70 Men Ages 5-75: What's Your Biggest Insecurity? | Glamour
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- Do you wish you were a little bit taller? Are you a soft speaker or just shy in general? We talked to 70 men at every age from 5 -75 years old about their deepest insecurities. Find out which guys haven't a care in the world and which guys are still working on being happy with who they are.
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“Maybe the people that I need don’t need me”. Let’s gather here for all those that felt it.
Mine too. However I'm certain there is at least one I want to need but he doesn't seem to need me so.. Have to stay independent I guess.
Yes, I had to listen again
PAIN DEEPLY
Being rejected..
Yep
Kind of sad that kids start with no insecurity and then over time, you become imprisoned by it.
I feel like after the age of 30-40, people are actually slowly getting less insecure. I am 34 and way less insecure than between 12 and 30.
@@roothik I am 14 and starting to have more insecurities and it is just so annoying how much stress we have to deal with. My mom didn't care what other people thought because she was awesome and followed christ. She has inspired me and I am always trying to not care in a good and healthy way because in the long run nobody really cares. I want to feel confident yet humble and I just feel that is really cool if you can do that. Sorry for long comment. I hope this was nice to read!
You become imprisoned like Prison Mike
@@josephmcray9086 I like it, good on you
@@lucialetelier4510 was looking for this comment
"My fashion sense"
*Is wearing a perfect suit*
I can totally relate with that guy. Overdressing or underdressing can be a nightmare when people you meet act differently to you based on your dressing. Not knowing whether to stand out or be the unseen
I think that’s his way of hiding/coping with it.
I think he looks fine but also, maybe that tie is too thin for what otherwise looks like a business suit, attaining neither formal nor dress direction. He appears ambivalent, ultimately going nowhere until he is forced to die alone.
I wish he saw thia
He don't know what to wear lol
70% of the insecurities are things out of their control. That's the world we live in.
its over for manlets
@@taketheblackpillneo3940 bro u commented like 28 times literally on this video, I want to know what you like look lol.
How is height out of your control?
@@Imanol_Fdez_De_Arroyabe_Zabala .......what?! Lol
@@vinzen14 There are limb lengthening procedures and if you suspect you will not be as tall as you desire early enough there's also synthetic growth hormone
"When my Mother doesn't talk grown up to me" 😅 A young Sheldon.
Disappointed I had to scroll so far down to find this comment 🤣
@@milenacuellar5534 it was 2nd highest for me
@@sunflower7874 Me too lmfao
Omg yes
That plus the way he was sitting. Heard kid heard
“Getting older in a society that isn’t always kind to older people” wow.
Often, people about only 50 or over, say they feel invisible 😔
@@eco-friendlyvegangeek wow that makes my heart so sad 😔
That's an important statement, but it's not an insecurity, it's a worry or a disappointment.
@@eco-friendlyvegangeek wow that hurts to hear...
@@roothik I would feel insecure of my age and aging appearance as I notice people treating me less and less kindly
"Not having enough clout on social media"
Bro go outside
What I’m saying
fr get a life, read a book something!
People on tik tok and social media searching for clout are idiots
@Kyden Merlin yeah tru we should probably spend less time on social media and actually do more real life things
The guy is in the wrong age in the wrong body
"my acne" -said by kid with very clear skin
Everyone has clear skin on camera tho
Could be occasional / cystic acne 🤷🏻♀️
@@adeshkantha7034 wait what...
Maybe his skin breaks out sometimes
I get all my acne on my chest and back, nobody sees it untill i take my shirt of to go swimming etc..
So many of these were about height... chin up kings
I’m really tall but no one expects tall people to be insecure only short people but being taller than everyone and always having to look down makes me insecure idk
Yeah bcuz of women 😢😠😠
@@xanthicatd3719 bro i have the same, i legit don't like the thought of being taller than 99% of people, especially in dating i don't wanna tower over my partner
Mine is my height and weight, 5 ft 9 145 lbs. I feel very small
@@Ross-ve9ww with 5'9 ur taller than most of the population
“When my mother doesn’t talk grown up to me” I’m 21, have a degree, and my mother still doesn’t talk grown up to me 💀
Hahahaha same, but I'm 32😂
Never will 😄
Lololol
hahaha me too and i’m 20
who u ma
I feel like women’s dating standard contributed to the height insecurities.
It's just a preference but when women start to beat up men for their height, that needs to stop
It's not just women, it's nature... Generally speaking shorter men have less impact than taller men. However, that doesn't mean we should mock them for something they can't control. But women didn't do this out of evil. Like I said, natural selection bro.
Napoleon was short.
Hitler was short.
I think Staljin was short.
All the girls want a 6 foot man while we are only 5'4
idk which women or men are lying to y’all, but no one cares. they’ll all settle if they like the rest of you.
That dude with the cowboy hat saying he has no insecurities looks like a retired final boss
Lmao
Facts
Yo Jack Marston in the 70's?
“My skin” *has perfect skin*
yea but they have makeup on and skin always looks better on camera in my experience :/
it could be on their body.. maybe he has sensitive skin, or rashes, or scars or whatever.
Good lighting combined with lots of foundation or concealer can hide massive amounts of blemishes and skin texture
I feel he was bullied bc of it, or _is_ being bullied bc of it. I know someone who was bullied for that and then later on having flawless skin, but still is insecure of it. Kinda sad, rlly. Heavily impacts a person's perception of his/herself
@@connorbduncan that was soo true
“I don’t have any insecurities”
Nobody:
Me: Ahh yes to be young again-
Im young and full of insecurities 😳
12 and im literally JUST insecurities.. i wear baggy clothes to hide my figure
@@Sweetcakeyum same
@@Sweetcakeyum @euphoria @peachy Bomb @Anna Van Brecht
Guys she's/he's not talking about the teenagers but about the younger ones
I’m 17 and I don’t have any
As a 16 year old my biggest fear/insecurity is forgetting what it’s like to be a kid. I see it in so many adults and kids my age and younger and see how unhappy they get because they don’t know how to just enjoy life for what it is while being curious of it.
bruh now im sad
I have never read a more relatable comment. Im 16 as well and I feel the exact same way
@@meiti2000 I’m glad that I’m not the only one to share the same sentiment. Thank you fren :)
Bruhhhh yessss I constantly remind myself to live my childhood days to the absolute fullest and loosen up a bit and not be so serious
I’m 21 and it’s quite alarming how much happier I was at your age. I’m not depressed or anything but everything was so much easier back then
I hate how people ignore the fact that men have insecurities too.
Edit: Guys I am literally a female
You can hate it all you want the facts are that we men are disposable and to the world we are deemed unimportant
@@HL-777- ah yes! Equality
@@halal_tom what I'm really trying to say is that, i know we are facing opression ether you can deal with it and get on with your day, or actually make a difference instead of complaining.
Pssh maybe you guys have insuccurities, I don't
@@C_CREATURE_ But you're a chameleon god
us young people forget sometimes that older men, are literally just dudes, like that's just a young dude that kept growing up...
Yeah we often think we never will grow old. But they were just one of the bois in another time and we will become that too. I'm close to 22 now and, yes I'm still very young, but I do start to realize that more and more. Until I was like like 14-15 I never even thought about that at all. People were just old or young. Old people were "always just old".
Yup. True. It's so easy to forget because society always makes it seem like the elderly have all the answers and can't possibly be insecure.
@@ballislife9924 same here man I'm 22 as well and I get the exact same feelings now. especially when I look at my parents...
Agree. That’s why I hate when people ridicule or make fun of old people for being _old_ . We’re not far too. You don’t stay young forever
@@ballislife9924 same here. I think about these things a lot now. I'm 23.
Mens’ insecurities aren’t talked about enough so this was very helpful :)
ikr?
You are sooooo right!
@@idanwillenchik3050 yeah and not because of other man who equate having feelings to being feminine and constantly push that ideal on other young man
@@idanwillenchik3050 Eh I’ve been bullied by more men than women but hey....🤷🏾♂️
Just letting you know, as 'men' is the plural of 'man', and thus the possessive is already in the plural form, this should have been written as 'men's insecurities' rather than 'mens' insecurities'. Just thought I'd let you know as you're obviously someone who likes to use the correct grammar as you knew that you would normally put the apostrophe after the s, but when the noun is already plural you don't need to use the possessive apostrophe to specify that. Otherwise it'd be the plural plural! 😂😂 Lovely comment though, and very true! :)
@@simplicity7862 exactly. that's the main thing.
It's actually so crazy to me that the word money was not mentioned throughout the entire video. The closet it got was the 55 year old man who said "not being able to provide for my family".
I think the ones about money were 71(control life), 51(failing) 56(safety net), 55(provide family) , 40(find solution), and possibly 25 (social media clout).
We are born without any insecurities. Our society makes us believe we have all these things wrong with us. Everyone is amazing and deserves love. Stay strong everybody
Then why don't I get any?
@@discontinued42069 definitely! They are all just illusions!
The amount of people who said height.... let’s stop making fun of short guys please
Okkk
@@razanekhay5176 wdym
Don't stop making fun of short guys. Just start to make fun of everyone. be confident and don't take things too serious.
Can't assume they were all short...
@@yannickschau4820 right, if you are insecure that doesn't mean no one is allowed to joke
A lot of them: "my height"
*Me, a 4'11" guy:* _same_
Own it bruh
@@Norwheon easier said than done.
How old r u tho
@@heshan810 18 going on 19
Im 20 and 5'0 lol
“i feel like im insecure about my hair”
i get why he feel this way even tho his hair looks so nice! bc growing up black, our hair is called nappy and all kinds of names when it’s in its natural state. i hope he learns to take pride in his black features!
Insecurities start after 10. Before that they are fearless. Then society weighs on them. & Height... is the clear champion which is something no one can control. This world smh.
The 75 year old, I want to hug him.
ik same
Totally, he is cute 🥺
I think he lie to himself
that was so heartbreaking
As a society we need to recognize that insecurity does not have a gender. It happens to us all and it is not a weakness.
zero thought it didn't.
I mean... really? "insecure man" has always been a staple archetype in cultural and social narratives.
I agree with the sentiment, but everybody knows men get insecure.
The question is why did YOU assume so readily that others ("we as a society", apparently) didn't know this??
Yep. I’m an Octopus and i get insecure that I think I look strange 😢
I identify as a flying rainbow unicorn
Actually, as a society we need to recognize that human being aren't defined by gender, and that all living beings are worth a lot more than we would like to admit. And change starts with you and me, now.
It’s not that men don’t have as many insecurities as women. It’s women express how they feel about while men just kinda carry it on their back and don’t let it get to them as much.
It's sad
@Jack Dy I just hope they ll get therapy
Its true masculinity is oh so fragile
yes bc of toxic masculinity
@@saanvik4898 no it's because nobody cares about men's problems
Every person who said they were insecure about their body looked perfectly fine to me. It just shows how badly we judge ourselves because of society.
Height being the most recurring insecurity in this video throughout all ages says a lot about society
It just shows people live on social media and not in the real world tbh
@SweetChick10101 No it is not based on "observable realities".
Here's an astonishing idea, perhaps those who have actually experienced life as a short man will understand their problems better than those who haven't. I can say without any question that it is not "society" that causes my insecurity, it's women. I'm in a height group that, according to research, 90% of women say they would never date. That isn't some small minority of shallow people, it represents that majority of the population.
Yeah, we truly live in one 🤡
Or a lot about their insecurities.
@@edwardbrownson2152 which are caused by society in the first place. You’d have nothing to be insecure about if people weren’t making fun of you or judgin you for something you can’t control
Never though a 50 year old would feel insecure about their height
So you don't know the fact that your height starts decreasing because your spinal chord is bending
its never too late for leg lengthening surgery
@@anti-leveled142the problem is money
I'm 24, my biggest insecurity is standing up for myself when I know they're socially and physically stronger than me.
5 to 9: None
10: Mother doesn't talk "grown-up" to him
11: Writing an essay
12: Hair
13: Handwriting
14: Height
15: Acne
16: Stomach
17: Fashion sense
18: Height (2)
19: The scars on his body
20: Body
21: Not having a haircut
22: None
23: Voice
24: Nervous, shy, lacks confidence to say what he wants
25: Not enough clout in social media
26: If his skin isn't on par with his own standards
27: Used to be chubby, that stays with him
28: How he responds to conflicts
29: Whether he's a good person
30: Weight
31: Height (3)
32: Skin
33: Feet
34: Fashion sense (2)
35: The people he needs don't need him
36: Height (4)
37: Incorrect grammar
38: [can't understand]
39: Height (5)
40: Inability to find a solution
41: His parents
42: How people perceive him
43: Height (6)
44: Lopsided head
45: Being viewed as too much of an introvert
46: The way he speaks
47: Hair loss
48: Getting older in a society that isn't always kind to older people
49: Amputation
50: Height (7)
51: Hair loss (2)
52: Height (8)
53: None
54: Height (9)
55: Inability to provide for his family
56: Not having a safety net
57: How people judge him before talking to him
58: Being authentic
59: Looks
60: Personal inadequacies
61: Being vulnerable
62: Hair loss (3)
63: Not always knowing exactly what he should do
64: None
65: Not saying the right thing
66: Lack of self-confidence
67: None
68: Weight (2)
69: Speaking before a crowd
70: None
71: Not controlling his life
72: Health
73: None
74: Growing old
75: Imperfection, doing things wrong
I feel you, 24 year old. “I’m always nervous, I’m always shy, and I never trust myself to just say what I want to say”
I'm 24, and I definitely relate. I feel like I'm getting better in that area, though.
I’m 18 and that’s how I feel but with a twist. Sometimes I don’t go with my Instincts and usually they’re 100% right and I realize that when I’ve finally failed at something which I could’ve easily passed had I listened to myself.
Because I'm afraid I'll embarrass myself.
0:18 so just like we need to tell our little black girls their hair is beautiful and skin is valid, we need to be doing the same for our little black boys too. I feel like that’s not discussed or encouraged enough.
Look at the replies in my comments, enough said. Hope y’all dont ever have sons....
Idk but that boy was really cute and I think that he’s hair was soo cool!
And yeah I agree with you
I remember when I was like 4 or 5 I was so insecure about my black hair aswell
@@joelmoeketsi3324 Yeah. I see all these posts and what not about loving and telling little black girls that they’re beautiful and of course I’m all for it, but where’s the love for little black boys? Little to none 😕
@@marckid93 exactly
We should do that for both white and black boys and girls. Stop bringing skin color up
I was expecting someone will say: mah deahck
Nah, we all are proud of that.
LMAO
LMAOOOO
They are so insecure they can't say
70% of this video "my height"
Every tinder profile "if you're under 6 ft don't look at me"
1:07 “Maybe the people that I need, don’t need me.” That is scary to think about but 100% relatable.
Yeah
That is true for anyone below the age of 16 but sad to think we take money for granted at around my age. I am scared for future now after you pointed that out.
That's the one that got me
I can't believe so many men struggle with their height. That's so sad to me.
Thats because of women.
@@lordhightower6124, Well, it's not my fault that a lot aren't taller than me!
@@spoton95 this is exactly the mindset that makes guys insecure. Wow. Way to show your inner ugliness.
@@EvilSapphireR A lot of tall girls are usually insecure about their height too because of guys desiring a girl that is shorter than them 😔. Everyone should just stop caring about height and weight it’s so superficial
Same. I never knew how many women have 6ft as the prerequisite for dating, which is absurd. It's society telling them they need to be smaller coupled with the fear of emasculating their partners for being taller.
50+ yo men feeling insecured about their height... now I feel hopeless about feeling good with myself someday
I’m so glad that people are bringing attention to men’s insecurities too.
God bless every man and boy 🙏❤️
I’m a short man (5’5”) It’s taken me a while to be ok with it. It actually helps identify morons. If someone makes fun of my height I instantly know they aren’t bringing anything of substance to the party.
True. People who mock your height are probably insecure about something.
just think; clothes are cheaper for shorter people since they're smaller
I am 5'3" .
I find short guys very attractive. My son's late father was short and athletic,but very outgoing.My Ex boyfriend was short too but very athletic. We broke up 2014. Develop a big personality, it helps alot.
I'm short guy I love it 💁🏻♂️. Plus loads of the celebs women worship are shorter than average, height isn't the only thing ;)
@@Ryu53898 If only that we’re true. Plenty still do, but mostly they are insecure losers.
01:06 a guy dressed up in a cool suit : My fashion sense?🤔
EDIT: thanks y'all for the likes! By the way, I was just saying he already looks good in that stylish suit and I didn't mean to offend anybody 💕
Yeah, perfectionism 🙌🏻 that would be me.
Yeah I thought the same 😂
His fashion sense is good imo he just need a little bit of improvement. His jacket is too tight on him, shirt collar is too small it’s not even touching his lapel, the tie is a bit too skinny & also he need pocket square. These small details can really really break or make the outfit.
@@simongaywanjala598 Him reading your comment: 😞😣
That’s why he tried his best for the video
Can we take a moment to appreciate how well spoken the 7 year old sounded. The way he answered that question was so mature, he's going places
Interesting how guys of all ages responded with “my height”
*Women*
@@nowayycuuh Not just that, in fact i’d say another big reason is feeling weak or less of of man compared to other taller men, you know?
The little black boy at 00:17 saying "my hair" broke my heart
"little black boy" bruh...
Same
@@hollowmoon9554 what is the problem? why the people take the word "black" as an insult when it comes to skin color?
Some people are black, some people are white, some people are tall, some people are short, some people have blonde hair, some people have brown hair....
These are our peculiarities.
By the way, I like that child's haircut.
@@cip0010 exactly smh like obviously he is a little boy and he's black wdf is he green. Smdh people do too much and I love his hair too. It's sad that society has implemented a negative imagine on african american hair but fortunately that's changing and people are becoming more open minded...I think.
@@hollowmoon9554 i don’t see an issue..?
The amount of men saying "height" makes me think we've been led to believe the average height is much taller than it really is
Average height for men in the US is 5’9”
I’m 5’4 and feel really tall
Average height is 5 foot 9.
No one likes being average.
Or maybe most women prefer men that are taller than average.
Seen a few of these now and 55 is a family man through and through. Respect.
“I’m not insecure” best answer! That’s the goal and luckily we don’t have to wait until we’re old to figure that out.
You guys should put like a chart up at the end of these videos that shows like what percent of the people shared the same most common answers
That’s a good suggestion
01:06 a guy dressed up in a cool suit : My fashion sense?🤔
Yeah, good idea
I didn't count all of them but even outside of this video on pretty sure height would be the number one for men
They left that for the comment section.
I didn’t realize how many guys struggle with height insecurities. Just goes to show that gender doesn’t matter. We are all people and feel insecure about things. ❤️
Well that's because women are height supremacists... I got many rejections just because I am short (but not because I am insecure about it).
@@roothik not all women bruv...and if you gotta good personality and she rejects you sorely cuz of the height issue ..then you might not want to be with her either..that shits toxic af👍
@@roothik men do that too with tall woman
@@beysiren9447 yea tbh tall women have it just as bad as short men.
@@roothik well to be honest I see what you mean there. As a woman I always found ( and still do to some extent) tall men attractive but ended up having a massive crush on my neighbour who is my height I'm 164cm ( 5'5 I think ?) I have had tall guys asking me out but I just can't get that shorty out of my head. So there are as many scenarios as there people I assume.
The man who said his voice had one of the more recognizable and sweet sounding voices. It's a shame that insecurities can skew your own perspective so much.
Ironically you using the word sweet to describe his voice instead of words like commanding or resonant could be the very reason he's insecure. Kind of works in the same way as a girl calling a man adorable.
@@Dim.g0v exactly this is what these people don't understand. They refuse to call negative traits what they are and just sugarcoat it, then wonder why kids are so confused these days. If he just either worked on changing his voice or excepted it and adjusted his social expectations accordingly he would be ok. But instead he's gaslit into thinking it's not a bad thing. But then thinks he's insecure because he notices that people respect him less because of his voice.
Glamour: What are your insecurities?
Me: Yes.
Good one j Luke
Not enough clout? Bruh how is that someone’s biggest insecurity
He is young...he will get it soon.
well imagine everyone you know has 2,000+ followers and u had like 100, you would be insecure because you’d feel like less people liked you then all the people with more ya know
well imagine everyone you know has 2,000+ followers and u had like 100, you would be insecure because you’d feel like less people liked you then all the people with more ya know
@@milenalorang4559 Do you know those people? I understand wanting to be liked, but it is pretty superficial.
@@karmicsheila63 He’s not that young lmao. When I read your comment, I thought he would be like 12, not freaking 25🤣
we are born without insecurities but as we grow up, society brings it out.
I’m insecure about everything; however, it’s empowering to know that there are people willing to share theirs.
That 59 year old shouldn't worry about his looks...he looks 25 years younger than his age
Fr
Exactly 💯
As a woman to other women: Lets stop expecting men to be 190 cm
Ur telling me u did that before?🤦
Must suck to be you dude I’m 192cm
@@finnjeffrey572 im 193,5 unlimited power
I'm 186 i guess i'll just kms😂😂😂
@@finnjeffrey572 I’m 204cm and 16. Get on my level
0:09 "I dont get insuckeh" that's a bruh right there
Seeing this video makes me realize how short life is. Just went through almost all phases of our life cycle and saw we’re all similar in terms of insecurities. Kind of going through an existential crisis
62 years old guy is insecure about his thinning hair.
Me: 25 years old with hair loss 😬😬
same i am 20 and balding. T_T
@@sankalp2520 rip
17 year old me T_T
"Getting older in a society that isn't always nice to older people" and that's on zoomers
I personally think old people are so cool. It’s just the ignorant ones I can’t get behind
@@jelly2584
Yeah the closed minded ones
@ThatOne and vice versa
Don't shift the blame you millennials.
@@jelly2584 yk racist, homophobe, transphoice,sexist or misogynistic one yk?? yea i don't likd them
63 year old “not knowing exactly what I should do”
😔😔😔it never ends
Never ending cycle i suppose
"My height " is the chorus of this video
"the people that i need dont need me" , but isn't it kind of beautiful when they decide to choose you regardless of need?
“Getting older in a society that isn’t always nice to older people” made me so sad! 😔
“when my mother doesn’t talk grown up to me” is straight out of a john mulaney sketch 😂😂😂😂
"Being viewed as too much of an introvert"
Man, I felt that
They just took in 5-12 year olds to remind us the confidence we used to have back then. Good job Glamour.
lol its ignorance.
a dumb person has that confidence to.
"The people that I need don't need me". Felt that!
IN MY BONES
1:05 " My fashion sense" DUDE YOU LOOK FABULOUS
The one in a fuckin suit😂
@@avillence_hollow9342 lmao can't tell if that's sarcasm or not
Tf just wear suttin different
@@ihave113subscribers2 😐
“Maybe the people i need dont need me” i feel that
The last man literally broke my heart ♥️. Sending love to all of y'all
The poor kid who was insecure about their hair hurt me. As black people, we always are made to be insecure about our hair, especially black girls. I hope they grow to love themselves and their beautiful hair.
I've never seen this wtf
@Hannah L mad
@Hannah L 😐
@@waynicliz man
@Hannah L we found a racist white person
As a woman this made me very happy to listen to. Not in a sadistic way or anything, but because I've had some bad experiences with men, and it's nice to remember that so many men are genuine people with feelings and insecurities just like mine. The people on this channel in general always seem so down to earth
"I feel like I'm insecure about my hair" boy, you got the most precious hair ever
The ones I respect, "whether or not I'm a good person" and "that I'm not prefect or do things wrong"
I was surprised, but at the same time not, at the amount of men that said “not knowing what to do” or “being inadequate”.
Can we just talk about how most of the men over 50 look so good. I’m starting to think aging is a choice 😱
honestly! Seems like some people blossom at 60 tbh!
Men seem to age better than women......or aging looks better on men I should say. Having some gray hairs or wrinkles make it seem more like he has experience, is distinguished. Women are more valued for their youth.
@@anneb889 omg I agree so much , they looked incredible ✨
I was my best at 50 I think. Still looking good though. Advice: Don't smoke and get regular exercise.
Men age better
im proud of the guys that said no insecurities because that means they fully trust themselves and we all should aspire to live like that :)
I was completely mesmerized by how different each person looked. I guess I've never noticed until now how unique everyone is
Lot of them have the height issues. That hit my vulnerable spot😭
I felt that and I’m 17 5’6
@@Koluvuma yo i am 24 and i am 5'6
I'm 5'3"
I am 20 and 5’11 😭
@@ismailhamza4721 flip u man no offence tho
It was interesting how the insecurities of the older men were less about looks and more about personality and lifestyle, really shows how we grow and mature
Or develope with other probkem realize the vain are no longer the issue we face.
We should focus on humanity, people are losing just because they dont have food on the table. one ex.
What sucks is that the only recurring physical insecurity that’s consistent throughout age is height. I honestly thought I could probably wait out my height insecurity by finding a girlfriend or whatever, but after talking to who I thought was the most charismatic guy I knew with a great girlfriend (and the same height as me), and finding out he secretly still hated being short and was saving up for leg surgery… I think getting that bank breaking surgery for myself might be the best option for my mental health in the long run.
@@TasX feel u bro, i was about 5’3 for majority of my life until I hit late growth spurt and became about 5’10/5’11 which i guess is an “ok normal socially acceptable height” but even now i still feel insecure and have inferiority complex bc of the amount of dehumanization I got when I was younger. Height is genuinely one of the most brutal insecurities curse anyone can have, especially if ur already a fully developed grown age, u have no choice but to cope and deal with the fact that u will be that height for the rest of ur life
@@zxrytags9344at what age did you hit growth spurt?
The guy around 2:07 that said “PERSONAL INADEQUACIES” had the most mafia voice timing I’ve ever heard if that makes sense
I felt a sense of connection, especially with the older people.
I often find myself lost in what to do. Seeing that even some of the older men are also experiencing similar problems, like.. Made me feel that I'm not alone and a weirdo for being lost.
0:47 his hair beautiful 🤩
The last man's answer broke my heart. Idk why but it did.
Aw I wanna hug all of them guys never voice their insecurities so I can never imagine what they are
I mean......I have insecurities too 😳👉🏻👈🏼
We definitely think about stuff like weight, height, aging, our aging parents, finding a soulmate before getting too old, and the future in terms of being a good provider, succeeding, and being financially secure.
Young men are mostly insecure about their body while older one are insecure about their way of living and thinking !
when youre younger, girls dont need money as much because their parents provide it, so they overvalue looks and physical appearnace. As they get older, they realize the important of a man with a steady income and good personality for raising a family, so the insecurity shifts their for the men. Women have all control
@@everythingbasketball1428 bish who said i had control over anything
EverythingBasketball you smart
EverythingBasketball women pick men not the other way society got everyone confused
@@everythingbasketball1428 wow 😯
"My parents"
Jeez this is the insecurity inside all of us yet ppl never talks abt it
What does that even mean? I’m genuinely confused
@@user-sv3bx7bv4c parents influence one's life a lot. For example, unloving ones hurt.
@@UnePaquerette aww that’s so sad noooooo 😭😭
17 year old 5'8 male here. Thank you for this video, good to know I'm not alone.
“next one” said a 5 year old. thats deep, even with a smile
@0:12 “When my mother doesnt talk grown up to me”
Awwwww 🥺 We need to let children feel that their opinions really amount to something, that way we can build them up!
Agree
I feel like most insecurities humans have, have something to do with not being attractive enough, often physically. And yes is natural but media has made it soo much worse for all genders. It’s really sad and I just hope more and more people will start to recognise exactly how social media is doing it and just taking action to prevent those things as much as possible.
Ikr! So trueee..... Capitalism is literally feeding on insecurities, many of which it created among the masses. People need to wake up!
Agreed
The worst insecurities are the ones you have no control over
Man the one guy who said his insecurity was his voice actually had a really nice voice
Wow imagine having no insecurities, I have so many that it’s really effected my everyday life
0:17 broke my heart, he has to be confident bout his beautiful hair
Vantine Gllrd ikr. as a black girl, i can relate. i used to hate my natural hair 😔
@@janice184 black people have the most beautiful type of hair, it’s just society that make us think that it’s not the case. With all the love and support I can give you ❤️
@@vantchinyy i totally agree, thank you! 💗
@@vantchinyy tbf I think it’s hard to say. Each race has people with remarkable hair.
@@vantchinyy Our hair defies gravity.
Came with drip and talking about, “fashion sense” 😪🥱😴
0:12 this really hit deep.When I was younger my parents always ignored my opinions or what I had to say whether or not it was important it felt really bad being left out cz they didn't even bother listening to me since I was dumb and young but it still hurt me on the inside and still have flashbacks of that.
If any parents are watching this please listen to what your kid has to say or let him express his opinion even if he is 10,it will make him/her feel appreciated as another individual :)