STARTING COLLEGE "LATE" IN YOUR MID 20'S/30'S !? (2023 ADVICE)

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  • čas přidán 4. 07. 2022
  • Hi All! This video is just a little motivation for anyone that needs that little mental push to go to college as an adult! Being someone who was in your shoes 4 years ago, I watched countless videos of others who took the leap before me and it really helped me out!
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    If you have any questions please feel free to comment below or DM on IG @its.lp__b
    Until Next Time!
    Lawrence
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Komentáře • 207

  • @Lawrence_P.B
    @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem +21

    Hi all! Thank you for sharing your POV and making this a places were people can share their stories 💜

  • @jimmyglea
    @jimmyglea Před rokem +471

    I’m a 48 year old college student in my second year working toward my bachelors and masters degrees. I barely passed high school in 1992. Today I’m on the Deans List. If I can do it, anyone can.

    • @MV919Living
      @MV919Living Před rokem +12

      that's awesome!!!!

    • @keithwright9093
      @keithwright9093 Před rokem +8

      You're an angel inspiration to me

    • @briann5001
      @briann5001 Před rokem +10

      Exactly 30 is not old it's just young people have no real perspective of age since they've never been 45.

    • @BigxPerk2298
      @BigxPerk2298 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Keep striving!!! I’m currently 25 and still in college. (I’m an undergraduate) I plan on graduating this December!!

    • @ChiNguyen-yj4zx
      @ChiNguyen-yj4zx Před 11 měsíci +4

      im 20 and im afraid to start. i know that im still super young…but i feel so old compared to my friends who started a while ago. how do i apply? what should i choose..money.. any advice..

  • @streamingnowstreamingnow2568

    There's 90 year olds getting their degree.
    It's never too late.

  • @ceceB00
    @ceceB00 Před rokem +121

    I’m 24 and in my second semester to reach my goal to be a dental hygienist and I was terrified but I realized I couldn’t have done this at any age younger bc NOW I have the drive and the proper mindset to complete this degree.

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem +6

      I feel you on that for sure! I was over school once high school ended. The mindset change is crazy!

    • @karishmapoudel7367
      @karishmapoudel7367 Před rokem +5

      same but I am 23 and I have just started my pre-reqs for dental hygiene :) we got this !!!

    • @letsgobrandon1906
      @letsgobrandon1906 Před měsícem

      Same 24 second semester for nursing

  • @jongraf1714
    @jongraf1714 Před rokem +115

    Man I'm 26 taking a full course load and working to pay for it. Feel so out of touch, but glad I'm not alone! Thanks for posting this, you just earned yourself a subscriber.

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem +5

      Appreciate it brotha! You'll thank yourself for grinding and paying for it now. once you start taking classes focused on your major you'll start to have the same people in a lot of your classes and meet people

    • @kellerwatts1231
      @kellerwatts1231 Před rokem +5

      I feel ya brother I'm 26 myself at university and I myself feel so out of style. What I've learned is that you just take it one day at a time and stay focused on what you have going on. Good luck to you on your journey!

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem +1

      @S. Uzasi That was me and it was definitely a struggle at times! I often came across parents, people with full times jobs, and others that I thought had it way worse than me 🥴. You got this!

    • @tank7162
      @tank7162 Před rokem +1

      Same

  • @lor431
    @lor431 Před rokem +83

    I’m 32 and I’m finishing up my last year in college. Getting a degree in earth sciences is definitely not something I expected or anyone that knew me in the past would have ever expected. I was called ditzy in high school blah blah blah. Point is I work hard and I think as long as you want the degree or even the experience I say do it. In my opinion it’s worth it. I now have opportunities to travel and network with people from all over the world.

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem +1

      Congratulations! Love hearing a success story 🙏🏽. Traveling the world is definitely the goal

  • @vanessavanessa9135
    @vanessavanessa9135 Před rokem +42

    The fact that I’m 37 looking for others “starting late” and yet everyone in comments are no older than 30 😭

    • @ButtmanAtHeart
      @ButtmanAtHeart Před rokem +2

      Yesss this is me! I keep rolling my eyes at the im 22 comments

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem +16

      Valid, but these days when you’re 23,24,25 and a lot of your friends are graduating while you’re just starting makes you feel really behind in life. People that watch these videos all feel the same way despite the age I think.

    • @americab1462
      @americab1462 Před rokem +4

      I had 50-year-old classmates your fine

    • @afroshik
      @afroshik Před 4 měsíci +9

      I'm 33 about to start college in September :)

    • @lalogarcia6811
      @lalogarcia6811 Před 4 měsíci +14

      Ur 37 but what's stopping you?? Next year you will be 38 and ur going to look back wishing you started at 37 just do it don't let fear. Get in ur head and dominate you never give up .

  • @genesismorales2692
    @genesismorales2692 Před 3 měsíci +8

    2 months shy of 32 with 2 kids under 7, I have some college credits but I haven’t gone back since I was 24. It’s so comforting to know so many others my age have decided to go back. I will be taking the first steps this week ❤

    • @Plavokosi_Marko98
      @Plavokosi_Marko98 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Good luck. I am 25 now, I dropped out of college when I was 22 at my second year and I have a plan to go back to the same IT college at 27, I am even attending and finishing now a 6 month Front End Developer course. I have been struggling a lot with depression, OCD, loneliness and social anxiety. I still have a hard time but it's been better now than 3 years ago. I hope I will be able to finish IT college. I hope you will successfully finish your college. 💖🤗😄

  • @mermaidlu5125
    @mermaidlu5125 Před 10 měsíci +16

    I’m 42 graduating this October and I didn’t care or think about other people I just did it for myself

  • @mrg4470
    @mrg4470 Před rokem +26

    i'm going to listen to this man because he has the clearest skin i've ever seen in my life

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem +4

      Wow thank you! I definitely don't have the best skin but I try haha. I'm actually going to post my simple skin care routine soon!

  • @Dudz
    @Dudz Před rokem +38

    My biggest struggle with going to college as an older adult has been passing math classes

    • @tannercollins2925
      @tannercollins2925 Před 10 měsíci +5

      same here im literally scared of calculus

    • @kathleenholt7148
      @kathleenholt7148 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I'm so worried about this

    • @gablambros
      @gablambros Před měsícem

      I recommend taking refresher classes if needed! I started with intermediate algebra and worked my way up to pre calculus. Now I’m prepping for trig and soon calculus! Try and find a good professor if you can. They make a huge difference. Also study groups with classmates. No one cares about age difference.

  • @jinx29211
    @jinx29211 Před rokem +50

    Im 30 and I spent 12 years in community college I started at the very bottom level courses and when I started getting into more advanced classes I fell into a depression and became an alcoholic. I was only taking one class per semester and still dropping them. Everyone I had known and became friends with from class has been long gone, found success or moved away. It feels like I am still running around a map on a dead server. I am definitely out of place and it feels weird, I have shown up to class still in my work boots with dirty work hands and clothes from working construction late. I finally sobered up 2 years ago, retook those harder classes, repaired my GPA and about one month ago I finally earned my associates in math and computer science. Now I am about to transfer to university with a 3.01 GPA. I feel like I am the person I wanted to be 10 years ago but my skill set is not impressive as a 30 year old lol. I am still proud of me though and that is all that matters. Even if I get my bachelor's and cant find work in that field, I have a backup plan and I will still be glad that I did it.

    • @jacobperez8921
      @jacobperez8921 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Good job man! I'm glad you got sober and became a better person. I'm 29 and i've spent the last 5 years in the same position as you taking classes and dropping the hardest one. The class that has been the hardest for is college algebra. I also feel like i am running around the map on a dead server. I'm seeing time go by entering my 30s and i ask myself sometimes " It college still worth it for me considering in my 30's?" I know i should still try since i know deep inside i always wanted to graduate from university.

    • @mynameisglitter2220
      @mynameisglitter2220 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Keep going guys! I am 31 and in my second half of university now! I was doing one class at a time and now I’m going 3 at a time! I also dropped courses when depressed multiple times. I’m getting a Liberal Studies degree and am finally feeling like I’m getting somewhere :)

    • @romanhut2917
      @romanhut2917 Před měsícem +1

      I’m really nervous now . I’m 40 years old starting college . Business administration associates degree majoring in community college . Trying to be wise and only pursue what I need . I believe being a part time student while I work an easy job will work . All I want is my associates degree . This seems overwhelming at times . Glade I’m not the only person .

  • @skyfalldeadpool1633
    @skyfalldeadpool1633 Před 9 měsíci +14

    I am a 34 years old college student. I am almost done with my bachelor degree and I plan on going into masters

    • @greenspade
      @greenspade Před 10 dny

      Great job! Just turned 30 going back in August to finish the bachelors and obtain the masters. School is different when you are older.

  • @jueunmusic
    @jueunmusic Před 11 měsíci +9

    this video and the comments section is so comforting

  • @artycuz6877
    @artycuz6877 Před rokem +35

    I'm 32 and I'm in my 2nd semester. I feel more prepared than most of these 20 year olds.

    • @BeastofBrooklyn
      @BeastofBrooklyn Před rokem +8

      Im 32 right now and considering quiting my job and going back to school, itll be embarassing to all my friends and family but I hate where I am right now

    • @stanzaschulz4339
      @stanzaschulz4339 Před 9 měsíci +4

      @@BeastofBrooklyn honestly its not embarrassing, people do it all the time, they just do it online most of the time. I quit my job, they couldnt replace me so I had to give 3 months notice lol, but when I finally got outta there, I finished my AA at 33 and now Im a senior finishing my BA at 35. Yes it is a bit lame being the oldest person in class, thankfully most of my classes are online. The way I see it we can let 40 roll around and have ZERO degree and not be able to make a higher wage, OR we can be 40 and have a degree and a good paying job, its like, we are going to age anyway, wouldn't it be worse to age and know that we didn't have the balls to go back to school achieve what we always wanted to achieve?

    • @ddhabale
      @ddhabale Před 9 měsíci +3

      ​@@stanzaschulz4339 year dude, I am 27 now, I am planning to enter Civil Engineering next year when I will be 28. I thought to my self, there is not even a necessity so why should I strive for that? But, then I thought that me being graduate at 32 is better than me not graduate at 32.

  • @niqabi_diaries
    @niqabi_diaries Před 11 měsíci +8

    I am 30 living in a college dorm my story is not simple just do it and it’s not comfortable warning ⚠️

  • @destinybellamy5721
    @destinybellamy5721 Před 6 měsíci +12

    I am 31, and it is so scary. I am also going into STEM as a woman, and I hear it can be a doggy world in the work field even after your degree. I definitely need this.

  • @whittneyprice173
    @whittneyprice173 Před rokem +3

    Thank you so much. I’ve been nervous about going back to school, thinking it’ll be like high school. But you’re so right… NOW, it’s different… I WANT it… Not just me doing what I think I supposed to do. Thank you ❤

  • @petelcguitar
    @petelcguitar Před 7 měsíci +9

    Last month marked my 30th birthday, and presently, I'm navigating through my third year. Interestingly, a classmate recently confessed her feelings towards me, presuming I was in my mid twenties throughout our three years together. When I disclosed my actual age, 30, her reaction seemed somewhat disapproving. Despite lacking any romantic interest on my part, the situation amuses me, kinda sad too. Anyway, blessings to all who come across this message.

  • @nilbog2196
    @nilbog2196 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Thank you for making this video I have a lot of anxiety about going back but now I am convinced this is the right thing to do for me. I start in January

  • @ojar91
    @ojar91 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I’m 33, dropped out at 19, thinking I may have made a mistake, I just need the right courses for me in the aviation industry.

  • @RojA-jj2um
    @RojA-jj2um Před 10 měsíci +6

    Hello, I'm 27 and planning to get may 2nd degree next year. I really needed this video, thank you.

  • @sierrac4157
    @sierrac4157 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Starting school again at 33. Nervous but i wont give up

    • @greenspade
      @greenspade Před 10 dny +1

      You got this. Gonna feel totally different.

  • @aaronwarren3406
    @aaronwarren3406 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Thank you for posting this good word of encouragement

  • @riyandreams
    @riyandreams Před 5 měsíci +5

    I'm 26.5 and I'm starting over. This time I will not quit. (8.2.24)

  • @StraytheSkies
    @StraytheSkies Před 11 měsíci +9

    I've never been due to mental health that left me basically a hermit for 5+ years after my mom died. I'm in my late 20s and I'm hoping to turn things around in the next few years.

    • @marianne1959
      @marianne1959 Před 6 měsíci +2

      You can do it!! Think of your mom and how proud she'd be. ...that's what I did ❤

    • @LareinaP
      @LareinaP Před měsícem

      My last 4 years feel that way after my mom passed away. I seemed to go into a tunnel. Now im coming out and wanting college at 33/34 yrs old, hoping to make it possible but so scared of the age factor.

  • @myshavikes6263
    @myshavikes6263 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I'm 26 and really wanting to go back to college. I went to tech school but I've always known I want to be a journalist, my trade isn't something I'm very interested in.
    I told my wife I wanna do it but I feel like it's too late and she looked at me crazy and told me "Youre never too old for college. You're the perfect age. You're through you're party stage, and you're actually ready and will take it seriously now."
    She told me this a couple weeks ago and now I'm looking at HBCUs that have good journalism and communications programs.
    I figure to just apply and see what happens, the worst that happens is I get rejected and try another school.

    • @andrewusa14
      @andrewusa14 Před 2 měsíci

      You should go to a pwi you'll learn more

  • @waheedsafaar9298
    @waheedsafaar9298 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Welldone to this video. I love it. I’m at my 30s and I’m dropping my application forms on Monday 21.08.23 thank you for the encouragement welldone

  • @danny_dna.4931
    @danny_dna.4931 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I'm 26 years old this year, looking to get back into tertiary studies after dropping out twice from Uni at 19 and 21 years old. I was sick and tired of working crappy jobs (albeit some of the workplace cultures were great), on top of that my ADHD made it more tough to work those jobs as I'd lose interest very quickly and not feeling I was reaching my full potential. I've now come to a point in my mid-twenties where I feel more developed through life experiences and now want to commit to myself, and push myself to do what I really want to do, even though I've got to do the 3-4 years of studying. This video really helped and I'm hoping to finish with a Bachelors when I'm 29 years old.

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před 2 měsíci +1

      You got this! Also if you can take summer classes. Even doing 2 classes each summer will shorten your time there by a semester or 2

  • @paimay270
    @paimay270 Před rokem +4

    I feel so much less nervous after watching this! Thank you! 😌

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem

      Hi Paige, you’re welcome!!!! You got this and if you need any advice please reach out. Also lmk how you’re (I’m guessing) first semester goes!

  • @throughcolouredglasses9300

    Thank you so much for this very calm, hopeful video. I'm 25 now and about halfway through my Bachelor. I really like this degree but sometimes I feel so disconnected from my fellow students, who are often 19-21. Even the "older" average i tend to meet from 22-23 feels a lot younger than I feel. I want to go to class to pay attention, collect knowledge I will need for exams or my future job and be done "drifting" like I have from age 19-24. I want to talk and have people to hang out with between classes and go to the cafeteria, but I also want to meet up with fellow students to study or co-work on campus. I don't want to go to parties rn, I don't want to waste away my time with halfway-enjoyable interactions with people I'm friendly but not friends with.
    I'm lucky that I have good friends who live in town and also go to Uni, but we don't study remotely the same things and are rarely on the same campus at the same time. It would just be nice to have some people to chat /and/ work with.
    I wish there was more content like this video. I don't enjoy a lot of the college/uni content when it's too high-energy ("meet ALL the people! Have ALL the experiences, plan parties, make friends in class! Find yourself!!") because I feel like I have already done all that in my first degree about 5 years ago. Now, I like living a bit more quietly, peacefully, I like trying to get studying in every day so I won't have a terrible 2 months during exams, I like being home (even if not in bed) early.
    Sometimes it's difficult and a bit sad to realize I could make new friends way more easily if i changed my priorities, because i know i won't. I put a lot of work into being where I am now and building this life and I'm very happy living how I do. I just wish I could see my experience in media sometimes or hear it being talked about more. It's a weird kind of loneliness to not fit in with the people who aged out of "college life" because I don't have a carreer, partner, etc yet, but also not really fit in anymore with the college stage of life.
    Thank you for the content you make, it's very much appreciated. This video eased that feeling of disconnect.

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for this honest comment! Yeah I wish I would have made videos as I was going through college. Honestly I didn't have many friends in school but I also didn't feel the need to. With my major I was with many of the same people for the entire time so it was easy to have a study buddy or grab something for lunch with someone. I'd say look for people you have the same classes with and make "friends" with people you sit next to!
      Last thing make videos and be the change you're looking for. There are people like us out there that want to hear your story

    • @ramzi2000i
      @ramzi2000i Před rokem

      Do it film you'll make money while helping people like me and btw I'm 23 not being able to find any education in my country cus i don't speak the second language Wich is a colenaiser language I'm currently working after being doing fuck all for over 6 years and going to start studying next semester in the usa

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem

      @@ramzi2000i my manager didn’t know English until she came to America for college and she learned and got her MBA. If you only speak Spanish go to the east or west coast, or maybe Texas , and you’ll be ok. There’s a lot of people that only speak Spanish and resources to help you! Your situation isn’t uncommon you got this!

  • @JJ-cl5wv
    @JJ-cl5wv Před 10 měsíci +11

    I’m a 29 year old mom and wife. I have an e-commerce business that’s doing great but I feel insecure talking to others my age that have “ careers” I feel like I’m so behind and I’ve been wanting to go back to college so bad. Like you, I was a horrible student I barely went to school very immature at the time and I only did one semester at a community college but I keep thinking about going back every single day. My biggest fear is failing because it’s hard to concentrate and I haven’t been in a classroom setting in so long. Thank you so much for this video!

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před 10 měsíci +1

      You're welcome! But if you have your own business that's doing great then where's the pressure coming from? Personally I'd MUCH rather have a good business idea and work for myself, that's actually my goal :)

    • @JJ-cl5wv
      @JJ-cl5wv Před 10 měsíci

      @@Lawrence_P.B Honestly, This last month has been a bit slow and I started to panic! I just feel like such an outcast. My business is on the creative side and I feel like people look down on creatives especially my family and in laws. I also would like something more secure. A job with health insurance and benefits.

  • @bladelazoe
    @bladelazoe Před 3 měsíci +4

    I remember going to college at 22-24 or so, but I was a bad student, bad minset, lacked life experience, no license. I failed after 2 semesters and was put on academic suspension. Now I'm 31, In the process of Re-admission and getting that stuff taken care of. I honestly can't believe I'm going back, now it's not even about the degree anymore or getting a job, it's about finishing what I started. And that's a very different feeling vs I want to go to college to get that degree. Sounds weird but that's how I'm looking at it. I'm also a very different person now at 31, lots of rejection and life experience and pain really adds up. Back then I took on too much way too early, now I'm gonna start off a bit easier and gradually work it up.

    • @badnewstalkstech6900
      @badnewstalkstech6900 Před 2 měsíci +1

      You can do it bro. I dropped out like twice but this time I'm sure I'll get my commerce degree. Im 26

    • @bladelazoe
      @bladelazoe Před 10 dny

      @@badnewstalkstech6900 Well, Good news is I got my Re-admission for the Fall semester, so it is happening! Gonna take it slow and steady!

  • @ShayNaBre
    @ShayNaBre Před 7 měsíci +12

    Starting soon… spring 24! Age 35. Thank you for the video. I’m so nervous.

    • @ShutterSpeedGaming
      @ShutterSpeedGaming Před 7 měsíci +1

      You got this 😃

    • @ShayNaBre
      @ShayNaBre Před 7 měsíci

      @@ShutterSpeedGaming thank you so much!!

    • @ShayNaBre
      @ShayNaBre Před 6 měsíci

      @pandaangry1267oh wow well I need you as a study buddy!!! Congratulations ❤❤🎉 I’m just in the beginning. I went to beauty school after I graduated h.s bc I hated school now years later here I am 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @ShayNaBre
      @ShayNaBre Před 6 měsíci +1

      @pandaangry1267 That’s amazing!!!Yes I’m a licensed hairstylist but business has been slow due to inflation. It’s part of the reason why I wanted to see what else I can get into. I’m on track to graduate with my A.S in social and human behavioral services Dec 2025. Depending on how things go I may just be happy with that. At my state college I do have the opportunity to complete my bachelor’s. I just don’t enjoy school very much. I’m a hands on type of learner. I do have decent professors. Intro to psych has been fun! American History eh it’s been ok!

    • @lostandlooking
      @lostandlooking Před 5 měsíci

      It will be harder than 15 years ago, but I'll tell you this: you can still have a long, successful career without a doubt!

  • @marcuscaruso8456
    @marcuscaruso8456 Před rokem +3

    Thanks for the motivation I’m going back this fall. I cant wait!

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem

      No Problem! but make the most out of your free time while you can lol

  • @natasha.b
    @natasha.b Před 10 měsíci +1

    thanks for making this!

  • @skatersridge
    @skatersridge Před 3 měsíci +2

    what was your schedule looking like? How did you balance being an adult and working, while also doing school and getting an accounting degree? Did you have time for friends, hobbies, girlfriend etc?

  • @happygolightly
    @happygolightly Před 9 měsíci +4

    I'm 36 and I'm starting college for non-profit management in spring 24'. I really can't wait. This video really helped. Thanks

  • @Eddie-qf9mv
    @Eddie-qf9mv Před rokem +10

    I'm 26, I just started my bachelor's in multimedia/game design and I will also do my masters in cinematography.

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem +2

      Cinematography! I wish I would have minored in that, you have make any videos??

  • @ivyc5731
    @ivyc5731 Před rokem +21

    I’m 30 and working on my AA right now. I’m going snail pace because it’s really stressful to juggle with a full time but I gotta get it done.

  • @AniketLamba
    @AniketLamba Před 4 měsíci +3

    I am 26 and I just enrolled for a Master's in Computer Applications at a local university and after that I'll be doing a MS in Computer Science at 30. I guess I'm not that late! Cheers :D

  • @Angelallaround
    @Angelallaround Před 3 měsíci +4

    I love this, 22 with my second baby on the way. I loveee my family and love being a mum but I can’t wait to go back to education to learn. ❤ thanks!!

    • @arturoperez4803
      @arturoperez4803 Před 11 dny

      22 is not old ,you have an abundance of time to achieve your dreams. You got this 🔥

  • @AA1986.
    @AA1986. Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you bro I was stressing out !!! 🙌🏽🙏🏽🙂 Your money bro!!!

  • @dovareme
    @dovareme Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks for the video man, I'm going back and want to do law school at 26. Don't even have my BA yet. Going to be a long road.

  • @Life-pm6if
    @Life-pm6if Před 10 měsíci

    Thanks for this video, brotha.. im going back to school sooner this year or next year at the age of 26.

  • @lalogarcia6811
    @lalogarcia6811 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Thanks Grey

  • @losandysaragon5339
    @losandysaragon5339 Před 7 měsíci +5

    I’m 23 and hopefully I get accepted for the nursing program next fall semester.

  • @jermainedification
    @jermainedification Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thanks for the advice im just turned 30 and im online school im working on getting my associates and maybe work in my bachelors

  • @DavidSmith-cr7mb
    @DavidSmith-cr7mb Před 11 měsíci +7

    im a 28 year old alcoholic and drug addict who has been in recovery for about 5 years. I finally feel leveled out enough to know that I can handle college, and I know what degree I would get, Im just worried that I wont be able to punch through for an engineering degree, given where I am in life, and who I am. anyone else who struggles with deabilitating personal problems have success stories i can hear to give me confidence to just go for it and do it?

    • @dietdoubledew8986
      @dietdoubledew8986 Před 11 měsíci +7

      I'm 36 and i also have a past full of addiction, unemployment and depression. I wasted my life until i turned 33 and was about to end it in that very year, but i decided to give it another shot, so i began studying Electrical Engineering. First year was extremely hard (more than 50% didn't make it), because i had not seen a school for 15 years from inside. Long story short, i got my Bachelor degree a week ago.
      If i can, you can too. Trust me it's not brains what got me there, i failed math class several times in highschool.
      Greetings from Germany. I wish you the best

    • @Ate_Mai
      @Ate_Mai Před 2 měsíci

      I'm 29,running 30, I'm still studying for the board exam in civil engineering,, thank God I have parents who willing to support me in my studies

    • @Ate_Mai
      @Ate_Mai Před 2 měsíci

      I failed 7 times in board exam, but still trying for the 8 take this November,, I'm here in this video to look for motivation because, yeah, being adult is pressure, but now, listening in this video and reading comments it gives me motivation not to give up .

  • @sandralovino2578
    @sandralovino2578 Před 16 dny

    Thanks for this video im 27 and halfway in my bachelors degree i was studying nursing then i realized that im only doing this to please my mom who doesn't support nor care for me so i changed to computer science and i was telling myself that i am doing this for me not for anyone and im also considering going for my masters in computer science and hopefully i can get a tech job in healthcare.

  • @craigrawlinson4310
    @craigrawlinson4310 Před 21 dnem

    I went to college later in life. It worked out for me. I am a math resource high school teacher now.

  • @araw540
    @araw540 Před 6 měsíci +1

    So i left a Comment 9 months ago about my intentions for going back and well... Update time!!!
    I moved from New England to Michigan and i'm currently working on getting my Residency and other things taken care of But i'm looking around for Specifically Engineering focused Colleges i've narrowed it down to
    University of Michigan- Ann Arbor.
    Michigan Technical university,
    Grand Valley University,
    Currently saving money (Thanks to a Friend that's lived out here for a while offering 300 a month for rent) and Hoping i can get the instate tuition and NOT out of state if i gotta wait a few months more to apply to get a better rate that's what i gotta do.
    BUT i already took step 1 by Convincing myself to do this and WHY!!
    i've done a REALLY Hard step 2 by saving money and leaving my home state, a part of the country that i've lived in for 32 years and i picked up everything that could fit into my jeep to go do this accepting no bullshit Excuses (Not easy leaving family and Friends but this fucking matters)
    So here comes step 3,4,5,6 however many i gotta do

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před 6 měsíci

      Oh man thanks for coming back and updating us! Step 1 and 2 are hard for sure. Yesterday or today is my 1 year anniversary of when I left home from NJ and moved to California, I definitely understand the struggle in leaving everything behind. Currently I work 2 jobs to save money and it’s definitely working. You got this brotha 💪🏽

  • @SmokinKushSpankinTush
    @SmokinKushSpankinTush Před 5 měsíci +3

    27 am just starting my college journey, starting with my G.E.s' for the path to vetenary work

  • @marsship921
    @marsship921 Před rokem +4

    Got bullied at school grades fall. Only had the courage to fix my education by myself at 19. At 22 i initiated college. I feel terrible

    • @tank7162
      @tank7162 Před rokem +4

      Bro same thing but im 26 you're are fine, enjoy yourself

  • @MartinVirgo-kz5wm
    @MartinVirgo-kz5wm Před 4 měsíci +3

    I am turning 29 in September 2024 and i just started my 4 year journey in getting a degree.
    I worked as a retail manager before with 4 years experience.
    I am doing a Supply Chain and Logistics Bcom degree.
    Fortunately i have no kids and not married yet.
    Thanks for this video

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před 3 měsíci

      I worked as a retail manager before college too..... it was fun but also SUCKED! you defiantly get introduced to different things as a retail manager like accounting or supply chain !

    • @MartinVirgo-kz5wm
      @MartinVirgo-kz5wm Před 3 měsíci

      @@Lawrence_P.B do you think I stand a chance to get a job in logistics at 33?

    • @badnewstalkstech6900
      @badnewstalkstech6900 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@MartinVirgo-kz5wmyou sure will

  • @AshantiWilliams-g4u
    @AshantiWilliams-g4u Před 5 dny

    Thank you

  • @araw540
    @araw540 Před rokem +18

    So I'm 31 and I'm busting my ass to prepare for the Goal of a Bachelors in Mechanical Engineering.
    High School Felt closer to prison for me and when i got out in 2010 Not only did i Not have a CLUE of what i wanted to do but I had the mind set of "Fuck that I've had Enough of School" Worked some SERIOUSLY Shitty jobs and Went to Community college to fix that, Which did Get me into GE Aviation (AWESOME JOB) but Now I WANT MORE!!! I WANT BETTER!!! I think you're SPOT ON With the mindset I'm Going in with a Laser focused Goal. Bust my ass, Kick ass and Reach for EVERYTHING I've Ever Dreamed of and NOTHING is going to Stop me. I'm Not there to skate by I'm not there to just get plastered and Party.
    (All Though IF and ONLY IF my Shit's all taken Care of and I have done what I need done I. AM. Absolutely Down for a Party I Ain't THAT fucking old.)
    I'm coming to WIN because Real world Experience Shows you what Defeat Really looks like. Defeat looks like living in the same town you've always lived in working in a Door Manufacturer Getting Cut Getting Splinters Getting Fingers smashed while fat ass office people tell you "You people aren't making numbers NO Pizza Party this Month!!"

    • @araw540
      @araw540 Před 8 měsíci

      @WorldOfLimbo sure man just got done handling some things to prepare for this, but I'm enrolling in Michigan state in a week. I'd love to talk about what it's really gonna take.

    • @araw540
      @araw540 Před 8 měsíci

      @WorldOfLimbo As far as Stress goes Realize EVERYONE IS STRESSED it's a BIG DEAL but People Got it done Before you people will get it done After you the School is in a Way teaching you how to handle HIGH pressure situations that are important What matters is you take a Breath take a walk and get back at it Whenever you run into some bullshit (5+ years of CNC Manufacturing Experience talking here) some shit will always not make sense sometimes you have to work backwards and if all else fails...Google.

  • @andresdiaz3012
    @andresdiaz3012 Před rokem +1

    Great message and great inspiration brother!

  • @biglexi
    @biglexi Před rokem +5

    Starting back school in January at 25 left school at 19 so this is gonna be a big leap but I’m excited.

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem +1

      Aye congrats I'm sure you'll do great 🙌, hmu if you have any general questions about things!

    • @DivineMind9
      @DivineMind9 Před rokem

      Do they let you participate in sports ?

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem +1

      @@DivineMind9 there were rec leagues that I could have played in. I didn’t play any college sports and I’m not exactly sure how the rules on age work. Could probably easily look it up

  • @orlandosumlin
    @orlandosumlin Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks bro

  • @smurfhelms68
    @smurfhelms68 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Starting some classes at 30. Pretty nervous. Was always bad at math and it's all online O.o self paced courses

  • @harleygdbm1996
    @harleygdbm1996 Před 9 měsíci

    Ty

  • @nathanoppy
    @nathanoppy Před 3 dny

    I’m going back to school this fall at age 34. I only recieved my g.e.d now that I have a vision and a dream, I have little to no fears as to whether or not I will succeed

  • @mingglowup262
    @mingglowup262 Před 11 měsíci +1

    It’s the second week of school. During group discussions I reveal that I’m in my late 20’s. I can see the judgment but I wouldn’t care because I know I won’t see them again after I reach my goals.

    • @Samgr8
      @Samgr8 Před 7 měsíci

      The thing you said about not seeing them again is just spot on! I'm also 27 with an Architecture degree unable to secure a job with it hence started a new degree in Accounting and Finance, just 2 weeks into the first semester. I only care about what my family and close friends think about me, the rest can go to hell for all I care lol. Best of luck with your education!

  • @Iamkrystamarie
    @Iamkrystamarie Před 22 dny

  • @kimberlybrathwaite
    @kimberlybrathwaite Před 25 dny +1

    I’m almost 31 and entering my 3rd year in full time music school. Planning to do my Masters right after. My biggest challenge is not having a FT income while I’m studying. It would def be nice and I also understand that this choice does require sacrifice.

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před 22 dny +1

      Yeah you have to be ready to sacrifice some things to get ahead!

  • @ColMustard-jm9jx
    @ColMustard-jm9jx Před 7 měsíci +1

    Just started trade school. Quit my full time job and I got a part time one. I’m terrified.

  • @EveRhiii
    @EveRhiii Před rokem

    Ive already graduated college a year ago but I'm going back for another degree this year. After seeing my soon to be classmates during the interview I feel scared 😭

  • @joshbraden2897
    @joshbraden2897 Před rokem

    Good video!!! Thank you

  • @SabSab-od4nz
    @SabSab-od4nz Před 2 měsíci

    When I was studying for my degree I got mental illness and could not complete my degree. Now I am 33 years old and studying for my degree in librarianship. I go to delivery job in the evening after

  • @iceex3365
    @iceex3365 Před 3 měsíci

    I'm going to apply for bachelor in 24, do universities have more expectations of someone like me than 17-18 yo applicants?
    I want to study cinematography
    Maybe someone's been in the same situation

  • @adamtruett6882
    @adamtruett6882 Před rokem +1

    My problem is all the college jargon, how credits work, financial aid, all of that keeps tripping me up. It’s why I haven’t started. I’m 22, and I want to be a dietitian, but I don’t want to just rack up debt because I’ve stayed debt free and I just don’t want this to be a mistake because I was a god awful high school student. Normal stuff still confuses me. I think I’m just too dumb when I want to think I’m smart

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem

      Best advice I have for you is to make a plan. You know what you want to go for so that's half the battle! Next look into colleges that you might want to go to. Since you're worried about debt, as you should be, I'd consider starting with community college and transferring to a 4 year after. Talk to guidance councilors at colleges you're really considering and ask about credits, Financial Aid, scholarships, and time Fram for graduation. That's the main stuff, also you'd want too look into the school/program and make sure that they have a good reputation so you'll be able to get a job.

  • @mrmartywaring
    @mrmartywaring Před 2 měsíci

    It's never too late. I completed my MBA at age 47 last year & am pursuing another degree

  • @Goldenrose838
    @Goldenrose838 Před rokem +4

    I kind of want to go to college for psychology. Like to be a psychologist. But I'm already 28. I feel like if I were to go for psych I won't finish until I'm in my mid 30s. And that's kind of scary. That's the only thing that's really stopping me.

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem +5

      For the most part age is just a number! There are people who start their doctorate older than you! I’d say talk to a psychologist about their profession and see if it’s something you truly want to pursue. Mid 30’s is young and it could change your life!

    • @ecolink101
      @ecolink101 Před rokem +4

      There's a saying that goes, "The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now". Two things can happen: In 3-4 years or however long it takes, you'll either be a graduate in psychology about to start something you only ever dreamed/thought of, or you're going to be mid 30's without the degree. One is guaranteed to happen; you will turn 31, 2, 3, 4, 5 regardless. The other would need you to take a step towards making it a reality. You're not too old. I'm mid 20s, and even I know 28 isn't old, and the only reason I know this is I follow a lot of people in the career I want to get into, and many of them only start at 30+ years old for one reason or another. They say, "30 years old, a whole life ahead of me". Make an informed decision, speak to psychologists like LP-B said and ask all the questions you need to until you're free of doubt. And then decide whether it's for you; don't live to regret what could have been because you never tried.

    • @SmokinKushSpankinTush
      @SmokinKushSpankinTush Před 5 měsíci +2

      Well I'm here to say let's get in there I'm 27 and throwing my hat in the ring we got this

  • @thisisnotericmays
    @thisisnotericmays Před rokem +1

    I never applied myself in high school now I’m 30 with three kids so I’m hoping this time around it be a lot easier but if I’m not mistaking Jalissa off the show “A Different World” was older in college

  • @accountant8678
    @accountant8678 Před rokem +2

    I’m 30 in an accounting program currently. Any advice on intermediate 1? Or cost 1? I’m trying to graduate at 31 which is next year.

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem

      Hmmmm cost isn’t easy but it’s not thatttt bad. I actually thought it was one of the more interesting classes. For intermediate my best advice is just to have a good understanding of the basics. The beginner, intermediate, and advance classes all work off of each other. If you have good study habits and are doing ok so far then you should be ok

  • @valentinaramirez536
    @valentinaramirez536 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I’m 20 and sometimes I feel so old for start university at this age because my classmates they are like 16 or 17 and 18. Also, that in my country is 5 years ☹️

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před 3 měsíci +2

      20 seems "late" because some of your friends might be ahead of you in college.... but go through the comments, I which I would have gotten serious at 20!

  • @shisuissharingan2327
    @shisuissharingan2327 Před rokem +4

    I am 23 planning to go to university by 24 and i feel so emotional that i wasted these years. I really feel like a failure my fiancee has been extremely helpful in containing my hardships these fast few years.

  • @yyshot3981
    @yyshot3981 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Im 24 ,gonna start basic stuff in January get an introduction to college, really interested in becoming a rad technologist get a stable career control my life before 30 is my goal ,

  • @user-hk7yr8mn2j
    @user-hk7yr8mn2j Před 3 měsíci

    I think when you’re older at least for me you care less about what others think . I’m going back to college at 40 years old . I’m not going for the bachelors simply because I can’t do four years . I’m just pursuing my associates degree in business administration then real estate license . My goal is to obtain a college degree fast then get other qualifications behind my name . I chose fields that don’t require higher education but it can be helpful moving up . I work my ass off in whatever I do . With just a CDLs I rivaled a college graduates pay . It’s all about applying yourself with some education .

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před 2 měsíci +2

      You got it! I want to get my real estate license as well

  • @Rottsmafiamania
    @Rottsmafiamania Před 6 měsíci +1

    Going back at 30 this spring semester . Bio spychology speech English

  • @TLOG_Brandon
    @TLOG_Brandon Před 2 měsíci +1

    I’m 29. Thinking about going back to school. I’m a man and living at home with my mama. But I was thinking going for physical therapy assistant. Maaan I worked 70hrs a week in 2023 and only was making 40k lol. I deserve better and I have my B.S. I’m exercise science. But this B.S. is BS

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před 2 měsíci +2

      Keep living with your man life is expensive AF!

    • @jray569
      @jray569 Před 21 dnem +1

      I have the same degree as well and I regret it. Considering also going back for an Info systems or IT degree, since I was always interested in computers and IT can give me a stable career.

    • @TLOG_Brandon
      @TLOG_Brandon Před 21 dnem +1

      @@jray569 facts bro

  • @Ντηρ3
    @Ντηρ3 Před rokem +6

    I was horrible at high school i never studied not a single minute.When i started working with an engineer as an assistant i found out that engineering was pretty cool but i thought that it was late for me at 22 years old to learn math and physics and all that stuff.I bought a math book one day and i said ok i have nothing to lose trying to learn math,and i L-O-V-E-D them ,i was studying all day from yt playlists and stuff.I literally started from the very basics.25 years old i just finished my first year in college in a mechanical engineer degree and it was the best choice i have ever done in my entire life.Deep inside you know what you like and if you want to do it nobody can stop you.

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před rokem

      Thanks for telling your story! I was 25 when I went back too, sometimes you need to just take a few years to figure things out!

  • @lsisak7651
    @lsisak7651 Před 23 dny

    I graduated college later in life at 25. It wasn't really worth it. I'm glad I went, but it didn't help me get a job as it should have.

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před 22 dny

      Unfortunately this happens. I've met so many people that don't have a job in their field of study but life happens!

  • @jasonbautista2948
    @jasonbautista2948 Před 11 měsíci

    Is 32 years old fresh grad accountancy can still be hire on work even no experience on the field of the course?

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před 10 měsíci

      Of course! I had no experience when I graduated, covid made it pretty much impossible to get an internship while I was in school. It helped that I worked and built other qualities employers looked for and I had good grades.

  • @jatigre1
    @jatigre1 Před 2 měsíci

    No apostrophe for you!

  • @unicornluva6233
    @unicornluva6233 Před 2 měsíci +1

    did you live on campus? if you did what was that like?

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před 2 měsíci +1

      So first 2 years I commuted to community college. When I transferred to a 4 year Covid ended up happening so I really only dormed 2 semesters. It was chill though, but I also feel like it depends on your roommate(s), the campus, and just everything that you’re looking for out of college.

  • @Jaida2888
    @Jaida2888 Před měsícem

    U probably get this a lot maybe not but you should do ASMR your voice is very soothing 😊

    • @Lawrence_P.B
      @Lawrence_P.B  Před měsícem +1

      I’ve never gotten that, I’ve gotten radio lmao. but honestly I LOVE asmr and I’ve thought about making a channel for it!

    • @Jaida2888
      @Jaida2888 Před měsícem

      @@Lawrence_P.B you should go for it! It’ll get you more reach maybe and I’d listen

  • @Honestlylovely
    @Honestlylovely Před rokem

    This

  • @McMilesE
    @McMilesE Před 12 dny

    Can you speak louder??

  • @soulestialfairy2119
    @soulestialfairy2119 Před 3 měsíci

    Please post your tips and tricks videooo 🥲💜