The aftermath of Paul's death [Part 1]

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  • čas přidán 25. 08. 2016
  • Ben is so evidently struggling to cope without the love of his life/soulmate there to support & guide him.
    The death of his beloved boyfriend Paul Coker, haunts him everyday. He's so lost and simply can't handle life at the moment.
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Komentáře • 213

  • @coombeslauren
    @coombeslauren Před 6 lety +346

    Such powerful acting from the actor playing Ben. I don't know if he ever received an award but he sure deserved one here.

    • @laurenfisher8332
      @laurenfisher8332 Před 4 lety +18

      Lauryn Kavanagh his names Harry Reid he’s a gorgeous lad ❤️

    • @PBL187
      @PBL187 Před 4 lety +15

      And the actress playing Pam, especially in the scenes where she was in denial about it being Paul

  • @katethawley2481
    @katethawley2481 Před 6 lety +171

    Powerful performance. They always kill off lush couples

  • @bendavies7162
    @bendavies7162 Před 6 lety +168

    Man, I really feel sorry for Ben. Him and Paul we're a good gay couple tbh

  • @radicaemard1292
    @radicaemard1292 Před 7 lety +354

    why did they have to kill off Paul? I loved Ben and Paul.

  • @angelxstrow5676
    @angelxstrow5676 Před 5 lety +17

    Started crying in the first minute. Loved these two so much.

  • @laurawiscombe4984
    @laurawiscombe4984 Před 6 lety +80

    Ik it's been over a year or so but the fist 1:00 gets me every time

  • @dramaqueen5748
    @dramaqueen5748 Před 7 lety +206

    i wanted to slap pam at that point. it wasn't ben's fault

    • @luiscolon6292
      @luiscolon6292 Před 6 lety

      dramaqueen5748 what the name of the show ?

    • @xtheunderratedyouthx
      @xtheunderratedyouthx Před 6 lety +1

      Luis Colon eastenders

    • @Allaroundtheworld99
      @Allaroundtheworld99 Před 6 lety +9

      dramaqueen5748 how could she blame him when it wasn’t his fault at all? felt awful for ben. paul loved ben so much and ben loved him too it’s a shame really :(

    • @OldworkbyEmmaCRB
      @OldworkbyEmmaCRB Před 6 lety +1

      No one said anything to her except Les

    • @maimadha
      @maimadha Před 5 lety +1

      Sophie Louise you are awesome

  • @e.mmamcmillan1873
    @e.mmamcmillan1873 Před 5 lety +173

    Anyone else concerned about her white jacket and bens blood

  • @iheartheathluck
    @iheartheathluck Před 5 lety +36

    Harry Reid is amazing.

  • @Charlie..22
    @Charlie..22 Před 5 lety +40

    Miss Paul so much. The tattoo will always make me cry.

  • @jamesbennett-mcnulty4099
    @jamesbennett-mcnulty4099 Před 6 lety +30

    His actor should win an oscar

  • @Allaroundtheworld99
    @Allaroundtheworld99 Před 6 lety +68

    Poor Paul, he didn’t deserve this😭

  • @rickstokes1
    @rickstokes1 Před 5 lety +21

    I still have tears every time I see this scene.

  • @lordgarethjohndeacon-walke7982

    this made me cry. as I lost a boyfriend like that coz he was gay. I miss him everyday

    • @luciesmith2706
      @luciesmith2706 Před 7 lety +12

      Gareth Deacon-Walker same thing happen to my girlfriend pain like that dosent go away

    • @stephenoneill3812
      @stephenoneill3812 Před 7 lety +6

      Lord Gareth John Deacon-Walker sorry to hear about that mate, that's awful!

    • @maxlee8183
      @maxlee8183 Před 6 lety +5

      Lord Gareth John Deacon-Walker bless you, it's ok he is in Heaven Now.

    • @maxlee8183
      @maxlee8183 Před 6 lety +8

      cameron artima don't be an Imbecile.

    • @sir2069
      @sir2069 Před 6 lety

      Max Lee its true though

  • @Kim-ss5bb
    @Kim-ss5bb Před 5 lety +27

    The monsters who do this to people should have the same thing done to them, If you close your eyes Ben sounds so much like ian

    • @PBL187
      @PBL187 Před 4 lety +2

      Harry Reid does actually sound a little like a younger Adam Woodyatt 😂
      I disagree, I mean I wouldn't miss shits like that, and I would say they at least kinda brought it on themselves for messing with people they don't even know.
      But, at the same time, people who wish, or moreso, DO, that, are really not much better.
      Plus, what would it even achieve? It's a well known fact that for most people, doing the same back doesn't even work, doesn't make any difference or even make them feel better at all, and they have to live with it, as well as their loss.
      I have been prone to believe that, but it's stupid, and wrong. Justice over revenge, hopefully life (proper life), or at least a lifetime of guilt for the killer (or both)

  • @sophiebrandon25
    @sophiebrandon25 Před 7 lety +50

    So emotional

  • @scottyh8494
    @scottyh8494 Před 6 lety +34

    Great acting.

  • @josephinee3937
    @josephinee3937 Před 6 lety +19

    I can't even get through 10 mins. It so devastating.

  • @jaredporikos2197
    @jaredporikos2197 Před 5 lety +23

    i love Harrys physco eyes when Steve McFadden says your friend , its very tense and how Harry stares at Steve is Chilling as hell

    • @pendafen7405
      @pendafen7405 Před 10 měsíci +1

      It's a fantastic moment, showing the tipping of the scales when Phil realised exactly what type of monster he's created and unleashed with his own hatred and bigotry.

    • @jaredporikos2197
      @jaredporikos2197 Před 10 měsíci

      @@pendafen7405 And he still doesen't aplogize to his son SMH. I'm glad Ben never forgave him while Harry played him

  • @docstefmd830
    @docstefmd830 Před 6 lety +64

    Ben should have kickes Phils face in ... that would have felt like justice!!

    • @darraghlawlor9704
      @darraghlawlor9704 Před 5 lety

      What the hell did Phil do

    • @gina1emo
      @gina1emo Před 5 lety +10

      Darragh Oof Oh Boii did you not hear what he said to his son Ben “your friend died” instead of your Boyfriend or Financee or Partner cos Paul was the Love of his Life, his True Love Soulmate💖Bro WTF ain’t you watched this properly

    • @gina1emo
      @gina1emo Před 5 lety +2

      Darragh Oof Two Wrongs Don’t Make A Right Tho! Karma💗Let Karma deal with everyone, it does exist!!! #Karma

  • @jackoconnellandjamesburrow1416

    Awww so sad. Heartbreaking. Amazing actor ❤️❤️

  • @BiBoFan
    @BiBoFan Před 5 lety +28

    Why did they have to kill off my Paul for-_- Ben&Paul was the cutest and the chemistry was so good:')

  • @OM-97
    @OM-97 Před 7 měsíci

    Savage, so sad he cant ride his d no more or twerk his batty in his face ! :,(

  • @not_your_seed3192
    @not_your_seed3192 Před 6 lety +38

    How is this Ben's fault

  • @gina1emo
    @gina1emo Před 5 lety +12

    Awww Ben Bless Him💗💕No one should eva have to go thru loosing their Soulmate, has gotta be the worst thing in the world “cos we reunite in heaven/on the other side, our souls don’t die) gotta be the worst in the world like loosing a child cos we only have One True Love Soulmate💓🤴🏽Kyle💞Gina👸🏼Always&Forever🔐

    • @gina1emo
      @gina1emo Před 5 lety +1

      Harry Reid played this soo Beautifully he truly done it justice💓💘I miss Harry Reid, he was the best actor for Ben Mitchell💗

  • @enisavejar6489
    @enisavejar6489 Před 6 lety +6

    this is so sad

  • @lumberjack6c
    @lumberjack6c Před 6 lety +7

    I love Ben and Paul............so hard to imagine life with out your soulmate

  • @user-lt4dg8iw9i
    @user-lt4dg8iw9i Před 5 lety +12

    5:00 mood

  • @paulyb7267
    @paulyb7267 Před 5 lety +35

    I miss this Ben, not the dark and evil one that we now have!

    • @yourgayemodad8146
      @yourgayemodad8146 Před 4 lety +16

      okay for starters Ben has always been "dark n evil"but the new Ben (max)is fit lol

    • @paulyb7267
      @paulyb7267 Před 3 lety +1

      @@yourgayemodad8146 Wtf no he hasn't. Apart from what he did to Louise, Jordan and Heather, Ben always had his angry and emotional side but he was never a complete sociopathic asshole like this new Ben; he was also kind-hearted, caring, and sympathetic. I just cannot see this old Ben doing what this new Ben has done (e.g. human trafficking, framing someone, hitman against his uncle, blackmail, dodgy works, harassing Callum, etc, etc)
      .

    • @yourgayemodad8146
      @yourgayemodad8146 Před 3 lety +5

      @@paulyb7267 dude he litterally killed heather

    • @paulyb7267
      @paulyb7267 Před 3 lety +1

      @@yourgayemodad8146 I know that, but I was talking about the Ben of 2014-18

  • @zaramariadixon39
    @zaramariadixon39 Před 5 lety +8

    Paul and Ben were a great couple :'(:'(:'(:'( sickening to think there's lowlife scum ignorant scum like paul and Ben's attackers out there. My heart broke for Ben.

  • @courtneysiddall48
    @courtneysiddall48 Před 6 lety +24

    Love you Paul, Never forget what great person you where in Eastenders xx Never forget him everyone xx

  • @controversyqueen8951
    @controversyqueen8951 Před 5 lety +4

    Omg Phil is so uncomfortable giving Ben a hug and cutie pie Steven is there.

  • @shydreamguyman4098
    @shydreamguyman4098 Před 5 lety +5

    Here in the US We have Hate Crime Laws but Usually the courts don't apply them & often even lesser sentences for those who did it if the victim is /was gay .

  • @junaidmohammed9272
    @junaidmohammed9272 Před 5 lety +3

    So sad 😭

  • @katief447
    @katief447 Před 6 lety +5

    Aww poor Ben xx

  • @rivers0ng
    @rivers0ng Před 5 lety +10

    Why can gay couples never be happy in soaps?

  • @uhzc1
    @uhzc1 Před 5 lety +15

    Lovely acting but they changing this Ben again it’s like a new Ben every year now

    • @Asmr-te8ot
      @Asmr-te8ot Před 5 lety

      Ikr😑

    • @ColinsTravels
      @ColinsTravels Před 4 lety

      Well you guys get a new Dr. Who every couple of years anyhow so this is nothing 🤣

    • @PBL187
      @PBL187 Před 4 lety +1

      @@ColinsTravels Moral of the story, Ben Mitchell becomes Dr. Who later in life

  • @mlftits1886
    @mlftits1886 Před 5 lety +3

    Brilliant actor

  • @UsmanAli-it8em
    @UsmanAli-it8em Před 6 lety +1

    What date is the full episode of 3:15

  • @toniandconnormuir952
    @toniandconnormuir952 Před 6 lety +6

    johnny and Ben 💙💙💙

    • @pendafen7405
      @pendafen7405 Před 10 měsíci

      Their relationship has always been so underrated. Even when they were a potential ship (twice), people slept on them. Hopefully Johnny returns one day in the next several years, Ben becomes single, and they can try to reconnect and couple up again.

  • @johnrobinson6809
    @johnrobinson6809 Před 7 lety +24

    What? A BAD ENDING AGAIN!!

  • @theghostfighter4966
    @theghostfighter4966 Před 5 lety +2

    that's extrem

  • @Adam-cb4vy
    @Adam-cb4vy Před 6 lety +4

    Howd it happen

    • @Allaroundtheworld99
      @Allaroundtheworld99 Před 6 lety +5

      Swan Station paul was targeted at a gang of guys who beat him to death for being gay

    • @Adam-cb4vy
      @Adam-cb4vy Před 6 lety

      Sophie Roberts oh. Thanks

  • @sb_95x
    @sb_95x Před 6 lety +1

    Wasn't he the guy from Waterloo Road?

  • @dbjniinii1689
    @dbjniinii1689 Před 5 lety

    how did he die

    • @davidmernick7360
      @davidmernick7360 Před 4 lety +1

      A group of homophobes beat them up. Ben survived his injuries, Paul didn't.

  • @ralphaelreynolds9760
    @ralphaelreynolds9760 Před 5 lety

    How he die

    • @mlftits1886
      @mlftits1886 Před 5 lety +3

      Murders for being gay. Which I know is wrong

  • @hidebarnes8188
    @hidebarnes8188 Před 5 lety +2

    Miss the old Ben don't like the new Ben he's creepy and not the same

  • @user-qx3eb2jx1p
    @user-qx3eb2jx1p Před 8 měsíci

    Eastenders really is the best soap by a mile in the uk . I know this was years ago but when they get it right , which are doing with pretty much every storyline just now (aside from boring Keanu) , they smash it

  • @user-qx3eb2jx1p
    @user-qx3eb2jx1p Před 8 měsíci

    Always amazes me that Steve McFadden didn't win awards at British Soap Awards for such a long time ..( has he even won best actor ?) As Steve clearly has / had a bond with the Ben actors and also Jay as you can see so much of Phils acting in their characters , Vulnerable , caring , loving but don't want anyone outside the family to see it.

  • @RonnieFarrellofficial
    @RonnieFarrellofficial Před 10 měsíci +1

    I remember this classic episode

  • @pendafen7405
    @pendafen7405 Před 10 měsíci

    Ben admitting to Johnny the trainee lawyer that he'd consider revenge murder on sight was a big turning point in their dynamic. Johnny didn't bat an eye, surprisingly. He could have been the next Richie.

  • @pendafen7405
    @pendafen7405 Před 10 měsíci

    The inclusion of Linda looking anxious at 9:01 telegraphs that these HWs were considering making Ben/Johnny the next relationship. Alas, it took another few years for that pairing to happen, and then it was only a throwaway filler arc before Johnny left and Ben was recast.

  • @pendafen7405
    @pendafen7405 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Hard to watch this back. Actually, all these years later, I notice how incredible Johnny was as a support, how he put his own feelings and pride and wellbeing to one side in order to care for Ben. There's definitely some love there. Hopefully one day they get a chance to reconnect.

  • @Kylchytska
    @Kylchytska Před rokem

    How much has Ben been through? And it's all going on now. When will he be happy?

    • @pendafen7405
      @pendafen7405 Před 10 měsíci +1

      EastEnders characters are never allowed to find true lasting happiness

    • @Kylchytska
      @Kylchytska Před 10 měsíci

      @@pendafen7405 Ben Mitchell and Callum)

  • @M11M3N
    @M11M3N Před rokem +12

    Ben and Paul were a great duo together!

  • @joannelawrence2126
    @joannelawrence2126 Před rokem

    When Eastenders had amazing actors, fantastic believable storylines and wonderful writers…. Sadly now it’s total rubbish. The Nan of Paul is just an unbelievably good actress

  • @christineash2916
    @christineash2916 Před rokem +1

    They should have never killed Paul

  • @manolytovivi3090
    @manolytovivi3090 Před rokem +1

    OMG. That's an actor. That was so powerful. I almost cry.

  • @nikitasantana421
    @nikitasantana421 Před 2 lety

    ratchet by unk j yvy TV Hu INL y yy in

  • @Watchalone
    @Watchalone Před 2 lety +2

    Paul death is a bad thing but this is open door for the Ballum era to rise and it more bright and shine than ever.

  • @joeedwards3471
    @joeedwards3471 Před 2 lety

    4,09 two plonkers

  • @sbaker8787
    @sbaker8787 Před 2 lety

    They just needed to get Jay.

  • @danny_long_legs
    @danny_long_legs Před 3 lety +3

    1:57 I like how Ben goes to Jay.

  • @MWood-ry8uu
    @MWood-ry8uu Před 3 lety

    Anyone else think that cop was cute

  • @rehnumachowdhury3629
    @rehnumachowdhury3629 Před 3 lety +1

    Him and Jay were so close ever since he returned they seem to be a bit more distant

  • @nicolepoppy9230
    @nicolepoppy9230 Před 3 lety +4

    The "so do I" God it is so sad

  • @dimboola59
    @dimboola59 Před 4 lety

    i was drownig in tears after this

  • @s0upchat
    @s0upchat Před 4 lety +4

    Bloody hell he nearly punched Kathy in the face

  • @vicvega24
    @vicvega24 Před 4 lety

    "Your friend"

  • @suzawilo
    @suzawilo Před 4 lety

    Anyone know where I can watch the last bits of their relationship?

  • @Theoanno7
    @Theoanno7 Před 4 lety +4

    This breaks my heart every time! Ugh.

  • @henukachi
    @henukachi Před 4 lety +18

    I love how Kathy hugged Ben not give thought that she wearing white

  • @xadam2dudex
    @xadam2dudex Před 4 lety +2

    This isn't the same Ben of Ben and Callum fame ?

    • @liana3008
      @liana3008 Před 4 lety +2

      Nope. This is Harry Reid, the guy who plays him now is Max Bowden.

    • @pendafen7405
      @pendafen7405 Před 10 měsíci

      Same character, different actor. This part of Ben's story is crucial to understanding the later years of the character.

  • @elkaxvasxoxo8614
    @elkaxvasxoxo8614 Před 4 lety

    Such an inspiring story for everyone to except everyone as their own xxxxx

  • @nikko__5850
    @nikko__5850 Před 4 lety +3

    Phenomenal acting on Harry Reid’s part

  • @nikko__5850
    @nikko__5850 Před 4 lety +4

    Fantastic acting from this actor

  • @IamJFlorezz
    @IamJFlorezz Před 4 lety +5

    This made me cry so bad!

  • @Vivky2.0
    @Vivky2.0 Před 4 lety +1

    I feel so bad for ben

  • @austinc3934
    @austinc3934 Před 4 lety +8

    I feel all depressy now 😢

  • @sharnaleah9385
    @sharnaleah9385 Před 4 lety +18

    When Ben calmed down when Phil Hugged him really shows how much Ben needs him

  • @PeterShieldsukcatstripey

    i just want him back. so.sad.

  • @ineffablegay5659
    @ineffablegay5659 Před 4 lety +3

    I cry everytime

  • @sharondickinson8416
    @sharondickinson8416 Před 4 lety

    I love u Ben and Jay Sharon dickison x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

  • @sharondickinson8416
    @sharondickinson8416 Před 4 lety +1

    I love u Ban and Jay Sharon dickison x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x xx xx xx boo boo x

  • @sharondickinson8416
    @sharondickinson8416 Před 4 lety +1

    I love u Ban Sharon dickison x xx x x xx x xx x x x x x x

  • @freddiemeyer4563
    @freddiemeyer4563 Před 4 lety

    i just realised am i wrong or does new ben .no longer have hearing aid and glasses?🤔🤔

    • @that_crazy_shark_lady
      @that_crazy_shark_lady Před 4 lety +1

      He doesn't wear glasses, but I'm pretty sure I saw a hearing aid.

    • @davidmernick7360
      @davidmernick7360 Před 4 lety +1

      @@that_crazy_shark_lady Yeah, the actor has put up a video online of him taking his hearing aid in and out to reassure fans that Ben still wears it, it's just a smaller model. I think he also said that Ben wears contacts now (no idea if Max actually wears any for his scenes or not).

    • @suze7751
      @suze7751 Před 3 lety +1

      He wears contacts but sometimes glasses in the mornings on the show. There was a big story line where he lost his hearing and was struggling and needed the hearing aid to help

  • @l.m.6090
    @l.m.6090 Před 4 lety +54

    I've never seen this show or these characters before, but I swear, I have never seen an actor cry like that. He's a phenomenal talent because I nearly cried myself.

    • @user-jh1zg7ry3w
      @user-jh1zg7ry3w Před rokem +3

      I did cry when I seen him cry like that you really feel it

  • @ABCDEFG-qo1ce
    @ABCDEFG-qo1ce Před 4 lety +2

    I used to love the old Ben, I don’t understand the new one it just doesn’t portray his personality

  • @e1ogy494
    @e1ogy494 Před 4 lety +3

    I cry everytime when I see this😭

  • @starzintheskyz4048
    @starzintheskyz4048 Před 4 lety +2

    I literally started crying this is so sad

  • @jaharidominis
    @jaharidominis Před 5 lety +9

    Seen this about 10 plus times and I tear up every time

  • @joietaylor7120
    @joietaylor7120 Před 5 lety +1

    Someone please tell me the name of this show??

  • @unicorn_love8535
    @unicorn_love8535 Před 5 lety +1

    What was that in he’s ear

  • @chelseaoliver5404
    @chelseaoliver5404 Před 5 lety +9

    Harry is hands down my favourite Ben the others aren't even close

  • @mayapapaya2956
    @mayapapaya2956 Před 5 lety +2

    What show is this?

  • @java4656
    @java4656 Před 5 lety +62

    Harry Reid was the best Ben. No-one can tell me otherwise.