Stop Being Socially Awkward...

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  • čas přidán 22. 06. 2024
  • #selfimprovement
    0:00 Intro
    1:13 Number One Cause of Social Anxiety
    2:58 Present Yourself Well
    4:47 Remember These Cues!
    5:36 Awkward Silences...
    7:39 Outro

Komentáře • 23

  • @mavisesdalgasi
    @mavisesdalgasi Před 8 měsíci +11

    instead of watching videos like these to get rid of your shyness, what i found to be effective is that attempt at socializing in your OWN COMFORT ZONE, take small steps, and as you come across mroe positive interactions, you'll be more tempted to socialize more, and build momentum.

    • @MrSpruce
      @MrSpruce Před 8 měsíci +1

      Honestly. Over the course of two years I've gone from a total shutaway who couldn't make eye contact, and felt awkward even at the shops to just... a sociable enough dude. I think small steps is how you build lasting abilities, because what else is a person but the sum of their experiences?

    • @tomscarborough
      @tomscarborough  Před 8 měsíci

      Good points from the both of you!

  • @MS-wn2gd
    @MS-wn2gd Před 8 měsíci +2

    I broke my shyness by:
    1. Putting myself at first place so I don't think too much if I'm boring or not. I don't try to please someone, I try to talk and know this person better
    2. People don't have great memory so even if I screw up... This new person will probably forget about it. And if not Maybe we never see each other again
    3. "Tomorrow you will regret that you didn't started today"
    Effects? I still don't have a friends but some people say "hi" when they see me... Progress

    • @tomscarborough
      @tomscarborough  Před 8 měsíci +3

      Thanks for sharing bro. Sounds like you have a very positive mindset and any progress at all is good! Imagine where you'll be in a years time if you keep it up

  • @someguywhosmiles
    @someguywhosmiles Před 8 měsíci +3

    The montage is amazing for a young channel !

  • @uroboros_8563
    @uroboros_8563 Před 8 měsíci +1

    this was helpful. thnx bro for this video

  • @LeaderLT
    @LeaderLT Před 8 měsíci

    I’m not quiet but people still call me weird

  • @thatonedude27
    @thatonedude27 Před 8 měsíci +1

    This was accurate as hell bro thank you

  • @dovelyz5496
    @dovelyz5496 Před 8 měsíci +1

    You ate and left no crumbs 🎉

  • @Wojtekm69
    @Wojtekm69 Před 8 měsíci

    cool video

  • @agbocollins158
    @agbocollins158 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Nice one bro 🎉

  • @Turtletaub
    @Turtletaub Před 8 měsíci +1

    make a vid abt eye contact

  • @1REDGOBLIN
    @1REDGOBLIN Před 5 měsíci

    The first step is to realise that noone cares how you act or look like, unless you do something extra cringe.

    • @tomscarborough
      @tomscarborough  Před 5 měsíci

      Haha true my friend. People have short memories

  • @prato-to7mx
    @prato-to7mx Před 8 měsíci

    who have zero friends rn? (me)

  • @jackpronovost713
    @jackpronovost713 Před 8 měsíci

    So your advice is being fake?

  • @divbrho_m7904
    @divbrho_m7904 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Bad advice, does not work. Instead try:
    1) take 120 mg MDMA
    2) wait 30 minutes
    3) profit

  • @Hazmom
    @Hazmom Před 8 měsíci

    Hey man, I have a huge opportunity for you that I’d love for you to be apart of. How should I contact you?