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ASMR| You Don't Have to Pretend to be OK ❤ [Depression Comfort][Girlfriend Roleplay]

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  • čas přidán 6. 05. 2023
  • It is always OK to not feel OK. To have bad days, really bad days, and to not answer "I'm fine" when someone asks.

Komentáře • 124

  • @strawwpurry
    @strawwpurry Před rokem +202

    tittle is so real cuz i have to pretend about everything

    • @ravereligion8512
      @ravereligion8512 Před rokem +12

      These days everyone pretends, let us be special and not pretend anymore. I will start today :)

    • @bumzie2178
      @bumzie2178 Před rokem +3

      W tittle

    • @user-jd8qc9pn1i
      @user-jd8qc9pn1i Před rokem

      ​@ravereligion8512 haha shut up 😐🚮

    • @strawwpurry
      @strawwpurry Před rokem +2

      @@ravereligion8512 I've thought of that too, but people treat you better when you prentend to be happy/normal because i used to get beaten for the way i was before i pretended

    • @ShecriedhecriedIcried
      @ShecriedhecriedIcried Před rokem +1

      @@bumzie2178 I see what I think I’m seeing
      👴🏻- “ did you think you could escape me Boy? “

  • @thebaguetteguy2207
    @thebaguetteguy2207 Před rokem +112

    i wish someone like you existed to tell me this face to face
    thanks for the audio it was conforting while it lasted

    • @stevenislas6459
      @stevenislas6459 Před rokem +1

      🫂❤️🫂🙏🤍🙏

    • @andy6201
      @andy6201 Před 3 měsíci +2

      ​@@stevenislas6459bro is in every comment replying with hugs respect

  • @TwistedMT297
    @TwistedMT297 Před rokem +13

    This video made me realize that the thought of a hug from someone makes me start to cry

  • @mrcwillis6970
    @mrcwillis6970 Před rokem +64

    I always pretend to people that I’m fine it’s just how I’ve always done it. Don’t like to waste there time, plus I feel like I don’t deserve help. I feel it’s fine that I’m not ok because that’s just how I always am but at the same time I hate how I am. Lovely audio as always, I’ll be sleeping well tonight. ❤

    • @stevenislas6459
      @stevenislas6459 Před rokem +3

      🫂🫂❤️🫂🫂

    • @mydogcausewhynot7753
      @mydogcausewhynot7753 Před rokem +2

      This describes me well. A sad thing is, I remember something my step-dad said. He said, "Do you want some happy pills?" And my mother says,"My baby is always happy she dont need those." At that time, I was thinking, "I wish I was mom 😔."

    • @andy6201
      @andy6201 Před 3 měsíci

      Ong bruh. I listen to this virgin asmr cause ik i AM a virgin. Im never getting love, and i know i dont deserve love or anything, ever, so i just listen to this stuff to feel like i do deserve love

  • @leah2271
    @leah2271 Před rokem +18

    "You don't have to pretend with me"
    this place and you the only place I don't pretend to be someone else
    this channel the only place I feel like it's okey to have any kind of feeling and the only place I feel that my emotions is valid
    I'm so thankful for you Sarah 💛

  • @kayceekeith1997
    @kayceekeith1997 Před rokem +36

    I hate being depressed sometimes. You are a literal angel. :)

    • @stevenislas6459
      @stevenislas6459 Před rokem

      🫂❤️🫂🙏🤍🙏

    • @non-existant-being
      @non-existant-being Před 10 měsíci +1

      Well, no not to be that guy, but LITERAL angels are terrifying, I think you meant metaphorical.

    • @AzaleaZxZ
      @AzaleaZxZ Před 9 měsíci

      @@non-existant-beingshut the fuck up you are that guy that’s annoying asf

  • @silvergoldcopper9809
    @silvergoldcopper9809 Před rokem +24

    Sometimes I wonder if having someone like this in my life would make me want to stay or if not even that can fill the hole. As always, thank you for the audio, Sarah ❤️

  • @zach99999
    @zach99999 Před rokem +5

    This was really comforting. I tell everyone that I'm fine, even though I'm really not. And it was nice to hear someone tell me its ok to be not ok, even if its just a RP.

  • @Fungoid
    @Fungoid Před rokem +5

    To the person reading this: your feelings, your pain, your loneliness are valid and reasonable things for a human being to feel. The fact that you can't share your tragedy with a lot of people because they would judge you makes it more tragic, not less. You don't need to feel shame for the feelings you have, or the steps you take to deal with those feelings. You are not alone. We are not alone.

  • @neurowolf7594
    @neurowolf7594 Před rokem +4

    When home doesn't feel safe anymore.

  • @FlareToga76
    @FlareToga76 Před 10 měsíci +11

    i go to sleep at night fantasizing about someone holding me and telling me everything will be okay, even if its a total lie. i just need someone to be there for me and to hold me

    • @aalanisrios-rk3ul
      @aalanisrios-rk3ul Před 9 měsíci

      Same these videos are like my escape when I'm by myself they help me feel cared about and comforted with my mental health issues

  • @PinglyASMR
    @PinglyASMR Před rokem +3

    I know it's a little late but congratulations on 19k! I love this video, not often we get told it's okay to not be okay. Your voice is just incredible, thanks so much for posting!

  • @stevenislas6459
    @stevenislas6459 Před rokem +10

    I needed to hear this, my father has recently passed away due to cancer, I’ve been trying to bottle up my emotions and wipe out my tears. I’ve been loving and supporting people. I want people to feel loved, cared and appreciated. Thank you… thank you for everything. I’m sorry if this is too much and sad. Time to be the happy Steven. Hope you all have a wonderful day. Remember that you’re all loved, cared and appreciated. 🙏🤍🙏❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂🫂

    • @mrcwillis6970
      @mrcwillis6970 Před rokem +1

      Sorry to hear that. May your father RIP.

    • @stevenislas6459
      @stevenislas6459 Před rokem

      @@mrcwillis6970 thank you Mr c… 🫂❤️

    • @wxttsxnx
      @wxttsxnx Před rokem +1

      im sorry to hear that man. may he rest in peace.

    • @stevenislas6459
      @stevenislas6459 Před rokem

      @@wxttsxnx god bless you sir, thank you… 🫂❤️

    • @corru-kun7865
      @corru-kun7865 Před rokem +1

      I'm sorry to hear that, I'm sure it can't be easy. May he rest in peace and please take care of yourself

  • @kristen678
    @kristen678 Před rokem +7

    Yes it's sleepy time for me 💜
    Thank you 🫂

  • @aryamanbhadauria1584
    @aryamanbhadauria1584 Před rokem +3

    100 reasons to keep living
    1. to make your parents proud
    2. to conquer your fears
    3. to see your family again
    4. to see your favorite artist live
    5. to listen to music again
    6. to experience a new culture
    7. to make new friends
    8. to inspire
    9. to have your own children
    10. to adopt your own pet
    11. to make yourself proud
    12. to meet your idols
    13. to laugh until you cry
    14. to feel tears of happiness
    15. to eat your favorite food
    16. to see your siblings grow
    17. to pass school
    18. to get a tattoo
    19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
    20. to meet your internet friends
    21. to find someone who loves you as you deserve
    22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
    23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
    24. to see untouched snow in the morning
    25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
    26. to see stars light up the sky
    27. to read a book that changes your life
    28. to see the flowers in the spring
    29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
    30. to travel abroad
    31. to learn a new language
    32. to learn to draw
    33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
    34. Puppy kisses.
    35. Baby kisses (the open-mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek)
    36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
    37. Trampolines.
    38. Ice cream.
    39. Stargazing.
    40. Cloud watching.
    41. Taking a shower and then sleeping on clean sheets.
    42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
    43. “I saw this and thought of you."
    44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
    45. The relief you feel after crying.
    46. Sunshine.
    47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
    48. Your future wedding.
    49. Your favorite candy bar.
    50. New clothes.
    51. Witty puns.
    52. Really good bread.
    53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
    54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
    55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
    56. The smell before and after it rains.
    57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
    58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
    59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
    60. Trying out new recipes.
    61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
    62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
    63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
    64. Breakfast in bed.
    65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theatre.
    66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
    67. a feeling of being loved
    68. Forgiveness.
    69. Water balloon fights.
    70. New books by your favorite authors.
    71. Fireflies.
    72. Birthdays.
    73. Realising that someone loves you.
    74. Spending the day with someone you love.
    75. Spending the whole day in bed.
    76. Eating a whole pint of your favorite ice cream.
    77. Floating in water on your back and just staring up at the sky.
    78. First dates (even the bad ones make for funny stories.)
    79. Bonfires and smokes.
    80. Relationships where you love someone but aren’t in love with them.
    81. Coming home to someone you love.
    82. The color of autumn leaves when they change. Summer.
    83. Sing songs at the top of your lungs with your friends.
    84. Cuddling.
    85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
    86. Someone’s skin against yours.
    87. Holding hands.
    88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
    89. Singing off key with your best friends.
    90. Road trips.
    91. Spontaneous adventures.
    92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
    93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
    94. Thunderstorms.
    95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
    96. The taste of your favorite food.
    97. The child-like feeling you get on New-Year Morning.
    98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
    99. Compliments and praise.
    100. to look at this moment in 10 years' time and realize you did it.
    PS: there are so many beautiful things to live. so live, and live, and live
    In my opinion I think the cure of loneliness mental health disorders is to find spirituality within yourself, and faith in God to help you during dark times. Advice I can give is don't go a day without a prayer or meditation to remind yourself to keep hope in life and that as long as god is with you, you're never truly alone. Also stand back and take time for seeing a view of natural sites like the forest or stars to remind you that if any negative thoughts arrive, take a look at the beautiful planet you would be leaving ❤❤

    • @non-existant-being
      @non-existant-being Před 10 měsíci

      "It may not be stylish, but live."

    • @Ucps_
      @Ucps_ Před měsícem

      I'm never gonna experience any of this

  • @XTh3R3per
    @XTh3R3per Před 5 měsíci +1

    honestly the amount of pretending I have to do daily in front of everyone is getting to me

  • @aalanisrios-rk3ul
    @aalanisrios-rk3ul Před 9 měsíci

    Videos like these help so much depression and anxiety get to me so much as well im a very busy person and i dont have the best relationships with the people in my life so listening to these types of videos help so much

  • @zaprising2844
    @zaprising2844 Před rokem +1

    girl this hit too close to home tysm for this im crying so hard 😭😭😭

  • @Paper_Spartan
    @Paper_Spartan Před rokem +1

    Amazing work! You are a genuine blessing for a lot of people. The passion behind your work makes it like no other! Thank you for the warm fuzzy feels and cozy snoozes.

  • @femaleshapeshifter5678
    @femaleshapeshifter5678 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hugs and comforts those who are lonely ❤. You will all find someone who will accept who you are someday, make sure that your taking good care of yourself so that way you would feel better when finding jobs, form relationships or friends.
    @YourgirlfriendASMR, thank you for helping many people fall sleep, feel loved and being understanding and sweet.

  • @coolkid558_
    @coolkid558_ Před rokem +1

    This was so sweet and calming. You have an amazing voice. Excellent work❤

  • @tommyyang9454
    @tommyyang9454 Před rokem +6

    I wish I have someone like you to tell me these sweet things face to face than you for the audio 💕❤

  • @quantum_spectra
    @quantum_spectra Před rokem

    You really most of the favourite rp asmrtist i hear to, i love your voice, your vibe, your sweet and comfy nature 😢

  • @Hazbin_Hotel_Quotes
    @Hazbin_Hotel_Quotes Před 2 měsíci +3

    This is the lowest I've felt in 5 years

  • @rosashadow2119
    @rosashadow2119 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for this audio. Today was just not a good day for me and this helped me so much. I'm grateful to have found your video when I did.

  • @aralcasmr4053
    @aralcasmr4053 Před rokem +2

    I wish someone loved me like you did in 14 min

  • @Puffy_jpg
    @Puffy_jpg Před 4 měsíci

    The fact that an asmr audio is better able to comfort and understand my struggles compared to my actual parents hurts. Not in a positive way-

  • @Toastie875
    @Toastie875 Před 5 měsíci

    This audio got me a lil choked up

  • @Casvondrak
    @Casvondrak Před 6 měsíci

    I haven't been fine for a while. I close myself off and avoid showing people that I've been broken for a while. This was hard to listen to... but it was worth it. 😭

  • @Lt_Koro
    @Lt_Koro Před 4 měsíci

    one moment I'll be listening to something like this and the next I'll listen to some music to pretend to myself that I'm ok.

  • @vernaobsioma9204
    @vernaobsioma9204 Před rokem +2

    ohh to be loved:(

  • @bingusreal
    @bingusreal Před rokem +2

    Thank you for helping us ❤

  • @romaramirez5578
    @romaramirez5578 Před rokem

    It's always "one of those days" but thanks for the comfort 😊

  • @aupricx
    @aupricx Před rokem +1

    perfect timing

  • @maro2402
    @maro2402 Před rokem

    Thank You for the audio from the bottom of my heart ❤

  • @Skellefte_
    @Skellefte_ Před rokem +1

    Bra video och grattis till 19000 prenumeranter!

  • @chrisholland2016
    @chrisholland2016 Před rokem +1

    This is definitely my safe zone for my aching emotional wound. A girlfriend protecting me to where I can be under her arms as long as needed and stay there. She should still make these more often. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🛏🛏🛏🛏🛏🌡🌡🌡🌡🌡

  • @BurgerMuncher6969
    @BurgerMuncher6969 Před 4 měsíci

    I know I fuck my self up when I’m crying to this but telling my self is this real chat just so I can try to keep a smile

  • @deadboiadam6033
    @deadboiadam6033 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Just punch something it works for me. Just don't do it on living breathing creature.
    Maybe on a wall, a punching bag, the water, something soft or really fragile.
    Or just talk to someone about it. Find a friend/girlfriend/boyfriend and just tell them everything. It works believe me.
    I've seen someone who's a family member try to commit suicide Infront of me.
    It's not nice. Maybe try to be nice to others. But start to be nice to yourself. Yes it's alright to be angry and sad. Just don't suicide. And if you're American please don't homicide.

    • @deadboiadam6033
      @deadboiadam6033 Před 9 měsíci

      Speaking from experience because I "accidentally" kicked a tree and my right foot is Hurt for almost a month

  • @soaringsquid0.129
    @soaringsquid0.129 Před 6 měsíci

    I've been waiting for this moment

  • @Taythedreamer
    @Taythedreamer Před rokem

    Thank you for audio you truly a amazings ❤🥺

  • @rhiannonalello3420
    @rhiannonalello3420 Před 10 měsíci

    It hurts really bad

  • @isaachui5945
    @isaachui5945 Před rokem +1

    We love you Sarah(@YourgirlfriendASMR)❤️🥰

  • @Game_Over64
    @Game_Over64 Před rokem +2

    Thank you. This was so nice, but i just can't keep doing this.. FUCK. I'm so tired

  • @LoudGamer7
    @LoudGamer7 Před rokem +1

    I love your voice ❤

  • @seattleseahawksnewshq2295
    @seattleseahawksnewshq2295 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you Sarah.

  • @Taythedreamer
    @Taythedreamer Před rokem +2

    I been ummm having hard getting out of bed i hate being alone with my thoughts at night it's so hard trying to be ok trying not to breakdrown in front of the people you love i sometimes dont what goibg any where 🥺😭💔

    • @Lesha27
      @Lesha27 Před rokem

      You are not alone 🥺 wish you the best, ❤.

    • @Taythedreamer
      @Taythedreamer Před rokem

      @@Lesha27 thank you i wish the best too 💓

  • @GravityAqua
    @GravityAqua Před rokem +1

    Bruh my life has hit rock bottom

  • @agentsmith6204
    @agentsmith6204 Před rokem +1

    Kinda hard not to pretend when you’ve been programmed to

  • @rhiannonalello3420
    @rhiannonalello3420 Před 10 měsíci

    I feel depress when my father passed away last year he is 50 and I'm 21 years old.

  • @topfishing
    @topfishing Před 3 měsíci

    I do have to pretend, That is all I have known and will know.

  • @Melly_The1
    @Melly_The1 Před 7 měsíci

    i should write a fourth song about my lonesome

  • @slagarcrue85
    @slagarcrue85 Před 3 měsíci

    I love you Ellen. I love you too Rick.

  • @plate2105
    @plate2105 Před měsícem

    I don't want to kill myself anymore. I don't want to keep on living either

  • @amandagresham1298
    @amandagresham1298 Před rokem

    Your sooo sweet and amazing I loved this audio Sweetheart thank you I needed this today love you Sweetheart 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @relaxedsvn
    @relaxedsvn Před 11 měsíci

    i just wanna be happy bro

  • @tavocastanedas5744
    @tavocastanedas5744 Před 5 měsíci

    Llevo un rato que tengo que actuar como que estoy bien, es llegsr a mi casa y parecer un fantasma de lo que era... Estoy cansado...

  • @Taythedreamer
    @Taythedreamer Před rokem

    All i can do is cry 😭

  • @funnymemes2248
    @funnymemes2248 Před 5 měsíci

    I'm sooooo lonely 😭

  • @EmoryFree
    @EmoryFree Před měsícem

    I'm numb, no matter the audio, or personal, I'm numb, I hate that I don't get it

  • @Crow_Bitch
    @Crow_Bitch Před rokem

    my friend is depressed idk what to do to help them they're in another country so I can't hug them and whenever I try to comfort them I just fail miserably
    I'm debating sending them something like this audio but I don't want to offend them
    I'm losing sleep worrying

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  Před rokem

      I think the one thing you can do is to stay in touch. Keep calling, texting etc just to talk and to mention that you're there to listen if they need you. I'm just saying this as someone who's been on the other side and for a long time a) didn't want to admit that I was depressed b) certainly didn't want to accept anyone helping. But one thing I really will never forget are the people who stuck by my through all that, who kept being there for me, just listened, gave me a hug when I needed it and didn't ever judge or push to hard.
      I know it is different when you can't vist them but just being there in the ways that you can is enough. And if you are, trust me, they will always remember and be thankful for it. But you can't put the expectation and pressure on yourself to fix the reason why they're depressed. They have to want to get help, to want to get better for themselves. You're doing exactly what you can do; being a good friend that cares. Try not to be too hard on yourself ( I know, easier said than done). ❤

    • @Crow_Bitch
      @Crow_Bitch Před rokem

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR thank you, your advice means a lot

  • @ghouishfouiyshf
    @ghouishfouiyshf Před rokem

    I want someone to care about me

  • @excilow
    @excilow Před 4 měsíci

    how did you know i was pretending in real life

  • @Brown_hoodie_boy
    @Brown_hoodie_boy Před 2 měsíci

    I’m a failure 🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️💯💯💯

  • @soma_448
    @soma_448 Před rokem

    🤍

  • @Emily_North
    @Emily_North Před rokem +11

    Comment For Engaygement 🏳️‍🌈