Tom Daley | Full Address and Q&A | Oxford Union

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    Tom Daley is a British diver. Tom Daley specialises in the 10-metre platform event and is a double World champion in the event; he won the 2009 FINA World Championship in the individual event at the age of 15, before regaining it in 2017. He was the 2012 Olympic bronze medalist in the event.
    Daley also competes in synchronised and team events. In 2015, he partnered Rebecca Gallantree to the inaugural mixed team World title, while in 2016 he won a second Olympic bronze in the men's synchronised 10 metre platform, with Daniel Goodfellow. In 2017, he won World silver with Grace Reid in the mixed 3 metre springboard synchronised event.
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Komentáře • 270

  • @jimwilloughby
    @jimwilloughby Před 6 lety +517

    What's really cool about Tom speaking at Oxford Union is that his husband, Lance has spoken there also. I wonder how many couples can say that.

    • @amruthsrao2287
      @amruthsrao2287 Před 3 lety +6

      That is interesting to note. You should check out the address by Arundhati Katju and Menaka Guruswamy. czcams.com/video/-Lp6H4YYN-k/video.html

    • @emiliasanchez3637
      @emiliasanchez3637 Před 2 lety

      When do we get a glimpse of Lance? Do you have the timestamp?

    • @leslieshand4509
      @leslieshand4509 Před 2 lety +6

      @@emiliasanchez3637 around the 38 minute

    • @carolynneal102
      @carolynneal102 Před 2 lety +3

      @@emiliasanchez3637 when the man in the audience asks the first question ,Lance is behind him

    • @emiliasanchez3637
      @emiliasanchez3637 Před 2 lety

      @@leslieshand4509 thanks!

  • @PJTheJet
    @PJTheJet Před 6 lety +430

    Tom personifies so positively the younger generation, showing that you can be in the same time high level athlete, youtuber, openly gay... and being liked and respected as such. Definitely inspiring !

    • @techtipsuk
      @techtipsuk Před 6 lety +1

      Pierre-Jean Faltot impersonates?

    • @LeoCloma
      @LeoCloma Před 6 lety +3

      I believe that he meant "personifies."

    • @techtipsuk
      @techtipsuk Před 6 lety +2

      Leo Cloma that makes more sense

    • @PJTheJet
      @PJTheJet Před 6 lety +6

      Thanks

    • @elingrome5853
      @elingrome5853 Před 2 lety

      Bro, believe me... we had openly gay people in the 80s... its not a big deal.

  • @tanzmaus_akanka0381
    @tanzmaus_akanka0381 Před 5 lety +156

    Started tearing up when he talked about his dad 😞❤️
    And now he‘s a dad himself with little robbie and lance forming a family 😍❤️

  • @kennethgoldsmith3851
    @kennethgoldsmith3851 Před 2 lety +83

    I watched this after he won gold. His determination and his dad guided him to that gold. Tom Dailey is the world champion

  • @fiesty161
    @fiesty161 Před 2 lety +63

    Tom is always the same where ever he is. What you see is what you get.

  • @rogergeorgeclark3672
    @rogergeorgeclark3672 Před 2 lety +121

    An extraordinary speech delivered without a note before a most demanding university audience. They don't come more difficult than Oxford undergraduates and Tom holds them spellbound! How many young people can do that?

    • @chrish12345
      @chrish12345 Před 2 lety +2

      this is nonsense, Oxford invites on any old idiot these days as long as they have been on the front page of the Sun or the latest episode of 'My Nude Ass', but yes Daley does a great job here.

    • @elingrome5853
      @elingrome5853 Před 2 lety +2

      @@chrish12345 :D not wrong

  • @elliotames2280
    @elliotames2280 Před 5 lety +84

    He's, quite simply, so very special.. Hard not to love him!!

  • @magtazeum4071
    @magtazeum4071 Před 2 lety +81

    I’m here after he won Olympic gold 🥇 at Tokyo Olympics ♥️♥️♥️♥️ Tom the golden boy ♥️♥️

  • @timetostack4649
    @timetostack4649 Před 6 lety +110

    This young man is mastering the art of living his true self! Bravo Tom! Please, always be you! Of the billions of rays of sunshine, your one ray shines on so many.

  • @TyroneBeiron
    @TyroneBeiron Před 2 lety +87

    Wow. He and Matty Lee just won the Gold in Tokyo 2020 in July 2021. I wonder why this talk isn't being shared with more youth...

    • @PK-fb1kp
      @PK-fb1kp Před 2 lety +3

      Also one more bronze yesterday

  • @jaydee8872
    @jaydee8872 Před 5 lety +71

    Outstanding talk, Tom. Articulate, funny, sincere, humble. A real champ

  • @gabumonboys
    @gabumonboys Před 4 lety +52

    Are Tom and Lance just full on orators now? What a fucking power couple.

  • @rachelyay2572
    @rachelyay2572 Před 4 lety +153

    I love how lance was at the back just looking at Tom like such a proud Husband !! The love in his eyes were so obvious

    • @mark_c28
      @mark_c28 Před 2 lety +1

      When is Lance in the back

    • @paulybarr
      @paulybarr Před 2 lety +2

      @@mark_c28 Behind the questioner at 38.02

    • @mrduuud
      @mrduuud Před 2 lety +3

      @@paulybarr thanks. There is also a Lance lookalike in the front row on the left up the front.

  • @jkpanigel4896
    @jkpanigel4896 Před 4 lety +36

    He is so freaking adorable.

  • @TemuulTK
    @TemuulTK Před 4 lety +31

    He is absolutely brilliant. What an incredible man.

  • @davidlogan4329
    @davidlogan4329 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Tom proves yet again that a university education is not the only path for all young people. He has succeeded beautifully in life without one. The fact that he is invited to speak at Oxford is proof of this. Well done, Tom. Follow your hopes and dreams always.

  • @robbo9566
    @robbo9566 Před 2 lety +24

    Just found this having read Tom's story on the BBC news app, what he has gone through in his short life and now being the most decorated British diver, you have to admire him, time he was recognised more, MBE or OBE, or better still be Sir Tom Daley

  • @jphd81
    @jphd81 Před 6 lety +185

    Nice speech, and full of humor. I like when Tom said at 39:42 "Diving is a pretty gay sport, realy". Hilarious !!!

  • @Ania-kl9dv
    @Ania-kl9dv Před 2 lety +3

    The story of the lessons that Tom’s dad thought him resonated so much with me. Tom - Thank you for so explicitly talking about how you interpreted and learned from that.

  • @diviandrycardona1872
    @diviandrycardona1872 Před 5 lety +39

    It was great that Lance was there supporting Tom

  • @saxxinho
    @saxxinho Před 6 lety +37

    Outstanding delivery, Tom. What a gift to mankind! Thank you for being you.

  • @OlMossBack
    @OlMossBack Před 4 lety +25

    Thank God for Tom Daley. And thank you, Tom Daley for sharing yourself with us. May you have a long, enjoyable life -- however, you choose to define that.

  • @souvaryrowe5770
    @souvaryrowe5770 Před 5 lety +59

    the fact that i’m watching this literally a year later in 2019 the day after i watched lance’s address at the same place i love them

    • @nianpeng
      @nianpeng Před 4 lety +3

      This is Me I am here doing the same a year after you :)

  • @yoyoj6092
    @yoyoj6092 Před 2 lety +17

    38:02 Lance sits in the back!! Awww

  • @janicereidlinger9957
    @janicereidlinger9957 Před 2 lety +2

    Respect. My heart is full.

  • @stephenlockwood2516
    @stephenlockwood2516 Před 2 lety +11

    I don't know where I have been, I knew Tom had come out but never really paid much attention or followed him. Then I saw him win the gold medal at the Olympics and when I saw him accept the medal and saw the tears in his eyes I was like wow. Then I started watching his videos and saw what a true inspiration he really is. He has given me a new perspective on life with his positive outlook on everything. Thank you for your motivation when I am at my lowest point in life. You have truly made a difference in my life. Thank you sir.

    • @sequoiasempervirens6499
      @sequoiasempervirens6499 Před 2 lety +1

      Have you seen Tom's husband's speech at Oxford?
      czcams.com/video/v-Wik2fDVBk/video.html&ab_channel=OxfordUnion

  • @pppmanly
    @pppmanly Před 6 lety +64

    Tom was very charming and intelligent in his address and Q&A.

  • @DorEnErnil
    @DorEnErnil Před 6 lety +83

    "...if it all goes tits up, there's cheesecake."
    I might get this as a tattoo. Words to live by!

  • @michaelgask
    @michaelgask Před 4 lety +26

    Tom Daley, you're such a great role model. 🙏🏻

  • @brandismith9050
    @brandismith9050 Před 4 lety +11

    I LOVE ❤️ Tom and Lance. They are so lovely. GOD BLESS

  • @teresaellis1429
    @teresaellis1429 Před 6 lety +70

    Great job Tom!! I'm sure being late was a little nerve wracking but you pulled it off.

  • @skrattardu20
    @skrattardu20 Před 4 lety +32

    1:14 so spot on. I'm totally aware that we would eventually died when the time comes. But my parents are my hero, my everything. The best thing that ever happened to me. I surely need to cherish the moments with them while they're still here. Tom Daley, you are very inspiring, your parents raised you well. Your dad will always be proud of you💜

  • @Cherry-1102_
    @Cherry-1102_ Před 5 lety +66

    38:00 Lance!!!!

  • @loveiseverything690
    @loveiseverything690 Před 5 lety +26

    Love his honesty he’s really adorable

  • @stephenfermoyle4578
    @stephenfermoyle4578 Před 2 lety +2

    he loved his Dad so much

  • @edtrafidlo1029
    @edtrafidlo1029 Před 6 lety +24

    Thank you, Tom, for having the courage in this public forum to be real, to be honest and mostly, to be YOU!! ..... No airs or pretensions in a setting that might seem to make that sort of thing seem almost obligatory ---- Just the message, "To thine own self be true." .... We are are ALL originals - no two fingerprints EVER match - ..... Your personal CONTINUING story of self discovery, self worth and self fulfillment could not be a more convincing example of these ideas .... Looking forward to your next talk!!

  • @xStarzx100
    @xStarzx100 Před 5 lety +33

    "At the end of the day, if it all goes tits up, there's cheesecake" 😂💜

  • @davidcoria9264
    @davidcoria9264 Před 2 lety +2

    Tom , You did a good job! Well done 👏

  • @lisa8369
    @lisa8369 Před 7 měsíci

    Such a great guy. Love him.

  • @shawntyler3744
    @shawntyler3744 Před 6 lety +26

    fantastic speech Tom .

  • @finacahya7476
    @finacahya7476 Před 2 lety +30

    He is an athlete but looks how he delivers the message and speech like he's a pro speaker

  • @mryamissa3930
    @mryamissa3930 Před 6 lety +77

    Proud of him 👏🏻💘

  • @wren9463
    @wren9463 Před 6 lety +57

    Tom's father also gifted Tom with his lovely sense of humor

    • @JaneDoe-em7zi
      @JaneDoe-em7zi Před 2 lety +2

      Ikr, lol, he's so funny. 😄👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @starvoyager523
    @starvoyager523 Před 6 lety +18

    Tom is such an inspiration! Love this guy.

  • @catherinewalls6647
    @catherinewalls6647 Před 6 lety +10

    Tom this was lovely to watch your an excellent public speaker

  • @darylpenner5763
    @darylpenner5763 Před 4 lety +24

    I have much more respect for this man. What a fantastic son. What a fantastic husband. What a fantastic father. What a fantastic athlete. However, a dixie horn may not be my taste. But i wouldn't mind embarassing you with Beethoven's 5th or or a basso profundo Aaaoooga!!!😘

  • @Alecexoloringtheworld
    @Alecexoloringtheworld Před 5 lety +13

    Love this guy forever 💗

  • @reneprivatemail.3303
    @reneprivatemail.3303 Před 6 lety +23

    BRAVO he is truly a hero .... same thoughts.​

    • @rugguer
      @rugguer Před 6 lety

      Rene short curious how is he a hero, caregiver nurse fire police military doctor mothers fathers those are heros,

  • @clarehughes1543
    @clarehughes1543 Před 5 lety +8

    Lovely speech Tom

  • @ValenCabot
    @ValenCabot Před 6 lety +8

    Great great great great speech and answers 👏👏👏👏

  • @gracebroadley707
    @gracebroadley707 Před 6 lety +23

    Loved this!!💫

  • @satyavrattiwari7810
    @satyavrattiwari7810 Před 4 lety +19

    I have tears rolling down my cheeks listening his story !
    Tom is a very very generous man ❤️

  • @SuperSoniaf
    @SuperSoniaf Před 2 lety +2

    powerful speech by him and lance, as married couple is quite interesting to be there and perform a speech. Their children are going to be either blessed because they will inherite sport and academic achievement or they will feel the pressure and be overshadowed by their fathers.

  • @nigel8499
    @nigel8499 Před 6 lety +31

    Very eloquent.

  • @JohnBullard-ve8wu
    @JohnBullard-ve8wu Před rokem

    Absolutely inspirational. Very , very poignant and real. How blessed you were to have the blessing of unconditional love in your life from your Dad.
    That role model in your life helped you to recognize the real deal when you encountered it in your husband. Keep shining.

  • @CharlesStanton-bv6is
    @CharlesStanton-bv6is Před 4 lety +2

    Really wise comments, Tom. Thanks.

  • @ennis3324
    @ennis3324 Před 4 lety +5

    I m very energetic when I listen while he is speaking 👌

  • @tiggertheincineroar5515
    @tiggertheincineroar5515 Před 5 lety +2

    So inspirational.

  • @markpotterton5393
    @markpotterton5393 Před 6 lety +39

    Good show Tom!

  • @carolinedahlhoff6405
    @carolinedahlhoff6405 Před 4 lety +4

    This made me cry

  • @michelledelaney5132
    @michelledelaney5132 Před 4 lety +4

    Such a lovely guy 💖

  • @tyronedeere
    @tyronedeere Před 2 lety +11

    It was very inspirational to listen to both Tom and Lance telling their story of life and love on Oxford Union speeches of 3 years ago. Both are such accomplished speakers.

  • @louiseharvey2800
    @louiseharvey2800 Před 2 lety

    A great watch Tom. Brilliant speech x

  • @danielmontiel5876
    @danielmontiel5876 Před 4 lety +2

    Great Guy Great Job!!!!!

  • @robertbottorff763
    @robertbottorff763 Před 3 lety +6

    I have such respect for you. The way you live your life and are so open and honest. I'm so happy you found Lance and pray you have a wonderful life, you deserve it.

  • @mohammedmoh2359
    @mohammedmoh2359 Před 6 lety +4

    love you so much Tom , you are so smart and funny guy

  • @JonEstillore
    @JonEstillore Před 4 lety +5

  • @scastillocarrillo
    @scastillocarrillo Před 6 lety +22

    😁 Excellent presentation Tom!

  • @eca2998
    @eca2998 Před 3 lety +2

    Such an inspiration!

  • @darlenenickerson1713
    @darlenenickerson1713 Před 5 lety +4

    That was amazing!✌❤

  • @deborahjames6727
    @deborahjames6727 Před 2 lety +2

    I am in Brisbane but I am from the UK and I am knitting because I pulled a tendon off the bone in schoolsport when my year 2/3 special needs kids were running and I was in the relay race with staff and students and slipped on wet grass so I am making jackets for my own 4 children’s dogs 3 of whom are in Melbourne cold rescue greyhound and a whippet keeps me busy as I just got out of hospital . I loved watching your diving from my hospital bed well done you are an inspiration to so many. Love Debbie

    • @spandanashetty6351
      @spandanashetty6351 Před 2 lety

      You are an amazing human being Debbie! I hope you get well soon! Sending all the love your way

  • @marbellaperez300
    @marbellaperez300 Před 6 lety +10

    Love it! 💪

  • @juliaunger913
    @juliaunger913 Před 6 lety +23

    KING.

  • @millyoboyle7416
    @millyoboyle7416 Před 3 lety +2

    Such a good delivery into the pool

  • @nicholasbarry2392
    @nicholasbarry2392 Před 5 lety +2

    Tom Daley you are a woundfull person and who I look up to just carry on and keep what you have done and don't look back what more you can do
    Yours sincerely nicholas Barry

  • @lelandpeck4585
    @lelandpeck4585 Před 6 lety +7

    very interesting. thanks, Tom for being honest and real!!

  • @quintero69
    @quintero69 Před 6 lety +14

    Empzé viendo los canales de ejercicio de Tom Daley y terminé viendo sus otros canales en CZcams en los que este tipo está. La verdad que es de admirar todo lo que hace por la comunidad gay. Tom, eres una inspiración para todos. Muy jóven para hacer todo lo que ha hecho: deportista, gimnasta Olimpico, medallista Olímpico, instructor de ejercicios, ya casado con alguien maravilloso... etc. Es una inspiración total!!.

  • @dancoll8166
    @dancoll8166 Před 6 lety +8

    Tom, I always liked your vlogs. Thank you for sharing this offering with us, I now have a greater respect for you. Thank you!

  • @pathurley3810
    @pathurley3810 Před 2 lety

    Excellent!!!

  • @stephenfermoyle4578
    @stephenfermoyle4578 Před 2 lety

    love him so much

  • @darrenfenoglio199
    @darrenfenoglio199 Před 4 lety +24

    Well Tom.. you are an inpiration... no matter what you say... I am confident that you will represent human kind in a postive manner... and you willl always consider the struggle that LGTBQ people encounter every day... we are just normal people, just like everyone else... a positive voice like yours is so comforting..

  • @jamesflolid7115
    @jamesflolid7115 Před 2 lety +1

    Great interview,

  • @clickclackbadabingbadaboom3738

    thank you for being honest

  • @saturated3821
    @saturated3821 Před 5 lety +13

    At the end of the day, if all goes tits up, there's cheesecake. Words to live by!

  • @ratshatecheese9466
    @ratshatecheese9466 Před 4 lety +1

    Yes Tom

  • @nisfanefendi9493
    @nisfanefendi9493 Před 4 lety +1

    i am crying.

  • @charless.sturdivant
    @charless.sturdivant Před 2 lety +2

    Good job Tom keep up the fine work.🏳‍🌈💜💜

  • @emdrmt28
    @emdrmt28 Před 2 lety +2

    You have good memories of your dad.

  • @nickoxborrow5175
    @nickoxborrow5175 Před 6 lety +8

    He’s a lovely guy

  • @tillyjenkins2796
    @tillyjenkins2796 Před 4 lety +4

    Such an inspiration💖💖

  • @tomross1458
    @tomross1458 Před 6 lety +7

    That was extraordinary. My coming out stories seem so feeble compared to what you went through. I really do admire you. Congratulations on life!

    • @peterwinkler3570
      @peterwinkler3570 Před 5 lety +8

      Tom Ross: I have a hunch you deserve more credit than you're giving yourself. Your coming out may have been less dramatic and public than Daley's. Mine too. But we still mustered the courage and integrity to step from the shadows into the light, to be our authentic selves. And that's what really counts!

  • @Hypnobreast
    @Hypnobreast Před 6 lety +9

    Nice one!

  • @vicb5098
    @vicb5098 Před 6 lety +6

    so articulate, Tom. I will NEVER forget watching Tom in the stands watching the other divers, 2012 olympics. When his hand flew to his mouth in response to a divers performance, I said to myself uh oh, he is such a handsome gay man.

  • @stevenscholze8196
    @stevenscholze8196 Před 2 lety

    Love this

  • @leonardocelis8883
    @leonardocelis8883 Před 2 lety +9

    Tom is an inspiration for everybody. I am proud of him and what he represents for the LGBT community. He's an incredible human being.

  • @corpo_ethereal2744
    @corpo_ethereal2744 Před 2 lety +2

    Great athlete, great speech. Congratulations on your 2020 Olympic win, Tom.

  • @floridaskater2003
    @floridaskater2003 Před 6 lety +4

    The best.

  • @PuffyWuzHere
    @PuffyWuzHere Před 6 lety +7

    Omg I would be so nervous speaking there 😱

  • @rozhector1361
    @rozhector1361 Před 2 lety +3

    Good speech Tom , really enjoyable. Lovely to hear you talking about your dad, I remember the documentary,( wow till you mentioned it I had forgotten that we had watched you growing up.p That seems so long ago) with your dad and and the time he climbed up the ladder outside your bedroom window (he was nuts) that really made me laugh. And when he used to support you at competitions , be so proud of uou all those lovely hugs he used to give you. So funny .
    I

  • @rafaeljr.lealsantiago3827

    YOUR DAD IS VERY PROUD OF YOU IN HEAVEN. CONGRATULATIONS THOMAS DALEY!