Pat Mackey: Living with a terminal cancer diagnosis

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  • čas přidán 11. 02. 2014
  • Pat (Patricia) Mackey was an inaugural member of North York General Hospital's Patient and Family Advisory Council. Following her cancer reoccurrence in the winter of 2013 and while receiving care at the Freeman Centre for the Advancement of Palliative Care, she generously shared her time, candid thoughts and observations, on video, of what it is like to live with a terminal cancer diagnosis.

    Pat's wish was that by sharing her experience, patients and families will know that "palliative care is about finding energy and joy in your day, not focusing on the illness."
    On February 24, 2014 Pat passed away surrounded by her family.

Komentáře • 395

  • @dondressel452
    @dondressel452 Před 3 lety +179

    I lost my wife to cancer in 89
    She was only 31
    Fast forward to 2020
    Now I’ve got 4th stage cancer
    Oh life can be hell sometimes
    Not to make this about me
    I can identify with what she’s going through
    My heart ❤️ goes out to her

    • @roseczy
      @roseczy Před 2 lety +8

      i hope you are doing okay

    • @LifeOfJimbo
      @LifeOfJimbo Před 2 lety +18

      @@faris9109 Just because you have Stage Four Cancer doesn't mean you're going to die. Stage Four has become hugely treatable in the last five years

    • @dulcehajjar5826
      @dulcehajjar5826 Před 2 lety +9

      My Heart Goes out
      To you Don Dressel !
      Prayers and Blessings
      Your way 🙌
      You are going to be Ok 🙋‍♀️🙏

    • @hayleydryden8358
      @hayleydryden8358 Před 2 lety +6

      @@LifeOfJimbo depends where and what cancer you are at with stage four...

    • @marlenelarose4470
      @marlenelarose4470 Před 2 lety +5

      Hi Don,U been going to a lot, but keep going, remember persistence pays.

  • @trishloiacono8524
    @trishloiacono8524 Před 5 lety +130

    I had 5 tumors from 2 and a half to 10 cm in my breast, 37 lythnodes positive, removal of both breast, have bad lythodema had chemo then radiation then more chemo took pills hormone tablets and will take them for the rest of my life but im still here 10 years later! So their is hope! Dont give up!

    • @icon.2158
      @icon.2158 Před 3 lety +4

      Tons of blessing to you!!!

    • @nancywalker-keay8361
      @nancywalker-keay8361 Před 3 lety +2

      1 year ago I was diagnosed of CANCER and I have tried all I can to get cured but all to no avail, until i saw a post in a health forum about a herbalist man who prepare herbal medication to cure all kind of diseases including CANCER , at first i doubted if it was real but decided to give it a try, when i contact this herbalist via his email and he prepared an CANCER herbal cure and sent it to me via UPS delivery company service,when i received this herbal cure, he gave me step by directions on how to apply it, when i applied it as instructed, i was totally cured of this deadly disease within 5 months of usage, I am now free from CANCER DISEASE ,all thanks to Dr Joshua Ighalo. you can also reach this great herbal doctor for help . He can help get rid of yours permanently.. Also specialize in treating all kinds of illness, HERPES VIRUS, HEPATITIS B, CANCER, BRAIN DISEASE, INFERTILITY, DIABETES AND MORE. ....

    • @nancywalker-keay8361
      @nancywalker-keay8361 Před 3 lety

      That's so sad to hear you are still suffering from this same disease. Am feeling for you right now I know of a doctor who can help you get rid of this. He also help me from this same disease, He can also help cure yours permanently

    • @nancywalker-keay8361
      @nancywalker-keay8361 Před 3 lety

      @Bernedette Kuteyi yeah thanks

    • @lisawines98
      @lisawines98 Před 3 lety +1

      @@nancywalker-keay8361 you are a horrible person to post this garbage on this video. My husband is terminal and one of his friends was terminal. His friend tried to cure his lung cancer with herbs and enemas. He died after suffering horribly. Go to hell for promoting a faster way to die.

  • @codykennedy5511
    @codykennedy5511 Před 8 lety +250

    i am 22 with severe heart troubles, and mu kidneys failed so i am also a dialysis patient. i worry about dying every day, im just afraid, but for now as long as i am alive i will love as much as i can. bless this woman.

    • @Wilsonsgirl2012
      @Wilsonsgirl2012 Před 6 lety +13

      Cody Kennedy I got a kidney transplant in Feb 18

    • @linanicolia1994
      @linanicolia1994 Před 5 lety +25

      Do not fear death ! According to all the research we have done with people who went to the other side and came back; it is fantastic. They describe a feeling of absolute love . Usually they are asked if they want to come back and most decide to do so, but somewhat reluctantly. We do not hear about the ones who decided to move on . Pretty sure, they are fine. Nature has a way to care for us and after all, our organic bodies will always fail but the energy that makes us what we are, is indestructible. Hope you can read this. If not, you are in a better place, for sure.

    • @nancywalker-keay8361
      @nancywalker-keay8361 Před 3 lety +3

      1 year ago I was diagnosed of CANCER and I have tried all I can to get cured but all to no avail, until i saw a post in a health forum about a herbalist man who prepare herbal medication to cure all kind of diseases including CANCER , at first i doubted if it was real but decided to give it a try, when i contact this herbalist via his email and he prepared an CANCER herbal cure and sent it to me via UPS delivery company service,when i received this herbal cure, he gave me step by directions on how to apply it, when i applied it as instructed, i was totally cured of this deadly disease within 5 months of usage, I am now free from CANCER DISEASE ,all thanks to Dr Joshua Ighalo. you can also reach this great herbal doctor for help . He can help get rid of yours permanently.. Also specialize in treating all kinds of illness, HERPES VIRUS, HEPATITIS B, CANCER, BRAIN DISEASE, INFERTILITY, DIABETES AND MORE. ....

    • @elizabeththornton2314
      @elizabeththornton2314 Před 3 lety +9

      May God be with you

    • @dianajames4717
      @dianajames4717 Před 3 lety +9

      hope you are okay

  • @Coopdizzle
    @Coopdizzle Před 8 lety +168

    Moved beyond words. I am 33 with terminal breast cancer. What a beautiful woman.

    • @bzylizzy
      @bzylizzy Před 8 lety +11

      +Coopdizzle Wow so sorry to hear that, very hard to have words when you read a sentence like that. The only thing I can say is what I truely believe is that we are all spiritual beings having a human experience, when our time on earth is up then we just go home, it's like our holiday is over but then we go to the comfort of our own bed,. wishing you so much luck and sending love.

    • @Coopdizzle
      @Coopdizzle Před 8 lety +26

      bzylizzy Thank you, just wish I could finish raising my babies. Still here though!!!

    • @bzylizzy
      @bzylizzy Před 8 lety +5

      +Coopdizzle still here and that is wonderful. Kia kaha (stay strong), not fair leaving babies I completely agree, but for the moment you are here and I am so glad I have had a connection with you all be it a small one x

    • @Coopdizzle
      @Coopdizzle Před 8 lety +12

      bzylizzy Every connection matters. Thank you for being kind

    • @desalineredux435
      @desalineredux435 Před 7 lety +9

      Coopdizzle I wish you all the best. Stay strong. Energy cannot be created nor destroyed, the journey continues.

  • @tamassinty
    @tamassinty Před 8 lety +53

    Words of Wisdom:
    " don't be a people pleaser. Do what you need to do for you self."

  • @jocelynRa1181
    @jocelynRa1181 Před 8 lety +112

    Thank you so brave. My husband has stage 4 pancreatic cancer he is 52 years old. We found out 4 months ago. It is so hard my world has changed. It is hard but I have to be strong for our teenage boys. I hate cancer a cure needs to be found.

    • @mrsprincenelson5756
      @mrsprincenelson5756 Před 5 lety +8

      My husband is 61 and has been diagnosed with liver cancer!
      We know it’s very bad, going to see a oncologist on Tuesday next week, this will be the make or break of how we move forward!
      We know it’s terminal but I pray I will have him for as long as I can as long as he isn’t in pain x

    • @mrsprincenelson5756
      @mrsprincenelson5756 Před 4 lety +15

      My story continues with 6 months home by and he has been on oral chemo and the cancer has halved in size in his liver!
      I pray for everyone going through this awful disease x

    • @caroltrudge1389
      @caroltrudge1389 Před 3 lety +3

      My brother too .... So so sorry xxxxxxxx

    • @mariaservin4864
      @mariaservin4864 Před 2 lety +2

      @@mrsprincenelson5756 any updates.. I hope everything is ok. My dad was diagnosed with stage 3B liver cancer this week.

    • @joylambert3118
      @joylambert3118 Před 2 lety +3

      @@mrsprincenelson5756 Blessings to you and husband.

  • @queenhoneybee.7772
    @queenhoneybee.7772 Před 9 lety +107

    What a wonderful lady! So strong, brave and inspiring... RIP Pat.

    • @robturner5746
      @robturner5746 Před 8 lety

      +Susan Evalyn. She doesn't want to spank you I DO!!!!

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  • @WENDICOOPER
    @WENDICOOPER Před rokem +27

    I love this. I'm going through end stage now. What a beautiful woman. Thank you for sharing your story, your journey, it helped me tremendously.

    • @evajuarez1558
      @evajuarez1558 Před rokem

      ❤god bless you ,I will pray for you I understand what are you going through my mom have ovarian cancer stage 3c 😢never give up 🆙 hod have you in control

  • @winkieblink7625
    @winkieblink7625 Před 2 lety +23

    My husband died of glioblastoma multiform in 2012. We still miss him every day. It never changes. We’ve move on, but yet we are stuck with a hole in our family forever.

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  • @carolinedyson2905
    @carolinedyson2905 Před rokem +5

    I am a nursing lecturer and I am devising a lecture on how to talk to people with a terminal diagnosis. This video has helped enormously. Thank you lovely lady.

  • @perezfecto
    @perezfecto Před 7 lety +90

    I think fear of death and cancer is deeply related to our notion of liberty. We want to believe we’re the owners of our life and being imposed a death sentence is almost unbearable. But on the other hand being told you’re going to die in 6 months or 2 weeks gives you a sense of power and wisdom that most people don’t and will never have: you know the whole story, from beginning to end. Some doctors die before their terminal patients do. I even saw this documentary where a 40 year old british lady was diagnosed with terminal cancer and she suddenly lost a friend to a car accident. That friend was not aware she had even less time left to live than her cancer-ill friend. So the moral is: we’re ALL going to die someday. It’s just some of us know exactly when it’s going to happen, so don’t be afraid: live your life to the fullest because no one knows who’s going to be here tomorrow or next week.

    • @HWolfe
      @HWolfe Před 6 lety +9

      Perfectly said.

    • @joylambert3118
      @joylambert3118 Před 2 lety +1

      The Lord is my Salvation. God sends
      Angels

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  • @lucianabrondino3666
    @lucianabrondino3666 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I was lucky to have met this wonderful woman just before her diagnosis. She was very strong and positive. I moved out to another country just after her surgery. I was wondering about her. I sent a messsage to her e-mail sometime ago but no answer. I was very sad to know she is not in this world anymore. Such a lovely lady which everyone can see in this video through her message and insights about passing. Hip Pat Mackey. You are certainly very much missed.

  • @louisekinross4347
    @louisekinross4347 Před 10 lety +56

    What a beautiful woman in every way!

  • @darlenehoward2340
    @darlenehoward2340 Před 3 lety +20

    Dear God, when she was talking about what her husband's life would be like once she's gone, & how widows/widowers have a "gaping hole of loneliness", I lost it. My husband of nearly 30 years passed away 5 weeks ago, & her words are the truest explanation of my life now. We weren't able to have children, so it's just me & our cat. He's great for cuddling, but not much for conversation. I live in pretty isolated rural area, so it's not easy finding ways to socialize if you don't go to church or the local bars. I never really understood loneliness until now. I'm in my mid-fifties... I can't fathom living another 20 years this way.

    • @ashaynadaniel231
      @ashaynadaniel231 Před 2 lety +2

      Be strong

    • @joylambert3118
      @joylambert3118 Před 2 lety +2

      You will find a way. Be strong and know that where there is a way .all things are possible, . Get out and about. People need people. Donate time ,. The Lord will always be here . Just call on him . our mnents and time on Earth . I love you my friend l

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  • @MultiFkUtube
    @MultiFkUtube Před 2 lety +34

    What a brave person. I admire her courage in facing this situation. Im 29 now and was diagnosed with leukemia three years ago. I was lucky that it was controllable with molecular targeted drugs. All I had to do was take pills every day and at one point I was even motivated/fit enough to do a triathlon. But nothing in this world goes smoothly. Sadly, this treatment was too strenuous for my body and last summer I unexpectedly came down with Pulmonary Hypertension and heart failure triggered by it. I was hospitalized for 1 month and fully recovered now (I think). They took my off the drug for a few months (my body felt so "light" without having to consume those chemicals) but the tumor marker started coming back up and now I am on a different pill, which has less side effects but belongs to an older and slightly less effective generation. Whats tough for me is that I initially had hope. I believed everything would be fine, that one day my life would go back to normal. But the reality that things may not go as planned started to sink in since the hospitalization incident and this has really bothered me the past months. The fact that my work life is competitive/stressful (I choose this job so shouldn't be complaining), that my current pills can be fatiguing at times, that I live alone and cannot discuss my worries with anyone including colleagues/friends (some people walk away when they find out about my condition, so I stopped talking about it with people), has also been picking away at my mental armor. I think the key is to make peace with what may potentially come and I can really tell that has helped Pat improve her QOL. Maybe its time to truly face my emotions and maybe that will change the course of my life, however long that may be.

    • @aimeemalino9697
      @aimeemalino9697 Před rokem +2

      How are you doing? Have you gotten any better?

    • @luvlabso130
      @luvlabso130 Před rokem

      Prayers up for you ❤️

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    • @ampiireshilar8339
      @ampiireshilar8339 Před rokem

      prayers and thoughts❤

  • @MegaCaprice123
    @MegaCaprice123 Před 6 lety +39

    What a wise but brave lady to make this video. Thank you on behalf of all those seeking comfort in their illness. I'm so sad she died. Rest in Peace, sweet lady.❤

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  • @wendybuers9954
    @wendybuers9954 Před 7 lety +28

    I am 52 and was diagnosed out of the gate stage four. Been one year I joined a dragon boat team and am going strong. Hopefully for awhile.

    • @jaimequintana4736
      @jaimequintana4736 Před 7 lety +2

      wendy buers Hopefully your doing well, we wish you the best!

    • @patriciabennett1819
      @patriciabennett1819 Před 5 lety +1

      Wendy stay strong even though it is challenging to say the least. My sister is still here even though she not only has the illness to which I say but has had a bypass and diabetes. I wish you the very best too and hope you are doing well. Much love to you.xxx

    • @linanicolia1994
      @linanicolia1994 Před 5 lety +1

      terrific !

    • @nancywalker-keay8361
      @nancywalker-keay8361 Před 3 lety

      1 year ago I was diagnosed of CANCER and I have tried all I can to get cured but all to no avail, until i saw a post in a health forum about a herbalist man who prepare herbal medication to cure all kind of diseases including CANCER , at first i doubted if it was real but decided to give it a try, when i contact this herbalist via his email and he prepared an CANCER herbal cure and sent it to me via UPS delivery company service,when i received this herbal cure, he gave me step by directions on how to apply it, when i applied it as instructed, i was totally cured of this deadly disease within 5 months of usage, I am now free from CANCER DISEASE ,all thanks to Dr Joshua Ighalo. you can also reach this great herbal doctor for help . He can help get rid of yours permanently.. Also specialize in treating all kinds of illness, HERPES VIRUS, HEPATITIS B, CANCER, BRAIN DISEASE, INFERTILITY, DIABETES AND MORE. ....

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  • @andreh.m.8762
    @andreh.m.8762 Před 10 lety +22

    Pat Mackey, thank you for your smile,generosity and amazing example.
    I feel happy because I met with a wonderful woman with the best example for every one.

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  • @deenski08
    @deenski08 Před 10 lety +37

    A beautiful person inside and out. It's remarkable that she spoke about feeling 'lucky' under these circumstances. Sincere condolences to the family.

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  • @trubrit5036
    @trubrit5036 Před 2 lety +6

    So beautiful! I hope her end was as peaceful as she wished, and that her husband and children find comfort as they remember her. I am surviving Stage IV CRC, and while I do not dwell on Cancer, it is always there, in my thoughts, in some form, every single day. I understand her every word, and live each day as best I can. Life is too short, no matter the age we pass.

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  • @rosemaryjenkins933
    @rosemaryjenkins933 Před 2 lety +10

    R.I.P, Pat. You were an inspiration . A beautiful caring soul. Rose from Australia.

  • @kitchenlady948
    @kitchenlady948 Před 6 lety +27

    She touched my heart rest peacefully beautiful woman..

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  • @mygaffer
    @mygaffer Před 4 lety +43

    You can tell how intelligent she is. Sadly she passed within a couple weeks of this video being uploaded.

    • @thomasjust2663
      @thomasjust2663 Před 2 lety

      Yet we as a society think spending on the military ($700 billions) is a priority over Cancer research ($6 Billion)

    • @Timbergal
      @Timbergal Před 2 lety

      😥

    • @Timbergal
      @Timbergal Před 2 lety +3

      @@thomasjust2663 trillions has been spent on Cancer R&A….WHY is there no better treatment, at the very least?

    • @thomasjust2663
      @thomasjust2663 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Timbergal It sure seems that way doesn't it!!, but we have gone a long way, a hundred years ago there was nothing, now, we have over 100 chemo regimes, radiation, improved survival rates, my family member died with prostate cancer, not because of cancer and lived up 95!! but we need more money for research, instead of building billion dollar planes or war ships we need to redirects those funds towards cancer research!!

    • @throughmyeyes9940
      @throughmyeyes9940 Před 2 lety

      @@Timbergal medical science has advanced greatly

  • @fatimabangura3659
    @fatimabangura3659 Před 6 lety +21

    Moved beyond words by the optimism and inspiration of this woman. I do not know what became of her but whatever you are, I wish you nothing but peace and happiness. Not only for you but your family

    • @ilovesammy3657
      @ilovesammy3657 Před 4 lety +6

      Sadly she died but not without a fight and lasting legacy. Too many are still dying from this horrific disease.

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  • @clairebeever3038
    @clairebeever3038 Před 9 měsíci +2

    What a beautiful women how positive and beautiful she is thank you for giving me strength as a cancer patient myself …. I just cannot believe how calm and lovely this women is ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sherryratliff5173
    @sherryratliff5173 Před 2 lety +7

    She is beautiful, inside an out. I feel her Peace as she speaks. She has inspired me, I'm terminal cancer,on Hospice. She has Blessed me so. Thank you

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  • @susanmorris6746
    @susanmorris6746 Před 2 lety +9

    This lady’s story has touch me I pray I will remember those words of wisdom she spoke when it’s my turn 🙏🏻💕

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  • @msuehale
    @msuehale Před rokem +1

    She was so brave to share her thoughts of living with terminal cancer and to let people understand to find joy in every day.

  • @caroljones4511
    @caroljones4511 Před 9 lety +18

    what a beautiful brave lady RIP

  • @IcecreamLeGenD
    @IcecreamLeGenD Před 7 lety +23

    May she rest in heaven, she seemed like a beautiful and strong person 🙏🏽

  • @richardnorman1158
    @richardnorman1158 Před 3 lety +4

    Aww god bless you
    We need a cure for cancer like yesterday all these poor people dying from this awful cancer and leaving loved each behind
    Rip darling you had so much courage x

    • @sandrawilde6088
      @sandrawilde6088 Před rokem

      Is anyone really, really trying to find a sure fire cure for cancer?? How long has this disease been around, and it is still isn't eradicated !

  • @dorishamilton1635
    @dorishamilton1635 Před 2 lety +16

    Such a courageous , beautiful woman… such grace….🙏🏽

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    • @dorishamilton30
      @dorishamilton30 Před rokem

      Respectfully my comment was such a while ago.. I don’t recall the initial story I responded to..

  • @angelareed9868
    @angelareed9868 Před 6 lety +15

    Oh my God, was in tears for this beautiful woman. Sleep in Peace and God Bless your family. And then I noticed Coop had watched, another beautiful soul gone too soon. x x x

    • @ethelmertz224
      @ethelmertz224 Před 6 lety +3

      Angela Reed Jenny gave me so much strength. Took away so much fear. My daughter got me a bracelet with the words "this too shall pass". When I started following Jenny I had a scare from a lung exam. I followed her whole journey. I miss her so much. She was so strong.

  • @PabloCastro
    @PabloCastro Před 10 lety +25

    Beautiful video and a wonderful woman. I am blessed to have been able to share some moments with her.

    • @micokoch
      @micokoch Před 10 lety

      Qué bonito, pero qué triste.

    • @marcolalama6729
      @marcolalama6729 Před 10 lety

      "...be yourself; don´t be a people pleaser. Do what you need to do for you." (9:20)

    • @patriciabennett1819
      @patriciabennett1819 Před 5 lety

      Pavlov those words are so beautifully expressed. Wishing you the best to as well as this wonderful lady whose words are so poignant.xx

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @susanarmstrong4295
    @susanarmstrong4295 Před 6 lety +6

    Great lady and knowing she was close by makes it harder to hear. but glad she did this for others

  • @rrsolo
    @rrsolo Před 8 lety +28

    i feel just about everything you do. i'm about your age, post chemo, metastic breast. will be in treatment til the end. makes life seem more precious. i love what you said about being in the process of living. living in the moment is a gift the cancer gave me. this is the best time of my life and i'm peaceful and happy. don't know where the disease will take me over time, but if i feel good today and am doing the things i choose to do, life is good.

    • @janellemurphy4510
      @janellemurphy4510 Před 7 lety

      ronnie solo walk with god

    • @allisongoodall2938
      @allisongoodall2938 Před 5 lety +2

      Love what you said that cancer made you appreciate life...that means something to me for reasons that are too lengthy to get into...I am completely alone in this life except for my cat ,Beanie. ..I am wondering if you are still with us...?

    • @gloriamaryhaywood2217
      @gloriamaryhaywood2217 Před 5 lety +2

      @@allisongoodall2938 It is truly heartbreaking to know that you are completely alone in this world, except for your cat. But so love how you loved what that other lady said about how cancer made her appreciate life. May I ask how old you are, and how it is that you are all alone? I, myself, have recently recovered from stage 3 triple negative breast cancer. But I lost my sister to cancer about 13 years ago. Here is hoping that you are doing well physically.

    • @allisongoodall2938
      @allisongoodall2938 Před 5 lety +3

      @@gloriamaryhaywood2217 Hi Gloria. ..just wanted to say thank you for your kindness in answering my text...I am 50 and alone...in answer to your question. ..I am alone bc I can't connect with ppl and I don't know why...how are you doing ?? Your email meant a lot to me...thank you...pulse write back if you have time...if not I understand and hope you are feeling well considering what you are going through...love from Allison

    • @My-Channel_forever
      @My-Channel_forever Před 2 lety +1

      @@allisongoodall2938 , how are you doing? I hope you are doing well and I hope Beanie is as well.

  • @pamelalagerquist1935
    @pamelalagerquist1935 Před 2 lety +1

    You are every strong. I have severe emphasema, I just WANT to live everyday to the most I can and I will meet the future with as much guts se I can.

  • @jodeming5088
    @jodeming5088 Před 5 lety +10

    What a beautiful woman. May God bless you & your family .

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @IceSkater8491
    @IceSkater8491 Před rokem +5

    Rest in heavenly peace, strong lady. I hope you found a beautiful other world waiting for you on the other side. Thank you for sharing your story. You can now rest easy. ♥️

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @catriona5268
    @catriona5268 Před 7 lety +10

    What a beautiful soul.

  • @singers1990
    @singers1990 Před rokem +2

    This lady has such dignity. Rest peacefully, Pat.

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @dinaalineese7283
    @dinaalineese7283 Před 5 lety +14

    To god we belong and to god we shall return

  • @annetteslife
    @annetteslife Před 2 lety +2

    Rest in peace sweet brave and strong family

  • @carlel4219
    @carlel4219 Před 3 lety +2

    I want to hug you. You are a very strong person despite this illness. .....

  • @nsmccoy2345
    @nsmccoy2345 Před 3 lety +1

    Such wise words!!!

  • @cloramurphy3838
    @cloramurphy3838 Před 6 lety +6

    I love this woman

  • @yeniseireynoso5557
    @yeniseireynoso5557 Před 6 lety +9

    Strong woman. I love her words.

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @mimad4923
    @mimad4923 Před rokem +1

    What a strong, classy lady! R.I.P ma'am ❤

  • @heliotrope3345
    @heliotrope3345 Před rokem +3

    I wonder if there's anyone out there who is going through what I am going through. My entire family abandoned and ghosted me after I became ill. And after years of me doing everything I could possibly do for them when I was able. I am so beyond devastated and no one seems to grasp how completely eviscerated I am. I haven't met anyone else this has happened to; I am completely disoriented all the time. I feel lost at sea or shipwrecked on a deserted island, that's the best way I can describe it.

    • @daisypashe8296
      @daisypashe8296 Před rokem

      Just read ur comment n wanted 2 know you are ok!!

    • @donnahatley1177
      @donnahatley1177 Před 9 měsíci

      My heart goes out to you ❤❤ . God bless ..

  • @sector3834
    @sector3834 Před 5 lety +3

    I wish the best for her bless you

  • @pattyrainwater1778
    @pattyrainwater1778 Před 2 lety

    What a Beautiful Lady…Bless You

  • @elainedreger4175
    @elainedreger4175 Před 2 lety +6

    What a wonderful and inspiring woman. Very brave and so matter of fact about the whole journey. I hope I be half as brave as she when my time comes.

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @lorij6796
    @lorij6796 Před 3 lety +4

    God bless the cancer warriors 🙏

  • @cloramurphy3838
    @cloramurphy3838 Před 6 lety +6

    Wonerful lady ......remarkable narrative

  • @northerngirl4924
    @northerngirl4924 Před 2 lety

    What a lovely woman.❤️

  • @trudyramgren8817
    @trudyramgren8817 Před 2 lety +4

    What a inspiring and lovely lady. RIP .....❤️

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @patriciacrocker6490
    @patriciacrocker6490 Před 10 lety +8

    thank you for sharing, this is an inspiration for all, pat crocker

  • @bobbarker7733
    @bobbarker7733 Před 9 lety +10

    Brave and wonderful woman!

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @lisalou382
    @lisalou382 Před 4 lety +4

    What an amazing & positive lady

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @maureenandrews4910
    @maureenandrews4910 Před rokem

    What a lovely lady with a beautiful family.

  • @teresarobins5955
    @teresarobins5955 Před 4 měsíci

    I have incurable leukemia among other things. The first time you’re told, it’s a real shock and the thought of missing the people and events around you are the hardest. I still have bouts of extreme sadness, but I get on with the time I have.

  • @veanwhitcher7867
    @veanwhitcher7867 Před 2 lety

    Brave, Intelligent woman, God bless her.

  • @hgroleau447
    @hgroleau447 Před 2 lety +1

    I love what she said, because u can fallow somebody in this situation Good bless her

  • @Anastashya
    @Anastashya Před 6 lety +9

    Such a beautiful inspirational woman 💝

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @jeanash9502
    @jeanash9502 Před 2 lety +1

    So uplifting gives me hope, good advice LIVE IN THE MOMENT

  • @babybaby5893
    @babybaby5893 Před rokem +1

    she is so gentle, so wise, I can’t stop listening to her.

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @deirdra169
    @deirdra169 Před 2 lety +2

    Prayers for you all .May God Bless and Protect you Always.Amen 🙏

  • @rosemariebenson3720
    @rosemariebenson3720 Před 2 lety +1

    Prayers and Hugs for you and your family

    • @drncubegmailcom-lj3dc
      @drncubegmailcom-lj3dc Před 2 lety

      Are you suffering from Cancer, HSV, Diabetes, mellitus disease? Dr Ncube has the cure for it Inbox for more information email drncube03@gmail.com....

  • @bigmamalaurie4320
    @bigmamalaurie4320 Před 4 lety +5

    Im def. Not afraud of dying, but i am still holding on for my children, and to be able to meet and see my grankids too

    • @Recite-GodHealMeCreateMiracle
      @Recite-GodHealMeCreateMiracle Před 3 lety +1

      Look for : Alimentation best to heal cancer and other disease - Sleep - Hygiene in habitation - and so on
      And look for : Psychological Conflicts - Psychological Fears - Psychological Problem : Speak a lot, speak about your problems, don't keep your emotions, speak about, free your body of your blocked-energy blocked-emotion, solve a lot of problems and son on. Look for the link between disease and psychological conflicts-fear-problems-hurts and so on.
      And look for : Energetic Healing, Tai Chi Qi-Gong and so on
      And so on
      Help-Relieve disease-cancer :
      maxime-sayd.e-monsite.com/pages/informations-ultra-importantes/aider-soulager-cancer-maladie.html
      For those who whants to recite this continuously :
      " I ask God to heal to clean to cure to purified to released to resolve and to transmute in pure light all my problems all my illnesses all my conflicts all my fears all my wounds and others things now on all plans now so be it "

      " I ask God to heal to clean to cure to purified to released to resolve and to transmute in pure light all theproblems the illnesses the conflicts the fears and others things in universe "

      " I ask God to heal to clean to cure to purified to released to resolve and to transmute in pure light all the problems the illnesses the conflicts the fears and others things of firstname+lastname+linkwiththepersonne "

      " I ask God to heal to clean to cure to purified to released to resolve and to transmute in pure light all the problems the illnesses the conflicts the fears and others things of human being "

      " Morrnahs Prayer :
      Divine creator, father, mother, son as one…If I, my family, relatives and ancestors have offended you, your family, relatives and ancestors in thoughts, words, deeds and actions from the beginning of our creation to the present, we ask your forgiveness…Let this cleanse, purify, release, cut all the negative memories, blocks, energies and vibrations, and transmute these unwanted energies into pure light….And it is done. "

      " Dear universe, the Super-subconscious and all those who care about me in spirit. Please locate the origin of my feelings and thoughts of [INSERT ISSUE] Take each and every level, layer, area and aspect of my being to this origin. Analyze it and resolve it perfectly with God’s truth. Come through all generations of time and eternity. Healing every incident and its appendages based on the origin. Please do it according to God’s will until I am at the present filled with light and truth. God’s peace and love, forgiveness of myself for my incorrect perceptions Forgiveness of every person, place, circumstance and event that has contributed to these feelings and thoughts. I am sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you "
      " ducielalaterre.org/advice-for-effective-positive-affirmations/en/ : (...) make the following affirmation seven or even twenty-one times:
      “I regenerate my cells constantly in Love and Light.”
      This affirmation formulated thus is “recorded” by the subconscious and acts upon the regeneration of the cells. It is not necessary to have health problems to formulate it. It will allow the cells to be constantly regenerated, which allows you to remain in good health or to improve it, and even to slow down aging. (...) "

    • @nancywalker-keay8361
      @nancywalker-keay8361 Před 3 lety

      1 year ago I was diagnosed of CANCER and I have tried all I can to get cured but all to no avail, until i saw a post in a health forum about a herbalist man who prepare herbal medication to cure all kind of diseases including CANCER , at first i doubted if it was real but decided to give it a try, when i contact this herbalist via his email and he prepared an CANCER herbal cure and sent it to me via UPS delivery company service,when i received this herbal cure, he gave me step by directions on how to apply it, when i applied it as instructed, i was totally cured of this deadly disease within 5 months of usage, I am now free from CANCER DISEASE ,all thanks to Dr Joshua Ighalo. you can also reach this great herbal doctor for help . He can help get rid of yours permanently.. Also specialize in treating all kinds of illness, HERPES VIRUS, HEPATITIS B, CANCER, BRAIN DISEASE, INFERTILITY, DIABETES AND MORE. ....

  • @Josiecat80
    @Josiecat80 Před 2 lety +2

    who is this woman?? this woman that is clearly a inspiration to all, very strong, positive finding the good in the bad and someone to definitely look up to in all aspects of our lives thank you and god bless you my dear...

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @mikearena9077
    @mikearena9077 Před rokem

    What a beautiful person

  • @pce12345
    @pce12345 Před 2 lety

    What a brave and lovely lady ❤️

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

      🥰Nice comment but i want to use this medium to thank Dr Alued, with his herbal medication i was cured completely and permanently From Cancer. God bless #DoctorAlued on CZcams visit his page for your order

  • @gloriah7146
    @gloriah7146 Před rokem +1

    What a beautiful soul!

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @walrusnom
    @walrusnom Před 3 lety +15

    I’m so grateful for this video and that she shared some of her time with all of us

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

      🥰hello, nice comment but i want to use this medium to thank Dr Alued, with his herbal medication i was cured completely and permanently. God bless #DoctorAlued on CZcams visit his page for your order

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @edwinhopkins0
    @edwinhopkins0 Před 4 lety +3

    Great attitude, been there

  • @kadella
    @kadella Před 2 lety +2

    God bless this amazing human being. What She said means a lot. Rest in peace, my friend.

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

      🥰Nice comment but i want to use this medium to thank Dr Alued, with his herbal medication i was cured completely and permanently From Cancer. God bless #DoctorAlued on CZcams visit his page for your order

  • @daniellemiller5194
    @daniellemiller5194 Před 3 lety +2

    Beautiful!

  • @TheWholeOfTerror
    @TheWholeOfTerror Před 2 lety +1

    Ow! Thanks a lot for this video and sharing. Ohhh thanks.

  • @dianebohn8423
    @dianebohn8423 Před 8 lety +6

    wow, wise woman, so hard, but she faced it with humor and I think that is important, because fear of death is only
    fear of the unknown, no one knows what it is like, pat took her cancer in stride and did not let cancer take her wow

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @VijayShenoy
    @VijayShenoy Před rokem

    Thank u so much for such a precious words.

  • @sunflowerz54
    @sunflowerz54 Před rokem

    Thank you for you knowledge and compassion

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @brendaweatherford4466
    @brendaweatherford4466 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you so very much, I appreciate your words for helping me! It’s a battle everyday, I have to cope emotionally.

  • @marypiver4040
    @marypiver4040 Před 2 lety +5

    I truly believe theirs a cure for cancer!!! Lost a sister and brother 💔. First sister to pancreatic cancer and my brother to leukemia in a year.
    Cancer is like a machine 🔫 gun, your just lucky if you don't get hit!!!

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @patpat-ov7sb
    @patpat-ov7sb Před 5 lety +4

    Beautiful lady ❤️

  • @KWizard__
    @KWizard__ Před rokem +2

    She passed away on my birthday. It was also the year my daughter was born. God bless her.
    She helped a lot of people.

    • @sterlingmatsui154
      @sterlingmatsui154 Před rokem +1

      Wow☆~The Cycle of Life Does Continue...Blessings to You & Your Daughter♡:)

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @niamhnolan5797
    @niamhnolan5797 Před 4 lety +2

    A great woman x

  • @jackie6742
    @jackie6742 Před rokem

    God blessed you.Amazing story

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @pelicannurse7397
    @pelicannurse7397 Před 2 lety +1

    RIP beautiful person

    • @drncubegmailcom-lj3dc
      @drncubegmailcom-lj3dc Před 2 lety

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  • @ronniemarcum8334
    @ronniemarcum8334 Před rokem

    God bless you it's people like you that are the real winners

  • @peterjackson1677
    @peterjackson1677 Před 3 lety +3

    God gives people like this beautiful lady to the world. So inspirational. REST IN PEACE beautiful soul.

  • @natashaclarke9709
    @natashaclarke9709 Před rokem

    What a beautiful soul 🤍

  • @catherinebianca8587
    @catherinebianca8587 Před rokem +1

    I'm writing this message with tears, because of my health condition, the doctor told me this morning that i will not survive my health condition due to my cancer diagnosing, so i have decided to offer my fund to the orphanage children, homeless less privilege there in your country to enable them to always pray for me even am if I'm know more alive as the doctor has told me that i can not survive my health condition your assistance is greatly needed

    • @mahstar3515
      @mahstar3515 Před rokem +1

      I have stage 3 cancer and I don't know what will happen, I am scared!

    • @catherinebianca8587
      @catherinebianca8587 Před rokem

      @@mahstar3515 thanks for your for compliments on my comments massage me on my address on my channel

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

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  • @kellyfarley9678
    @kellyfarley9678 Před 2 lety

    A sweet and strong woman

  • @vickylombardi7908
    @vickylombardi7908 Před 5 lety +9

    We’re all going to die.....Don’t immerse yourself in the illness.....birth is a mystery.....death is also a mystery.....we don’t know exactly how it will go.....you don’t really know what it is.....what’s important is knowing that everyone will be able to manage ‘it’ during and after.....sometimes I’ll be scared...sometimes not.....Aim for the highest quality of life.....Be yourself...Do what you need to do for you.....

  • @kandymane5457
    @kandymane5457 Před 2 lety +1

    Beautiful video and advice. I wish I was able to be this open within my family to talk with my Mom when she became under palliative care 💔

    • @jameswilliams3443
      @jameswilliams3443 Před rokem

      🥰Nice comment but i want to use this medium to thank Dr Alued, with his herbal medication i was cured completely and permanently From Cancer. God bless #DoctorAlued on CZcams visit his page for your order

  • @leenam5097
    @leenam5097 Před 9 měsíci

    Really touching but true as well...just focus on living in the moment with or Without Cancer

  • @redrickgrass
    @redrickgrass Před 5 lety +3

    I love you brother.

  • @miabutterfly2442
    @miabutterfly2442 Před 3 lety +3

    Rip Mrs. Pat 🙏🌷🌷

  • @alfonsomatias2491
    @alfonsomatias2491 Před 2 lety +2

    God bless you 🙏 🙏🙏

  • @sandradalton1611
    @sandradalton1611 Před 3 lety +20

    Nobody knows where we go after death. I hope all my pets are waiting for me.

    • @nancywalker-keay8361
      @nancywalker-keay8361 Před 3 lety +2

      1 year ago I was diagnosed of CANCER and I have tried all I can to get cured but all to no avail, until i saw a post in a health forum about a herbalist man who prepare herbal medication to cure all kind of diseases including CANCER , at first i doubted if it was real but decided to give it a try, when i contact this herbalist via his email and he prepared an CANCER herbal cure and sent it to me via UPS delivery company service,when i received this herbal cure, he gave me step by directions on how to apply it, when i applied it as instructed, i was totally cured of this deadly disease within 5 months of usage, I am now free from CANCER DISEASE ,all thanks to Dr Joshua Ighalo. you can also reach this great herbal doctor for help . He can help get rid of yours permanently.. Also specialize in treating all kinds of illness, HERPES VIRUS, HEPATITIS B, CANCER, BRAIN DISEASE, INFERTILITY, DIABETES AND MORE. ....

    • @pigjones2724
      @pigjones2724 Před 3 lety +3

      Heaven I hope an pray

    • @milcycat7285
      @milcycat7285 Před 2 lety +6

      I also want to see all my former pets someday.

    • @mariademers3111
      @mariademers3111 Před 2 lety +1

      So sweet. I hear you.

    • @carolhogg6516
      @carolhogg6516 Před 2 lety +1

      I have 10 precious fur babies over the rainbow bridge. I just want to be with them all, plus my mother and my beloved son, who died at age 22.