ek heroine ko dekh lete ha toh koi usse milta jhulta ladki ka sakal dikh jaye toh larke uska piche par jate ha love nam ka bawasir ho jata ha inko are mere pyare chindi bhaiyo pyar ka spelling bhi ata ha tumko ??!!...
Films ka motive hi kya ha entertainment or education hi nah toh kahe ye chutiyapa dikhate ha ayese bhi toh films ho sakte he jaha humari sanskriti ko preserve kiya jata ha auroto ka or admiyo ka izzat kiya jata ha sabko samman ki nazro se dekha jata ha kyu itna faltu ho gaya ye duniya jaha humare behen didi ko nazre jhuka ke dupatta or ke burkha pehen ke jana padta ha kahi or ke dusman se nhi yahi humare aas paas ke admio ke nazro se bach ke jana padta ha
Ye log chullu bhar pani me dub ke kyu nhi marte jee kyu rhe ho taki auroto ko dekh pau or unka asamman kar pao chiiiiiiiii jaha aurat ko devi ke rup me puja jata ha unhi ke kok se janam lekar unhi par hawi ho rhe ho
Nasamajh namardo chutiyo sharam karo bhagwan se daro or har ek insan ka izzat karo gandu
I have been abused by my own cousin brother @ my age 8....yaa exactly still I didn't reveal this to my parents also.........but I HV been told this to my boyfriend once I feel very secure with him.....but now we broken.....I don't know how they r abusing physically nd mentally.....my thoughts will be respect nd responsible should be equal for both genders..... don't hesitate this as ur low thoughts using gender discrimination
25:58 Unmaiyana independence ah ella women um enjoy pannalam❤❤.
Almost my doubts were covered in this video.. thanks for that.. and.. there are so many people who talk about these topics which are labbelled "sensitive" ..but its only you who can have a neutral perspective and which clearly makes anyone understand the way it is..👏👏👏
I have been abused by one of my close friends still I feel the fear to tell this to anyone as i gave him the space to do this all. Due to this i still have issues in making relationships in my own life.
if it was with consent ..then don't worry..if it was abuse ...then file a complaint
You can still get him to justice dear. But one more important thing dont limit yourself because of that wrong doing get up & fly on reach the horizon
your story is same as movie "Satyaprem ki katha"
@@akee1618 Because most of the time abusers are well known persons to the victim
100%
my tuppence on this crisis:
a. all movies with love as one of the scenes- the hopeless man serenading or harassing a woman , stories, songs, etc - put a warning upfront before tobacco/alcohol warnings that their depiction of romance is not real and not to be followed
b. put POCSO rule in the credits before the movie starts AND publish pocso in cities and villages
c. make men & women understand that getting into these sort of relationships isnt 'love' - its just calculations that might go awfully wrong
d. ill-educated population - not just talking of school or college gradn - the fact that most people dont read beyond the daily newspaper and magazines (that're sometimes filled with filth anyway) - they dont know their own native scriptures, etc to think of things and people beyond themselves
e. girls should be clear that if the male they befriended ever ask for physical intimacy, break that relationship off immediately if they have dreams of marrying that person in the future. no mature fellow will ever ask for sex before marriage if he really respects himself and the girl. never too late to break a fall instd of going thru with it out of insecurity
befriending some male without family's knowledge itself is a big first step to disaster - so beware and get a life!
f. the lawmakers/keepers - these pathetic scum will never do anything right to implement the laws - look at the # of politicians and police and bureaucrats that have raped and/or have their sons as rapists that got away - priya mattoo's killer, asifa's murderers, unnao, hathras, pollaachi, etc etc - the list just goes on and on.
Exposing to porn in improper age and getting a inorganic sexual education leads to sexual abuse nu nenikura akka
I really get scared after seeing this video, and scenioes, Really thank you for sharing the reality in it ...
You did great contribution to this society by this video.. thank U sister 👍👏🤝
Hi Ananthi ma'am,
Some men in our society.. Some majority part of men, are disrespectful towards women. Adai parthu valarum samudayam 'mathu' nu pesuradhu not a surprise. Veetla sila taaai maargalum, ann pillai meedu adeeda mariyadaiyum, pen pillaigal meedu madip inmaiyavum nadathuranga.
Adai parthu valarum samudayam 'mathu' nu solradhu no surprise.
Change should begin at home, change needs to be sown by good parenting. It's my observation.
-Vivek
Among my cousins boys are given more attention and more respect by family(the girls are asked to serve boys...we are in our teens ) even though girls are equally capable of them..
Until now I was not asking anything about that as they are my family and relatives but hereafter I'm going to voice out if I find out discriminating activities...
@@Learning-ej3mr
it's necessary & essential to stop discriminations. eradicating differentiations will cultivate harmony.
-Vivek
I am a boy ,I got abused by a men during bike lift . He continuesly press private part during the journey of 10 to 12km. (That is extremely painful, "NO ERECTION, NO PLEASURE = UNCONTROLLABLE PAIN (I would like jump from the bike) tired & energy loss , can't walk...
Omg 😳.
You should have blast his balls brother💪
😄
then why you continued that 10kM journey?
Pls don't laugh, this shows your maturity level.., when someone shares their worst experience , either give them a solution or shut up!!!
wow mind blowing speech and I am too learned a lot about what is happening and I find some answers why it is happening either it is our mind set or the society!... thank you for this most boldly speech video with more information and facts!!....
Women is not a flower .she also a human .
29:28 then should punish women who file fake rape case on a men who want to move on if he sniffs it as a toxic relationship.
The thing is he will be put to jail even if he is not an accust and after period of time he will be set free when "he proves" that he is innocent BUT at the same time she will be set free even after he is innocent, here she wrongly blame him eventhough no punishment to her.
The men again has to go for defamation and to prove HIS side and produce strong evidence to seek justice.
Everyone says about equality but where is it in law ??
U r right. We should convey our problems. If we think they won't liaten without saying that's our problem. As u said ellam ponnoda karpu la than adangi irku nu solranga athanala than ipo karpazhipu nu oru term ey use panna koodathu paaliyal vankodumai nu than use pannanum. Atkast really happy for the reply u gave to deepak 😊🎉
Super sister.. most of the womens and mens are too shy to talk about it.. u make a good move.. and i sure your speech on this topic can a make a great change in society and make a nice amd better future....🔗🦋
I have been abuse lot of time age 8 to 10 than, ipavum ponnunga strong ha No sola maatikaranga antha Boldness varanum No solanum , than next martial art learning panirukanum plz soli kodunga,parents strong ha itha kathuka vaikanum pengaluku avinga matum tha sequr so😢
Give respect = Take Respect (mariyatha koduthu mariyatha vangiko) all youngster's should learn this lesson first.😉
Justice For Doctor
இந்த சேனல்ல பைனான்சியல் எஜுகேஷன் பிசினஸ் இன்வெஸ்டிங் சம்பந்தமான புக்ஸ் வீடியோ போட்டு ரொம்ப நாளாச்சு😢😢😢😢😢
great speech anandhi. bravo. i salute. gender equality is must or else the whole society will fell in tragedy.
YESS!!! I've been abused...but it took nearly an year to understand that I had been abused...it happened with consent later I realized that I've just been manipulated by my BEST FRIEND to satisfy his needs. And till date I feel guilty for trusting someone to that extreme who just threw me as a trash after using me!
Found someone who have gone through the same 🤝
Thanks for part 2 video
Part 1 vdo cmt panirutha part 2 vdo podunga awareness irukm nu
I thought one experiment. We should make one state or region where women population should be always greater than men. And in political power there should be more women. What will happen?
sister why don't you talk about CA (CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT) courses??.
Hi Ananthi,
I appreciate you very much for the open minded and progressive views which you are sharing through your channel.
Do you think doing yoga, meditation and exercise will reduce the tendency to rape/insecurities which make people do these things?
Is there any research related to this?
Thanks,
Kaala
I think the biggest cause is porn and the availability of porn to anyone with a mobile in their hand at anytime. The more they watch the more the pervasion increases. Also the availability of drug and under the influence of alcohol. So if someone keeps on indulging in all these then what is the use of yoga, meditation and exercise.
@@shaktishrivithiya496 currently porn is banned in India, though there might be alternate ways to access it. My point is to bring about a physical and mental training regime which prevents youth from engaging in liquor, porn and rape kind of activities. I realize its utopian!
@@QZWERTIOQ I come from a country whereby law is not compromised. That works above all n is proven.
Your explanation so cute ❤ because my sister feelings to your explanation keeping your work ❤😍
You are really doing a great job
❤
From all the book reviews i had seen by you i'd say this is by far the best. You are saying whats on your mind and its conveyed clearly.
One request. Please go through all the comments and talk about it as you did in this video. Its more informative and i personally learned alot from you today.
Thankyou for that.
i was twice sexually assaulted by my own friend and I reported this to my own elder brother , he tried compromising me saying we cannot take any steps and it happens generally and said me to move on . whom should i blame more now ?
Your brother
How old is your elder brother? If your elder brother is a minor you should tell your parents. And some boys are not mature enough to handle these types of problems, so you have to inform your parents.
Victim shaming country
23:20 perfect point
Hi akka 🙋🙋
Enakum sexual harrasment natanthu eruka
Na 5 or 6 yrs erukum pothu
Relative la oru uncle ena harrase pani erukararu..
Ena matum ela enga area la eruka elam chinna ponnu nga la um..
Antha age la athu enku sexual abuse ne theriyathu...
Yaru kita um sola kutathu nu soluvararu etha...
Aprm na 10 th padikum pothu...
My brother enkita sexual abuse pana nga...
But my brother and that uncle both are now die...
Epa recent ah I harrased by police.....
I really feel that ...akka
Na sona 3 perum ena save ah pathuka vendiya vanga...
But avinga tha ena harrase pana nga.......
Man go gym and strong go your goal 💪 the life is one your character discipline you will be the strongest in world
Rape boosts the male ego while simping boosts the female ego. There's no in between. Sex is always about power.
Everything in this world is about sex; But sex is about power - Oscar Wilde
Enna da simping rape compare panra,
Thank you for uploaded part 2 of it.
I have been victim by my sis BF in last year. At first, I was scared and I don't fell confiable to talk abt it. But, at the end, I talked to my sis, but after I told her she still be with him. I really get angry why my sis y didn't understand my position. So, What advice can give me and my sis?
Just disown ur sister ! When blood is not thicker than the water ,just pull out the cancer blood out and do medication for it......
Super ma... Maathu nu ungala yean solanum ...
What is your view about it
Just my perspective:
Consider one special case,
Abuse pannavanga thirundha koodaadha?. Victims speaking out may be the last for them. If you are seeing the abusers living happily infront of you may be they could have changed or else they will reap what they sow. May be both the parties understands that don't waste time by thinking about the past, But very cautious in the next time and educate the same to children.
But that doesn't mean they shouldn't be punished for their mistake. But we all know "kaalam kadandhan needhi is aneedhi".
Anandhi's speech shown some new perspective to unaware people
Kindly Watch complete Video before commenting on gender bias
read this also tamil konngass
Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false
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Sis ,
Can you please make a review on "The mountain is you" book.
I agree with everything but there is lot more things are going நிறைய பேர் இங்க ரொம்ப நல்லா தப்பிக்கிரங்க what I mean is not only the persons you said what I convey is as a men I have met some girls and they are saying that they were abused by some financialy wealthier people doing this.I wanna ask you that do you will face them (super rich) with the same potential that you have right now for other girls what you do is you will safeguard yourself and you will try to protect the girls and don't fight against him see I don't mean that அதனால முன்னாடி பண்ணினது correct nu sollala athuvum thappu than ana wealthier ah irukkavangala face panna girls romba bayapaduranga work poidum,family la thappa ninaippanga nu. then sollamudiyama avunungala ethuvum pannamudiyama irukkanga and for example: vichithra big boss season 7 la enna situation face pannanga and Yara face pannunaga nu ellarukkum theriyum even Kamal sir Kum kooda but enna pandranga antha person ah ethuvume panna mudila innum nerya nerya nerya irukku and I am thinking that everyone is respecting the persons who are super rich and wealthier financially and அவுங்க பண்ணினது ஏன் எல்லாரும் light ah எடுதுக்குராங்க even Kamal sir, its a crime more than rape.I can understand that what you are trying to convey for mens and as well as women but as men I have this serious question to someone who's doing the things that you are doing especially the media persons why you guys don't have the guts to ask them they are the majority people go and take a look out of book and ask the girls around you who were working as a daily wages labours
You said that only intercourse is not sex, doing something which related to sex is also sex. So Even a adolescent girl entering into sex with a juvenile boy who doesn't know what is sex. Here who is raped by whom?
I got so much knowledge from your video akka Thank you 😊
Mam I am cleared I am also absued
Mam pls thanthra vazhiel thampathya vazhkai book pathi sollunga pls
17:05 remembering chinmayi
Same feeling
ஆண் என்பவன் தனது உணர்ச்சிகளை கடந்து அவனுடைய உணர்வின் கண்னோட்டத்தில் ஒரு பெண்மையினை கண்டால் இங்கு பிரச்சனையில்லை சகி....
Akka i am studying college 2nd year ennaku unga ellam romba pudikum recent a phone ku romba addict aana maari oru feeling aana ennaku athu pudikala aana controlum panna mudiyala exam la nalla mark vanganum aasai but phone nala concentrate panna mudiyala ennakaga nalla suggestions kuduga akka pls
focus mode la potu padinga.
Most of the time they are either intoxicated or under the influence of some drug..
Really great book and thank you mam for this video 👍
A Women Tried to Rape Me but I Easily Defended The Attack She was Easily Defeated Because she was Weaker Than Me.
See everything you said is ok but I don't understand one thing. How rapist are created. women Not only saying no for that thing. There are some other things. So many people don't understand. The reality.
How rapists are created??
Wdym?? Valarppu sari illa. Sariya values oda andha shits valarala nu artham. Idhu Enna kelvi uhmm... There are other things we don't understand ..?
Sonna dhana puriyum what are those other things enlighten us .
@@lakshmithasridhar3175 yes ofcourse I am trying to say that if the parents have to raise the kids in proper way that's the main reason and not only that . the society is also play's important role in human life like movies series etc. And important thing is that the person mental health should be in good condition. These are all the things make a human to take a wrong decision. Only blaming the men is not a good one. The shit thing you told is a nature. It can be controlled by some people not by everyone. Every men can't be ram every woman can't be sitha. reality is good things and bad things should balance eachother. So don't expect neutral.
@@mohand3567 see the video meant the same thing Rapists are not monsters ,somehow they are victimized either by others in the society or naturally by themselves (yes this too happens) . That is the whole.point of the video. And u r commenting as if u disagree with her and say something new ( but u said the same thing lol).
The problem with u guys is this.
When a problem is addressed instead of seeing the depth of the problem u see it as offending and suddenly go into defend mode saying " Not all men are ram, not all womem are sitaa ..blahh blahhh" . Grow up.
Look at my comment did I mention men or man ???? I said rapists ( which of includes all the genders ) , though predominantly it is done by men to women and others I said that way cause even a handful of women who do such abuses aren't meant to be neglected.
Being a human in the first place and woman in the second place I have this clarity. I wish u have the same.
Secondly.. " the shit things I said...."
??? U better Mind ur thought and language first. What shit things did I say uhmm?? The things I said seems shitty to you ?? If so its ur thought that's is shitty and not the things I said.
I mean r u sane?? When is said shits I meant the rapists ( regardless of gender). R u angry that I call them as shits??
U and I can say many defensive things on part of the rapists like psychological issue, society's part, family, abuse etccc... But such things would never ever ever justify the cruel thing they do (which is rape) . Get this point.
We take such Factors in account to understand them to some extent and so may be by having clear Convo with them we might change their criminal attitude. The whole point of the video is this !
But taking this factors to defend their act is complete nonsense. No matter what a crime is a crime.
If a person rapes another one becus the former was once Victimized is still a crime and inhuman act no matter what, but if a victim in his or her effort to save herself / himself from a rapist kills the rapist then it's not a crime but defending oneself against it inhuman act. If u know the difference , u won't come up with gender issues or others here again while talking about Rape.
And finally... I very well know The world is made of both good and bad and those things are to be in. Balance. But why r u saying that here??? To defend the very act of Rape ?? So that the world would be balanced?? Is that so???
Balancing each other and neutralizing things are more or less same. I wonder y would u contradict urself.
I was sane enough to see this issue as an issue and not a gender issue.
I don't know y u bring gender here ( even though rape is predominantly done by men) and expose ur hypocrisy.
Strong law rules and punishment vandha maridumnu namburanga ana adhuku vaipe illa kannuku theriyama thappu panna dhaan try panuvanga avungala maranum thapu seya koodadhunu thonanum bayamuruthi yelathaum sadhika mudiyadhu
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Major nadakuthu illa pasnga abuse aanlum veliya solla maatanga avalavu than ka.. 😢(5:00).
as far as i know marital rape is STILL not recognized by law in india or does it change? can someone update me on this. thanks.
Hymenoplasty: akka plz talk about this. It is continuously increasing in India .
What does it mean??
@@harinisaradhag4664in some states of India people consider presence of hymen as a virginity sign , which is false. But women should undergo hymen test after their marriage to prove themselves versions so some women from such community are doing surgeries to reconstruct their hymen. A famous plastic surgeon reports hymen reconstructing surgery in India has increased from 20 to 30%
Why men are rape romeo varusama Enakulam irutha question ithu athuku na kandu pudicha answer rape is a mental broblem are decis but itha video pathathum I was very sack because it's wrong really I want read that book thank you arthi sis you doing really awesome work ❤ I love soooooo much❤❤❤❤❤❤
Last ta sonnadhu 💯 true
Only metaphors... colours,shapes.... likely food advertisement...hmmm .not understanding who am i,and what is the opposite gender...much more create and stimulate the atoms ...but these are all one kind of delirium...body parts just part of the body...nowdays totally portrait other frames...keep safe ...not only womens including mens...thank you mam...✍️
Who are more mostly abused men or woman? Don't try to defend
Well done akka ❤👏🏻
Kolkata issue pathi solunga
மன அழுத்தம் & தற்கொலை பற்றி விளக்கம் தரவேண்டும்
Yes pls sister
akka namma andhmaari yosichi kadhakkiravanga kitta oru conversation vachikanunnaa...adhukku avanga kekuradhukkum readyaa irukkanum dhaanee...
Well said Akka.
Neenga indha maathiri awarenessa podumbodhu yaarum yemara maatanga..
Yup every women in their lifetime have been abused and i too have been abused i accept it..But it's not use of sharing every individual stories in social media Yes it's useful when every women raise her voice and actions against men on that particular incident that doesn't mean we should learn to fight. Protect men too❤ According to Men are being raped! At the same time perspective of Men seeing women should be loved nd respected if it's in wrong way definitely teach them about it rather than growing or praise them in words of Nee Aambala da, avaluku laam idhan daa gedhi u gave her a lesson, Supporting them is worse way to promoting this type of mEn. Atleast grow our future Boy Kids in good way❤make them know Equality..
I know sister you have told already but I want to ask why man are chainging 😢
Maam ithuku reply kedaikuma terila
Ella boys gang la yu oru playboy nu oru kevalamava irukanga
Avanga ponnungala avanga vasa paduthi payanpaduthikuranga athuvum rape thana,
I think hope kuduthu rape panrathu vida kodumaiyana oru seyal ethavathu iruka.
(Itha pathi atleast peasa kuda matranga)
Playboy nu solitu panrathu it's a biggest crime.
. Rape is natural in primates including humans. Both the non judaic Abrahamic religions were the first feminst movement developed to be an anti rape weapon.
Ancient Greece and Rome were not against rape that's why they developed science and technology democracy,rule of law and everything the modern world is built upon.
Indians were feminine worshippers and that's why they excelled artistically but were easily dominated by the outside forces.
In short rape is masculine simping is feminine
That is interesting
Anything without a person's consent is wrong, literally anything
Neenga victims pathi sollumbothu namma Andrea Jeremiah nadicha "Anal Meley Panithuli" tha enakku mind la varuthu mam
You are going very well Ananthi Nice
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Yes neeinga neriya nalla vethamavey pesi irukinga ..
I have been abused 4 times in my childhood
Annan seaman anni vijayalakshmia rape panada pathi enna ninikringa madam
But eppo court vandu vere sollude, relationship le sex pannitu mele rape n consider panne mudiyadun sollirke
good convertation
Could you explain sex abusive all Indian Act to public.
Yes I am also abused in my childhood.
But yenaku apo athu abuse , athaal pannrathu thapu nu thriyathu.
Mam, Some people says islamic culture is wrong for womens...அது saria law irukka கூடாதுன்னு ஒருசில பேரு சொல்லுறாங்க .... Aana anga thaan நீங்கள் சொல்லுற மாதிரி யாருட்டையும் map location ah அனுப்பாம night womens வெளிய சுதந்திரமா போறாங்க ..... Sariya law thaan sari nu naan solla varala.... Will you decode sariya law for women...
Bro, neenga shariya rule follow pandra countries la poi 1 month irrunthu paarunga aprom neenga correct or wrong nu sollunga.
Waiting for this video for 2 weeks
Yes