Matt Licata, PhD: The Alchemy of Befriending Ourselves

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  • čas přidán 16. 12. 2020
  • Matt Licata, PhD, is a practicing psychotherapist and hosts in-person retreats. His work incorporates developmental, psychoanalytic, and depth psychologies, as well as contemplative, meditative, and mindfulness-based approaches for transformation and healing. He co-facilitates a monthly online membership community called Befriending Yourself, is author of The Path Is Everywhere, and is the creator of the blog A Healing Space. He lives in Boulder, Colorado. For more, visit mattlicataphd.com.
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Komentáře • 36

  • @Kay-rp1fz
    @Kay-rp1fz Před 3 lety +25

    what has helped me when I am suffering is to ask the question "who is feeling repelled?" "who is disliking this?" this always shocks me out of my aversion and creates a bigger space in which I meet and get to know the one who can't tolerate something

  • @Kahlil7886
    @Kahlil7886 Před 3 lety +18

    Absolutely OUTSTANDING moment in time ( and in my heart space) this has been. I thank the both of you for holding this space for us all, at this now. Here lately, I am following the breadcrumbs to my true nature, and this has been a biiiiiig bite! Thank you Tami Simon, and Thank you Matt Licata, PhD. Namaste and Blessed Be.

  • @encompasschange4700
    @encompasschange4700 Před 2 lety +3

    “Life will dissolve that fixity”
    It’s through the cracks the light gets in.

  • @gayleprinceau9268
    @gayleprinceau9268 Před 3 lety +10

    Your work is so incredibly helpful, Matt. Feeling a deep sense of befriending/understanding, can really open one to an intensely patient path of self healing. Thank You!

  • @Robert_Lindsay
    @Robert_Lindsay Před 2 lety +3

    19:52 Tami asks a fantastic, down to earth question here to get an example of Matt's face to face approach when dealing with a lay person and their need for healing.

  • @awyattmom
    @awyattmom Před 3 lety +7

    So thankful I found you this morning!

  • @jokedesimpelaere179
    @jokedesimpelaere179 Před 16 dny

    Beautiful, thank you ❣🙏

  • @cherylwilsherlimberlife7210

    I love your voice Tami, helps my nervous system!

  • @shellyconley8638
    @shellyconley8638 Před 3 lety +2

    The term alchemy, brings me to ancient scripture of purification and going through fire and water, that seems to reinforce how necessary being fully in the state of experiencing our fears, sadness, grief to heal. For example: "Numbers 31:23 everything that can withstand the fire--must be put through the fire, and it will be clean. But it must still be purified with the water of purification. And everything that cannot withstand the fire must pass through the water.". You mention Buddhism in this interview, and I imagine similar scripture can be found in Confucius Analects too. Blessings and Peace, thank you for sharing.

  • @ericafrances7110
    @ericafrances7110 Před 3 lety +2

    I so much appreciate Matt Licata and his work. Thank you!

  • @MSYNGWIE12
    @MSYNGWIE12 Před 2 lety +2

    If you can't be your own best friend how can you expect others to give you the acceptance and answers and friendship and love. May sound like a cliche, I fight against myself still, running around like "chicken little", my sky instead of being wild and full of endless possibilities is being held up with both hands- falling on me - I can't communicate even through metaphor how I feel. What is comforting is that many people esp during covid have felt a disconnect from self, society and nature. We talk of globalization but where we need to start is the geography of "me", without being narcissistic- did I convey my isolation and my depression and connect at all-? Sounds True is a great channel, publishing house and of course, Lion's Roar magazine- Namaste

  • @josephgagliano6145
    @josephgagliano6145 Před 2 lety +4

    A worthy listen and in tune with the embodiment of life’s traumas. I bought the book.

  • @patriciajessop2248
    @patriciajessop2248 Před rokem

    WOW..!! Thank you Matt and Tammy for a very insightful conversation about how to connect with our deeper selves.. I honestly feel transformed and more important, inner love is opening up effortlessly too. NAMASTE..!!

  • @OwningAuthenticity
    @OwningAuthenticity Před 2 lety +2

    This was extremely abundant to receive 🙏🧡 thank you both for your work!

  • @claudialarsson7439
    @claudialarsson7439 Před 3 lety +3

    Wow! This is the type of therapy I need 🙏🏽💙

  • @janineclancy4697
    @janineclancy4697 Před 2 lety +2

    Alchemy as a third force

  • @jennysteves7226
    @jennysteves7226 Před 3 lety

    Love this. Thank you. The next step beyond alchemy .. go there

  • @kimberlythompson8273
    @kimberlythompson8273 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for sharing your soulfood.

  • @adriaanvanstolk9935
    @adriaanvanstolk9935 Před 2 lety

    Incredible discussion! How relatable!

  • @noraa6750
    @noraa6750 Před 2 lety

    Thankyou

  • @ElisPalmer
    @ElisPalmer Před 2 lety

    Thanks~🌟

  • @Kay-rp1fz
    @Kay-rp1fz Před 3 lety +3

    wow, such helpful insights to unpack very real experiences that I have had, thank you for this!

  • @BcClarity
    @BcClarity Před 2 lety

    I ordered the book. It will arrive Memorial Day

  • @martaska1436
    @martaska1436 Před 3 lety

    Amazing interview (the title doesn't do it justice!)

  • @Eeeeeeelllll
    @Eeeeeeelllll Před 2 lety +1

    Everything he is saying is completely applicable to the IFS model

  • @argentina353
    @argentina353 Před rokem

    ¿Alguien sabe si existe algo de Matt Licata en español? Por favor.

  • @tabathacole
    @tabathacole Před 2 lety

    🦋

  • @KJSullivan4601
    @KJSullivan4601 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this. I'm thinking as listening the process almost feels comparable to allowing yourself to observe the objects in the river that impede the flow and that by lifting those out and de-objectifying seeing them as facets of self they soften and open transmute into beauty....

  • @ToddSloanIAAN
    @ToddSloanIAAN Před rokem

    43:59 PHD inquire to what balance holds.

  • @jgarciajr82
    @jgarciajr82 Před 2 lety +2

    Cognitive scientists are coming up with the word transjective. In a relationship things are transjective not objective or subjective.

  • @larsstougaard7097
    @larsstougaard7097 Před 3 lety +1

    😊🙏♥️🌏🌻🌟

  • @dariamancini963
    @dariamancini963 Před 2 lety

    Did he say weenis?

  • @jgarciajr82
    @jgarciajr82 Před 2 lety

    The third thing he's talking about is "the logos".