Common Manipulation Tactics Used in Christian Churches
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- Examining 8 common manipulation tactics used in Christian churches
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I think the worst part of the church's normalization of emotional abuse is how those of us raised by christian families couldn't escape the manipulation even at home, and in fact... we were taught to carry that emotional manipulation with us, in our way of seeing the world, so that in time we become our own abusers.
That's so true. So much of the pain and trauma comes from how one is treated by their own family, which is a direct result of the indoctrination of christian ideologies.
Yes, yes, YES!!! Autistic and gay woman here, raised in a Southern Baptist fundamentalist church. I’m 46 years old, and dealing with decades of trauma from the church, my family, and as you said, from myself. I hate it, I’ve never been able to shake it, live as my true self, and learn not to hate myself. I HATE what Christian’s, the church, their god, I hate what they turned me into.
@@ahsokaventriss3268 The church is one thing. Jesis Christ another. What has Jesus Christ done to you personally that you are against Him?
@@vadouis-rt3of Is jesus the son of god or both. Which one do you pick?
@@vadouis-rt3of Jesus has not done anything, that's the point. Lmfao
Finally, someone who is talking about the psychology of religious teaching tactics. I've always said or related god as being in a toxic relationship with a narcissist. Great job. 👍🏻
I've seen a couple of other videos on this topic. This one is by far the most complete I've seen. Love Kristi's videos.
I was literally just making that comparison 5 minutes ago on my Facebook.
It actually is like being in an narcissistic and emotionally abusive relationship…
I have this image in my head of the god of christianity nailing his child on the cross and then turning around and saying: 'look what you made me do' with a psychopath smirk... if the shoe fits, I'd say... although most people are just indoctrinated into it and forget about the 'bigger picture' and just focus on the suffering of the 'poor sacrificial lamb' figure of jezus...
If god exists he’s more narcissistic than Trump …and that’s saying something!
Fear, guilt and shame are definitely used to keep the people in the church
That is what the sinner thinks about the church. When you are born again by the Spirit of God and come to know Jesus as your Savior and Lord...Firstly, guilt and shame for your sin are taken completely out of the way when yo have repented and totally trusted Jesus. Secondly, fear is cast out. "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love." (1 John 4:18)
Unfortunately for the sinner who has not experienced the new birth in Christ, of course fear, guilt and shame will continue to control their lives.
@@christophergibson7155 I'm sorry that you're not able to understand
@@christophergibson7155
Son of Satan Christopath don't insult my many Chinese friends named "Sin." We reserve the right to sue.
@@stevenbolin7688I understand all right. To paint the experiences of "former Christians" who have de-converted with all the same brush is not reality. The many believers in Christ I know to not live in fear, guilt, and shame. They have been freed of all this by the wondrous work of The Lord Jesus Christ on the cross.
@@christophergibson7155 again I understand your point, but every single person is a sinner and judging others because of their beliefs is against the words of God 🙏🙏. When you're a student of history and religion you're able to learn things that aren't in the Bible, I was for 55 years and I have been studying for over 20 years now and have a few degrees in Theology which makes others think that I'm an automatic sinner or something, I spend 65% of my day in study of ancient books 📚. So I'm definitely dedicated to learning more about religion
I’ll never forget being told by the church that it was my fault as to why I am hard of hearing. I was prayed over many times and was never healed. I was told that God will not heal me because I had some sin in my
life. I was 7 years old
SUBMISSIVENESS and OBEDIENCE VS. DEFIANCE and DISBOBEDIENCE
Who is the Creator?
ANSWER -
Jesus Christ KNOWS
the Creator is the True and Sovereign God as written in Matthew 22:37 and John 17: 3
What is the worth, value, and importance of submissiveness and obedience to imperfect, suffering, and dying human beings?
ANSWER -
Jesus Christ KNOWS
that the submissiveness and obedience of imperfect, suffering, and dying human beings to his authority and teachings about the "Kingdom of God" and "Resurrection of the Dead" as written in Matthew 28:18, Luke 4: 43, and John 11: 25, 26
will definitely bring them honor and the Creator's favor and reward of ETERNAL LIFE and existence on earth without sufferings, pains, griefs, sickness, and death as written in Revelation 21: 3, 4.
What is the consequence of defiance and disobedience to imperfect, suffering, and dying human beings?
ANSWER -
Atheists and Evolutionists
who are openly and proudly filling the world with their lie and false claim that the Creator is worthless, cruel, merciless, and undeserving to be honored and respected as the True and Sovereign God
and
Jehovah's Witnesses, SDAs, Mormons, Baptists, Catholics, Born Again Christians, Muslims, Buddhists, Hindus, and fanatic members of all kinds of Religions
who are openly and deliberately misleading and deceiving their own families, friends, and neighbors to believe their lies and false teachings about "Armageddon", "immortality of the souls or the heaven and hellfire doctrine", "Trinity", "rapture", and "reincarnation"
KNOW
and are fully aware that their willful disobedience and defiance of the Creator's Sovereignty and his Christ's authority and teachings
will definitely bring them dishonor, disgrace, shame, and cause their own downfall and ETERNAL DEATHS, just worthless and useless dusts on earth forever.
What is the worth, value, and importance of the "Kingdom of God" and "Resurrection of the Dead"?
ANSWER -
The Creator KNOWS
that he didn't create human beings with immortal souls and they will just become worthless and useless dusts on earth after their deaths just like the animals as written in Ecclesiastes 3: 19, 20 ; 9: 5, 6
but
all his worshippers who died recently and thousands of years ago like Abel, Noah, Abraham, Sarah, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, Job, Naomi, Ruth, King David, Jesus Christ's disciples and followers, and many others will not remain as worthless and useless dusts on earth forever,
instead,
in the right and proper time and as written in John 11: 25, 26,
he will let Jesus Christ RESURRECT them back to life so they can all happily and abundantly live and exist on earth forever as submissive and obedient subjects of the "KINGDOM of GOD" or His Kingdom
and fully enjoy his and his Christ's eternal love, kindness, goodness, compassions, generosities, favors, and blessings for eternity under the loving and kind rulership, guidance, and protection of Jesus Christ as his Chosen King and Ruler of the heavens and the earth as written in Revelation 11: 15.
What the heck 😢..... To a 7 yo 😮.... That's crazy and wild.
I'm a Christian and I was going through this comment section very sad at all the clear hurt people have gone through. I found Christ in 2020 but before that as a child I ended up leaving Christianity because of religious trauma at a pentecostal church at 13. That religious trauma shoved me into being agnostic and a new ager for years. Thankfully Christ got ahold of me in adult hood and I became a born again Christian. I'm not writing this to convert you but let you know I can come from a place of understanding. The first time I entered a church again as an adult I was seething, shaking, angry, hurt, and I let the pastor know what harm Christians did to me as a child (thankfully he was kind and I landed in a good baptist church this time around.) It still hurts to this day what people did to me as a child, but I learned what's biblically accurate - it's a walk and personal relationship with Jesus, not others. My faith is in Christ because he is perfect, my faith is not in people because they will inevitably let you down as they're flawed. I'm saved by the grace of God alone, not other people. I do good works not because it saves me, but because I am saved and want to please God - not people. Jesus died on that cross for you and he loves you. I know it won't mean much coming from me but i'm so sorry you ever went through that and it should have never happened to you. Do you know what your name means in Hebrew if it's truly Samuel? "God has heard."
I was called a "Radical Skeptic" from my pastor for questioning Christianity when I genuinely wasn't convinced anymore from a few months of basic research about the bible. I thought that was pretty good leadership lol spot on Kristi
Questions should not be forbidden. Some times the answer is hard to accept.
@@vadouis-rt3of The answer should only be hard to accept if it is not true.
Me too. I asked questions all the time. Questioning the church was NOT acceptable. Even fear couldn't keep me in this faith back then.
@@deewesthill1213the exact opposite is true, or were you playing sarcasism.
I’m Orthodox and have zero issues with questions plus I read church history like Polycarp I would never let others including friends who are Christian or atheist tell me what to believe, I would did my own research and found Orthodoxy true nobody forced me into it
College students are also incredibly vulnerable to evangelical manipulation as well. What with traumatized frat/sorority has-beens and all of that overwhelming academic and social pressure, it makes an ideal hunting ground for indoctrination.
Especially when it is a religious college.
Yeah, with all their parents money going for spring break where fornicating, pot smoking, stoned, drunk, sons and daughters being the future of this country. And this is not even mentioning Berkely!
Most colleges are notorious for their far left indoctrination than their religious manipulation nowadays. We all have seen that with massive pro Palestinian rallies all accross the colleges lately.
As if they all have one common agenda and protest every other opinion. I don't think that's any better. I can't think of an institution that provides a neutral ground for equal opportunities to voice our opinions without being forced to take sides and support a certain ideology.
@@raya.p.l5919 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
A lot of what colleges are teaching is indoctrination. Also telling someone you have value and and care about your struggles is not indoctrination
You don't have to be an atheist to know that everything she's talking about is true.
A lot of what she is saying is lies
@@dickersoncharlie4961
That's not much of a claim without evidence. Do you not understand this?
She has twisted the Word of God and has deceived many. "which untaught and unstable people twist to their own destruction, as they do also the rest of the Scriptures." (2 Peter 3:16)
@@christophergibson7155 You're one of the people she's talking about in the video. You always blame the unbeliever or the person who's struggling with their faith and you never have the humility to consider that you might be at least partly to blame.
@@mikenash7049 Although there has been abuse, manipulation, and control among some professing Christian churches; the fact still remains that those who leave the faith that they once professed in The Lord Jesus Christ, have de-converted because DOUBT has entered their mind. And it has been this way since the beginning of creation. What were the first words the serpent (Satan) said to Eve in the Garden of Eden?
"HAS GOD REALLY SAID?" This is the beginning downward spiral of the de-converted. First enters DOUBT,
then DISBELIEF, next DISOBEDIENCE, and finally DECEPTION. And so many more today are falling away.
Jesus warned us in Matthew 24:12..."And because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold."
Kristi... keep up the good work. 😎
As a lifelong atheist I watch your channel mostly for entertainment. However I am extremely impressed at the way you manage to phrase seemingly obvious common-sense questions about religious beliefs in such a straightforward and accessible manner.
(And I do find it humorous how offended so many apologists seem to get when asked to provide direct answers to simple questions or simple explanations for things that either just plain don't make sense or that put their beliefs in an unfavorable light.)
Thank you so much! :)
@@jezebelvibesYeah, I'm agnostic & common sense tells me there is no way that a creator of the Universe has anything to do with the Bible.
Some time ago I decided I would attend a midnight Xmas service at Truro Cathedral, which is High Anglican. I've always been an atheist, but I wanted to experience this event as a way of understanding. I thought I would find it quaint but celebratory. Instead, I found it highly disturbing. It felt exactly like a cult. The sermon fed directly on people's fears and frailties. The constant reiteration of "we will always love you" might sound harmless out of context, but in an environment of heightened emotion it was a clear way of taking control. My wife - an ex-Catholic - thought my reaction was funny, but I was genuinely perturbed by what I witnessed.
Damn dude
yes! normal people you see most days or converse with in the street suddenly display a mental illness when in a church setting . I have witnessed it myself recently . It is very disturbing.
I'm english, from england, and when I pass churches im often impressed by how they look, but then i find myself thinking, 'This is a temple to human sacrifice'.
@@whitemountainapache3297 " 'This is a temple to human sacrifice'."
Actually christian beliefs were a way to stop actual human and animal sacrifices from pagan religions that came before it. Having this mythical sacrifice that ended all future sacrifices satiated the blood lust people used to expect from their religions.
Jesus won't force you to love him, but he'll condemn you to eternal pain and suffering if you don't. Sounds like forcing to me, buddy.
Uuuuuugh the whole "silent treatment" thing. I told a former church member that when I was afraid I was losing my faith, I cried out to God to not let me go, and to do something to reassure me that he was really there. I had never in my life been more sincere in my desire to stay in God's hands than I was in those moments. And after a long time of hearing the same nothing I had always heard, and understanding that it really was always nothing, I finally understood that I was no longer a believer.
He emailed me this: "This one is tough because we all go through times when God seems silent. In a similar situation, I would examine my own heart. Why? Isaiah 59 tells us that God can be selective in our hearing if we are coming to Him in an unrepentant way (I am not pointing a finger, just pointing out a truth I have been convicted of in my own life.)"
So basically I can pray all day and night for months on end, but I can "do it wrong" and God won't answer because of that. If he were real, fuck him.
There is no him.
Just a big line of lies and manipulation stretching back thousands of years.
Fuck everyone who coerced you into believing lies, superstitions, and misinformation.
However it's important to keep in mind that they were all coerced and manipulated too.
I found Kristi through Tiktok forever ago, and honestly one of the best quotes she gave us that's helped me is "if an all-knowing God is only answering prayers according to His will, then the only prayers He's answering is his own". And that's stuck with me for the longest time because it was when I was early in my deconstruction of my faith and it hit me so hard.
@@laurarobin6311 No, Laura, her infantile argument just shows how ignotant she is. if this is one of her 'best' quotes, I wouldn't like to see her worst ones!
I think your last sentence shows the true state of your heart. It just took a period of silence to reveal it.
I assume you’re still alive though and have wi-fi, a roof over your head, a bed to sleep on, food in the fridge and clothes on your back? But no doubt your bitterness is totally justified because God didn’t give you a miracle.
@@simoncordingley3122 Absolutely right, simon. I know a man who cursed at God because God didn't immediately respond to his prayer request to give him 20=20 vision. This man uses foul language and makes filthy 'jokes' in front of women and their little children, mocks those who pray and read the bible, calling them 'pharisees', and yet still claims to be a Christian because he once 'put his faith in' Christ, many years ago.. When I advised him to reconsider his claim to be a believer, he took offence and accused me of being judgemental
This blog is a pity-party for people who blame God for the bad treatment they've received from ignorant churches, and from believers who are led by the nose by 'pastors' who are ignorant concerning the scriptures, and who mistake the exuberance of the manipulated religious flesh for the work of the Holy Spirit.
They are easy prey for the silly mixed-up girl who makes these videos, and who no doubt makes a living wage out of it.
Please come back, I miss you. You can talk about anything! I really like your channel
Thank you for all you’re doing for people, like myself, who grew up indoctrinated in the Christian faith. I have been devouring your videos over the last couple of weeks and have learned something from every single one of them. Every deconstruction is a unique story, but I want you to know that your videos have helped me immensely in my journey. Keep it up, Kristi! We need more voices speaking the truth!
What is truth and how can we know it?
What is truth?
Pilate asks, “Quid est veritas?” and Jesus responds, “Est vir qui adest” or, “It is the man who is here.”
Love how when you tell a church you’re going to leave it for another or that you have reached the conclusion that you no longer believe in their deity, they all of a sudden start acting like a toxic ex-partner. “Where you going to go? If this isn’t real then NOTHING is. NOBODY is going to love you the way OUR God loves you. You’re absolutely NOTHING without US in your life”.
Exactly. They always tell me I was never a Christian in the first place. That kind of makes them FAKE Christians then.
Politicians and Preachers are Narcissistic. Some are Psychopaths, but they are all parasitic.
Sounds like demonization to me, not ‘the church’
@@holotrout It IS demonization. But unfortunately, it is very, VERY common in churches to this day. Worked as a social worker for a decade. Had former clients privately and publicly shunned because they leaved their former church and had this rhetoric thrown at them over and over again. Unfortunately, the Bible would absolutely back up people who shun them and that is my issue. There is no “the church”. There are 45,000 different denominations of Christianity in the US alone. 100 different interpretations of the Bible that you can use and all of it can and IS used against people who walk away from their church for that reason. Because that church KNOWS it’s “the true church” so walking away from that is a spit in the face of that idea.
@@holotrout
Demons are always used to deflect responsibility. Other words, IGNORANCE.
My daughter and I still laugh our butrs off replaying this sermon we heard about how we need to drink the juice of the Lord, getting on our knees to open up for Jesus, swallowing the joy of the Lord, this was southern Baptist. They also had a sign that said Let Jesus be your Pokémon. I'm laughing just writing this because I cannot do that sermon justice. It was the most homoerotic sermon I've ever heard in an actual church. 😂😂😂😂
Should be illegal lol
Well, he did say 'Behold, I come quickly' Revelation 3 11.
That makes me wonder what LGBT-affirming church sermons must sound like! I keep picturing Jesus on the cross in heavy leather, LOL!
@@darlalathan6143 hey I think that guy did too
@@DocReasonableYet we've been waiting for two millenia for his second coming.
As usual, Kristi, you do an amazing job at breaking down how much Christianity damages people’s psyches and emotions. Thank you and keep up the good fight!
that actually brings up a good point
HERE IS AN IDEA FOR KRISTI
BRING IN A PSYCHOLOGIST ON THE SHOW
Ask the Psychologist to describe what happens when people follow something that isn't real to an extreme.
what happens to the belief system and what impact does this have on NORMAL PSYCHOLOGY
I already know the answers.
but.. it does make for a very interesting discussion
Kristi is fantastic. 👍
@@Amazing_Mark
Kristi is just TRUTH
For her being Truth she is sure telling a bunch of lies
@@dickersoncharlie4961
no shes not. what lies ?
Thank you for helping SO MANY others to escape the vicious cycle of manipulation and abuse and to find emotional HEALTH. I was part of “the cult” of being “one of the chosen” and “one with God.” I am now so sorry for the abuse I passed on to others including my own children!
Keep up your kind approach! ❤️☮️😀
I'm happy you got out. Give yourself a lot of patience and compassion. Thanks so much for the support!
She’s leading people astray from our father and creator. Open your eyes
@@holotrout My eyes are better now than 50 years ago. Religions of ALL KINDS rely on manipulation, deception, and arrogant “knowledge” of what “God said.”
Nobody has ever shown any evidence of ANY god saying ANYTHING. If a god wants to talk, it can communicate clearly and in every language.
They are either deceived themselves (as I was for far too long before REALLY studying religions) or they want your $$$.
Some do some “good works”, but at the expense of teaching people to ignore reality in exchange for myths and lies.
And you fulfil John 14:12, please.
Do - it.@@holotrout
@@holotroutApparently she's leading YOU astray as well because you seem more obsessed with her channel than you are in worshipping your "God."
If your giving an organization money week after week for a "reward" that you'll recieve after you're dead, yeah you're being manipulated.
Absolutely this.
Madelyn Murray O'Hair said the same thing. Where is she now? How did she end up?
@@vadouis-rt3of Unfortunately, she was murdered.
@@jezebelvibes Hi Kristi -- Have you ever brainstormed with Dr Bart D Ehram/YT???
@@vadouis-rt3of what does love have to do with the price of beer?
Thank you for explaining the concept of gaslighting. If you are not making the other person doubt him/herself as a person, you are not gaslighting. And every church I know gaslights the hell out of every gullible person they find.
Vulnerable not gullible.
@@neriumkristina I meant gullible. In our society we are far too prone to declare ourselves as victims, so I am very careful about the use of the word "vulnerable".
@@neriumkristina Vulnerable and/or gullible
Just lying is not gaslighting, but gaslighting is lying. People commonly make that mistake now.
@@andresvillarreal9271 In fact, the word 'gullible', though we use it a lot in everyday speech, is not actually to be found in any dictionary.
This spoke to me sooo much. My mental health is bad pretty much always, but it was so much worse when I was in the church, genuinely believing and sincerely searching for god with all my heart. The day I left and realized I no longer believed, such a weight lifted off me. Thank you for always speaking up about these issues!
A little bit of trivia . . . The term "gaslighting" comes from a 1938 play by British author Patrick Hamilton. It is set in Victorian England at a time when houses were routinely illuminated by gaslight. It concerns the efforts of a husband who is trying to drive his wife crazy so he can gain control of her money. The play was originally called "Gaslight" but when it came to America it was renamed "Angel Street." It was made into a successful film in 1942 called, "Gaslight." In the story, the husband's duplicitous actions are uncovered when the gaslights dim. It is discovered that they dim because he is turing on gas lights in the upper story of the house to secretly search for hidden jewels. The term gaslighting describes someone who is actively trying to confuse and deceive another person for their own profit or advantage.
That's a perfect description of what Kristi is doing.
Trying to confuse and deceive for profit because she truly doesn't understand God or the bible. She's like many others just telling her own idea of what it means just many Christian denominations. She's no different.
@@garystapp1656 Someone disagreeing with you is not gaslighting, you are purposefully trying to devalue the phrase
@@xXEGPXx That's not even what I said 😒
@xXEGPXx To manipulate another person into doubting their own perceptions, experiences or understanding of events. That's exactly what she's trying to do by deconstructing God and the bible. It's not because I disagree with her. Most people on here are happily agreeing with her that don't really know and understand true Christianity. She had a bad experience with it true and the majority of people in Christianity nowadays give it a bad name but there are still true examples of Christianity around. People like her and the people making comments on here are judging true Christianity by all the bad representations of Christianity.
I believe my dad said the moment that a lot clicked for him and when he decided to leave the church was when he was discussing something unrelated to theology or belief (I think it involved a choral arrangement) with a church leader and the guy sprang "would you be willing to yield to the wisdom of the church?" and suddenly many things that were circulating in his mind in a disconnected way about how people were treated and the abuse of authority all fit together. It's very interesting to me that the moment that caused it was so minor and unrelated to the worse aspects of abuse going on.
I'm very glad that my parents didn't raise me and my sister in religion. She would have been consumed by guilt and I would have gone angry and self-destructive.
It was probably because it was so minor. Leveraging his position like that for something so inconsequential, I would speculate, put the formula on display in the clearest, most unambiguous terms. When bossman wants you to do something, he speaks with "the wisdom of the church." It's the thought terminating cliche of Job."Who are you to question God?" that the church often employs to their own benefit.
You wanna know something? Most people leave the 'church' because they don't wanna put ANY money in the offering plate. Why is that? Because most people (especially in America) are MONEY WORSHIPPERS! The way of the world is 'quid pro quo' (this for that). Most people want something in exchange for their donation. When they ask God for whatever (and don't get it) they say, "that's the last time I do that". They'd rather choke on a cheeseburger than give a homeless person a dime. To hell with America!
I once wrote a poem about this, and you're basically explaining it so I thought I'll share. It's called "Heaven full of thorns".
Last Sunday I came across the one true mouthpiece
He told me he can help my inborn demons be released
He's the only one who can ever set me free
But he bonds me with expectations that will only be increased
Doesn't matter if I suffer as long as he's appeased
Now I owe him my entire life
So he can keep bringing up the sacrifice
Like it's some sort of a hidden knife
Of guilt
For a debt that none of us even built
Whenever fear can be instilled
He talks about prophesy fulfilled
For high attendance makes his ego thrilled
But all I see are souls his righteousness has killed
Instead of helping out the poor and roofless
He worries about who's saved of truth-less
Well the truth is
that a ransom should be useless
unless you're dealing with the ruthless
And don't talk about the corruption of your teacher
Because there's justice and perfection even in his worst feature
There's no bigger sins than the ones of the preacher
Who holds the sword of judgement against every creature
Judging every clothe except the one they have worn
Instead of being a proof of what it means to be reborn
In case you were expecting trumpets and horns
Guess what? Heaven is full of thorns
That’s beautiful and so full of truth, thank you for sharing that!
You're are definitely WRONG .
Heaven is a Truly GLORIOUS place,
Indescribably BEAUTIFUL !!!
@@SoteraSuspiriorum thank you, I appreciate that🫶🏼
@@John-fi5ik
You've been there, have you? Doesn't that mean you're now dead?
I think your fiction needs a little more work. It's just not remotely credible.
@@John-fi5ik So whose imperial star destroyer did you catch a ride on to get there?
Otherwise you were hallucinating.
Kristi- I hope you are doing well. I miss seeing your content on my tik tok FYP. You were instrumental in helping me deconstruct my faith and I can only hope to serve as a beacon to others who have been burned by the church. Please take care of yourself and know that your online community still supports & loves you!
The whole "game" of churches guilting people into compliance (which I DEFINITELY experienced growing up in the church) reminds me of a Deep Thought by Jack Handy:
Child: Daddy, where does the rain come from?
Father: Well, God is crying.
Child: why is God crying?
Father: I don't know but it's probably because of something YOU did
I was brought up to think my heart was deceitfully wicked, I’d say this was the biggest manipulation tactic used, that I was born evil and cannot trust my own feelings, mind or judgment. I really think this is why I stayed as long as I did, thankfully I fully destructed by age 30, I’m 33 now. Still working through some things but I’m pretty lucky my husband is super supportive and our kids are not being indoctrinated.
Thank you for breaking the cycle!!!
J power. Warning . intense
❤
Good for you, I'm glad you had the strength to follow your heart!
@@raya.p.l5919 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ju don't know what you're talking about power.
That is so very sad. Perhaps, you were never explained the love of God in Christ Jesus for you that was demonstrated in it's fullness at the cross. Any kind of doctrinal imbalance can be so damaging to a person's life.
If you were ever born again, please come back to Jesus. I was a backslider for 20 years. I just recently came back to Him. And I can tell you that Jesus is so much sweeter today in my old age than ever before.
"Look at all I've done for you!"
"I didn't ask..."
Capital 'M' for manipulation.
@@JustReed Capital*
To be fair the world would be a better place with kindness like Jesus himself.
“She is very combative,” says the elder when I argue vehemently about the communion bread and grape wine, How manipulative churches are indeed! Go on preaching Kris. It is very helpful to realize what gaslighting I have been subjected to. Several times I left every church , destroying my self-esteem every time. On retrospect, it’s really the manipulative tactics those clowns employed.
Hey Kristie. You NAILED every point so well. BRAVO! I finally had my fill when I had an issue (marital Issue that will not be discussed in public) which there is no real solution for using their doctrines. I had ONE pastor, a decent guy whom I respect as a person, because he was honest with me. He said he did not know how to handle it. Aside from him, everybody else was either scared to try to think it through. When they tried to use warnings, I would just ask simple questions they could not answer and it infuriated them. EVERY one of those tactics were used until the day I walked out and never went back, and I never will, other than maybe a wedding or funeral, but that is IT.
Flawless analysis Kristi. You have become one of the greatest critical thinkers alive. Truly amazing.
Yup.
You don't know jack about critical thinking. Neither does she. You both are in for a sad awakening.
@Nomads4216
Sad awakening? Christians are only obsessed with a story. Your in love with the story and not the reality of the story. You folks are in for a surprise, a really good surprise!
Right? And Dont forget her verbal talent of conveying her critical thoughts. Not all have a gift of that
@rubytuesday1316
Kristi says what most of us is thinking, but can't articulate like she does. She's makes it almost sound poetic.
20 + years in the "Assembly of god " cult church, I heard the phrase "Get out of your comfort zone" so many times from the pulpit. They were big on breaking down your personal barriers and forcing you to let your guard down. They made a huge deal out of giving up your own rights / privacy / boundaries all for the sake of the "body", the "family" of the church. It creeped me out and I hated it. If you held back and didn't willingly do everything the preacher said, you were viewed as resisting "the spirit". It was a total manipulative program to break people down and take away their individuality. Everything about "you" is wrong, and "we" are here to fix that.
I can still remember the time Rodney Howard Browne came to Maui (I was a member of AOG there and we'd get a lot of speakers, you know, it's Maui...lol, can you say, "tax deductable va-cay?").
There were people laying all over the floor....it was nutso. What got me questioning things was that they'd go around with blankets to cover women's legs for modesty. Okay, fair enough, but this woman falls right in front of me with an ankle length sun dress and dutifully they covered her ankles. But, you know, they didn't cover her top, where in her bra-less state, laying on the floor, well.....let's just say, that spagetti strap top...wow, so, I'm thinking, okay, if these people aren't just mindless sheep, wouldn't they not worry about her ankles and cover her cleavage?
It took a few more years and a major crisis before I left the church (I'd left AOG but just moved into another pentacostal cultish environment, Vineyard), but I'll never forget that woman's boobs and how they showed me that people are just dancing along with the Pied Piper and there's no "Spirit of God" in the building, guiding the saints, and changing lives, blah, blah, blah...
@@michaelsbeverlyHow strangely funny! 😂 But how genuinely accurate!!!
Excellent talk Kristi, and SO important for members of ANY religious group to think about.
This video is so spot on and explains perfectly what I wasn’t able to put to words. Listening to your videos has helped me understand my feelings towards church and the confusion I didn’t understand why I felt. Thanks!
As a child, I was instructed to imagine Jesus' mangled body on the cross every time I was tempted to disobey my parents or sin in any way.
I was also encouraged to imagine scenarios where someone asked if I was a Christian at the point of death and pray that through the strength of Christ I would value His name more than my life or comfort.
Because of that conditioning, as an adult I suffer from intrusive thoughts of people trying to kill me or imagining horrific gore.
Thanks, church. Definitely things nine-year olds need to ponder.
Healthy, and definitely not a form of child abuse.
I’m glad I sheltered my children from that abuse, before I left.
Oh man, this is such a common experience from 90s/00s youth scene. I'm sorry you experienced that. I remember reading "she said yes" and thinking that it could be a real possibility I would be martyred for my faith. It's such a terrible fear to instill in kids :(
We Christians need to listen to experiences like yours and repent of the practices that caused you so much harm.
@@PolymorphicPenguinNO you don't need to believe the bs without good reason and evidence.
Hugely relate to this. The intrusive thoughts of violence due to a childhood spent fantasizing about martyrdom is a big thing that haunts me as an adult, and I haven't heard anyone else describe having that same experience. Thanks for your comment, it's weirdly comforting in an awful sort of way to know I'm not alone in that, I guess.
Thanks for this video. Keep spreading this up Kristi!
I've been manipulated multiple times by a person who's extensively righteous in Christian faith and betrayed me multiple times for being misotheistic and atheistic in order.
I've so many personal experiences with my mental illnesses and sometimes through that righteous person with gaslighting. He said that schizophrenia is the result that you get because of thinking that you're someone selected by god even though you aren't. In other hand, I was gaslighted by so many speeches by the religious party that made me think that I've no salvation.
In my confession at the church, I was threaten once for rejecting god. When I was much worse at my mental illnesses, I saw many gory nightmares even when I was very unfamiliar with such violence and made me sick where prayers didn't work. Later on, I got exposed to horror genre and stopped praying. Now, I barely see such dreams. For being an atheist and exploring horror, he also gaslighted me telling that I couldn't blame anyone for what I would face. I was like, shut the .... off! when I saw him last before he took an action in form of warning me.
Something that I can't agree with Jesus is, how proud he was about himself being a Jew. Remember, that foreign lady? And how he blatantly said that you should treat them as "PAGAN'S" or tax collectors? Also, he's the one who invented the crazy ass idea about hell which brought up so many religious trauma.
Finally, I have got my control up to some extent which allows me to have control over my OCD obsessions. Religion was the greatest barrier to overcome them. These videos helped me a lot in the past.
Jesus Christ is not my personal savior.
You deserve to be treated better. Even if you are an atheist, that is no excuse for us Christians to disrespect you. About the pagans and tax collectors, Eugene Peterson paraphrases it as: "If he won’t listen to the church, you’ll have to start over from scratch, confront him with the need for repentance, and offer again God’s forgiving love." Jesus wouldn't want us to be mean and nasty to someone just because they don't listen to the church.
@@PolymorphicPenguin I'm glad that you feel that way. I was often bullied for many reasons. They also tried insulting me basing the religion itself. I pretended to be an atheist when I was misotheistic in the past, I could contact god because of my delusions, later on, when I became a devoted Christian who suffers from the mentioned illnesses, he threatened me, blackmailed me telling many things. The speeches in the church also affected whatever the trauma that I felt. And god showed me that righteous person and said that he's mean for you but you shouldn't take any action and should be patient because he's selected and will be glorified in the future(refer to the story of Esau and Jacob) and at the end it happened but I sank down rapidly but when I started becoming an atheist by watching these videos, I started getting back my self confidence little by little. So, now I can at least study and be confident to a certain extent at the examinations. So, my problem is, if god loves us well, how come I face such a horrible fate and if it's just my illness, why was his ability wasn't great enough to let me converse with him in the right way.
So, now I believe, there cannot be a good god or generally no god either with the aid of CZcams videos as well and it's not good for my current health to keep getting harassed by to which I gave life(God).
@@PolymorphicPenguin BTW.... May I know, why he mentions about Pagans then? Why are they considered as the deluded ones? And what has been meant by treating that person as a pagan?
Well, nobody yet knows what He wanted to occur to medieval Jews, or African slaves, say.
Or if so - it's been kept, remarkably quiet.
He certainly, didn't seem in a particular hurry, to be very vocal, or urgent about it - however.
Also, any who... have read 2 Samuel 24, and similar verses...
May find the idea... of 'forgiving love'... not always, convincing...?@@PolymorphicPenguin
I hope you’re taking good care of yourself Kristi! I know you took a break because this stuff can be emotionally heavy. I also hope (selfishly) that you come back soon! You have made people- including me- feel like we’re not alone. You also articulate very well the thoughts and lot of us have but struggle to put into words. We love you Kristi!
The Baptist church I went to taught hell fire, brimstone and damnation, guilting, gaslighting and everything else you mentioned. I also change to a non Denominational church but the hand raising, swaying and band playing really turned me off. Thank you for your views. They are the ones I’ve had for a long time and didn’t know how to express them.
I went to a elder at my last church, before I became atheist, to get advice about life struggles. He pretty much told me to just deal with it. I called him later to tell him how he hurt me feelings. He got defensive and started to make up lies about me in regards to past conversations that he and I had together. Getting counseling from non registered church leaders is never a good idea.
I've heard a lot of negative experiences people have had with getting advice from religious leaders. We need to encourage our leaders to do better.
@@raya.p.l5919 Seek a psychiatrist
I can not imagine any reason I'd seek christian advice for any problem I'd have in life. But boy are they willing to give it to you.
@@Cuffsmaster My parents suggested it. They also suggested I get annointed with oil by the main pastor for health issues. It did nothing. When I told them it wouldn't do anything I was told I was being stubborn and resistant to god's commands. It sucks to be raised in christianity.
@@Cuffsmaster 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
So true my friend so true.
Yes, you hit the nail on the head, as a little boy growing up in church the pastor always said those things and it frightened me, making me feel worthless, like it's my fault bad things happen to me, people around me and because of my nasty, disgusting sinful nature😟🤨
Kristi, I hope you and had a great holiday/new year. Looking forward to your return! Thanks for all you do! Let us know when your Patreon is up!
Tysm for mentioning how most of these church leaders most likely don't know that what they are doing is abusive. That just made me feel way better being able to move forward from the mistreatment that I got at times from the church.
Many people stopped giving money to churches, and give it to internet apologists instead
A lot of it is programmed so deep people don't realize it's even there.
OP - SO TRUE! Even going through the comments, there are some people who do not care who they hurt or by what means they accomplish their goal of proselytizing. I really like that Kristi decided to do this video to shed some light on these behaviors!
Great video, it makes me so mad when I remember when I used to go to church and was so manipulated.
Thank you!!!
And you created the universe?
thank you for this video, it truly brings me some comfort and acceptance for myself for not being religious anymore
Absolutely the best . Please never quit advocating and helping others heal ♡♡♡♡♡
@@nickg5010 shut up
Yes 🙌 x1000000! This is what I suffered from for nearly half of my life. Many years to heal from this complex PTSD. Thanks for pointing out the complexity of manipulation because it is generational and hard to break. We are the lucky ones, in that way. Or our children will be.
Thank you for taking the time to put these together. Your hard work is much appreciated.
You rock!!!! ❤❤
thanks so much for watching!
Until some one comes along and proves Kristi wrong.
@@vadouis-rt3ofAnd if that not happens?.
@@vadouis-rt3of Dude if you can prove god is real you will become a quadrillionaire overnight, if you had proof you would show it
@@Roukan0 Then wait for Judgment Day. It will come. Just like death. It is unavoidable.
Preach it, sister!! :-) I went to an IFB church for a long time and I kept nodding my head each time you mentioned how the person in authority(usually the pastor), kept raising his voice and pounding the pulpit to get your attention!
I've seen IFB authority figures in action in a few of the videos they put out and they seriously come off as nutjobs!
Yes, i totally agree with you!
Thank you for this video Kristi. It's very helpful on my deconstructing journey. 🙂💯
Keep on doing what you're doing. I respect your honesty and courage
Thank you!
@@jezebelvibes Thank you Kristi.
@@jezebelvibesShe's a heretic and a narcissist
When you started talking about calling God “daddy”, I literally yelled out loud because my mom does that. She said he’s our “healthy daddy” PLEASE. STOP. IM GOING TO THROW UP.
🤣🤮
Maybe if we actually had healthy daddies, we wouldn't need religions who entice us through our daddy issues.
Great work, Kristi!!
Kristi, once again you nailed it.
Yes manipulation is one of the main ingredients of religion.
Prostitution, of some sort, is a foundation stone of churches.
J power. Warning . intense
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Fact!!!
@@raya.p.l5919 And entirely a mental construct created by those manipulation methods. Fortunately, once you see the manipulation, it loses its power.
Yes, come to Ghana for my free Kool-Aid.
OMG Kristi, we need more on topics similar to this one. Thanks
How this resonates in a more detailed way that I couldn’t think about it before! I wish I had watched this video 15 years ago. Keep going 🙏🏼
I just discovered you today and you share my story, thoughts, and explanations. I've spent this past year deconstructing my faith without knowing it was a thing, so many daring evil people like me, so many sharing similar stories to mine on CZcams. I went no contact with my family a couple years ago because of narcissistic abuse, then discovered the Bible is the narcissistic handbook, how to be a narcissist. Everything you said in this video describes my mom and upbringing using the Bible as a weapon against me. Thank you!
The bible IS a narcissistic handbook! What an apt description in a nutshell. It's all about being the special ones. Who deserve to inflict all kinds of pain, because they're special. And god is most special of all, as god is constantly telling us in the bible.
I here you as someone who left christianity in 2014 I had felt the same thing my church talked a lot on the rapture made me wanted to pray 24/7 when I stopped going I really
started to think what was I so afraid of and found out it was just stupid. Thanks for making these videos and really debunking christianity great job👍🤘
I understand what you are saying, but just please know that because your church had gotten you discouraged, don't take your anger out on God. Read or listen to the Bible for yourself and pray. Jesus, Christ still loves you, even when the body of believers don't know how to show love to you.
@@richdelaney9500 are you kidding me watch the video she is spot on about christanity christains are litterly brain washed by church leaders
@@richdelaney9500 Most atheists became atheists because they read the entire bible. I don't think your point is as solid as you think it is. Also, your last sentence about "Jesus Christ still loves you" is unsubstantiated emotional manipulation.
@@NaNlinear I can understand becoming an atheist after going to a church or hearing preaching about how we have to work to get to Heaven after we die.
I did not intend for my comment to sound as though it is unsubstantiated, emotional manipulation. I was only trying to let everyone know that Jesus loves them because He died for everyone in the world. For you, for me and everyone else and I never knew of anyone willing to die for me....let alone my sins, until that moment that I repented of my sins and believed on Jesus, Christ as my Lord and savior on February 14th, 2017.
@@richdelaney9500 Even your new comment is manipulation. You are projecting your world view on to me. By doing so, you are doing two things. One, you are arrogantly proclaiming your belief is everyone's truth. It is not. Secondly, you are invalidating my experience by proclaiming my experience to be invalid. I understand you feel strongly about this, but do you see how this reads?
Its about power. Its always been about power
...and the tax exempt money!
@@judylandry302 they always need money
@@judylandry302It all goes directly to god - for his grand plan. Surely you don't expect god to pay them taxes? 😅
A narcissistic, psychopathic kind of control, because what does it truly matter if they convince people to accept Jesus? It at times don't make sense.
J power. Warning . intense
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These talks are so fascinating. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. Cheers ✌🏽🌻
Brilliant. Girl don't stop uploading videos!
I love the work your doing. As someone who constantly teeters on the edge of wanting to believe but too skeptical to commit i live in constant fear of being judged for my unbelief. I think youre brave!
If it helps, there are other dimensions and an intelligence that shaped and keeps shaping the universe, in my experience. I just think it's a shame to reduce that to a male authority figure that happily destroys you if you don't obey the contradictory things he says. And who demands belief, instead of your fully aware partnership.
Please come back. I miss you so much
Thank you, Kristi! Your videos help me a lot 🫶
You are doing great work
thanks! I appreciate that
@@jezebelvibes 🥰
I agree, Kristi is keeping us Christians honest
@@PolymorphicPenguin Yeah being honest doesn't mean you're correct.
@@A-non-theist Kristi highlights things about Christianity that we need to address, such as being manipulative.
I think our elders tried to normalize all of these abusive behaviors. Especially gas lighting. I think there is a cultural shift happening as younger generation set healthy boundaries. Thankyou therapists and Brene Brown!!! Lol
Every single time I see Brene Brown mentioned I simply rejoice ❤
I had to think out of the box when I read about the Christian Crusades, Saw the movie Kingdom of Heaven and realized my own father and grandfather went from Muslim (in Turkey) To Mormons (Utah USA) o-0 smh
@@rubytuesday1316 that is f*cked!
Great thought provoking video. Thanks Kristi.
Thank you for posting this greatly needed content.
Great content
Appreciate your time and insight
Thanks so much!
I just want to thank you for putting up this content! Hope you are well!
Your take is so fresh. I subscribed!
Great articulation of your thoughts. Some of these things can be quite tricky to explain when you are confronted with it.
Wow Kristi that was an excellent talk, one of the best I have heard recently. All of the points you raised resonated with me. Thanks for your time and effort to explain these manipulation tactics so clearly.
This was so insightful! Love your videos!
WE MISS YOU HOPE YOURE DOING GOODFD
Bless the algorithm and thank you, Kristi! Looking forward to whatever you do next, but mostly just hope things are going well in your world. Peace. 🦋
This is one of your best and useful videos.
Thank you for bringing this fact to the forefront of our life’s.
Thank you Kristi for this useful information
We need to lift the immunity from criticism that mainstream religion has. "You have to respect my beliefs!", "You can't criticize someone's religion!". Oh, really? Why should it get a pass?
Goring sacred cows should be a pastime... 🤪 No belief should be immune from scrutiny, even - especially - religion.
I mean I think its fairly simple why they have that power, its because the majority of this country is unfortunately still Christian, and they are going to milk that for the next few decades until they become a minority
Thank you for speaking out.
I'm so glad I found your channel ❤❤❤
So happy that I found your channel
I wish you a happy and healthy new year, Kristi! And all other people in the comment section as well!
Thanks for your amazing video... it is right on! I was trapped in a fundamentalist Christisn church - cult for over 10 years. I left because my brain stopped me from serving in the church. What we were doing in the church (manipulating people) was in such contrast to what we were teaching (love people) that my rational, logical brain finially rebelled.
After I escaped, I chose to stop doing all the things I was told on church, that I must do. It was not until 10 years later, after enduring guilt due to disobedience, that my guilt faded enough so that I could start to see clearly and question things freely. 25 years later, now I can easily see through any religious manipulation.
Thats was the problem. Not God.The church is not the house of God. You are the house of God! The Holy Spirit living inside you. The temple of God. When you put your trust in Jesus, He sends the Holy Spirit to live inside you. The Holy Spirit is the seal of God, and your evidence that you have been Born Again. We must possess the Holy Spirit. He is necessary for salvation. That is what you were missing. The Holy Spirit will bring you into a relationship with Jesus. Just between you and Him. Nothing to do with church. Dont blame the church and the people that led you astray, because they are only human and are prone to faults. That is why we are to look directly to God for guidance. And when you are filled with His Holy Spirit upon true salvation, then the Holy Spirit becomes your helper and teacher. Only the Holy Spirit can lead you to your purpose in Christ. Not people. Read 1John 2:27. "But you have received the Holy Spirit, and he lives within you, so you don't need anyone to teach you what is true. For the Spirit teaches you everything you need to know, and what he teaches is true-it is not a lie. So just as he has taught you, remain in fellowship with Christ."
Dont give up on God, because He never gives up on you. He will never let you down, only people let you down.
Humble yourself, pour out your heart to Jesus with faith, and ask Him to forgive you. Put your trust in Him, and give Him complete control. Ask Him to fill you with His Holy Spirit. He will transform your heart and mind. He did it for me. The Holy Spirit is the key, and the difference maker. Its truly amazing! You can have that peace and assurance of salvation. And all the love, joy, and kindness, that only comes from the Spirit of God. And then tell me if that wasn't what you were missing. Because I know there is much more to God than what you were talking about. He cares for you, and does not want you to leave this world without Him. Dont be stubborn, and rebellious. This life is temporary. Eternity is a long time to be wrong. And we are never guaranteed another day. I pray you think about and open your heart, because once its over, its too late. Be blessed
Really enjoying your channel. I really like your presentation, and thanks for including the versus from the book. Hope your doing well and continue making these videos 👍
Thank you hun this video is very informative!! ❤
well said excellant video look forward to more
I one just found your channel, and after a couple videos, I decided I’m gonna binge watch a bunch of the rest!
Yay! Happy you're here!
I think this has to be one of the most concise and succinct evaluations of religious manipulation of emotions and the mind that I have ever heard on CZcams, if not anywhere else. Comparing the war-god of Abraham to the emotional level of a manipulative high school bf/gf is brilliant and dead-on balls accurate! I was glad to grant near an hour to watching it twice. Great work, and worth everyone's time, as well as worth sharing everywhere!
Fabulous video, as usual. Thanks for all you do. 👍
I'm missing your videos Kristi. I trust that you're having a rejuvenating break ❤.
When Christians say about evil is caused by free will, are there free will in heaven? Apologists say that in heaven, you won't have desire to sin but does that mean there is no free will in heaven? Yeah I'm not buying into it
On target Kristi! We’ve been abused and nobody sees it that way! They think we’re crazy!
Agreed! bc of this its so hard to not see myself as crazy. I mean, emotional and psychological abuse isn't tangible. It has results but its not tangible (like a broken bone or a bruise on your face).
I remember telling someone about the IFB I grew up in. and I remember thinking he's trying to take advantage of me, like he saw an opportunity to keep the abuse wound in place to put me to work for him.
Here for the comeback tour!
As someone who was raised in church from a young age and only left fairly recently, I’ve heard almost everything you used as an example for what the church leaders say to manipulate people. And I went to many different churches throughout my life, they all used those tactics or some variation of it.
Thank you for talking about this. What you’re doing is so important.
You......make SOOOOOOOO much sense!
Kristi, I hope you are well and on your way back to your center but we miss you and your insight. If you could give us and update on about when or even if you are coming back, that would be helpful. If that's not in the cards right now, I understand that too. Take care of yourself.
Yes! I have heard all of this. Very good, Kristi. You do a wonderful job breaking down real manipulation that is used within Christianity.
Your channel is absolutely amazing ! 😅
When I was younger I got in trouble once for calling the Baptist Church we were attending my weekly flogging session. It was a independent Baptist Church. The pastor would speak for 45 minutes. No matter what the passage was the sermon was 42 1/2 minutes of how horrible rotten evil a scum bag everyone was. The last 2 1/2 minutes was all about Jesus and this atonement sacrifice. After that, we sung 87,000 verses ( at least it seemed that way) of Just As I Am. I think every week some went forward to "get saved" just to stop the music. Kristi, I really enjoy your videos. I have found them extremely helpful. Thanks
"Don't let worries and stress kill you - let the church help."👍😁
Are you being Sarcastic ?
or do you really mean this literally ?
I Honestly can't tell
if you're being literal
THAT IS SUCH STUPID ADVICE
The church creates stress for you, The Church emotionally manipulates you and puts you in confusing and conflicting situations where you have no choice but to stress
AND YES......... STRESS CAN ACTUALLY KILL PEOPLE........ I've seen it happen
@@martinkuliza Of course i'm being sarcastic. Sarcasm just oozes from every cravice of the quotation. And it's a real quotation from some sign sometime somewhere in America. Go figure...😜
@@vladimirgrbic8325
well THANK FUCKING GOD FOR THAT.
sorry mate, the internet and all that.. you know.
You don't fucking know what to believe anymore
and Interestingly , (but i've known this since i was 16 and i'm 50 now) but most people do not actually understand
that STRESS, Literally can kill you, it's literally toxicity to your body
A Toxicity that we willingly produce through choice
but yeah, that's fucking weird that a sign would have that .
on the subject of stress and stress creation,
Having the benefit of seeing religion since the 70s, I can tell you this
in thw 70s we were like
You believe in god, and that person does't believe in god
we didn't have Atheist, Deist, Theist, Agnostic and every other bullshit term under the sun
You believe what you did and that was it
over the years i have seen changes happend
Now it seem RELIGION IS A BATTLEFIELD
I seem to be seeing (in the context of religious videos) things like
SOLDIERS OF GOD
CHRISTIAN SOLDIERS
THE BATTLE LINES ARE BEING DRAWN
A WAR IS COMING... A WAR OF FAIT
OR.
A WAR OF GOOD VS EVIL IS COMING
What the fuck is wrong with christians nowadays
As if that's not going to create stress for people
Oh.. Let the church help
and then....
You are now a christian solder
and you have to go into battle
JESUS FUCKING CHRIST........ LOL
and then some nut jobs takes that too literally and buys a gun and shoots an atheist.
Trust me.. Time bomb Waiting to happen
Exactly. 😁
@@martinkuliza Hello there, Columbus - it's self evident. I concur!