You NEED To Start Getting Ready Every Day 🙏🏼💜

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Komentáře • 141

  • @HelloKittyFreak96
    @HelloKittyFreak96 Před 3 lety +131

    My husband was walking around the house when I was watching this and I noticed him paying attention and nodding to himself 😂 this was a great video 💕

  • @baileym7105
    @baileym7105 Před 3 lety +107

    This needs to be more talked about more. Be your own number one fan, be your own hype womens, we deserve to be the best versions of ourselves.

    • @Maria-006.
      @Maria-006. Před 3 lety +4

      🙏🙌🏼💕👏🏻👏🏻

  • @LilyKat
    @LilyKat Před 3 lety +25

    i started to get ready every day after my workouts and showering routine! it has changed my mood and confidence over time. i feel so cute yet so powerful! i tend to smile more and enjoy the day when i feel ready! my therapist also advise me to do something for myself every day and getting ready has truly changed my perspective of myself and what others thought of me. loveee ya stacey!! keep preaching!!

  • @Odalizheras
    @Odalizheras Před 3 lety +44

    “Dress for the occasion that is your BEAUTIFUL LIFE❤️” me encanto mujer Im writing this down on a paper and putting it on my night stand . Si me arreglo pero yo quiero y se que puedo darme más tiempo para eso. Gracias por hacer estos videos ! 🙏🏻💕

  • @Michelle-by9fp
    @Michelle-by9fp Před 3 lety +28

    I'm a mom of 3 and I needed this reminder! I am worth the time it takes to get myself put together. And for me that means workout clothes (because I do workout daily), doing something cute but practical on my hair, and some mascara. Also showering right after my shower so I don't stink the rest of the day. But it hit me hard when you said this is the day to wear your perfume or wear that outfit. Too often we wait for some special occasion, but you're right, today is a special occasion. 😃

  • @09lilybeth
    @09lilybeth Před 3 lety +7

    Mom of four ranging from 13yrs to 18 mos and as I approach my 30s I have started to work on my self care journey. Leaving the mom guilt behind

  • @tootsiemorales
    @tootsiemorales Před 3 lety +26

    Love this! 🙌🏼
    I have been working from home/in my room and I always have made it a thing that I have to get up, make my bed, brush my teeth, shower and change out of PJ’s even tho I’m going to be in my room all day. I do skip out on doing my make up but I do make sure to always at least get out of my PJ’s and out of bed since since it’s so easy to just stay in bed and work lol

  • @JoJo8310
    @JoJo8310 Před 3 lety +5

    Girl 2 yrs ago i was at my heaviest weight of almost hitting 400lbs. Last yr october i went through wls thinking it was going to make me feel better about myself. Today im now 278 and still dont feel good about myself. Since quarantine ive stopped getting myself ready. And went into a depression. And still have my moments. Its hard, i have no self esteem. I do my makeup get ready and i feel good, but once that comes off im like disgusted looking at myself. I stilll wear the clothes I use to when i was almost 400lbs. Ive gotten a few new outfits but nothing helps. But i know i have to start loving myself. Its a struggle. Right now watching your video made me cry. Lol. Thank you for putting this video out. I need to make time for me and get back to my workouts and staying on track so i dont gain that back. Today because of your video, im gonna get all dressed up and i will love myself. Thank you, Love you girl.

  • @claudiacalderon201
    @claudiacalderon201 Před 3 lety +8

    I haven't had the desire to get ready anymore... it's been a struggle. I'm so thankful that I came across your video. It's the message I needed 💕

  • @yosemitecala6214
    @yosemitecala6214 Před rokem +5

    I’m not a mom yet but I needed to hear this for many many years my dad taught me to put others first because that’s what he did and always complained he never got anything in return. Today I’m 26 years old and I can say parents let your kids live there life and walk next to them that goes to me I poured my entire 6 years into a man that in the last two I could say I completely lost myself when it comes to appearance I lost over currently 35 pounds and I’m happy but now I’m in the how to get up everyday and get ready. It’s hard because I was used to the mentality of putting others first but thank you mamacita for this.

  • @iCeleste7
    @iCeleste7 Před 3 lety +13

    This is so true. I feel like a good mom when I go out in public and I look gross but at least my daughter looks good.
    I shouldn’t feel guilty about getting ready…

  • @marlenealvarez888
    @marlenealvarez888 Před 3 lety +14

    I grew up in Mexico so getting ready to go grocery shopping is second nature lol

  • @sinthiahernandez3475
    @sinthiahernandez3475 Před 2 lety +3

    My 4 year old son encourages me to get ready! He always compliments me when I do 💙

  • @livepassionately247
    @livepassionately247 Před 3 lety +26

    You motivated me to dress cute this weekend for myself. Thank you, Stacey! ❤️❤️

  • @11212barbie
    @11212barbie Před 2 lety +3

    God used you to speak to me today. Theres a reason I found your chanel. Lord knows I needed to hear this.

  • @Reeshawd
    @Reeshawd Před 3 lety +3

    The list you showed in one of your videos in your notes is something I've been using ever since. And my mom really liked it too! It helps me to put myself first in the morning just to shower, get in real clothes, etc and my kids don't care, they wait until I'm ready! Which is not what I expected. Our family wants us to put ourselves first and make sure we look good so we feel good. My friends dad used to always say, "when you look good you feel good." And I've remembered that for the last 16 years lol

  • @NakaylaTHEPRINCESS46
    @NakaylaTHEPRINCESS46 Před 2 lety +4

    OMGOODNESS this helped so much!! I needed a pick me up. I’m not a mother but I haven’t been real motivated to dress up everyday of the week like I used to before the pandemic, I dress up 3 times out of the week and I want to get to a place where I dress up everyday and I am the person like you said I reserve fits, perfume and hairstyles for special occasions but what am I waiting for?!!!!!! Thank you girl!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @dkfjdhbfdj
    @dkfjdhbfdj Před 3 lety +31

    This top is gorgeous on you!

  • @creerias_
    @creerias_ Před 7 měsíci +1

    This video came on while i was getting ready today and inspired me to do some extra steps like perfume and mascara. It leveled up my look and vibe even though they’re such subtle things, thanks!

  • @lucy.arubio
    @lucy.arubio Před 3 lety +11

    This just popped off on my recommendation and girl let me just say I needed this!!!!😫 I used to always get ready and felt, looked confident but ever since I got pregnant (still preggos) and knowing that nothing fits me made me lose so much confidence in myself, I don’t feel like myself no more 😫 i just be looking fodonga now.. but after watching this video girl I’m so ready to get ready and feel pretty for myself Tysm and I just subscribed to your channel as well 🤍

  • @biancaramos757
    @biancaramos757 Před 3 lety +5

    My dad had so much stuff with tags and brand new shoes that he never got to wear 😢😭 this is such a great point!!

  • @Divdiv05
    @Divdiv05 Před 3 lety +5

    You’re literally so inspiring. I used to not wear my expensive perfumes that I love because I wait for “special occasions” but after I saw one of your previous videos where you said that everyone is worthy of wearing expensive perfume everyday, I literally think of that every day and now I’m going to do that with makeup too!

  • @carmensolorio9939
    @carmensolorio9939 Před 3 lety +11

    I ALWAYS GET SO MUCH MOTIVATION FROM YOU STACEY! I ALWAYS FEEL BETTER ABOUT MYSELF WHEN I WATCH YOUR INSPIRATIONAL VIDEOS. TE QUERO MUCHO 💖💜✨🙌🏼💐

  • @nathalyeramirez8510
    @nathalyeramirez8510 Před 3 lety +4

    Omg yes to the moms not getting ready .I used to get ready and go extra on my makeup and outfit but that all changed when I had my first baby’s 3 months ago,and don’t get ready at all. I really need to set aside time for myself because I’m 22 and I still want to get up and feel good about how I look but l feel drained or unmotivated. Thanks for this video Stacey ❤️

  • @LadieBjj
    @LadieBjj Před 2 měsíci +1

    I love classic dresses. It is so easy to put on and I look good while dressing simple with cute sandals.
    But I notice that some people get so negative about it.

  • @VyNguyen-ss3pc
    @VyNguyen-ss3pc Před 3 lety +35

    You are MORE than worthy of your own time, effort, and energy. Your exterior is the reflection of your interior. If you’re style is a bit more sporty with joggers and cropped hoodies, awesome! If you prefer dresses, awesome! As humans, the only thing we have to perceive others is appearance. Take the time to make your exterior reflect your interior because if you cant respect yourself, who will?

  • @jennievee3523
    @jennievee3523 Před 3 lety +2

    You have made me ugly cry. I needed to hear this. Thank you for this beautiful lady. 💞💓💗💖

  • @tellmedelmy
    @tellmedelmy Před rokem +1

    I listened to this while putting on some makeup that I had been "saving" for a "good day" when in reality there is no better day than today

  • @sarahortez1191
    @sarahortez1191 Před 3 lety +7

    That’s true we’re overly tired & whenever I try to do my makeup my toddler is crying & screaming for me 😂

  • @vaivesperi
    @vaivesperi Před rokem +1

    gonna start listening to this every morning as soon as my alarm goes off

  • @karensorbit
    @karensorbit Před 3 lety +5

    Ok I keep seeing this topic everywhere...guess this is my sign to start getting ready every day! This isn't easy when you have children but it's time I start taking care of myself too! Thank you Stacey!!

  • @Disciplefer
    @Disciplefer Před 3 lety +3

    9:05 rlly got me. Thank you Stacey now I’m not gonna wait for that “special occasion” that I’ve been waiting for to get ready

  • @michiroman9711
    @michiroman9711 Před 3 lety +2

    Amen Stacey!! I believe in getting ready daily. I am a stay at home mom of two kids and if I didn’t get ready, I’d feel like crap daily.

  • @Ceee155
    @Ceee155 Před 3 lety +2

    The timing of this video 🤌🏼 the language🤌🏼 just what ineeded to hear. Gracias Stacey💜

  • @mariaflorido2042
    @mariaflorido2042 Před 3 lety +2

    I love to hear your talks. Peaceful, uplifting, & inspiring!

  • @nikkolefogg5552
    @nikkolefogg5552 Před 3 lety +2

    This spoke to my soul! You’re very talented in talking/reaching women! Thank you for this video.

  • @shaunabee
    @shaunabee Před 5 měsíci +1

    This popped up at the perfect time, Thank you! 🙏🏾 ❤

  • @ingridmazariegos9432
    @ingridmazariegos9432 Před 3 lety +9

    The first 3 minutes made me cry so hard. That’s exactly how I feel. I use to take care of myself before having my daughter and now I feel guilty of even brushing my hair. It’s not my husband or kid, I think it’s the dam society I grew in making me feel bad. What’s sad is that my mom is in great shape and takes care of herself... I just can’t seem to do the same. Btw her family is low key haters and judgmental.

    • @dianaestrada8711
      @dianaestrada8711 Před 3 lety +2

      Omg true! My mom is my biggest hype man but society! Also my mother in law judges me for taking care of myself and even getting my nails done!

    • @ingridmazariegos9432
      @ingridmazariegos9432 Před 3 lety

      @@dianaestrada8711 man that’s so sad. Especially when family end up throwing their 2 cents for nothing that’s needed

    • @walqqr1
      @walqqr1 Před 6 měsíci

      Realize that taking care of yourself sets a good example for your kid, so it's a very good thing. And stay away from the toxic side of the family!

    • @walqqr1
      @walqqr1 Před 6 měsíci

      ​​@@dianaestrada8711 your husband should step in and defend you and set boundaries with his mom. If he chose you to be his wife, he has the duty to cherish you and not let his mom make you feel bad. Talk to him about it.
      As for you mother in law, the next time she whines about you taking care of yourself, tell her: "your son likes it".

  • @veronicarenteria750
    @veronicarenteria750 Před 3 lety +2

    Very true Stacy...coming from a Mexican family the famous saying aste una manita de gato always heard that from aunts and mom and why not thanks amiga!!!😊

  • @damn1586
    @damn1586 Před rokem +2

    I cried 😢I use to get ready everyday but feeling like a stick I sweats and sweatshirt without make i lost myself I hear this loud going to put a wig back on and my makeup

  • @dianaestrada8711
    @dianaestrada8711 Před 3 lety +2

    This made me cry Stacey thank you for taking the time to make us stronger women 😭 I’m going to challenge myself this week to get ready!

  • @rubyvlogs3640
    @rubyvlogs3640 Před 3 lety +7

    As a busy business owner, I find myself in leggings and cute crew necks all the time because I’m always on the go, I’m not a dress/girly type of woman, I don’t think one needs to wear makeup to look “ready” or heels, to each their own, but I’m thankful for my skin and I honestly feel so pretty without makeup, I just curl my lashes and a nice lip balm, and sprits my fave perfume and go about my day feeling great, self care is so important and it also comes in all shapes and forms, we got to find what feels good for us - and you’re so right, life is short, go get ready what ever that means to you ❤️

    • @dianaestrada8711
      @dianaestrada8711 Před 3 lety +1

      She did say everyone has a different definition of what arreglándote means. I think what you do is perfect! I think she’s talking to people like me I feel my best with makeup so I should be doing it but since you feel great without it that’s good too just to get ready ❤️🥰

  • @biancaramos757
    @biancaramos757 Před 3 lety +3

    "If they smell like fritos" deadddd 🤣🤣

  • @greciacabrera732
    @greciacabrera732 Před 3 lety +3

    Omg I love how much love u put on all your videos and how it inspires us 😍😍

  • @tamijo
    @tamijo Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thankyou, I needed this ❤️

  • @irisroque4491
    @irisroque4491 Před 3 lety +2

    Love this message made me cry 🥺💕

  • @Redthescientist901
    @Redthescientist901 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow! What I needed to hear! Thank you for your motivation💕

  • @nadinecastro3219
    @nadinecastro3219 Před 3 lety +2

    Great video Stacy! Great message and love the honesty. Keep spreading these messages !

  • @esparzaevelyn
    @esparzaevelyn Před 3 lety +2

    This is what I needed 🥺💕
    Gracias ✨

  • @mellier523
    @mellier523 Před 3 lety +1

    Such a wonderful message!

  • @vivian318
    @vivian318 Před 2 lety

    I’m a mom of 3 boys and I’m barely starting to fix myself everyday. Definitely felt that comment on feeling guilty! Its hard but it’s a process to get to that point where it’s no longer feeling guilty

  • @messianichebrewshawnkawcak1550

    If I had a wife I would really appreciate her wearing long dresses and skirts as a lifestyle, a reminder of how special she is. I don’t care about makeup or jewelry, just her feminine presence.

  • @beyoutifullynatural9451

    7 months later, I’m happy I found this video. Thank you. I needed to hear this!

  • @wabi_sabi52
    @wabi_sabi52 Před 3 měsíci

    This is important content and I appreciate the message

  • @annettedoodles
    @annettedoodles Před 3 lety +2

    i absolutely love this and I need to get that book asap. Thank you Stacey, you are always on point. It's like you knew I was feeling down on youtube with my messy bun and fast food.

  • @ginyu2969
    @ginyu2969 Před 2 lety

    I needed this

  • @Maria-006.
    @Maria-006. Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you So much for this video Stacey 🙏🏻💕

  • @curvyblue2843
    @curvyblue2843 Před 2 lety

    I don't take care of myself because I'm tired but this video is inspiring to try so thank you. 🥰

  • @foxxycici123
    @foxxycici123 Před 3 lety +1

    💜 Love this message. Thank you 💜

  • @andreamata3358
    @andreamata3358 Před 3 lety

    Dude, she straight blocked me a couple years back on Instagram and yet here I am still supporting her because I love her content! Wow, I sound obsessed 😂 but no in all honesty Stacey. You’ve helped out a lot. Thank you. 💕

  • @jeessicaluvzroy
    @jeessicaluvzroy Před 3 lety

    Yes as moms we always put ourselves last and we shouldn’t

  • @missjanellyg
    @missjanellyg Před 3 lety +1

    I needed to hear this!❤️ Thank you!👏🏼

  • @thisisnice95
    @thisisnice95 Před rokem

    What a great video, thank you so much.

  • @biancaramos757
    @biancaramos757 Před 3 lety

    Your eyebrows have been 🤌🏽 ::chefs kiss:: lately!! Your transformation has been so fun to watch 🥰

  • @reshnarevi2685
    @reshnarevi2685 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you

  • @looloo960
    @looloo960 Před 3 lety

    Im watching this first thing in the morning from Germany! Thank you I definitely needed this!❤️

  • @MarisonArcilla
    @MarisonArcilla Před 3 lety +1

    😭 so thankful for you!

  • @taisutherland6039
    @taisutherland6039 Před 7 měsíci

    I love fritos 😂 this video was good ❤

  • @claudiavargas5627
    @claudiavargas5627 Před 3 lety +1

    Tu blusa eata hermosa 😍 thank u Stacey I needed a reminder to take care of myself not just my family ❤💖

  • @lulum8101
    @lulum8101 Před 3 lety +30

    what if i work almost everyday and so on your day off, you do want to stay in bed in my pjs lol

    • @Steph44139
      @Steph44139 Před 3 lety +5

      True especially physically demanding jobs.

    • @Jay-sc5ci
      @Jay-sc5ci Před 3 lety +8

      If you want to stay in Pjs I would buy some cute silk ones or cute lingerie 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @abexe5009
      @abexe5009 Před 3 lety +3

      You can do that because probably when you go to work, you dress good, so you already gave yourself time to get put together.

    • @dianaestrada8711
      @dianaestrada8711 Před 3 lety +4

      Put on your cutest pjs and do some mask or self care 🥰

  • @jesspixiedust
    @jesspixiedust Před 3 lety

    i have been feeling this & this in my confirmation to take action. 👏🏼

  • @femininityfaith7920
    @femininityfaith7920 Před rokem

    LOVE THIS SO MUCH!! ♥️🙏

  • @starsanchez7078
    @starsanchez7078 Před 3 lety

    Ever since I saw you post I have bought the book myself and I’ve been loving it! 🤍

  • @brijacobs8747
    @brijacobs8747 Před 2 lety

    You’re literally amazing

  • @myyoutubeaccount12111
    @myyoutubeaccount12111 Před 2 lety +1

    To be honest, for me it's not about self esteem, it's just laziness 😅 - I enjoy pajamas, I feel like I deserve them, I wish it was socially acceptable to wear them everywhere. I think I will just invest in cute lounge wear

  • @olevuce98
    @olevuce98 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much! I needed this ❤

  • @elizabethayala5156
    @elizabethayala5156 Před 3 lety

    Stace! Thank you for your videos. You always inspire me to be more confident and most importantly love myself more. I see you like my big sister LOL (you and Amy) 💜💜💜 Que dios te bendiga a ti también 😊

  • @itslauren6587
    @itslauren6587 Před 2 lety

    I love this I needed this today 💛

  • @Jolly.Joy_Rose
    @Jolly.Joy_Rose Před 2 lety

    💛 Loved this so much!!

  • @raemarlow57
    @raemarlow57 Před 2 lety

    Such a great video!! 😊 Thank you ! I needed this.

  • @RosaG277
    @RosaG277 Před rokem +1

    Why did you stop making videos? Just found this channel and I love it. Unfortunately I will not be subscribing because there are no recent videos. Hopefully you start up again

  • @jenniferp8106
    @jenniferp8106 Před 3 lety

    I love this top! The color and style is sooo pretty!

  • @alyce-kayruckelshaus1224

    First time I've seen any of your videos. Loved this. Subscribed.

  • @GiaGDixon
    @GiaGDixon Před 3 lety

    You always have THE BEST book recs! Can you do a vid on feminine books?

  • @Megasuss
    @Megasuss Před 8 měsíci

    Dude this is me rn, I just had a baby this June and like I don’t have time for myself anymore 😞

  • @kelli7329
    @kelli7329 Před 2 lety +1

    To be honest I don't like to get ready everyday because I find recieving stares or unwanted comments and advances from men tiring, which I have to deal with when i put effort into my appearance and therefore look appealing. I prefer to wear hoodies and look as invisible as possible to avoid having recieving attention as I also have mild social anxiety so it's easier for me to complete errands, use public transport etc, when I look 'rough'

    • @kelli7329
      @kelli7329 Před 2 lety

      I live in a bad area aswell so when I am dressed up I feel afraid that someone may even try to follow me or something like that

  • @julissagarcia8065
    @julissagarcia8065 Před 3 lety +1

    Love your blouse 💜

  • @sf7339
    @sf7339 Před 3 lety

    Thank you ♥️♥️♥️

  • @makeupbyshelbidavis
    @makeupbyshelbidavis Před 2 lety

    1000% yes!!! spot on girl!!

  • @littlequeen22
    @littlequeen22 Před 3 hodinami

    It just takes me so long to

  • @k10h73
    @k10h73 Před 2 lety

    Cute intro 🥰

  • @lovelyramos9611
    @lovelyramos9611 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m so glad I clicked on this video as I’m getting ready... I was honestly just thinking of doing my make up and wearing baggy clothes... not no more I’m going to be a bad bitch today 💁🏻‍♀️

  • @almary4650
    @almary4650 Před 3 lety +2

    Hi Stacey, would you be open to making a video on plastic surgery or enhancements? Love your videos✨💐

    • @abexe5009
      @abexe5009 Před 3 lety

      She has done a video for every enhancement she has (on her main channel) and she speaks about why, and how she feels. (hope it helps)

  • @nobodyishere-kj7ni
    @nobodyishere-kj7ni Před 9 měsíci

    You should write a book

  • @ArminciaEdwards
    @ArminciaEdwards Před 3 lety

    I struggle with this a lot..thanks.

  • @Holly_Tovar_
    @Holly_Tovar_ Před 3 lety

    I love love love your videos ♥️

  • @sanchezlexy21_
    @sanchezlexy21_ Před rokem

    I never understood how to dress eloquent. Till now. I have a daughter and get on her about dressing cute. I as woman don't know how to dress "normal". People tell me I over do it if I dress up or get ready. If I don't dress up they tell me why don't you try. Help me!

  • @allygarcia8193
    @allygarcia8193 Před rokem

    I simply stop myself from getting ready because I think about doing my hair everyday and damaging it... or putting makeup on myself everyday and aging me.. That’s what I’m scared of lol 🤷🏻‍♀️ I have become those moms that I never wanted to be.. but now I get it.

  • @yessisantacruz9663
    @yessisantacruz9663 Před 3 lety +4

    “Smell like Fritos!” 🤔 🤢

  • @dianaahg
    @dianaahg Před 3 lety +1

    Hiiii, can you tell us where you got your top from? 😍