Dating With Cerebral Palsy
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Can we just take a moment to acknowledge how fire his haircut is🔥
You're such a loving sister, and he is a sweet genuine guy!
Love this!!! I’m a wife, a mommy of 3 with Cerebral Palsy. I was recently on barcroft born Different and it was amazing how many amazing people reached out with Cerebral Palsy. We are just as amazing as an able body person💚💚💚
Hi Valerie! I’m Melissa from the video and I connected with you a while back. We are definitely just like everyone else we just do things a bit differently
@@melissat494 aww very cool ❤️❤️
I saw you on instagram thankyou from the bottom of my heart for being so bold and kind for not aborting these lovely cutie pies❤️
It broke my heart when the girl he liked back in school stood him up 💔 I hope he finds someone soon.☺️
i think it’s because the girl doesn’t want to be seen
It's perfectly okay for the girl to change her mind, people have a right to like whoever they want.
I'm disabled, use a a wheelchair, and have vocal damage, and omg dating is difficult! I feel your struggles! Best wishes!
So true
People would judge people even with little but foreign accent. Good luck anyway I wish you have found or will find soon your soulmate
True. Its just hard to find somebody Who dont pity us.
The wheelchair becomes the obstacle that eventually will drive the guy crazy
Dating is a numbers game, even people who don't have disabilities struggle finding the right partner.
Just keep searching
I have cerebral palsy and this video really resonated with me. I've always had a difficult not time not only with dating but making real friends since I was always bullied growing up by the people who i thought were my friends so I have a really hard time trusting people.
I have cerebral palsy and a sister too. would love to make a video about my story. Please make this top comment.
I have a client who has cerebral palsy, in a wheelchair. He has not been able to find anyone to date in peraon, only online who end up taking advantage of him
Unfortunately this happens very often. People who don’t understand what cerebral palsy is tend to be afraid to get to know the person because it’s unfamiliar to them.
A sibling who finds a date? Where is this Alternative Dimension and how does one enter it?
Ffs you are the radhika apte of youtube 😂😂
@@akanshasingh1202 I will take that as a compliment and continue to do good work 😂 you
I have Cerebral Palsy too. I hate it most of the time. I would love to find a girl who’ll love me for me. She’s out there somewhere.
Hi! As a woman with hemiparesis cerebral palsy, dating is really hard! Thanks for being so supportive of your brother!
Literally, the best sister any brother could ask for😊
Bro is handsome, kind and a business owner; he deserves a great girl.
This is so heart warming and beautiful. Sean is my brother's name too, but I'm the one with the disabilities. I'm so sad that Melissa lives too far away, she was so sweet. ❤ But, at least they both have a new friend to talk to in this time of isolation! Keep at it you two! Your person is out there, and they are just waiting for you to show up too. 🤗
Hi, I’m Melissa from the video. Aw! That is too sweet of you. I wish I lived closer to Sean but am glad I made a friend at least!
But the sister is such a nice sibling
He cute there’s someone out here for him if I wasn’t married that would not be an issue for me at all.
My favorite comment😁😂
As if
He is cute!
are you married with someone without a disability? what’s it like to be in a marriage?
@@SpongeB00b_is_a_savage I'm not married but I just wanted to say be careful and thoughtful about the person you want to get married with
Having a disability really does make it difficult to find a date
Let’s all get together and make a dating site with no photos, you have to actually talk for an hour or so before seeing what eachother look like
I like this idea (I am Melissa from the video)
Agree. Personality and attitude is key.
@@melissat494 Hi there! I really loved this sweet video. People having very specific types, excluding people for height or race or disability or other identity, seems like a common complaint. I feel like it would solve a lot of problems to have a space for the rest of us that just want a fair shot with people that are more open-minded.
@Cindy Guerrero well yeah I’m not saying we start a service for arranged marriages
It’ll be like the voice, but better.
This Sean x Melissa Crossover is what I needed. I have officially melted.
@@melissat494 OMG BIG FAN!
He’s handsome and seems very sweet. Idk who would not want to be with him.
You wouldnt, theres one
Females these days are mad superficial so you cappin and you know you cappin. No cap.
@@j_a_m_e_s_ exactly
@@j_a_m_e_s_ I have a boyfriend already that’s why. I’m sorry you clearly have a negative outlook on life when someone is trying to give a compliment
@@citylights3452 Ditto response to u as well and don’t act like men aren’t superficial at all. I give a compliment and u 2 have to turn it into a negative.
I have been working with neurodiverse individuals with wide range of abilities for years.
We need more videos and individuals like you guys to spread this message of love, acceptance, and embracing neurodiversity.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you!
Thank you for all the work you're doing! Hopefully we can continue to break down stigma together! :)
@@SheenaBrevig Thank you for your kind words - it really is a privilege and an honor to work with such beautiful and amazing people. It is my hope that within my lifetime that everyone will see what we see :)
I love this! Please bring back Sean I have CP as well.💚 It’s not about disability you are so right. We are just like everyone else we just need help sometimes and that’s okay. I find that meeting someone revolves around that friendship connection.
I hope COVID-19 ends as soon as possible and everyone is happy and healthy. 😁😆🙏
Fun Fact: Zoom was founded because the founder had a long-distance relationship. So, there’s hope for everyone out there!
Wrong! There’s no hope for me.
Verrrry sweet and caring of the sister to set the date for her brother ❤️
This was so cute!!! Such a sweet thing to do for your sibling. I hope Sean finds love ❤️
To those that have never tried dating someone with a disability, there are some sleeper hits out there.
Sean seems like a wonderful and genuine guy! And you’re such a great sister! Very wholesome video:)
I have very mild CP. the only thing it effects is my gait and speech. My whole life people made snap decisions about my mental ability based on my physical difficulties and it sucks. I’m on tinder but when guys want to meet up I don’t want to because I’m afraid for them to see me. I had it in my bio for a while but I got too freaked out. Thanks for the video it was really cool.
The tshirts are so cool! I love ink man!!
Omg, this dude has been through so much and still has such positive energy. Universe!!! I demand you find this man love....ASAP!!!
This is so sweet thank you for taking care of him...I have CP
Imma definitely have to cop one of those shirts, great work man!!!
Some watch Cheesy Rom-Coms, but this video is the Valentine’s Day Content I need.
So wholesome! Good luck Sean! With those looks and personalityyyyy Im SURE you’ll find a lovely lady soon:)
Ok but Sean is cool af! That hair and his style!! I’m sure he will find someone! All his date ideas I was like “OH YES PLEASE!” 🤣
Awwwww this video is so touching because I have a very mild form of cerebral palsy so I can do everything by myself which means I also have no problems when it comes to any type of socialness but this guy's type doesn't seem that bad and he doesn't look weird to me, I don't get why he got stood up. Have faith everyone, there's a time for everything!!!
Such a great pair of siblings - you both seems so nice. Good luck in your search. ❤️
What a dynamic, wonderful pair of siblings!!! He's sweet, she's a fantastic sister! Have fun Sean🙌👍😊
Loved how you care about him and spend time helping Sean to find a date.
❤️❤️❤️❤️
Good luck, Sean! I’m rooting for you!!
I have cerebral palsy and this is awesome. You go sean!
My boyfriend has cp and he’s in a wheelchair and struggles pretty hard with day to day things he loves me because I actually “look past” that but the way I see it is he’s a person just like everybody else who wants a chance to find someone to love but my family sees him as just a breathing disability and it’s really frustrating
I applaud you I have mild CP I walk on my own but occasionally have to use a walker and dating is really hard for me I have a lot of friends but I can't deny I am looking for a great guy someday I think that is amazing that you looked past his disability not to many people have the heart or maturity to do that! Bravo to you and him don't worry about what your family has to say if you truly love him that's all that matters!!!
My fiance has cerebral palsy
This is probably the best buzzfeed video I’ve ever watched
This vid needs more views fr fr.
This is so sweet! Thank you!!
Loved this! I wanna see him go on more dates! 💕
You are such a great sister and your brother is going to make someone very happy with his great attitude and cool haircut.
Way to gooooo buddy keep moving forward and enjoy life with all the smiles 🤙🏼
Tbh, kinda jealous of his haircut
Fr fr.
he has style
Same here
He seems like a really great guy! I wish the best for him. He just seems like a rad dude!
He is so sweet and very handsome. Good luck to him. I hope he finds someone who treats him right.
Isn't Sean just a pip? He's so adorable inside and out! Hope he finds the one! ♥️
There might be communities and organisations at hospitals for CP patients, it's to help both them and their caretaker learn more about the health issue, I highly suggest signing up for one of those events!
Omg i love ink man. It’s actually really good art.
Everyone here deserves love. Focus on the personality and attitude you want to be around.
He's too cute, I wish him luck in his journey of finding love!! ♥️☺️
Love this!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
This makes my heart happy
so handsome and kind! you will find someone great in no time!
Sean is awesome! Hope he finds that lucky lady. Also that mullet is kickass!!!
Cool hair, cool style, cool art, and cool sister, too! Here's to finding your tandem treadmill partner
I'm also a sibling. Kudos for creating this video! I just wanted to say that it's about time we change the term "high/low functioning." What do you mean by "functioning"? They're not robots.
Hey, my sister has CP and is wanting to date as well. She's currently in law school and trying to help others with disability rights and activism. Please reply if you'd like to virtually meet her or make this a top comment so others can see it! Her name is Joy and she's truly the biggest joy in my life. I know she's perfect for the right person out there.
Yesssss other siblings trying to set their siblings up!! Haha! That's amazing she's in law school and helping others in her community! Go her. Hope she finds someone to treat her as well as she deserves
As a woman with CP, I relate.
Who has cerebral palsy?🖐🏾
me
Me!👋
🙋🏽♀️👩🏽🦽
👏
Me🤚I have cerebral palsy and walk using crutches but just like everyone else in the comments section I'm also all alone
Sean and Sheena, thank you for teaching me about cerebral palsy.
🤩 Sheena’s personality is effervescent (On top of that she is perfectly comfortable on-camera. I bet she works in the field.) 🤩
he's such a cool person!! i know he will find the one for him one day!
Nice mullet dude🔥
RIGHT?! That hair style is fire!
Sierra Casteel ik
4:58 My eyes teared up seeing their expressions upon meeting.
Aww. I love this. Wish I could find a date, so hard though even when I don't have cerebral palsy.
How do you feel about the thought of dating somebody who has cerebral palsy?
Sister:So, what kind of stuff would you want to do, if you got a girlfriend?
Me:uh lol.
Owwww! He's a cutiepie! ❤️
ok king of mullets
As an older woman who was born with cerebral palsy I can relate to his story of wanting to date but being shy about it because I'd also love to be able to date but sadly it's impossible because there aren't really any options out there for disabled people ( I mean in my situation I walk using crutches and guys look at me as if I have some sort of disease ( Newsflash men disabilities in general are not contagious )
the video title got me totally confused and I was like "Who is Cerebral Palsy?! some celebrity that I have never heard about before?!" :') until I recognized that the video is about dating with people of special needs.
I have cp an know how Tough dating can be. I always gets told to date someone with CP. It Frustrating
I don't have an intellectual disability. I have an attraction for a man with CP. Is this acceptable to pursuit him? Are people with CP intellectual impaired enough to be susceptible to being taken advantage of? I don't want people to incorrectly assume my intentions are bad. I just want someone who loves me like I love them: unconditionally.
He got a lucky and lovely sister
I know how he feel I also disabled with Soto syndrome curved spine learning difficulties low muscle tone and more things that hard to spell i am just a 25 year old goth form the United Kingdom it really hard to get a girlfriend for people like us
And also I only got 3 brothers
I loved this video. I too am a big sister to someone with cerebral palsey. How old is Sean? I will tell my sister to hit him up in Instagram. We live in Florida so it might be too far for a real date but making like minded friends is always nice. Does anyone know if there is a networking site for special needs out there that does not charge?
Hi! I hope she reaches out to Sean! We haven't found any sites that seem like there are enough people on it. I always have the fear that Sean will get taken advantage of since he's somewhat vulnerable in that regard. I'm wondering if I need to make this a project of mine to create some kind of site like that...hmmm. Thanks for the sweet comment and lmk if you or your sister come across any sites that are good!
@@SheenaBrevig Hi Sheena. I totally agree. That is the biggest issue, getting taken advantage of. I believe that is why the few networking apps out there for special needs charge. It helps keep the sneaky people out. However I'm sure that it also makes it difficult as most special needs are on limited incomes or dependent on family for extra spending money. Unfortunately when it comes to internet and matters of romance any one is susceptible to be taken advantage. I always tell Suzy, my sister, to remember not everyone always says the truth. That's why its good to talk to someone else (trust worthy, like me or our mom) first before taking any actions or making any decisions. 2 heads are better than one.
Why does this channel have 20 million subs and they barley get any comments is it just me
Well the video also only came out less than 20 min ago🤷🏼♀️
No, because their content is off nowdays, see, did you make interview videos of anyones or ur siblings decision to date?
Ok thanks for you’re opinions
My faith in humanity has been restored😭❤️
‘Sheena (she/her)’ don’t know whether to laugh or cry
Sheena, you are the bomb!
I hope your brother finds some one I know how he feels 😢
I'm 65 and I've gone through what he's going through as far as dating and relationships
Because I have CP
Does Sean meet with someone to help him in life. I meet with a life aid a person who just helps me navigate the world with my learning disabilities. They were always so knowledgeable on dating and where I could look when I was looking. There is a glass slipper for everyone and Sean will find the right sight for him. Also plenty of mainstream dating sites accommodate disabilities.
Hi Rachel. Could you give more details on how you found your life aid? Also could your share the name of those apps for dating with disabilities?
My girlfriend has cerebral palsy. And I wouldn't change her for the world. Stay beautiful guys
YES
Hello!
His hair is cool
Um, I am married and way too old but I love him!
i have CP, i don’t know about dating someone who has *neuro-typical* disability. if i’m in a relationship with someone with a disability, i would be embarrassed if people are looking at us
Well that was all just dang cute
Best sis
Hello
What is cerebral palsy
I think he made up his mind about her too soon. The date went well so they shouldve dated a few more times and had fun. Maybe if it worked out she wouldve moved near him. He kinda friend zoned her quickly without seeing if it was something worth sticking with. Long distance can and does work out if both ppl want it enough.
You have to also realize people with disabilities have their own families and communities that often times they don’t want to leave. We also didn’t hear her side of it. Maybe they talked about meeting and she said she didn’t want to move either. There’s a lot of factors that come into play that we can’t judge him on.
Wondering what dating site they were using...have a friend with CP and he also wants to meet a friend.
Facebook dating. Is how I trying. Tell them in intelligently disabled upfront.
It’s the slap for me
Please please someone who watches this. Please create a dating site for individuals with disabilities!
I’m 22 and I also have cerebral palsy
I also know the struggle your brother faces … may I say he’s handsome