Is NYC the Best City for Asian Dating?

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Komentáře • 108

  • @Razear
    @Razear Před měsícem +13

    Depends on how you define "best." In terms of volume of optionality, sure. This holds true for pretty much any metropolitan city. But urban life isn't necessarily indicative of how the rest of the country operates. Also, there's a big difference between dating IRL vs swiping on apps. You'll likely experience more cutthroat competition with online dating in a major city compared to a small town. It's easier to stand out as a high-status guy in a rural area than in an elitist bubble surrounded by other affluent, college-educated yuppies.

  • @ceeIoc
    @ceeIoc Před měsícem +60

    Absolutely not. Been here for 15 years. NYC is a microcosm of dating apps aka too many options. This results in a massive population of serial daters and ultra picky people. It is swipe culture personified.

    • @PaulVonLoren
      @PaulVonLoren Před měsícem +3

      I did good at 19, 4-5 years ago in NYC, so can say it is easy since there are so many people.

    • @RicochetForce
      @RicochetForce Před měsícem +5

      Exactly. There have been studies on this. When an area has more women than men there’s far fewer long term relationships, and the few men that women go for don’t commit.

    • @harleydavis3814
      @harleydavis3814 Před měsícem +1

      I feel like this is also a problem in a lot of other big major cities

  • @triplestarfish
    @triplestarfish Před měsícem +18

    As an Asian male, I had an easier time dating in DC compared to SF. I also noticed that non-Asians in DC are more open to dating Asian men. Trying to move back when I get the chance lol.

  • @eastwood7941
    @eastwood7941 Před měsícem +9

    NYC is best to date gold diggers if you make 300k+ a year. But then again, if you can make 300k you can make it anywhere so why would you compete with bunch of front office finance bros, big law bros and tech bros for such limit amount of girls/gold diggers?

    • @x01021
      @x01021 Před měsícem

      As someone making close to 300k in SoCal (I think I’m at like $295 or something lol), the problem is you need to sometimes spend a few years grinding in a HCOL area to get there. I’ve been grinding in the Bay Area for years before moving to OC during covid (which is still expensive, but compared to the Bay is way more chill and “cheap”). So someone might have to live in a cut throat big city to even get to that income level over years of corporate/tech/finance grinding.

  • @nancyk8153
    @nancyk8153 Před měsícem +11

    Lets talk about the pile of shoes, b-balls and clothes behind David. Why not make a shelf of your SMALA sauce as the background?

  • @michaelmcclurkin9690
    @michaelmcclurkin9690 Před měsícem +6

    In Boston, medicine is king. If you’re a medical student there you’ll do well and a resident will have a great time. NYC there is a lot of competition, because of finance, big law, etc. but you’ll still do well.

    • @StyleswithCourtney
      @StyleswithCourtney Před měsícem

      Women don't care about school

    • @RicochetForce
      @RicochetForce Před měsícem +3

      @@StyleswithCourtneyWomen in NYC absolutely care about education and earning status.

  • @beverlyHillsAgent
    @beverlyHillsAgent Před měsícem +8

    quality over quantity

  • @PricefieldPunk
    @PricefieldPunk Před měsícem +11

    If you're a med student I doubt you'd have struggles dating where ever you go dating. Plus aint New York one of the most expensive places in America to live?

    • @eclectic.explorations
      @eclectic.explorations Před měsícem +4

      Tell that to the Asian med student who was hit in the head with a bottle by a woman for playing the violin in the NYC subway.

    • @PurpleDoritos666
      @PurpleDoritos666 Před měsícem +3

      @@eclectic.explorations What does that have to do with dating? lol

  • @taytrong
    @taytrong Před měsícem +1

    What has worked for me, having lived in Chicago, NYC and LA, is to just not give a fck.

  • @Vyhox2000
    @Vyhox2000 Před měsícem +26

    Nice try, but nothing is gonna get me to go to New York City

    • @gian19791
      @gian19791 Před měsícem +3

      Hood city 🏙️

    • @dtna
      @dtna Před měsícem +1

      LA, SF, CH, too.

    • @jacobl5488
      @jacobl5488 Před měsícem

      nah for real its pretty good tho lol

    • @kevinhung1575
      @kevinhung1575 Před měsícem

      NY is better than whatever crap town you’re from

  • @devasta75
    @devasta75 Před měsícem +18

    Nope nice try. Dating scene is worst for asian dudes in nyc based on ethnic segregation. West coast would be hands up

    • @goodbad-boy
      @goodbad-boy Před měsícem +5

      west coast is better for dating?? def not sf. men outnumber women here 60-40

    • @kevinhung1575
      @kevinhung1575 Před měsícem +1

      Nah, NY is better and has more diversity at shorter distances. West Coast cities are too spread apart.

  • @franknguyen6058
    @franknguyen6058 Před měsícem

    Myself, image being Asian and dating in Oregon 😂😂😂

  • @DiamondFlame45
    @DiamondFlame45 Před měsícem +2

    ‘’My Wohman” 😂 Sorry! Couldn’t resist lol

    • @MoeFokah
      @MoeFokah Před 18 dny +1

      Forced a bit, right?

  • @dtna
    @dtna Před měsícem +3

    Naw, Irvine, CA... L.A.? Nope, maybe in the SGV. Like Arcadia. $

    • @ceeIoc
      @ceeIoc Před měsícem

      Only if you’re into Asians

  • @hithummah
    @hithummah Před měsícem +1

    small towns provide better dating chance for asian men as what is the most attractive about them is being traditional and strong family bond. City girls don't look for non of that, so why asian man fight a war they aren't fully equipped for?

  • @everydayrants663
    @everydayrants663 Před měsícem +1

    I'm a white guy in the DMV area.And I'm not getting any matches and I'm into Asian girls and I'm decently.Looking i'm just not super rich

    • @MoeFokah
      @MoeFokah Před 18 dny

      Va has asians en masse. Probably not you're type.

  • @user-gt1wr1vh3i
    @user-gt1wr1vh3i Před měsícem

    The party is where I am, so it don't matter which town, city, state I am in. Just be you. Don't try to be guys like Chad or Kevin.

  • @dronthedon
    @dronthedon Před měsícem +8

    I can’t find no Asian baddie that’ll like me. I think I’m just cooked at this point

    • @bobfty2680
      @bobfty2680 Před měsícem +9

      Why on earth are you only looking at ONE race? Why not date white girls or other races? I know pretty white girls on east coast are willing to date asians. I know from personal experience.

    • @manilamartin1001
      @manilamartin1001 Před měsícem +1

      Come here to philippines

    • @trendthis364
      @trendthis364 Před měsícem

      ​@@bobfty2680 exactly so much options

    • @goodbad-boy
      @goodbad-boy Před měsícem +2

      @@manilamartin1001 what about the local filipino men then? who will they get?

    • @manilamartin1001
      @manilamartin1001 Před měsícem +2

      @goodbadboy3836 wow. I never saw a comment so nice. There is enough to go around. There aren't that many foreigners here. I grew up in the USA and literally 4 out of 5 Filipino women I knew had white husbands. In the USA, the bachelor rate of Filipino men is the highest in the USA. Here in Philippines its fine.

  • @BookofJob3XVII
    @BookofJob3XVII Před měsícem +8

    All 50 states are bad for Asian men dating, not for Asian women though.

  • @alt51801
    @alt51801 Před 24 dny +1

    NYC = finance guy

  • @Privateuser9999
    @Privateuser9999 Před 6 dny

    Asian men have it hard. Asian women prefer white
    Indians date indians mostly though some white or asians date indians
    Spanish prefer white black spanish
    Black people are most open to all races but it seems black men do well across the board
    Nyc dating rules include a big Manhattan pad huge income and then its easy even for asians
    Flushing might be easier bur not best

  • @ayowser01
    @ayowser01 Před měsícem +8

    *more liberal women 😅

  • @Bluboy30
    @Bluboy30 Před měsícem +8

    I'm in the Mid-West and the stereotype of women here only go for the All American football type of guy is not accurate anymore. That was more accurate back in the 80s and 90s but time has changed and a lot women are attracted to different type of dudes. I'm in the creative field and I have no issues dating women in this part of the country. And I typically only date white women.

    • @LisaCutie409
      @LisaCutie409 Před měsícem

      Asian men can't play football

    • @HoodQueen258
      @HoodQueen258 Před měsícem

      Asian men can't play sports

    • @neomatrix4412
      @neomatrix4412 Před měsícem

      r u korean

    • @ceeIoc
      @ceeIoc Před měsícem

      I don’t notice any difference in matches when I change location to Chicago

    • @Bluboy30
      @Bluboy30 Před měsícem +3

      @@neomatrix4412 No, I'm Southeast Asian, Laos.

  • @huojin01
    @huojin01 Před měsícem +12

    Yes it’s true. I’m 100% Asian lived in New York for the past 2 years Queens (Corona/Flushings), Brooklyn (Atlantic Center), and the Bronx (Gun Hill) and it’s very much the same perspective. I think it’s true being Asian you have to fit in with other Asians otherwise you’re the problem. The ABGs don’t exist in New York and if it did it’s a very small amount as opposed to LA. I don’t think New York is the best place for Asian dating I think it’s the 2nd compared to LA. New York Asians are more open to dating other races not for Asian males to Asian females. I think LA is Asians for Asians. This is just my individual experience so I’m sure in general it will be different.

    • @SL-lz9jr
      @SL-lz9jr Před měsícem +3

      I agree as an Asian female who grew up in SF and now lives in NYC. I'm the only person in my family who moved across the country. I recently reconnected with a younger second cousin who I found out also moved out to the East Coast. 99.9% of our cousins are already married to other Asians. We're the only ones open to dating other people. Weird phenomenon. The other Asian women I meet in NYC tend to be open to other races.

    • @huojin01
      @huojin01 Před měsícem +1

      @@SL-lz9jr Glad to know someone else sees what I've seen.

    • @SylvesrerSam
      @SylvesrerSam Před měsícem +1

      @@SL-lz9jr Asian women and white men is all over San Francisco

    • @trendthis364
      @trendthis364 Před měsícem

      My guy, date outside of Asian.

    • @huojin01
      @huojin01 Před měsícem

      @@trendthis364 That's besides the point guy. LOL

  • @Liam-bz3xz
    @Liam-bz3xz Před měsícem +2

    Y’all sleeping on the foreign women 😂

  • @pinnxlao99
    @pinnxlao99 Před měsícem +2

    Lol Iceland

  • @jq6120
    @jq6120 Před měsícem +2

    If you think dating is going to be substantially different depending on where you are, then it shows you don't have a ton of experience with this topic. Human nature is the same regardless of where you are at. The main problem for a lot of your audience isn't where they live but rather that they have terrible social skills and are unable to connect with people, because they spend their entire childhood locked in their house playing piano or studying math to get into college. You might meet someone, but if you can't even hold a normal conversation with them for 25 seconds, then your going to be out of luck. You can meet a thousand people, and it wouldn't make a difference.

  • @antonpuno2605
    @antonpuno2605 Před 26 dny

    It does make sense that you have more options because of diversity. However it's an extremely competitive, fast paced, and hyper selective culture. Over the top in many cases. So dating in NYC is hard for both men and women.

  • @klaymoon1
    @klaymoon1 Před měsícem +2

    It's true. NYC is the city for Asian single guys. I do have my own personal stories to share. I will not, but they are pretty exotic. Yes it all depends who you are. If you never had a gf, changing a city may not help you..

  • @emantclphie
    @emantclphie Před měsícem +8

    NY is america's ShangHai.... bye felicia

  • @Baheieujlsksnen
    @Baheieujlsksnen Před 7 dny +1

    Dating in nyc is horrible. So many guys only look for hook ups!!! Disgusting.

  • @Baheieujlsksnen
    @Baheieujlsksnen Před 7 dny

    2:46 turn off for me
    3:01 👍🏻

  • @patriciafuchs5970
    @patriciafuchs5970 Před měsícem +1

    This is definitely a guy blog. Either that or I continue to not get this. Probably because I am 75 and it’s a generational thing. People aren’t products in my mind

  • @HigkeyRegarded007
    @HigkeyRegarded007 Před měsícem +5

    NYC is the best city to date Asians as a non-Asian person imo. Bay Area is the best city for Asian men/asian women to find partners.

    • @ceeIoc
      @ceeIoc Před měsícem

      Bay Area is the wmaf capital

    • @itsatrap4986
      @itsatrap4986 Před měsícem

      "NYC is the best city to date Asians as a non-Asian person imo." - WMAF/XMAF
      "Bay Area is the best city for Asian men/asian women to find partners." WMAF/XMAF

  • @IanV777
    @IanV777 Před měsícem

    lol nah

  • @SylvesrerSam
    @SylvesrerSam Před měsícem +11

    New York is the worst

  • @baddie21358
    @baddie21358 Před měsícem +5

    No

    • @troigcyusa
      @troigcyusa Před měsícem

      Pakistani incel has arrived

  • @darrylt8502
    @darrylt8502 Před měsícem +2

    Simply put: if you're struggling with dating, it's not the city. It's you.

    • @gabrielalele8603
      @gabrielalele8603 Před 25 dny

      Definitely not true.
      Go where you're appreciated. Change of environment does many people well.

  • @az00001
    @az00001 Před měsícem +5

    Bay Area all the way!!

    • @dtna
      @dtna Před měsícem

      Maybe SJ.

  • @StyleswithCourtney
    @StyleswithCourtney Před měsícem

    Nope, maybe San Fran but not New York

    • @OneManOnFire
      @OneManOnFire Před měsícem +5

      As a San Francisco resident actually living in the 415 good luck with dating as a average person. You'll need to cross the bridge or go far away.

    • @PurpleDoritos666
      @PurpleDoritos666 Před měsícem +4

      the Bot has arrived

    • @Jessie......
      @Jessie...... Před měsícem

      @@PurpleDoritos666 Yep. Her, LisaCutie409, baddie21358 and HoodQueen258. I noticed most have random numbers in their name. All they do is leave bad comments about Asians 🤦‍♀

    • @troigcyusa
      @troigcyusa Před měsícem

      ​@@PurpleDoritos666 he's a south asian. A Pakistani probably

    • @carnival3429
      @carnival3429 Před měsícem

      @@troigcyusa no he is ⚫️, typical he has left comments uplifting ⚫️ men.

  • @LisaCutie409
    @LisaCutie409 Před měsícem +4

    Asian men are short in NY

    • @kevinhung1575
      @kevinhung1575 Před měsícem +3

      Says someone who’s never been in NY

    • @LisaCutie409
      @LisaCutie409 Před měsícem

      @@kevinhung1575 I live here

    • @troigcyusa
      @troigcyusa Před měsícem

      ​@@LisaCutie409 east Asians are taller than south asian central Asians and Mongolians have the highest testosterone and dominate judo, boxing, wrestling,sambo. You curries could never.

  • @91dgross
    @91dgross Před měsícem

    Andrew I love you bro but its time to upgrade your style a little bit man. You are a good looking guy but you be looking like unflavored chicken sometimes man. Lets add some more flare to your look, what do you think?

  • @HoodQueen258
    @HoodQueen258 Před měsícem +7

    Too short and unathletic

    • @PurpleDoritos666
      @PurpleDoritos666 Před měsícem +5

      Bot account along with styleswithCourtney, Im convinced yall are the same person LOL

    • @Jessie......
      @Jessie...... Před měsícem +1

      They are lmaoo

    • @troigcyusa
      @troigcyusa Před měsícem

      East Asian men are taller and more athletic than South Asian men. Cope

    • @carnival3429
      @carnival3429 Před měsícem

      ⚫️ men smell bad and are too dark.