Communication aik skill set hai, ye seekha ja sakta hai. Introverted honay ka matlab ye nahi k khul k baat nahi karsaktay ya seekh nahi saktay. Introverts kam logon pe trust kartay hain. Invest in yourself dear you will really benefit from it.
@@bead_on_demand Text messages don't have a tone which is a disadvantage as you end up using only 7% of communication. Body language, tonality and nonverbal communication matter!
@@bead_on_demand Men aren't trained to express themselves. We all have needs, so of course they need love and deeper connection. And at the same time, someone who isn't aware will not know what they are doing or not doing. I wish people opt for premarital coaching more. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts here. There is no point in being in a relationship if one person is miserable. It is possible to work on self and start taking small actions to connect in healthy ways. What is your husbands love language? Are you using it? Have you conveyed what is your love language? If you dont know about the 5 love languages, please do check that podcast and take notes from it. I'm always open to helping couples who want to improve their relationship dear! You are welcome too.
@@bead_on_demand Having conversations, not so hard ones is a great start so start making time for each other. Avoidant behaviour will keep you together like two railroads never coming together. It's unhealthy. Relationships just survive, do not thrive with it. Convey your love language and confirm his love language without any delay. Smile more and decide do you want to be happy in this relationship or not... No one can push us to change, we evolve ourselves when we become aware 🌸
If a both are working,husbands has authority of both pays and wife always appreciates husband.buth husband always find His wife physically low (other people praises her ).he has been caught chating with random girls soemtimes,wife has trust issues and asked for password which he didnt give.now she has seen him with someone.should she continue her marriage with such a man who is deceiving again and again....or should get separated..have 2 kids.
Thank you for asking this. Its important to decide what you want. No one else is going through what you are going through. There are many factors involved. Trust needs to be built. Marriage is a commitment. If one partner is not ready to make that commitment long term then its easy to decide. If both are willing to work on the relationship then I assure you, the marriage thrives beautifully.
Hmm if she doesnt, should she expect her husband to share how much he earns? Saving to bank main paray paray devalue hojati hai especially ab k dor main unless ap mutual funds ya certificates main invest kartay hon. HUsband ko na batanay ka faida kya hai? please share
@DrSanaYasirChangingParadigms First, not all husband's share their finance with the wife. She should have savings for emergencies. My experience is not good.
I really appreciate your response to the comments because I didn't expect that. The benefit is knowing if something happens, she can survive she won'tbe begging for her family. She can help him, too.
Some husbands aren't mature enough or empathetic enough to let the wife spend her money according to her will. Most husbands in Pakistan are not trained to be a husband and doesn't know how to handle these matters. Usually males are dominant and snatch the wife's money and she's left with nothing but burnout. We do have good husbands but not majority @DrSanaYasirChangingParadigms
@@drtayabasarfraz808 unfortunately it has less to do with maturity and more to do with their insecurity around a womans financial freedom. It's a belief system and conditioning they grow up with. They are conditioned to be providers and breadwinners just like women are conditioned to be codependent.
No im not saying k wo sari kamai dede... please listen to the full podcast again. Bohat se husbands ki apni relationship with money achi nahi hoti ya unki income biwi se kam hoti hai, but they must support each other. Quran to bar bar joron yani couples ko aik team ban kar rehne ki naseehat karta hai, aur humare han baqi rishtedar zyada ehem hojatay hain. So I completely agree with what Islam says, but usko implement karna asal baat hai.
Desperately waiting for another podcast with dr.Yasir
Btw love your views and perspective 😊❤
Thanks for the lovely feedback buddy :)
Once again very helpful ma'am
Thank you so much, please share with others too
Thank you for coming up with this topic ❤
Thanks for the kind feedback 😊
Wait kerti ho ap ki video ka bhtt Kuch sekhny ko milta h❤
Thank you so much :)
Very productive and life improving podcast. Maam please tell us how to contact you for counselling if leaving outside pakistan ❤
I LOVE YOUR PODCAST WITH MAAM SANA.
Thank you dear please share with others
We are glad to know this ❤
❤ introvert wife effective communication kesy kary bat share kerny ka soch k bhe hard lagta h communicate kerna
Communication aik skill set hai, ye seekha ja sakta hai. Introverted honay ka matlab ye nahi k khul k baat nahi karsaktay ya seekh nahi saktay. Introverts kam logon pe trust kartay hain. Invest in yourself dear you will really benefit from it.
❤ ji samjh gae to skill samjh k communication sekhni hoge
Jazakallah
@@bead_on_demand Text messages don't have a tone which is a disadvantage as you end up using only 7% of communication. Body language, tonality and nonverbal communication matter!
@@bead_on_demand Men aren't trained to express themselves. We all have needs, so of course they need love and deeper connection. And at the same time, someone who isn't aware will not know what they are doing or not doing. I wish people opt for premarital coaching more. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts here. There is no point in being in a relationship if one person is miserable. It is possible to work on self and start taking small actions to connect in healthy ways. What is your husbands love language? Are you using it? Have you conveyed what is your love language? If you dont know about the 5 love languages, please do check that podcast and take notes from it. I'm always open to helping couples who want to improve their relationship dear! You are welcome too.
@@bead_on_demand Having conversations, not so hard ones is a great start so start making time for each other. Avoidant behaviour will keep you together like two railroads never coming together. It's unhealthy. Relationships just survive, do not thrive with it.
Convey your love language and confirm his love language without any delay.
Smile more and decide do you want to be happy in this relationship or not... No one can push us to change, we evolve ourselves when we become aware 🌸
If a both are working,husbands has authority of both pays and wife always appreciates husband.buth husband always find His wife physically low (other people praises her ).he has been caught chating with random girls soemtimes,wife has trust issues and asked for password which he didnt give.now she has seen him with someone.should she continue her marriage with such a man who is deceiving again and again....or should get separated..have 2 kids.
Thank you for asking this. Its important to decide what you want. No one else is going through what you are going through. There are many factors involved. Trust needs to be built. Marriage is a commitment. If one partner is not ready to make that commitment long term then its easy to decide. If both are willing to work on the relationship then I assure you, the marriage thrives beautifully.
If the wife works, she doesn't have to tell her husband how much saving she has
Hmm if she doesnt, should she expect her husband to share how much he earns? Saving to bank main paray paray devalue hojati hai especially ab k dor main unless ap mutual funds ya certificates main invest kartay hon. HUsband ko na batanay ka faida kya hai? please share
@DrSanaYasirChangingParadigms
First, not all husband's share their finance with the wife. She should have savings for emergencies. My experience is not good.
I really appreciate your response to the comments because I didn't expect that. The benefit is knowing if something happens, she can survive she won'tbe begging for her family. She can help him, too.
Some husbands aren't mature enough or empathetic enough to let the wife spend her money according to her will. Most husbands in Pakistan are not trained to be a husband and doesn't know how to handle these matters. Usually males are dominant and snatch the wife's money and she's left with nothing but burnout.
We do have good husbands but not majority @DrSanaYasirChangingParadigms
@@drtayabasarfraz808 unfortunately it has less to do with maturity and more to do with their insecurity around a womans financial freedom. It's a belief system and conditioning they grow up with.
They are conditioned to be providers and breadwinners just like women are conditioned to be codependent.
You are saying working wife give all her money to her husband. I think islam don't said
No im not saying k wo sari kamai dede... please listen to the full podcast again. Bohat se husbands ki apni relationship with money achi nahi hoti ya unki income biwi se kam hoti hai, but they must support each other. Quran to bar bar joron yani couples ko aik team ban kar rehne ki naseehat karta hai, aur humare han baqi rishtedar zyada ehem hojatay hain. So I completely agree with what Islam says, but usko implement karna asal baat hai.